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hey I am thinking about moving out at 17 next year because my parents want me to stay home for university and I really don't want that form of control over me during those 4 or more years. I am trying to get a job and start networking, most of my development of this would be after I finish my mock exams so mostly after next week. My culture is quite toxic and I feel such a strong divide of thoughts between me and my family. I am the eldest and you are right having a positive mindset especially when overcoming challenges is really important. Unfortunately it is me vs my parents and my community, it has been like this for a couple of years. Thank you so much for making this video, I don't think anyone talks about this. Being an independent muslim woman from a controlling household is a struggle.

@Thathijabivlogger

Ай бұрын

Walaikum Salam! Will you be moving into a university dorm instead? I highly recommend allowing yourself those extra 4 yrs of school to get settled and hold off on bills. You get the best of both worlds 🥰 independence at school with little to no bills!

I’m 25 and my dad will not let me go out, if I do it’s always where are you nayaa come back home and cook and clean for me and do this and that for me. I can’t be free and if he’s upstairs I’m not even allowed to be in my room. I have to get out of my room when he’s cooking, bring him his meals every two hours, pick up his dirty plates, shit is really just weighing on my mind. He talks bad about my siblings, my mom but weirdly I still feel bad that I’m leaving him in a couple of weeks. But that’s what he wants me to think so I’ll never be free

@midapita

3 ай бұрын

Girl reading this makes me so sad, like i’m so sorry you’re going thru that. I hope for the best when you live out !!

@Thathijabivlogger

Ай бұрын

I’m soooo sorry🥺🥺 honestly make plenty of Dua and be upfront with conversations! You have every reason to make such decision, I do hope that distance will also strengthen your relationship.

this will literally be so helpful thank you so much

@Thathijabivlogger

10 ай бұрын

I'm so glad!❤

Ahh I just found your channel thru your hair care videos! I’m from Philly too so I relate sm😭

@midapita

3 ай бұрын

and i love your mindset, like i relate about having to be upfront about your big girl decisions especially to family. it’s hard trying to convince parents who think that despite you’re an adult you’re still under their control. although im doing better now but i also was kinda pressured to attend the “easier” option for college and i wish i went to a different college than temple lmao.

@Thathijabivlogger

Ай бұрын

Omg hiiii This is crazy because I was struggling to decide between Temple and WCU, I can’t imagine how different life would be. And yea, the only way to do anything with your life is to just DO. We’d turn to dust waiting for approval 🫠

Going into my delulu era after watching this video🤭😭

@Thathijabivlogger

10 ай бұрын

Yesss Delulu is the SOLULUUUUU 🌸🌸

Love the video❤

@Thathijabivlogger

8 ай бұрын

Thank you 💕

About to move out and this was very insightful ❤ also where did u get the hijab from? 😊

so did you buy the apartment or are you paying rent? i feel like i don’t know how much to save up. rent would be taking half of my monthly salary, but saving to buy one would take too long 😅

@Thathijabivlogger

Ай бұрын

I’m renting, which also means playing survival 😭 Everyone says to buy I home but I feel Way too young for that, especially if I don’t know where I want to spend the rest of my life. I like that with renting, I can up and go WHENEVERRRR