I completely agree! I lived alone for 2 years before getting married. It was the greatest 2 years of independence I've ever experienced.

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely I LOVE IT MY PEACE PRIVACY AND HAPPINESS IS MY MAIN FOCUS 😍😍😍

Loved this Jade, the solitude is definitely the best part of living alone. You look stunning of course, love the set up ❤️

@sexyblackcharlery

2 жыл бұрын

Love u Breeny

Moved out of the home in March, at 27, and I agree with every single point. It's a bit sad how most women go from the parent's house to a house with a husband. Living alone teaches unique lessons! I'm glad I'm privileged enough to learn them ❤️

It's important for both men and women to live independently from their parents/guardians at some point.

Thank you ! Everyone has been telling me to stay at home and save and travel. I’m 31 I just feel like I’m ready to feel like a whole woman !

Living by myself has taught so much about myself and even what I can tolerate when living with someone else. I enjoy being in my own clean space I appreciate my independence and discipline

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

SAME HERE GIRL SAME HERE😍😍😍

Living alone and getting to know yourself without a relationship is GOLDEN. Do this for while and the things you will learn...

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Invaluable! ❤️❤️❤️

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

OH MOST DEFINITELY I LOVE IT 🥰 IT'S A WONDERFUL FEELING

Totally Agree! At least 1-2 yrs solo is essential.

This is my sign, to move alone 🤍 your videos always are confirmation for me. Lots of love.

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Love that I ave helped ! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

💯! 😊 Cooking and cleaning are life skills and everyone should know how to do these things. Let no one create gender roles for these very basic life skills😜 living alone is a wholesome experience.

I’m so excited I’m 28 and I’m moving alone next month, my family is making me feel bad about it as if I am abandoning them, I just want to be on my own for once. I an nervous about feeling alone and the responsibility of bills but I know I can do it!

I have been divorced for 18 years now, and I don't think I'll be able to live with another person again. Ever. No, I want to spend the rest of my life alone.

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT I SHARE MY HOME WITH MY FUR BABIES THAT'S ALL THAT'S IT🥰🥰

Great video… definitely needed this! I’m 50 years old all my children are grown and the last one is moving out and I’ve recently applied and got approved for my apartment, my anxiety has been going crazy I’m so afraid so I thank you for such encouraging words of affirmation and advice I really really needed to hear this ❤

Living alone is the Best and one of the most Beautiful Memories in my Life. I live alone by myself. I get to know myself better and learning a lot of things and how to handle my responsibilities. Yes I recommend it that every Women should experience it living alone by themselves, its the best thing a woman can take. Thank you Sis for this Topic.

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

OH HELL YES IT IS😍😍😍.... AND THE SAD THING NOWADAYS IS THAT A LOT OF WOMEN FEEL AS THOUGH THEY HAVE TO HAVE A MAN STAYING WITH THEM UGH NOT I I LOVE BEING ALONE I'VE BEEN ALONE AND TO MYSELF FOR SO LONG IT'S LIKE NOW I DON'T WANT NOBODY IN MY HOME WITH ME BESIDES MY FUR BABIES 😍

Living alone must be so liberating✨

Yep, I agree that if you're in a toxic home situation with your parents or siblings, you should move out to get your own space. If you're not able to buy, get the cheapest rental situation you can afford e.g. a house share vs renting your own place and then save up to buy your own place while renting.

Moving into my very own luxury apartment was the best thing I ever did. I was 5 hours away from family. We had a pool, gym, movie theater, multiple lounges, unlimited supply of various teas and coffees in the lobby… it was heavenly! I learned so much about myself and discovered my passion for decorating, fitness, and fashion. Now I’m in medical school and have roommates which has been a challenge, after having my own space for so long. While it is nice to have company during the long days and nights of studying, I miss having my own space. But very soon I’ll have my own place to call home again. All the points you made in this video are very true and relatable 💕

@smirbelbirbel

Жыл бұрын

That might just be the least relatable thing I have read in a year. 😂 Good for you though.

I’m not a woman, but this video certainly spoke to me. Thank you for the upload! 💖

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! I his applies to anybody ☺️

Definitely an essential phase in every woman’s life

I actually have some advice for those ladies that come from cultures that do allow living with their partner before marriage. Don't do it anyway. While it is not always the case, some partners will live with you forever without popping a question, because - why would they? you already act as his wife, so if getting married is important for you, this information is something worth taking into account, so you know where to set boundaries.

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS... IT'S THE TRUTH AND THEY'RE ACTUALLY JUST SHACKING UP

@gillianzezere9090

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree with you

This is an interesting video. Thanks for sharing your views on this topic. As a female also who lives alone ; the trials and tribulations that have risen from this have strengthened me , even though at times I’ve felt weak... the responsibility and independence is a wholesome way to grow. 💖🤗💓💖

I lived alone for 2 years for the first time in my life and it was awesome and peaceful 💆🏾‍♀️ but then times got a little tough and had to move back home with mom for 2 years but it was a blessing and a curse but now I am back in my own place but I have a fiancé now but I did appreciate that time to myself it was so nice and let me grow up for sure

I like this part, there are many wonderful stories being encountered only when we live alone😊

I have lived alone for 3 years. Moving to a bigger house to live alone more. 🤣🤣🤣

“Those who dont hear, must feel”…lol I was raised by this saying so I defo agree with this. Great video

@No1superjuicey

2 жыл бұрын

Same

I live alone and I fixed my place up very nice the backyard too and I absolutely love it! Everything you said is so on point about to share this with a friend.

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! I love hearing your experiences, it really is invaluable 🎉😍

Such a great video Jade! Independence and discovering yourself is so important for growth 🤎

Trust me having your own space, whether renting or owning is so beneficial. Especially when you are leaving a toxic situation.

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

it is so important 🙌🏾

Love this Jade... As I've recently moved to my new place hence mortgage plus bills whilst I'm still doing my postgrad which I'm also funding...the financial side of things sounds scary sometimes. Buuuut I've learned a lot about money especially how to be smart with it. And yep, men should learn how to cook and do laundry as well...I actually think that it's such a basic requirement to cook and clean for yourself, No🤔

I'm 26 and will likely be moving out on my own in about a year. My parent died when I was 17 so I lived with family for a year while I finished Highschool. I then moved in with friends but quickly jumped into living with a significant other for two years. I then lived with another family member (due to lack of funds ) and have now lived with another significant other for about 4 years. I'm excited yet terrified! I've been paying my own way or part of my own way prior to moving out at 18, I've always been good about saving but never learned proper budgeting long term. I'm trying to learn more now so that in a year it wont be as drastic of a shift.

Yes yes yes… I absolutely agree! Good advice! I lived by myself 10 years before I got remarried and I don’t regret it a bit!

I’ve lived by myself for many years now and love it although I have become a bit of a recluse. I can’t imagine sharing my home with anybody. Since the pandemic I won’t even let people in my home. With my OCD the thought of another person using my bathroom or leaving stuff where it doesn’t belong fills me with dread.

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

OMG GIRL THIS IS SO ME😍😍😍😍😍😍

Love this! So timely. Nothing but facts 🙌🏾

Love this! I had to grow up too early but I’ve never had the experience of having a place to call my own or any bills besides giving half of the rent to someone, food for the house, & internet. I’m still having trouble making this decision due to my circumstances.

Loved this video. You look stunning as always and really just wanted to say that I enjoy the chitchat and how you break it down for us as women. Keep these type of video going coming ♥️

Jade!!! Perfect timing. I'm in this exact situation. I just renovated the 2nd unit in my rental proptery and I've been torn about moving in. You just expertly said everything i have been feeling for my reason to move out of moms and into the unit ALONE. Thank you!

100% agree!! It's gotta be done if you can. Enables GROWTH.

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

YES!! so much growth which can be hard at times but so worth it 🙌🏾

I felt this video on a soul level, this is so important!

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

I am sooooo glad! ❤️

That was refreshing to watch Jade always enjoy your content

Such a great message, thank you Jade xx

This was a really good talk.exactly what I needed to hear 💛

Honestly can’t wait to start living alone. I think it’s really necessary! If not for anything, but for SELF-DISCOVERY!!! And that’s what I need honestly.

A much needed discussion !

You learn to be self sufficient, be independent and most of all be responsible. You know and must remember to pay your Bills on time. From your Rent, Electricity and your Cell Phone aka Mobile. You know when your credit card bill is due and you can learn to budget wisely and well. You know you don't have a parent to remind you to get up for work on time. You also learn how important it is too cook, clean and do your laundry and you make a schedule on when to do it. I live at home with My mother since my dad died but I am very disciplined when it comes to room and board and I help pay with other bills ie house insurance, house tax, I drive her around since she doesn't know how to drive. My cousin lives on his own and he is a wreck because his parents never taught him. You are a wonderful role model.

I needed to hear this. Thank you for your advice as it has lessened the fear a bit.

Thank you! I want to live on my own so needed this video. 💯❤❤

This was really wise and true - thank you x

Loved this and I totally 100% relate myself as a woman living alone for majority of the past 10 years also. It is so soul enriching and so peaceful xx

Been loving your channel and this is just what I needed to see, about to buy my own flat and bit anxious about living alone. I lived alone for a year in New York but this feels so different. X

This felt like the nudge I needed! Thank you Jade I just subscribed

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

I am so happy to have nudged you & thank you for joining the family ☺️❤️🎉

I've finally got an apartment via PDS for myself seven months ago in Williamsburg Brooklyn after 30 years of roommates. I love it very much!!! My mom lived alone after my father died in 1999 until she died in 2018 in the Bronx. She never remarried. I can cook and clean for myself. I don't like pets but my sweetheart comes to visit every few weeks.

Love this!

Excellent video! No lies told!

Great Video Jade, I can't wait to move into my own place next year for the independence and peace of mind. looking good girl x

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

oh I'm beyond excited for you, you will learn so much 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Love this, currently looking for my first property and I’m very much looking forward to this experience . Not gonna moving too far from my momma though, cos I may just cry 😅 small steps 💛

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Haha, You can do it my love, I'm excited for you ❤️!

So nice video !! I really enjoy the talk

I went from my parents house to my husbands house. 4 kids. Now in my 60s. Kids are grown. My husband passed away. Loving living on my own.

Living alone and loving it!

Perfect timing 🤍

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

yaaaay!

I loved everything about this video

Sis, May God continue to bless you for this message🙏❤️❤️

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! God bless YOU TOO ❤️❤️❤️

Wishing you wellness and an abundance of care Jade ✨ New subscriber

I wish I was able to live on my own when I had the opportunity as I believe I too would have flourished and been a better version of me. Now, I am on that journey with my 5 years old son but I know God has got us 🙂🙏🏾. Love your content and you ❤️.

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

it's a blessing to have the time you have now!! God bless you both ☺️❤️

I just made a cup of tea before putting this on so what a pleasant surprise 😁 I have Unbirthday Cake Tea from Disneyland

Please do more videos like this. This is insightful and great advice! Subscribed

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I have a new tea time live now ☺️❤️!

I love everything about what you said in this video more please.

You look lovely! Could you please share your hairstyle, what kind of ponytail and hair type you used?

Wow , love this message thank you .

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, thank you for watching ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you!

Great Video girl, you’ve got yourself a new subbie 👏🏿

Beautiful you hit all the points !! Right on it !!!

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

I love talking about this stuff! so glad you guys enjoy It too 🎉

I agree 100% living with my hubby for a month caused a lot of stress to our relationship. So that won’t be happening again till he buys a flat for both of us to live in next year. And by then I would’ve hopefully met his parents & him mine. And also hopefully more commitment. Like engagement by September next year.

Binge watching videos on living alone because less than a week I’m moving into my first apartment. I’m a introvert so I’m very excited but I’m scared for security reasons

@liahlove8297

Жыл бұрын

Same here girl. I'm supposed to move in less than a month and I'm both excited and terrified lol

@JR-wx9md

Жыл бұрын

Are y’all okay? 👀

Living my dream girl x

Everyone everyone should live alone . No one should get married. I love it so much freedom no stress whatsoever I do whatever I want whenever I want that’s how we suppose to live . That marry life and kids just gives u cancer . Be Free

You are so right

Preach.

Excellent Work, keep going

I feel like this I so true. Life experience. we ladies needs these experience some time.

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!! we only get wiser with experience ☺️❤️

She is so RIGHT! 😁

I really liked this video Jade! You look fab also

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! I'm glad you enjoyed it. I have a new Tea time live ❤️☕️

Great content!! 😁😁

Great Video ❤️

I co- sign this too!

👏👏👏

wheres your cup and saucer from?

@CYaya88

2 жыл бұрын

I know this question is for Jade but I have the exact one. It’s from H&M Home :)

@marthacook5997

2 жыл бұрын

@@CYaya88 thank you!x

My parents are trying to keep me home by saying everywhere I want to go is too “dangerous”

@Passions5555

Жыл бұрын

I've heard that song 😒

I wanna experience living alone one day. Even if it’s for 1 or 2 years before getting married (if that’s what God has in store for me). Instead of transitioning from parents straight to husband’s house? No ways. I wanna be by myself for a bit .

You said it all,,you look pretty tho

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you girl!!!!! ❤️

I think it’s important for women to live alone to learn how to run a home, master self discipline and independence. Having said that I also think if a woman wants to get married too much independence isn’t good and living alone is a breeding ground for that.

@winnieboateng5334

2 жыл бұрын

Can you explain why too independence from a woman isn't good? I feel like if a woman has been single for long time and has never been in serious relationship. And she got to do the most in her life by herself. I think is normal a woman will feel or act that way too much independent and is use to it.

@jaky411

Жыл бұрын

Man do not get judged for being too independent as women are constantly being told they are selfish and not men.

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

@@winnieboateng5334 THANK YOU!!! I LOVE THIS

chilee if I could afford it I'd be GONE

@JadeVanrielx

2 жыл бұрын

😂 create a good plan, you an do anything you put your mind to ❤️

How on heart are you radiant ?

I love having my own crib I never want any man living with me💯 and because of that…I have to raise my child alone these men be having an agenda

@icestarr1572

7 ай бұрын

They always do....

I’m kind of different has a women I don’t want kids at all … I’m good with living alone having my space and probably with a dog … You born alone you die alone that’s my philosophy …. I’ve always been a loner …

Pretty

This might be a dumb thought although I’m excited to get myself a mortgage/home but I do get told by auntys that’s if buy myself a house no man would want me cause he won’t be able to provide and he won’t want to live in my house 😬

@SnowofLight

2 жыл бұрын

This sounds a lot like "men won't be able to get away with the bare minimum because they know it won't impress you, and they won't like that"

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

@@SnowofLight EXACTLY WHAT IT SOUNDS LIKE ...

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

MALIA GIRL BUY THAT HOUSE DO IT FOR YOU DON'T WORRY ABOUT NONE OF THAT AND DON'T LOWER YOUR STANDARDS

@Brandiisbeloved

Жыл бұрын

To extent a lot of men feel this way. You could always rent that property out when you get married or just rent until you get married.

It's safe to live alone as a woman until marriage.

The wall - 😎

Women are not meant to live alone.

@peaceandprosperitybaby110

Жыл бұрын

Very true nobody is meant to be alone that’s why God made Adam and Eve

@theonlymaryam

Жыл бұрын

What about MEN?? 😶🙂🙂

@SenorGuzman32

Жыл бұрын

@@theonlymaryam unless both sexes are going to live a celibate lifestyle, they’re not meant to live alone.

@lunababy4259

Жыл бұрын

@@peaceandprosperitybaby110there’s no Adam and Eve 😂

Love this!