When People Keep Letting You Down | Khutbah by Dr. Omar Suleiman

Powerful analogies from the Prophet ﷺ and his companions about navigating betrayal, bad relationships, unreciprocated kindness, and the jadedness that follows.
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  • @saramennani
    @saramennani2 жыл бұрын

    “Don’t punish people with the pain that was inflicted on you” Muhammad PBUH

  • @faisalumer7545

    @faisalumer7545

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍

  • @bangchanswifey1113

    @bangchanswifey1113

    2 жыл бұрын

    But y do I feel like to i seriously feel like murdering whoever has hurt me so far and I couldnt even defend myself

  • @whore4laksa

    @whore4laksa

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bangchanswifey1113 you are not alone 😭 sometimes I try my best to just be natural where I accept when things are done then it's done. I'm trying my best to not hurt or doing something bad to them

  • @iamhijabsterz9556

    @iamhijabsterz9556

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bangchanswifey1113 same. Just like those who bullied me because of the way i dressed up. This is what i hate most of the time. I hate when people tryin to treat me like their lapdog. I just ask Allah one thing. Let me live peacefully. But it just get more wors since i got bullie not only in my real life but also in social media. I know that i dont dress like He want. But this is too much for me. Sometimes i cursed Allah when my own mom gossip with her friends about woman that she saw at mall wearing thight shirt with hijab. People say Allah know that youre strong. He should know that im not that strong. He know my heart better tham anyone. He should stop it. But no. People said its is test from Allah. People cam only act like they know what or how i feel. But, actually, no, they don care about it.

  • @maemills1470

    @maemills1470

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@iamhijabsterz9556 Please don't curse allah like seriously don't. I understand where ur coming from but this life is just a test. You might have it hard but there's others who have it worse sorry. Just have patience and keep making dua. If u got all u wished for then wouldn't u be attached to the dunya🤍🤍

  • @kralik2002sg
    @kralik2002sg2 жыл бұрын

    "Better to be disappointed than to be the one who is disappointing." Beautiful and so very true. I needed to hear this from a sincere and learned person like Sheikh.

  • @mariskad8405

    @mariskad8405

    2 жыл бұрын

    Likewise. It has been a long day for me at work and finding this lecture is certainly a help for me.

  • @lailaabdulrahman6025

    @lailaabdulrahman6025

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@reziachowdhury9816 jam and jam

  • @El-sr1id

    @El-sr1id

    2 жыл бұрын

    No. The reverse is true. The disappointee is passively only exerting their free will to to the extent that they can.. there was an expectation. It was unfulfilled. That was between them and Allah. I have no authority to feel upset by or deem something to be . Disappointing. Allah is the only judge.

  • @Angie1991Khaled

    @Angie1991Khaled

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel we can disappoint people even when we are not disappointing sometimes people make you feel very down with this, let’s not forget that we can be wrong in when we are disappointed also. Salam 😊

  • @aribakhan4806

    @aribakhan4806

    2 жыл бұрын

    6:33 Better to be a MAQTOOL not a QATIL

  • @aishat3808
    @aishat3808 Жыл бұрын

    If you are young and Allah has guided your heart towards lectures like this, say Alhamdulillah. It does not matter what your past is, you are being given a chance to rectify at an early stage. If you are older, say Alhamdulillah. Do not waste the opportunity. When you trip or fall off the track, struggle back up as quickly as you can. It gets easier with time. May Allah guide us all on the right path and forgive our sins and shortcomings. Amen.

  • @rasheedasadat9275

    @rasheedasadat9275

    6 ай бұрын

    Ameen

  • @Nabeega123

    @Nabeega123

    4 ай бұрын

    🙏📿 Allah bless you, for what you have said applies to me and will give me strength in heart inshallah.

  • @siti75
    @siti752 жыл бұрын

    "When the prophet saw helped people is because of who he was and not because of who they were..." this statement is so deep

  • @EB-gt1pq
    @EB-gt1pq9 ай бұрын

    All I want are friends who dont hurt and abandon me.

  • @ManizaMaryam

    @ManizaMaryam

    Ай бұрын

    Yea😢

  • @afzals.9839
    @afzals.98392 жыл бұрын

    I learnt about Islam since my childhood and tried my best to apply it in my life but there were times i went in self-doubt because nothing went the way it should. I am a lonely person with absolutely no friends. This made me wonder if I am on the wrong. I thank the present day ulemas who talk on practical topics that help to meet the challenges of the modern world by applying Quran and sunah in life. Thank you for refreshing our Iman. May Allah bless you.

  • @simpleviewer7445

    @simpleviewer7445

    2 жыл бұрын

    Be patient. Surely Allah will soon bless you with good friends and a good environment. May Allah grant you success in this world and the hereafter

  • @tahminabegum5377

    @tahminabegum5377

    2 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu a'laikum wa rahmatullah. May Allah bless you endlessly for highlighting a topic that most people are generally clueless or ignorant about. As a result they suffer. May Allah help these good people to come to terms to their painful deprivations and uplift them in their taqwa and closeness to Allah and reward them for their pain and patience in both the worlds abundantly. Ameen. Summa Ameen. Jazak Allahu khairan.

  • @afzals.9839

    @afzals.9839

    2 жыл бұрын

    Surprising, people spend time watching something they don't like.

  • @hadizaismailahmed3596

    @hadizaismailahmed3596

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @Zenigma217

    @Zenigma217

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are never lonely or alone. Allah SWA is always with you. I will always recall my mothers advice: “Friends are like seasons, they come and go but Allah SWA never leaves you. Make Him SWA your best friend. You will never be disappointed like people can disappoint you” .

  • @ramio1983
    @ramio19832 жыл бұрын

    I am deflated lately, from all angles i am fighting my right to be treated kindly, courteously, respected and loved- it's so so hard when you apply these qualities to all people but they never absorb and share it- nor do they appreciate you or your presence. Lately it's hit me hard and i've never felt so alone in this World.

  • @rosem5041

    @rosem5041

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just remember Allah swt will never disappoint you, humans will don’t have too high expectations of others. This life is a test and inshaallah every wrong will be corrected on the day of Judgement. Ask from Allah to grant you patience especially pray tahajjud. This is my outlook through life experiences and Allah swt knows best.

  • @allahknows8004

    @allahknows8004

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm in the same situation as you 😳

  • @elmikadir7653

    @elmikadir7653

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm with u bro.. im also at a very low point in my life.. the tests just keep on coming.. but then u realise, the real is test is the test of faith.. if we get through it right, we will be closer to Allah.. just keep on doing the right things bro..

  • @doncotti_certi4ever

    @doncotti_certi4ever

    2 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum brother pls get in touch with me as I know what u mean and we should try to still keep faith in people, where are u from? My name is Sulaiman :)

  • @Akhan4u

    @Akhan4u

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make it easy for you brother. I know how it feels. But remember when ALLAH loves you then he qualifies you for the tests. So it also means you are one of his favourites ❤

  • @haywanchiu9971
    @haywanchiu99712 жыл бұрын

    Never stop dreaming. Be hungry and never stop believing in your dreams. If someone can do it, you can do it. Be strong

  • @haywanchiu9971

    @haywanchiu9971

    2 жыл бұрын

    Being successful don’t happen by magic Success is dependent on the action or steps you take to achieve it. Show me a man who doesn't have an investment and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke Investment is building a safe haven for the future: with the right choice of investment that has at least 1% minimum risk and with an Expert guidance, profit and interest should be 💯 guaranteed.

  • @dungmasibay1613

    @dungmasibay1613

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@haywanchiu9971 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior colleague at work who was doing well but never had an investment. Unfortunately he lost his job and went from living a comfortable life to hardship. There would had been something to fall back on if he had an investment

  • @davidkemp6929

    @davidkemp6929

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@berryobrain8433 True, there is never any culture of wealth gathering or wealth creation to keep multiplying your finance that lack an investment value. This means, if you have to plan you must be an investor. that's why Investing in crypto stands to be the best

  • @julianmiguel2429

    @julianmiguel2429

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@berryobrain8433 The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my crypto investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.

  • @victoriamellor2189

    @victoriamellor2189

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@haywanchiu9971 It is the planning you put into today that will yield the dividends of prosperity for you tomorrow.

  • @sofiyarini
    @sofiyarini Жыл бұрын

    Even if u leave people alone, but they won't leave u alone 😭😭😭 i know this so much I need to find innocent leaves among the thorny world

  • @Nabeega123

    @Nabeega123

    4 ай бұрын

    Mufti Menk says look within yourself as well. Do not put 100% blame on others, try to do more good on your part as well, if it does not make them leave you alone you are getting good deeds for your hereafter at least and it may also take your mind off of them. 😅

  • @aminajkvc
    @aminajkvc5 ай бұрын

    "People are like a set of a hundred camels. Out of a hundred, you'll only find one that's good for a journey." - Prophet Muhammed a.s.

  • @kareemali2688
    @kareemali26889 ай бұрын

    I needed this. Particularly “don’t betray the ones who have betrayed you.” Bless you both for your work.

  • @fatemaqaderi92
    @fatemaqaderi922 жыл бұрын

    Dr.Omar Suliman is that one camel which is better amongs others!

  • @TheWorldisTemporary

    @TheWorldisTemporary

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mash'Allah 😀😃🙂 may Allah make us all among those 1 camel 🐫

  • @ndeyediouf1101

    @ndeyediouf1101

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ma Shaa Allah. Wallahi it is true. May Allah SWT reward him with the best of rewards in this Dunya and the Hereafter . Allahouma amine

  • @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873

    @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ndeyediouf1101 aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen

  • @Sultanq67
    @Sultanq672 жыл бұрын

    We need these lectures to be done in our Arab societies to bring them back to the straight path Jazak Allah khair shiekh may Allah rewards you with the highest level of Heaven and be among the prophets and their companions

  • @safferz2043

    @safferz2043

    2 жыл бұрын

    Indeed brother.

  • @Sultanq67

    @Sultanq67

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yasminenazarine1629 لكن سبحان الله انا عربي من السعودية جدة

  • @welhamaj2785

    @welhamaj2785

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you brother 👍💯

  • @faadumomoalim6450

    @faadumomoalim6450

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love Arabic language also I don't understand Islamic lecture Arabic language

  • @seemakhan8412
    @seemakhan84122 жыл бұрын

    "People like leaves w/o thorns." Those are people who walk 🚶‍♂️ in forgiveness at all times in their lives, and they do not allow life's bad experiences hearden their hearts.

  • @Kayotesden
    @Kayotesden2 жыл бұрын

    For me, this video is worth the 50 therapy sessions. May Allah guide us all.

  • @zaakirahkhan7978
    @zaakirahkhan79782 жыл бұрын

    I know the feeling when u dont trouble people but they keep coming at you.

  • @doncotti_certi4ever

    @doncotti_certi4ever

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah ease your burden and guide u towards some honest and supportive companions Ameen 🤲🏽🙏🏽

  • @sofiyarini

    @sofiyarini

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @ahmedhussein1509

    @ahmedhussein1509

    Жыл бұрын

    Worst feeling becuz i dont like raising my voice yelling cussing being mean etc but in the past ive done this a lot "matching energy" mentality is toxic in the end only satan ones. When you are patient long term this is bettee because patience is lile a muscle you have to use it for it to increase.

  • @kayesmith9414
    @kayesmith94142 жыл бұрын

    My Situation exactly with my older family member Sisters and an Aunt. Make Dua for me because at this time I'm tired of trying to be the better person and they don't try it's so bad at this time I don't even want a relationship with them 😔🙁😕☹️ it's like this message was sent to me by Allah. My response was to speak of Allah continuously

  • @mariaclaudettecaluban5286

    @mariaclaudettecaluban5286

    2 жыл бұрын

    Salaam alaikum Wawa barakatuh sister Kaye! Brother Omar has another lecture 'overcoming compassion burnout'.. it will help you, in shaa Allah 🙏🙏🙏. Wassalam

  • @irmaiz133

    @irmaiz133

    Жыл бұрын

    @Kaye Smith just keep your distance. My ENTIRE family betrayed me...even my elderly mom and dad (most possibly connived by my envious siblings and relatives). Allah knows my truth so best it to move away...yes God die this to me because I was blindly making all my decisions based on what they said be it career, friends, self-acceptance and my potential. Family's fangs are most fatal for they are our closest in blood. Sadly, these are all earthly relationships but like he said - don't be the wrongdoer. Bless you.

  • @kaydee3691
    @kaydee36912 жыл бұрын

    I keep coming back to this particular lecture. It makes me a better person.

  • @HQ93
    @HQ932 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s also important to maybe mention when it is okay to cut off/ not be a push over…many youth struggle with codependency and a lack of self worth and continue on in friendships that are unfulfilling and often damaging…thoughts?

  • @doncotti_certi4ever

    @doncotti_certi4ever

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think u have a point although I think we should not totally cut off people just make some distance and learn to be the good example and expect our reward with Allah SWT 🙂

  • @hannaha188

    @hannaha188

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah his points are all validated, but Most of what he said so beautifully literally is in the theory. In real practical day to day situation There is only so much a person can be this much subdued and so unworldly patience and understanding to take the high road. I think in general the Muslims community are so good at sugar coding issues.

  • @junadamatta2348

    @junadamatta2348

    2 жыл бұрын

    What the khateeb is saying or at least what I understood based on my little knowledge and understanding is that try to be an ideal Muslim which is trying to be like our beloved prophet, enduring everything and hoping nothing from anyone beside Allah that's the essence of the khutba I suppose, every Muslim should try to get to that level but Allah knows and prophet knew that its not a possible goal to be achieved by everybody so there are different level choices of imans and this is the highest level of imaan the middle ground of an is returning the favor and the lowest level of Imaan is trying not to hurt anyone. So to answer your question 👀I believe that if you can't keep being the bigger person and can't be a neutral person either in a relationship you should walk out that's the most you can do

  • @junadamatta2348

    @junadamatta2348

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hannaha188 agreed that there only so much a person can endure but it's not suger coding but rather setting examples you would find all kind of people even in prophets Era, not everyone was our prophet nor everyone even from his Era could achieve his level of faith and iman so there were people who walked out of relationships and didn't take shit from anybody and they were not criticized 👀the khateeb is talking about the highest level of iman there's the middle ground and lower grounds of actions and imaan too

  • @0741921

    @0741921

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@doncotti_certi4ever its sugar coating and 2nd, there's a difference a level you're trying to achieve cs what you actually do. Why set artificially low standards? Lastly, I don't think he's saying keep people in your life, hex saying don't isolate yourself in fear of getting hurt again, which is fair. Remain a person who is helpful and brings positivity to others, even if they don't always return the favour.

  • @b.i.n.a2959
    @b.i.n.a29592 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad the brother ask this Q because I'm having the same issue..I keep thinking that this world is like a torture for good people.. people who trying hard to be good, do good, & willing to forgive all the time 🤔🤲🙈🙊🙉

  • @Via_30
    @Via_30 Жыл бұрын

    people will show their true colors when you are no longer beneficial to their life. You will start loosing your partner/spouse, friends even family. Just stay strong, have faith, and avoid them…until Allah embrace you with unexpected gift…beyond your imagination for your patience.

  • @seemakhan8412
    @seemakhan84122 жыл бұрын

    When people keep letting me down, it means I am expecting more from them than I am giving to them. It also means that I am keeping the focus not on my God & Deen, Gratitude included, but rather on my selfish needs/wants/desires...all of which is idolatry, no matter how temporary.

  • @mariaclaudettecaluban5286

    @mariaclaudettecaluban5286

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jazaka Allahu khayran katheeran for this reminder 🙏🙏🙏

  • @rayhanalamrabete7789
    @rayhanalamrabete77892 жыл бұрын

    You just can't imagine how this helped me and gave me strength Jazaka llah khayr

  • @sobiashah8215
    @sobiashah82152 жыл бұрын

    SUBHANALLAH Prophet Muhammad SAWW helped people because of who HE was,not because who they were. ❤❤❤amazing

  • @ayya5990
    @ayya599011 ай бұрын

    There is group of people that tend to: 📝 if you messed with them, they will messed you back. 📝 even if you leave them alone, they'll not leave you alone and make claims about you. 📝 if can get in the game and muscle your capabilities the way people deal with each other, but you won't come out clean. Advice: 📝 Loan your name for a day, in which you will be impoverished you'll be in poverty. 📝 Let them speak, let them prick, let them do whatever they want. ✨️ 📝 in the day of judgement, all deeds will be compensated. 📝 the era of people get hardship to find trustworthy person: rare price. ✨️ Reminder: 📝 Hold the quality in different standard. Be the 1 out of other 99 camels. 📝 Don't justify bad behavior based on others bad behavior. 📝 Don't punish people with the pain that was inflicted within. 📝 Refuse to succumb in nastiness or things that have become acceptable amongst people. Even if it will cost me something of this dunya. 📝 Don't loose the akheerah and seek for Allah's rahmah. 📝 Don't preclude the possibility, even if it needs time. 📝 Lower expectations on people, and grow stronger bond to Allah. 📝 Give yourself: name, reputation, etc. Give all back to Allah. 📝 Don't justify yourself, if messed up and do wrong seek forgiveness to Allah. Thank you for this amazing video. ✨️

  • @abdmwenabennis
    @abdmwenabennis2 жыл бұрын

    These are reminders that I already know I'm going to revisit over and over again throughout my life. Thank you so much

  • @moniqueaubour2055

    @moniqueaubour2055

    2 жыл бұрын

    Islam in all livings days...here is the main point

  • @Nabeega123

    @Nabeega123

    4 ай бұрын

    Mashallah this is what the deen is about 🙏🙏

  • @mpramd
    @mpramd Жыл бұрын

    Ive been there, and the answer is being brave to be disappointed. So that we can stop and leave. Rasulullah teaches us that disappointment is normal, every story of him and the sahabat also shows that. But the message about being brave to be disappointed is rarely be found

  • @maxw6221
    @maxw6221 Жыл бұрын

    اللهم انك عفوٌ تحب العفو فعفو عني و لي والديا و لاخواني و اخواتي في الاسلام اللهم ثبت قلوبنا على دينانا آمين

  • @Zenigma217
    @Zenigma2172 жыл бұрын

    You are never lonely or alone. Allah SWA is always with you. I will always recall my mothers advice: “Friends are like seasons, they come and go but Allah SWA never leaves you. Make Him SWA your best friend. You will never be disappointed like people can disappoint you” .

  • @sharahgracias1453
    @sharahgracias14532 жыл бұрын

    Don't punish people the pain that was inflicted in you🔆..amen.. Alhamdullilah.... enlightenment...

  • @fans2645
    @fans26452 жыл бұрын

    I'm Kurdish but i watch English khotbah your channel is very useful thanks for everything 🤗👏

  • @friendship9904
    @friendship99042 жыл бұрын

    It's been happen to me for 40 yrs since I was a kid but I thank God for his help and keeping an on Eye me support keep me safe thank U God

  • @chrisschumacher2939
    @chrisschumacher29392 жыл бұрын

    Uplifting reminder. May Allah guide us to the best standard of character. May Allah heal our hearts. May Allah heal our pain and sadness.

  • @RenaissanceMan02
    @RenaissanceMan022 ай бұрын

    May peace, countless blessings and Mercy be upon the Holy beloved Prophet Muhammad ( S.A.W ). ❤️🌺❤️💐❤️🌷❤️🌹

  • @tiffanywalker9121
    @tiffanywalker91212 жыл бұрын

    All of my friends left me when I became Muslim.

  • @hellohisalutsalaam5942

    @hellohisalutsalaam5942

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah SWT bless you with better than them Ameen.

  • @immammuddin5019

    @immammuddin5019

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you with better people than before. I have the highest regards and respect for reverts. Subhanallah you guys sacrifice so much. May Allah keep you all firm upon this deen and grant you sabr to tackle the challenges. Aameen. Barakallahu feek.

  • @one-1n

    @one-1n

    2 жыл бұрын

    Allah is with you .We your sisters and brothers in islam are with you by dua . This is dunya and Allah will reward you for your patience حفظك الله ورعاك

  • @siti75

    @siti75

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe Allah swt is choosing better people to be your friends tt will lead you to Jannah..trust in Allah's plans

  • @MukhtarEnglish

    @MukhtarEnglish

    2 жыл бұрын

    Allah is with you forever ♥️

  • @tanzeelaamjad2414
    @tanzeelaamjad24142 жыл бұрын

    Me ( tanzeela ) my lungs are very badly affected by covid 19 have covid 19 have severe asthma lungs heart liver many more underlying health conditions please pray for my health

  • @Mairash254

    @Mairash254

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shifakiillah

  • @hashh2019

    @hashh2019

    2 жыл бұрын

    I will be praying for you- dont be anxious. Inshallah you will be healed. Please get steroids from doctor, antibiotics so pneumonia doesn’t happen. take zinc and vitamin C- drink soups. And rest as much as possible. And just talk to God lying down and dont stress out.

  • @sultanah937

    @sultanah937

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah give you shiffah.

  • @yueai999
    @yueai9992 жыл бұрын

    Allah leads me here. He wants me to hear this as my heart grow weary and disappointed without a break. Alhamdulillah. ❤️❤️🤲🤲

  • @serenepeace2207
    @serenepeace2207 Жыл бұрын

    choose your friends wisely, drop them like a fly if you find people unethical.I do my duties towards the needy but do not expect in return. always have your own sets of rules and expectation from friends, if they don't meet your standard, then move on. Still do your duty by helping people and other living creatures. My honor is the most important thing, that precludes trust and generosity.

  • @user-hs2ct1iv6x
    @user-hs2ct1iv6x2 жыл бұрын

    I had this experience and then I jumped up to my self Absolutely lonely. Just work and study and surf the internet . recently I found one person that seems honestly and have good character .

  • @pearla6987
    @pearla698710 ай бұрын

    Subhan Allah... I have sick elderly parents who could be sad with me or my sister if they hear the drama she's making... my other sibling says let's just lie to them to spare them the saddness at either of us... i don't mind what the whole world thinks but i don't want them to be sad with me... lying to them risks making them sad with me... i asked Allah to advise me specifically through Sheikh Omar Suleiman but didn't enter a search topic & was scrolling hurriedly while driving what Allah would send my way... Allah sent me this... I think He's telling me to try & protect them by lying & risk them being sad at me & that Allah will make sure that doesn't happen to me??😭😭😭 please pray for me & for my parents

  • @Nabeega123

    @Nabeega123

    4 ай бұрын

    You may still seek the guidance of the sheikh, but I would say tell them the truth. Allah will protect their hearts and make it easy on them. Sowing that seed of doubt in their minds about you will kill them faster than the temporary pleasure of the lie you tell them. Speak the truth and set yourself and them free. Or another option, avoid the topic. Don't speak of it at all. This can save you from having to make such a decision in the first place. I don't feel lying will be the best option in accordance with the deen. Allahu Alaam.

  • @KamranSher
    @KamranSher2 жыл бұрын

    Sheikh always amazes us. This khutbah is truly related to our times

  • @user-um5iu5cl2p
    @user-um5iu5cl2p10 ай бұрын

    I just got betrayed by friend today and I need some motivations on how to overcome them. Alhamdulillah this is the best. 😢

  • @azeemashariff3217
    @azeemashariff32172 жыл бұрын

    I heard this lecture today by auto play. It's like Allah swt made me hear this right when I needed it. Subhanallah

  • @rayhanalamrabete7789
    @rayhanalamrabete77892 жыл бұрын

    I'm really upset the enviroment around me isn't faithful it's hard for me to protect my Iman I'm very afraid to lose it I need an enviroment to grow up because I have weak iman

  • @OmoshNaeem

    @OmoshNaeem

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make it easy for you and all of us. Ameen

  • @emaanemaan5540

    @emaanemaan5540

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here but reading Quran with translation really helps and increases imaan

  • @mariembenkhalifa5609

    @mariembenkhalifa5609

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep reading Quran on a daily basis and keep praying that Allah makes you closer to the ones that will help you come closer to Him.

  • @fluffypancakes9359

    @fluffypancakes9359

    2 жыл бұрын

    Asalamu alykum. I hope you are well. I would say leave if you can. For your deen, dunya and akhira. Make dua for Allah to put you in a better environment. InshaAllah being somewhere new will be better for you. Remember that man who killed 100, he left that place to to to a new environment because where he was wasnt a good place for his deen. If you can leave, do so. But this sint for everyone so look at your situation if you think it makes sense for you you leave. Asalamu alykum

  • @SSidh4130
    @SSidh41302 жыл бұрын

    This is what I want to hear again n again. الحمد لله for this 😌

  • @ibnu3109
    @ibnu31092 жыл бұрын

    Assalaamu alaikum(wrb). Masha Allah! I felt Dr Omar Suleiman was talking to me directly. For someone who has been always let down by one after another, this speech was comforting. Jazakallah khairan. May Allah(SWT) bless you always. Ameen.

  • @Humblyguided

    @Humblyguided

    2 жыл бұрын

    He is sharing his own life experience, as well as Prophet life experience and companion.

  • @yassymp4
    @yassymp4 Жыл бұрын

    Im the person who unknowingly hurt my friends 😔 I apologized and asked for forgiveness and they said they did but its clear what I did hurt them so much theyve been ignoring me since, I didnt mean it but it doesnr justify it, Ive been asking Allah for forgiveness since it happened

  • @lurock7527
    @lurock75272 жыл бұрын

    Al Hamdllah for Islam. Nothing makes me feel more ate ease in my life. There is no greater support system Mashallah. Thank you Skeikh for the bars.

  • @bushraangel2878
    @bushraangel28782 жыл бұрын

    I don't have brother. .. I see u as my elder bro.. Guiding me to truth and righteousness... 😎😎 may Allah help u reach levels in jannah masha aAlah

  • @smile6889
    @smile68892 жыл бұрын

    Alhamduillah 🤲 Sub7anAllah I was struggling with this matter this past month.. may Allah heal the hearts and unite the ummah..

  • @hudaismail6735
    @hudaismail6735 Жыл бұрын

    Idk how many times I have came back to this lecture

  • @salmaadam4272
    @salmaadam42722 жыл бұрын

    ‎سبحان الله و بحمده ,- سبحان الله العظيم💕🌷 ‎اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ ‎ﷺ💕🌷

  • @El-sr1id
    @El-sr1id2 жыл бұрын

    This is why above all else we all must place Allah. The only friend we need is Allah. The only relationship that is non negotiable is Allah. He is the only only that has ultimate loyalty and unwaivering commitment. Even if it may not look and seem it at the time. Remember. Allah is the greatest Planner. Never ever under any circumstance or condition ever cast judgement on anyone or anything. Allah made it easy for us. Let Allah deal with the technicalities. For any one of us to assume what Allah really wants for someone else or even us Is asinine. We could never hope to understand or comprehend Allah. If they take the Shahada. They are brothers or sisters. They will stand before Allah ,not me. Or any one of us. We all will. We all will answer to Allah. Support and encourage them. No need to argue and fight. We can disagree and still be both civil and courteous. Still respect each other as creations of Allah We all understand our Din a bit different. And that's ok. Sharing our ideas ,growing, spreading good amongst the ummah is sure to please Allah. Maybe I can do more. But I always remember Allah. Allah is the only only with perfect timing. If Allah wills it. It shall be. Remember. All things on Allah's time, not our time. Masha Allah. Bismillah.

  • @Asmak225
    @Asmak225 Жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear this. Definitely patience is necessary with toxic people/fam in todays’ world.

  • @olubukolamuhammed543
    @olubukolamuhammed5432 жыл бұрын

    May All-Mighty Allah continue to protect Dr Omar Suleiman, amin

  • @Shad1991
    @Shad19912 жыл бұрын

    Excellent khutba. Learned something beautiful today as someone who struggles alot with dealing people as a result of past experiences.

  • @doncotti_certi4ever

    @doncotti_certi4ever

    2 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum brother where are u from?

  • @lunak86
    @lunak862 жыл бұрын

    It would've been much better if the first part of the khutbah was still in the video, part where Cheikh Omar was making dua'a... It was very heart warming masha'Allah

  • @salehasami7543
    @salehasami75432 жыл бұрын

    The lecture is truly relatable to us in many ways. May Allah SWT make us amongst the ones who have those high standards. Let us be amongst the ones who forgive others faults for the sake of Allah SWT. Ameen

  • @Azizelle
    @Azizelle2 жыл бұрын

    Would also really appreciate the Hadith reference in the video description! This video was so powerful and relevant. The best lecture I’ve heard on this subject

  • @wahidullahabaseen7587
    @wahidullahabaseen758710 ай бұрын

    One of the most well spoken Scholar. Ma Sha Allah.

  • @jamilaahmed2828
    @jamilaahmed28282 жыл бұрын

    Jazak'Allah khair for this speech Sheik. These were the words I needed to hear today

  • @iaamiramad
    @iaamiramad2 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah Alhamdulillah. Exactly. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @Ayse-wf9es
    @Ayse-wf9es2 жыл бұрын

    People can be disappointing and exhausting. It's better to lower your expectations. I do feel that after experiencing a series of disappointing/hurtful/duplicitous/fickle behavior in people, you do become faster at emotionally detaching yourself from them and moving on. If you have mastered the ability to help others without expecting anything (not even respect) in return, then more power to you.

  • @al_firdows
    @al_firdows Жыл бұрын

    13:14 JazakumuAllahu kheyran May Allah make us amongst them and grant us ikhlas

  • @yannishabdi4572
    @yannishabdi45722 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah sheikh May Allah rewind you for taking the time to reminds us these words it definitely touched my heart n will make big difference in my life inshallah 💜💜

  • @ahijabirose
    @ahijabirose2 жыл бұрын

    So many gems to unpack here. This was recommended to me exactly when I needed it subhanAllah. JazakAllah khair

  • @fadumafaduma5376
    @fadumafaduma5376 Жыл бұрын

    Inshallah with the guidance of Allah I will try to follow the correct way of Islam so that I can enter Jannah fordoosa. Amiin

  • @FatmaYousuf
    @FatmaYousuf2 жыл бұрын

    Your weekly khutbas are always the answers to my duas, wallah

  • @manayousuf
    @manayousuf2 жыл бұрын

    It came as recommended at a time, when I needed it the most. SubhanAllah

  • @naziazaffar8732
    @naziazaffar87322 жыл бұрын

    Walekum Asalam wr wb. Ameen to all your Duas. Jazak Allah khair, Sheikh Omar suleman. May Allah bless you with more knowledge of His Deen.

  • @aminajamal593
    @aminajamal5932 жыл бұрын

    Ma shaa ALLAH so relevant in these times to be good to all and do ahsan to all

  • @tasamazi6539
    @tasamazi65392 жыл бұрын

    I fehlt so touched by this lecture. Alhamdulillah Many thanks to you and all your efforts.

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah47182 жыл бұрын

    Wooow !!! Until this , I didn't know why Ali (A .S) stayed back . Thank you so much Sheikh Omar .

  • @salmaadam4272
    @salmaadam42722 жыл бұрын

    جزاك اللهُ خيرًا 🤲🏻♥️ سبحان الله‎ Words of wisdom….

  • @fbb2489
    @fbb24892 жыл бұрын

    Sir Omar,beautiful speech.

  • @luvforeverify
    @luvforeverify2 жыл бұрын

    Another very good Khutbah by Sh. Omar Suleiman. May Allah (SWT) bless you and your family, abundantly, Ameen.

  • @jaraibah997
    @jaraibah9972 жыл бұрын

    Mashaa Allah. Thank you for the reminder, I really needed this

  • @Baba-18
    @Baba-182 жыл бұрын

    SubhanaAllah!! JajakAllah khairun for this wonderful talk 🙏

  • @ummua5006
    @ummua50062 жыл бұрын

    جزاكم الله خيرا و في ميزان حسناتكم جميعا يوم القيامة

  • @zs4926
    @zs49262 жыл бұрын

    The beginning of this lecture really surprised me, its not a coincidence that today of all days i was thinking the exact same thing as that man who commented about avoiding and leaving the people and today i came across this lecture of all lectures and it guided me against my wrong judgement/thinking. I am seeing in my life the guidance of Allah (SWT) almost everyday Alhamdullillah. JazakaAllah Sheikh, may Allah (SWT) reward you for your efforts, Aameen. I see you talking about things many Sheikhs/lecturers fail to mention and this is not the first time ive found enlightenment and help through your lecture.

  • @maisahbint6901
    @maisahbint69012 жыл бұрын

    I needed this so bad right now alhamduallah

  • @rmoham1
    @rmoham12 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khairan sheikh.may Allah protect u and your family.bless you with more beneficial knowledge.accept it from you.aameen. Listening to this lecture made life easier. Allhamdulillah

  • @josiesena6958
    @josiesena69582 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the encouragement.Blessings

  • @queeniestribe2769
    @queeniestribe2769 Жыл бұрын

    At the age of 42, I’m done. All I need is Allah SWT

  • @ranipool6341
    @ranipool63412 жыл бұрын

    Masya Allah.Thank you so much.

  • @Positivenadia
    @Positivenadia2 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah I see the Dr. 😍😍 congratulations! Mashaallah TabarakAllah

  • @adijahidi1215
    @adijahidi12152 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah walhamdulila wa laailahailallah Allahuakbar walahaula wa lakuwata Ilabilahilaaliyu laadhim ❤💚💙💜❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @saeedaqazi
    @saeedaqazi2 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allah Khairun kaseera dear brother, may Allah SWT reward you in this world and hereafter, ameen sum Ameen Ya'Rabul Alameen.

  • @hamidahali1234
    @hamidahali12342 жыл бұрын

    Amin ya RABBI. Shukraan ya Ustaz.

  • @fatimamahjoub2680
    @fatimamahjoub26802 жыл бұрын

    This is so beautifully explained. جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @b.r.m.k.7770
    @b.r.m.k.77702 жыл бұрын

    THIS is real teachings of Islam.

  • @sharizuzfar9874
    @sharizuzfar98742 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah khairan Dr. Omar for another insightful and a much needed khutbah

  • @al-husna8711
    @al-husna87112 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallahu khairan katsiran... May Allah bless you and your family Dr. oemar... Your speech soothe my heart...

  • @RubinaMerchant
    @RubinaMerchant2 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allahu Khairan. Spot on as always. May Allah Grant us a higher standard of character. Ameen.

  • @doncotti_certi4ever

    @doncotti_certi4ever

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen 🤲🏽

  • @aliaad1
    @aliaad12 жыл бұрын

    Jazaak Allah wa bi khair

  • @SyazanaSaad
    @SyazanaSaad2 жыл бұрын

    I love this. Thank you

  • @allahknows8004
    @allahknows80042 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah Khair. This lecture has helped me so much. Being let down by so many....

  • @tasneemlatib5404
    @tasneemlatib54042 жыл бұрын

    May each and everyone be blessed with Aafiyah .Everyone is struggling

  • @tanweerqureshi220
    @tanweerqureshi220 Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah, JazakAllah for sharing your thoughts and knowledge with us

  • @Davinanurameera
    @Davinanurameera Жыл бұрын

    Masha’Allah Masha’Allah tabaraka’Allah JazakAllah khair syukron Alhamdullilah Allahuma bariq