What we wish we knew before getting MARRIED | Loumed

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  • @YusufTruth
    @YusufTruth2 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing mashallah ❤️‍🔥

  • @projecthealthylifestyle5243

    @projecthealthylifestyle5243

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why are u here 💀

  • @Whatever-jk3yv

    @Whatever-jk3yv

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@projecthealthylifestyle5243 bruh, let him live😂😂

  • @norasilkhi4868

    @norasilkhi4868

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@projecthealthylifestyle5243 sameee question for u and me? Why are we all here 😂😂

  • @eastafricanfairy

    @eastafricanfairy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@projecthealthylifestyle5243 LMFAOO

  • @WandererinAqaba
    @WandererinAqaba2 жыл бұрын

    Mashaa Allah Being a mom of 5. Just Wana say I'm sure your parents are very proud in your thinking. Realistic and modest in terms of marriage. Jazakum Allahu khairyn

  • @rebeccajane5016
    @rebeccajane50162 жыл бұрын

    You can still use your dresses and get professional wedding memory pictures!! It’s never too late

  • @_re_ef_
    @_re_ef_2 жыл бұрын

    I love how she says tings, so adorable. MashaAllah a wonderful couple. May Allah bless you continuously.

  • @amnaakram2424
    @amnaakram24242 жыл бұрын

    I definitely think this is much needed advice especially for this generation. May Allah SWT continue to strengthen your marriage!

  • @excuseme9458
    @excuseme94582 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad you guys are using microphones instead of expecting the camera to pick up what you're saying.

  • @Nxzuh
    @Nxzuh2 жыл бұрын

    Loved the last point Ahmed made. This video on a whole was amazing and informative. Would love to see a pt.2❤️

  • @anacossa8437
    @anacossa84372 жыл бұрын

    I am not muslim, I am christian but seeing your calmness toward each other is amazing. Marriage where God lives is amazing.

  • @donquixote3292

    @donquixote3292

    2 жыл бұрын

    You ought to watch Dr Zakir Naik’s “Similarities between Islam and Christianity Q&A” videos on youtube

  • @anacossa8437

    @anacossa8437

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@donquixote3292 thanks

  • @riyana3752

    @riyana3752

    Жыл бұрын

    Listen to zaker nike

  • @chirazsidimabrouk
    @chirazsidimabrouk2 жыл бұрын

    I love you Louiza❤️❤️ may Allah keep you guys happy and make your relationship even stronger.

  • @Hell0nabs
    @Hell0nabs2 жыл бұрын

    Lots of valuable gems in this one guys, barak Allah feekum!

  • @iraqinadousha25
    @iraqinadousha252 жыл бұрын

    After getting divorced to getting re married to the same person I agree on all the points made especially in this kind of culture although we are in the west sometimes there still can be a culture clash even if ur from the same background . I say every marriage has its ups and downs u just have to have sabr and keep pushing

  • @daniahbelazi3004
    @daniahbelazi30042 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah I love this ❤️❤️ please do more of these videos and spread this information that needs to be heard

  • @ettim9906
    @ettim99062 жыл бұрын

    Hello! Lovely video🤗💖 i just wanted to comment on 3:46 the topic of not having a wedding, I don't think it's too late, you can still organize a little party with your family and enjoy bc you're still young and u're free to have a wedding if you want to hold on the memory there is no time restriction it's just about the happy vibes.

  • @TheWiiZZLE

    @TheWiiZZLE

    2 жыл бұрын

    And it's important for the community to have an event marking the union, so everybody knows they are for each other

  • @user-kd2kd1jr9s
    @user-kd2kd1jr9s2 жыл бұрын

    Awww I loved this! Very wise words guys, thank you ❤️

  • @haneefahshaw6805
    @haneefahshaw6805 Жыл бұрын

    AMAZING video, very much needed. JazakaAllah, barakallah fikum❤

  • @saraalhamaiel7085
    @saraalhamaiel70852 жыл бұрын

    I loved this! Real couple goals Ma'Shaa'Allah, Allahuma bark feekum.

  • @justchilling5893
    @justchilling58932 жыл бұрын

    That last analogy was rlly good!

  • @fantadrame2481
    @fantadrame24812 жыл бұрын

    I was waiting for thissss ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @merimi37
    @merimi372 жыл бұрын

    mashaAllah your editing skills are becoming better alhamdulillah. Thanks for this video and the advices guys.

  • @yedigeashmet1875
    @yedigeashmet1875 Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah brother, this is very good to see this type of content for all not married brothers out there, jazakallah khair

  • @Minty27o
    @Minty27o2 жыл бұрын

    That advice about not being 50 50 but 80 30 sometimes etc in dif situations, actually very true. That's some real good advice. All of it actually. JazakAllah. May Allah keep you both blessed and wise ameen

  • @noorfajar8711
    @noorfajar87112 жыл бұрын

    This is such a beautiful video full of wisdom. Can't be grateful enough! JazakAllah khair ✨

  • @BQ900

    @BQ900

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes many blessings to them for some EXCELLENT advice!!❤❤❤🇺🇸🇸🇦☪️

  • @anikaabida6019
    @anikaabida60192 жыл бұрын

    Louisa sounds so cute when she says ‘I tink’ 😊

  • @aylaha.5216
    @aylaha.52162 жыл бұрын

    You guys are beautiful together masha’Allah It’s nice to see a video like this which contains genuine advice. There’s a lot of video’s out there like this, and all it really is, is narcissism. You’re going to help out a lot of people for sure.

  • @madebyyuzz
    @madebyyuzz2 жыл бұрын

    The way she said thing made me smile :) ♥️

  • @elalamim4404
    @elalamim44042 жыл бұрын

    Salam aleykoum, I'm going to get married soon Insha'Allah and your video really helped, so thank you very much. I agree and don't really agree with the last point you made. I truly believe that when your good at something you should stick to doing it but I also think it is even more beneficial to learn from your spouse's skills to better yourself and vice versa.

  • @TheWiiZZLE

    @TheWiiZZLE

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree, it is too easy to say "I'm no good" at something as trivial as cooking. His opinion though

  • @saniasaud2680
    @saniasaud26802 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallahu khairan for the honest advice 💓

  • @sm2293
    @sm22932 жыл бұрын

    Just stumbled across this video. Golden advice 💯

  • @NK-iy6if
    @NK-iy6if2 жыл бұрын

    Love the video, very informative. May Allah Bless you and your loved ones and grant all of us happiness in this life and the after

  • @vvayfarer_
    @vvayfarer_ Жыл бұрын

    Advices we all need. Very useful knowledge, thank you

  • @byomicil121
    @byomicil1212 жыл бұрын

    Love it. They said very good points .move videos like this please !!!!!

  • @fatemasaleh5528
    @fatemasaleh55282 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah this colour is wonderful on u louisa 💙💙💙💙

  • @memesindz829
    @memesindz8292 жыл бұрын

    omg its so good baraka allah lakuma guys

  • @shamz1611
    @shamz16112 жыл бұрын

    Love this 💕

  • @yasmineboulahia7093
    @yasmineboulahia70932 жыл бұрын

    Mashalahhh , baraka allah fikouma 👏🏽❤️🥺.

  • @kokosasa1198
    @kokosasa11982 жыл бұрын

    So much love for you 💕 may Allah bless both of you

  • @zaynabmohammed6394
    @zaynabmohammed6394 Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah nice! i have learnt alot shukran

  • @abdifatahabdalla8428
    @abdifatahabdalla84282 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Peace.Islam_12
    @Peace.Islam_122 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah beautiful couple May Allah bless you with good health ameen you inspire me X lots of love bye

  • @hayat__x
    @hayat__x2 жыл бұрын

    Allah continue to bless your marriage. Allahumma barik Lakuma wa barakah alaykuma

  • @tasmiyah2215
    @tasmiyah22152 жыл бұрын

    Barakallahu fekoum this was very beneficial. May Allah bless and protect your marriage always and may He grant you sincerity and use you to benefit each other and others. What are your thoughts on having time alone while being married? Sometimes I see people who are married and it's like they always have to be spending time together or are otherwise with friends, family etc. I think that time spent alone whether you're married or not is so important. Obviously if you're married it should be within honoring the rights of your spouse but I think that as Muslims contemplation (i.e. contemplating over the signs of Allah, the Qur'an etc.) is something underrated and being forgotten. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would spend much time contemplating and it is something encouraged throughout the Qur'an as well. I think having this is something which would contribute to having a healthy marriage. Also ties in with the point of not depending on others for your happiness. And Allah knows best.

  • @menaaboelnour
    @menaaboelnour2 жыл бұрын

    Niiicee بارك الله فيكم💓💓

  • @naimabelkaid9135
    @naimabelkaid91352 жыл бұрын

    Mashaalah loved this video, and it was a very good timing 💕

  • @nouraibraahim7153
    @nouraibraahim71532 жыл бұрын

    lousa pls share more vedios we miss you much love from somali girl

  • @fatimaha3686
    @fatimaha36862 жыл бұрын

    The blue dress is so pretty Masha’Allah ✨

  • @user-ux2nv2fb1x
    @user-ux2nv2fb1x Жыл бұрын

    MANSHALLAH MY COUPLES ❣

  • @sranzrmejuly2688
    @sranzrmejuly26882 жыл бұрын

    Tabarik Allah may Allah swt continue to bless your marriage ameen

  • @tasnimelhalimi1929
    @tasnimelhalimi19292 жыл бұрын

    I think you guys should do a podcast instead! The advice is 💯

  • @thisisarika
    @thisisarika2 жыл бұрын

    Great advice!

  • @astrofever7660
    @astrofever76602 жыл бұрын

    Yess less go❤️❤️❤️

  • @mobela4343
    @mobela43432 жыл бұрын

    Ma Sha Allah 💓💓💓

  • @Ghuraba1990
    @Ghuraba19902 жыл бұрын

    Why did you move to Turkey and what was the process like?

  • @JamilaSaeed
    @JamilaSaeed2 жыл бұрын

    Love this video 🥰🥰

  • @muzammilshareef1951
    @muzammilshareef19512 жыл бұрын

    Can we get a "how we met" please, allahumma barik.

  • @taqwal6243
    @taqwal62432 жыл бұрын

    Please make dua i marry the guy in my mind 🤲🏼❤️

  • @jennakenna7252
    @jennakenna72522 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes when ppl hv a big wedding it's cuz they know a lot of ppl as well. If u barely know anyone who will u invite and how will the wedding be big? Even a small wedding costs a lot!

  • @uloklor5789
    @uloklor57892 жыл бұрын

    Manshalaah ❤️❤️❤️

  • @StevenMiller
    @StevenMiller2 жыл бұрын

    tings

  • @naawrrrrr
    @naawrrrrr7 ай бұрын

    I think Ahmed and Louisa could still have a small wedding now, if they wanna, and may Allah ease their plans if they choose to have one. Imagine the photobooks with Amannah in it.. howwww cute!

  • @aqsaimtiaz7510
    @aqsaimtiaz75102 жыл бұрын

    ABAYA 💙

  • @cheimabl4945
    @cheimabl49452 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah ❤

  • @minaizastarr
    @minaizastarr Жыл бұрын

    mashallah, allahuma barik🫶🏽

  • @pradelelien3267
    @pradelelien32672 жыл бұрын

    InshaAllah ❤️ ❤️

  • @atfalikanzi109
    @atfalikanzi1092 жыл бұрын

    ياريت لو تعملو الترجمة في ccبالعربي

  • @faiqnivia4864
    @faiqnivia4864 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Deemadeems
    @Deemadeems Жыл бұрын

    What would of happend if one of your parents for example his father didn’t agree would you of still got married ?

  • @nilz5371
    @nilz5371 Жыл бұрын

    Tings love this

  • @BeyonDemm
    @BeyonDemm2 жыл бұрын

    Loved that number one hahahahahahha

  • @ozlembekmez7862
    @ozlembekmez78622 жыл бұрын

    1st

  • @user-pt1ki9qt5f
    @user-pt1ki9qt5f2 жыл бұрын

    Salaam. But did you not do i3laan for your marriage as per the shra3?

  • @LOUMED

    @LOUMED

    2 жыл бұрын

    Of course, just the fact that you know we are married is a form of i3lan the meaning of i3lan is informing others of your marriage as the marriage is not kept a secret 😊

  • @whaleskin7303
    @whaleskin73032 жыл бұрын

    Where from is the accent of the girl?

  • @AhmedBuisir
    @AhmedBuisir2 жыл бұрын

    Second

  • @tasnimsultana5584

    @tasnimsultana5584

    2 жыл бұрын

    😩8th

  • @ShritaSira
    @ShritaSira2 жыл бұрын

    when are your bdays xxx

  • @aslm5373
    @aslm53732 жыл бұрын

    wa aleikum salaam.

  • @siashmael7787
    @siashmael7787 Жыл бұрын

    I jst love the way she can't say 'Th' it's kinda cute 😂

  • @LOUMED

    @LOUMED

    Жыл бұрын

    I can 😂 it’s just an Irish accent lol 😆

  • @cookie-in6ls
    @cookie-in6ls2 жыл бұрын

    How old are you guys?

  • @spcnetwork8278
    @spcnetwork82782 жыл бұрын

    sheesh i ve never seen a muslim conor mcgregor before......DANA 60 G'S BABYYYYY

  • @SativaSeanLasVegas
    @SativaSeanLasVegas2 жыл бұрын

    Save as much money as possible for your "marriage". The Wedding is just one day.

  • @jazeelkhourchid1734
    @jazeelkhourchid17342 жыл бұрын

    لا إله إلا الله محمد عبده ورسوله

  • @LeYetmisFour
    @LeYetmisFour2 жыл бұрын

    I dont agree with the sister. You have to be selfish for a healthy relationship. You have to be selfish and independent on the decision to marry your spouse. If you're selfless there, it wont end well. Mainly the reason for you to marry to keep the relationship alive should be selfish. But in general you talk about some really fundamental realizations. Respect.

  • @LOUMED

    @LOUMED

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was talking about being selfless in the marriage with your spouse if your selfish towards your spouse it makes no sense ? ☺️

  • @LeYetmisFour

    @LeYetmisFour

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@LOUMED maybe both selfless and selfish in sometimes in some sense. No offense 😅

  • @BQ900
    @BQ90011 ай бұрын

    Is he British and she is German? So they met at university? He is talking of financial security? Yes, it’s important. Yes, we went to the courthouse and the mosque for wedding. She can have a wedding if they wish someday with extra money saved in the jar.❤

  • @wolverinescratch
    @wolverinescratch2 жыл бұрын

    The way she said thing's reminded me I had a Irish half sister let me just phone her...

  • @deinmutter2542

    @deinmutter2542

    2 жыл бұрын

    how is she doing?

  • @wolverinescratch

    @wolverinescratch

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@deinmutter2542 st Patricks this week so there all in party mood

  • @deinmutter2542

    @deinmutter2542

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wolverinescratch nice

  • @Anonymous-hm6bk
    @Anonymous-hm6bk11 ай бұрын

    Let your man talk, you interupt him/talk over him all the time

  • @aishahabubakar4431
    @aishahabubakar44312 жыл бұрын

    Involving everyone is not a bad idea. Marriage is not between two people but between two families.

  • @ghafranhaque7161

    @ghafranhaque7161

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sister...do not boycott your own marriage. You obey your husband and protect his honour and give him priority.

  • @alisherovnagt
    @alisherovnagt Жыл бұрын

    Im sorry but ur pronunciation is sooo soo confusing and makes me reluctant to listen(

  • @wade5761
    @wade57612 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha still children yet they feel like they can give advise. You still have 20 year to go before you can give advise about marriage

  • @kevinwalsh5222
    @kevinwalsh52222 жыл бұрын

    Very low of you brother advertising your wife for more Subscribers.

  • @deinmutter2542

    @deinmutter2542

    2 жыл бұрын

    ???

  • @favehafssa3833
    @favehafssa38332 жыл бұрын

    I admire you guys and want to watch your videos but I find it hard to understand your English. It’s twisting 🥹