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do never ever ever return to what broke you. I have this list and I learnt it by heart because the cost was very high. I am looking forward to welcoming new opportunity/gift from the universe. The door of past is closed forever.

@FlatStella1

5 ай бұрын

smame here

Based on my personal experience, I've observed that situations that initially raise doubts often remain unchanged and can lead to future conflicts or separations

Your ex, is an ex, for a reason

@Dahmer_Jeff

4 күн бұрын

What reason is that

1. Journal all the reasons this relationship ended 2. Write a vision for what you want (regardless of this person) 3. "The Crossroads exercise": It's a meditation focused on gaining clarity about what feels life-giving. Exercise starts at: 4:55 • Intuition it's not about ideas that you see in ur mind or a voice you hear. Your intuition lives in your body, you know what direction to go by what feels life-giving. Life-giving desicions > Life-giving experiences > Life-giving results • Something that is logical maybe looks bright and shiny at that time, but internally it feels heavy, it feels tight, it feels stressful. Another exercise: 6:00

Hi Mat, thank you for sharing. Very good exercise. My exes won’t come back cause I blocked them. Not interested in being friends w benefits. Best is to create and have new connections.

Love yourself enough to truly let go and value yourself

I never go back. If he broke up with me, that means he's lonely and is looking for an easy connection... well not interested because what ever irritated him the first time will irritate him again. If I broke off with him, I have suffered long enough, trying to make it work before breaking it off that even with the time passing amnesia I know I can do better. 💖🌞🌵😷

Story of my life ! They always come back every time ! I just block !

@silvermine2033

5 ай бұрын

I had one come back after 8 years lol.

Mannnnn!! Boggsy!! your timing and how it lines up with things going on in my life is just totally uncanny ! I’m halfway through manifest your man and Yep this is totally what’s happening !! So thank you! This is exactly what I need on the “integration week” where I don’t wanna be integrating!! I need to do more work! And this is it!! 😍.

Solid advice! I'd add pay attention to their behaviour during/after the breakup. Their behaviour when they lose access to you tells you a lot about them.

Trying again is like this; Recycling is good for the environment not for relationships…. It’s like rereading the same book and expecting the ending to change, It won’t!!! My mottos I live by!!!

Great exercise. Here's what I noticed: the energy of the good times with him are still there. The only thing that needs to change is him accepting me as his wife. He's very supportive and enjoys helping in the ways I need help. The path without him, my current path, is void of his indecisiveness which is freeing... as I continue to pursue my own dreams. His dreams are still in alignment with my own. Then I considered us married, with him being supportive of the things that excite me, and me being supportive of the things that excite him, moving and finding new friends together that share our energy. So... what I see... is that this crossroad is for him to decide what is best for him and his own dreams... because I will be fine regardless. But he's been my best friend for a long time and while I would truly enjoy him deciding on us... I'm well aware Life will find a way to bring me someone new should he choose to stay the same. Thank you for this exercise 👊❤

Thank you for the best information ever. We appreciate you!

This was a fantastic exercise to teach!!! Thank you! 🙌🏽

GREAT list idea!! I found my courageous breakup letter that helped me remember! But still HELPFUL as always!

I love this ❤ Thank you!!

Such a good video. Thanks Mat. It was very helpful.

Thanks for that very helpful exercise Matt.

What an incredible exercise. Thank you so much Mat I need this!!! ❤

I think at least 95% of the time, unless you know of positive changes that you BOTH have made, then you’re best to let an ex be just that.

Thanks for this helpful video

Getting back is not an option so i will focus on my vision for love. Thanks Mat!!❤

Very good!

That was very helpful ❤

This video and exercise is such a gift, Mat! Thank you! I watched it this morning and literally just had friend message me about wanting to find new work because her current job is really draining her spirit. I'm going to share this with her! Holiday blessings to you and your loved ones! ❤ --Cari 🍋

Thank you MAT!!

Past in the past. Put your eyes in your goals and what makes you happy.

Thanks a lot for crossroads exercise that is a tool of life changing 🙏🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌👍👍👍👏👏👏👏

You are brilliant Matt. My feeling regarding my ex is a Big Hard No! Thanks for breaking it down 😂😂😊

thanks Matt, great excercise! your videos are very good😊

I did this and it certainly clarified my relationship/non relationship for me. Ill wait until after Christmas but I'll be having a conversation with my bf. I'm only staying if he brings his A game.

That's true you start to focus on everything that was good as if doing it a mental pros and cons but you start with the pros automatically especially when you're not with someone so be very careful don't jump into anything under your pros and cons list and continue to date

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For me to have made someone an ex, they must have treated me badly. They don't get the gift of a second chance to be in my life when they desecrated the first chance they were given. If they didn't value me the first time, they don't get a second chance.

My ex reached me after 8 months of now contact. In between I used to get messages on certain occasions.

What if the only reason is he didn't want commitment. It came out of nowhere. He also still contacts me almost every day. If I try to not answer but he says I'm sorry almost everytime. Everything else was great. 😢

@gilliegiganto4797

3 ай бұрын

i was in this too. When i finally decided to walk away after a year of constant rejection. It tore me up .(Please don't let this happen to you)It was still so painful i tried to date and didn't work out but as i go through those pain i learned to be strong . Now i can say in a better place and working on my life. Suddenly he reached out again but i know i have move on . I still care but I want to give myself a chance for new possibilty in life. And have faith that all those pain will be rewarded with joy and genuine love.Wish you love and happiness dear

Some folk here clearly have high egos💀

Call the police and run. He's a raging psycho.

Take a bath

No that’s why their an X, if those reasons weren’t there they wouldn’t be your x they would be your now and forever 🫶