WHEN YOUR WIFE FINANCIALLY SUPPORTS YOUR FAMILY FOR A YEAR (What Happens When - Episode One)

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What Happens When - Episode One! What happens when your wife financially supports your family for a year...
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  • @gabriel
    @gabriel3 жыл бұрын

    already reading a few of the comments and just wanted to say thank you! 🤍 i know our convo is long here but it’s a necessary set up for the whole story! thanks for loving the series so far!

  • @GS_PlayzFN

    @GS_PlayzFN

    3 жыл бұрын

    My Grandma promised if I hit 10k subs by the end of the year they will buy me a new Gaming keyboard. I really need that..,

  • @riddhizala93

    @riddhizala93

    3 жыл бұрын

    We can listen to you guys whole day! We thank you guys for inspiring us!🥺💕

  • @rachaeleldermusic

    @rachaeleldermusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    So proud of you and Jess for being a beacon of hope and constantly spreading God’s love ❤️

  • @93vlogs39

    @93vlogs39

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait for everything else to come! God bless you

  • @12.divyashreepradhan63

    @12.divyashreepradhan63

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GS_PlayzFN done. I suscribed so that you get what you wished for

  • @JessConte
    @JessConte3 жыл бұрын

    SO good bub 💛 so proud of what you’re doing

  • @kylamarieibarra7644

    @kylamarieibarra7644

    3 жыл бұрын

    God bless you both! ❤️

  • @altalentera5314

    @altalentera5314

    3 жыл бұрын

    U guys made me watching this emotional 🥺🤍

  • @deniseling3888

    @deniseling3888

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love you Jess!❤️

  • @khushijapee8759

    @khushijapee8759

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jess you are a true inspiration and a perfect wife! I’ve been watching you cuties for years and I love how you both support each other! You are ENDGAME! Love love love you:)) Hope you get to go to aus soon, praying for you ! Love from India❤️

  • @hallieflores4902

    @hallieflores4902

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jess I just love how encouraging you are to him. When I watch how you treat your husband it convicts me to be kinder & sweeter to my husband. Thank you for being such a Christlike example of a woman & wife in the kingdom of heaven 💗

  • @nicolerose9232
    @nicolerose92323 жыл бұрын

    Jess is honestly incredible. They got married and she moved across the world and has been supporting Gabe emotionally and financially, for years. They then moved to Florida so he could be with family and improve his mental health. Everything she does is for him... I would have told him to get a job literally anywhere. She has soooo much grace. 💕

  • @ananastea

    @ananastea

    3 жыл бұрын

    His love might give her energy to live and work, besides, her and Gabe’s love story draws many people to her channel (and their vlogs), so he still played a big part.

  • @yaninabotejue

    @yaninabotejue

    3 жыл бұрын

    A wife is supposed to submit to her husband and honor him, but a husband has to love her like/as much as Christ loves the church. Clearly Gabe loves Jess like that❤️ it’s probably what made Jess able to do everything she did for their family. This marriage is truly built w a strong Godly foundation and it shows❤️

  • @user-iy3pz9nl8l

    @user-iy3pz9nl8l

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yaninabotejue submit? Lol what.

  • @listay1

    @listay1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jess is a QUEEN.

  • @wambui8866

    @wambui8866

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-iy3pz9nl8l yes submit. Ephesians 5:22-“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord”. And for husbands-Ephesians 5:25-“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” ‭ ‭

  • @madelinegrup4489
    @madelinegrup44893 жыл бұрын

    “I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭40:1-2‬ ‭NIV‬‬

  • @zamarmichael4326
    @zamarmichael43263 жыл бұрын

    Jess: "Just don't... don't... Gabe: "You don't want me to say anything stupid" 😂😂

  • @kathrynwurst7866
    @kathrynwurst78663 жыл бұрын

    It's so refreshing to see men be able to have deep, vulnerable friendships with one another.

  • @marcela1877

    @marcela1877

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @luisaruiz4883

    @luisaruiz4883

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, because we know men don't really open about their feelings and just watching them being so honest and vulnerable it feels good

  • @lillyn8659

    @lillyn8659

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know right

  • @Mariana-nc6ky
    @Mariana-nc6ky3 жыл бұрын

    This great, but i wanna know HOW DID JESS DO IT? How did she handle it so graciously and was able to be so supportive without having breakdowns once in a while 🤍

  • @annavitalia

    @annavitalia

    3 жыл бұрын

    she probably did, that’s the real world

  • @misssmariss

    @misssmariss

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@annavitalia also, keep in mind, there “job” is KZread/media, meaning yes it is work and comes with its challenges, but compared to jobs like most of us have, they have it much easier, they work much less and make more money.

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot77573 жыл бұрын

    A supportive wife and friends is soooo important. You’re so lucky, Gabe.

  • @SamAndMonica
    @SamAndMonica3 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love how real and genuine this is... it’s such a breath of fresh air in comparison to so much content out there nowadays. 🖤

  • @SamAndMonica

    @SamAndMonica

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just adding onto this I want to say I’ve watched so many of your videos and you guys seem like such genuine lovely people - I really hope 2021 lives up to it’s full potential for you and excited to hear more about the projects in store :)

  • @nesarrasooli22

    @nesarrasooli22

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SamAndMonica you guys should meet each other up one day

  • @pearl_8782

    @pearl_8782

    3 жыл бұрын

    You guys are absolutely amazing ,just like ‘em

  • @garimasharma4591

    @garimasharma4591

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys!!❤️❤️

  • @fazilmuhammed5410

    @fazilmuhammed5410

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey you guys❤❤❤

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr3 жыл бұрын

    “There will come a time where we will have so much comfort ability that the only thing we are going to want is a struggle”... What a quote!!!

  • @anrie1805

    @anrie1805

    3 жыл бұрын

    honestly, currently experiencing this rn. but i'm kind of in the middle of being pulled by comfort rather than finding the struggle that pushes us back on track. maybe, it could be, because we're all stuck to our homes and the places where we could be who we truly are are out of reach at the moment and we feel like being at home may be comfortable, but it could definitely hold you back.

  • @anrie1805

    @anrie1805

    3 жыл бұрын

    i don't know, maybe this thing in me is actually yearning for that thrill, that excitement in life but until now, unfortunately, i remain in a paused action towards the path i am onto rn.

  • @gabrielleohme834

    @gabrielleohme834

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn and I can’t even afford heat and electricity in a snowstorm

  • @stinearnes980

    @stinearnes980

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@anrie1805 i’m currently in that situation too! I just feel like i feel so little, and i want to feel more alive somehow! I know it’s a weird thought because one should think i would be able to feel enough in a happy way, living a good life, but i’m just too comfortable being happy that i have the need to feel something else! And i hate it hahah

  • @himanshughalwan5204

    @himanshughalwan5204

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@anrie1805 it's nice to see that there are people who are experiencing the same things;I mean it makes you feel less weird. I have been trying to work hard and have done some good too but haven't gotten the results in the desired way, also last year was a pretty big hit to mental health. But only last night someone told me that what you should focus is doing your job honestly. That's all. Don't associate it to result. You'll be feeling lighter.

  • @sydneywands5214
    @sydneywands52143 жыл бұрын

    Forget professional model, there’s nothing more attractive than a man of Christ

  • @lexie02jones25

    @lexie02jones25

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yess!!

  • @lilycmiller

    @lilycmiller

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @michelle-ch1vt

    @michelle-ch1vt

    3 жыл бұрын

    That made it like 100x better

  • @CallMeMrX

    @CallMeMrX

    3 жыл бұрын

    The Pope is hot af.

  • @Jebajohn9793

    @Jebajohn9793

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @lykkeknudsen7053
    @lykkeknudsen70533 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend is in a similar situation. He has been beating a depression for the last 1.5 year, while I have been the one working, so this hit really deep in my soul. It's a beautiful thing you're both doing

  • @dhannahmiekhaellasausal6909
    @dhannahmiekhaellasausal69093 жыл бұрын

    I just wanna say that you and Jess are very lucky to be surrounded by people, friends that you can open up to and share your struggles with because not everyone has that kind of support system.

  • @aracelibarrio1589

    @aracelibarrio1589

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking the same thing when I was watching the interaction with their friends. It is so rare to find friends that are near you and that are genuine and supportive.

  • @sbynz

    @sbynz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Have faith in god and we can have good people around us too! :D

  • @cassariannarose
    @cassariannarose3 жыл бұрын

    the editing of homeschool boi is just *chef's kiss* 😳

  • @alyssar7477

    @alyssar7477

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope gabe reads this lmao

  • @FarinaMyrtleRenato

    @FarinaMyrtleRenato

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol. I really hope Gabe or Jess see this 😂😂

  • @ginnikumar5911

    @ginnikumar5911

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @khadijahkamili7063
    @khadijahkamili70633 жыл бұрын

    Seeing how Jess held your fort at 23 - the same age as me - has been very inspiring. I'm sure this resonates with the rest of us who are still finding partners or our passions, or maybe even pursuing an education good enough for the world while being in a rough mental state. Yet seeing Jess be so strong has gives a motivating push because it's not easy when her husband is in the middle of that valley and she's trying to support him physically and emotionally till he reaches the other side. It's beautiful yet such a rare sight. I'm in awe and pray to reach that level of perseverance and strength. And of course, hats off to Gabe for acknowledging her for everything she's done with no expectations, and getting to the top of that valley because you saw her struggle with you. Hats off bud.

  • @izza8324
    @izza83243 жыл бұрын

    I’m only half way through this video but watching this is triggering me a lot. I’m about to turn 24 and I feel like I have nothing to show for it. My fiancé keeps saying everyone moves at their own pace but I just can’t help but feel stuck? I keep waiting for signs from God but i can’t help but feel abandoned. It’s good to see that everyone goes through these phases

  • @shortycummins

    @shortycummins

    3 жыл бұрын

    maybe god is giving you signs , you're just telling yourself you cant..but YOU CAN !! if God can bring you to it he can bring you through it,😊

  • @arc5639

    @arc5639

    3 жыл бұрын

    I Agree with Mike Enns. I turned 24 last month and I get where you're coming from. God may be teaching you to have more faith and trust, like walking through your home with no lights; you know where things are but can't see them. Try taking a lot of itty bitty steps that will become and or lead to big ones.

  • @tracyakinyi7597

    @tracyakinyi7597

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're all so amazing. I just turned 22 and I often find myself almost crying cause I know He has great plans for me and my family (including friends) but there are always those where I just sit and think 'what am I doing wrong' 'should I be doing this,is there something He needs me to do in order for everything to just unravel' it just really takes a toll on you. But then I breathe and remember who He is and who I am in Him

  • @tiansev

    @tiansev

    3 жыл бұрын

    The world has its own standards and goals and often times we forget that we are called to do God's will in His prefect timing, not ours and not the world's. Even when it seems like nothing is happening, there's always something happening. We only see a piece of the puzzle in God's masterpiece, so we can only hope and trust in Him. Meanwhile we can rely on Him and those that He gave to us such as spouses, friends, family, and more. Just remember that at your weakest He is strongest.

  • @bree.bonnie

    @bree.bonnie

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ive come to notice that in the Bible, 30 was the age which they entered into their calling. Which led me to think that 20s is a time to strip back everything, discover who God made you to be, and come into true intimacy with God so you can enter your purpose completely grounded in yourself and in God. It's an uncomfortable process but definitely worth it.

  • @arathipm6071
    @arathipm60713 жыл бұрын

    My heart breaks to see Gabe talking about their struggles. And the fact that social media isn't all truth is reinforced here. Stay strong Gabe, love you and Jess! thank you so much for sharing. we're here for you❤️

  • @darlingcallejas1719
    @darlingcallejas17193 жыл бұрын

    Can we talk about Gabe’s courage for posting his story?🥺 so inspiring!!

  • @nkhang3
    @nkhang33 жыл бұрын

    “You can walk through a hundred doors, but you want to walk through the one that God wants you to walk through.” Completely locked in when I heard this! Currently where you were last year. Thanks for this!

  • @devanshipandya6068
    @devanshipandya60683 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing. Not just because Gabe shared his struggles. But it's so amazing to see and hear him appreciate and value Jess. I am overwhelmed. Stay strong Jess and Gabe. We are here for you always and forever ♥️

  • @ayeshashakeel
    @ayeshashakeel3 жыл бұрын

    Jess is such a gem. I wish I can be as good a wife and human as Jess.

  • @MarionRenn

    @MarionRenn

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know. When Jess was talking on her channel about wanting to be a good wife to him, it made me realize I need to do better with my husband.

  • @kristinarosairo4471

    @kristinarosairo4471

    3 жыл бұрын

    She’s so innocent I just love her simplicity

  • @aliyuuh523
    @aliyuuh5233 жыл бұрын

    i feel like they keep their lives as private as they can but sharing this feels like they’ve grown more comfortable in this platform & i thank that. they are literally the ones who pushed me to be close to God & i pray for them every night.

  • @dpnoy
    @dpnoy3 жыл бұрын

    I don't normally comment on videos, but I had to say this. This past year, my fiancee and I have gone through a similar thing and it was the hardest thing for me to deal with. She graciously took it upon herself to build towards things for the two of us when I was in a place that I felt I couldn't. We're getting married in a few days and watching this felt very purposeful. Hearing the course of both of your steps and how you've come to create a newness in you is encouraging and i felt I very much needed to hear. Wish you the most in this new series you're launching and all the future projects you and your wife are starting. Cheers bro, thanks for this and everything you're doing!

  • @elenajankovic7490
    @elenajankovic74903 жыл бұрын

    wow..... speechless. Everything about this video is incredible and so honest.... thank you Gabe for that and Jess is such a sweetheart and the kindest soul I've seen on youtube. You two are perfectly made for each other. Much love🥰

  • @ericayarbrough7505
    @ericayarbrough75053 жыл бұрын

    Best thing I’ve ever heard. Both from Sadie Robertson’s podcast: “you can’t try to keep what you didn’t earn in the first place” (god gives everything in time) and “put your goals in concrete but your plans in sand”

  • @stephanievizzi9147
    @stephanievizzi91473 жыл бұрын

    You have a beautiful marriage getting stronger every year. When social media and everything else falls away or fails you, God never will!

  • @lindatrani883

    @lindatrani883

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen! God will never leave you or forsake you ! People change but God promises never change! He holds your future

  • @butdoyouknowjesus4121

    @butdoyouknowjesus4121

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen. ❤️🥰

  • @shelbiereynolds
    @shelbiereynolds3 жыл бұрын

    This was powerful Gabe. “I’m not gonna let my negative thoughts keep me from doing the things I know I’m called to do” inspiring.

  • @sxrcya
    @sxrcya3 жыл бұрын

    so inspirational, the negativity to these two is absolutely unnecessary. everyone has their struggles and hate is just not part of it. i love these two. so proud of you gabe!! keep it up

  • @celestebirkin4956
    @celestebirkin49563 жыл бұрын

    I’m literally in tears because I identify with Gabe’s words so much.. I felt like I had nothing in my hands anymore and time kept passing by and it got worst. I’m so happy that I found my own way to my future. It’s not like i’m already where I want to be but I’m happy that I’m trying and I just hope that one day I’ll look in the mirror and I won’t feel disgusted with where i am in life and I feel satisfied with what I have

  • @rashmiladharmage7645

    @rashmiladharmage7645

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel you girl! Stay strong you got this♥️

  • @TN-hh4ik

    @TN-hh4ik

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is what I'm going through right now 😭

  • @celestebirkin4956

    @celestebirkin4956

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TN-hh4ik you’re gonna make it! Just be patient with yourself

  • @1WonD1

    @1WonD1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girl same!!! I resonate with a lot of what he’s saying and as a 23 year old-it’s scary to think if this is how I feel now...what’s down the road

  • @TN-hh4ik

    @TN-hh4ik

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@celestebirkin4956 thank you ❤️

  • @bronnnee
    @bronnnee3 жыл бұрын

    Okay I’m over here sobbing & crying so hard right now. You have no idea how many people this is going to touch. I think it’s good to see such great influencers and youtubers share the ‘darker’ side of their lives because it’s always so happy and only showing the good things through the cameras. Can’t wait for the rest of the series!

  • @tiaTIAtiaLove
    @tiaTIAtiaLove3 жыл бұрын

    “I hold my plans in front Of me with an open hand hopeful and optimistic but with the understanding and acceptance that gods plan will always be superior and for the good” 😭😭😭😭😭😭 amazing

  • @MarielyDiego
    @MarielyDiego3 жыл бұрын

    “You can walk through 100 doors, but you want to walk through the one God wants you to.”

  • @aileen0711
    @aileen07113 жыл бұрын

    first of all: your editing skills are INSANE. and the entire video is just so important because it allows the mental health debate to be re-opened and after the horrible year we‘ve all had this is exactly what we need: mental health to be discussed on a larger scale and without it being a taboo. also the fact that jess took it upon herself to support you both financially is so amazing because it defeats (long outdated) gender roles and you can be soo happy to have someone like her in your life. I‘m so happy to have found you two on youtube almost 5 years ago and I can‘t wait to continue following your journey 🤍

  • @roswellretorca6989
    @roswellretorca69893 жыл бұрын

    Didn't even realize that this couple go through that challenge coz you can't barely see it on their vlog.. I can't even imagine how many mask do both of you wear everytime you vlog.. Respect!!!

  • @beatrice8044

    @beatrice8044

    3 жыл бұрын

    They don't put on a "mask" on their vlogs they only decide what to share(obviously the happy highlights) and what not to.

  • @doriannygodoy
    @doriannygodoy3 жыл бұрын

    "not going to allow my negative thoughts to keep me from what I'm called to do" dang G that was sooo good and 100% something I needed to hear

  • @victoriarose104
    @victoriarose1043 жыл бұрын

    This is it Gabriel. This is the type of content from you that the world needs! Raw, honest, cinematic, creative, artistic. Great job, keep it up!👏🏼

  • @isabellarocha3675
    @isabellarocha36753 жыл бұрын

    OMG THE EDITING???!!! this is perfect

  • @sumairahrahman7034
    @sumairahrahman70343 жыл бұрын

    This is just saying out so loud, that you can never know what a person is going through even if they are constantly posting on social media. And its just crazy to think. Stay Strong Jess and Gabe. I’m super proud of you both. ❤️🥺

  • @abyn6189
    @abyn61893 жыл бұрын

    I love so many things about this video. From seeing men being vulnerable and honest with each other, to the analogy of holding plans loosely which I literally use all the time! Thank you for sharing Gabe. Looking forward to more

  • @erinslade254
    @erinslade2543 жыл бұрын

    That is so much for y’all to handle!! Praise God that he is using this for His good!! Praying for y’all! 💕

  • @linda-wolff
    @linda-wolff3 жыл бұрын

    It is so amazing that you share this with the world. Every seemingly “perfect” couple goes through life’s ups and downs and Jess is so strong to push against the “my husband should be the strong one”. Her cornerstone is Jesus and that is so clear to see, which has opened up the space for you to heal, grow and impact the world. Amazing, love you guys ❤️

  • @aaryarane9917
    @aaryarane99173 жыл бұрын

    I have literally GROWN up watching Jess and Gabriel and also Gabriel like alone and what I see is soo good, like legit Gabe you inspire so many of us and so does Jess and I love you with all my heart💞🥺

  • @ainsleymoore3490
    @ainsleymoore34903 жыл бұрын

    I’m obsessed with this series already. I would have never learned to recognized my feelings and build the courage to seek help if it weren’t for people like you talking so openly about your own feelings and struggles so thank you for that. Even thought 2020 wasn’t the year we all hoped it would be, I think the timing for this video worked out even better. We all need this is our lives right now to help us get through the thought times we were all hit with and are still being hit with. You guys seem like such genuine human beings and that is so needed on social media nowadays. So excited for the rest of this series!

  • @itskesteurbaut
    @itskesteurbaut3 жыл бұрын

    I'm speechless. I just love how you see the real you, the kind you, the caring you. The reflection you have on yourself is something so powerful not only for you but also for everyone who is watching this.

  • @Julia-zc7ut
    @Julia-zc7ut3 жыл бұрын

    This is CRAZY stay strong Gabe! 🥰

  • @Amy_PS
    @Amy_PS3 жыл бұрын

    "A struggle that I was in caused me to want to struggle differently" this hit me in a way I wasn't prepared for 🤍

  • @maritzah.4039
    @maritzah.40393 жыл бұрын

    “I’m not going to let my negative thoughts keep me from the things I know I’m called to do.” ...that hit deep.. wow.🥺

  • @leesha1674
    @leesha16743 жыл бұрын

    “A struggle that I was in, caused me to want to struggle differently” I felt that to my borns

  • @amelie5702
    @amelie57023 жыл бұрын

    wow Gabe this is an incredible start to the series, i'm excited to see more already! This made me so emotional too

  • @radharanilangam5410
    @radharanilangam54103 жыл бұрын

    The title gave me chills and kinda made me emotional too🥺Gabe we are so proud of you

  • @go_liveyourdream7546
    @go_liveyourdream75463 жыл бұрын

    I literally teared up watching this! Thank you for being willing to be so vulnerable and honest with us! I'm flipping stoked for the next episode!

  • @hannnnnlu
    @hannnnnlu3 жыл бұрын

    I’m sure I’m not the only one who said “wow” with Gabe. That bullseye reference was incredible ❤️

  • @rachaeleldermusic
    @rachaeleldermusic3 жыл бұрын

    So proud of you and Jess for being a beacon of hope and constantly spreading God’s love ❤️

  • @christinetruong9164
    @christinetruong91643 жыл бұрын

    I already love this. your vulnerability and love for each other are apparent in these 20 minutes 🥺❤️

  • @BeccaFilipski
    @BeccaFilipski3 жыл бұрын

    This is actually what I need to see right now cause I’ve been feeling depressed as well. I love how real this is and relatable. Thank you Gabriel! I can’t wait to see what happens next.

  • @mushrm.studios
    @mushrm.studios3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, so good. Honestly brought me to tears hearing you talk about God's will for you life and just saying "Here's what I want to do, do with them what You would please." I went through a valley in 2019 I look back now and I don't recognize myself. God legit wrecked my life then lifted me up higher then I could have ever thought. In 2019 I longed to be a worship leader or anything in the ministry or in the young adult ministry. I was leading songs every Sunday, but I wasn't the worship pastor in the way I wanted to be. It seemed like everyone else in my life was getting what they wanted and I was just sitting on my butt not knowing what to do. But 2020 was an insane year, the begining being changed by God and then the next running as hard as possible with God to his will. He has brought so much good fruit through the year 2020 including some bittersweet fruit of me getting the Worship Leader/Coordinator role at my church. I also got a co-leadership role in our Young Adults ministry. It was shocking when the worship pastor I had gotten so close to and super comfortable working with that I loved working with him so much I started compromising on my dreams saying "working with him is enough, I don't need to be the actual wp." God didn't like that. So He lead my wp to another church and left me in the position to take over. The amazing things is that in 2020 surprisingly in the midst of this pandemic God has surrounded me with a community that are family and willing to help in any way. Even the WP who God called to another church has told me over and over again that he wants to help me in anyway shape or form. That, yes he's not apart of our building anymore but he is still apart of the big C church his heart is still with us. The last month has been a struggle but a struggle where I can already see so much fruit. I have had to rely on God so much more. The Devil do be attacking, but it's encouraging to me because that means he's scared of what God has for me. But WOW God is so good with bringing you to where you need to be.

  • @yasnadimovska9671
    @yasnadimovska96713 жыл бұрын

    So glad u came back to youtube with a project you're passionate about! Keep going, amazing things will follow 😊

  • @riddhizala93
    @riddhizala933 жыл бұрын

    I can say I'm gonna have tears in my eyes just by reading the title of this episode 🥺💕

  • @kayleecole2023
    @kayleecole20233 жыл бұрын

    “it’s ultimately God’s plan that prevails..” Love that and how our hope is key but just remembering that God’s plan is the most important. This is awesome. Excited for the next videos.

  • @elisakrt
    @elisakrt3 жыл бұрын

    This is such high quality content! I'am honestly speechless right now... This is not just a youtube video, its so courageous to talk about your personal struggles out loud and especially for the whole internet. I can draw life lessons out of this conversation and I'm really really thankful for this. You and Jess are such pure souls and I wish you all the best together.

  • @user-oj2ks6ep7z
    @user-oj2ks6ep7z3 жыл бұрын

    Dude wow, I’m speechless. Currently composing my third comment lol, but can I just say that it’s one of the most beautiful things seeing you getting supporter by all of your friends and obviously especially Jess in just every way possible. The fact that you guys can have such a serious talk but still manage to not get lost in it, enjoy it and can just laugh about sudden, fitting comments or topics. We as your community are so blessed to be given such amazing CONTEnt (Im sorry I had to) and just being a part of your lives. Thank you guys for everything you do, for yourselves, for one another, for us.💛

  • @dhyanipatel3430
    @dhyanipatel34303 жыл бұрын

    Can we just take a moment and appreciate how honest you were?! And your outlook on basically everything I see myself changing on how I ssee thingss you are amazing personn and an inspiration! Hands down!

  • @priyankadasgupta1293
    @priyankadasgupta12933 жыл бұрын

    This is so good. You're all such an inspiration!! This series already looks awesome but apart from that to me, this is what true, deep friendships look like. We all need more of these.

  • @kingofz1177
    @kingofz11773 жыл бұрын

    Hey Gabe i just want you to know that about two years ago when me and my girlfriend started dating, she got me to watch the jess and gabriel channel. Ever since then i have watched every video that yall have put out and I love them. Basically I wanted to tell you that you have been one of the role models in my life of what a man of God should look like and how a husband should be. So thank you for being who you are and having the courage to open up and share what you have been going through.

  • @joashlaw4999
    @joashlaw49993 жыл бұрын

    Love your series, can’t wait for the next one! I think this just goes to show that what we see on the surface, there’s so much more to it beneath the surface.... thanks for sharing Gabriel!

  • @julianajaureguisuarez9968
    @julianajaureguisuarez99683 жыл бұрын

    Should I be paying attention in class right now? Yes Do I need to watch this video right now? Also yes 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @celiadarier7293
    @celiadarier72933 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this video. The way it’s filmed how real and genuine you all are. Love this so much 🤍 thank you!

  • @manya133
    @manya1333 жыл бұрын

    This just made me cry, really needed that encouragement.

  • @EyeMaK1
    @EyeMaK13 жыл бұрын

    “The Patriot” reference gave me chills...this is speaking right into my life right now ✨

  • @MuchLove-3
    @MuchLove-33 жыл бұрын

    Omg I'm gonna watch this after I finish my test!!! Can't wait! Jess is a sweetie! 💕 You guys are amazing together! 🥰 Thank you so much for sharing this with us!!! 🤗

  • @jessicagreenham9503
    @jessicagreenham95033 жыл бұрын

    I love how authentic your work is and how beautifully made it is. Can't wait for the rest of the series!

  • @danielcasas8582
    @danielcasas85823 жыл бұрын

    its like a vlog but more real and filmed as a documentary

  • @sadafsanaei9451
    @sadafsanaei94513 жыл бұрын

    Im just 18 and have dealt with depression since I was 14. Never related to some one’s words so much. How Gabe is talking about it filled my eyes with tears. Reminder; It’s okay to STRUGGLE...and being here talking about it, just shows how strong you guys are♥️

  • @paigeflewelling3210
    @paigeflewelling32103 жыл бұрын

    Jess is INCREDIBLE! What an incredible example of an amazing woman of God!

  • @sarahfraser5491
    @sarahfraser54913 жыл бұрын

    I love that they both are just starting to be extremely open with us, they were always open, but just on a deeper level on all of their channels, I love you both you do such great things ❤️

  • @danipodolin1119
    @danipodolin11193 жыл бұрын

    i had chills throughout the whole thing. so raw and genuine. im so proud of you gabe

  • @mavslife1143
    @mavslife11433 жыл бұрын

    I once read a comment before that they're gonna unsubscribe to jess" channel because all contents and instagram stories were sponsored. Little did we know that this was the reason for it. This just goes with the saying that ~ everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. be kind always.~ it's not that hard to be kind. we all dont know what others are going through. Love you Jess & Gabe!!!

  • @yglove8138

    @yglove8138

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t see how that is a problem? I subscribed and followed her because I like watching her she is such a positive person and her content and stories being sponsored doesn’t hurt anyone it’s like you want to watch a movie in theatre but doesn’t want to pay for tickets so you watch it on website huhhh

  • @baylay1062

    @baylay1062

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yglove8138 same, I am excited for her sponsorships because I am proud of her accomplishments! If sponsorships bother people that much just skip that part of the video......

  • @yglove8138

    @yglove8138

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@baylay1062 ikr 👍

  • @mavslife1143

    @mavslife1143

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yglove8138 TRUE!!

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn3 жыл бұрын

    I’m a 48 year old who looks at you and Jess and amazed at how much you two have accomplished at your age. It inspires me as I know it does others to do more. I wish I would have had the ambition and determination you two have in my earlier years. But I know with God and his Grace we can achieve and do great things. Keep your heart and eyes on him and know you are Amazing! 💗

  • @graceandalethea
    @graceandalethea3 жыл бұрын

    I feel so refreshed watching this. I feel like social media makes it seem like everyone’s life is flawless and to see two people who I have been watching since the literal beginning being so real is absolutely incredible. I hate that you went through what you went through, but as a believer, I truly believe that the Lord will use those seasons of pain to make an impact. I have been struggling with chronic illness for six years, and I would watch your videos (Jess + Gabe) in the hospital and imagine that one day, my life would look like that. Now, as you guys have been more open about what goes on behind the scenes, it has helped me immensely to see that even the most ‘put together’ people endure hardships. I guess I’m writing this to say thank you. Thank you for changing my perspective. Thank you for reminding me that pain unfortunately reaches all people. Finally, thank you for allowing the Lord to be highlighted through your valley. I truly believe that the Jesus is going to use this to change the heart of at least 1 person (Lord willing, millions).

  • @TasnovaAhmed
    @TasnovaAhmed3 жыл бұрын

    My friends know how much I love you and Jess, but like this video just encompasses on how genuine and real you are as well as Jess. You could have hid all of this for years and years, and not told any of us about these personal things but it just shows how strong and resilient you are. I love the message, I love the connection you have with God and your wife and with yourself. We're always growing and learning, there will always be obstacles in our way, but I think getting through them is what makes us stronger and genuine people. I love this series along with all of the others, can't wait to see the rest of this! I've been watching you since the Vine days and I just love how much you have grown Gabriel and it motivates me to do the same - to simply not give up and have faith in God. Thank you for all that you and Jess do, love the message you preach! 💙

  • @ana-marijasaric8941
    @ana-marijasaric89413 жыл бұрын

    I knew this series would be deep, but this still caught me off guard 😅 It's so refreshing to see your regular youtubers tell you the behind the scene story. Thank you so much 💛

  • @rachelnicolea159
    @rachelnicolea1593 жыл бұрын

    Jess!!!!! is a true gem, so blessed to be part of their journey 🥺

  • @mrskaitimorris9836
    @mrskaitimorris98363 жыл бұрын

    Loved this! Thank you for your honesty. Praying for a healthy and clear mind for 2021. Can’t wait for the rest of the series 🥰

  • @jordynm.1744
    @jordynm.17443 жыл бұрын

    I am absolutely in LOVE with this series already! It feels like this huge breath of fresh air. You air finally pulling yourself out of this funk and gathering all of these things that you are so eager to work on and it feels like we are here every single step of the way. Growing up with the both of you has been a blessing.

  • @user-oj2ks6ep7z
    @user-oj2ks6ep7z3 жыл бұрын

    My whole body stopped working for a second, oh my gosh I am so excited for this!! LET'S GOOO😍🔥

  • @alischreiner08
    @alischreiner083 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry did I hear the word "podcast"?? so excited for this series! thank you for being vulnerable ✨

  • @listay1

    @listay1

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's linked in the description box.

  • @marissarogers2043
    @marissarogers20433 жыл бұрын

    The quality and openness of this is so beautiful and almost unreal bc it’s that good. thank you for sharing your struggle, marriage, and life in general. Can’t wait to see what’s next!

  • @a.h.9745
    @a.h.97453 жыл бұрын

    I have watched Gabe since his vine videos,and then when he just started with Jess,and i'm still here. I'm really proud of how far you two have come. As someone who had depression for quite some time, just know that it is possible to get better. It is possible to live normal life. What i've learned going through all of this,is that we are not supposed to live in the future,but in the moment.I had goals and dreams that i wanted to achieve,and my desire to fulfill those dreams as fast as possible led me to depession.Because i already lived there,in the future,always thinking about those goals,but everyday i woked up being at the same place still struggling. I wanted to do more,but at the same time i wanted to stop everything and let myself go.So i did stop,i took some time for myself,i surrounded myself with my family that i've ignored for a long time 'cuz i was busy on my dreams. I started to do everything else that would make me happy,and i began to lear to be more patient. It does take a lot of time,but i have learned that we need to live right now and just be grateful for what you have. Reminde yourself everyday how far you have come and how better are you now than you were 2/3/5 years ago. Work to be better tomorrow,but be patient,even if you fail there is still a new tomorrow. There are a lot more things so say,and to learn. But 3 years after all i have been through,i have to say that i'm happy,i did achieve 70% of my goals,and i'm still working on it. But i'm not beating myself up anymore.I'm happy that i'm going in the right direction,and that i'm not in the same place. I hope for you Gabe to get better,i hope that you learn that it's okay not to be okay. I hope you learn not to beat yourself up for the things you can't control. Plans and hopes that you have for the future may not come in the time that you want them to come,but they will come someday. And that someday is all that matters. " In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” I wish you both all the best.Please stay healthy and happy. Nothing is more important than that. ❤❤❤❤

  • @KristasVlogs
    @KristasVlogs3 жыл бұрын

    Can we all just agree that Jess is a literal Angel from Heaven? Gabriel, you are so strong! Jess, you are so strong!

  • @faitholuwaremi2731
    @faitholuwaremi27313 жыл бұрын

    15:15 wow!!! This is so powerful especially in the day and age we’re in I feel like we’re constantly trying to one up ourselves and others that we unconsciously never allow ourselves feel content and happy at how far we’ve come. Obviously there’s always room for improvement but it doesn’t always have to be associated with a negative feeling if that makes sense

  • @droppedmeatpie
    @droppedmeatpie3 жыл бұрын

    this is so genuine and raw and it’s so refreshing to see. with everything happening in the world it’s so good take that breath of fresh air 🥺

  • @sasanmsk4606
    @sasanmsk46063 жыл бұрын

    Gabe we love you no matter what, Jess is such a wonderful person and wife AHHHH

  • @lorenamaui9774
    @lorenamaui97743 жыл бұрын

    “Whoa That’s Good!”- Sadie Robertson Huff

  • @constalate
    @constalate3 жыл бұрын

    i’m not crying you are !!!! 😭 this proves how we know nothing about the people we watch online. we only see what they want us to see. it really doesn’t cost much to be kind. everyone’s struggling-we just don’t realize it sometimes. thankful for your honesty, gabe !!! you are an inspiration 🖤

  • @marthamunthe6751
    @marthamunthe67513 жыл бұрын

    You are so strong Gabe! Talking about your struggles in such a genuine way! I’m so proud of you!❤️you guys are absolutely amazing! Love u!🥰

  • @macypantana
    @macypantana3 жыл бұрын

    I literally thought the other day why don’t Jess and Gabriel have a podcast? I would listen to it every day on my way to work🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @meredithdunker7344
    @meredithdunker73443 жыл бұрын

    The song “Hills and Valleys” is what comes to mind watching this. We don’t have our hills without our valleys. It serves as a reminder to honor those that are by our side for both... to see us through our valleys until our next hill. God is faithful. God is good. God will never leave us or forsake us. “I've walked among the shadows You wiped my tears away And I've felt the pain of heartbreak And I've seen the brighter days And I've prayed prayers to Heaven From my lowest place And I have held Your blessings God, You give and take away No matter what I have, Your grace is enough No matter where I am, I'm standing in Your love On the mountains, I will bow my life To the One who set me there In the valley, I will lift my eyes To the One who sees me there When I'm standing on the mountain I didn't get there on my own When I'm walking through the valley I know I am not alone.” Thank you for using your platform to reveal these truths.

  • @caelinfigueroa9100
    @caelinfigueroa91003 жыл бұрын

    Hands down this is my favorite video I’ve watched on your channel thus far. I watch Jess and Gabe all the time, I’m absolutely in love with your channel and I seldom would go to your channel for whatever reason. This popped up and I spent the time to really listen to your conversation and the time and effort and passion you put into this video. I really appreciate your honesty and your openness to bring God into the conversation , especially on KZread. It’s the very reason I love watching Jess and Gabe because you both are so encouraging to me and my husband on our walk with Christ. I’m praying for you and for encouragement and that the fruits of the spirit reveal themselves to you in your daily life as you continue to grow with God with your wife, family, and friends. I support and love this series and can not wait for more!

  • @emilyclark6255
    @emilyclark62553 жыл бұрын

    You should feel so proud of yourself. Opening up and speaking about such vulnerable topics with your followers is such a powerful thing. Powerful to you and all of us. A weight lifted off your shoulders but a way for us to understand and connect with you and Jess on a different level. Thank you.

  • @cj.explores
    @cj.explores3 жыл бұрын

    Woooahh was waiting for this the entire day. Not even kidding 😁😍💛

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