What To Do When A Narcissist Swiftly Replaces You And Flaunts Their New Supply

Is there any more soul crushing and punishing thing in our life than to be replaced by a narcissist's new supply... only to then have them rub in your face how much "happier" their life is without you.
When we realise we have been discarded and replaced in a heartbeat, the trauma may be so horrific that we feel like we want to literally die.
In this deep and very necessary dive into this episode I share with you WHY being replaced in this way hurts so much, what is really taking place in your Inner Being and how to stop the pain forever - as well as any chance of being a part of a cruel discard / replace situation ever again.
It is my greatest wish that you heal and then Thrive from this, and connect with true, healthy and honourable love.
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  • @MPersson08
    @MPersson083 жыл бұрын

    They dont get a NEW supply. They have probably already cheated on you with her for a long time. And when he leaves you she feels like a winner and plaster social media with how in love they are. Little does she know he is probably already cheating on her too. Nasty creatures.

  • @robertswift6101
    @robertswift61015 жыл бұрын

    as an empath it was one of the hardest things i ever had to go through and watch as my ex was doing this to me,,,the struggle and pain is very real.

  • @jdldo6539
    @jdldo65394 жыл бұрын

    One telltale sign of a narcissist is someone who rebounds very quickly after one long term relationship ends. They are very soon in another relationship before you know it. The majority of the time their new supply is a downgrade and they have likely been cheating anyways. Narcissists also have rage/anger issues that they try to hide very well. They will also accuse you of being a narcissist whenever you stand up for yourself and finally call them out on their abuse and selfishness. It is called projecting.

  • @shelleykeast1382
    @shelleykeast13824 жыл бұрын

    I can actually breathe now. No contact is the best healing process. I feel so sorry for his new supply. She doesn’t know what she’s in for. Pay no attention to social media. Our inner self knows the truth.

  • @debraleach7878
    @debraleach78784 жыл бұрын

    Once I had proof of him cheating, I went completely no contact, changed my phone number and filed for divorce. I can feel myself feeling better every day.

  • @jessrnny
    @jessrnny6 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. We gaslight ourselves and silent treatment our own pain. It’s no wonder we find narcissists to distract us. They are here to teach us to think/love ourselves first and to be sure of ourselves even in doubt. They present to us our deepest fears and wounds that remain hidden. They have a lot to teach us if we pay attention.

  • @MichelePearl
    @MichelePearl6 жыл бұрын

    As a licensed therapist in NY/NJ it has taken over THREE years of therapy to finally move my patient out of this toxic dynamic with her NARC. He almost killed her and she STILL regretted to hear he moved on with his life and married someone else. And what happened a year later? He tried to re-engage my patient in a triangulation when he grew tired of the current wife. He has children from several women to add to the aforementioned. FINALLY after attaining a profession and feeling less dependent with improved self esteem my patient has at long last embarked on her emancipation. I have to thank you for enlightening women on the predatory dynamic that seduces and subsequently rejects. Personally I never seem to attract these NARCs because they run from me. lol!

  • @sylviaking8866
    @sylviaking8866

    My Ex had an affair, so I decided to divorce him as he took great pleasure in trying to triangulate me with this woman. She dumped him 9 months into our divorce. He then panicked and tried to come back, and I said hell no. He is now on his 3 women. The first 2 dumped him after about 9 months.

  • @georgejetson9801
    @georgejetson98016 жыл бұрын

    I was replaced while we were still married. He lied telling her we'd been over for years and we were separated.

  • @jeanneier8004
    @jeanneier80046 жыл бұрын

    I went NO Contact in all areas! Social Media... never peaked... hard to do, but I listened to you! Thank you . best thing I ever ever did!

  • @AnitaBarneycastle
    @AnitaBarneycastle6 жыл бұрын

    if you wait long enough on the side of the river...you will witness your enemies floating by.

  • @Denso481
    @Denso4812 жыл бұрын

    "it feels like you're dying"

  • @sharke8351
    @sharke83514 жыл бұрын

    Actually I was relieved to know I wasn’t the only sucker!!! I spent so long thinking how could I have been so stupid!!! Thank god it’s over!!!!

  • @glenlepeska8951
    @glenlepeska89515 жыл бұрын

    My former narcissist girlfriend - a psychologist had her new supply 2 months before she discarded me. Now, I see them at and she looks at him with 'loving' eyes. Yea, the guy is handsome and I admit that. But, man he has NO idea what she truly is about. Her jealousy will kill it. Glad I am away from that. I am still healing. Good video!

  • @lasheasmith2618
    @lasheasmith26186 жыл бұрын

    Wish them both the happiness and great health. Block everyone associated with Narc and all supplies from Social Media. Appear to be busy and happy on Social Media like nothing bothers you. No negative or passive aggressive messages on Social Media. Be or appear to be HAPPY because it destroys them.

  • @richenoiretv5958
    @richenoiretv59586 жыл бұрын

    ex husband's new supply he publicly put on a pedestal ended up leaving him and taking their 2 kids with her. Don't fret over it. The fake paradise will eventually crumble and you will have the last laugh. I sure did:)

  • @mikeosullivan3901
    @mikeosullivan39016 жыл бұрын

    Great video as always! Once we truly understand that a narcissist is only capable of bringing one more conflict and corresponding misery, you'll be happy to be out. A huge Part of working on myself is a dedication to never look back, block all avenues of communication, move forward and grow. 0 desire to go back. Zilch, nada. I'm worth more than that nonsense and if you're reading this, so are you.

  • @kashmirnoor7200
    @kashmirnoor72005 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been struggling so much with healing, This video made everything so clear. Spot on. Thank you so much for the work you do. ♥️♥️

  • @igotthatvictory8037
    @igotthatvictory80374 жыл бұрын

    My God help us to stay away from this garbage and rid them from our hearts and minds for good!!

  • @lucywhitaker407
    @lucywhitaker4075 жыл бұрын

    I always fall in love with men like this I'm Fed up of them hurting my feelings & replacing me with somebody new.