WATCH THIS BEFORE MOVING OUT ON YOUR OWN

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All of the things no one told me and I wish I had known before I moved out for the first time.
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#movingout #howtomoveout #moving
Hi my name is Caira Button and I am a 25 year old who makes videos about tips, tricks, and organization for small space living. I love the minimalist, feminine, clean vibe. I have kept the decor pretty neutral adding a bit of mid century modern & LOTS of plants. I hope my advice is able to help you in your journey!

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  • @PrincessNiq
    @PrincessNiq3 жыл бұрын

    Damn why is it so expensive to be alive when it wasn't even my choice to be here?? 😩

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂 this made me fully laugh

  • @laurenbrooke2826

    @laurenbrooke2826

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭

  • @dookiebookie2078

    @dookiebookie2078

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly the rich already has a damn nuff

  • @dragonaise2417

    @dragonaise2417

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wonder the same thing

  • @jacquelinebennett

    @jacquelinebennett

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree. I did not ask to be on this planet: I am on a limited income barely making minimum wage and the state I live in is on the expensive side for rent (like most places is what I make in a month for rent alone) and I finally want so badly to get out of my parents house but I cry when I see how much I make in comparison to what it will cost to be on my own. Like Omg someone take me out to pasture and shoot me

  • @chalyndajackson9384
    @chalyndajackson93843 жыл бұрын

    Girl Ikea is expensive af. I would suggest walmart and the dollar tree for people on a tight budget

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Some things at ikea are stupid expensive but I feel like some are a great deal. Walmart and the dollar store are also great!

  • @ArcaniaSkyPirateDen9516

    @ArcaniaSkyPirateDen9516

    3 жыл бұрын

    Five below is another good choice.

  • @Erikakicute

    @Erikakicute

    3 жыл бұрын

    thrift stores could work too

  • @Sophie-zu7zi

    @Sophie-zu7zi

    3 жыл бұрын

    where are you living? ikea is like one of the cheapest options here °-°

  • @allankuria9923

    @allankuria9923

    3 жыл бұрын

    or just take up larceny .

  • @anursetomotivate
    @anursetomotivate3 жыл бұрын

    Love the advice! Another great tip for those moving out is if you know you are going to move out in about 6 months to a year, get a storage and start purchasing your big appliances gradually and once you are finish with that, start buying the small items. Start now and don’t wait until move in day. TOO EXPENSIVE.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like that! It’s much easier to get things slowly over time if you are able to. Also makes it so you have time to get nicer stuff!

  • @fhamdani99

    @fhamdani99

    3 жыл бұрын

    very smart, i think i will get one soon and put good furniture there.

  • @arista1349

    @arista1349

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dionna Anderson thinking the same

  • @emilylilxo

    @emilylilxo

    3 жыл бұрын

    a psychic literally told me to do this LOL so YES F A C T S

  • @PriyankaSingh-rv2es

    @PriyankaSingh-rv2es

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/omxkqpiiZcK1hrw.html

  • @meh.896
    @meh.8964 жыл бұрын

    Dollar tree has cute silverware 💕 I was shocked at the amount of glassware they haf

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    4 жыл бұрын

    Their glassware is the best!! I totally agree.

  • @emmanash2209

    @emmanash2209

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes their plates are so cute

  • @emmacasimir946

    @emmacasimir946

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love the wine glasses they’re great quality

  • @PriyankaSingh-rv2es

    @PriyankaSingh-rv2es

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/omxkqpiiZcK1hrw.html

  • @girmanamt

    @girmanamt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I haven’t moved out yet I am looking into moving out this summer and I was looking at what they had there

  • @flusteredtorchic9024
    @flusteredtorchic90243 жыл бұрын

    Im about to move out at 27. I work and go to school full time. Fortunately I found a cheap back house and iv saved a good amount of money as a nest egg. You know your super serious about it when your on KZread looking for help

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesss🙌🏼 youtube has so much info though it can seriously be helpful.

  • @Sarbeatify

    @Sarbeatify

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same! Graduate loans help pay rent/cost of living while being a full time student btw

  • @GraceO655

    @GraceO655

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yess!!

  • @72vince27

    @72vince27

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CairaButton I am moving to my place next week. Any sleeper tips? That I wouldn't think about it 😁

  • @Maneatermissa
    @Maneatermissa3 жыл бұрын

    Im so glad my boyfriend's mom is giving us alot of stuff such as a washing machine, couch, table and chairs, coffee table, shelfs, pots and pans, cooking utensils, towels etc. I really appreciate her ☺️

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow that’s amazing!!

  • @leslyej1274
    @leslyej12743 жыл бұрын

    I just moved out and starting from scratch also and man oh man it is a trip....school definitely does not prepare you for this

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    It really doesn’t!!!

  • @leslyej1274

    @leslyej1274

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CairaButton oh how i wish I was a child again

  • @b1njjj95

    @b1njjj95

    3 жыл бұрын

    School doesn't even guarantee you a job that pays you enough so that you can *AFFORD* to move out.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@b1njjj95 Unfortunately so true

  • @enriqueduran5215

    @enriqueduran5215

    3 жыл бұрын

    You- how do I do my taxes? Middle/high school- stfu and square dance.

  • @ayla8345
    @ayla83453 жыл бұрын

    I’m so jealous of people who live with their partner. It’s so much cheaper, split rent, bills etc. I gotta do this shit all by myself 😭

  • @lia507
    @lia5073 жыл бұрын

    Me wanting to move out: After seeing this: nvm

  • @alexa.sanchez

    @alexa.sanchez

    3 жыл бұрын

    literally thoooo

  • @jonathand.phoenix

    @jonathand.phoenix

    3 жыл бұрын

    I mean I already know it's gonna feel like hell for a while but if it'll get me away from my family I'm willing to face it head on

  • @JerrenAnnah

    @JerrenAnnah

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jonathand.phoenix ugh sameee. My mom is so toxic I cant stand her anymore! We're heading into a new year (2021) and I still feel so trapped, so lost, so confused about everything. My brain has been wired by her manipulation, her narcissism and selfish commands. I can't live like this anymore. It's so depressing, so draining, so tiring 😞

  • @--BACKTFUP

    @--BACKTFUP

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JerrenAnnah same

  • @JerrenAnnah

    @JerrenAnnah

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@--BACKTFUP I hope we can all be saved bc damn 😭 Ain't none of us deserve this 😭💔

  • @user-hs7wk7bn3g
    @user-hs7wk7bn3g3 жыл бұрын

    Ugh 😫 why is living my life so fricking expensive.

  • @ArcaniaSkyPirateDen9516

    @ArcaniaSkyPirateDen9516

    3 жыл бұрын

    Especially NYC.

  • @faerietailss

    @faerietailss

    3 жыл бұрын

    exactly. i just wanna live but its so expensive to just LIVE,

  • @uniquekid401

    @uniquekid401

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@faerietailss Yep, it's like a game society's built that you have to beat

  • @gojomybiasfr

    @gojomybiasfr

    3 жыл бұрын

    I couldn’t tell ya love~

  • @OfficialSilverMoon

    @OfficialSilverMoon

    3 жыл бұрын

    My parents tell me that in their country, housing was free, meals were free, healthcare was free, university was free and you always got a job after graduation but they say that they were naïve back then and didn't appreciate what they had and believed too much of what western movies and tv shows portrayed and lost it all in the 90s. Now they still have to work to support themselves but if they lived in their previous country before their system changed they would've been retired and on pension for 6 years already.

  • @kyanavega
    @kyanavega3 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate this so much, some people think this is stuff we should already know but schools don’t talk about it and parents don’t want you to grow up too fast. So I’ll be keeping all of this in a notebook 💞💞thank you

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right?? I wish things like this and how to do your taxes were taught in school😓

  • @kyanavega

    @kyanavega

    3 жыл бұрын

    Caira Button honestly like ugh🙄🙄🙄

  • @cananary
    @cananary2 жыл бұрын

    Good places to shop for cheap decor: dollar tree, 5 below, goodwill/thrift stores, Walmart not really target cuz it’s expensive, Tuesday morning (if you have it in your town).

  • @Ana.Forlin
    @Ana.Forlin3 жыл бұрын

    I found that the chores to be the easiest part. I had fewer chores living alone than living with my husband, lol. Now that I'm disabled, he has to do all the chores (and he doesn't).

  • @b1njjj95

    @b1njjj95

    3 жыл бұрын

    My mother's husband whines like a little bitch whenever he's asked to do the bare minimum, and that just makes me hate him even more. So I know living on my own will limit the amount of chores I have to do, because I won't be expected to do more work around the house to accommodate his lazy, pathetic ass! 🙃

  • @daryeusford9696

    @daryeusford9696

    3 жыл бұрын

    b1njjj95 😂😂fr

  • @Ana.Forlin

    @Ana.Forlin

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@b1njjj95 Thankfully, my husband has gotten much better with chores ever since I became disabled. However, the unfortunate part is that now, he is the only one physically capable of doing them, and that does make things very hard. In an ideal world, we'd split chores 50/50 and work on them together. I don't miss doing chores; I just miss the sense of independence that came with being able to do everything on my own.

  • @soccerchick9841
    @soccerchick98413 жыл бұрын

    The best moving out video; I have came across. Save as much as possible, & as others have said get things from goodwill, target, Walmart, the dollar tree. your stuff does not have to be fancy.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yessss just get the basics! Thank you!

  • @kaleidojess
    @kaleidojess2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like I’ll be fine because I basically cook, pay some of the bills, do my own laundry, I’ve been buying most of what I own since I was in high school. I think it’s just taking me long to move out.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    Girl, you're ready! But i totally get it. Moving out can be totally scary and intimidating but it's one of those things that you just have to jump into!

  • @ItsBriNigguh

    @ItsBriNigguh

    Жыл бұрын

    Me asf

  • @AwuramaGlow
    @AwuramaGlow3 жыл бұрын

    YES YES YESS. Started living on my own and everything is expensive. Plus I think Walmart is the best way to go at first. If the products do not satisfy you, then I recommend Ikea.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes both two great spots to get started!

  • @MariaLunaDelRey
    @MariaLunaDelRey4 жыл бұрын

    You’re very well articulated and full of information. I also live in Chicago (Lakeview) and I’m looking for a studio to be on my own!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! Lakeview is so pretty!

  • @timthayer9365
    @timthayer93653 жыл бұрын

    Caira, I shared your video with my high school Financial Math classes today. We are in a unit discussing entry-level jobs and the cost of moving out. Your relatable video provides some real-world experience and information that just isn't found in textbooks. Thank you for sharing!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is the best comment ever! Thank you!! I was trying to think of what I would want to know before I moved out so I hope your students found it relatable!

  • @i._wish._we._never._met5894
    @i._wish._we._never._met58943 жыл бұрын

    Things I'ma do living alone: -use mostly paper stuff forks, plates,ect- -have over $5000- -keep bins for clothes in the bathroom - - have my apartment/house looking how I WANT IT-

  • @mikeylorenzio2076
    @mikeylorenzio20763 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for not making this a dramatic rant and just giving some food for thought!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you liked it!

  • @thefoodwench4848
    @thefoodwench48483 жыл бұрын

    Great video! I used thrift stores for my first apartment alone. I found vacuum cleaners, tv’s... cool ware, etc. even cheap vintage stuff. Also I had used furniture except my mattress.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! Thrift stores are the best🤍 even when I’m not living on such a tight budget I will still want to thrift!

  • @kingvgkidzay5670
    @kingvgkidzay56705 ай бұрын

    Starting off scratch too I see that everything adds up fast

  • @rocioroman5798
    @rocioroman57983 жыл бұрын

    It was the “where’s my lemon squeezer” for me omg amazing content 😂😂

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    HAHA RIGHT??😅

  • @lissalopes7717
    @lissalopes77173 жыл бұрын

    This sounds silly at first but it's actually VERY helpful!! I don't live in the US anymore but I remember that Dollar Tree had really good stuff too, so it's pretty good for saving some money

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! And yes the dollar store has some great stuff!

  • @BelowTheApron
    @BelowTheApron3 жыл бұрын

    Adulting , discouraging

  • @MaryArts
    @MaryArts2 жыл бұрын

    A Tip from me: Get an apartment close to a trainstation. You think you are tough, but you will have times in which you don't want to be alone and either travel to your parents, friends, or partner. You will have to get your luggage everywhere as fast and easy as possible. I ride the train every week cause I don't want to be alone in my apartment 24/7. I am so glad I only have to walk for like 10 minutes.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yessss such a good tip

  • @estrellassoliloquies
    @estrellassoliloquies3 жыл бұрын

    Not moving out anytime soon, but binge watching apartment tours bought me here, so why not! Bring it in lol

  • @gabyacosta1516
    @gabyacosta15163 жыл бұрын

    I've been doing chores since i was 15 so i think that part will be simple for me.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I’m sure that will come naturally to you!

  • @paulnellbaker9757
    @paulnellbaker97573 жыл бұрын

    Having a parter in life could help alot

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @se2664

    @se2664

    3 жыл бұрын

    not everyone has that luxury of a boyfriend or husband to provide for living expenses

  • @lisparrows7187

    @lisparrows7187

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true. I have that but I don’t want it. The troubles of being in a marriage or relationship are torturous. Rather make It on my own.

  • @irinasantomaginer7984
    @irinasantomaginer79843 жыл бұрын

    I’m moving out in may with my boyfriend, I’ll be 21 and he’ll be 26 and I’m really excited and at the same time I’m nervous as heck. I’m watching on KZread vídeos like “kitchen organization hacks” “how to decorate your apartment on a budget” “what is really like moving out with your partner, like seriously” and things like that lmao. I’m so exited. Btw, sorry for my English, I’m from Spain.😅

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay!! That’s so exciting!! Also your English is great!!!

  • @mustafiya3217
    @mustafiya32173 жыл бұрын

    THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING , WISH ME LUCK YALL!!!

  • @kayleeallbright4758
    @kayleeallbright47583 жыл бұрын

    This is helping so much, youre amazing. Thank you!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay so glad you liked it!

  • @jazr7997
    @jazr79973 жыл бұрын

    Thank you this was so helpful. I can’t wait to start my journey 😊❤️🙌🏾

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! Good luck!

  • @joygilbert-yf7tw
    @joygilbert-yf7tw Жыл бұрын

    I’m 19 and looking to move out on my own soon. This video is very helpful and answered so many of my questions. If anyone has more tips I’d love to hear them.

  • @meganenlow6256
    @meganenlow62563 жыл бұрын

    Moving out in July and just found a 60inch tv and tv stand for $300 on Facebook 👏👏👏👏

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesssssss🤩

  • @ernestogomezjr6322
    @ernestogomezjr63223 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. I move out in less than a year and I am so excited yet so terrified

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s seriously the best! I’m sure you’ll love it.

  • @nikovia1943
    @nikovia19432 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the advice! ❤️

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's what I'm here for 😊

  • 3 жыл бұрын

    love this! love the points you made, match with most of mine! I'm going to rent my own place in a couple weeks if everything goes with my plan and I just can't wait! all the best with your KZread journey, Caira!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! Good luck with your move!

  • @42GG0T
    @42GG0T3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. First time moving out to be a FT Disney Cast Member. Thank you for explaining and not lecturing. I appreciate your honedty. Made me really thinl of where i am headed financially. I do and will definitely havw so issues becoming tighty.but that will part of my job now. Lol. So i guess ill get paid to learn. Lol

  • @evelyntaylor5459
    @evelyntaylor54593 жыл бұрын

    6.30 VERY, VERY IMPORTANT!!!! Especially for young women. Thanks for including this one

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I think it’s so important

  • @missmann9327
    @missmann93272 жыл бұрын

    living alone is the best. been doing it for almost 30 years. i refuse to live any other way.

  • @jameshan.135
    @jameshan.1353 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for this video 🤍 it was nice and straight forward, so informative.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! So glad it helped!

  • @breannesoto
    @breannesoto4 жыл бұрын

    Posted this the day that I've begun my apartment tours!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    4 жыл бұрын

    So exciting!!!

  • @happythoughts559
    @happythoughts5593 жыл бұрын

    Another tip: look for unfinished furniture with on Ebay, Facebook marketplace or a local shop. You can find cheap but very good quality furniture if you buy it unfinished. Plus, you can paint it yourself and have fun! Also, flea markets and thrift stores are the best for all those little ticks-tacky stuff like towels, dishrags, cutlery, and such.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes such good advice!

  • @madelyngabrieles80
    @madelyngabrieles803 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Very timely video.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay! I hope it helped❤️

  • @hellawavyent.1440
    @hellawavyent.14403 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, this provided a lot of info that I didn’t even think about👍🏼

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad this helped!

  • @GraceO655
    @GraceO6553 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the advice ♥️

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Of course!!

  • @evaahhvj
    @evaahhvj3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! This video helped a lot.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay! Glad it helped🥰

  • @nyedueldiew1907
    @nyedueldiew1907 Жыл бұрын

    this is so helpful!!

  • @salyaazsadik3227
    @salyaazsadik32272 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this ill be moving soon 🤝🏼💯

  • @carerforever2118
    @carerforever21183 жыл бұрын

    G'day from Melbourne, Australia 🦘🇦🇺😁👍 I'm 44 and still living at home looking after my 72yo Schziophrenic mother whom can't walk and my 54yo brother whom is also ill. I cook meals for myself and for them. I pay my own bills and their bills too, l pay them online, and do the grocery shopping online too. I do the dishes and laundry work. At times , l feel like l've already moved out lol

  • @valentinewong6783
    @valentinewong67833 жыл бұрын

    Agree with every single thing you said, especially the bills and household items!😩

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesss🙌🏼

  • @estherbyoona1572
    @estherbyoona15722 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for the tips

  • @nitinmarksman6560
    @nitinmarksman65603 жыл бұрын

    Thanks my parents are kicking me out at 16 . i loved too see this .. Love from Canada

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good luck to you🤍

  • @davidisawesome8149

    @davidisawesome8149

    3 жыл бұрын

    I believe your parents legally have to support you financially until the age of 18

  • @bernie5357

    @bernie5357

    3 жыл бұрын

    David IsAwesome u can get kicked out at 16 in Canada

  • @IbarraAlejandro

    @IbarraAlejandro

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davidisawesome8149 parents can kick you out even at 15 here in my country some don't care.

  • @deed6141

    @deed6141

    3 жыл бұрын

    My household is kind of abusive so I’m planning to move out as soon as I can with my dog (i’m 15 and from canada :/)

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome advice

  • @beepbopboop2446
    @beepbopboop24463 жыл бұрын

    Something I'm terrified of is being alone. Like, all my friends are online, and if I move I won't have my family, so unless I make friends at work or something I will be alone 100% of the time. And that scares me, because at college I had a mental breakdown due to being alone (granted I was screwed over by some people, but the gist of it was that I was so alone). Anyone who has moved out, and maybe didn't make friends right away/yet, are you still okay? Will I be okay?

  • @whocares92yes18

    @whocares92yes18

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way as you! And I’ve gone through the exact same thing! I want to move to a different state but. I know how it feels to be depressed and completely alone and I’m terrified of that feeling returning. What’s good is that you can always move back home or closer to family if you don’t like it

  • @TalanaJordan
    @TalanaJordan4 жыл бұрын

    such a cute video!! you have such a pretty smile!🤗

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you💕💕

  • @TalanaJordan

    @TalanaJordan

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@CairaButton awh of course!! btw i just subbed to youu!!💗

  • @KarlaZel
    @KarlaZel7 ай бұрын

    Great advice! All true although you forgot to mention how overwhelming packing and unpacking can be lol 😬

  • @savannahbrandt44
    @savannahbrandt443 жыл бұрын

    Big tip write down everything you need then on the top write Walmart, Target, TJMaxx (etc) compare prices of things. Yes it takes a while but doing this saved me sooo much money. Also buy things in increments instead of at once.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes such a good tip!!!

  • @YourMessenger
    @YourMessenger4 жыл бұрын

    "Lemon Squeezer" made me laugh out loud. : 0 ) Great video and such important things to think about. Honestly though, if everyone knew what it really takes to be independent today, they might never leave their parents basement!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is so true😂😂

  • @daimonaethomas8194

    @daimonaethomas8194

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea if everyone had good parents

  • @MsSunshineElephant
    @MsSunshineElephant3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video!!!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad it helped!❤️

  • @ratriot6729
    @ratriot67293 жыл бұрын

    if you’re walking around an area at night to simply see if you feel safe don’t.. don’t do that?? alone??

  • @MaryArts
    @MaryArts2 жыл бұрын

    I thought most people have no chance but to move out and live alone when they start working after school or go to university. I just said: "Ok, time to get out of here" with 18 and since then I lived alone (I am 24). Of course I want to get an apartment with my boyfriend when the time has come after finishing university. And your tips would have really helped me back then. I am afraid if I move in with my boyfriend, I will be unable to handle not doing everything like I used to when living alone. Eating on the couch, dishes in the sink, having EVERYTHING organized by me. Having furniture only I have to love. Having my posters not hanging everywhere...

  • @phosoa8965

    @phosoa8965

    2 жыл бұрын

    he can still be your boyfriend, you don't have to move in with him, it probably ruin your relationship over time, remember everyone needs their own space, and ir ur worried about kids down the line, i think they would find it cool they could bounce between mum and dad's place and get to know them separately and choose who they wanna live with at certain important milestone age's i had the privilege of that and wish everybody had the same defo gave my travel bug a kickstart even though they only lived 30mins apart

  • @MaryArts

    @MaryArts

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@phosoa8965 Yet I want to see him everyday. Maybe ee can get two apartments in one house and he has his own furniture, bedroom and such and I have mine. And when we like I go to his place and him to my place in a blink of an eye :D

  • @phosoa8965

    @phosoa8965

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MaryArts sounds like a great plan, ive had a similar idea in my head before but with other family members. i think you should try make it happen at least you won't have to worry about ur neighbour as much. i worry about my neighbours too much in a good way though lool good luck!!

  • @alilaomondi
    @alilaomondi3 жыл бұрын

    I like this!

  • @MarsellaFyngold
    @MarsellaFyngold4 ай бұрын

    Oh man. I cannot stress enough how much of your time, energy, and mental space goes into food. Thinking about "what am I gonna eat" and planning groceries, and thinking up food to make bc you're getting bored of what you've been eating and budgeting for food. . . . it's like. . . . . 80% of your life as an adult until you get it down on lock, and even then it's still like. . . . 40-75% of your time and energy XD (More for those of us who really like food, a bit less if you're one of those people who can eat the same thing for weeks and weeks and weeks on end).

  • @Kaiya_gsd_
    @Kaiya_gsd_3 жыл бұрын

    Living in California- rent 1500 make 4,500 a month, gotcha.

  • @hanacesar3766

    @hanacesar3766

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right 😭

  • @mayramedina7754

    @mayramedina7754

    3 жыл бұрын

    I found an apartment for 1,695 in a good area and now I’m thinking about how it’s going to all add up 😭😭

  • @ty-leslienitto841
    @ty-leslienitto8413 жыл бұрын

    Im moving out on my own very soon. I just got a place for $200 a week and it's actually pretty good and a very spacious open apartment. It's gonna be fun seeing how well I go budgeting and stuff lol like I have never been bad with money but when I have extra I also spend it. I guess that stops now lol

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s a good time to learn!

  • @audreysandlin1462
    @audreysandlin14624 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this vid!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    4 жыл бұрын

    You bet!

  • @amberwalker298
    @amberwalker2983 жыл бұрын

    I found a living room table and kitchen chairs on Facebook market place all under 15$

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s AWESOME!!!

  • @jazmineotey5619

    @jazmineotey5619

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so smart!

  • @netogeraldelli
    @netogeraldelli Жыл бұрын

    omg, thank you a lot, i just started thinking about to moving to my own place, so i did know nothing about moving haha. Thanks

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad this helped!

  • @user-es1kk8pd5j
    @user-es1kk8pd5j3 жыл бұрын

    This was so helpful, thank you!! 💖

  • @nyonyachar4513
    @nyonyachar45133 жыл бұрын

    im so like youu... im an extrovert but i like having a personal private space

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!

  • @alilaomondi
    @alilaomondi3 жыл бұрын

    "Why is there hot sauce on my bed?" haha Awesome video!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    😅😅I’m a mess

  • @khaijuar9361
    @khaijuar9361 Жыл бұрын

    Another big thing, see if your area has a food pantry. or even if your in college sometimes they have those. It can save you a lot of money on groceries.

  • @artaza99
    @artaza992 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video :)

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so so welcome! I'm glad it was able to help!

  • @GEAUXFRUGAL
    @GEAUXFRUGAL3 жыл бұрын

    If you are young and have options for your car if you get a hybrid you can live a lot more affordably than renting an apartment. Many youth want to explore more and rather not be attached to an area by an apartment. Commuting seems neat at first but it grinds your money down , it opens you up to expenses that you can easily avoid. Think about it let's say you have a decent commute 30 min ? 5X a week you just waisted 5 hours that week you could have spent cooking, Looking for better deals , exercising , taking a shower at the gym. Let's say you took an hour a day cleaning copper from discarded appliances. You can A make a couple of bucks saving resources from the landfill , B learn how to fix things ,C market parts for greater return D do something proactive with that hour that didn't cause your money to go in the other direction. When you get where you can repair things you are going to look at the world different. Instead of rent a center or incurring debt buying expensive new stuff designed to break on time, you repair a washing machine or dryer or ... I never go to a laundry mat , too expensive. I do 2 loads a week whites,colors . I don't throw away a dryer unless it's designed to fail on a prescribed regular basis. I bought a new dryer and it broke 2 years later ,2 years later I same part broke same price for the part $40 at that rate I'll have paid for another new one. I looked for a used dryer that had a better reputation. Paid $50 for it 5 year's later that dryer was still going without one single breakdown. I sold the one I repaired for $50. I'm recommending living out your car . Renting a more affordable (LOCATED NEAR YOUR INTEREST ) storage unit .So your car isn't broken into each time you snag a shower you keep valuables locked in the storage ,and your car isn't being progressively destroyed in meaningless stop and go traffic on a daily ARBATRARY commute. Storage unit so you can have a car that is ready to do side hustle like delivery , buying and selling , etc. You also want to get a personal investment agent. I'm here to tell you that if you don't put your extra money to work it will evaporate. Just the way life is. What I propose is you find a investment advisor through Dave Ramsey. Whatever you want to do is approachable if you A know yourself and B are prepared for who you are going to become. I much prefer you to do 5 years this way when you have unbridled ambition. To apply your hard work in investment vs rent. At the end of 5 years you could have money to start a franchise, to start a family , to buy a home the right way. 20% down 15 years pay off. Some will be wise enough to homestead and pay cash for their property ,build their own or convert shipping containers to housing. Learn a trade for Christ sake sure you can get an education and be an Indian chief but if you become a good earning brave you can start your own tribe. Should have could have would have. I'm guilty. Recently I was in a divorcerape. 17 years catering to a woman that all along was using me to raise her daughter. I met her she had a 6 month old daughter. They moved out 6 months before graduation with honors. I had trusted her with all the money. A lot of money. She stole over 80K from me. Some would say that all you saved ? I will tell you do that end up debt free and raising a kid. We started from below nothing. Rather not go into the hard times but we got a home worked hard paid it off and had good reliable automobiles. We were all set to be empty nesters , well I was , she was all set to destroy all we created so she could steal it all. How can that happen to me? Well she struck first and had access to everything. I know you say get a lawyer ? She had a lawyer easy to do when you are using money your husband earned to destroy the him. I went to hire a lawyer and every one of them wanted $10 K CASH UP FRONT TO START !!! I was ambushed never thought anybody I was so graciousious to would have such a black heart. I ended up with $25 K and a good car. To restart my life. I bought my home , a RV I planned to live in etc. Well this City comes in and says you get caught sleeping in the camper you are going to have to move the Camper off your land. That's the way they are zoned , they are so greedy if you build a birdhouse they probably want a permit and inspection. It's not a total loss. I live 2 min from Walmart and everything else I need. Utilities never get over $100 a month and as low as $60. Water , Sewer, power, garbage , trash service too. Sorry but it just earks me to have to go to people that are here only because we are here and they are telling us what we can and can't do on property we own. I don't really own this if I did I would have already done so much , SPENT SO MUCH (they really hurt the economy) building my new home. Sadly I'm going to end up selling this place. The way it's looking so far I'll probably have to just walk away. The population is declining and it has everything to do with the oil industry being destroyed by low prices. And this city not being flexible enough to change with the times. I go all over the place I get that so I'm going to share this last thought. Better is a problem before it occurs than the end of it afterwards. Better to get as many facts before you enter a relationship, purchase , commitment . Need to learn who are or aren't. You can sculpt your life you can settle many places around the world , or ... It's all up to you. Safely you can bust your ass 5 year's and nearly set for life if you learn how to get to the ends vs taking all the paths to the ends. Maybe my town will chill and work something out where I can do with I need or I might walk and just restart some place else without the bean counters. I would sound much better if my divorcerapists didn't repay all my good deeds with evil. Sadly I have come to learn this doesn't just happen there is a game plan a prescribed step by step gold diggers take to mine assets out of a man , monkey branch to another and repeat the process. Sad but true.

  • @linareese7841
    @linareese78412 жыл бұрын

    I'm thinking about moving out on my own

  • @sowhatalone908
    @sowhatalone9083 жыл бұрын

    plan to move out soon

  • @AnonymousUser-mk6ze
    @AnonymousUser-mk6ze3 жыл бұрын

    I'm watching this still in high school like maybe I don't want to grow up

  • @xdjames144
    @xdjames1443 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hope it helped!❤️

  • @lisettegutierrez7132
    @lisettegutierrez71322 жыл бұрын

    I’m a grad from ASU too😃

  • @amareinari7407
    @amareinari74072 жыл бұрын

    Moved up and out of my home state!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's amazing! You should be proud of yourself! It's not an easy thing but once you do this, you're capable of getting through anything!

  • @nicolee9090
    @nicolee90903 жыл бұрын

    $500.... I wish

  • @dianaval6082

    @dianaval6082

    3 жыл бұрын

    In New York i could never :(

  • @painted_roses8129
    @painted_roses81293 жыл бұрын

    The dollar tree, dollar general, or daiso if you have that in your area are also good

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oooooh yes good suggestions.

  • @randompotato2830
    @randompotato28303 жыл бұрын

    I'm 16, and I wanna live alone so bad But I don't have enough money😭

  • @skylarfly314

    @skylarfly314

    3 жыл бұрын

    You should definitely work and start saving up :) I’m 16 too (I turn 17 in 2 months) and I’m starting my first day at work tmr so I can save up and move

  • @molahselulan8992

    @molahselulan8992

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m 14 turning 15 in 2 months and I just wanna be prepared by then so I’m taking notes early and getting informed. Even though I’ll probably move out when I’m 20. I wanna adopt when I’m like 25 so I really have to make sure I’m financially stable by then

  • @rosinamerola3416

    @rosinamerola3416

    3 жыл бұрын

    ​@@molahselulan8992 adopting is a really difficult process, it can take a really long time and I highly doubt it ill be made easier for someone as young. And by the time you are 25 your idea probably changed. you might think you will have it figured out by then. Its awesome to have clear objectives and plan ahead but I wanted to let you know that you are way too young to imagine realistically how things will turn out, so don't feel like a failure if you get to 25 and it isnt what you pictured. Work towards it, but if it isn't there yet, its fine. I'm telling you this because it would have saved me a lot of frustration with myself to know that. Somethings we cant control and you cant plan ahead them.

  • @gwendolynrobinson3900
    @gwendolynrobinson39002 жыл бұрын

    Do not be afraid to ask people if there's any furniture they want to get rid of or give to you. Don't break your bank trying to get a dresser. Hand me downs are a great place to start. My parents are letting me take all the furniture in my room that used to belong to them, they're basically letting me take whatever I want from the rest of the house that they've owned for 15+ years and kinda want to replace anyhow. I'm very blessed in that sense that they offer it to me, but if your parents haven't then just ask if there's anything they're okay with parting with. Ask your neighbors or friends or other relatives. You don't have to hold onto them forever, they don't have to match, but some things like a sofa or bedframe or dresser will make you very happy to have straight off the bat.

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!!! When we first moved in we had a family friend give us a ton of furniture! It was amazing!

  • @malloryrenae3315
    @malloryrenae33153 жыл бұрын

    Okay so what I’m trying to figure out is how as a recent collage grad were you making 3x the rent? That’s why I’m at home 😂

  • @katie228_
    @katie228_3 жыл бұрын

    Me, underage and broke, years away from moving out: take notes

  • @anthropomorphizedrock
    @anthropomorphizedrock3 жыл бұрын

    Lol I've been cooking, cleaning, and doing the laundry for my parents since I came back home. They already paid off the house so basically the only thing they've been doing for me is paying for taxes

  • @lasagnabonYT
    @lasagnabonYT3 жыл бұрын

    I’m watching this from California like where the $500 apartments at? 👁👄👁

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girl idk but if you find out let me know!

  • @emilierose
    @emilierose3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @EriclynMarlene
    @EriclynMarlene3 жыл бұрын

    If you're reading this, a quick reminder never to give up, keep being you, stay safe, and I sincerely pray all your dreams to come true, as much as I pray my KZread dream come true 🙏🏾💗

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love this so much! Keep working towards your dream!

  • @EriclynMarlene

    @EriclynMarlene

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CairaButton thank you💗

  • @thelittlelizzie
    @thelittlelizzie2 жыл бұрын

    I’m usually a clean person and I just like to be clean

  • @VanessaBeautifulChaos
    @VanessaBeautifulChaos3 жыл бұрын

    Do a part2

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am planning it right now!

  • @FrogBean333
    @FrogBean333 Жыл бұрын

    I put in an application for my first apartment 4 weeks ago today. It’s getting ridiculous at this point! The place I’m in now with my parents it took 2 days for them to hear back. 4 weeks? I’m about to just say screw it and apply for a new place. It’s genuinely annoying.

  • @ambybamby9
    @ambybamby93 жыл бұрын

    I'm moving out for the first time and I'm gonna dog walk on wag!

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Such a great way to make money!

  • @jackalope8810
    @jackalope88103 жыл бұрын

    what if you're 15 and you are curious about what moving out is like and what is like from other people?

  • @thisisaaliyah2091
    @thisisaaliyah20913 жыл бұрын

    I hear small space I subscribe

  • @CairaButton

    @CairaButton

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes 🙌🏼 🙌🏼

  • @crayons1584
    @crayons15842 жыл бұрын

    Wish I liked other people enough to live with them, but I just want to be alone. I hate how expensive it is for one person

  • @staramoth
    @staramoth3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 14, I still have four years.. so poopy

  • @ArcaniaSkyPirateDen9516

    @ArcaniaSkyPirateDen9516

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel you.

  • @lecki-

    @lecki-

    3 жыл бұрын

    at 16 you can get emancipated if your parents sign for it.

  • @staramoth

    @staramoth

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lecki- yeah, I'm not really interested in emancipation tho

  • @autumnreigns407

    @autumnreigns407

    3 жыл бұрын

    I plan on emancipation in about 2 years😝🥰 I have a consistently pay job, and I’m ready so start...

  • @altiv8108

    @altiv8108

    3 жыл бұрын

    Start saving now baby all the little money will help you out later

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