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Biggest piece of advice I can give. Do not date a coworker unless you are prepared : to work in an uncomfortable work environment OR are prepared to change jobs. Period.

@tl1544

4 ай бұрын

Its ok to date a co-worker if you have emotional intelligence- work is a good place to find true love- I regret not moving forward with many potential guys because I was worried about the work thing if it doesnt work out etc but I lost out on love ! Just go for it

@Mayfloweralways

4 ай бұрын

@@tl1544 i would agree. Someone who would make a scene or carry a lot of anger should probably not date at work. But if you can establish a line that the personal stuff is not brought to work, it’s fine. I’m in a relationship with someone from work. Zero problems. My sister married a coworker. Next year is their 20th anniversary.

On our first date, three years ago, my girlfriend gave me a clear green light, and it's set the tone for our whole relationship. It was getting late, and she said "I need to get going soon so you should kiss me goodnight." As a guy in todays dating world, it took all the pressure off me about what she might expect, permit, or reject from me. Trust me ladies. Any time you can offer him a clear green light, the small amount of courage it takes to do that, will pay dividends, and you will stand out in his mind above any other women in his life.

I just asked directly. We have been friends for almost 40 years since the 4th grade. I had caught feelings for him but he didn’t and that’s ok we still hang out and have fun together. Nothing has changed and I feel so much better having found out.

Do not date at work.Just because someone is friendly does not make them your type or match. They just like you because of familiarity. Don't be used or lose your job.

@user-li3wb1hp5l

4 ай бұрын

I think Matt here doesn't refer to co-workers only, but to friends in general who have some kind of flirtatious behaviour, but you don't know where you stand with them

I had a really bad crush on this TA in college. It was making me crazy so i got brave and called him up and said “ I know this is inappropriate, but I have this incredible attraction for you and I’m sure this happens all the time with your students, so I called you up so you could tell me it’s no big deal. I already have a girlfriend and I don’t date students. if you tell me this, I think it will help me to stop dreaming about you. // he said well that’s definitely a problem, but I think we need to discuss more because I feel a strong attraction for you also. How about I come pick you up and we’ll talk about it.

Great tips! I once had long friendship with male & others said he was to shy too ask me out. I didn't get that vibe from him so I finally straight up asked. It fit into the convo and he said I apologize if I gave you the wrong vibe and I said no I didn't get that idea but others have. So we cleared the air and continued our friendship without issues. Yes it was hard to bring up but I'm glad I did. We've been friends for over a decade now!

Absolutely love king this, definitely giving it a go in a right time with a right guy 🙌🏻❤️

Excellent advise!

These are really good tips. Thank you!

If you know the guy fairly well, you can imagine asking him these questions and you'll probably know how he will answer. BTW, it is really emotionally hard for me to stay friends with a guy after I've suggested something more romantic: humiliating, embarrassed, etc

These are good, i will give it a go. Thank so much❤❤

I have just asked directly. "Do you want to go out with me?" 😂

I like the last suggestion because it’s more direct, instead of making “hints.”

Love it!❤

I really like this And I love these lines! (I'm glad I'm only learning them now when it's too late. Sadly, I came to realize that the "shy guy" at work was only interested in me because of my close proximity to the boss.)

I appreciate any advice u can offer Mat..thanks for being awesome..Irene is one lucky lady

Thank You so much!!! 9 months in limbo haha.

Please make a video on ways to break the touch barrier without looking desperate. My friend wants to know how to do that.

@dahliadoll1110

4 ай бұрын

Sure, your "friend"... lol but I want that video too 😂

Thank you thank you

That was smart 😃👍🏻❤️

If a man doesn't ask, I never would! I think when a man is into you? He'll absolutely let you know. If he doesn't, that's where it should stay imo.

Nice!

I love the shirt comment! 🤣🤣

Nice video ❤❤❤❤thanks for this, I also have a similar video. How to know if he’s into you

Able to do a video on the whole workplace dating/interested in someone? What are the do's and dont's, do you recommend it or to stay completely away from it? I don't mix business with pleasure b/c it can get messy (like rezotydnic stated), but maybe you have some examples where it worked well?

So with my husband of nearly 20 years, we were friends for a long time before I asked him, "..I get the feeling you're attracted to me, am I wrong?" And he finally had to confess... there was never overt flirting before that, he was just "always available" when I "needed him." Whether someone to chat on the phone with, go to a movie, whatever friends do... but I think putting the blame on the other person for "acting attracted" took the load off of my shoulders and put the ball in his court to correct me in case I was wrong. Lol

Dear Mat, your advice only seems to work on the alpha male and not on the sigma male/ lone wolf. Is it possible for you to dig in to the sigma male/ lone wolf please?

If they act strange bc you asked them this then they were never a real friend.

Well, I was courageous enough to ask and he said he can't have a relationship with someone from work, although he's been flirting with me, touching my hand etc. for months... the worst part is that I still have to see him at work now 😩

@Mayfloweralways

4 ай бұрын

My boyfriend said that. But then he changed his mind. It’s all in the vibe. Be careful not to keep giving energy that you wish he would or that you’d be ok with something like fooling around. A guy that wants you will raise the bar and he will figure out how to get what he wants. Just let things be for a while. You never know. It worked out for me.

@user-ng7hd6zi9q

4 ай бұрын

Then he shouldn’t be flirting

@LJK9

4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry...

I want to restore the deep connection with the sigma which is the most difficult thing since they are very specific.

I am so interested in a guy at work yet I will let him make the move if he wants me and if he doesn't then he doesn't. I'm showing interest, so is he. So we'll see. In the meantime I will live my life as wonderfully and beautifully as I can and remain receptive to him.

@giulias.5104

17 күн бұрын

How did it go? Curious 🙂

I really want to do the first option but I was friendzoned by a guy I had liked at guy and now It's awkward at work when he's on breaks. I'm afraid of being rejected again and making weird at work again with a different guy. I feel like he might like me but doesn't want the commitment rn or dating isn't his top propority rn.

If the guy isn’t emotionally mature and healthy enough to ask then I don’t see the point in bothering. There’s plenty of other guys out there. Soooo many. With this guy I would just ask for tons of favors and keep my options open by dating other people. This gets him feeling invested and gives a sense of urgency. Say you’re a prude, by dating other people I don’t mean sleeping with them. Because these guys are used to hook up culture they get decision paralysis so we as women need to stop doing that, and they assume we are all sleeping around all the time. It’s only the top 10 guys who are really getting any sex anyway. But the smart, nice, attractive ones with value know not to do this because of the risks. These are the ones you want. And then when you do have sex it’s after he’s fully vetted and this is to see if he’s actually good at sex and has the right shape and size for you etc. If all that’s good you keep seeing him and he will know he’s special and you’re not always chasing after random guys. Also by saying “I’m too much for you” he will think you’re mentally unstable or high maintenance or something else negative. You want to be high maintenance but you want to keep that a positive in his mind. Also I don’t trust single men. The fact they don’t have a nice girlfriend they are treating well is always suspicious. Even this guy I wonder if he has a girlfriend and if she’s happy before I want to take his advice.

@anawonka

4 ай бұрын

I partially agree with u. But last part... u must be new here . The videi guy is lovely and is married to a nice lady. Loads of his stories in this chanek u can listen

What if we are an ocean apart?

A Phone call to express myself is no option for the sigma male. Neither is small talk. Please help like with a: How to restore deep connection with a sigma/ lone wolf trough texting/ voice message specific. These males are so unique!

AWWWW

Matt.. You wouldn't believe the timing of this video. I have liked a co-worker since March, 23 but couldn't act on it due to my professional position, he is younger than me and I also knew it quite well that he has some healing to do after a break-up. We have become good friends over the last few months and 29th January is his last working day. I am going to tell him how I feel about him and I have prepared something. I'm going to tell him that I like you more than friends and I will be fine or happier with however you respond to this. Please wish me luck and I will come back later to update you how it went.

@bundlewade

3 ай бұрын

How did it go?

@barkharani2693

3 ай бұрын

He read my note and said 'Nice' and we talked about the usual stuff for a few minutes until I had to leave.. And nothing more from him since then.. So it is a No.. 🥲 I have moved on though because I kind of knew this could be one of the possibility.. But if we meet again, I will tell him that he should have said something more than just Nice.. Like a clear answer in this situation.. He should know the right response for the future..

Why can’t you just ask him if he wants to go out?

watif u want to be fren with a married man only but not more

I used exactly these two lines with this guy friend. Ended up in a situationship going nowhere. I ended it and was left with no friend + no sex. Oh well... NEXT! 😆

Ultimately, you will heal yourself through your alignment with God, and the eternal Truth of who you are. Breathe slowly, and deeply into your belly. Rest in the awareness of your union with God, your love for God, and God's love for you. I call it 'sitting in love'. By sitting in love, you attune vibrationally to Love... and that is going to change your thinking and your experiences... Always remember, your thinking mind/brain is always going to try and convince you that your suffering is caused by things external to yourself... That will cause you to be resistant to the eternal Truth. That is why daily communion with that Love/God is essential, because that vibrational communion actually assumes/restructures your thinking mind/brain, and dissolves that resistance. You essentially will remember yourself as the Love that you have always been. You can't go wrong by aligning yourself to God/Source/Christ Mind. Much success on your journey and much love to you, blessed soul.

Hey...I have some hot chemistry for you if you want to explore it....just saying....the 'just saying' part makes it less intense and easier to throw out there

Matt, Phil Collins' birthday today. Please help him find a wife to fill his heart with love again. My sincerest wish

This doesn't really talk about whether he likes you or not...

Yet men’s dating advice is that when she states that you’re such good friends she’s automatically friendzoning you and isn’t interested romantically 🤦‍♀️ It’s almost like these people that are supposed to help get people into a good relationship are giving conflicting advice to keep men and women forever single🤔

women should NOT ask a man if he is interested in her!!!!! my only question to friends who are attracted to a guy and they 'think' the guy is attracted to them is......What did you say when he asked you out? and their reply is wait, what? ?? he hasn't asked me out yet. then my reply is, stop talking about a non starter and move on.

@Mayfloweralways

4 ай бұрын

Be careful about that. There is nuance to any situation. I didn’t ask my boyfriend if he was interested in me. But i did say i was interested in him. One time. And then i didn’t bring it up again or chase him. I have to say, we have an incredible relationship. He did the chasing and asking out. But i gave the green light.

@marianelaballerina2295

4 ай бұрын

@@Mayfloweralways Honest and easier.

This is literally Matthew Hussey. You're not original.

How to get to know if he is into you or not when you two have never conversed but have had few seconds eye contact v often like almost everyday? @mattboggs