Extreme poverty in Gambia and extreme loneliness in the UK

@n.m6249

Жыл бұрын

Great combination

@MsValiG

Жыл бұрын

and gros people on both sides

@davisholman8149

Жыл бұрын

@@MsValiG Agree - how pathetic can you get!🤦🏽‍♂

@Bhebe40

Жыл бұрын

​@Vali C The British are the gross ones, they travelled to the Gambia, not the other way round

@ukuduku

Жыл бұрын

How does an American man get in on this. In looking for a older woman

These are the same people who cry a river when they are scammed online or otherwise. If you treat people like commodities and tools, don't be surprised when they treat you the same. Imagine the situation in reverse, old Gambian men going to England and exploiting young English women. This documentary would have an entirely different slant.

@temiladealamudun5063

Жыл бұрын

Aptly on 💯

@Jaythecook

Жыл бұрын

So much truth in this

@ChristinaFromYoutube

Жыл бұрын

It literally wouldn't even make the news for years and years if foreign men abused our children. See Rotherham. 1400 CHILDREN sexually exploited before anything was done.

@litespeedway6538

Жыл бұрын

@@ChristinaFromKZread Liverpool Riots this weekend? The police force [majority wht.] wrote those children off in Rotherham & threw them away.💔

@fredajordan5704

Жыл бұрын

marigold beam : This is why I don`t feel for these old and wrinkled "ladies"....They`ll wake up one day realizing what`s up, sooner or later....

The Anchor of this documentary is so compassionate and empathetic... Respect for him and the team ..👍🏻🙏🏻

Older man from UK goes to Thailand to find a 20 year old girl, old women goes to Gambia!

Those who have never experienced poverty cannot understand that being poor and hungry causes people to be in love with having food and shelter. Period.

@woodsandcreek7589

Жыл бұрын

So very true!

@djsaintmusic7819

Жыл бұрын

That hits home

@patriciahowes7130

Жыл бұрын

So true! I lived in a third world country in the tourist business. I saw the same type of romances as part of day to day life. For some, love is having food and shelter!

@omari6349

Жыл бұрын

No cap. In 3rd world countries, you can get women as long as you are loaded. Ain't the same in many other rich nations

@Lareina_513

Жыл бұрын

Very well said!

This young man is the most compassionate interviewer I've ever see. Excellent work.

@TheYasmineFlower

11 ай бұрын

Agreed! He's such a sweetheart. I hope his career goes far.

@d.e.p.5624

11 ай бұрын

He seems a lovely guy indeed

@isabelsilva62023

11 ай бұрын

I have rarely seen this subject being aprroached in this way, no sensacionalism not for clicks the facts and people's views, this guy deserves to go places.

@garibayakubu1783

10 ай бұрын

​@@d.e.p.5624sure👍👍👍

@grandmaster6215

10 ай бұрын

​@@d.e.p.5624white old british woman seeking for black young dudes 😂

The interviewer is a very intelligent man, because he uses a very sensitive way to describe the situations and circumstances. I think this is really not easy and needs a lot of empathy and other psychological skills.

@betsylynnvedrine3784

2 ай бұрын

I would love a skill such as this .. and I will.

Seyi Rhodes has a really good way of presenting this Documentary, very moving, you fell you can rely on every one of his words. One can really feel the warmth from his heart, and concern for all involved. I hope I find more from him. I would especially like to see a Part 2 of Seyi going back to The Gambia, 3 years after recording this one.

@carlhorowitz5916

4 ай бұрын

I don't mind Seyi going back to Gambia for another documentary. I do mind, however, British women going back for sloppy seconds.

“I don’t know who to feel sorry for anymore.” Those are my sentiments exactly. I truly enjoyed this documentary. Well done.

@marjnussby8305

Жыл бұрын

Likewise.

@bubblybubbles4023

Жыл бұрын

Bob the builder has been breaking them down.

@deborahlaranjo3267

Жыл бұрын

Sad TRUTH! That’s why I never had a Relationship again after my bf pass away, I feel like EVERYONE JUST LOVE MONEY , no pride no RESPECT >>>>>LOVE sorry to say my point of view . But I understand HUMAN BEHAVIOR

@nickp4961

Жыл бұрын

@@deborahlaranjo3267 Never give up! Shine your light. Wishing you peace and blessings wherever your journey takes you.

@deborahlaranjo3267

Жыл бұрын

@@nickp4961 thank you

This reporter has such a gift. He comes across as someone with a genuine curiosity and desire to understand a person's point of view. No wonder the interviewees open up to him with such ease.

@BarakaGaspar

9 ай бұрын

I like the way you comment

@Dhuxul9

6 ай бұрын

Yeah obviously he wasn’t asking real questions to these disgusting old crows

@davyreignstheking3173

4 ай бұрын

and he is not judge type

@marysergiu20

4 ай бұрын

He very judging! Ask people why they love and blabla...@@davyreignstheking3173

@belle3055

4 ай бұрын

Same thing happening in Philippines , white old man with really young girls

The level of STDs will surely be alarming

@MamaAteistka

Ай бұрын

Right?

I have an African friend who lives here in America. All day and night, his family, relatives and friends are calling him begging for money. No matter what he tells them they are desperate and continue calling. The real tragedy is the poverty and corruption of most African countries. The women have choices. Africans have few opportunities.

@puritymaritim9712

6 ай бұрын

🙄🙄🙄🙄

@tshenolomahlatsi3411

5 ай бұрын

​@@puritymaritim9712😂😂😂😂❤

@tshenolomahlatsi3411

5 ай бұрын

​@@puritymaritim9712😂😂😂😂❤

@alisjordan9206

4 ай бұрын

Sad..

@sportlive-bz2wl

4 ай бұрын

africa is continent that is only west african

It happens in Kenya too. Brits, Germans and Italians come here for holiday, and pursue younger men/women, and even (unfortunately) underage girls. It's a sad sight to behold, but if it involves consenting adults it's their business. When it involves minors, that's just unacceptable.

@Enabu1

Жыл бұрын

Yap I saw this in Kenya mombasa, the minors, it was disturbing for me, this is happening in the whole of Africa but I am just thankful Uganda has less tourism and a little bit of a strong culture settings that make some people shy of doing this,

@dorothyclangat9840

Жыл бұрын

Hamtatuharibia jina nyii watu

@gretakaveny4407

Жыл бұрын

True

@matsieserwale5768

Жыл бұрын

It doesn’t happen in South Africa

@marilynmutindi7007

Жыл бұрын

@@matsieserwale5768 😀do not start this war

Seyi Rhodes is a great presenter. I would love to watch more with him. He asks good questions, but also isn't rude or too judgemental. Also, Alka's 85 yr old mother is absolutely beautiful. What a vision.

Nice documentary, would like to see more from Seyi.

Seyi, great reporting......respect.

A very soft, human approach to the topic. The presenter is outstanding.

@Jensth

Жыл бұрын

Can you imagine someone doing such a "soft" take on sexual exploitation in South East Asia?

@ladiiyb

Жыл бұрын

Right, I was thinking the same

@Mutiny960

Жыл бұрын

Only because it women doing it. Go watch the documentary on Russian brides. People are praising the fact that the guys are all mocked and treated as a joke by the host film crew. Double-Standards much?

@betsylynnvedrine3784

2 ай бұрын

Oh I Will obtain this skill.

The host of this documentary is a lovely individual very likable! I really love how everything was handled with care and grace for both sides

@tK-kv4lh

Жыл бұрын

He is brilliant, loved it

@guleseraydin996

Жыл бұрын

Exactly I thought the same ❤

@bernardtagoe310

Жыл бұрын

@@guleseraydin996 there are more gentle guys like us also honey

@adesoyeadeboye1036

Жыл бұрын

I noticed that also in the way he approaches everyone and the situations...he tries to create a balanced view

@Northsmen

Жыл бұрын

That is how to get the older women as well🤣

Who needs this headache? I will stay at home and live vicariously thru KZread and not worry about STD's, losing $ and gaining a broken heart.

Interesting documentary! Thank you!

@GUTEITASAMMI-G

2 ай бұрын

hi juliet tjhis sam from kenya east africa

I was married to a Gambian man and horrified to see an older topless European woman on the beach waiting for men to approach. It felt very exploitative to me. This is no better than men who seek out young women for prostitution.

@klopcodez

Жыл бұрын

That should be illegal if its not about love

@wendyshoowaiching4161

Жыл бұрын

Come on don't degrade elderly women. Everyone deserves a happy relationship at all age. They are looking for genuine romantic relationship that at least last.

@breezluize3282

Жыл бұрын

You're not much different than that topless woman. You've got some nerve passing judgment. Why were YOU in Gambia?

@suezcontours6653

Жыл бұрын

@@wendyshoowaiching4161 Besides, we need more Passport Bros to go for the older white women to stop them from exploiting young girls in Third World countries

@thetruthwillsetyoufree2631

Жыл бұрын

The english and germán woman are many times more exploitative than foreign men . They also pay peanuts for their very high quality product . Gambian men must charge 100 dollars a hour minimum to spend time with these spoiled goods

Excellent report. Poverty steals a person's future. Prayers for all. Kindness for each other.

@gritsNgravy-fn5ic

Жыл бұрын

And, Education is the way out. Obviously, these "men" prefer the easy way out !!

@caramelkisses8396

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@mikea5205

Жыл бұрын

Poverty steals a person's future. Damn that one got me right in the gut! So incredibly true.

@lambertmkz

Жыл бұрын

Some of these young men are just looking for a short cut to a good life without having to toil for it

@Uber1937

Жыл бұрын

Cierto. La pobreza no te permite elegir.

Excellent on every level. Thanks for this respectful point of view on such a tangled subject!

Great doco bro. well presented.!!!

I wish you could have spoken to the local women about the British women coming in and pursuing the Gambian men.

@lql1094

Жыл бұрын

If those women benefit from that relationship, my guess is they don't have a problem with it.

@leahmoonbeamflower333

Жыл бұрын

They probably don’t really care. They prob get the women, too. 😂.

@jacobr2058

Жыл бұрын

That’s not part of the agenda. You can tell he probably dates white women back in the UK. I find it funny how he paints the black men in Gambia as criminals but the UK women as victims.

@seanskeete8785

Жыл бұрын

Me too 😂😊😂😊!!!!

@OriginalGaPeach

Жыл бұрын

Many know their husband is gaming those old bitties for money. They don't complain because the family reaps the benefits.

The young man from Britain doing the interview is so sweet Would love to see him do more documentaries

@emmanuelblez3356

11 ай бұрын

Kathy how are you

@kathymullins6358

9 ай бұрын

Good how are you ?@@emmanuelblez3356

@betsylynnvedrine3784

2 ай бұрын

Oh yes.

@egyptguide3199

14 күн бұрын

Hi

Great documentary and work! This is sad on both ends, but it's been going on forever. Let's just try to protect the children--boys and girls, please.

This young man is very insightful ( Seyi). I really enjoyed this documentary.

@betsylynnvedrine3784

2 ай бұрын

Love him ❤

Kudos to the host for dealing with this subject with such sensitivity and compassion. No judgment, just seeking to understand ...

@buttergurls6401

8 ай бұрын

Lol😂😭yeah right!! He had judgment ALL OVER his face and even in how would say, " REALLY??!" 😂

@bettingbig777

7 ай бұрын

@@buttergurls6401 I didn't catch that. But maybe it's a cultural thing too.

@Dhuxul9

6 ай бұрын

Yeah he was judging them! An old granny preying on poor boys 🤢🤮

@bettingbig777

4 ай бұрын

@@Dhuxul9 He might have been, but it didn't come off that way to me.

This is sad. Each side is looking for something different from the other. One is desperately seeking love, the other is desperate to escape poverty. The same thing happens in places like the Philippines but with old men going after poor young girls.

@jacquelynn2051

Жыл бұрын

This is great exchange imho with all due respect. The business of the WORLD is recognizing a need, and filling it.

@janellrr7395

Жыл бұрын

This is true but those Filipino ladies takes care of their man until the man mistreats them, then some ladies change, but not all of them. They still feel thankful and still serve their men. Feed them and takes care of them.

@hayat3428

Жыл бұрын

@@janellrr7395 Yes, some of them are appreciative and okay with the relationship, and depending on how big or small the age gap is, it works sometimes. However, many of them are doing it out of desperation to get out of poverty, often sacrificing their true happiness because it's not only about them, they have expectations from their families to get them out of poverty as well. There's a reason these tourists go to the poorest Asian and African countries for these sorts of relationships. It's because they know these desperate people will do anything for the promise of a better life. At least the "cougars" seem to go after 28-40 year old men. From what I've seen, the male tourists often go after 18-20 year old girls whose brains haven't fully developed, sometimes even younger than that.

@LeoInterHyenaem

Жыл бұрын

Not entirely. While the flockers may, indeed, be on a desperate quest for love by those incapable of loving - their protohuman counter-party is looking for: 1. Shag objects; 2. White shag objects; 3. An opportunity to dupe their white shag objects; 4. Cool factor. That's a lot more things they're after than just an opportunity to dupe the desperate hags.

@RiversBliss

Жыл бұрын

Yeah okay, one is looking for love.

Great documentary. Thanks!

The interviewer has such a kind spirit.

@hirainawhaanga6253

Жыл бұрын

Do you think.?

@margaretnorvell9555

Жыл бұрын

@@hirainawhaanga6253 I think he tried to see the situation from every perspective and was fair in his reporting. Did you find his style likeable?

@maevecooper3404

Жыл бұрын

@@margaretnorvell9555 , I do. He seems like a very kind, understanding person. I wouldn’t mind a Gambian holiday with him🤣🤣🤣

@siegridthomas9674

Жыл бұрын

I DO also and even BETTER if he gets a HAIRCUT ! Nice voice thought

@elomenaodhigbo9643

10 ай бұрын

I love your comments

These guys look so Jamaican,we truly are brothers and sisters despite the separation and distance

@eeeeeek2514

11 ай бұрын

Agreed. I think Bob the Builder and Alka look a bit like Kranium

@sketelgyal

4 ай бұрын

@@eeeeeek2514 i was saying the same thing

@alisjordan9206

4 ай бұрын

Bc they look "black". We all look like brothers and sisters...bc we ARE. simple ❤

@Obrbob1948

4 ай бұрын

Black Jamaicans were brought from Africa to Jamaica - as slaves So of course you’re going to resemble AFRICANS FACTS

@GtTrader67

3 ай бұрын

@@alisjordan9206 So anyone who has a black looking skin is your brother and sister?

what a beautiful documentary I have ever come across

Great documentary

As a Gambian watching this, it’s truly disappointing. I knew this was going on but I didn’t realise just how bad it’s gotten. I truly hope things get better man

@benender7021

Жыл бұрын

It is also disappointing for the British to slave our people so nothing is wrong with it

@idkwhybut...

Жыл бұрын

That's the crazy thing, man. We, Gambians, have our suspicions but we're never ready to believe it

@ducatidarren3516

11 ай бұрын

That’s sad, people there seem pretty cool to brother.

@fatoukinnehcorr7240

11 ай бұрын

@@Nmdgiig lol I’m a girl please Too young to even think about going near it

@imhereforitall9218

11 ай бұрын

As long as poverty exists it won't.

That's why being comfortable alone is a gift.

@MrLsouza77

4 ай бұрын

Until you meet somebody attractive and poorer than you

@ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC

3 ай бұрын

@@MrLsouza77 with a BBC

It's just heartbreaking all the way around. Sighs. Thank you for sharing.

@gafaradedapo4800

2 ай бұрын

Hello , how are you? Are you single

What a documentary, Credible!

A couple of observations: 1. Michelle's man seems like he's kinda high whenever he's being interviewed. 2. The fact that Michelle nor her man can get his age straight is a red flag. 3. Michelle was stammering a lot when trying to explain that for rent sign. 4. When the lady at the end was crying about her pain that she's in when she gets back to the UK, it was the presenter who rushed to console her, not the man who claims to love her. That was interesting for me.

@donna-sheamcgee-boyce4973

Жыл бұрын

I agree with your observations!

@kevinfowler8712

Жыл бұрын

I felt most sorry for the lady at the end because she's aunty to me and I was thinking in the back of her mind she knows that this is probably not genuine love but it feels to good to get out now that she's had a taste of what she's been missing.

@LaRhondaTurner

Жыл бұрын

@@kevinfowler8712 I definitely hear you. She wants love so bad, even if it's maybe transactional. I hope she finds real love.

@LaRhondaTurner

Жыл бұрын

@@rebeccarambo2893 I totally agree. I definitely think it's gonna be her best bet to try to move there if she can swing it. I'm wondering though if because of free Healthcare, etc., whether that's an option for her since she is in pain a lot...but sometime I think warm weather can help with pain. And maybe a little (true) love too!

@templekanu6740

Жыл бұрын

Because he is not her man, just fooling around

Excellent documentary with so many perspectives. Seyi Rhodes is a very caring and intelligent reporter.

@raymonddon8875

Жыл бұрын

usa # 1

@nd2737

Жыл бұрын

Agreed & reason i instantly subscribe it❤️..

@ascensionvaldes1412

Жыл бұрын

agree!!

@betsylynnvedrine3784

2 ай бұрын

Yes he is. Would love to see more of his work.

@egyptguide3199

14 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

🤗 I love this reporter. He seems so genuine.

Good reporting

The presenter just made this show! He was such a shocked proper English gentleman. I had never heard of any of this. Great show!

@gritsNgravy-fn5ic

Жыл бұрын

I feel this way also. He CERTAINLY was a properly shocked British gentleman !! Which I found very refreshing. As for the vulgar guy (Alqe?) at 11:55, he was gross !! You can tell the presenter seemed a little put off just by the language. I would NEVER allow a younger guy take advantage of me, EVER !! I've had my chances, but ABSOLUTELY NO FREAKING WAY !! I hate to hear these of older ladies being taken advantage of. As for myself, I would rather be alone than have to "BUY" someone's B.S.

@Sky-pt6lc

Жыл бұрын

British not English

@litespeedway6538

Жыл бұрын

@@Sky-pt6lc His accent was not Scots, Welsh, Irish etc.... He sounded English and most likely is English. Unless you feel something excludes him?

@Sky-pt6lc

Жыл бұрын

@@litespeedway6538 duh not his accent. I don’t consider non whites as English. Nor whites not originally from England.

@FreeSpirit47

Жыл бұрын

@@Sky-pt6lc That is such an ignorant & racist point of view.

I like the documentary it’s really shows the exact story. I am a Gambian I grew up around this, it’s heartbreaking but it’s the reality

@rachelabee128

10 ай бұрын

What the family and neighbours say about this kind of relationship?

@ajioleysamba4984

10 ай бұрын

@@rachelabee128 It’s not very welcomed …Usually people who are engaged in such relationships rarely live with their parents or a close to them Some families accept and some don’t …. In my family, I dare not think about it

@SueP-D

10 ай бұрын

People do what they need to do for their own survival I guess. It’s common for a power imbalance

What a great video and really lovely man.😊

Best presentation ❤.

This is one of the best documentary ever made. In sociology they say for you to do a more scientific research you have to observe with indifference and not show your feelings to the subject under research. You did just that Seyi Rhodes. Well done.

@zoram671

Жыл бұрын

Very good comment

@bambinaforever1402

Жыл бұрын

Was quite useless. The knegrow was just jealous

@ZedGirl

Жыл бұрын

No, he showed how he felt at 28:00. Like, I didn't think that the man would be with the older woman realistically.

@organicforlife597

Жыл бұрын

​@@bambinaforever1402how could he be jealous when he can get himself a sugar mummy in the UK?

@angelinemuriuki7384

Жыл бұрын

The interviewer wasn't indifferent at all. He was more concerned about the British women being financially exploited than the young Gambian men being sexually exploited.

The host of this documentary is just a sweetheart, so friendly and natural.

Nice interviews

Seydi- super super super Berichterstattung!! Respekt!🙂

I like your conduct towards all these people. You are gentle and non judgemental. keep up the good work😘

@PrinceoMsc

Жыл бұрын

HI QUEEN

@MissStVincent13

Жыл бұрын

I agree, I've watched other documentary he did, and that is what stood out to me.

May I just say...Seyi Rhodes, you are born to be a reporter!!! Naturally gifted all the way round!! I wish you nothing but the best within your life!!! Please follow-up within this Gambian venture and more throughout the years..as we cannot get enough of you!!! BLESS YOU ALWAYS SWEET MAN!!!

great video

What a wonderful young man presenting This program.

It's just disgusting , when you take advantage of someone's poverty

@gloriaa.garcia3985

Жыл бұрын

It's sad but it always happens. It's like older men going to Vietnam & the Philippines to find a bride. The mail bride thing will never go out of business.

@zipinha

11 ай бұрын

Aren't the men also taking advantage of them?

@wsol80

11 ай бұрын

​@@zipinhaNot really. The men are prostitutes with no guarantee of getting paid. The women doing this are hypocrites who don't want to accept that this is purely transactional.

@popularopinion2181

11 ай бұрын

Both sides are taking advantage of each other

@ColtraneTaylor

11 ай бұрын

​@@zipinha Yeah. Like the Filipino women in that situation?

Old woman has money and no partner. Young person has energy and no money. It fits!

@atthesunyousee

Жыл бұрын

Like butter.

@goodcatfilms4276

Жыл бұрын

And neither have moral standards

@kirstiehiorns618

Жыл бұрын

Yerbut

@mollotuka8946

Жыл бұрын

@@goodcatfilms4276 they're all grown up. There's no coercion or duress. She'll probably end up leaving all her money to her dog or cat. So why isn't it morally right for her to enjoy what little is left of her life and give some of her money to someone who give her a bit happiness even if it's fake ?🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸💯👍🏿

@shaspearman8647

Жыл бұрын

It doesn’t fit! Africa has poverty BECAUSE of Europe. This is just an extension of that.

I really enjoyed your documentary you are quite the Diplomat.

This is on another level

@egyptguide3199

14 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤

This is better than being in a nursing home in Europe for these ladies. Gambia is less stressful.

@maevecooper3404

Жыл бұрын

Less stressful indeed. One might even say, a stress reliever!

@mariegomez389

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you, why be alone & lonely!

@thetruthwillsetyoufree2631

Жыл бұрын

@@maevecooper3404 i feel great pity for the men who have to perform for these smelly bio hazards from europe . They exploit these men for their huge packages paying pittances

@pedward323

Жыл бұрын

What that they are preying on poor people in their own country and you do know it involves young women and children also in The Gambia.

@jillybe1873

Жыл бұрын

Oh they will soon be alone in a nursing home once the guys have scammed them

Men have been traveling to and doing this for decades in Latin American and Asian countries.

@Sky-pt6lc

Жыл бұрын

True but they don’t going looking for old females. There’s no future with them. They can’t have children. Also the older they are the more health problems they will have.

@thetruthwillsetyoufree2631

Жыл бұрын

Woman are the biggest exploiters for sexual relations. How many female teachers who abuse their male students for gratificación. For every 5 cases involving woman only one ínvolves men . Shame Shame on this shameless woman

@Earthbound369

Жыл бұрын

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

@bubblybubbles4023

Жыл бұрын

@Michelle Yes, the most popular places men go for that kind of stuff is the Dominican Republic, Colombia, and Brazil.

@Speedy300

Жыл бұрын

Equal right 😂😂😂😂

Very intriguing documentary. Well done.

Great documentary. To each his own, I say. And Seyi...smart, caring, thoughtful, good sense of humor...and beautiful!! I'll take him. 😎

As a 50 year old guy, I'm glad they consider 49 and 50 year old men "young"

@vrunner6793

11 ай бұрын

Is that the point really? Feel better when a 85 year old says you are young? She could be your mom that’s why do the math 😤

@thatsjarrod1965

11 ай бұрын

@@vrunner6793 you must be fun at parties

@hasepsut011

11 ай бұрын

Oh you are young. You could pay for another 30+ years instead of only 10 lets say. Have you thought of that.

@LadyBug1967

11 ай бұрын

I actually think he began with a fifty-year-old middle-aged Gambian men and a 58 year-old middle-aged British white woman just to shake it up so that one wouldn't put on moral glasses, not that one shouldn't but he wanted to be able to begin this documentary without initiating a bias from the get-go due to age disparity. I think it was achieved this by showing us two middle-aged people who loved each other & who got married and their families were involved in the marriage, the family of the man who lived in that country was involved which is usually what they say marriage is about, although with older people it is less so.

@wallaceblaks8877

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

I married a narcissist who is 15 years older than me, who used my young age and innocence against me. As much as I feel I was cheated out of my youth by his manipulation and abuse, I would never think to try to recapture my lost youth by stealing that from a young Gambian man. How horrible. There is no excuse for being a predator.

@Lynn.B.

Жыл бұрын

Bravo. Beautifully said. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@d.kj.n1392

Жыл бұрын

Lol... I find it interesting.... Over the last 5 years, that's all I hear being used; narcissist. Nowadays, anytime a woman doesn't get her way, the other person is a narcissist lol

@GreatValueChocolateMilk

Жыл бұрын

You damn right

@GreatValueChocolateMilk

Жыл бұрын

A sad truth

@sightsandsounds5354

Жыл бұрын

Men are supposed to marry women younger than them because young women are easier to edify. You obviously picked the wrong man but relationships are reflective, were you the perfect wife? I think people need to stop blaming others for their misfortunes and start being more introspective.

The reporter is good at what he does...Kudos

@Dhuxul9

6 ай бұрын

Yes he didn’t show his disgust towards these old crows 😂

P is so warm and fun.. and feels alive 😊

This documentary goes deeper in a kinder way than all the others who mimic the tabloids. It’s actually worth watching. This young man is remarkable and I hope we see more of him. And P. I hope she goes back and is happy.

@jonhay75

9 ай бұрын

'Goes deeper'...I see what you did there.....

Seyi is such a caring and relatable host. I felt his pain when he realised that he revealed Alka's info to his mom. Awesome work on the exploration of the subject matter with a human touch.

Ms P, if you are reading any of the comments, which I hope you are, I want you to know that you are an amazing woman. Bless you and I wish you all the happiness you deserve.

😀Thank you for the good advice . 😅🤩😃!!!

This reminds me of the magazines my Mum would read when I was a kid. "65 yr old Gran heartbroken when her 21 yr old Greek lover scams her of life savings. 42 yr old son says he'll get revenge!". Funny how when it's older men going to S.E Asia or Latin countries though, they're creeps according to the media but when older women do it, they're lonely and seeking love.

@11eve

Жыл бұрын

They are just as creepy to me. No PC way to put it.

@danielkemp868

Жыл бұрын

@@11eve For sure. Both examples of predatory behaviour. That older woman literally licking her lips at her NYE was gross.

@Jensth

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Gross double standards.

@mistermistyeye9218

Жыл бұрын

@@11eve nah they’re all equally creepy

@hardeepsingh-sg2kz

Жыл бұрын

Older men are always termed a perverts. Old women are lonely souls. Wtf

I am a Gambian and this is a daily sight... Older tourists with very young Gambians. I see it as a transactional relationship with both parties knowing what the other wants. However, it is not only due to poverty but motivated by greed. People like showing off.

@perliva

11 ай бұрын

Would that be the same as older British guys having a _transactional relationship_ with young girls in Thailand?

@flyingnutrition6199

11 ай бұрын

@@perliva not really ...those men pay way less than woman pay this man.... and this man are treated way better than those girls in Thailand... Patriarchy is still on man side...even when man have relation with older woman.... Man always win

@CarlosAlberto-ii1li

11 ай бұрын

and something warm and wet to slip in to, very transactional.

@perliva

11 ай бұрын

@@flyingnutrition6199 Men _always_ win? I want to hop on your planet mate! How can I join?

@jaylucas8352

11 ай бұрын

Or rich men that go and finds young Russia. Bride

Congratulations for this very well done documentary. I enjoy it.

The world is really an AWESOME and interesting place. FASCINATING STORY! 😊

awesome documentary.. well done.. loved how detailed and well presented all the stories are

I really wish they had included the perspective of local Gambian women. Do they feel like the dating pool has been severely restricted or do they feel lucky that it now excludes a very specific type of man that they may not be interested in? In what other ways does this phenomenon impact the local dating pool? So interesting.

@emmanuelblez3356

11 ай бұрын

Gina how are you

@beewest5704

11 ай бұрын

They probably accept that that is how their husbands & boyfriend earn money to support them. Some must also feel resentment.

@Bamifun

10 ай бұрын

The women are benefitting. These dudes probably have a wife or two and a passel of children…children are such and important part of the culture. few if any Gambian men will forgo children to marry a post menopausal, overweight, lonely crone…but I guess everyone is getting what he or she is seeking.

@miclazy-5m

9 ай бұрын

they are probably the second wife and also benefit from it

@whenindoubtmutemyownmouth5180

9 ай бұрын

I would imagine all the younger good looking ones are probably out looking for sugar mommas rather than date a broke local woman like that one guy said in the intro.

Lovely documentary ❤Thank you!!And P&Bob looked made for eachother, she should leave england if she not well there...life is short ...❤❤❤wish all the best..and again thanks for lovely documentary..

not gonna lie, Auntie lookin AMAZING in the gambia with that blonde natural hair!!!! she needs to MOVE there. prayin for her!

@ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC

3 ай бұрын

IDK about that she looked terrible

Judge not and ye be not judged. There are all types of people in this world. Very kind young interviewer.

@FairUseMotherWit

Жыл бұрын

Just buying people one at a time I mean what else did our ancestors slave for ? Except to make them rich so they can buy them a personal Mandingo

@leahmoonbeamflower333

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Humans come in all different species.

@cwmackey5466

Жыл бұрын

Astounding, but, you're right. These men do not need to be judged, they need to be helped. They need education, training...jobs that foster dignity and self-worth or is that to much to ask for Africans who are yes, being exploited for their equipment !

I love this reporter. So much compassion.

@cinnamonstar808

Жыл бұрын

ON THE MALE SIDE little kids are being sold.

@missfefeloves

Жыл бұрын

@@cinnamonstar808 agreed

@austinebice6062

Жыл бұрын

❤ you beautiful

@tsubaka18

Жыл бұрын

He is laughing at them when the camera turns off , these women and you are laughing stack for the men and the women from all culture 😂 disgusting, pervert, have no morals, no life ,no future, chasing their feitsh and they will get multiple os uncurable sti 😂

@alambiduanchanel2384

Жыл бұрын

Hello gurl where you from, we need traveling to together in Africa gurl

Thanks for a great video. Very eye-opening. Nice to see this as so many women are degraded this way. I saw this in Costa Rica.

@Leahmoonbeamflower

Күн бұрын

The women are paying the men to have relations with her… she is not the victim here 😂😂😂

enjoyed this documentary. my question is how do gambian feel about black gambian women. this lady name P was so refreshing. i wish her hapiness.

Who said "Slavery has been abolished?"

@rootsy7038

Жыл бұрын

Right on!!

@Mhel2023

Жыл бұрын

🙄

@MrJm323

Жыл бұрын

The British -- against the resistance of many African kings, indeed. (Including the "woman king".)

Met a 30 year old Gambian while in Texas. I asked him what his occupation was & he said he had 4 older British ladies taking care of him, why would he work. He was visiting his 20 year old girlfriend in Houston. I thought he was full of it. Gosh he was probably telling the truth.

@edithwilson9174

10 ай бұрын

He is a scammer

@beastmotoz

9 ай бұрын

​@@edithwilson9174they are all bunch of scammers

@mouradel6432

6 ай бұрын

Only donkeys who work, he is a smart man and topping it with a 20 years old hand picked strawberry i applaud him

@ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC

3 ай бұрын

@@mouradel6432 sure he's winnah and so are you... 🤣

@wysefavor

3 ай бұрын

@@edithwilson9174 95% of african men are...beware of Nigerians too...

thx..for showing the other side of the story......

Well done

@egyptguide3199

14 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

the guy who did the interviews was excellent.

@Madoobe87

Жыл бұрын

Yes him and Trevor McDonald among other black journalists are my top favorite

Very informative, well done documentary without the unnecessary fluff. Must commend the presenter also for being very balanced in his presentation.

To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. The British exploited Gambia and left it impoverished, today we have young Gambian men seizing the opportunity to exploit British women to realize their dreams.

@Leahmoonbeamflower

Күн бұрын

Right. Oh, how the tables inevitably turn.

Geography King brought me here. Very interesting video

Seyi is one of the nicest people ever but also not naïve at all, what an aspirational attitude 💗💗

@mltunkara8714

Жыл бұрын

Hey

@shanealarcon7928

11 ай бұрын

❤️

@babaceesay7803

11 ай бұрын

Hi hello greetings from the smiling coast

@BarakaGaspar

9 ай бұрын

Nice my friend

@beastmotoz

9 ай бұрын

Another white girl looking for some poor guy

Love this reporter- beautiful, intelligent, open-minded, nonjudgmental.

I'm half German, half Gambian and I know a girl that got older white men to pay for her medical bills….. She was underage at that time….And people are saying she’s the exploiter….she’s a survivor in any sense

@ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC

3 ай бұрын

she also a h0 a survivor though...it what it is.

First of all, l Thank You for doing this interview. My Heart is saddened and My Prayers go up for Gambia and the People of Gambia. The real damage that is being allowed to happen to Gambia is that the Beautiful Black Men who were Divinely Designed to Head up the Family and the Beatiful Black Women who were Divinely Designed to be a Helpmeet to them is Truly but sadly being destroyed. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🥰💞

@HerMajesty1

5 ай бұрын

It's not just black families being destroyed. It's all of us.

@arlenetatum9511

5 ай бұрын

@HerMajesty1 : True, but since it is happening to a perdomently Black people in your interview is the only reason I stated that way My Brother. 🥰🙏🏻💞

This narrator is hilarious!!!😂 His facial expressions!

@kevinfowler8712

Жыл бұрын

Wasn't he tho 😫😂😂🤣 He was looking at them couples like y'all need to stop lying.

@mrttamara

Жыл бұрын

@@kevinfowler8712 Exactly!!😂then I cried laughing when I saw that old lady with the crutches standing outside the bar trying to get her some!😅😂😂😂

A 12-year difference is nothing - he is 48; she is 56; I see that as OK! However, the 30-year-old with the 85-year-old girlfriend, well..as long as the lady knows and accepts what type of relationship it is, then no harm done. We have a saying "fair exchange is no robbery!! Update: The woman is 68, not 85!

@birikunzira7183

Жыл бұрын

Her husband or boyfriend just said she's 85 ..

@londoncovington2312

Жыл бұрын

Yeah she looked nothing like 85. 68 seems more like it.

@anns9688

Жыл бұрын

The diff bt 56 and 48 is 8 years.

@coolieward3255

Жыл бұрын

She looks 90 he was being nice u know yall age bad

@quaithom3138

Жыл бұрын

@@coolieward3255 This woman does not look 90. Your comment is very ignorant and rude.

I lived in The Gambia for a year and used to visit the beachfront stretch around the Bungalow Beach Hotel and The Kairaba Hotel in 1995. This issue of old women coming from Europe to sexually "feast" on desperately poor locals (aka bumsters), is not a recent matter. Kudos to Seyi Rhodes for doing a decent and balanced reportage on this ongoing subject. By and large, The Gambia is a great tourist destination for people who are desirous of escaping from the cold wintry days of Europe and the rest of the world.

@ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC

3 ай бұрын

well it look to me like this desperately poor locals feast on the european women purse. MMHMM WUZ GUD MILEY?

you need to come and do a similar video in Victoria Falls in Zimbabwe

Excellent documentary. The journalist has such a lovely way with him; I would love to see more of his work.