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@lydiamarie9636

Жыл бұрын

I really need some advice for this coming weekend. My ex and I had a really tumultuous relationship for 2 years and we are finally starting to get back on good terms. We've done a few activities together as friends that went well. He's coming on a trip to the coast (that I invited him to) on Saturday. It's a huge step and I'm honestly shocked he agreed to come. He seems to only want friendship, and I'm nervous about accidentally overstepping or messing something up this weekend. I can't afford to pay for official coaching right now 😢 my car recently broke down and I'm finishing college. But any advice would be appreciated

@lydiamarie9636

Жыл бұрын

Should probably also mention this is a group/overnight trip with 6 people (all friends of mine)

Your channel is crimially under-rated.

This video is what I was looking for. My mans lost feelings for me last year n now we're back being friends. Then not sure what happened but he did call me special

❤ thank you for your amazing videos and advice

Excellent…thank you Clay!

After a very romantic, passionate, fun, connected year together, he said I was the most wonderful women he'd ever been with-- the most beautiful, the best chemistry, the most feeling he'd ever felt for anyone, the most special (and I sincerely believe him, because you can't fake the connection we had).... and then he said it was over between us. A month prior, he'd found someone to partner with for a business venture. She's everything I'm not-- and everything he said he never wanted-- bossy, controlling, non-feminine. I saw him at a social event for the first time in a few months. I was cool, cordial, and even a little indifferent because my heart was racing. He's still with her. He wanted that, not me.

@vEnUs.06

Жыл бұрын

I feel you..same situation happened with me..

@ULTIMATEUNITED2000

Жыл бұрын

Then ladies value yourselves. If hes found someone else thats a deal breaker he chose some else over you. Didnt want to stay. Game over. If i were you both you need to love yourself and not let him think you will always be there because no.

@ULTIMATEUNITED2000

Жыл бұрын

​@@vEnUs.06Value yourself, dont contact and go about your life. If hes chosen someone else over you then value you and walk away. Its hard but you cant let him think you will always be there. Its like hell at times the sadness, thoughts but surely you should respect yourself.

Spot on...😊

Hey clay, hopefully you see this. Me and ryan (in the video) have a similar situation. He says he loves me but isn’t in love with me. We talk everyday and he’s initiating most of the contact. He says “I love you” and “I miss you” everyday. He also wants to go on vacation with me this summer. (His idea) But right now just wants to be friends because he isn’t in love with me. I’m not sure if he’s at riding the dragon or further. He’s also expressed that if he were in my position he would give up because I deserve someone that’s sure about me and he doesn’t want to lead me on if he can’t get there emotionally.

I’m leaving this here because I am very hurt by my situation. I date this guy for 3 years. Then he broke up with me and we went into no contact. However he kept coming back reaching out to me. And finally got me to move back into his place and gave me a promise ring three weeks in he told me he didn’t have feelings for me. And that he know he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me. At the momment I am in the process of moving away. From him and this is the second time we are doing this. And I have gave up all hope that things between me and him are going to work out. I really do love him. And I can no longer believe that he’s coming back. I am deeply hurt. In reality I just want him back , I’ve never meet anyone like him. And will miss all the moments we had together. It is officially over.

@chetbailey1529

28 күн бұрын

I feel very sorry for your pain. Reading this, I understand that this is not your fault. I think he still loves you but he has buried his feelings. It sounds like your ex has a severe dismissive avoidant attachment style. Research this topic ad it will give you many answers to your situation. He has commitment phobia. This is more prevalent than ever on our society today unfortunately.

can you please make a video if ex goes into rebound & then rebound breaks up with ex & now ex is heartbroken. this dynamic is not really talked about, its always when the ex breaks up with the new person. i’m also still blocked so not sure what to do.

I don’t think they loved you of they supposedly just lost feelings

Their feelings are gone, not they're

@GiorgosYfa

11 күн бұрын

What

We live together and she is being mean to me but sometimes she is nice and her rebound is much older then me and he is the opposite of me but it feel like she is trying to hurt me and idk what to do

@austinkesler4493

6 ай бұрын

I hope you kicked her out by now.

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Hi clay, my ex finished with me 18 months ago after 6 years together and been with his new partner 16 months, he actually wanted us to stay friends but I couldn’t do that as we was in or out so I decided we was done… when I see them he always stares WHY 😊