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@Cofffeeee123

Жыл бұрын

Ok

@dazkan7141

Жыл бұрын

Heyy

@dazkan7141

Жыл бұрын

Heyy frankie

@meganleffingwell3437

Жыл бұрын

I love the McGyver shows! 😁 (24 year old INFP)

@TheSmartSpy

Жыл бұрын

Hey Frank I got an idea for a video, what are the Music Tastes of the 16 personalities?

0:38 - ESTPs 1:14 - ESFPs 1:59 - ISTJs 2:35 - ISFJs 3:13 - ESTJs 4:04 - ENTJs 4:53 - ESFJs 5:27 - ENFJs 6:03 - ISFPs 6:39 - INFPs 7:09 - ISTPs 7:49 - INTPs 8:20 - ENFPs 9:03 - ENTPs 9:54 - INTJs 11:03 - INFJs (Roughly.)

@vexz0r789

Жыл бұрын

King

@LeticiaCuenca

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@trinaq

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the shortcut, it really saves time.

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

You’re welcome, guys. Don’t worry.

@edenstewart5087

Жыл бұрын

Ty!

I'm INFJ and it annoys me when people give short answers without depth. I might as well assume that they're not interested and may never ask again

@mrpenguin8024

11 ай бұрын

Lol I loveeee short answers because I hate to talk to people for more then 2 seconds

@yashny

11 ай бұрын

@@mrpenguin8024 I see... I guess for me it depends on who it is as well. Short answers from strangers or someone strictly professional is ok but not from friends or family

@infj4w511

10 ай бұрын

For me, I love short answers, but that's because I love not attracting people. What I mean is: I could become attracted to being in a (platonic) relationship with you if you shared stories, thoughts and emotions with me, but if you didn't, we'd just be chill next to each other, working together. However, that last relationship would mean less to me.@@mrpenguin8024

@dailymeowion

9 ай бұрын

the infj that i met, always giving short answer, made me think they like short answer😂

@celesteassi2721

6 ай бұрын

​​@@dailymeowion 😂 Yeah, I give all the time short answers when I want to focus on myself, I don't like pick up the phone instantly, I prefer call back. When the topic is uninteresting for me, I prefer listening or giving the impression that I am listening ^^. But when I find a person who like the same things I like, oh my goodness, I am unstoppable. Verbal, diarrhea 😅

INFJ one is extremely accurate. I get frustrated when I feel like I'm not being listened to when it's a moment where I want to open up and talk about something that I think is neat.

@user-fm4ip7lo8u

Жыл бұрын

And because we worry about being judged, we don't do it often. I speak from experience. Also an INFJ.

@Pinkywinkykinky

Жыл бұрын

I feel that all the time as an enfp, man

@sampson7200

Жыл бұрын

I’m an INFJ and I feel the EXACT same

@Delivery_Boy_Roy

Жыл бұрын

Omg same, I just wanna punch someone in the face when that happens

@thekatelier1447

Жыл бұрын

This is so Relatable 😂 and then I have an episode of “Nobody understands me”

3 things which turn off most INTJs: 1. Inauthenticity - when an individual desperately acts like somebody whom they truly aren't. 2. Unreliability - when someone breaks promises a lot and proves to be very unreliable and untrustworthy. 3. Unethical - when a person lacks morals and basic etiquettes often acting obnoxiously due to intense jealousy

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

I feel like these are concerns for the INTP as well.

@NeroDefogger

Жыл бұрын

first 2 ones definitely, the 3rd one doesn't look too nice either

@abilesiali

Жыл бұрын

And INFJ

@walkingwith_dinosaurs

7 ай бұрын

Well name a person who'd be attracted to that

As an INFJ that's so accurate 😀✨I mean I kinda hate going out with someone who doesn't even try to start a conversation while we are together...sure I love my alone space but when I decide to socialize with the people and then they start to ignore me and give me a cold shoulder.... that's when I get mad🙂

@bluebellbell3725

Жыл бұрын

Not me. I’m ok if people doesn’t want to talk. There is always a reason and I enjoy showing people the right to integrety and to be quiet./Infj

@albertojosesayago8421

Жыл бұрын

I'm a probably INTP (idk) and somehow this happens to me often. As You claimed, when I'm out of my house, and I meet someone I know and then I decide to socialize... I mean, it doesn't have to be about emotions but if you wanna talk about it, I think it's cool. I just want to have a deeper conversation, even if we talk about several topics. Well, actually I don't know how to stop when the conversation is interesting, I use that as a distraction or procrastination, haha. In any case, when I'm in the mood of socializing, it's upsetting when the other person is too much cold, or when they're not even trying to make the conversation to flow. In those moments, I just don't know what to say and it's uncomfortable cuz I'm not sure what would be the best to do. I don't know if I just have to say good bye...even saying good bye is akward.

@kiaratheotaku6257

Жыл бұрын

For me, it’s in between. I love my alone space and would you like to have the other person talk first BUT I also don’t mind the silence as long as there’s some stimuli

@sketchflix6425

Жыл бұрын

Atleast they should listen to what we were saying. Like, not hear, but to listen.. That will work for me. But, too much cold shoulder is definitely a turn off. I mean, if someone gives constant cold shoulders, they might be having some conflict inside or they might be not interested 😅

@albertojosesayago8421

Жыл бұрын

@@sketchflix6425 most of the times, is the second one. If not, a mix of both.

I'm an INFJ and regarding movies, I had an ex who was exactly like this: "Yeah it was good" (refuses to elaborate further). I criticized her "lack of critical analysis", and she criticized my "over-analyzing of the movies". However, paradoxically, we really loved each other^^

@Pinkywinkykinky

Жыл бұрын

It might be my infj subconscious as an enfp but I hate that TOO I want people to talk about things or things I like and it's easy for me to over share and spit ball with people

@m2pozad

Жыл бұрын

Of course! It's part of our job to pay attention to what does excite and interest others. Lack of response is lack of interest without saying so.

@edennis8578

Жыл бұрын

If you aren't still together, you didn't really love each other. You may have like each other. You may have been in lust. In any case, at least one of you didn't really love the other.

@rKhael53

Жыл бұрын

@@edennis8578 Wtf ?

@Redpandakiwi

Жыл бұрын

@@edennis8578 newsflash people break up all of the time it doesn’t invalidate their love lol

Can we just appreciate how this man plays 16 different people so perfectly?…

@KamdiOnyekwelu

Жыл бұрын

He has Bipolar lol 😂

@FayieElphis

Жыл бұрын

@@KamdiOnyekwelu ew.... he is INFP.

@hannahs8404

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it’s cuz he’s an infj

@minhtu5059

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes I'm scared that he would lose his personality somewhere while doing research on all 16 personalities and acting like he had that personality lol

@totalfree8740

Жыл бұрын

@@minhtu5059 You don't lose something YOU adapt and as someone in theater we go to many uninvited places and have fun. Mostly in our minds

Another reason why we need an ENFP+INFJ buddy cop series. If an INFJ asks me what I thought about a movie, I will tell you. And re-enact the coolest scenes. And brainstorm 15 possible sequels. All in the span of time it takes us to walk from the theater back to the car. I have picked up a new instrument, started a business, and written a book all in the same DAY. Thanks for more insight, FJ!!

@shraddhaanikhindi620

Жыл бұрын

As an INFP, I'd have lots of great ideas, but I'd not do anything with them XD

@MirandoHaciaArribaConEmily

Жыл бұрын

This x100! As an INFJ dating an ENFP I think a buddy cop series would be my fav show ever!

@kotlclvr13

9 ай бұрын

As an ENFP with an INFJ sister, this is spot on!! Definitely would love that series 😂

@SandraSamUA

7 ай бұрын

As an INFJ with a best friend ENFP I'd say we did some crazy stuff together. We could visit a gallery together, get angry at each other while our attitudes don't match, go our separate ways & instantly turn out on the same bench in an hour. I'd definitely vote for such a series. I would even volunteer to share some really funny scenes.

With the INTJ, I'd say more specifically that it's not that I'm upset with explaining stuff to people. I'm upset with explaining obvious stuff to people. And I'm especially upset if I have to explain the same obvious thing all the time, or the person doesn't seem to be getting it after my second or third attempt to try to make it relatable to them. Because on the one hand, I'm probably going to have to explain some of what I want. I can't expect you to just psychically know. (And the people who do psychically know because we're on the same wave length are immediately on the path to friendship). And then maybe I need to adjust my explanation to something you understand better or an experience you've had, so that you can make the leap in logic. But if I've made a reasonable attempt to communicate, and I feel like you're not meeting me halfway, this is just not going to work out. I do not have the energy for this relationship, and you will be cut out of my life.

@meghana.2.11

Жыл бұрын

yesss especially when its to a couple of people who have different views somethings it’s just easier to act like your idea was not the ideal one

@jimUkay

Жыл бұрын

Are these normally percievers that do this type of thing and give you a hard time?

@ShinobiPhoenix-YT0

Жыл бұрын

That's my "let them stick their fork in the electric socket, because they'll definitely learn then" Point that I reach even with my level of patience.

@PriHL

Жыл бұрын

As an INFJ I've got exactly the same reasoning. No point in explaining something over and over if someone doesn't understand or doesn't make an effort to. But if I think that there's more of a connection with someone, I'll be more patient but if they still don't get it times over then the connection will ultimately be lost on my side. I also don't like when someone only talks about vapid topics at length.

@armchaircoach

Жыл бұрын

It's also frustration with explaining the abstract stuff that seems natural to us because it drains energy

The INFJ one is so accurate. Completely agreed.

0:39 - ESTP 1:14 - ESFP 2:03 - ISTJ 2:37 - ISFJ 3:13 - ESTJ 4:06 - ENTJ 4:56 - ESFJ 5:33 - ENFJ 6:05 - ISFP 6:39 - INFP 7:08 - ISTP 7:45 - INTP 8:20 - ENFP 9:02 - ENTP 9:53 - INTJ 11:03 - INFJ

@adavanja5682

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm always looking for time stamps :)

@eve2474

Жыл бұрын

Thank u!!!

@PanD0rado

Жыл бұрын

Thanks girl

@meghana.2.11

Жыл бұрын

@@rubiesofgold7698 wow thats cool. i usually find these pretty accurate too

@YasMimiko690

Жыл бұрын

Ttytytytytytyty!

I would say that another thing that turns off an INTJ is people who are drama llamas. I will avoid drama queens like the plague every day of the week. I like my people group to be a drama-free environment.

@KnightsandPages

Жыл бұрын

INTJ. I agree with you. I can't stand when people start drama or talk behind people's backs. It's one of the fastest ways people can lose my respect and trust, because even though I'm not the one they're talking about, there's every probability they are talking about me too when I'm not around. So I'm careful to no longer share important things with them from then on. That said, if I sense something is going on, it will bother me until I figure it out. My intuition is good enough that I can always tell if something is off, but It can take a long time for me to process what I'm experiencing enough to figure out what exactly is wrong or different. Social interactions are already struggle enough without me working in the dark. In those cases, I greatly appreciate someone filling me in with just enough basic info so I can know what's expected of me.

@iwa2028

Жыл бұрын

@@KnightsandPages couldn't agree more.. It's nice to know there's other people share the same thought in this full-of-strange-confusing-people world.. Like,, why do they like to repeatedly gets hurt and makes people hurts in this never ending drama that they make themselves? It baffles me the most..

@lindziep6319

Жыл бұрын

True its like wasting my time instead of working my ass of on some ideas that i had. As an intj i also dont like to talk much to people who have no sense it bores me, and i dont like people who generalized certain things or like women should be like this and like that 😒

@TentenchiAMVs

Жыл бұрын

This INFP agrees ✋😊

This video is a perfect example of why as an ENTP I love INxJs. Like yes, let's analyze the emotional dynamics and plotline of the movie we just watched (INFJ) and yes I want to hear all about your crazy business plan and I *will* understand it (or attempt to)(INTJ).

The movie example.. has happened so many times to me! I've learned to realize that not everyone watches movies with as much passion or like to analyze things as much as I do - infj

@user-zs5tp9zi6n

Жыл бұрын

Same

@TentenchiAMVs

Жыл бұрын

@@user-zs5tp9zi6n Same. But I'm an INFP who won't watch a movie unless I know I'm going to be passionate about it. It can be so disappointing for the movie to end when it ends rather than letting it carry on afterwards through conversation 🙁

As an INTP, this is exactly why I love INFJs so much. No one seems to hold my attention quite like they do and we can talk non stop for hours without ever getting bored.

@maggieo1683

Жыл бұрын

Interesting. I don't know if you know about cognitive functions in MBTI, but I'm an INFP so I have Ne second like you do, except it's backed up by Fi instead of Ti. My sister is an INFJ and we can talk for long periods of time about stuff, but I like to switch topics a lot, and her with her dominant Ni wants to narrow one topic down forever. I get drained after a while. Maybe you match Ti with INFJs, and that's why you can talk for so long? 🤔

@drummerdude514

Жыл бұрын

@@maggieo1683 INFPs are great too! I have a friend who is one and we get along very well. Generally speaking, intuitives are my types of people. The video accurately portrays both INTPs and INFJs and what I love is that they love to have deep conversations. My best friend is an INFJ and every time I go hang out with him we’ll lose track of time and talk for like 8 hours straight! For INFJs, there’s a certain mysteriousness that always leaves me wanting to know more about them, to try but never fully succeed at figuring them out. For an INTP, this can drive us nuts as we try to establish a logical framework to understand things and people and override Fe and Fi with the brute force of Ti. Once we know a few things we’ll continue to refine from there. The dominant Ni of the INTJ draws me to them because it’s a big departure from my Ne. We have the same judging functions (Ti, Fe) but our perceiving functions are the opposite. Because of this, I believe we can see the world in a similar light but we might arrive at the same conclusion in different ways. Ni can be a double edged sword, however. INFJ’s strong intuition doesn’t always make logical sense to me and they can make up their minds about people in ways I cannot comprehend. Once they make up their mind, good luck trying to change it. When an INFJ you may have connected with decides they don’t want you in their life anymore you may get the door slam treatment and be forgotten about forever without explanation. They’ll easily move on and you’ll be reduced to a hollow shell of what you once were before you met them. It’s a problem I’ve dealt with before and am currently dealing with again. 😔

@user-jh9xd7hw5m

Жыл бұрын

@@maggieo1683 as also INTP I can confirm that Ti we share with INFJ helps us to deep dive in specific topic, even deeper than INFJ do, to the point when INFJ can get exhausted. As of INFPs, they're good to talk if you're keeping it on topic they can relate, otherwise INFP looses interest in conversation rapidly. INFJs value topic itself for it's worth, thus switching to something Ne-similar can be unpleasant for them.

@drummerdude514

Жыл бұрын

@@user-jh9xd7hw5m great explanation, thanks for sharing!

@dr.unventor

Жыл бұрын

Yea as an INTP I hate it when I try to talk with people about hypotheticals or something that interests me only for them to not care so it’s nice when someone actually listens and holds a great conversation

Actually, as an INFP, I think I relate to INFJs here more than to my own type. I don’t understand people with whom you try to connect emotionally, you share your feelings etc and they’re like walls most of the time

I loved MacGyver! The original. But I’m not in a nursing home! 😂 Good stuff as always! 😊

@wilbeugre

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏿

@jesusrocks2661

Жыл бұрын

Same! I loved the original 80's MacGyver, not the new one. It came out before I was born, but as far as I'm concerned the new version is not MacGyver and never will be. Thankfully there's such a thing as re-runs and DVD sets :D

@holleighlordel1575

Жыл бұрын

I was in elementary school 😂 It’s nice to know someone younger than me can appreciate the original 😁

@allieoneal2033

Жыл бұрын

Yes, and I had such a crush on Richard Dean Anderson.

@rebeccabrandish3374

Жыл бұрын

MacGyver is tops! 'Spose I'm showing my age by saying tops.

As an ENFP, I have NEVER been described more accurately. Great work, FJ. 😂😂😂

@Midnitethorn

Жыл бұрын

Same 👏

@FrankJames

Жыл бұрын

haha thanks

@carenmaslowsky8408

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it was refreshing to not be portrayed as the flaky blue haired character this time 😊

@AndromedaMoon888

Жыл бұрын

the video clips were on point too

@imnotsure4864

Жыл бұрын

Truuuuulyy

As an ESTJ, I can confirm ... maybe that is why I am a math teacher, I love explaining how to do things properly. That being said, I also adore it when my students show me a new way of doing something that I had never considered. It makes my heart happy.

First time I'm commenting on one of your vids because you nailed the INTP part so perfectly, I even have tears in my eyes because of how true your words were. Lol

@FrankJames

Жыл бұрын

aww, so glad to hear that

As an INFP and also an ethical vegan... I felt this. You described me so accurately. This can also be a bad thing tho and can lead to INFPs feeling or being isolated. I know I have experience it lol. It's important to remember we are all human and trying to figure things out.

@Jaxan-dq2jy

Жыл бұрын

Why are you an ethical vegan?

@starojunes

Жыл бұрын

@@Jaxan-dq2jy I am against all forms of animal exploitation

@anjujain641

Жыл бұрын

So cool you are... Fellow infp here and I am also a ethical vegan trying my best 🙌🤗

@rmp7400

Жыл бұрын

Not all INTPs are vegan... Does this mean that our subgroup would not be considered... ethical... (according to "the norm?").🤔 have been longtime activist for lives of human children...does that count?

Thanks for the tips on how to get rid of unwanted contacts with other people. -INTJ.

As an INTP, I became very aggravated by the person he described while he was describing them.

As an INFP I think I would talk all night about the film we saw together with an INFJ 🤣

@TentenchiAMVs

Жыл бұрын

Being an INFP who loves this channel, I believe I would do this as well, with the topics of conversation focusing on the psychology and sociology of the characters. 🤭

@meihwadeclerk3147

Жыл бұрын

And an INFJ I agree with that🤣

As an INFJ this was spot on -- If you ever watch a movie with me prepare for a 2 hour debrief and analysis afterwards.

@goldink2813

Жыл бұрын

I even pause the movie to process a scene lol

@BexStep121

Жыл бұрын

@Gold Ink Yep - I do that all the time too 😂

I'm ENFP and I definitely fit both the ENFP and INFJ descriptions. That's probably why I get along so well with them!

Everyone should know who macgyver is!!! The reference should never die 😆

@matthewtjeerdsma2549

Жыл бұрын

MacGyver is my favorite verb.

@louisejoel

Жыл бұрын

I love Macgyver and wish he was real. One of my friends is a little bit like him. I'm still not sure what type he is because he has a lot of INTP traits as well but is extremely productive

ENTJ - very true! I do find myself consistently trying to motivate the INF’s in my life to want to grow and have a go-getter attitude. It comes from a place of love - I want to see my loved ones succeed! ❤

Being one that barely comment in KZread , I have to say that the Intp one is so true that I think I should leave a comment. It really struggles me a lot and the fact that people around me couldn’t understand my points makes me feel that I’m weird . It’s really thankful to hear this struggle given into words.

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

when you talk to people, particularly when trying to explain your position, do you get that puppy dog head-cocked-to-the-side expression from them?? 😆

The INTJ thing is just me in every school project.

@Mrs.Silversmith

Жыл бұрын

OH my goodness yes!!

Oh man that's true xD I'm INTJ and especially the part about having plans and ideas that totally make sense in my mind, but when it comes to the point of telling someone about my reasons I'm like eeehhh... No xD

As an isfp I totally agree with what you said. I have an infp friend who reacts less than I expect and she makes me feel like I am deeply interested in nothing. Whenever I am so interested and told her about my obsession with full of energy, she is like “oh that’s cute” . I even regret that I talk about it sometimes 😂😂😂 Btw she is my best friend and I know that some infps feel deep but express less.

INTP here and that's a very succinct explanation of the people I dislike the most. Unfortunately most of the people I know are like that to varying degrees and it's ok, I can look past it if they have other good qualities, but there's a subset of people that are really all about niceties, gossip, tradition and convention, where it seems everything that matters to them only matters because that's what their social group or society have decided it matters, and they are the sort of people that I won't talk to more than I absolutely must to get what I want from them.

As an ISTJ, what turns me off the most (aka the trait that makes me dismiss automatically potential partners) is not knowing how to discuss like an actual adult. Victimize, shout, start speaking of something else, take it as an attack... discussing is stressful, but sometimes it is the only way to sort things out.

@bluebellbell3725

Жыл бұрын

For me, Infj, that ability is also very important.

@thecod2345

Жыл бұрын

As an ISTP it’s somewhat related but, people who’s definition of discussion involves name calling and morally grand standing. There’s few worse feelings than a discussion that feels like it’s going nowhere full of judgements and personal attacks.

@helalela

Жыл бұрын

as an infp, i strongly agree, someone who argues rationally and doesn't necessarily shout or call me names is someone i will adore, like for example my intj mom

@sarahelo9656

Жыл бұрын

I think communicating like a mature adult transcends personality types and applies to all not-psycho people 😂

@bakachocorobo-kun4728

Жыл бұрын

Amen, I want to a rational conversation with an adult, not an overgrown toddler throwing a tantrum. We all have bad days, but it shouldn’t be our default behavior.

OK, as a fellow INFJ, the last one got me. Like the dreaded 'K' response in texting. When I type a paragraph and get 'idk, u?' in response...gaaaahhh.

As an INTP, what you said is so accurate. And for the INFJ one, in my friend group we are 2 INFJ, an INFP and me, an INTP. And it's the best group, we all kinda complete eachother. We have a lot of deep conversations, we understand eachother. And, idk, it's just kinda perfect this way.

As an ISTP, I thought the section on my type would be something about being emotionally unstable (definitely a thing I don't wanna deal with), but I hadn't thought of the "not even wanting to try" thing. It's always disappointing and to an extent feels like a personal rejection. If someone wants to give something a try but is anxious about it, I'm more than happy to support them and make the task less daunting. I want other people to feel capable and confident! I was a teacher for almost a decade, I feel as though this is what I have to offer.

As an INTJ, things that really turn me off are: -When people are nosey -People who think its their job to make negative comments about others. Don't you have anything better to do? Like ... Go read a book or something and learn to do something useful. -When people barge into my conversations, there is a polite way to join it. You talking above us or about yourself randomly, isn't it. -When someone gets close to me physically without asking me first. I also don't like people touching me without my permission. -Hypocrites (to many of them)

@XSemperIdem5

Жыл бұрын

Yes to everything you listed.

Haha, "I'll never get over the trauma of pooping my pants in 2nd grade." 😂 Aww, that would be pretty traumatic. But seriously, yes. INFJs like connecting emotionally, and when someone slams that door, well, so do we...on them. Funny and educational video! Editor Kevin did a great cleanup. Lol. 😀👍

To be honest (as an INFP) the list of things which put INFP off is endlesslyyyy longgggg 😂

@epicmatter4555

3 ай бұрын

As an INFP too, I especially hate it, when someone cant talk about a topic more than two sentences and keeps switching even in the same sentence, before I can even answer. I also dont like people that constantly insult and annoy each other as a joke, especially when I dont know them that long. If thats your main way of socialising, there is something wrong. People that are always in a rush are annoying too, if I want to have stress i can go to work lol. Lastly I hate it, when people dont accept a no and try to convince you otherwise over and over again. TLDR: Yeah there is lots of turn offs for an INFP, but i can overlook some of these things, when it is not the norm and is balanced with good qualities. Nobody is perfect 😂

@vananhoannguyen1378

3 ай бұрын

@@epicmatter4555 yesss i absolutely hate the same thing, for example when people try to convince me to like kids (or anything that they personally like and think everyone should 🫠 bitches I‘m not basic 🫠 ) and people who think i SHOULD do this and do that to be „happy“ totally trigger my evil side 🥵 the endless list makes so hard to make friends 😩 i end up only getting along with another INFPs 😭

@epicmatter4555

2 ай бұрын

@@vananhoannguyen1378 I dont know the type of most people I was or am friends with, but to me it seems, that I can get along with all intuitive types usually. But you are right, I hate it as well, when people tell me i have to do x or y, to live "right". Their goals in life are not the same as mine and there sure as hell isn't a best way to live it 🙄 I guess if there is one thing I hate the most, than it is ignorance.

Thank you so much for articulating my need for more meaning perfectly, Frank. I could happily chat anyone's ear off with my thoughts on a movie or play I've just seen, but when the other person simply responds with merely "It was OK, I guess", it really stumps me! Please, tell me WHY you thought it was "OK!"

@TheQwuilleran

Жыл бұрын

And then they get upset when you want to know why they only thought it was okay, like 😓

@davidt01

Жыл бұрын

As an INTP, I will often think more highly of something then I let on. I just really hate being emotional or expressive, so it often sounds like I didn't really like it. I value the words spoken over the emotion behind the words, so if I say "it was good", then that's it, regardless of how I say it.

The reason we INTJ's hate the explaining is because in all reality we've already explained it SEVERAL times and I LOATH having to explain/repeat myself over and over. If I have to repeat/explain it more than twice this means you weren't listening. SO, at that point the person can kick rocks>>>!!! I don't keep people in my life that are another problem to have to fix, I could use that time to get MY stuff done.

@ShinobiPhoenix-YT0

Жыл бұрын

I call that my "Point I want you to stick your finger in the electric socket because you'll learn then, won't you?" point

@grababundoberni

Жыл бұрын

Intuition introverted thing. Happens to us INFJs too...if you replace "opinions, demonstrable ideas or thoughts" Te with "passions, daydreams or feelings" Fe.

@KnightsandPages

Жыл бұрын

I'm generally quite patient in explaining things, as long as people are actively listening. I don't mind clarifying or trying to explain something a different way, because I realize my INTJ/ ADHD brain is basically a dissociated, psychedelic squirrel trapped in a pinball machine. I have to make concessions if I want to be understood. That said, if I don't feel like someone is listening, I won't repeat myself. And if someone tries to talk over me, I walk away.

@irienerd8178

Жыл бұрын

@@KnightsandPages I agree, there is a difference between someone actively trying to understand, listen and grasp; with those people I'm very patient. It is when I can tell they made no effort to listen the first few times that I'm done. This is a huge reason why I've started to make people "tell me what I've just said" and I frequently summarize what I think they've just said so I know we're on the same page. I will admit there are times I don't want to explain it because there's no time and they need to trust me and if they can't do that I walk away.

As an INFJ, my biggest turnoff is actually passive aggression. 😅 My respect for people who can't communicate directly (and privately among the involved parties), instantly goes way below zero.

@HereIAm247

Жыл бұрын

@@goldink2813 But it is not about confronting and exposing peoples every insecurity just because you can see it. :) Because there is a time and a place for everything - and not everything is your business. What I am talking about are people who have a negative behaviour/arrogance, that directly impacts you. And when you try to make them stop, they draw in the whole office, play the victim, and gather everyone to turn against you. Where I much prefer an open and discreet conversation, only among the parties involved. But you have to respect peoples boundaries as well - or you may actually cause more harm than good. Not everyone wants to be put in the 'victim' box by a stranger, or share their deepest, darkest secrets and insecurities with strangers. The thing is, you never know the full story, unless they tell you. And they do not have to, just because you want them to. So be careful not to let your own ego (your need to be the 'fixer') make you violate other peoples boundaries. Just because you don't see or understand the way they deal with things, does not mean they are not going deep. They just don't want to share it with you. I think understanding boundaries is a VERY important thing to understand. For everyone, but especially the FJ's. Because if used wrong, you will break people rather than help them - just to boost your own ego. And that is the one part of themselves many FJ's are not quite so objective. They love to consider themselves 'truth seekers' and 'fixers', even 'saints'. But they definitely have an ego. And use their 'good intentions' to justify the damage they do to other people.

@amyitis

Жыл бұрын

EFF YES!!! THIS!!!! 👏👏👏

@JasmineBliss

Жыл бұрын

Ppl do that only when they are cowards and low self esteem esp covert narcissistic

You should make a skit of the 16 personalities getting their order wrong (Food orders, online shopping orders, ect.)

@SL-xf9ye

Жыл бұрын

INFJ, eats it anyway or picks at it and says nothing.

@FrankJames

Жыл бұрын

LOL i think thats a fun idea

@WhatTwistWonder

Жыл бұрын

@@FrankJames Wow! I flipped when I saw you respond, I wasn't expecting you to see my comment!

@theempress1104

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes hahaha. I'd love to watch this.

@TentenchiAMVs

Жыл бұрын

INFP, Doesn't want it because it's not what they wanted... But can't bring themself to correct it... So it's just a meal of disappointment as they attempt to hide the fact that they don't want to eat it... I hate when that happens! Wait. What were we talking about? 🤔

INTP is accurate. I hate it when some people act like something's wrong with me just because I don't act like them, even tho I'm not necessarily doing anything wrong

INFP is on point. Also, 26 here and Ioved watching MacGyver growing up. Used to get dvds of it from the library, though none of my older siblings seemed to appreciate it overmuch😅🤣

I am an INTJ and actually identified quite a bit more with the INFJ type. I had an experience recently with a girl where I (being emotionally reserved) tested her in our getting to know each other phase. I asked her a rather deep question, one of those that I like to immerse myself in. She just gave me a rather superficial answer and I have to admit that it was a terrible disappointment for me because I realized that in reality she was not a person as deep as I had intuited before meeting her. So yes, being an INTJ I hate superficial responses when it comes to making yourself and your opinions known.

@bernhardt8410

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I know. There are endless possibilities. In fact I must say that the question was not somewhat controversial, it was rather a more casual one in which I wanted her to give me more details about her way of living at a specific time of the year, you know, just to know her better and make her talk about herself (she's even more introverted than me, a tough bet early on I think). I guess she just had no interest. Our interaction was complicated since the beginning because I never felt reciprocated since I approached her first, but somehow I felt very attached to her. She used to say too much to me without really talking to me. Since we don't really share the same environments within our campus, the only way I was able to get a chance to meet her was by looking her up and being direct, so I guess it was either that or nothing given the situation. Anyway, I once again pushed my own introvert limits for nothing. And to clarify, I had made previous efforts to meet her in the past, this event was just the culmination of a misguided intuitive process, I learned my lesson.

@bernhardt8410

Жыл бұрын

@@lillianv27 Thanks! I appreciate the advice. What a piece of gold finding nice people on the Internet. Best wishes!

@bernhardt8410

Жыл бұрын

@@lillianv27 I fear it could be a scam bot. Be careful.

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

This Intp can relate to that as well, although I can be fluffy for funsies, if I wish.

As an INTP, I can confirm that this is true. This is one of the few times he gets INTPs accurately, most of the time I just don't understand what he's talking about. 😂

@19Amaruchan97

Жыл бұрын

True!! 😂😂

@sambenham1945

Жыл бұрын

Nah as an INTP, I’m always trying to act normal in public

@rmp7400

Жыл бұрын

@Sam Benham Perhaps heroic efforts sometimes are made... However, do we really have an accurate idea of what "the norm" of normal is? 🤔

@oluchukwuokafor7729

Жыл бұрын

You are probably an infp, he is actually quite accurate when it comes to intps, but this time, what he said actually applies more to infps.

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

@@rmp7400 hahaha, right?!

Kudos on having such an incredible insight into 16 diverse mindsets, Frank. You're in touch with SO many emotions, so we salute you! ♥️

My high-point of this video is I knew Macgyver! 😆 I grew up watching the old series(Reruns, I'm not in a nursing home yet!) My low-point was when you talked about INFJs . . . because yes - to use your example - I want to talk about the meanings and depth and flaws of films but most of my friends either think something is 'good' or 'meh'. This is why I go on youtube and listen to video essays on said films, just so I can hear someone else talk about a film and not just on its face value.

INFP, so trueee... Great, thanks alot, Frank ♥️

As an INFP, that is accurate 😂

@IPureHeart

Жыл бұрын

I was untimely taking a drink of water when he went over the INFPs & I choked cuz I started laughing at the accuracy! 😝

@Watson_aep

Жыл бұрын

@@IPureHeart LMAO 🤣

Found this channel 4 days ago, and am loving it!! 💛 BUTTTTTTT... *I wrote this complaint multiple ways and have decided they all sound annoying, so here's my best one.* MY HUMBLE REQUEST: I want a constant title card with the specific type being discussed that changes as we switch types. This will allow me to easily follow and learn about the types and spot patterns more easily. Note: This request does not apply to comedy sketch videos. Anyway, I will continue to watch all of your videos and thumbs up either way. You are brilliant & I appreciate you and this community. 🖤

Me, an INTJ, I don't want to attract ppl anyways so it's ok if I do these things

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

😆😆😆

As an ENFP, the thing I hate the most is my attempts of starting fun conversations (At least it seems like an interesting thing to me) being *completely ignored* . Even though sometimes it's also kinda my fault to just throw something out there unrelated to the previous topic that was being discussed lol.

Very interesting and insightful content! It’s always nice to add these kinds of personality tidbits into your socializing arsenal. Also, describing what makes certain people tick helps make more sense of their habits.

As an INTP, I approve this message. This makes SO. MUCH. SENSE. My grand dysfunction is rebelling when someone tells me, "THIS is how people are/you are supposed to act," or, "THIS is the way we have always done it/it needs to be done." On the other hand, I need structure and boundaries in every day life, so I have had to negotiate a balance, even if I feel like throwing up, or throwing on a clown wig and storming off. (Perhaps dancing off...)

@zhanzhengxisupremacy

Жыл бұрын

same here I absolutely HATE IT

@SpaceKestrell

Жыл бұрын

And the thing is, from an INTP perspective, we actually might be one of the more sociable introvert types if not for worrying about relational expectations. The spontaneous social interactions I enjoy the most, with strangers no less, are when someone randomly comes asking for help problem solving (not a relationship one, though) and my inner creativity gets to have a field day. Our innate curiosity and helpfulness can come out if we can maneuver past the social norms.

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

@@SpaceKestrell totally agree. This transient “knack” for sociability and/or entertaining people is one of the reasons I abandoned the belief that I was an Intj.

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

@@SpaceKestrell also, I am curious: do you often get asked if you are a store employee?

@SpaceKestrell

Жыл бұрын

@@scratchoriginalsdh not really. My clothing style ( lack there of ) is usually too unrelated to anything to fit a store outfit. I usually never initiate social interactions - aside from normal polite smile/nods.

ENTJ. Nailed it! My biggest bet peeve are people who have zero curiosity about the world around then. I find it maddening when people don't ask question of just have no eagerness to learn or grow their knowledge.

Agreed Ended my last relationship because the guy was exactly the 'i liked it' person (INFJ)

@priscaanan6116

Жыл бұрын

Meee too! The zero depth types....weird how I thought I was crazy back then.

That is my greatest flaw as an ENFJ. I put everything and everyone on the same standard of selflessness as I do. Nothing pushes me away more than selfish folks who clearly has something to give but refused to just cause. It's always an eyebrow raising moment when the selfish one ask for help 🙄

@Jenny-vm3yu

Жыл бұрын

I would say this is true for me (not my biggest turnoff- that would be arrogance and narcissism) but it’s more with people I know than strangers. If someone takes me for granted for too long, or fails to reciprocate repeatedly, then that can eventually flip my psycho switch. Once that switch is flipped I’ll calm down but become completely apathetic to that person. Even if I’ve poured months or years of energy into them. Once I get to the apathy stage, there is no going back. Don’t expect yourself from others, it doesn’t end well. - fellow ENFJ

I love how intps are just un-explainable, I love em. ~Your entp mate⚡

@scratchoriginalsdh

Жыл бұрын

Weirdo. Pariah. Unusual. Unique. Confusing. I've heard it all. Actually, I came up with "pariah" on my own. It came out of existing for years within the Christian Church culture. 😉

I liked it. It's good to know. Also, not to see" things" as punnishment. 💖

omg how did you pick up the one for intjs! that’s amazing! indeed, the people i consider closest to me, are those who trust me when i pick out a path for them, trusting that as we go on the path, all will be made clear. i don’t solve problems for people who constantly want me to explain everything to their level, especially when I know they are missing concepts and experiences to get it.

If someone don't have a growth mindset, I seriously don't want to be around them all the time. - ENTJ

10:06 is very agreeable. Appreciate it

I agree completely with your INFJ description.

Thanks to this video and another thousand... I figured out hundred percent that I'm an ENFP. I tend to take on a thousand projects at once, I do the majority of the day whatever I want, I'm interested in many things and I struggle to focus on one particular path or goal. Indecisiveness is also a natural trait of mine. You cannot imagine how long it took to figure out my type, spending hours and hours watching videos on all the 16 types, their interests, their pet peeves, their fears, their ways of connecting to the world and to you..

The INTJ thing is true, I also really dislike sensitive people. Having a dark sense of humor (as I believe most INTJs do) and being resistant to being insulted most of the time, I cannot handle being around someone who cries at the smallest jab or is instantly made uncomfortable by the idea of something dark alone. Of course this can vary- Being sensitive to certain topics of mental health is understandable. But once I met someone who couldn't even finish listening to a villain character's monologue, because it was about how other people meant nothing to them and it was depressing them. That is a level of sensitivity I cannot withstand.

This is great, can you make a video of the 16 personalities setting their goals, my husband is ISFJ and I am INFJ it was interesting the difference in our goals settings process

I thought i was an intj but watching this made me reconsider lol I could relate to many of the other personalities super well here, while the intj was a little farther from me, but in other skits or videos i see myself in the intj

As an INFP, I do agree I find anyone against my morals unattractive. Depends though. There are some things I can agree to disagree with like politics. My boyfriend (an INTP) & I love debating everything. Yet we can usually get over it very quickly. However the only real argument we had was one that went against my morals. It was early on in our relationship, so I was ready to leave. But he had the perfect apology & was genuinely sorry. Which he sucks at apologies so I knew he was actually sorry when he was able to apologize. Now also finding that what I find attractive is men who respect my boundaries & validate me. Whereas he just finds me not being a shit person & having morals attractive. That & right now I only find him attractive. Anyone else looks at me & I am just like gross. He's just so edgy on the outside but a huge nerd on the inside, that also treats me like a human with feelings, & gets uncomfortable around others yet comfortable with me. So attractive. Fitting my story book narrative perfectly. Meeting my high standards.

Your humor is SOOOO AWESOME!!!!😂😂😂😂

INTP here and I can confirm this

As an INFJ I hate disturbances when I'm doing my creative project or drawing and I hate drama and gossip. I hate gossip so much that I ghost on people who gossip. And one note I like color code like ISTJ

Its funny, but as a truly in and out INFP I actually related also with the INFJ example that you made. It makes me furious when I want to discuss th thoughts and emotions that I live through something and the other half/or person doesn even bother to philosophise about it with me… dang that is something I cant comprehend. I always analyze things, like mostly through feeling and like to talk about it with someone. And philosophing is my go to thing. And yep I’ve done the test milion times in different moods, timings and time frames and always INFP which I beileve to be true because I see myself in it the most. What does this mesn then? Are we similar in more ways with INFJ. Also this is my first comment ever and I rewrited it multiple times 😅 I send lots of love and cherish your emtions and values pppl❤ (also sorry for my grammar, hope it makes sense)

Omg yes! As an ISFP art (all forms) is very important to me. I could never be with someone who doesn't appreciate it.

YES UHH I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL ACCURATE

I'm an ISFP but I related so much to ENTJ and INTJ; however as for the latter, I don't mind the challenge of proving the validity of my ideas. to me, in a way, that's the best part, because I'd want the other person to be on board for all of the same reasons that make me excited. I also super appreciated how Frank used the sandbox metaphor to explain how Ne can manifest. As a single minded ISFP, that definitely gave me some perspective and helped me understand that Ne has a form of focus too. I have quite a few high Ne using friends in my life, and the perceived lack of direction annoys me at times--this explanation was strangely comforting and presented something that I could relate to. I related the least to ESTP. Ouch! But in my experience with the ESTP in my life, that's exactly the case. As for the ISFP segment, I relate completely, but the thing that turns me off the most is when people steal my ideas or art style, or try to imitate it. I know some people say this is the highest form of flattery, but to me, it makes me feel like the other person doesn't know themself well enough to just do their own thing. It almost makes me feel like I'm in charge of babysitting them or parenting them through their self discovery, and I don't want to feel that way in any relationship. Thanks for this video Frank!

You were right on about INFP's.

I really resonate with both ENFJ and the INFJ...I recently called off things with this great guy because I didn't feel the compatibility and I keep going on and on about how we don't talk, the last straw being him not even sharing any expression while we watched this football game...at first I thought I was crazy but after the infj clip it's great to know I'm not crazy and that my gut feeling was a real thing...thanks James.

This is gonna be amazing Keep up the good work No bot intended

as an isfj, 100% do not rush me... I will plan accordingly and take my time.

As an ESTJ, I don't think I give a lot of advice to people. But! I ask people why they are doing what they are doing and I do find people, who are full of excuses, very unattractive

I am an ENFP who loves my "one trick pony" INTJ husband, and am so thankful that his job supports me to be a stay at home mom and dream up my future jobs as an author illustrator/travel consultant/charcuterie business owner 🤩

@Damesanglante

Жыл бұрын

I hope feminism will help me find a woman that will support me being a stay-at-home dad sculptor violonist ninja. Life's hard. 😅

This is how much I loveee this channel. I'm here. At this minute

"None of my audiences know who MacGyver is." Me, over here, being an ISTP and growing up on MacGyver, but the new one bc im young-

Each mbti I heared you explain are precise, interesting

First comment! Hehe As an INFJ, I love and appreciate your channel 🙂

Thanks that explains my INTJs impatience when I shut him down too quick. My bad!!!

the best man on youtube..our boy FJ you re legend bro..keep up the hard work

I love the little squeak sounds that play when words pop up now. Also, the guy falling in the background without a parachute was unexpected, and hilarious 😂 Great job on the video, Frank! Your content never gets old ❤

@wombprofusion

Жыл бұрын

If I’m not mistaken it’s the sound Yoshi makes when he eats something😂

It took me 30 years to realise that, I have literally stopped expecting other ppl to express any emotions when I'm around them. I wonder how do they survive with small talk...!!! Which truly sucks.

Finally he reveal an information what we all need😁

INFJ here. When I ask people's opinions and they give me short answers I could go feral, actually.

That's absolutely true for the ISTJ My dad is an ISTJ and my mum and I are INTPs... Home can often times be a warzone

Very accurate...even if I also relate to ISTPs and (somehow) INFJs on this one 🤔🤷🏿‍♂️ (From an ENFJ)

My boyfriend is an ISTP and loves cars. I can totally relate to the example! I tell him I don't know how to do a certain thing to a car. He follows up with "Have you ever tried to do it?" (The answer is always no) "Well then, I'll have you help me one day so I can teach you." My learning styles are observing and doing so this works out.

@iwa2028

Жыл бұрын

That's sweet..

When I enthuse about my favourite films and people are, "oh hmmm yeah" lol. I'm mixing with the wrong people! When I mix lol. Love this.

As ENFP I highly agree I changed my "life goal" like 4 times during my teenage years I wanted to be an artist... I wasn't good enough so I just started learning math. Then I desided to be an actor and spend a good amount on training in that field. Then I studied math and geography in highschool but chose humanistic studies on my final exam. I was thinking about becoming a fireman but it was quite short sited. Finally last minute I changed my plan of becoming an actor because I got into Japan oriented collage... I have no idea what I'm doing in life. I don't even know what I'll do in 2 weeks. I hate when people want to "meet up next month" My guy. We'll talk in 3 weeks about that (also I change my hobbies like once a month xD)

@Damesanglante

Жыл бұрын

I feel you. I do the same. I am currently on a Muay Thaï moment and it is very very hard to stick to it. 🥴