obvious I have more proof to this than just these already publicly posted videos but I don’t feel comfortable sharing stuff like our private conversations. Believe me or don’t. I’m going to try and not care anymore. I am aware of my faults and the part i played in the end of our relationship, but n o b o d y deserves to be CHEATED on. I am talking about this publicly bc i can not stand to read another comment asking or assuming what happened between us. I also feel like with the amount of times our relationship was shared with others, sharing how the relationship ended is fair game. I do not ever want to talk about this again bc everytime i think about it it’s like pickinng at a scab and refusing to let it heal. and i need to start actually healing from this. I have not handled feeling “my person’s” absence with the same intensity that i felt their love ~well~ AT ALL and i have a lot of regrets and think about the what ifs way too much. Ive felt like ive lost my sanity a thousand times over. im at a place where i dont feel like im ever going to be okay. im hope im wrong. But it does feel better knowing that im acknowledging what happened rather than holding it in to protect someone that didnt bother to protect me. Mattie is free to give their own take on the situation is they feel the need to but knowing them i do not think that they ever will. More power to them honestly. Its very conflicting hating a person im still in love with and im sorry to anyone else experiencing something like this. If theres any lesson in this its just to be honest with people bc the damage caused from lying is not worth it. And to the girl that nuked my relationship for the sake of her own ego, i hope someone breaks you the way you broke us. I wish i could tell yall who she is bc you would forsure know her, but shes curently sueing me for “defamation” (lol) bc i told her mom and our mutual friends what she did. Oh well. thanks for reading this far guys omg also what's wild is mattie is so sweet and thoughtful irl. I loved our relationship.I never thought this would be how we ended. I'm still processing the manipulation. Even after they told me I gave them a 2nd chance, bc I believe people can grow and change. But it turns out that them being physical with someone else didn’t eat at me as much as all the fighting and gaslighting Again. Im not trying to cancel or ruin their career, but I can't keep this to myself anymore. I feel like I'm allowed to talk about my life

@SweeZ123.

Жыл бұрын

It’s okay

@Hargaryar

Жыл бұрын

Hopefully you feel better, take all the time you need. :) Edit: OMG 200 LIKES? TYSM :D

@linosairfryer98

Жыл бұрын

its okay bella ❤❤

@tonedlobster1392

Жыл бұрын

Take care

@SticksEditz

Жыл бұрын

I’m really sorry you went through this and I hope you feel better

Whether anyone likes Bella or doesn't like Bella... It doesn't matter. No one ever deserves to be cheated on. Bella, I hope you're doing OK.

@ashtrixgaming

Жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@oatmeal5004

Жыл бұрын

i may not like her but still she doesnt deserve to get cheated on

@carythacker8049

Жыл бұрын

@@oatmeal5004 I don't know the story, what happened with her?

@oatmeal5004

Жыл бұрын

@@carythacker8049 what do u mean?

@user-Kat-Robin_Bunz77

Жыл бұрын

@@carythacker8049 when she was young she was going through some tough stuff and took her anger out on others said the n word and transphobic slurs but has since been seeking therapy and regrets their actions.

I used to think Mattie was the kindest soul I had ever seen and then when I found this out i immediately cried because I thought you guys were the best couple ever.

@Mwloverlol

10 ай бұрын

Exactly bro

@ayakaanimtes

10 ай бұрын

fr. I thought that Mattie was the sweetest and most amazing person ever. they have a big personality, and i cant believe that they would do that.

@its_me_581

7 ай бұрын

frrrrrrrrrrr

@Average_Youtube_Indulger

7 ай бұрын

she looked so innocent tho

@XA_SimpX-Kai-1522

5 ай бұрын

same-

Girlie, you’ve been one of my comfort KZreadrs, along with Mattie, for about two years. I had, and still don’t have, any idea about what is going on with you. This honestly confused me so much and I feel so bad. I learn so much from your videos and you were the reason me and one of my close friends bonded. I know how sweet and smart of a person you are, they were lucky to have gotten you. Don’t put yourself down like that, you do deserve love, joy, comfort, and eternal happiness. Take your time, don’t worry, everything will fall into how it was meant to be. Everything happens for a reason, good and bad. Remember it’s not your fault. I don’t know nor do I want to know what really happened that night, but I know everything will fall into place. They will figure themselves out and so will you. Enjoy the rest of your day, week, month, and year!

@Cyru.s.

10 ай бұрын

Look at their explanation/apology video, they cover everything about them and take accountability for it.

When they said "someone i still love and care about" my heart shattered into million pieces

@kassiejohnson1155

Жыл бұрын

same

@Apoenzyme

Жыл бұрын

same

@sheetalsingh278

Жыл бұрын

Yes m literally crying over two strangers' breakup😭😭😭

@aubreyflora

Жыл бұрын

yea ikr 🥲

@weikwang7881

Жыл бұрын

How much was your hospital fee to piece back your heart?

The way Bella was about to cry broke me. Honestly didn't expect Mattie to do shit like that, but I just want to let you know that you're fucking amazing. Don't let messed up stuff get to you. I know it's painful and I know that this hurts and you just wanna screw everything and crawl in a hole and wallow in sadness, but I don't want you to feel that way. We all make mistakes but as you said, NOONE deserves to be cheated on. Find someone that'll accept all your flaws, and all your mistakes, and forgive you because they truly love you. If Mattie isn't that person, it's okay. You'll be fine, I promise.

@aidenheck2944

Жыл бұрын

Ass kissing 💀

@kingplayerdudyt5835

Жыл бұрын

bro wtf ar u talkin in fking paragraphs

@Pigeongamer_

Жыл бұрын

Palpate don’t pal-hate

@aidenheck2944

Жыл бұрын

@@kingplayerdudyt5835 could’ve been simplified in 3 words: “This was sad.”

@hahaha-pl7ev

Жыл бұрын

Amazing is a stretch

It feels horrible to see Bella start tearing up you don’t deserve this Bella we’re all here for you 🫶

Every single time I watch something about their break up I legit start balling. They were the cutest couple ever, and I would have never though Maddie would be that kind of person. Now every single time I watch maddies content I see her in a different way. Bella I feel so bad for you and just wish I could give you a hug.

When Bella’s voice started shaking with all those memories coming back to them again I felt so bad , going through a break up when you’re still in love with them is so hard.Stay strong Bella, we love you.

@SH4RKL0V3R

Жыл бұрын

Them* 😊

@lavendertiles

Жыл бұрын

@@SH4RKL0V3Rthey use all pronouns

@Strawberry_861

Жыл бұрын

@@SH4RKL0V3ROh i thought they didn’t care what they were called

@erenjaeger1738

Жыл бұрын

​@@SH4RKL0V3R Her >:)

@SlebanDogux

Жыл бұрын

​@@erenjaeger1738 Him >:(

"Giving someone a second chance is like reading a book twice, you already know how it ends."

@SPIDER_PLANT_MAN

Жыл бұрын

Wow...😢

@stardewofpyrrhia4381

Жыл бұрын

Maybe not if you confront them and try to support their growth, if they want to grow

@arlosworld4770

Жыл бұрын

“Giving someone a second chance is like giving another bullet to the shooter because they missed the first shot.”

@DjDubsThaWun

Жыл бұрын

@@arlosworld4770 that’s crazy

@Qinx78

Жыл бұрын

Thats deep man

Holy crap I just saw Mattie on Instagram with someone she calls girlfriend?! And I was shocked! I'm so sorry ..You deserve better Bella ..

I’m so sorry Bella that happened to you. No one deserves to be cheated on. Some day you will find someone one who loves you with all their heart❤

I never ever expected something like this from Mattie. Just goes to show you don’t really know anyone through their videos. I’m so so sorry this happened to you Bella. I can’t imagine going through that feeling ever but you’re beautiful and strong and you’ll get through this. Much much love🫶🏻🫶🏻 Please watch the entire video before commenting “it wasn’t Mattie” 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Awidferd

Жыл бұрын

IT WAS MATTIE??? HOLY CRAP

@lixhoez

Жыл бұрын

MATTIE??? DUDE

@Confused_Enbee

Жыл бұрын

IKR, they always seemed so sweet, he did seem really upset about them breaking up too

@Kflaynife

Жыл бұрын

Just like Milkded

@_viola001

Жыл бұрын

I-i really mattie did this seriously this is horrible thing to do we can never who's what really I don't believe in love bro just never going really

seeing bella genuinely crying is just... I can't today. ok so some people in the replies are asking why the video affected me so much, well here's an explanation: I have been in a messed up friendship for a while she would talk behind my back when I wouldn't call her to my other friend, who I had known for basically my whole life. i found this out in early 2021 but still decided to be friends with them because I had been friends with them for a long time. but on the day I posted this comment, they were both getting supper angry at me because I was 'prioritising my high school friends over them. and it basically goes onto them just kinda hanging out together when I was available, just rubbing it in my face that they had a good 'bond'. and I cried, for at least 1 hour straight in my room, realising how fucked up some people are

@amelia_luvs_naomiii

Жыл бұрын

Yeah my heart is just breaking for them... I just truly care about them and watching them crying just makes me so upset because their heart did not deserve to be shattered like that

@forevermoa.

Жыл бұрын

8m very confused on what there pronouns are, someone please tell me because i don’t wanna disrespect anyone!?❤

@amelia_luvs_naomiii

Жыл бұрын

@@forevermoa. Bella goes by any pronouns (he/she/they). 🖤

@forevermoa.

Жыл бұрын

@@amelia_luvs_naomiii Oh ok Thank you!! which ones do they like to go by the most?

@Literally_NoOne

Жыл бұрын

@@forevermoa. I believe they prefer they/them as that's all I've heard their friends refer to them as, though I'm not completely sure

So sorry that happened to you, Jayus. I really hope things get feeling better

I watched this again, and I am so happy for you now that you've found stability in another person and that your two are doing so well together

@the94thtoast

18 күн бұрын

think again

Mattie is honestly the last person I'd expect to do something so shitty. I hope it's getting better for you, Bella. I can tell how hard this is for you, and I'm so sorry you have to go through this. We're all here for you

@Pixie-Swiftie

Жыл бұрын

Same

@srimoyeemukhopadhyay3437

Жыл бұрын

ikr they seem like the sweetest effing person

@Pixie-Swiftie

Жыл бұрын

@@srimoyeemukhopadhyay3437 Mhm

@PB_and_JellyCuube

Жыл бұрын

You don’t speak for me

@eclergt9926

Жыл бұрын

Yea well take notes and stop trusting people from just seeing them once in a short

The fact that Mattie cheated on you is just unreal, when I watched this I just couldn’t believe it. It’s always hard when someone you really love and care about turned out to be lying to you for months, but you gotta move past it even if it’s hard. I’m sure you’ll find someone better it just takes time. We love you Bella, stay strong.

@theoutsiderjess4869

Жыл бұрын

I genuinely thought it was a mutual break up until I saw the videos I didn't want to just believe speculation online

@riley4251

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@jewellwalker-qq2gm

Жыл бұрын

I just want to go and kill her it's so unreal but it is true stay strong Bella!

@GeminiAnnie

Жыл бұрын

It hurts that two people I thought would stay together forever broke up in this brutal way!

@jewellwalker-qq2gm

Жыл бұрын

@@GeminiAnnie well they kind of didn't break up 😭 bella found out Maddie was in another hotel room with another girl cheating on her so yeah 😭😭

man i haven't seen your vids in a while, Bella. I'm really sorry you had to go through this. no one deserves to be cheated on.

Rewatching makes me so happy that Bella was able to move on from this and is now in a loving relationship

Wheather you like Bella or not, no one deserves to be cheated on. To have that bond of trust broken in such a terrible way is beyond heart shattering.

@AshTheRatPlays

Жыл бұрын

I can agree, nobody deserves that, especially suddenly. Suddenly seems like the lightest option, but it is not. You could even simply say you need a break. But, if Mattie was cheating, they don’t deserve Bella.

@bojuu

Жыл бұрын

everybody has the right to talk about their life, but at the same time, bella is also a public person that needs to understand how to handle her being famous. even though she's saying not to attack anyone here, in the end thats all that this video leads too. all of her fans are under matties videos rn only talking abt this. mind you, im not a fan of either of them (this just popped up on my page, so ive tried to gather the most information for the past few minutes) but to me personally, what bella's doing here just seems kinda wrong. yes, mattie cheated, and lets even say, hypothetically, that mattie is 100% evil and 100% fault at all of this (we also dont rlly know the whole story, but yes cheating is such a horrific thing to do) and that bella is 100% a sweet angel that genuinely never did a single thing wrong, its still wrong to talk about this publicly. publicly exposing the secrets between you and your (even if disgusting) partner, to have them be publicly harassed just isnt right. (i think. ugh. im so tired rn and english isnt even my first language so i cant find the words rn to perfectly express what i feel. i think yall get my point tho. normally i can write whole essays about the biggest nonsense but its just not coming rn so im going to end it here. hope yall can get what i mean out of context tho. just... complete thid comment in ur mind)

@bananas3691

Жыл бұрын

@@bojuu While I completely agree with you, I feel like, if you have a big platform and you suddenly break up with your “perfect” partner without explaining why, most or all of your fans would start pressuring you into revealing the truth. Although, that is not why you should tell them but talking publicly about your problems on social media is also used as a coping mechanism at times. It might’ve not been responsible of Bella to do this but I wouldn’t shame her for it (I know you’re not shaming her for it). Plus, it also seems that Mattie has also been dropping hints every now and then so it would be VERY weird of Bella to just go off the radar when it comes to this specific situation. Most people already don’t like Bella due to the controversy surrounding her and the sudden breakup without any explanation would most likely cause people to assume that it was her fault. Personally, I would support Bella in this rough patch in her life instead of saying that it’s irresponsible of her to talk about this publicly. I do however understand your point and it is certainly true. Edit: English is also not my first language so excuse me if I make any mistakes.. 😢

I’d never expect Mattie to do that. You did not deserve to get cheated on at all. You are an awesome human being who is changing to be better. We all make mistakes but we learn from them and fix them. You are awesome Bella.

@Piotrus208

Жыл бұрын

How very noble of you to have rebuffed all destructive and negative feelings and maintained your positive posture...it is the other person that really lost out. Know that this is a very good example to follow and that your bravery is much noted and is an inspiration to all of us.

@puppygirl3281

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Bella is hurt and I’m not the kind of person who will immediately go to the other person’s channel and start yelling at them in the comments. Bella is hurt and I just wanted to make her feel better.

@dapperbear5990

Жыл бұрын

Props to Mattie 🥳

@hgghfghfghfghf

Жыл бұрын

@@dapperbear5990 props to ur iphone 5

Its okay to feel hurt or sad its all part of the healing process, you have always been my favorite youtuber because of your wonderful personality and your outlook on things... you will get through this.

That sucks. So sorry that happened 😢 but were not all bad. I promisex❤

Guys I'm not sure if Bella is ever going to say this because she doesn't always talk about the comments she receives, but I'm sure she is soo thankful for all your support and the fact you've read this, watched the video, maybe read her long comment and commented really shows how amazing and kind hearted you are So from me from Bella, Thank you ♥️

@munbu8625

Жыл бұрын

glad youve appointed yourself to her spokesperson.

@ILYSMBBGFRFR

Жыл бұрын

This truly made me cry

@sapphicsapphire82

Жыл бұрын

She liked your comment, so I’m sure she agrees with you

@applez6114

Жыл бұрын

@@sapphicsapphire82 yeah hopefully x

@20MT

Жыл бұрын

@@onlyjayus....omg perfect video to comment on too

I think the internet as a whole, and not just me, were IN LOVE with this relationship. I don't think any of us couldlve seen this coming. I think the "i dont believe you response" isn't mostly your reputation, its just the disbelief that one of the sweetest couples on the internet had this happen to them. I would have never expected this from Mattie. Bella, we love you sweetie, and we're here for you during your time of healing. I promise it gets better

@theoutsiderjess4869

Жыл бұрын

They looked so happy I genuinely thought if they broke up it would have been mutual. I feel so bad for Bella

@Scaracatiscute._.

Жыл бұрын

Off topic, HU TAO?!

@kishua9619

Жыл бұрын

RIGHT?????? When I would see their vids together I, would always think "couple GOALS"

@inconsistentren

Жыл бұрын

These two were literally what I wanted my future relationship to look like, but I guess it was too good to be true.

I've only seen both of your videos here and there, but I am incredibly sorry to hear this happened to you. It is awful and a hard thing to build yourself back up from. I wish you all the love in the world. ❤

I'm definitely late to all this. I'm so sorry. No one deserves this. I've been hurt before and struggle with my mental health too. But I can only understand part of what you're going through. I hope you I'm standing here for you all the way, ready to support you when you need it. It's possible you may never see this comment, or bother to read it. You're amazing and didn't deserve this at all. I hope you get through this alright.

I never would think that Mattie the sweetest person you could ever meet would cheat on someone who did not deserve to be cheated on.. That's messed up!!

@eclergt9926

Жыл бұрын

How do you know Mattie is the sweetest person, just curious

@vampzire..IX..

Жыл бұрын

[My @ thing is being weird but I'm replying to the comment above me] It's bc Maddie tends to act super sweet and bubbly in their vids and yk overall someone who seems like they would never do such a thing. I'm sure if you look at some of their vids you'd get what they mean

@theoutsiderjess4869

Жыл бұрын

​@@eclergt9926 watch one of their videos it is genuinely hard not to like them I was so shocked to find out they cheated.

@eclergt9926

Жыл бұрын

@@theoutsiderjess4869 yea they seem fun, but sweat is something else. I don't blame ya or anything, but people trust influencers way too much, like I'm sure someone out there just watched on of her shorts and was already knowing them and how kind and sweet they are. For 60 seconds per day she can be the best in the world, but there's plenty of time to be complety someone else.

@doclinny

Жыл бұрын

​@@theoutsiderjess4869you guys are so gullible nowadays I can't handle it

Moral of the story is good people sometimes do bad things, bad people sometimes do good things, all people do good and bad things. Whether or not your ex chooses to admit what they’ve done or not is their choice. All you can do is try to move forward and heal. I hope you are doing ok.

@allecraft2512

Жыл бұрын

For a second there I thought you were quoting song lyrics ngl, but so true, we can teach any level of goodness through Gods grace. Love to you all❤️

@allecraft2512

Жыл бұрын

*can only reach

@sabless

Жыл бұрын

“good people do bad things” …what? everybody has grown up being taught that cheating is unforgivable and disgusting. everybody. she was completely aware of what she was doing and that it was wrong, but she went through with it anyways. that is something that a bad person would do. she should at the very least apologize.

@roahthecow

Жыл бұрын

​@@sabless I think you've misunderstood. People who *seem* good do horrible things. The good is basically in quotations.

Nobody ever deserves to be cheated

The most shocking thing about this to me is how sweet Mattie seemed. That’s just something you wouldn’t expect from them and I think everyone can that no matter who you are being cheated on or having broke up with someone without explanation is one of the worst things a person can go through.

@Ballkicker456

11 ай бұрын

Yeah! I never thought Mattie would do somthing like that

@mmmm-lg2mj

10 ай бұрын

It's always the innocent looking ones

@JuliaIsTired

10 ай бұрын

wait it was mattie westbrook???

@Eleanor546

9 ай бұрын

@@JuliaIsTiredyes

@JuliaIsTired

9 ай бұрын

annnddddd unfollowed. thank you for this information, wish i knew sooner.@@Eleanor546

As someone who has never dated before, I can not express how terryfying this is. The concept of giving your all to someone only to find that they went and cheated on you is heartbreaking, and I can not fathom what it must actually feel like. No one deserves to feel that way, and it's horrible that you and many others had to face something as crushing as that.

@lillian.catherine

Жыл бұрын

It is the most emotional pain I have ever experienced in my life. A year and a half later and I am still deeply affected by it. I chose to stay, which probably made it harder, but it is what it is. I feel awful for Bella.

@k7l3rworkman97

Жыл бұрын

That’s why I’m single at 29. Been single for three years after a 6 year relationship I thought meant something. Single life is healthier I think for some people.

@gxooo

Жыл бұрын

It's horrible and left me with trust issues for years. I would not wish that on anyone

@nicoleallen6792

Жыл бұрын

My grandmothers husband died and she died within a week. I get stress and depression play a part but people have really died from a broken heart. Usually older people tho Just never hurt YOURSELF because of something someone else does. It’s not your fault, it’s something they have to fix within themselves. Just remember that when you start dating!

@Indiakibeti7

Жыл бұрын

SAME!

No one deserves what you had to go through and it im glad to see you are doing better now. I’m a huge fan of your videos :)

@bunnybunny-te3qq

Жыл бұрын

tbh i don't believe her because your telling me that a sweet girl like mattie cheated? onlyjuys is 1 a racist abusive and me personally don't believe her but i mean idk and if she did cheat it might be for the better

I'm sorry. I know how it feels. Stay strong.theres always gonna be some part of it left in your heart in form of love or hate but you'll get used to the absence of the person and move on with time. And soon you'll be on a new chapter even before you know it. So stay strong.

Bella saying she’s going to be single by choice forever really hit me. I have been single now for about 4 years now, by choice, because of how my last relationship ended. Keep your head up you beautiful creature. Remember you are worth so much love ❤

@twentysecondcenturywoman

Жыл бұрын

Same bro it’s so much better

@4dkt

Жыл бұрын

yea samee I'm now single for abt 2 years and never give anyone a chance if they don't fit my needs & standards bc I don't wanna be the one who always tries alone and suffers here again

@anderstermansen130

Жыл бұрын

Same here. Im also single by choice. Womens choice. I went MGTOW because women Arent worth my time anymore. All womens purpose is only to hurt me, play with my heart and feelings, then dump and ghost me. I dont know how and why, but thats how entertainment works, for women.

@Jack-tk1is

Жыл бұрын

Too much negativity.. & drama ruin other peoples Good day, look at drama queen Selena Gomez,... People from Twitter & Tiktok should not be allowed on KZread KZread IS A WHOLESOME PLATFORM

@ibtsamjadoh9988

Жыл бұрын

​​@@Jack-tk1iswhy's she a drama queen?

I’d never expect something like this from Mattie. And look how much respect Bella still has for them. They didn’t deserve you Bella❤

@TAK1997

Жыл бұрын

Respect that bitch doesn't deserve, to boot.

@Cherry_.._

Жыл бұрын

me neither i was a bit confused like who cheated on bella so i read their description than i saw " Mattie " then read and i saw your comment and i went OK MATTIE CHEATED ON BELLA OMG so yeah i never thought mattie could do something like this i thought they were better then this wow unbelievable

@ManuRomein

Жыл бұрын

@@Cherry_.._ yeah crazy right?

@Cherry_.._

Жыл бұрын

@@ManuRomein yep

No one should ever have to go through this. It is absolutely awful especially when you really loved the other person. Sometimes people still love and care about their exes even after they broke up bc of cheating. I still love my ex bf even after he cheated on me. I'm so sorry you had to go through this Bella.

Bella, I’m so glad you’re still here; stay safe. Love your content ❤️

I honestly am so disappointed in Mattie for even thinking about doing this, and for the “FRIENDS” who didn’t make Bella aware of the situation. This is actually messed up. I’m so sorry that you had to go through any of this, and seeing you sad and on the verge of tears breaks every part of my soul and heart. Hopefully you find someone better out there. Take care.

@londonsmells2.0

Жыл бұрын

that comment is not her it's a bot

@chat_rouge685

Жыл бұрын

But at the same time they probably told her that she had to come clean herself, it was more of Mattie’s place to tell Bella

@menotfunnydude9143

Жыл бұрын

I know they did something bad and all but you shouldn't call them a thing and she even said herself to not hate on Mattie and Bella has also done bad things in her life and personally I think both should be forgiven

@SharyoSTAY

Жыл бұрын

Don’t call people a “thing”.

@_chiffon

Жыл бұрын

@@menotfunnydude9143 I’m sorry. I just felt really bad for Bella at the time, and I was just angry and surprised that Mattie would do such a thing. This is a mistake on my part.

I used to see Mattie as such a sweet person, this really shows that you can't truly know people especially if they're someone online. I am so sorry this happened to you Bella, you didn't deserve to be cheated on. Sending love your way.

@microbees2437

Жыл бұрын

Mattie is a sweet person. Jayus is manipulative and abusive and here they go doing it again. They are also super racist and have said the n word on multiple occasions.

@il0vekurtc0bain

Жыл бұрын

@@microbees2437dude do you have any actual, factual , reliable sources that she’s lying😐

@realYokai_

Жыл бұрын

@@microbees2437 being racist and being manipulative/abusive are totally different things where did you get the second part from?

@Ena48145

Жыл бұрын

I barely ever watched either of these people and know absolutely nothing about either of them, but something about Mattie gave me horrible "bad boy" cheater vibes immediately. I was right!

@Lias_galaxy_fairy

Жыл бұрын

People make mistakes I don’t look at any of them differently 😊

Its ok were here for you and you deserve better!

i hope you're healing well and isn't harsh on yourself. you deserve being loved and you are loved

I never expected Mattie to do this. They are so kind and loving. How could this happen? I'm so sorry.

@Simi_Wheeler_Music

Жыл бұрын

three words, people are fake

@TheRealSlimShady509

Жыл бұрын

“They” lol.

@shadowraider2445

Жыл бұрын

@@TheRealSlimShady509 do you got a problem with Mattie's gender?

@Jullie10

Жыл бұрын

ikr

@shadowraider2445

Жыл бұрын

@@TheRealSlimShady509 that's not funny

Growing up is realizing that not everyone is who they seem to be. The fact alone that Mattie even admitted to it is what killed me. I just barely found out about the breakup recently, and it killed me. I can’t imagine how Bella must feel. I absolutely adore Bella for making sure that - even though they were clearly heartbroken and upset- nobody attacked or as they called it “internet dog piled” Mattie. Props to Bella. To the “friends” that kept Bella in the dark, they don’t need you, they never did, you were just dead weight. I had respect for every single one of you, but it was lost when I found out what you did. You can use the excuse of “not wanting to cause drama” but even then if you really cared you would have said something. Bella, you are an absolutely amazing person, I hope you get your justice. (If I got any pronouns wrong, please do correct me. I would hate to offend someone.)

@Fairygrunge_forest

Жыл бұрын

Bella goes by they🙂

@Kindred.spiritxx

Жыл бұрын

@@Fairygrunge_forest ah, thank you! I’ll make sure to correct that!

@shinobu9537

Жыл бұрын

@@Kindred.spiritxx Bella uses any pronouns so it doesn’t really matter

@curlingsky

Жыл бұрын

​@Shinobu While people are deciding what makes them comfortable I spend my days chanting "I'M A TABLE!"

@moon_kittyyy

Жыл бұрын

Oh bella isnt a good person at all

You're a beautiful person, with a beautiful soul. No one deserves to be cheated on. I hope you heal from this, I know you will. You'll come out stronger and more amazing than you ever were before!💪❤

Why did i found you just now ? Your videos give me comfort ( so far). My last 2 month have been pretty sh*t. So thank you for sharing all your, Life hacks, body hacks, thoughts. And i hope you are doing fine by now

This really does prove that KZreadrs are very different behind closed doors. Mattie never seemed like the type of person to do that. I'm dissapointed and shocked that Mattie would do such a terrible thing, and it honestly takes alot of time to recover, whether someone's there for you or not. But, we love you Bella 💗 All Our Support x

This is outrageous, and completely unacceptable. Bella you have my full support, no one deserves to be cheated on, keep making content, and stay on that 10m grind, we need to get this channel to 10m asap

@Chaosssbvtch

Жыл бұрын

And the way her voice cracks like she’s wanting to break into tears is truly heart breaking

@JordyPantoja.

Жыл бұрын

F them toes.

@aidenheck2944

Жыл бұрын

“tHiS iS oUtRaGeUs!1!” Worse things have happened in the last week but nobody really cares about that do they? Quit kissing ‘her’ ass literally everybody goes through this shit and she has more support than anybody.

@xxxultranoobshadowmasterxxx

Жыл бұрын

@@aidenheck2944 It's not what the many 'worst youtuber/tiktoker' videos say. I'm just saying its a shitty situation for anyone but people still blame her for it. Why? For entertainment? And acting like supporters are stans? What? Like everyone who doesn't hate her is in love with her? She's lesbian, it has nothing to do with me, none of what you're saying makes sense... It's just immature. Anyway enough time wasted I'm gonna go hatch a plan to become a bigger youtuber than Mr beast bye!!

@aidenheck2944

Жыл бұрын

@@xxxultranoobshadowmasterxxx Good luck👍🏻

Im so sorry for you, i felt so bad when i watched this. I hope you get better soon, not everyone deserves love..

I absolutely lost it when I saw Bella lose their shit when they was telling people to not hate on anyone. I’ve never seen someone get so real and determined at the same time. We all hope you get closure and peace❤

I have never been so shocked in my life. As someone who supported both you and Mattie for so long, I don't want to believe it either. But we are all so sorry and will be here for you through your whole healing process. Much love ❤

@Free.Memes.

Жыл бұрын

Yupp, i think we can all relate to this.

@vlogswithkotie

Жыл бұрын

yep 💯

I am honestly horrified Mattie did this. They always seemed so nice and committed to your guys’s relationship. I am so sorry this happened. Thank you for being brave enough to come out and share this. I really hope things get better for you and we are all supporting you ❤❤

@AshTheRatPlays

Жыл бұрын

The relationship between them was awesome, until I learned this. I agree, Bella was brave enough to share this with everyone. I hope they get better and they truly deserve better.

@thesevenkingswelove9554

Жыл бұрын

I feel scared as well. I have been hurt by many people especially people who seem "innocent" now I dont even know who to trust

I love you man, you are so respectful of people that has wronged you and I am glad that you are in this world to make us laugh, and enjoy your videos

I'm literly crying and I'm so sorry about what you have to go through Bella you don't deserve it no matter what and who tells you otherwise. I hope you get better soon. I support you all the way and I'm sure other people do too.

You may have been cheated on, but no matter what happens remember you’ll always have a very supportive fan base that will help you with whatever you you ask.

@emma_luce_0623

Жыл бұрын

I'm not even a fan and I'm supporting because this is a different kind of low

@gracekumor-fr6mv

Жыл бұрын

yes bella!!

@ttdanimations1231

Жыл бұрын

i didn’t watch the video but didn’t this mf say the n word

Dont worry bella! It will get better, this channel is your safe place, lets call it *bella land* you can experiment and tell us all the creepily cool psychotic facts that you want, and you will have my support :)

@AlaxMish

Жыл бұрын

ahh yes *B E L L A L A N D* I will get a membership asap!

@meowkpopyt6192

Жыл бұрын

*BELLA LAND!!!!* FULL WITH LOVE AND SUPPORT ❤️‍🩹

@kayleethurston8084

Жыл бұрын

I'm in

I’m so sorry for what you went through and I experienced kind of the same thing and it is so f*cking sh!tty I hope you feel better soon❤

Hadn't seen ya post in my feed fora while, and just found this... I'm so sorry hun. No one deserves to go thru such betrayal..hugs

I can't believe that Mattie did that. Bella, I can't even start to understand the hurt you have to be feeling. Just know that all your fans are here for you. ❤

@shanedaley6236

Жыл бұрын

People hurt this bad deserve all the hugs someone could possibly give it shouldn't be like this people's sanity can be eroded so quickly especially in current day

I actually started crying watching this while just imagining the pain you're going through. Bella, I just want to remind you that you're amazing. You most definitely did NOT deserve to be cheated on. Stay strong and just remember that we love you.

@jaymoth13

Жыл бұрын

i started crying too, its so hard to see someone so good be so hurt

@YourFavRatQueen

Жыл бұрын

Yeah! 😭😭😭

@Deadly_Potato

Жыл бұрын

Same. It’s like that horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach going “holy shit that’s horrible and sick I want to actually throw up” I can’t even imagine the sort of mental and physical shit Bella is going through right now. Just know we have your back, Bella, and that this won’t last forever. There will be that light at the end of the tunnel, one day.

@okami7755

Жыл бұрын

@@jaymoth13 how tf u cry bcs someone broken up and got left out

@lemonadegrenade8523

Жыл бұрын

@@okami7755 because people cry to different things..?

I’m so sorry your going through this 😢

Dude I can’t imagine how depressing and hurtful that is.I really hope that never happens again.Bella I hope you feel better and there is plenty of people out there for you.and how you know you found the right person is there will always be a great magnificent bond between you two and no one can get between you and them.All my thoughts and prayers for you to find that peace and happiness.

You did NOT deserve to be cheated on, but I promise you will find somebody who will love you and care for you and I hope you feel better soon ❤️

I'm so sorry you're in pain. Having your heart broken is the worst. Sending hugs.

this is so heartbreaking, I know how you feel. As a person myself who's terrified of opening up (and yes, been cheated on once some months ago for the first time) I can perfectly understand. It's such a horrible thing to do to someone you love (or have loved in the past!!)

Bella I only just found out about this and it broke my heart, I’ve always known Mattie as an influencer I’d “love forever”. Yeah that’s not happening- I wanna hear their side to the story so bad but I know it happened anyway… If I was your friend and I found out about that I’d tell you STRAIGHT AWAY. I’m a truth speaker, I can hide secrets but not if they’re that big and horrible! Personally I think no one deserves to be cheated on, no matter what they mean to you, they shouldn’t have to go through that. I hope you get through this Bella, we know you will! Lots of love x

@raychelbistline92

Жыл бұрын

My best friend had a similar thing happen. My best friend we will call her j was in a relationship with this girl for three years. They were long distance. My other friend K found out this person was cheating. And came to me first. She didn’t know what to do as she was friends with them both. I told her that if she doesn’t tell j, I will. She deserved to know. J was beyond glad we told her. The fact that anyone could keep that to themselves is just so nasty. Like honestly, doesn’t matter if your friends with them both, they deserve to know. We are here for you! We love you, and hope you take your time recovering and figuring this out. It’s gonna take some time, process and heal Onlyjayus but we hope you get better!

I- dang it- you both where literally one of the last couples that made me believe that love exists… I’m so sorry Bella :(

@upcanneverbeoneupped

Жыл бұрын

as much as this situation is fucked up, don't base your views on someone else's relationships. experiences are subjective, all we can do is do our best and hope it works out kay?

@literallythatonenerd

Жыл бұрын

@@upcanneverbeoneupped They just had to be honest- and it's surprising for most people. As no one expected it, as you probably didn't see that as a bit passive aggressive it was and just not the best way to put that out there. People can have their views on things, because you obviously have a view on it yourself. I'm not trying to come at you or anything but next time don't go after them for it :) Thank you and have a lovely day/night

@tionahemphill1685

Жыл бұрын

I cant right now i just had the worst day ever then I see this video. my two favorite content creators broke up. i literally cant rn

@chukyuniqul

Жыл бұрын

Love does exist. It may be just a feeling that wears off after a while, but that doesn't mean something meaningful can't remain in its wake mate. It's up to both partners, really.

@upcanneverbeoneupped

Жыл бұрын

@@literallythatonenerd true, even I'm surprised with this whole thing but it's not about having a view of something, it's about using someone else's relationship to completely form your view. sure you can look upto other people and learn and take qualities from them and their relationship as a whole, but stating someone else's relationship as being one of the last couples to make the said person believe in love is, no offense, a very weak way to perceive something. that's all, you have a nice day/night as well

dont worry i hope there is someone out there for you sometimes life throws some bad stuff your way and it really hurts like truly well i hope your doing okay and i hope you make it through it i am also trying to get through a dificult situation like im not being treated fully human in my living situation and im trying to get out of it well i hope you can get past this and i know you are strong and make it through this

Dang, hopefully you’ll get through this

I love how every time i say “Oh! This is a good person! I will support them!” They end up being a super bad person. EVERY. TIME.

@yournightmare7197

Жыл бұрын

How can you judge a person for the actions they did in the past? She legit said she changed. You people are so cruel for not letting people grow up in peace.

@celiajcallaway._

Жыл бұрын

@@yournightmare7197 I wasn’t referring to jayus, i was talking about mattie..

@yournightmare7197

Жыл бұрын

@@celiajcallaway._ Oh then, I agree don’t let her grow in peace

@antiquee_

Жыл бұрын

@@yournightmare7197 HOW DID YOU NOT KNOW THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT MATTIE ITS SO OBVIOUS…💀💀💀💀

@flameepidemic4839

Жыл бұрын

Pretty much every person has a dark side where they really fuck up especially if theyre popular. The thing is its just not always made public there are some people who havent done something awful yet but most people do

I had been getting weird vibes from Mattie and Carter. I never expected something like this from them. I’m so sorry, Bella. We’re here for you💛 Edit: I’m not saying that Mattie cheated on Bella with Carter. I know Carter is gay. I’m saying that Carter is Mattie’s best friend, and also roommate, so there’s a VERY high possibility he knew about all of this.

@RajuMoorpani

Жыл бұрын

Carter is fine except for his squish mellow addiction

@InsertName69

Жыл бұрын

Why carter specifically? Bella said in the video that they went to another girls hotel room, and Mattie and carter are roommates i think

@heelsdownedits

Жыл бұрын

carter might’ve known about it

@jigumi.loves.4ever

Жыл бұрын

@@InsertName69 bc their friends knew about it and didn’t tell them. I’m pretty sure that’s what was on the lst vid anyway. And carters one of their friends but idk for sure

@jaykay030

Жыл бұрын

Same here, something about them always felt kind of fake to me. I never actively watched the content because while it was enjoyable (at least what I've seen from carter) the people themselves had really off vibes to me.

I'm sorry for what's happened to you and I can't say that I understand how you feel, but just know that your an amazing person and deserve someone who will understand you for you

In the middle Bella just looked like she was about to burst into tears, and even though i dont actually have social media, neither did my ex, i went through stuff like that and it is physically and mentally exhausting. I still to this day have no idea why my ex started treating me like absolute crap, and i personally feel better bc i dont have to put up with his crap anymore. Im in a much better place now, and for anyone reading this and going through a tough time, i just want u to know that it WILL get better, and the truth will come out eventually, and you are better off without them.🥰😘

@hassie3475

Жыл бұрын

It really sucks doesn’t it? I’m so sorry you had to go through that but I’m glad your in a better position now ❤😅

@minecraft_villager_hmmm8635

Жыл бұрын

@@hassie3475 Thank you! You have no idea how much it means to me knowing how many people have gone through this sort of situation, and who are all supportive of each other to get away from a bad relationship and mindset!💖🥰I wish everyone the best of luck for the future, and I hope everyone finds the right person for them!

I genuinely am surprised that Mattie would ever do this. I love Mattie but this this truly disturbing that someone so sweet and lovely could do something so awful to their lover. I guess this is a wake up call about how cruel even the kindest, sweetest people can be. I’m sorry that this had to happen to you, Jayus, but I appreciate the fact that you gave us the reason and well… taught me a lesson that I hopefully won’t have to learn the hard way. In my prayers💚💚

@mahirahasankarim1358

Жыл бұрын

U don't know them personally.. U just see what they want u to see.. So u never know online what someone is like in real.. And many people don't feel the positive negative vibe in person too

@mahi327

Жыл бұрын

@@mahirahasankarim1358honestly what i learned is from own life experience is that people who are too passive and too i guess u could say “toxically positive” are 100% putting up a front. no real person is like that and they have that front so people will like them and come to them bc somewhere in their life usually in childhood they lacked that attention so they fake it until they make it. i avoid them like the plague. mellow, down to earth and just real people are the way to go

@mahirahasankarim1358

Жыл бұрын

@@mahi327 100% true... There r people who act too nice.. I have one friend.. Who just seems to be over sweet.. But i know she acts like that so she can continue frndship with everyone.and just don't want or have energy to work on themself. Everyone have bad sides.. Analysing human behavior is tough job.. And people online r just too fake 99% of the time

@currentlyeatingshit

Жыл бұрын

aint no way its them

@L0c4l_k1llj0y

Жыл бұрын

My ex was a sweet lovely kind person on the outside but she was a weirdo on the inside

I'm so sorry you went through that it sucks to be lied to and even more so when you thought you could trust them 😢 lots of love and support ❤❤❤

Im so sorry Bella. :( I hope you feel better. ugh i cant believe they did that

Trust me, Bella, I have been in the same situation few years ago, and the feeling is the worst. I hope you heal from this relationship as soon as possible. Fighting!! 🫂🫂🫂

I never expected this from Mattie. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, Bella. We all love you and are here to support you no matter the circumstances. You got this! :)

@battybatboii_yt3431

Жыл бұрын

Same… sadly I’m going to unfollow Mattie from every social I have her on :(

@HD_2400

Жыл бұрын

@@battybatboii_yt3431 I feel the need too now. I didn’t even know they split till today..

@desty._.

Жыл бұрын

Wtf why am I now just finding this out I loved Mattie so much what happened 😢😢

@battybatboii_yt3431

Жыл бұрын

@@desty._. sadly this come to show no matter how nice someone may seem behind the screen in all reality sometimes it’s false :(

@ruth.b12

Жыл бұрын

i never knew that mattie would do something like that!!!

hearing bella’s voice break just absolutely breaks my heart. i’m so sorry that happened to you. nobody should ever go through that ❤️

I'm so sorry Bella and I hope u read this comment and remember that u deserve love no matter what because u are a beautiful amazing person and u inspired me to become the person I am today u are an icon a role model a leader and a person who inspire me so I hope u are still strong

I didn't expect this from Mattie based on her content, I don't know her irl though (not doubting just surprised). I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it's terrible and I know how much it hurts. I hope you can recover and find someone who truly loves you and cares for you whether it's purely as a friend, romantically, or both, I hope you can find love from other people. I love and care about you just like many others here (I believe) clearly we aren't with you but if I were with you I would give you a huge hug (if you consented ofc) and let you say anything you wanted or needed, no judgement. I'm so sorry you went through this, absolutely NO ONE deserves to be cheated on... EVER We love you❣❣❣

I love how Bella was cheated on, but still says not to hate on the people. Bella, if you see this, we are all supporting you and you are a great person ❤

@ashleighhanna-wv8dz

Жыл бұрын

I ain’t I love mattie

@EZILYFALLEN713

Жыл бұрын

@@ashleighhanna-wv8dz loving Mattie doesn’t mean loving what they did to Bella. It was messed up, unfair and you can argue with me but it was also undeserved. You can continue to love Mattie or whatever but don’t come here and cause more unnecessary pain for Bella

@That_Random_Guy.

Жыл бұрын

@@EZILYFALLEN713Who Cares about Mattie anymore what she did was messed up which is why I un subscribed from them

@mbraithwaite_editz

Жыл бұрын

​@isoflyful wait- didn't onlyjayus say the n- word???

@BR13_offical

Жыл бұрын

@@That_Random_Guy. same

I really didn't expect this, especially not from Mattie. Bella, I'm so sorry it had to end like that. You didn't deserve that and I wish that Mattie had considered that you don't deserve to be cheated on, gaslighted, or anything like that.

You deserve so much better! I'm so sorry, I promise it does get better. Time heals all wounds.

...awe 💔 Im so sorry youre going through this, ik its not easy but pls juss keep being yourself and just keep it pushing like our late friend Mr. Miller had said. Things like these are not easy, but you are above this. An intelligent and remarkable human being, there is nothing but great things that await you and the ppl most closest and real to you. All the love and best wishes pls be safe 💌🥺 'Be you. Youll be fine.' ~Mac Miller

We are here to support you jayus, you will get through this we all know you will since your a strong powerful person

no matter the controversy, noone deserves to be treated like this. Pls dont stay single because of someone who doesn't care about your feelings, you are not to blame

I know im late to the video but having just saw this for the first time I wanted to say; Coming from someone who has not only been cheated on but lied to over and over as they "told me the truth" a little more and little more, it does get better. The pain will get easier. Stay strong. ❤️

I’m so sorry Bella. You didn’t deserve any of this. It’s dumb and I hope your ok.❤️

I am so, so sorry that this happened. I didn’t expect this at all, especially because Mattie seemed like such an honest, loyal person. You didn’t deserve this, and I can’t imagine how hard this must be.

Bella, I don’t know if you’ll ever see this, but if you do: You have no idea how much I look up to you. You have helped me gain confidence, be myself and so much more. I don’t know why anyone, ESPECIALLY Mattie, would do such a thing. You’ve made things easier for me and I understand what you’re feeling, it recently happened to me.. you deserve the WHOLE DAMN WORLD BELLA AND IF THEY DONT SEE THAT THAN THATS THEIR PROBLEM I understand how hard it is to process this, but if they would do such a thing, they don’t deserve your tears. you mean the world to me, and other people as well. Don’t forget that. I know you’ve never met us, and i know we can’t always help, but just know: IT. ISNT. YOUR. FAULT

@muffindayo

Жыл бұрын

Facts 👏

@DeansGamin

Жыл бұрын

Shes rasict dont look up to her.

@Bluberry61

Жыл бұрын

Your so right! Bella is amazing!

@lilly.mac14

Жыл бұрын

like they have no clue how much they mean to us

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I just found you again after seeing you years ago on a reaction channel actually, so I had looked you up and loved your content. I have been binging your content lately, and I hate hearing this. I hope now 8n 20204 you have done a lot of healing and are at a better place 💜

Im so sorry about what happened and I hope things get better

Jayus, I feel so sorry for you, we are sending you tons of love and support, i could just hear the hurt in you voice, we love you so freaking much and know this is 100% not your fault at all

@Cherry_.._

Жыл бұрын

MHM IT ISNT YOUR FAULT MAN its theirs you did NOTHING WRONG stay strong

@One_With_The_Force

Жыл бұрын

Fax, we love you Bella!

@Dead_space-xi3nu

Жыл бұрын

Eh it won’t change my perspective on anyone Bella didn’t deserve to be cheated on but Mattie didn’t deserve to have their life ruined because of Bella posting these videos about the breakup without hearing any other side to the story we only have the one side that based on my experiences means Bella is in the wrong one for just screaming about it to the world but my views won’t change I still love both I might eventually pick a side but for now I won’t because there’s almost no info other than this side

@mahi327

Жыл бұрын

@@Dead_space-xi3numatties never gonna post their side they’re a pussy and it doesn’t fit in with their whole character they put on the internet. they know they messed up and thats why they ghosted bella and left her in the dark. when people mess up they avoid u. i would be doing the exact same thing bellas doing right now. their relationship was very public so i don’t understand the problem with this being public too

@Dead_space-xi3nu

Жыл бұрын

@@mahi327 clearly you’ve never been in a relationship

I definitely feel your pain. I've been single for 1-2 months. My relationship was just 2 years of pain. I just wanted to make this comment to let you know you're not alone and I have your back. This doesn't just go for OnlyJayus, this goes for anyone else going through the same situation.

@lemonke3859

Жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry that happened to you!

@alexnvt

Жыл бұрын

bro.. ;(

@katarinaisbetterthanyou

Жыл бұрын

Damn I’m sorry

I feel bad for u Bella and I hope u are ok. I know no one deserves to be cheated on, especially u.

I would've never expected this from someone like Mattie I'm so so sorry you had to go through all of this, you've gone through a lot of stuff and you deserve better then what's happening

@danceyrselfkleen

Жыл бұрын

Weird ass parasocial relationship you’ve got their but ok

@VenomScythe

Жыл бұрын

@@danceyrselfkleen that’s not even par asocial but ok

I’m so sorry. No matter what you did in your past you never deserved any of this. You’ve changed so much and I’m so proud of you and to now see you get hurt by someone I supported makes me so sad. I’m here for you, we all are. I really hope that you realize how much of an amazing person you are, and there is someone out there waiting for you who won’t hurt you and will treat you with the respect you deserve.

@noone4095

Жыл бұрын

Based

@AshTheRatPlays

Жыл бұрын

Yes, we are all here for Bella, whatever they need!

@thesevenkingswelove9554

Жыл бұрын

​@@noone4095 stop this nonsense once and all. If you are a immature guy leave this channel

You are an amazing person :) It's so hard for people not to be so mad in a situation like this. But you are so kind, and even though they did a crazy thing you still don't want anyone sending hate. That is incredible and the bestest thing to do. Your amazing, and so loving. #neversendhate