WHO You're Attracted REVEALS A Lot About You

Do you ever notice yourself being drawn to specific people, crushes or l relationships, and you're not quite sure why? Whether it's certain personality traits, physical features, or shared interests that attract you, there's usually more to it than meets the eye.
If you're curious about what really drives these attractions and want some valuable insights into yourself, make sure not to miss this video.
We made a PART 1 video on this, and many of you related to the video, so here's PART 2!
Who You're Attracted To Says A Lot About You! Part 1: • Who You're Attracted t...
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
Animator: Sun Biscuit

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go6 ай бұрын

    After watching this video, who do you think you attracted to? Comment below!

  • @kristinfedoruk5859

    @kristinfedoruk5859

    6 ай бұрын

    Just confused..mainly attracted to narcissists..

  • @Hannahcats

    @Hannahcats

    6 ай бұрын

    I think I might be a mix but I am mostly in to people older than me because I think am wiser than most of my peers my age

  • @TheQuietKid452

    @TheQuietKid452

    6 ай бұрын

    No one 😅

  • @Steve24527

    @Steve24527

    6 ай бұрын

    Back in October I asked my gym crush out and she said…Sorry I have a boyfriend and I replied that’s ok I totally understand but added I just felt a connection (probably shouldn’t of added that) Anyway seen her 4-5 times in gym since and she ignores me or pretends not to see me and one time turned her head when we passed almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there’s a chance that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? I make sure I’m On the opposite end of the gym now and don’t make eye contact But I must admit I do feel hurt as it’s rare I find a girl that attractive ie maybe once every 3-4 years! I’m told I’m a good looking guy who looks a lot younger I would just like to know if she at least secretly likes me back? She was in the gym today and I was amazed that she used a couple of machines near me although we didn’t make eye contact! It’s been almost 3 months now and I still feel there’s a connection there but in auras at least! I’m not desperate and I’m capable of getting other girls but I can’t seem to forget this one for some reason! What do think?

  • @ilrockstarxl5041

    @ilrockstarxl5041

    6 ай бұрын

    Im attracted to people introverts with some sorts of problem, the feeling of helping somebody just make me feel better, an easy thing thats starts me with mixed feelings is when i realise somebody has a “mask” and is hiding something.

  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor7 ай бұрын

    If you’re attracted to abusive or manipulative people, something is seriously wrong.

  • @Jelouse

    @Jelouse

    7 ай бұрын

    Nuh uh :3

  • @woahxen

    @woahxen

    7 ай бұрын

    first thing i see when i open the comments, this caught me so off guard😭

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes, it usually reflects a deeper wound/ trauma that is unresolved.

  • @ayanaremy

    @ayanaremy

    7 ай бұрын

    True tho-

  • @Luci_197

    @Luci_197

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Jelouse fym nuh uh-

  • @misaki2995
    @misaki29957 ай бұрын

    People you are attracted to: 0:35 younger 1:14 older 1:40 talented and creative 2:19 lone wolves 3:01 free spirit 3:31 social butterflies 4:10 strong and silent types 4:46 nurturers 5:14 life of the party

  • @sreemoyeeroygosthipaty3697

    @sreemoyeeroygosthipaty3697

    7 ай бұрын

    This was even more comprehensive than the first one. Love your contents ❤

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much :)

  • @The_mythical_shadysnake7668

    @The_mythical_shadysnake7668

    6 ай бұрын

    What if I'm attracted to all these personality means 😢?

  • @Monke-ri9pd

    @Monke-ri9pd

    6 ай бұрын

    @@The_mythical_shadysnake7668You're down bad, or just based

  • @random_citizenn

    @random_citizenn

    6 ай бұрын

    What if you’re attracted to more than one of these😭😭😭

  • @MissSirenita
    @MissSirenita6 ай бұрын

    I’m attracted to confidence above everything. Not sure what that would say about me 😅 but it’s so attractive. They don’t rely on putting others down or tearing people apart. They don’t rely on outside validation or constant compliments. I want more of that

  • @SirNether5000

    @SirNether5000

    6 ай бұрын

    Omg yes

  • @Drinkwater80095

    @Drinkwater80095

    6 ай бұрын

    What is your zodiac sign?

  • @SirNether5000

    @SirNether5000

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Drinkwater80095 Gemini

  • @charlottebuijteweg7160

    @charlottebuijteweg7160

    6 ай бұрын

    I was just going to comment the same thing!

  • @user-ik7xq1pb6s

    @user-ik7xq1pb6s

    5 ай бұрын

    Yep that's how women work

  • @MadelineMiron
    @MadelineMiron7 ай бұрын

    Jungkook is everywhere😭😭😭

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    Jungkook's popularity knows no bounds! 😄 We love him

  • @ayushmaina8372

    @ayushmaina8372

    7 ай бұрын

    Who is junkook? 🙃

  • @mochichan-tz2tn

    @mochichan-tz2tn

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ayushmaina8372 Its jungkook, he's a member of bts

  • @mochichan-tz2tn

    @mochichan-tz2tn

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Psych2go Indeed!

  • @mochichan-tz2tn

    @mochichan-tz2tn

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ayushmaina8372 no problem

  • @Lilyofwords
    @Lilyofwords6 ай бұрын

    Ok whoever drew this art is definitely ARMY😂💜

  • @unicorniodonut1295
    @unicorniodonut12956 ай бұрын

    Team that likes older people 😢😅😂👇:

  • @Mortablunt

    @Mortablunt

    3 ай бұрын

    MILFing Man!

  • @bastionsea2829
    @bastionsea28296 ай бұрын

    I didn't consider the youthful excitement as a reason for liking to surround myself with those younger than me, I just thought it was about the childhood I didn't get growing up

  • @blueshepard1656

    @blueshepard1656

    6 ай бұрын

    It could be linked!! One thing is not final, each thing is linked to something that happened in your life

  • @bastionsea2829

    @bastionsea2829

    6 ай бұрын

    I was born in the transition of the technology age, so I was affected by that mindset. Most people around my age or older generally don't understand technology, so I reach for the younger ones 'cause they actually understand

  • @chloechalamet3886

    @chloechalamet3886

    6 ай бұрын

    Damn. That could be one, too...

  • @136BTS77-_-
    @136BTS77-_-7 ай бұрын

    THE BTS PART🖤🩵

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    YASS!

  • @childkillers_shouldve_NoState

    @childkillers_shouldve_NoState

    5 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @muslimwarrior9891

    @muslimwarrior9891

    3 ай бұрын

    Sleeyyy

  • @ahonadhar

    @ahonadhar

    18 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊😊😊

  • @suzanadsuza4819
    @suzanadsuza48197 ай бұрын

    People you are attracted to : Younger than you : 0:34 Older than you : 1:11 Talented and creative people : 1:39 Lone wolves : 2:18 Free spirit : 3:00 Social butterflies: 3:28 Strong and Silent : 4:10 Nurturers : 4:44 Life of the party: 5:13 Hope it helps :)

  • @jojosdjojoraiki04
    @jojosdjojoraiki046 ай бұрын

    I'm attracted to almost everything you mentioned, let's just say they all have something that attracts me. I really liked the drawings on Jungkook, it made me laugh a little😂 Are there any ARMY here💜

  • @clarissepabon9164
    @clarissepabon91647 ай бұрын

    You can deff apply this to friendships too !!! 👏🏼

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    Which traits do you noticed most?

  • @glo_win

    @glo_win

    6 ай бұрын

    YES it was what I was thinking!!

  • @glo_win

    @glo_win

    6 ай бұрын

    For me it's the trait of the person who is open minded!! If I become Friend with this person, I feel more free to express what I want and try New things​@@Psych2go

  • @AprilAppledorn
    @AprilAppledorn4 ай бұрын

    I love how 정 국 is in here!!!💜

  • @pallavipandey2251
    @pallavipandey22517 ай бұрын

    They summoned whole BTS fandome by one thumbnail~ 💜💜 (Btw, Jungkook's clip art was cute)

  • @lunayeplatana2806
    @lunayeplatana28067 ай бұрын

    Could you guys please make a video on those of us who have never been chosen to be in a relationship

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    You can check out our previous video “signs you want to be single but your heart doesn’t “

  • @Raygeouspigeon
    @Raygeouspigeon6 ай бұрын

    I am attracted to talented, creative free spirits that are often the silent types, it’s already some essay about what that says about me. I love that series and I really got excited about JK performing euphoria in your video🙈

  • @crosssans987
    @crosssans9877 ай бұрын

    Thanks for taking care of my emotional health since young I love your vids!

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    You're welcome! Glad to hear you enjoy the videos. Anything specific you'd like to see more of?

  • @JustCallMeTiff.
    @JustCallMeTiff.6 ай бұрын

    after watching this video, i now see that i prefer quiet people over more social people. i can see that im friends with a lot of people who fit the nurturer/strong and silent types, i fit in very well with the nurturer type, nice video! :)

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n6 ай бұрын

    Timestamps 1). Younger than you 0:33 2). Older than you 1:11 3). Talented and creative 1:38 4). Lone wolves 2:18 5). Free spirit 3:00 6). Social butterflies 3:29 7). Strong and silent 4:09 8). Nurturing 4:45 9). Life of the party 5:12 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @Multiuniverse_FemaleYn
    @Multiuniverse_FemaleYn6 ай бұрын

    The creative and talented, along with the lone wolf was spot on

  • @sugarstar09
    @sugarstar096 ай бұрын

    I like older people, lone wolves and strong and silent types. Which in my opinion is kinda hard to find. You described me fairly well lol.

  • @timinator900

    @timinator900

    6 ай бұрын

    That's also me.... I'm a ISFJ-T, and at times, I seem quiet, alone and invested time with enjoying life to the fullest. I have no problem living by myself, because that's everyday of my life whenever I go to my classes. I can't make friends... but that's ok. Because deep down, I have family and I have God. Both are the most important people in my life, and I wouldn't give up anything for them to be a part of my life.

  • @dorinnew_life7245

    @dorinnew_life7245

    6 ай бұрын

    Then I matched all ur criteria. Lol! I like younger n intelligent people.

  • @dhsjfkrdkdkejfc

    @dhsjfkrdkdkejfc

    4 ай бұрын

    Same this is my type also

  • @YehudiNimol
    @YehudiNimol6 ай бұрын

    The "lone wolf" bit pretty much reflects my attraction to a tee. I really like shy girls, and I guess that "solving them" is part of the reason for that. It may also stem from my inferiority complex and the fact that I don't think I'm good enough for someone with a lot of friends, but whatever.

  • @chloechalamet3886

    @chloechalamet3886

    6 ай бұрын

    Ahhh, good insight. People do tend to go for those they see as "in their league," meaning that your attraction reflects your self-perception/self-esteem.

  • @ABC-gt4rd

    @ABC-gt4rd

    6 ай бұрын

    but guys go for above their league (ego-driven) and girls for under the league (sense of safety) @@chloechalamet3886

  • @karinanichols6062
    @karinanichols60627 ай бұрын

    OMG JK is everywhere 😭💜💜🇦🇺🇦🇺 BTS for life!

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    💜💜💜

  • @linhnguyenthihuyen3973
    @linhnguyenthihuyen39737 ай бұрын

    I love this series ❤

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    Glad you love it :) which one did you relate to?

  • @linhnguyenthihuyen3973

    @linhnguyenthihuyen3973

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Psych2go I think I'm quite related to the attraction toward older, strong, silent, and nurturing partners. I grew up in a hard circumstance and barely survived. I've learned that I need someone who can lead and teach me more about how to live a much more complete life, to learn etiquette and social norms since I've never had any proper relationship with people but rather animals. I also have difficulties coping with new environments and circumstances, so I'm truly hoping for a stable, safe, and mature partner. My ex-girlfriend also had these traits. She was very hardworking, very silent, sweet, and good at listening to others. We had been besties and then I had fallen for her before we knew it. She adores my creativity and told me that my talents, knowledge, and versatility charmed her.

  • @RyanNerdyGamer
    @RyanNerdyGamer7 ай бұрын

    What the…? Almost all these traits are ones I find attractive in others! 🤯 The age-based ones are a little trickier to define, though, since I tend to project as much younger at face value than my actual age (there’s no greater compliment or confidence boost than the other person accusing you of lying for claiming to be five or more years older than they think you are 😂).

  • @Nothereforit174

    @Nothereforit174

    6 ай бұрын

    It’s not tricky.you’re just making a thing out of something common

  • @MorgueInTheVoid
    @MorgueInTheVoid7 ай бұрын

    I'm attracted to people with a great sense of humor. As long as they can make me laugh, consider me blind because I couldn't care less what you look like as long as I'm gigglin 😂😂

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    Laughter is definitely a game-changer. What's the last thing that made you laugh uncontrollably?

  • @MorgueInTheVoid

    @MorgueInTheVoid

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Psych2go I didn't know how to answer this question without showing you what made me laugh uncontrollably so I'm uploading a short video right now to my channel so that you can laugh with me 😂🤍

  • @MorgueInTheVoid

    @MorgueInTheVoid

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Psych2go I just posted it, it's a video of one of my dogs so if you watch it, I hope he makes you laugh just as hard as I did 😂😂

  • @galanig4072
    @galanig40725 ай бұрын

    There are SO many easter eggs for army! It's like little drop of joy for me every time 😄💜

  • @Hobi-sunshine

    @Hobi-sunshine

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes,your totally right 🥹💜

  • @duckthe1_668
    @duckthe1_6687 ай бұрын

    I am still impressed that you manage to post a video every single day.

  • @nikisfavmopsunoo
    @nikisfavmopsunoo7 ай бұрын

    I was just watching your vids bcoz they teach alot and then i suddenly screames seeing jungkook! 😂❤ Jungkook is almost Around the whole world

  • @Bruhother16
    @Bruhother167 ай бұрын

    I never thought I'd see a part two of this

  • @onruticatnogard6713
    @onruticatnogard67135 ай бұрын

    Aww, 1:53 ¡¡Supertuna Jin!!! ¡Sí, amo a las personas creativas! Que lindo detalle que consideren a los bangtannies, mas cuando los extrañamos tanto. :')

  • @jasminherrera4249

    @jasminherrera4249

    4 ай бұрын

    Reee 💜😭

  • @bangtanmari
    @bangtanmari6 ай бұрын

    i get so excited when u incorporate bts in your videos it’s like my two worlds colliding lmaoo 😭

  • @Tulips313
    @Tulips3134 ай бұрын

    I'm always attracted to talented and creative people, I was thinking that a while ago, and after watching this video, it was confirmed to me that this is not only my observation. Every word that has been said describes me.

  • @user-uu3hx1ok2e
    @user-uu3hx1ok2e21 күн бұрын

    I loved the bts references. I've been a subscriber for a quite but never came across with this video until now, it was nice to see. Definitely identified with people attracted to talented and skillful people 🤭💜

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl64826 ай бұрын

    So cute! Love this 💕

  • @alicehong7809
    @alicehong78092 ай бұрын

    Love this series ❤

  • @lilixfive2307
    @lilixfive23076 ай бұрын

    I am attracted to talented and creative people, lone wolves and free spirits. All the reasons why I might be attracted to them are true. However, even though I am attracted to younger people, according to what you said I should definitely give a chance to older people x') but that's scary!!

  • @infinitycrap894
    @infinitycrap8947 ай бұрын

    I like nobody just mythology, then what of me?

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    Embracing a passion for mythology is unique and fascinating! What aspects of mythology do you find most captivating?

  • @sweetcherry7759
    @sweetcherry77596 ай бұрын

    The one a being into someone was legit spot on! I was legit surprised- that was fun ^^

  • @rh9377
    @rh93776 ай бұрын

    I entered this channel for mental health and to know myself better, found out that the other factor that made me start looking and take care of my mental health is here as well, BTS 😂 I💜U psy2go

  • @samuelmyllyaho6066
    @samuelmyllyaho60666 ай бұрын

    Great one! older and 'strong and silent' types! Kind of a lonewolf myself.

  • @mariannakitsopoulou1377
    @mariannakitsopoulou13776 ай бұрын

    Omg all these things about talented and creative... I saw myself in your words! ❤️

  • @Weskers_GF
    @Weskers_GF7 ай бұрын

    Wow okay, this is amazing because yesterday i posted a tiktok about how I'm always attracted to the same type of ppl

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    That's quite a coincidence! It's interesting how our attractions can be a recurring theme. What kind of responses did you get from your TikTok?

  • @Weskers_GF

    @Weskers_GF

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Psych2go someone said they felt the same, and it's kind of a weird thing to say the least, as it's out of the ordinary i think, I'm attracted to ppl i used to hate or despise (even w celebs or fictional characters lmao)

  • @psyduck2250
    @psyduck22506 ай бұрын

    Late but happy to be back here! ❤

  • @JungkookSwift
    @JungkookSwift6 ай бұрын

    🍃 Great video as always! If I can give a suggestion for futures content: “what people you attract says about you”. I think just as much as we are attracted to certain types of people, like these 2 parts disclosed well, we attract different types of people as well. And if you can develop on the aspect that, sometimes, the people we attract doesn’t match with the people we are attracted to. And possible reasons for that. 😊

  • @mysterytruck
    @mysterytruck6 ай бұрын

    yup definitely got it on the dot thank you for this fun videos

  • @geraldmcallister5413
    @geraldmcallister54136 ай бұрын

    This felt more like astrology logic than psychology

  • @Slow-zm5wv
    @Slow-zm5wv6 ай бұрын

    What if i always find myself attracted to academic types or really smart people? Could that be touched on in a future video?

  • @olyabutorina6869

    @olyabutorina6869

    6 ай бұрын

    You're amazed by smartness. And you want to feel less smarter than a person you like. That will make you feel protected, comfortable, feel that you have someone you can rely on. It's also a sign of your own high intelligence and that you're kinda fed up with stupidity around you. If you were in the environment of many very smart people for a long time, you would feel less attracted by the smartness itself and start to notice other characteristics. But it doesn't mean you would suddenly like stupidity 😅 you will just feel less stressed around ... less intelligent people.

  • @Slow-zm5wv

    @Slow-zm5wv

    6 ай бұрын

    @olyabutorina6869 I know I'm somewhat smart, but I'm not really fed up with people who aren't as smart (unless they're mean for no reason) but I do find myself enamored with people as smart as or smarter than me because it's really fun to have someone else around with a perspective I can trust. It's also not specifically intelligence that I'm attracted to. It seems it's, for lack of a better term, a prerequisite for me to be attracted than anything else.

  • @dorinnew_life7245

    @dorinnew_life7245

    6 ай бұрын

    This could be because, your parents always compared you to some other better kids, n u started worship them to be like them to satisfy ur parents.

  • @Slow-zm5wv

    @Slow-zm5wv

    6 ай бұрын

    @dorinnew_life7245 Shoot, I'm still a kid. I'm only turning 17 soon, and my parents never did compare me to others, so idk about that.

  • @MadisonsLovee133
    @MadisonsLovee1336 ай бұрын

    Jungkook is so famous like really he is everywhere 😮

  • @LST0202
    @LST020214 күн бұрын

    i love the talented and creative types, so I'm quite invested into artists and idols T_T

  • @johnwillis7674
    @johnwillis7674Ай бұрын

    Always loved older people; they never put me down or make me feel bad like kids in my school did. Most of my friends are in their 40s and 50s and I am only 25.

  • @SamaelDaViking
    @SamaelDaViking3 ай бұрын

    Definitely drawn too someone whos like a mix of Talented, Creative, Lone Wolf, free spirited, stong and silence who would be very nurturing in the relationship once they open up.

  • @ganyu_literally
    @ganyu_literally7 ай бұрын

    1:14 spot on!! this was too relatable

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    Glad you could relate! What about it hit home for you? 😄

  • @rbb5261
    @rbb52613 ай бұрын

    This actually helped me understand who I am as a person more than who I am attracted to.

  • @deannal.newton9772
    @deannal.newton97727 ай бұрын

    I find myself attracted to smart people.

  • @raydaher4209
    @raydaher42096 ай бұрын

    The content is getting better and better day after day. Amazing.

  • @princesserika9899
    @princesserika98996 ай бұрын

    I'm into people with talent and creativity, and it's quite true what it said about me or reflects about me. 😄

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000
    @lonewolfnergiganos40007 ай бұрын

    I don't attract people that much, but I did attract a small amount of people who are very cool, and that's enough for me really

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    Quality over quantity! It's great that you've connected with some cool individuals. What makes them stand out to you?

  • @rns6889

    @rns6889

    7 ай бұрын

    I have a feeling, your magnet only activates when you get more personal time with them no? Because that's what I get, I'm comfortable and open when it's more one on one time. Seems that most people I get that oppertunity with me are charmed.

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Psych2go they give me advices that I really need and they'll listen to what I have to say.

  • @kaylap8414
    @kaylap841422 сағат бұрын

    older, talented and creative, social butterflies, and nurturers were mine ! honestly if someone had all those qualities we need to get married immediately jejdj

  • @hrimbhavsar2752
    @hrimbhavsar27527 ай бұрын

    Our kookie is everywhere 😂

  • @metaouroboros6324
    @metaouroboros63244 ай бұрын

    I'm attracted to smart and and stubborn types, with a preference to introversion. And we've been married for 13yrs.

  • @chwrryisa21
    @chwrryisa216 ай бұрын

    THIS IS SO ACCURATE IT'S SCARY

  • @miry5766
    @miry57666 ай бұрын

    i m attracted to younger people because i m the mature , the protective , the healing one and my love language is taking care of the other one , even tho i m the weaker one physically . i have a mother like aura , that would be the reason , not that i am playful or youthful , i m actually calm and protective.

  • @kikito6718
    @kikito67187 ай бұрын

    This was awesome I guess im drawn to nurturers cause I am drawn to reliable people and empathetic people also strong and silent types What they say about me I am still thinking about it usually they want me to take the leadership role cause im reliable but I am gonna ask one of my friends to give you a little more detail on what they think

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    7 ай бұрын

    That’s good to know :) thanks for sharing! Did you share this video with your friends ?

  • @kikito6718

    @kikito6718

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@Psych2goHi I might be late but I will right now I've been hesitant because I'm very closed off with things I like but watching your videos gives me new perspectives each time just watched the Valentine's one today and it was super informative and hopeful I'm currently studying psychology and I get very excited when their are topics that are being thought at the same time sending love to the psych team wishing you all well ❤

  • @Rainedropsss
    @Rainedropsss6 ай бұрын

    Jung look just spawns anywhere and everywhere nowadays 😭

  • @AlexSpy3DS
    @AlexSpy3DS7 ай бұрын

    Ahhh... Sun Biscuit is a very nice animator :) Edit: I imagine my crush being a Free Spirit btw

  • @_itsjustcat
    @_itsjustcat5 ай бұрын

    Explanation on why someone might want an older partner is spot on

  • @survivorturnover
    @survivorturnover7 ай бұрын

    yeah lone wolves vibes tho longing for euphoria, nostalgia & sheer relatableness

  • @m1ntch0c0
    @m1ntch0c03 ай бұрын

    i just noticed a pattern in my irl or celebrity crushes, they're always extrovert guys who are charismatic and funny, but at the same time they have this creative, sensitive and calm side i believe i like this type of guys bc i'm very shy, awkward and quiet around people, but i'm also very anxious most of the time and i always have a need for comfort and calmness

  • @niasiamack9333
    @niasiamack93336 ай бұрын

    You've got my sense of humor

  • @HeyNattie
    @HeyNattie7 ай бұрын

    I think there is a significant difference between what we want and what we are drawn to. For example, I want someone who is social, but I usually end up with lone wolves. What the description of being drawn to a lone wolf is relates to me much more than the social one. Sometimes you can't really choose who attracts you.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    Absolutely, attraction can be complex and often defies our conscious preferences. It's interesting how the heart has its own compass. What do you think it is about lone wolves that draws you in despite the initial preference for social individuals?

  • @vanessa.nguyen

    @vanessa.nguyen

    6 ай бұрын

    Good point :)

  • @sarapellicioli2983
    @sarapellicioli29836 ай бұрын

    after this video guess we know who's an Army here haha and JK biased too at that. love it

  • @soraya101
    @soraya1012 ай бұрын

    i cant blame tony soprano now for his opinion on gary cooper 😭 that strong, silent type being those whose actions speak more than words is literally so attractive. even the older ones who can guide you through anything MAN they have my heart

  • @arcie3716
    @arcie37165 ай бұрын

    Me being attracted to social butterflies but also someone who's the strong silent type lol. Some of these types can cross over. I like how social butterflies can easily form bond but strong silent types are dependable. I'm attracted to both aspects.

  • @Luv_u284

    @Luv_u284

    5 ай бұрын

    fr fr i can't choose between those 2- i tht i was the only one omg thnxx

  • @crossroads7699
    @crossroads76996 ай бұрын

    But i love it when it’s Amanda’s voice 😔

  • @MultiSportTubee
    @MultiSportTubee6 ай бұрын

    great content

  • @crystalh656
    @crystalh6566 ай бұрын

    This voice i like. I miss the old voice but this one is almost as soothing❤

  • @jackiecastillo2484
    @jackiecastillo24846 ай бұрын

    Ya I like who I like them not for what they have but for what they are!❤

  • @lk7012
    @lk70126 ай бұрын

    I didnt really know what type of people I was attracted to. But as soon as you started talking about being attracted to lone wolves. I realisede that the person im attracted to right know is a lone wolf and the more you explained why it felt like you described exactly why im attracted to this person.

  • @user-so4pg7ni6l
    @user-so4pg7ni6l7 ай бұрын

    The whole video basically says "Who you are attracted to is who has what you desire but don't have "

  • @Remi-Toruzen

    @Remi-Toruzen

    6 ай бұрын

    Which is true as I myself have always been a hermit and trying to not be in the way or a burden. I am not a leader but enjoy company, quiet, emotional support and I want someone who can drag me out yet will be fine as I want to be share life and costs so I want to get this dinner or grocery trip since I offered. It’s hard expressing what I want with someone who won’t take initiative in life or has a desire and drive to learn and care which is how a relationship of 12 years ended because she wouldn’t better herself be it learn to drive or get above a job she was comfortable with but hates.

  • @Nothereforit174

    @Nothereforit174

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Remi-Toruzenyou have no right to be emotionally dependent on a woman and socially dysfunctional while telling her how she should be evolving. First off, if she was comfortable at the job, then mind your fckin business. Maybe she had something she was hoping to get out of stayin that made it worth it to her. She has the right to prioritize her comfort. It’s a job. Not a passion. Driving? That’s not even a skill everyone has and totally depends on if you had to drive her everywhere and if there were transportation options around your city. If there were, then you were just pressuring her to have the skill because YOU saw it as a necessity. People don’t have to to accept that and you don’t come out sounding good in this equation. You want to be a hermit and have someone be all supporting for you and keep you company, but then you can’t match it. Support isn’t dictating and ultimatums. And it’s always some dude who isn’t that impressive being overbearing to compensate for what he lacks through his poor female partner. You seem like the issue in that relationship. If all you have to offer is telling someone what to do while they’re expected to be quiet, emotionally supportive, company for you then you’re not worth being with. You should work on your social skills and leveling yourself up so you can focus on you more than what someone else does, and stop treating women like therapists. That’s not our job. You’re supposed to have a whole support system and it doesn’t start with us. You learn coping skills, have a therapist if needed, spirituality, family, friends, figure it out

  • @aidan465
    @aidan4654 ай бұрын

    i relate with this alot

  • @FregTheFroggo
    @FregTheFroggo6 ай бұрын

    i see jungkook, i click

  • @tylerg.2599
    @tylerg.25994 ай бұрын

    What do the people I’m attracted to say about me? They usually say they only see me as a friend for starters.

  • @sniper74839
    @sniper74839Ай бұрын

    Strong and silent ❤

  • @mosesa.weaver3058
    @mosesa.weaver30586 ай бұрын

    Genuine question: What does it say about me when I want *most* or *ALL* of these traits… but in one person/partner?

  • @cureswound

    @cureswound

    6 ай бұрын

    u want to feel everything?

  • @mosesa.weaver3058

    @mosesa.weaver3058

    6 ай бұрын

    @@cureswound Well… yeah!👍

  • @lqdyd4856

    @lqdyd4856

    6 ай бұрын

    You're probably secretly jealous about every single person in a book but you will never admit it and you want the perfect y/n life... 😀👍 (THIS IS A JOKE)

  • @rutht.blehblehbleh4077

    @rutht.blehblehbleh4077

    6 ай бұрын

    genuine response: You're indecisive ( you want all traits in your partner but realistically no one's gonna have them all) or you're a perfectionist (because you want your partner to have all the traits).

  • @blueshepard1656

    @blueshepard1656

    6 ай бұрын

    I'd say that you are a very balanced person and you want someone that is like you. That mostly chooses things depends on "the mood" and not because you have a certain type that you must follow. It might seem hard to find someone like that but it's not impossible! After all, you Are that person to someone else. So you might as well find someone like that for you.

  • @HtujJghjj-fv3sc
    @HtujJghjj-fv3sc28 күн бұрын

    I love aspiring confident people some categories include rash dumb but kind hearted angry short temper but keeps no grudges loud and helpful .cant just stand people who stand like a statue when something happens.❤

  • @Jujustar8
    @Jujustar82 ай бұрын

    I love the strong and silent kind of people 🙆‍♀️

  • @mybiggestlovejungkook
    @mybiggestlovejungkook7 ай бұрын

    I saw Jungkook i clicked 😂❤

  • @093_soundaryakose3
    @093_soundaryakose36 ай бұрын

    THE EDITOR IS SURELY AN ARMY😭😭😭😭

  • @asdassdgfdf7509
    @asdassdgfdf75096 ай бұрын

    I am attracted to talent as well and this is very accurate.

  • @Siniset
    @Siniset6 ай бұрын

    I find things mentioned in talented and creative in myself.

  • @user-ms2vv2eb5o
    @user-ms2vv2eb5o6 ай бұрын

    I love this make more Vid like this

  • @Elaine-pi6qw
    @Elaine-pi6qw6 ай бұрын

    I really love talented and creative, social butterflies and nurturing. I'm an enfp

  • @yuugihasgalaxy
    @yuugihasgalaxy6 ай бұрын

    So for me it's talented &creative,😌lone wolfs...strong and silent

  • @Masonason5520
    @Masonason55206 ай бұрын

    I'm attracted to people who show genuine interest in me as a person. I mean, sure, some of these traits I do find attractive, but at the end of the day, just show me that you actually care. That's all I really want in a partner 😅

  • @Mauripsu
    @Mauripsu6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the voice Kim Kitsuragi

  • @muppetfan77show26
    @muppetfan77show267 ай бұрын

    Nice story 😊👍

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    6 ай бұрын

    Glad you liked it!

  • @wwmapib
    @wwmapib3 ай бұрын

    I was like "mmm no, I don't feel attracted to any of these"... until lone wolves appeared 😳😳 I even blushed while watching this, it absolutely resumes almost all my likes. BUT I thinks there's a fine line between feeling attracted to that kind of people and the ones that are less interested in us (the first video). Before therapy I kind of confused both having the feel of "challenge" of getting them to open up to me, but on that time it was a challenge of getting them "love me". Now, after therapy, I can see the difference ❤

  • @tiah5881
    @tiah58816 ай бұрын

    My couple combination is my boyfriend a lonewolf that's strong and silent and I'm his anxiety indusing free spirit, talented and creative nurterer girlfriend, Our relationship is like a theme park ride 😂

  • @crabcakes1408
    @crabcakes14086 ай бұрын

    i love and value all of these traits equally! then again I'm a social butterfly