When You Know Someone Is Thinking About You But Is Doing Nothing
When you know someone is thinking about you but they are doing nothing about it, what should you do? There are so many unanswered questions that come up when this happens. In this video, I explain why this happens and how you can move forward out of picking up on their thoughts.
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They're not worth bothering with if theyre not going to make any effort to contact you, nobody is worth putting your life on hold for, what they're doing is emotionally manipulating you because they sense you sitting there like an idiot living in hope they will come back, take that love and give it to urself the love instead period...
Or perhaps, they are not thinking of you, or regardless of whether they are, don't want to be involved with you, and it is only you who are preoccupied with them.
@12BY6
2 жыл бұрын
Yep
I find myself always thinking of this woman. Literally every single day. I try and tell myself that it's nothing and it's probably just my mind playing tricks on me, but then I remember that it's been two years since I have seen or spoken to her and she's still first thing I think of when I wake up every day and the last thing when I go to bed. Last night, just when I thought that this was surely nothing and that I needed to just focus on me, I noticed for the FIRST time that her first and last initials are right together on my license plate and are the only letters. The rest of the characters are numbers. I've had that same license plate for nearly three years and I never noticed that. Coincidence or sign, my mind is boggling right now.
@heatherhopereed2147
2 жыл бұрын
Reach out to her.
@imax3d539
2 жыл бұрын
@@heatherhopereed2147 If it was that easy. Things didn't exactly go well the last time we saw each other
@suzukirm1258
2 жыл бұрын
It's a sign !!!!!! You should reach out what do you got to lose !!!!! Do it !!!!
@jaminjaquez9761
2 жыл бұрын
@@heatherhopereed2147 BRO FR ME TOO
@sean5558
2 жыл бұрын
Reach out, even if it didn’t end well after 2 years I’m sure tensions died down and she would be open to at least hear you out, unless it was a heinous act of betrayal or abuse or you did something horrible to her or family or something I would bet she would at least hear you. Either get your closure or attempt reconciliation or get therapy because it’s not healthy to have this consumed your thoughts every day wake up and go to bed for two years. Couple weeks or month maybe but two years is too long to obsess over unresolved issue thst you may actually be able to end or fix
They are just NOT that into you if they are not contacting you.
@noelevans8239
Жыл бұрын
Very logical conclusion
@aslyn845
2 ай бұрын
You have been replaced!
Stop chasing after immature idiots that just want to play sick twisted silent treatment games because they feel ur energy sitting there waiting for them to reach out, stop being a mug and love urself instead for nobody really needs a relationship to help them feel complete, once ur loving urself ur complete because ur thoughts manifest ur reality...
@RMM-tq3vi
Жыл бұрын
I wish I would apply that in my life. I’ll be one of the happiest souls on earth.
@lena-Ramone
Жыл бұрын
Are you saying where they chase in the 3D or in thoughts because their is law of assumption. Which isn't chasing but a universal law. Which also works by bigging yourself up too
@terrymcdermott8320
4 ай бұрын
Bang on
@Baddie.k22
2 ай бұрын
Yeah and that’s called the law of dattachment
He is thinking about me ,i know for sure..but his ego is to big to reach out
@ottoyisanoba5902
2 жыл бұрын
Why won't you reach out to him?
@ChangingTides777
Ай бұрын
because he's obviously not a good guy
If they truly want to be with you they will make the effort to make contact you, if someone doesn't see the worth in you kick them to the kerb...
@terrymcdermott8320
2 ай бұрын
Love it
Constantly tapping into other persons energies because someone is "inspired by another person" is a form of energetic vampirism.
I watch you faithfully these days. Your so inspirational and full of loving energy. You helped me more than any other , in what I have felt these previous months. This video just expanded on others you’ve done. Keep up the excellent work. Of people I wish I could meet, your on the top of the list. World needs more Aliki’s
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much Allen. I truly appreciate your wonderful comment. May your most beautiful dreams come true!
This is so timely for me right now! I will gather my thoughts for myself and see if she wants me back. I know she is thinking of me. It is so hard; I don't want to let go, but in doing so it may bring us back together? Today is a new day for me to start over, for me. Thank you!!
Thank you so much Aliki! This was so spot on for me right now. Excellent timing! 🌺
This was beautifully done. Most important, for me at least, was the encouragement to stand within my own power. This is the way to freedom, the way out of the entrapment of an uncharitable woman's gravitational lock. Thanks Aliki! The mind extends out of the brain and the body in a measurable field, a field that reaches out to connect with other fields by means of energy, direction, and magnitude. We can manage where we choose to distribute our energies, but the best results come when we use our minds for good.
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
How true Kenneth. Thank you so much. I wish you happiness and love!
Thank you for this, pull all the energy back in to draw them out when they’re ready.
This is my experience right now. It's been over 20 years since we were together. It was bad timing and we went separate ways. Eventually I was able to put him out of my mind. Then last year out of nowhere I thought of him. And then the reminders/signs started showing up. I don't want to "wait" for him but no one else compares. I don't know where he is or if he's still married and just living his best life. For all I know, I could just be a distant memory for him and I am just a fool to think we had a strong soul bond.
@swiftkarma4436
2 жыл бұрын
Same exact story here except our relationship was the best. my abusive father came in between us in college 21 yrs ago.
@BBRT24
Жыл бұрын
It’s best to just let it go
Thanks, Aliki, for sharing another eye-opening life lesson.
I needed this! Thank you! He ignores me but I’m moving through it. He’s my husband’s bf, they’re not too too close, and even after my husband said to clear the air he’s still not wanting to talk which I respect the energy and telepathy is strong and working on letting it be. So blessed to have a wonderful husband and best friend who understands me and who I am ❤ I am living my life and if he chooses to answer one day then that’s fine but for now I’ll enjoy the thoughts.
Thank you for the superb message reading. Interpretation is remarkable. This is my very first encounter with you. Glad I came across you. Looking forward for more readings to come. The video is so different fromvthe rest. It's interesting & inspirational. I love & enjoy it.
This particular video showed up on my feed which is hilarious and sad at the same time. Hadn't been here for a while, I tried to stay away to clear my mind and moving on but even after couple of years later I'm still dreaming weird things about him or related to him. I often have conversations with him out of nowhere in my head or I act like he's there beside me. There are times when he's the first and the last one I think of each day. Interesting by reading the comments, there are people that are currently in eerily similar situation like me. I made my social media private again after making it public few months back, I simply can't deal with the thoughts of MAYBE we'll be reunited again soon or sometime in the future when the possibility is below zero. And seeing him been trying to find out what I'm doing these days it makes my heart aching again. I still couldn't forget the pain from the time he left. I still remember vividly how my heart was tossed away by cruel words and actions. Hopefully, I heal fully soon and meet someone that knows how to love in healthy mature ways. Same goes to anyone who's reading this, may you always be prioritized and loved unconditionally by the person you love.
I needed to hear this! Thank you!
It's some kind of stealing. Like somebody said, energetic vampirism. Taking from you to feel good about themselves and to escape, and giving nothing back but crumbs. (Such a person probably cannot really give his heart to anyone, not completely.) Not wanting anything real and tangible, not from you anyways. You don't fit in their plans and beliefs. This is also leading a double life emotionally, for both. It's for filling gaps in their life, for free. But also filling gaps for you. Who wouldn't want that, and mostly it's unconscious, not all such people are vicious. It probably didn't start with stealing, one or both gave the energy for free, and mostly one gave more than the other. The getting you continuously back into this and not letting go is the stealing, manipulative part. Even if it's a mutual game, and initially they both get the good heightened, limerent feelings from each other and feed each other with comforting attention etc.etc., and even then there's also a deep bond, the game becomes wicked when one of them wants more, real and open, and the other one refuses. Mostly by ignoring which is extra painful. Not willing to put any work into it but then going on using and stealing the energy, pulling on your strings emotionally and energetically. It's like weeds in your garden, even if they're nice looking first. Soon they're everywhere and the rest has a hard time to grow. This makes it sick and ruined. Solution: tend to your garden by not leaking energy, keeping it in your own field and learn to direct it. Look at what this person's needs are and what yours are, do they match. What do you need and what do you get. Is it a good person at all, compatible or not, and do you want to play fantasy game and fairy tale next to or instead of your real life. Only in your own head or mutually, doesn't matter. It's too much in the air. It feels exciting and special first but it's gonna suck the life out of you because you cannot build on quicksand. You attach something to it, something else, something big that you miss. It might have something to do with a core wound. Loving yourself more, and a good hard look at yourself why you allow or allowed this, is needed. What you tried to avoid or gain. And do you want to integrate your parts and your life or further split. In my experience integrating is coming home, splitting and more gaps mean more pain and stagnation. Key words are: real, honest, clear, authentic and with integrity. Person and life. For someone who was traumatized, it's a hell of a job. The funny movie Dinner for Schmucks came into my mind in which Barry keeps on getting hypnotized by Therman but that's because he feels he has to answer the call and he feels very impressed by Therman' s powers and doesn't realize his own. As if the mythological sirens lured him into abandoning himself and his path by their enchanting voices/ energy. It might have felt safe but it was not. Far from it. Life is energy and energy is life. The more clarity about oneself, the more immunity to deceptive energy. Of course it can be a chicken and egg story, which came first, who keeps on thinking about the other. But one of them has to start and break the cycle, also energetically. The stronger and more conscious one. Sorry, long story I know. But it's such an important topic and maybe it helps someone, like this video helped and reassured me.
@lena-Ramone
Жыл бұрын
Yeah but Do you fully understand law of assumption
You are so wonderful aliki. Your inner knowing chose to share this with us. Almost made me cry again. You strike at my core. God bless you . ❤️🙏
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much. May your most beautiful dreams come true. 💖✨🙂
Thankyou- I needed this!
Fantastic reading!
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sean!
I didn't event know I needed this video. Thank you 🙏
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
I love this video and the explanation ❤❤ Perfect👌🏽👌🏽
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😃 Wishing you happiness and love Terry.
Very good topic thank you very much. 🤗🤗
your words are so nice, powerful and helpfull. thank you! 💐greetings from berlin, germany
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Much love to you in Germany!
It seems, I needed to hear this.
Thank you. This has resonated so much x
@AlikiHoidas
26 күн бұрын
You are so very welcome! Happy to hear my video resonated with you.
Tank you Aliki it is alvaise a plaisure to ear from you, tank you for helping people to get some relief of difficult of life.
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Giovanni. It's my pleasure to create these videos. Thank you for being here. Wishing you happiness and love.
Thank you so much for the content!
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure Miriam. Wishing you happiness and love.
Such a beautiful blessing Wishing clarity, power & dreams come true...Thank you aliki:)..Watching u almost everyday that makes my mind calm and gives me strangth & definitely upgrades my energy...
@AlikiHoidas
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sushmita! So happy you are here. May your most beautiful dreams come true! ✨💖
@sushmitathakur6210
Жыл бұрын
@@AlikiHoidas Thank you :)
U feel love & also feel the Julius,anger,board from people that's why strength, power of love become helpless. U r the answers for discourages people 👍.
Sorry, I’m not too familiar with this but the logical question to ask is how do I know they are thinking about me and not simply me who is not letting them go? Maybe they do not even remember me anymore but I am the one who is not ready to move on….?
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Hello! I have a playlist called Thinking About Someone with many videos in which I explain how you can know. I wish you happiness and love!
Yes, I have this experience. When I tried to stop it it came back. It always came back. I just get on with my life. It's ok because they are deep love signals from a beautiful lady in body and spirit. I have never spoken to her. I feel her spirit is close to me. It is a deep honest love so it's ok because less face it how much deep honest love is there in this 3D world. There will be a moment I'm sure everything will become clear. She is so beautiful in body and spirit I can forgive her for anything.
Hi ma'am, very good evening, this is Sneha from India. I am big fan of you. Your videos helps me a lot in moving forward in my life
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Good evening Sneha! Thank you! I am so happy that my videos are helping you. 💖✨ May your most beautiful dreams come true.
@daya3946
2 жыл бұрын
Hii sneha ❤️ I'm from India
Thank you for telling the truth
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure Angela.
Thank you Aliki!
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thank you for being here.
I did reach out by texting. They didn't respond.
@eve3363
2 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with that. At least you did your part.
@WhiteEyed87
2 жыл бұрын
At least you had the courage to do so, I dont.
omg I needed to hear this. I have seen this same message but without any direction on how to actually fkin do this. Even though I've been moving on with my life and trying to move on, it's been blocking me from moving on romantically. So yeah.
Thankyou Aliki. ♥️
This has happened to me soooo many times! Thank u..very interesting
@AlikiHoidas
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure. Wishing you happipiness and love.
Greetings.....definitely resonates 💯.....Give Thanks 😊 🙏 🙌 ☺️
Thanks. At right time.🙏❤️
Thank you Aliki 🌹 💕 🙏
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thank you for being here. ❤️🌷💖
Excellent video Aliki! Always wondered this. 😂 Hope you’re having a great week! 🙂👍🏼
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Troy! I appreciate all your wonderful comments. 😊✨
@TroyPosey
2 жыл бұрын
@@AlikiHoidas ☺️
Ty!
Thank you 😍
Thank you ⚘💖🙏🙂
That was very good xxx I enjoy your videos lying by fire sick with omicron
Idk if youtube was listening to me or its coincidence but either way im happy this popped up on my fyp.
You are Amazing. I love your Videos 👍
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Martin! I wish you happiness and love. 😊
@martinhelman8903
2 жыл бұрын
@@AlikiHoidas 🙏🌹
Amen thank you 🙏
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome ✨
Thanks!
@AlikiHoidas
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Alexander! Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing this beautiful knowledge. I’m often thinking of my twin flame 🔥. I love and miss her very much. She’s always on my mind, don’t have contact in the 3D. I really needed to hear this, thanks.
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. I wish you and your twin flame happiness and love.
@rojoamunra5845
2 жыл бұрын
@@AlikiHoidas thanks ☺️
@lena-Ramone
Жыл бұрын
So what will or did you do in the end??
@BBRT24
Жыл бұрын
@@lena-Ramone they have to move on, when you’re constantly thinking about them it pushes them away even more. When you let them go, they will come back if they are meant to
Very good advices from a very beautiful woman🔥
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much George! May your most beautiful dreams come true.
Amazing
After 7 years of being friends we're still making plans to go out
Always with u 😊😊😊🤗🤗🤗
Thank u so much i know ur special i love u
Twin flame hell. He knows how I feel I know how he feels but he was married. I don’t want to feel it, his energy comes to me so strongly and pulls me back in and makes it impossible to let go because the love is so strong. I am so tired to being stuck in limbo and pain. I need so badly to somehow cut off my energy because it’s giving him my energy freely but he’s not making a move. I feel like the only thing you can do is to not give into reciprocating the energy when they send it to you. The problem on this journey is the signs and synchronicities are all designed to keep you on them. This love is so deep it’s impossible to let go and move on from but the only thing you can do is to not feed the energy.
I don’t what to do because I love her and I might do revision
Release yourself you won’t feel trapped. HUHHH ???
Your so beautiful 💜
Good evening 🌹
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Good evening Aisha. Wishing you happiness and love. 🌷
Can you elaborate more on what it means to have an emotional hold on someone? Like there has been a person in my life that’s been so difficult to forget or want to let go completely and let someone else in completely. Can you make a video on that?
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I am going to create a video to speak about this. Wishing you happiness and love Margaret.
They're unwell.
I get a warm glow in my chest that spreads up to my face and often a slight shortness of breath. Is this due to an energetic connection?
Wakes me up at 3am. It’s getting annoying
yes i made him be himself when he was around me.. thats y he came backbut hes hot n cold right now
In my experience, when they do this its bc they had severed that loving part of themself. The part that they dont want to revisit for whatever their experience. Therefore you making them love you is not something they want to be reminded of.
They ar not responding or taking an initiative because there is someone else in their life😀
This is happening to me right now. This person his been looking at me but not saying anything. I feel confused because I don't know him much. is been 2 years now.
Yummy! Thank you
@AlikiHoidas
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
Hi Aliki! I had an instant. . Once in a lifetime. . Extremely powerful . . connection with a man I met on vacation. I know he felt it too!! How can I know for sure?? Thx 💕
What if all I'm feeling is WISHFUL THINKING? how can one differentiate?
Is it possible to miss someone as soon as they leave? I've not seen her for 3months,really missed her so much. Always thinking about her,but hook up for 2 hrs couple of days ago. I was so happy. I said I was thinking bout her,and she said same here. A day later, i m back to the same level of really missing her.
May you make a video of how not to make the other person pick up on your energy? I think of the person a lot, but I don't want them to pick up my vibe lol or feel it
@AlikiHoidas
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I am going to create a video on this.
But if with did the move might not be good enough
Every time I watch you videos, although it may sound narcissistic, I cannot help feeling does she know me and my situation?
Yes its happen with me now im slways thingking about him but he still ignoring qnd ghosting with me not talking
ive been talking to a guy for 4 months and ive never felt love so fast for someone hehe🙊 but 3 weeks ago he said other girls look better than me and i told him to find another and he agreed and i left him on read cuz he hurt my feelings. but ive been thinking about him since then. i feel weird. should i give it time and move on?
@earthangel9999
2 жыл бұрын
Move on You’re better than that
@sarahsummers4093
2 жыл бұрын
Move on! What a jerk, he has no respect
People Rob others spiritually it's not ok.
I did had some strange experiences but im telling only the most. I looked to a van i saw the driver and suddenly the face of my ex overlap to that face like a dark hologram. Can you please explain me what is this? I had a very intense relation with these person but decided to put an end on it cause he had a personality disorder. Since then with no regret i move on with my life and even forgived but this types of things still happen. If you could explain me this i would be very gratefull i know you cant be answering here but this was something that still mess my mind cause i dont understand how its possible
I've been missing someone since a few months ago n I really wanna text him n tell him things that going on in my life but I'm afraid he wouldn't respond.
So thrs no love ... ?
What does it mean when someone wants you to stay away for them to have a clear mind and peace and blocked someone?? Are they also feeling the connection but doesn't want to acknowledge it?? Or just feeling pestered that someone has feelings for them?? Or they just think that they are nor deserving of your love and attention??
I always thinking about him I don't know why and then he called me I didn't believe it just earlier the other day I knew he thinking about me. I know he loves me but he doesn't admit it but I felt it that he loves me even now I I'm thinking about me because he thinking about me.
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I think it's in ur head I've been there I thought I found my twin flame but I was wrong I still think about her but she's married and bi sexual she married a chick I'm not bi sexual either but I felt a strong connection with her it lasted 3 months and she pushed me away she's a virgo I'm a pisces I think its attraction and eppsessive thoughts is why u think of them alot
Ummm
As a friend and fellow channel, I want to show my profound appreciation for you and your work. I am Omega. I am extending to you, an offer of friendship. We could compare notes about life, if you also desire.
@derekpeterson3999
2 жыл бұрын
AWWW, PLEASE be my friend 🙏
Cause they are mad sometimes
How to move my energy inside myself
@AlikiHoidas
Жыл бұрын
I explain how you can do this in this playlist: kzread.info/head/PLcXcbvnmvYlary3gEv73EQ4r38ylo2phx
i feel her in danger every day while i know but i am not sure if she really is still in danger
you dint tell the part that when they don't contact you is because i narcissist's is controlling her and abuse of her every time she gets in contact with you to make you seem like to be the bad guy while your not
I think thats arrogance to assume that
Dear Thanapakorn, Are you not consciously aware that you are thinking of me? Are you, even? Crushing on you, Kim
Do you not relate this to manifesting as in everyone is you pushed out. I don’t really agree with what your saying as your thoughts are a reflection of you. I have seen and change my circumstances. They are not answering your calls because you are assuming that they are not going to answer abs so won’t answer.
I do this. For a very good reason. I have a difficult time to forget someone who I loved and love until today on a certain level, but I don't reach out because he treated be badly....and I know for sure I dont want that a second time....its painful...its all in the head....its much waste of energy....to love a person and knowing its all for nothing....you cant have a relationship but only breadcrumbs....typicall for a narcicisst - codependent relationship and the narcicisst lives of this energy the codependent gives this person for free...and is not willing to answer properly.... Very unhealthy situation especially for the codependent one, mostly the woman..... Often called "twinflame" relationship....