What's the loneliest you've ever felt?

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  • @Auclairkim
    @Auclairkim3 жыл бұрын

    Worst feeling : being in a group of friends, but you’re not really IN that group of friends

  • @sapphicsx

    @sapphicsx

    3 жыл бұрын

    not all like me in that group and i know they’re stuck w/ me

  • @zahraamin6790

    @zahraamin6790

    3 жыл бұрын

    This hit different

  • @starlydw

    @starlydw

    3 жыл бұрын

    yea, i just moved to a new school and i made friends but i’m not really part of the group. it hurts.

  • @zahraamin6790

    @zahraamin6790

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@starlydw I feel your pain. it feels so uncomfortable and awkward and depressing

  • @yersina7555

    @yersina7555

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@seulxejn1851 same 😶

  • @yjlee4838
    @yjlee48383 жыл бұрын

    When i realise i am no one's priority i am just one of their options

  • @lizyaizawa1265

    @lizyaizawa1265

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's deep. It can be both a blessing and a curse. The biggest thing i think, is you should talk it out with them. I know this is a difficult thing to ask ( could hardly do it) but communication helps a lot. Even if it is scary. And maybe, you are someone's priority and you just dont know it. Maybe it's in a distant way. If it turns out that no one makes you their priority, you just havent found the right people. They're out there, somewhere, in some way shape or form. It took me 3 years to discover this person and it was in someone I didnt even consider it could be. THere is light at the end of the tunnel, I promise. You just have to keep chasing after it.

  • @lizyaizawa1265

    @lizyaizawa1265

    3 жыл бұрын

    also have a nice day :)

  • @yagurl1995

    @yagurl1995

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong!

  • @stxllispirit7764

    @stxllispirit7764

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn

  • @mrsfahrenheit

    @mrsfahrenheit

    3 жыл бұрын

    WOW this is absolutely my life.. like you’re never choice 1

  • @_slimas
    @_slimas3 жыл бұрын

    4:21 Grandpa: “I don’t remember the loneliest I’ve ever felt” GrandSon: “You can just say it”. Grandpa: “Getting divorced. Grandson: “Yes!” Grandpa:“That’s the loneliest I’ve ever felt.” Grandpa: “That’s is true.” Kids pay attentions, they observe us. He knew how his Grandpa felt all these years. That’s so pure.

  • @richardcorona3564

    @richardcorona3564

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, so amazing. That kid KNEW. You could hear it in his responses to the questions themselves.

  • @Gaucheness

    @Gaucheness

    2 жыл бұрын

    Kids are smart. Sometimes adults forget that children understand more than we think

  • @Pdmakesenc

    @Pdmakesenc

    2 жыл бұрын

    Idk, I thought it was a bit sad too that he knew so much. That kid was really young. Breaks my heart for them both.

  • @eileenhawaii6381

    @eileenhawaii6381

    6 ай бұрын

    The sweet grandson struck me as an old soul who was there specifically to connect with this man.

  • @user-qs7lk1ng7u

    @user-qs7lk1ng7u

    2 ай бұрын

    Kids are really intuitive and observate a lot peoples behaviour, they are extremely good at detecting feelings and toughts. They also copy adults so they tend to lose that ability with the time :/

  • @taylorrich-lane454
    @taylorrich-lane4543 жыл бұрын

    The girl who’s ex killed himself after they broke up, I feel so bad for her. I hope she doesn’t carry guilt.

  • @EryQWalker
    @EryQWalker3 жыл бұрын

    I like being alone but I don't like feeling lonely.

  • @afrik.a515

    @afrik.a515

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here.

  • @seemranhoro1572

    @seemranhoro1572

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @deblinadey2789

    @deblinadey2789

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are lucky dear

  • @badfavour1105

    @badfavour1105

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sameeeee

  • @majawieczorek3003

    @majawieczorek3003

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @mayal714
    @mayal7143 жыл бұрын

    Isn't it crazy how these are all random people? It goes to show how much baggage everyone walks around with and nobody knows. Always be kind. You never know what someone's holding in their heart.

  • @XxGyryxX

    @XxGyryxX

    3 жыл бұрын

    sonder- The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own

  • @tinybrambles9581

    @tinybrambles9581

    3 жыл бұрын

    ♥️✨😞🥺

  • @aya123444

    @aya123444

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup...

  • @sayurueragoda6200

    @sayurueragoda6200

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @luwamalem9537

    @luwamalem9537

    3 жыл бұрын

    I knoww! This is why we shouldn't judge people for how they are or seemed to be, it could be because of what they're going through!

  • @AmeonnaSal
    @AmeonnaSal3 жыл бұрын

    Nobody asked me but the loneliest I've ever felt is when my best friend and ex boyfriend left me when I went into psychiatric hospital because I had a mental breakdown. The pain was real. I adopted a puppy after the incident wich is one of my best desicions.PS:this is my dog in the profile picture.

  • @KITKAT-sq5zh

    @KITKAT-sq5zh

    3 жыл бұрын

    💖

  • @ragnorfellandcantgetup3916

    @ragnorfellandcantgetup3916

    3 жыл бұрын

    Give him a treat for me, hope you're doing well

  • @jaspreetsingh-um2qk

    @jaspreetsingh-um2qk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hope you are doing good

  • @Aaleynaa34

    @Aaleynaa34

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your dog is so cute. Can you hug him for me? 😊 (seriously 😅) And you are so strong, dont be sad or feel lonely. İf they left you while you were having bad times, this is their fault. You are so strong and pls stay like that ❣️ I love you 💙

  • @AmeonnaSal

    @AmeonnaSal

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Aaleynaa34 Thank you ❤️

  • @jayanmonzer1303
    @jayanmonzer13033 жыл бұрын

    Not me, laying in bed at midnight and crying because I can feel every one of these people.

  • @yehaw666

    @yehaw666

    2 жыл бұрын

    u okay? how are u doing now

  • @ivenalanko2462

    @ivenalanko2462

    2 жыл бұрын

    SAME I'm hugging my seal aswell 😭😭

  • @shaficibashe2995

    @shaficibashe2995

    2 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @teres1263

    @teres1263

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 1.43 AM

  • @peacejoy3629

    @peacejoy3629

    8 ай бұрын

    @@teres1263 1:39 AM.. 😞

  • @RP-ez2jm
    @RP-ez2jm3 жыл бұрын

    "You can say it" "Getting divorced." "YES."

  • @aminamuminova6794

    @aminamuminova6794

    3 жыл бұрын

    Like that dude too)

  • @SF-lo3ob

    @SF-lo3ob

    3 жыл бұрын

    There's something amazing about that little dude, he's brilliant

  • @suesmith3763

    @suesmith3763

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes yes yes!!! I love the honesty in children! (Most of the time lol)

  • @johnk6023

    @johnk6023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that kid was SO cool. And most likely hit the nail on the head too! That grandfather looked about my age and I have no kids.......... and the realization that life has officially passed me by, kinda stings a bit. :-(

  • @edzanjero353

    @edzanjero353

    3 жыл бұрын

    In the Boomer years divorce was just no big deal, even passe'. It was the worst, most destructive, shameful thing I've ever done. Divorce is like a Category 4 tornado, wreaking a wide, even unknown path of destruction across persons' lives, and the world.

  • @alexg8327
    @alexg83273 жыл бұрын

    “When I see people connecting on a deep level”.... same friend, same. *HUG*

  • @mknga21903

    @mknga21903

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same ❤️

  • @bitikoyku

    @bitikoyku

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @krishnambiar5174

    @krishnambiar5174

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here, the fact that there’s nobody I can talk to when I’m feeling sad or something hurts

  • @saniyaa8079

    @saniyaa8079

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @khdjabnz108

    @khdjabnz108

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @beachypeacefulvibes8599
    @beachypeacefulvibes85993 жыл бұрын

    That man's grandson was the best accountability coach I have ever seen. He makes you own your stuff and doesn't let you delude yourself. He was awesome and absolutely adorable. Well done young man!

  • @bowilliam3865

    @bowilliam3865

    3 жыл бұрын

    A bright spark

  • @lucasfelipedesousa8006

    @lucasfelipedesousa8006

    4 ай бұрын

    Loved him ^^ he must be so fun talking to😂

  • @macesboy
    @macesboy2 жыл бұрын

    I felt the girl who talked about not being able to connect with people on a deeper more personal level. I feel like I've lived my entire life like that, and it just feels so fucking lonely. My heart goes out to that girl, that deeper type of connection is something I yearn for. It sucks when you feel like you never have a shoulder to cry on, someone to turn to, or someone to share small moments with.

  • @roxana4218

    @roxana4218

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Grim. I feel you. I'm the same. It does feel incredibly lonely. Then there are the 'I wish...'

  • @Gloroxsocks

    @Gloroxsocks

    2 жыл бұрын

    Relateee

  • @macesboy

    @macesboy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@roxana4218 My heart goes out to you, and I hope you find a cure for the loneliness and lack of connection one day. It's a rough place to be and I believe everyone deserves that deeper connection in life.

  • @macesboy

    @macesboy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Gloroxsocks It's a mood foreal lol. Much love to you, hope you find it one day.

  • @Gaucheness

    @Gaucheness

    2 жыл бұрын

    I honestly feel the same. To have so many people you talk to but have no one that you can connect on a deeper level... its so fucking lonely. and a lot of it I think is that im also afraid to lean on someone sometimes to have that deeper connection but over use it so much that i end up loosing them... I dont know

  • @karinagutierrez1530
    @karinagutierrez15303 жыл бұрын

    Next maybe you should do “who impacted your life the most”

  • @hatersgoingstohateyae5127

    @hatersgoingstohateyae5127

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or, “why’d I unprivate my videos”

  • @321MjC

    @321MjC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Good && Bad tho...👍👎

  • @chloebeckner9593

    @chloebeckner9593

    3 жыл бұрын

    YESSSS

  • @S_J_banana

    @S_J_banana

    3 жыл бұрын

    or what impacted it the most

  • @user-mx8nn3qq7y

    @user-mx8nn3qq7y

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesss

  • @bookishbutterfly
    @bookishbutterfly3 жыл бұрын

    The grandkid was so honest in the back, lowkey wonder if you could interview children to ask about what their hopes are. The childlike wonder is what I miss...

  • @lutfiamohamed368

    @lutfiamohamed368

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope this goes through...would be very refreshing and probably emotional too

  • @AM-po5wt

    @AM-po5wt

    3 жыл бұрын

    i would love to watch that

  • @bookishbutterfly

    @bookishbutterfly

    3 жыл бұрын

    @soap duckling sure! Every idea comes from somewhere

  • @iza595

    @iza595

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesss! Great suggestion.

  • @catchyname5403

    @catchyname5403

    3 жыл бұрын

    As adults we tend to overlook how much children notice, see and absorb. I love how bold and honest children are and this is a great idea.

  • @vickiwaatti1076
    @vickiwaatti10763 жыл бұрын

    The night I left my ex-husband for abusing me after 14 years of marriage. I was lying in bed in a woman's shelter and I was so alone but I was free!

  • @mylifeismyaeshtetic6146

    @mylifeismyaeshtetic6146

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @lamoskgr

    @lamoskgr

    2 жыл бұрын

    You seem to be very happy now and that gives me peace. I hope you'll always continue to be strong, you went through a lot ❤️

  • @daniellenikole8787

    @daniellenikole8787

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can definitely relate. I left after 10 years, and I remember crying myself to sleep for so many nights in the shelter.

  • @9liv246

    @9liv246

    2 жыл бұрын

    🧡

  • @jenniferrivera8627

    @jenniferrivera8627

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad you saw ur worth. You are strong and beautiful. See life now in a different light

  • @piyalichowdhury4438
    @piyalichowdhury44383 жыл бұрын

    The loneliest moment I've ever felt when I really wanted someone to hold me when I was struggling with myself but no one was there. It's a feeling like you have been hiding in a dark corner and nobody even notices that you aren't there with them anymore. Now, when people try to come to reach out to me, I push them away because now I can't even believe that I deserve that kind of affection and attention.

  • @sejalpal4487

    @sejalpal4487

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry you feel this way...

  • @golzisoars1099

    @golzisoars1099

    3 жыл бұрын

    You see, this video itself has so many random people with broken stories. And u have one too. Don't abandon affection and love. Give yourself a chance. Don't be so hard on yourself. Broken crayons still color. God loves you❤️

  • @busy.9511

    @busy.9511

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate i guesss...but i hope i didn't make anyone feel that wayy....im really scared of making someone feel that wayyy

  • @inspiredby621

    @inspiredby621

    2 жыл бұрын

    Have you ever lied? Stolen? Used God's name as a curse? (ex. 'Oh my G-d') Dishonored your mother or father? If you answered yes to any of the above, you have broken God's moral law, and are not right with God. When you die, you will be found guilty before God and sent to hell- a place of eternal torment, weeping and gnashing of teeth. (By the way-every single human who has walked this earth but one (Jesus, the God-Man) has broken this moral code, and is guilty of sin!) But! There's good news! In God's infinite mercy, he sent his one and only son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Jesus died the death we deserved, and took the wrath of God on our behalf. This is a free gift for all those who repent (which means to turn away from wrong-doing) and confess Jesus as Lord, and have faith in him that he died on the cross for our sins, was risen after three days and sits at the right hand of God, the Father right now. We are all guilty before God but Jesus paid our fine- let's turn towards Him, glorify Him, and rejoice in what He did for us on the cross! John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.'" Jesus Christ is who he says he is. He came to the earth, fully God, fully man. Jesus died on the cross bearing our sins, and faced the wrath of God for us as substitution that whosoever repents of their sin with a sincere heart, and has faith in Jesus Christ shall be saved. He was buried then resurrected after three days and awaits with the Father in heaven until the day of judgement and wrath. Jesus did this because, according to Romans 3:23, "For we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Only Jesus lived a sinless life, a sinless life that we could never live. He is the only one who could die a substitutionary death for a sinner. So Jesus went to the cross to pay the debt we owe to God for our sin. Those covered by His sacrifice will inherit the kingdom of God and be reconciled to God. Again, the way you do this, is you repent of your sin and have faith in Jesus. What does this mean? It means you take a good, hard look at your life. If you are honest, you will be grieved by your wrongdoing, and your sinful ways. Repent. To repent means to turn away from your wrongdoing. A sinner must acknowledge the hopelessness of his or her guilt before God in order for forgiveness to take place, and the sinner must understand that the "wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). Then, as Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." You will be born again in Christ and will have eternal life as well as a good and true Shepherd watching over you with love. This is a gift freely given to all those who would repent and believe in Jesus. Not based off of works but by faith and faith alone. If you don't repent of your sinful ways, and don't believe that Jesus Christ is Lord, you will face the eternal wrath of God in hell. Please I beg you, I urge you- call upon Jesus today and put your faith in Him. Know Him, and have a relationship with the most Loving and true and good and holy, holy, holy Savior- Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @amariahb.5100

    @amariahb.5100

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @mareen2838
    @mareen28383 жыл бұрын

    The scene with the grandson knowing exactly when the loneliest time of his grandpa was, and being able to name it specifically shows me how much they already understand even if we might think otherwise

  • @Wahsoep

    @Wahsoep

    3 жыл бұрын

    That part. Their bond is beautiful

  • @rmxevbio5889

    @rmxevbio5889

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Barbara Van der Westhuizen I promise If I ever have children and grandchildren I´ll give them all care and love as they deserve to

  • @christinam.98

    @christinam.98

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh yes, i was really surprised too

  • @mirabella2154

    @mirabella2154

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right? Fascinating.

  • @alliexcx5576

    @alliexcx5576

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s cute

  • @bardloe5714
    @bardloe57143 жыл бұрын

    Every person has their own story. Be kind. Always.

  • @seemranhoro1572

    @seemranhoro1572

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @Isabelle-bp5vj

    @Isabelle-bp5vj

    3 жыл бұрын

    💗

  • @itisdelightful7143

    @itisdelightful7143

    3 жыл бұрын

    💛

  • @michen25

    @michen25

    3 жыл бұрын

    True ❤️

  • @rosieii8203

    @rosieii8203

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is exactly what I tell myself every morning..

  • @Makulax
    @Makulax3 жыл бұрын

    Worst feeling: Sitting alone in your flat knowing that you have no-one.

  • @rachaelrachael7440

    @rachaelrachael7440

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope you find someone...

  • @user-oo9uf1dm4e

    @user-oo9uf1dm4e

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, look there is someone just like u miles away

  • @inspiredby621

    @inspiredby621

    2 жыл бұрын

    Have you ever lied? Stolen? Used God's name as a curse? (ex. 'Oh my G-d') Dishonored your mother or father? If you answered yes to any of the above, you have broken God's moral law, and are not right with God. When you die, you will be found guilty before God and sent to hell- a place of eternal torment, weeping and gnashing of teeth. (By the way-every single human who has walked this earth but one (Jesus, the God-Man) has broken this moral code, and is guilty of sin!) But! There's good news! In God's infinite mercy, he sent his one and only son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Jesus died the death we deserved, and took the wrath of God on our behalf. This is a free gift for all those who repent (which means to turn away from wrong-doing) and confess Jesus as Lord, and have faith in him that he died on the cross for our sins, was risen after three days and sits at the right hand of God, the Father right now. We are all guilty before God but Jesus paid our fine- let's turn towards Him, glorify Him, and rejoice in what He did for us on the cross! John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.'" Jesus Christ is who he says he is. He came to the earth, fully God, fully man. Jesus died on the cross bearing our sins, and faced the wrath of God for us as substitution that whosoever repents of their sin with a sincere heart, and has faith in Jesus Christ shall be saved. He was buried then resurrected after three days and awaits with the Father in heaven until the day of judgement and wrath. Jesus did this because, according to Romans 3:23, "For we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Only Jesus lived a sinless life, a sinless life that we could never live. He is the only one who could die a substitutionary death for a sinner. So Jesus went to the cross to pay the debt we owe to God for our sin. Those covered by His sacrifice will inherit the kingdom of God and be reconciled to God. Again, the way you do this, is you repent of your sin and have faith in Jesus. What does this mean? It means you take a good, hard look at your life. If you are honest, you will be grieved by your wrongdoing, and your sinful ways. Repent. To repent means to turn away from your wrongdoing. A sinner must acknowledge the hopelessness of his or her guilt before God in order for forgiveness to take place, and the sinner must understand that the "wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). Then, as Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." You will be born again in Christ and will have eternal life as well as a good and true Shepherd watching over you with love. This is a gift freely given to all those who would repent and believe in Jesus. Not based off of works but by faith and faith alone. If you don't repent of your sinful ways, and don't believe that Jesus Christ is Lord, you will face the eternal wrath of God in hell. Please I beg you, I urge you- call upon Jesus today and put your faith in Him. Know Him, and have a relationship with the most Loving and true and good and holy, holy, holy Savior- Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @mike-uk5km

    @mike-uk5km

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong

  • @hawkwood9257

    @hawkwood9257

    2 жыл бұрын

    You DO have someone..

  • @jeyna_
    @jeyna_3 жыл бұрын

    “Loneliness...loving somebody and not having them there.” it hit me so hard

  • @East_L.A_Ivy

    @East_L.A_Ivy

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too , I miss my father.

  • @MrNeedful999
    @MrNeedful9993 жыл бұрын

    "I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." - R. Williams

  • @ganapathiumaselvan8318

    @ganapathiumaselvan8318

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @NoOne-qw8ud

    @NoOne-qw8ud

    2 жыл бұрын

    omg...so true!

  • @Pdmakesenc

    @Pdmakesenc

    2 жыл бұрын

    Damn.

  • @mikesgirl1988

    @mikesgirl1988

    2 жыл бұрын

    So very true

  • @Ahyawnah

    @Ahyawnah

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @fionapletz2085
    @fionapletz20853 жыл бұрын

    The loneliest feeling is being with a group of friends and being ignored

  • @veterpierinna

    @veterpierinna

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s Being around not real friends

  • @Joanne-et3os

    @Joanne-et3os

    3 жыл бұрын

    that's hurt!!

  • @hyo_unbf

    @hyo_unbf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here,

  • @onyour.silvia_

    @onyour.silvia_

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt this so hard

  • @imaglyy3132

    @imaglyy3132

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel that. And applaude me for leaving them. ✌️

  • @darwenpuji749
    @darwenpuji7493 жыл бұрын

    The most loneliest feel is when i see others have basic conversation with their parents.

  • @Prankles369
    @Prankles3692 жыл бұрын

    I have felt lonely my whole life, and still do. Even with so many people around me. Even with people that say they “care “ about me. Actions speak louder than words.

  • @sandrakagwiria2231

    @sandrakagwiria2231

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel that, I'm sorry

  • @Prankles369

    @Prankles369

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sandrakagwiria2231 I literally feel like giving up at any second.

  • @YehudiNimol

    @YehudiNimol

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Prankles369 yet you're still here. We're both in the same boat. Remember that when things get tough it's almost never for no reason. A lot of times you need to get over obstacles in order to reach something bigger and no fulfilling. You can be near the peak of the mountain and not even know it.

  • @YehudiNimol

    @YehudiNimol

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Prankles369 and just to be clear, I may say it mostly out of blind faith, but I don't believe in a defeatist mentality. Hold on to what keeps you going. You can't have good things in life if you don't live in the first place, and even if it does seem meaningless (which it might be) it just means you live in a sandbox game. Create your own meaning. Do what makes you truly happy because life is too short to have regrets.

  • @Ahyawnah

    @Ahyawnah

    Жыл бұрын

    “Actions speak louder than words “❤️❤️

  • @im8555
    @im85553 жыл бұрын

    The little boy helping his Grandad lol.

  • @amandalr5433

    @amandalr5433

    3 жыл бұрын

    Grandad: uh... Grandkid: tell her how lonely you were when you got divorced!! Yeah!!!

  • @amorphousface2401

    @amorphousface2401

    3 жыл бұрын

    How wonderful grandpa has such a great relationship with his grandson.

  • @KissMyLocs

    @KissMyLocs

    3 жыл бұрын

    I bet he was that kid he told all his business to because he couldn’t talk. Now look at him telling all his business lol

  • @timotheusn.h.nakashona1001
    @timotheusn.h.nakashona10013 жыл бұрын

    There's 7 billion of us and then we still have lonely people.

  • @cabpeer5963

    @cabpeer5963

    3 жыл бұрын

    Almost 8 billion now

  • @giulietta-1555

    @giulietta-1555

    3 жыл бұрын

    single since 3 years

  • @keyen2334

    @keyen2334

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@giulietta-1555 lonely isn't only about dating. it's about when you feel like you got no one to talk to, no friends, no family, no one who understand you. etc

  • @laviniashiponeni1

    @laviniashiponeni1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Unrelated but hey you're Namibian

  • @timotheusn.h.nakashona1001

    @timotheusn.h.nakashona1001

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@laviniashiponeni1 I'm from Uganda.

  • @sincerelydhruv
    @sincerelydhruv3 жыл бұрын

    For the last 4 years I have Isolated myself. There was not a single person that I felt connected with so I cut up my ties to everyone (except my father and sister because I couldn't even if I wanted to). It was probably a mistake because I had such immensely negative thoughts that I just couldn't bare myself anymore. But when corona hit and quarantine happened I was forced to live with my father who made me feel more and more lonely each day. So I just gave up on humans pretty much and shut myself in my room, completely detached from the world (I don't even talk to father) and devoted myself to creativity, philosophy and books, hoping one day my dreams will come true and I will meet people I connect with. in this world. Until then my creativity and books will be my only friend and lover.

  • @grxce1288
    @grxce12883 жыл бұрын

    I remember in year 4 or 5 I lost all my friends and on this one day I was sitting on the play ground watching the other people, and I was crying, my teacher came up to me and asked if I was okay. I asked to call my mum and she said okay I called my mum and she said "what's wrong now?" And I told her that I was sad and I didn't really have any friends, she just said "stop being a baby and get back to doing ur school work" and it hurt alot because my mum was the person I would go to when I was sad or if I needed someone. 4 years later, i still remember it and I've never asked my mum to comfort me or anything if I was sad. 😪

  • @juliz2500

    @juliz2500

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's so sad that your mum couldn't show any empathy in that situation. I feel you and I wish you lots of people in your life who actually listen and connect to you.

  • @swhhqkq8110
    @swhhqkq81103 жыл бұрын

    "I'm pretty much lonely everyday... like there's people but I just can't connect to them..."

  • @lyrica1149

    @lyrica1149

    3 жыл бұрын

    CONNECT WITH YOURSELF FIRST AND KNOW WHO YOU ARE Just learn to love yourself. Have a relationship with yourself and i know it will help a lot since it helped me. Loving yourself and being there for yourself will never make you lonely. Tell yourself all the great things you would wish someone to tell you. It might look odd for the first time but just do that .And lastly, try to connect with friends and family am sure they would help a lot. It's just a phase it will pass you will never be lonely and you are never alone. Thank you.

  • @arpitsri9631

    @arpitsri9631

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi can we share whatsapp number for

  • @zfox4743

    @zfox4743

    3 жыл бұрын

    .

  • @munasss

    @munasss

    3 жыл бұрын

    Felt🥺

  • @bettymedusa96

    @bettymedusa96

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt that

  • @livhodgson3020
    @livhodgson30203 жыл бұрын

    it breaks my heart that there are so many lonely people in the world. 7 billion lonely souls just looking for a connection.

  • @arpitsri9631

    @arpitsri9631

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi can we share whatsapp number for chat wit

  • @IamLove55

    @IamLove55

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @juanpedro4083

    @juanpedro4083

    3 жыл бұрын

    Liv, do you smoke marijuana? Do you know something about marijuana? I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. What to do?

  • @veterpierinna

    @veterpierinna

    3 жыл бұрын

    And wonder why is so hard to connect when so many people want to connect? Idk I mostly find people that feel like me ok internet but not so much in real life. Maybe people in real life don’t express their need for connection enough?

  • @livhodgson3020

    @livhodgson3020

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@veterpierinna I think you're right. I rarely talk about my need for connection in person. It's like we're all scared of other people thinking we're lonely

  • @kaylamarin7
    @kaylamarin73 жыл бұрын

    Can we just appreciate the kiddo for recognizing someone else’s feelings. The kid almost said it for him!! Kids are SO important!!!! 💜

  • @ianstarfighter9685
    @ianstarfighter96852 жыл бұрын

    I can say without of doubt that I feel the same as many people in this video do. Loneliness can be from just not having friends, or family. It can be from having both and not having anyone understand you. There are simply instances in our lives where we simply feel alone. There is also many of us, including myself, that cannot make friends easily due to being introverted or having bad anxiety. We all have different experiences, and this video shows all these different people's experiences. I can say that the loneliest I have felt is every day when I wake up to when I go to bed. I wake up thinking what is the point, I do the same thing every day, I eat the same things every day and every day I am alone. I do not have friends, I have family, but I cannot visit them all the time. Some people find it that loneliness stems from not having a partner, but I feel it is not having friends by your side or at least someone other than family that care for you. I know I should not be expressing my feelings and thoughts for people to see on the internet because who cares about me, a nobody that simply feels alone and has felt alone for years now. I’ll delete this later but for the time I put this out I hope someone knows that they aren’t alone in the way they feel.

  • @krystalriley10
    @krystalriley103 жыл бұрын

    The loneliest i ever felt was now. I have no friends

  • @KaminTakuk

    @KaminTakuk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same girl

  • @henryw6171

    @henryw6171

    3 жыл бұрын

    this is a bit late but I want to be your friend!!!

  • @Nadia-rq1fj

    @Nadia-rq1fj

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey are you okay? I can be your friend

  • @kieransimpson4965

    @kieransimpson4965

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel this way x

  • @user-so7nd5zl2b

    @user-so7nd5zl2b

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too. And when i say no friends i mean it. I only talk to my parents and text one of my old friends which happens rarely

  • @campanamanuel1614
    @campanamanuel16143 жыл бұрын

    You could also do "what do you need to hear from another person right now?"

  • @willow8826

    @willow8826

    3 жыл бұрын

    i love u . thats what i needa hear🧚

  • @gigia5904

    @gigia5904

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg....yes!

  • @scarlethmejia4615

    @scarlethmejia4615

    3 жыл бұрын

    Everything is going to be fine-that’s what I need to hear rn 🙁

  • @xojualxo

    @xojualxo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yessssss! This would be a really good one!

  • @elisei.c.4079

    @elisei.c.4079

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@scarlethmejia4615 honey, I promise you, everything will be fine. Whatever is going on will get better and you will be okay.

  • @beanqueen8080
    @beanqueen80803 жыл бұрын

    Being alone in a emergency room being told you just lost your baby. That's a feeling of loneliness that will haunt you for the rest of your life.

  • @sejalpal4487

    @sejalpal4487

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry you have to go through this stay strong love we all are here for you....wish you all the peace of mind and infinity love and support

  • @lokatla8261

    @lokatla8261

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am sorry for you, sending you hugs ❤️ I hope and wish you are feeling better

  • @MadonnaGrogan

    @MadonnaGrogan

    Ай бұрын

    Being given a cancer diagnosed on your own, knowing you will go through surgery, radiation etc. on your own.. still I came out other side

  • @deesdiary5869
    @deesdiary58692 жыл бұрын

    OMG you have no idea how powerful this video is.... There's not an english word to describe how good this channel is... Why can't she win an OSCAR for spreading healing in a pain ravaged world? She deserves it tbh...

  • @staciewilkinson8771
    @staciewilkinson87713 жыл бұрын

    When I was sexually assaulted and beaten up by a stranger who broke into my parents home. Loneliest feeling ever knowing no one you knew understood.

  • @Selam-fr4lf

    @Selam-fr4lf

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry 💚 I hope you’ve healed sending you love

  • @MeniezMziki

    @MeniezMziki

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry you went through this

  • @jodie3950

    @jodie3950

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry you had to go through this. I have no words except to say I'm sending you all my love and support so stay strong 💕💖💝🌹🌺💚💞❤

  • @Smirksol

    @Smirksol

    3 жыл бұрын

    Am really sorry u had to go thru that..u are very strong and plz stay strong things will get better

  • @mika.8063

    @mika.8063

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@imaway00 wtf is wrong with you? Were u there? How do u know? 🤨🤨

  • @emilylovestvd
    @emilylovestvd3 жыл бұрын

    It’s crazy how many people are hurting nowadays. 🥺 If you’re reading this ... it’ll get better. You’ll be happy again. ❤️

  • @user-rs5ps3ju8d

    @user-rs5ps3ju8d

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so nice to read. I am feeling lonely almost every day because my boyfriend is mentally abusing me, he never hit me but he swears every time that he will do it. I just don't know how to accept that the person he is now is never going to be the man I fell in love it. It destroys me, I just want to know what being happy feels like. I want for everyone to be happy, and to be aware how valuable they are. I don't know anyone here but I am sending love ❤

  • @Idomanaio

    @Idomanaio

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry you're going through this right now. May I ask why you are still with him?

  • @kingb5486

    @kingb5486

    3 жыл бұрын

    You too🙏🏾

  • @mariamigogichaishvili5573

    @mariamigogichaishvili5573

    3 жыл бұрын

    thanks for your message, I really needed that. wish you the best!

  • @user-rs5ps3ju8d

    @user-rs5ps3ju8d

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Idomanaio I really don't know, I lost myself to the point where I started believing that he is right when he says that I don't deserve better or that I can't find better. I know that I can but I am just so tired of trying to be brave enough to walk away because I always fail he always makes me feel sorry for him in stead of being sorry for myself. I grew up thinking that l'll fall in love with someone and be happy and that if I do good it will also be returned but no. Life isn't like that. You won't get always what you deserve. And you won't find someone easily who would be ready to live his life till the end with you. So here I am praying that one day I'll love myself and that I'll be smilling with someone who truly loves me. Everything I wish for myself I wish for all of you beautiful souls ❣

  • @CKayB
    @CKayB3 жыл бұрын

    The girl who said it’s just how things work out being alone all the time. I feel that. I didn’t choose this life it chose me but I make the best of it.

  • @daniellaramirez3910
    @daniellaramirez39103 жыл бұрын

    I just want to hug everyone 😔❤️

  • @subhashmukhopadhyaygroup940
    @subhashmukhopadhyaygroup9403 жыл бұрын

    It’s hard when you feel alone while being in a whole bunch of people. You have conversations, but they are blank and hollow...you act as though you have the best companions ever, but you never find the connection you seek. Your words go unheard, sometimes insulted...you approach people unaware of their inner constitution but ultimately never find what you seek, inspite of maybe the seemingly strong connection you thought you were forming. It feels as though you’re...you’re just not good enough...you’re a failure...feel like you don’t deserve the world, or it’s love. Eyes cloud with warm tears, but you just smile and get through it. And, when you look around, there’s no one you can talk about it to. It hurts. Edit: Listen y’all, I am not editing to thank for those likes. I am thanking you for sharing your own little bits under this comment. Believe me, it did make me feel I amn’t gonna fight alone. We are together in this. Sometimes you relate with strangers more that you’d ever do with friends. And, from the bottom of my heart, I am sending all my love to each of you. We deserve to live and be ourselves, don’t we? We too have stories that need to be heard, don’t we? Let’s just live...

  • @lyrica1149

    @lyrica1149

    3 жыл бұрын

    YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING Just learn to love yourself. Have a relationship with yourself and i know it will help a lot since it helped me. Loving yourself and being there for yourself will never make you lonely. Tell yourself all the great things you would wish someone to tell you. It might look odd for the first time but just do that .And lastly, try to connect with friends and family am sure they would help a lot. It's just a phase it will pass you will never be lonely and you are never alone. Thank you.

  • @calebsanchez5284

    @calebsanchez5284

    3 жыл бұрын

    "Eyes cloud with warm tears, but you just smile" "when you look around, there's no one you can talk about it to" I Fucking felt that🙃

  • @ItsMe-ch1yp

    @ItsMe-ch1yp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Almost cried, sounds to much like my family!😢

  • @subhashmukhopadhyaygroup940

    @subhashmukhopadhyaygroup940

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lyrica1149 Thanks for those kind words. But I really do feel I am disappointing and betraying and letting down everyone, including myself. Take care🤍

  • @subhashmukhopadhyaygroup940

    @subhashmukhopadhyaygroup940

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Sofi_Playz Take care, mate🤍

  • @gracemallorca3659
    @gracemallorca36593 жыл бұрын

    Am I the only one who feel lonely even though i have a complete family, friends, you know? Unreal but true

  • @lizacruz1467

    @lizacruz1467

    3 жыл бұрын

    It happens.. i feel the same

  • @petalmist0288

    @petalmist0288

    3 жыл бұрын

    That was totally me before I reached out to my now bestie- I had admired her courage and participation in class, and it turns out she thought the same about me. Just remember that you're not alone in your suffering, and I'm sending virtual hugs your way!

  • @calebsanchez5284

    @calebsanchez5284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same🙃

  • @driss3456

    @driss3456

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same everyday

  • @marymesk577

    @marymesk577

    3 жыл бұрын

    NO YOUR NOT, THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING LONELY AND BEING ALONE. BEING ALONE IS FINE, BUT SOMETIMES WE CAN FEEL THE LONLIEST IN A ROOM FULL OF PEOPLE.

  • @S2Naughty456S2
    @S2Naughty456S23 жыл бұрын

    This year after my break up, I’ve been feeling really lonely and spend a lot weeks by myself. I live in a different state from my family so I always feel bad about expressing my sadness to them. I feel like a burden so I tried talking with my roommates (who were friends before we moved in), and I shared how numb i felt, sadness, and about a friend who got in a car accident. After I stopped talking, It was dead silent for a long time. Then they just moved on from the conversation like I never said a word. That was extremely isolating and the moment I realized they weren’t my friends anymore.

  • @poojajoshi1104

    @poojajoshi1104

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nowadays every single friend like this.

  • @kaillee6279

    @kaillee6279

    3 жыл бұрын

    Felt like this a few days ago.. it hurts...like oxygen stopped passing through my heart.

  • @grandma460

    @grandma460

    Жыл бұрын

    Im sorry for this 😞

  • @kris.007
    @kris.0073 жыл бұрын

    "maybe I'm just used to it" - when they close their eyes, it's the moment after when you know what you said isn't okay, but you still don't know how to change that, so you just ignore it also.

  • @sasanmsk4606
    @sasanmsk46063 жыл бұрын

    “No matter who you try to explain something to, that nobody will understand what you’re saying” felt that.

  • @DAVIDTORRESANI

    @DAVIDTORRESANI

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because of the mask?

  • @Gaucheness

    @Gaucheness

    2 жыл бұрын

    me too tbh

  • @georgia1986
    @georgia19863 жыл бұрын

    im 22 and never been in a relationship, been with anyone at all in any way (romantically, sexually), etc. I'm living in a house where no one talks at all. my friends in my town have left me. i feel broken, alien. this is the loneliest I've ever felt in my entire life. i think I'm going to die alone. thank you for this video. it gave me some hope. edit: these comments give me so much hope. thank you

  • @lamanguedouce1189

    @lamanguedouce1189

    3 жыл бұрын

    of course not darling, reach out to the people you'd like to meet, it's all gonna be well I know what it is but keep loving yourself and showing to the world and you'll eventually meet awesome people that cheer you up and make you wanna leave :-* love on you

  • @alaska8122

    @alaska8122

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you need a friend, i m here

  • @dallykaly385

    @dallykaly385

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you like need someone to cheer you up i have a idea for you😊dogs yeah buy a dog or a pet that you like yeah💕

  • @nonchalant7127

    @nonchalant7127

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 21 and I've never been in a relationship as well so ur not alone it really affects my mental health when I see people in Social Media my age getting married, engaged or smthn

  • @littlethings3923

    @littlethings3923

    3 жыл бұрын

    You kinda described my life.. And I'm 22 too

  • @TrollsFormers05
    @TrollsFormers057 ай бұрын

    "Loneliness comes from love. Loving somebody and not having them there."

  • @sorayarampal6413
    @sorayarampal64133 жыл бұрын

    Its just soooo heartbreaking seeing people with so much love in their heart to give but not having anyone to give that to or anyone to reciprocate that feeling

  • @kimberlyceulemans6015
    @kimberlyceulemans60153 жыл бұрын

    That one kid saying 'You can just say it' about the divorce is so pure... He knows what was going on and don't want his dad to lie just bc he is so young... my heart melted and ached at the same time

  • @annavang1547

    @annavang1547

    3 жыл бұрын

    Happened to me. And the family acted like we didnt know what was going on. Lol stupid adults.

  • @senyum0

    @senyum0

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its his grandad. Very compationate kid.

  • @foxsin2626
    @foxsin26263 жыл бұрын

    "Loneliness is the absence of the other. Aloneness is the presence of oneself." -Osho The Discipline of Transcendence

  • @nomam7358

    @nomam7358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Preach 🙏🏽💯

  • @MadonnaGrogan

    @MadonnaGrogan

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @Berlynic
    @Berlynic2 жыл бұрын

    As an adult, I never feel lonely. I love being alone. But it doesn't come from a good place. I felt extremely lonely as a child when my mother constantly screamed at me and others, curse me out, call me names. The relatives and my dad just watched and let her rage. There's always a sense of humiliation when you're being abused, so I just filled up with shame, I was so afraid of someone of my friends finding out about how my mother 8s and how she treated me... So I hid my pain. That was lonely. That ked to disliking people and relating people with hurt and pain. So I love being alone. I love animals. I'm not fond of people.

  • @user-cx2cw6uc6c

    @user-cx2cw6uc6c

    25 күн бұрын

    I feel you

  • @katiejo6066
    @katiejo60662 жыл бұрын

    The loneliest I’ve felt is when my boyfriend broke up with me. During that time, my family didn’t even hug me or anything. They were complaining that I was blowing up his phone too much because I jus wanted attention but he didn’t love me tho. That was the most loneliness and darkest day of my life.

  • @jackielearnsandteaches
    @jackielearnsandteaches3 жыл бұрын

    To the first girl, who says she feels lonely when no one understands her that deeply, I understand you. To love someone and not have them there, like you said, is very lonely. I know how you feel

  • @jackielearnsandteaches

    @jackielearnsandteaches

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jayms06 me too, bro

  • @jackielearnsandteaches

    @jackielearnsandteaches

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jayms06 aww I’m sorry *hug* what happened?

  • @jackielearnsandteaches

    @jackielearnsandteaches

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jayms06 I bet you she does care. If you were close before, then some part of her still cares. Maybe she’s going through a lot right now, and doesn’t know how to talk about it. Over the years, I’ve had friends come and go. When someone was a very good friend, and I got back into contact with them, years after we drifted apart, our friendship lives again. I don’t know what happened with your friend, but I bet you will hear from her one day

  • @jackielearnsandteaches

    @jackielearnsandteaches

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jayms06 💜 you matter

  • @jackielearnsandteaches

    @jackielearnsandteaches

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jayms06 it really sucks though, and I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m sorry you’re lonely. It isn’t right that she’s ignoring you

  • @Yvianey
    @Yvianey3 жыл бұрын

    this might sound selfish but I feel the most lonely when I’m surrounded by people, but they’re not who I want to be surrounded by, does that make sense? Sometimes I just crave the presence of a certain someone but I don’t have them around or with me.

  • @TheHoolibird

    @TheHoolibird

    3 жыл бұрын

    I get that. I’d love to have a close group of friends but I don’t, and makes me so sad to see people talking and chatting and getting along when I’m just sat there just hoping to be included in the conversation

  • @veterpierinna

    @veterpierinna

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah because you don’t connect with the people you are surrounded. Makes total sense. I feel good with people that I connect with. But when I’m surrounded by other people i prefer to be alone and feel alone with them.

  • @hyo_unbf

    @hyo_unbf

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate, it's rlly sucks.

  • @xb-dx

    @xb-dx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that's me.

  • @camilascatonebedin3002

    @camilascatonebedin3002

    3 жыл бұрын

    I moved from Brazil to the US when I was in middle school and left all my friends behind. I also disconnected a little bit with my mom, who moved with me, for some reason. So I lived with my mom and my stepfather and saw people at school, but they weren't who I wanted to be with. I wanted to be with my friends and with the rest of my family in Brazil. That was the most lonely I have ever felt.

  • @AudenimLock
    @AudenimLock4 ай бұрын

    0:19 spot on. Whenever loneliness is described as not having people around I never relate because I only feel lonely when I'm around people but it feels like I'm not being seen for who I am. They are talking AT a projection of who they think I am and not making space to listen.

  • @JS-cf8bq
    @JS-cf8bq3 жыл бұрын

    I'm lonely almost everyday.... Coping with my depression and anxiety alone it's scary..... And I'm socially awkward person so ya I'm invisible too.

  • @MadonnaGrogan

    @MadonnaGrogan

    Ай бұрын

    Most peeps too busy with their own lives to acknowledge others

  • @lizc2837
    @lizc28373 жыл бұрын

    Modern Loneliness by Lauv: we’re never alone but always depressed. Seems to sum up a lot of loneliness we feel.

  • @mulaudzikhuliso4128

    @mulaudzikhuliso4128

    3 жыл бұрын

    I fu**ing love that song.

  • @lizc2837

    @lizc2837

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mulaudzikhuliso4128 Same! His music is so good.

  • @lavans06

    @lavans06

    3 жыл бұрын

    never lonely but alone? me - socially anxious INTJ *tsk*

  • @eereardo

    @eereardo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful somg

  • @MsChantae
    @MsChantae3 жыл бұрын

    the girl whose ex-boyfriend committed suicide, my heart really goes out to her. the fact that not one single friend put their pride aside to be there for her seems painful. I can't imagine. that's a lot of loss for one person to handle.

  • @femmefartale4466

    @femmefartale4466

    3 жыл бұрын

    My thoughts exactly.

  • @nettyettoy867
    @nettyettoy8673 жыл бұрын

    u c...an old man remember hes pain from hes childhood when he was 8. so,please treat your kids nice & kind,give them love.dont hurt them.think twice.they remember 🙏🏻

  • @holysheem863

    @holysheem863

    3 жыл бұрын

    even body changes emotion but memories experience never forgets

  • @Light-jc3fj
    @Light-jc3fj3 жыл бұрын

    When we feel lonely it's helpful to know there are millions of people feeling exactly the same way...and, in that sense, we are not alone at all.

  • @sparklyegg5472
    @sparklyegg54723 жыл бұрын

    I think I'm at my loneliness right now, I don't have someone to just laugh with right now

  • @ramvann3382

    @ramvann3382

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am with you dear

  • @SeelenTaucher

    @SeelenTaucher

    3 жыл бұрын

    ;_; Do you have any pets or maybe you go out into city and tell somebody and ask if they wanna spent good time with you. I spend lots of time with "strangers." Strangers are friends you do not know already. :-)

  • @JoseRamos-hp2vg

    @JoseRamos-hp2vg

    3 жыл бұрын

    do you have any hobbies?

  • @reijanecosta4551

    @reijanecosta4551

    3 жыл бұрын

    How are you feeling now? I hope you feel better, I wish I could help you

  • @sparklyegg5472

    @sparklyegg5472

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@reijanecosta4551 I think I've been feeling better since I commented, I think quarintine is making lots of people feel alone so there's not much people can do :(

  • @olivetv1558
    @olivetv15583 жыл бұрын

    Battling cancer as a teenager. Not being able to talk to the your friend and family about how you feel because they’re so sad, they didn’t understand .. I felt so lonely for 7 yrs bottling my feelings😣🙏🏽😭 my scars are a constant reminder

  • @tarunaaeri6593

    @tarunaaeri6593

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are an inspiration to all of us... if one person who stands by and with us through everything is us... God bless you!

  • @sarcoma0673

    @sarcoma0673

    3 жыл бұрын

    I understand what you mean. Im battling cancer right now and it feels like youre an another world. And when you come back to your life you realise youre still lonely because your loved ones continued their lives without you.

  • @aleguerrero69

    @aleguerrero69

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry that you felt this way for such a long time. My sincere wish is that you are able to forgive people and that God gives you the strength to heal those scars and continue enjoying your life.

  • @bitachocho

    @bitachocho

    3 жыл бұрын

    God bless you!!

  • @IntellectInsight0

    @IntellectInsight0

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can u get your instagram !!Your a fighter

  • @laasyar9478
    @laasyar94783 жыл бұрын

    Notice how the people who went through the most are the ones trying so hard to keep smiling

  • @therookiepainter25
    @therookiepainter252 жыл бұрын

    This episode really hit me since I know so many people but yet feel so alone all the time. Guess I'm just lacking a true friend, all I have are acquaintances. 🥺

  • @adysoncarpenter3197
    @adysoncarpenter31973 жыл бұрын

    aw the mama talking about her depression during her pregnancy broke my heart. Sweet angel, I hope she is doing ok

  • @intrewvert
    @intrewvert3 жыл бұрын

    Its funny how were all surrounded with people but we still feel lonely. Youre just there, alone and not connecting to anyone

  • @kittykul1366

    @kittykul1366

    3 жыл бұрын

    Especially when all of your friends have that connection except you

  • @vanillameltz

    @vanillameltz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @lauriehominick9987

    @lauriehominick9987

    3 жыл бұрын

    But this shows us even in loneliness we e are connected.

  • @raychelorta2173
    @raychelorta21733 жыл бұрын

    I was homeless for a few months when I was 18. Everything he said was beyond true. 💔 you feel almost like an animal.

  • @jasminevalencia2982
    @jasminevalencia29822 жыл бұрын

    I am constantly surrounded by people but I always feel lonely, it’s such a heart wrenching feeling.

  • @juliem1674
    @juliem16743 жыл бұрын

    😂 aww the little boy with his grand dad: "you can just say it..."😂 That is the BEST advice on how we should communicate more...coming from a child! Adults make speaking their truth so over complicated. Just say it😄 (even if it is only to yourself, admitting the truth to yourself is the first step)

  • @SeelenTaucher

    @SeelenTaucher

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea, but if you have no words for your feelings? All I can do sometimes is smiling or crying or things like that...

  • @juliem1674

    @juliem1674

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SeelenTaucher true, but maybe start journaling until you can gain the words to say it out loud to people? Paper doesn't judge...unlike people🤷‍♂️ I sometimes get the free newspapers or magazines at my local train station and just cut out any words that relate to whatever am feeling or thinking at the time. Or find an activity that helps you get your feelings out, e.g i started a blog www.justpauseonline.com

  • @heyimmary1876

    @heyimmary1876

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@juliem1674 woahh very good advice 😳

  • @ZaphodBeeb1

    @ZaphodBeeb1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Julie Macharia. Yeah, I was going to mention that young boy but you beat me to it ! What an intelligent young lad.

  • @luwamalem9537

    @luwamalem9537

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @RitualCat
    @RitualCat3 жыл бұрын

    I felt the most lonely when I realized at the hospital that after I tried to kill myself, I was unconscious for 12 hours and I woke up and call 911 myself.

  • @heythere2173

    @heythere2173

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of you💗 You made it through an extremely rough patch and you’re here today. It’s definitely not easy but you’re doing well, the fact that you’re here today shows how strong you are even if u dont feel like it. You’ll be in a better place thriving one day just trust the journey.

  • @RitualCat

    @RitualCat

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, that’s really sweet of you ❤️

  • @heythere2173

    @heythere2173

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RitualCat you’re most welcome

  • @Lisa-qt4hh

    @Lisa-qt4hh

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is heartbreaking. I am happy that you are still here. It shows unbelievable strength that you called the hospital yourself. I hope you are doing well

  • @supbro7490

    @supbro7490

    3 жыл бұрын

    Heyy im beyond gladd to know your still alive and kicking. Lovelots from Philippines❣ oh and keep kicking and punching through lifeee

  • @CS-wq1vu
    @CS-wq1vu Жыл бұрын

    💜 I really feel this woman talking about antenatal depression 💜In regards to your childhood trauma, I hope you can get some therapy because you seem like a gem and I can see there's gold in you. Love from Madrid.

  • @slxbeats8146
    @slxbeats81463 жыл бұрын

    The best part about this, is we get to see that we arent the only ones who feels lonely to and are facing our darkest moments..🙂

  • @AlucardPeach
    @AlucardPeach3 жыл бұрын

    That little boy telling that man he can say it... Broke my heart

  • @hilol9358

    @hilol9358

    3 жыл бұрын

    As someone who does feel like people don't understand my feelings The fact that the kid understood the grandfathers feelings just warmed my heart so much. The grandfather know that he is surrounded by people that understand and love him and it's beautiful

  • @june3192
    @june31923 жыл бұрын

    I feel lonely when I remember that everyone say to me that " you understand me " and like " I can be myself around you " because I don't have that person I'm just that person to everyone :(

  • @varshamishra3340

    @varshamishra3340

    3 жыл бұрын

    Let's be friends ☺️? I'm understanding and willing to be your friend

  • @aradikas8811

    @aradikas8811

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn that so relatable and deep

  • @faiza5857

    @faiza5857

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've never related to anyone more :)

  • @ooormark8386

    @ooormark8386

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh god this is me fr

  • @indiangurl324

    @indiangurl324

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same, let’s be friends. Do you want to?

  • @ruru1861
    @ruru18613 жыл бұрын

    Loneliest I ever felt was not being connect to your parents and having no friends. It just feel like ur all alone and have to figure out life by yourself somehow..

  • @YehudiNimol
    @YehudiNimol2 жыл бұрын

    I've always felt lonely. I never really had any friends. I had people I hung up with, but I never had any close friends that I felt I could trust with my life, or share my soul with. I ended up distancing myself from people because I felt that if no one wanted to be near me, what's even the point in trying. The loneliest time in my life was 2-3 years ago, from 10th to 12th grade. The stress in my life, both academically and socially, was so bad I detached myself from everyone. For a long period of time I stopped going outside. I shut myself in my room, occasionally going out to the balcony to breath but nothing more than that. Not seeing anyone but my family for 2 years gave me an overwhelming sense of loneliness that I think very little people would understand.

  • @pessimist6366

    @pessimist6366

    8 ай бұрын

    It started in 10th grade and in a way, that loneliness has never gone, I'm 25 now. I've accepted that it's a part of life. My friend whose indifferent behaviour used to hurt me so much at a point, I can go without talking to her for years now. I've grown out of those things, I don't have any emotional attachment to any of my friends now, basically, I've learned to make myself like this. People drop you when you need them the most, I talk to them, try to be good but, I try to not emotionally overinvest. It hurts!

  • @lovergirl1669
    @lovergirl16693 жыл бұрын

    Loneliness is like depression. Its scary when youre sitting there by yourself....thinking to yourself....i lead myself to craziness. Anyone else relate ?

  • @Techie1224

    @Techie1224

    3 жыл бұрын

    i think i have both 😁 how are you today ??

  • @lovergirl1669

    @lovergirl1669

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Techie1224 mmmm honestly dunno how to answer that question. Thanks for asking tho. How are you ??

  • @Techie1224

    @Techie1224

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lovergirl1669 neutral not bad nor good 😊 thanks for the answering

  • @lovergirl1669

    @lovergirl1669

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Techie1224 nws. U from usa ?

  • @Techie1224

    @Techie1224

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lovergirl1669 no, middle east :D

  • @debramurray5132
    @debramurray51323 жыл бұрын

    The day my husband died was my most lonely day ever, had never been alone for 62 years.

  • @Sana-nv3tj

    @Sana-nv3tj

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're strong! Hang in there sweetheart ❤️

  • @debramurray5132

    @debramurray5132

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Sana-nv3tj thank you

  • @bvtsj

    @bvtsj

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending all my love 💖

  • @temimathews606

    @temimathews606

    3 жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear that:(

  • @debramurray5132

    @debramurray5132

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@temimathews606 thank you

  • @morainachandler880
    @morainachandler8803 жыл бұрын

    I really felt this. Being the 4th oldest in a family with 14 children, we started a family business which me and my dad operate but last year our mother ran out on the family after 26 years of marriage. Everyone turned to me for emotional support because I've always been the one they know will listen to their problems My siblings, dad and even my best friend who has problems in her own life. I was really close with my mom but because everyone is turning to me for strength it feels like I have nobody to turn to for support because I have to be strong for them. I get up every morning at 4am and cry by myself before the others get up, then I put a smile on my face and act like I'm fine, they all think I'm taking it better then anyone else when in reality I just know how to hide it. I never realized how alone you can feel even when surrounded by people..

  • @deneshadean752
    @deneshadean7523 жыл бұрын

    That first girl has good things in store for her. The bells were a message!!!

  • @kaffenaddict8864
    @kaffenaddict88643 жыл бұрын

    When your kids grow up and you realize that you have nobody to talk to anymore. It hurts when you try to get them to spend time with you but they’re too busy for you. That’s lonely

  • @KristaGrym

    @KristaGrym

    3 жыл бұрын

    I never too busy for my parents.Anyways sending hugs and love. If you need to speak to someone let me.know😊

  • @camilascatonebedin3002

    @camilascatonebedin3002

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am the busy daughter. I try to make some time for my parents because I don't want to regret not being with them more and, also, I miss them. It's a real internal conflict because I need to do things in order to be independent and reach my dreams, but I wish me, my mom, and my dad could all be together. But I am going to college in Japan, my mom is going to stay in the US, and my dad has and always will live in Brazil. I hope I can see them during college breaks and that I can have a job that gives a good amount of vacation time, so that I can visit them, in the future. I guess I am just saying I am worried about feeling lonely, but from the reversed perspective of being a daughter instead of a mom.

  • @crowmedicine3890

    @crowmedicine3890

    3 жыл бұрын

    I understand completely.

  • @Kittyxoxo

    @Kittyxoxo

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Jordan_Dossou so sorry about that... some people just dont have a good way with words or a good behavior that makes them act out, i surely hope she can contact you for emergencies but for things like that, i would tell her not to call and chat about anything. tell her you're cutting ties and hanging up, and everytime she calls, ask if its an emergency, if its not, then hang up .. LOL she will have to learn & adapt to that, maybe she will calm down later like my italian in-laws lol.

  • @ns3352

    @ns3352

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is the loneliest for a parent ... they need us.

  • @Bebe-xn4tk
    @Bebe-xn4tk3 жыл бұрын

    The loneliest for me is now.... Striving to make ur parents happy and it’s still not enough and secretly suffering mentally and emotionally inside but can’t talk to anyone about it because they won’t get it .....

  • @321MjC

    @321MjC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi 👋😏 I'd get it..... I've been dealing with severe depression for a few years now actually. I'm here if you need me ? ❤💋

  • @gijane0014

    @gijane0014

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same. I want to scream sometimes, but I can't, because I don't want anyone to hear me. I'm always striving to be strong and prudent, but when I'm alone in my room, I just cry. I'm okay most days, but there are others when I feel like I'm suffocating. I feel like it's wrong to feel this way, and I don't really want to send you this message, because I should be telling you that everything will get better. The thing is...I do believe that. I know things will get better, because I have faith. I trust that God will make everything right. I don't know your feelings about Him. You may not care, but I'm tired of overthinking things so much. What is right? What is wrong? All I know is that we can't give up. We have to persevere. I'm going to keep holding onto God, because He does listen to our cries and He does understand. He loves us even when we can't find it in us to love ourselves. I've honestly stopped trusting in people. All they manage to do is break other people's hearts. We're in a storm, and it may not get better right away. I don't know when it will get better, but that's not the point. One day we're going to look back on today and remember all that we did to keep pushing forward. We might feel lonely, but the reality is that we're never alone. If this video has taught me anything is that I'm not the only one who feels this way. Everyone experiences it, and it's ultimately our choice to do something about it. I for one am done wallowing in my self-pity. At the end of the day, if people don't understand you, then either make them understand you or move on from them. I don't know you, but I know that whoever you are, there's no one else like you in the world. Let that sink in. Recognize how important and valuable you are. Maybe you don't see it today or tomorrow, in a year or two, maybe it takes longer than you originally thought, but one day you'll see that your life and experiences made a difference. In fact, you helped me. Thank you.

  • @Bebe-xn4tk

    @Bebe-xn4tk

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gijane0014 I love you ❤️!!! Thank you for ur kind words and yess I definitely seek refuge in God all the time. There’s many times when we keep stuff inside until there’s no more room left to hide them , then it leads to a spiral of emotions. I thank u for confiding in me. We’re never alone if we have God. ❤️❤️

  • @Bebe-xn4tk

    @Bebe-xn4tk

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@321MjC thank you!! It just seems like all these emotions get bottled up inside And there’s only a matter of time before they exit out either by tears or anguish. I’m happy I’m not the only that feels that way🙂

  • @lizacruz1467

    @lizacruz1467

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too..

  • @anmoldhiman6453
    @anmoldhiman64533 жыл бұрын

    When your childhood bestfriend starts ignoring you without giving any explanation n have choosen bf over your friendship :-I

  • @CamilaLee_
    @CamilaLee_3 жыл бұрын

    I think we are all sad inside, people always cry with this type of questions

  • @wowitsmick
    @wowitsmick3 жыл бұрын

    ): I wanna be friends with all of these people.

  • @passio-735

    @passio-735

    3 жыл бұрын

    I want to be friends with you.

  • @aimoikonen

    @aimoikonen

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wanna be friends with you

  • @aimoikonen

    @aimoikonen

    3 жыл бұрын

    But only online :D

  • @RP-ez2jm

    @RP-ez2jm

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @jamalbakir-6206
    @jamalbakir-62063 жыл бұрын

    you never realize how lonely you are until it's the end of the day and you got a bunch of things to talk about and no one to talk to💔

  • @Ayosh69

    @Ayosh69

    3 жыл бұрын

    THIS.

  • @alexiakarlesi5861
    @alexiakarlesi58613 жыл бұрын

    It's weird how we always pass by people in public, and we'd probably connect with them or share something in common with them, like loneliness, but we'd never know. Because we feel like it's awkward to strike up a conversation with a stranger, or we consider it to be rude and inappropriate. And probably that's one of the main reasons we feel lonely. We're surrounded by people yet we've been conditioned to feel uneasy to just reach out and talk to one of our fellow human beings. It's so sad to know how many friendships and relationships that could have been, are lost forever.

  • @l.e.b.o.m
    @l.e.b.o.m3 жыл бұрын

    The loneliest I've ever felt was when I was in varsity. After high school, I thought it'd be really easy to make friends but it was very hard. Everybody had their own group of friends and I just found it hard to fit in. My varsity experience was horrible just because of that. Now I'm a graduate living at home and still friendless 😔.

  • @TshepiMphahlele-tc3fw

    @TshepiMphahlele-tc3fw

    7 ай бұрын

    Hi. Where do you live?

  • @devadathkv3169
    @devadathkv31693 жыл бұрын

    When you actually make someone your priority and be there for them always but they see you just as an option...This feeling hurts like hell.

  • @devadathkv3169

    @devadathkv3169

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@revimack3764 Yeah I've been through that... It takes time to heal. Dont rush the process, trust the process.

  • @ZacharyHYamin
    @ZacharyHYamin3 жыл бұрын

    That kid at 4:15 is AWESOME. How emotionally aware

  • @WokiesASMR
    @WokiesASMR8 ай бұрын

    This was beautiful. Had me in tears. ♥️

  • @Fmge_Rfire
    @Fmge_Rfire2 жыл бұрын

    Social media is the reason why most of us are Lonely nowadays

  • @aasthamishra7778
    @aasthamishra77783 жыл бұрын

    Me, I feel lonely every single day

  • @izzylay1132

    @izzylay1132

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep me too

  • @keiron.4612

    @keiron.4612

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're never alone your beautiful

  • @aasthamishra7778

    @aasthamishra7778

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@keiron.4612 aww..thank you for that😊

  • @aasthamishra7778

    @aasthamishra7778

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@izzylay1132 im wid ya- 😊 we'll be fine

  • @keiron.4612

    @keiron.4612

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aasthamishra7778 you're welcome and I know it feels to be lonely I was adopted so I've been lonely many nights but I have a lovely family now🙂

  • @bekahvoshall662
    @bekahvoshall6623 жыл бұрын

    “Or maybe I’m just used to it.”

  • @KH-cg9ir

    @KH-cg9ir

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's the statement that really got me.

  • @stepheniem1779
    @stepheniem17793 жыл бұрын

    Just being asked the question triggered a lot of emotion for them and it definitely did for me. Loneliness was such a big part of some of their lives and it definitely affected them for the long haul.

  • @gabyamaral17
    @gabyamaral173 жыл бұрын

    It has been amazing to look at people being brave enough to become so vulnerable while answering the questions. I felt like I needed that kind of depth in my life. Now, When I watch your videos I also write my own answers in my diary. Thank you for what you do! Makes us feel more connected to people and to ourselves.

  • @emiliachamorro7222
    @emiliachamorro72223 жыл бұрын

    The woman in 7:30 is such a godess while she's crying and telling her story. So beautiful inside and out 💗

  • @RP-ez2jm

    @RP-ez2jm

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know. I'm just weeping watching her...I just want to give her so much love...

  • @mencadotranforming4411

    @mencadotranforming4411

    3 жыл бұрын

    Feeling alone and lonely, either just during pregnancy or both during pregnancy and afterward, is - it seems to me - a particular sort of traumatic experience, one that (unless it comes to be resolved through experiencing good relationship) can have a lasting negative impact, and not only on the mother-to-be, but also on the fetus, during its development, and later on during (and potentially lasting throughout and beyond) the birth, infancy, etc. of that child.

  • @PinupFox69

    @PinupFox69

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right And her advice is so insightful 👏 get up everyday 🌅

  • @kikilewis9706
    @kikilewis97063 жыл бұрын

    This video made me feel less lonely.. I recently found out i was pregnant.. and had to sadly get a abortion due to a situation I was in. I got treated like crap the times i was pregnant, Id hear my parents and my sister talking behind my back as if i wasn't there. (its always been like that) I had nobody to really talk to after I had the abortion. Nobody really cared how I felt. I cried my self to sleep till this day. After I lost my child, I felt like I lost myself in the process. When I sit in my room and talk to god, I feel like he is the only one who could understand me, or listen to me. So everyday I feel lonely.

  • @heydellyy2346

    @heydellyy2346

    3 жыл бұрын

    Im so sorry you had to go through that. As another believer I pray that God instills you with his love, compassion, and mercy. May you feel his presence when you feel like no one else wants to be around you. May he provide you with the people that you deserve and that also love and understand you. You are a daughter of a king and he will not abandon or forsake you💛.

  • @evtaoktaviani2513

    @evtaoktaviani2513

    3 жыл бұрын

    Big Hug to u KiKi....ure strong Woman

  • @kikilewis9706

    @kikilewis9706

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@heydellyy2346 Thankyou so much, needed that!

  • @kikilewis9706

    @kikilewis9706

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@evtaoktaviani2513 Hugs to you too. Thankyou.

  • @alexuspatel2351

    @alexuspatel2351

    3 жыл бұрын

    Out of everyone’s stories I’m hearing and reading about, yours made me cry. God is truly the only one I can talk to and he will understand. I’m sorry for loss of your baby and the loss of yourself. I hope everyday you feel better and that you find that one person who can listen rather that be a coworker or a friend.

  • @alexanderkareh6832
    @alexanderkareh68322 жыл бұрын

    These videos seriously make me so happy. They make me happy because I love seeing people getting stuff off their chest. Your channel has made me want to volunteer in mental health organizations. I’m even considering going to school to help people with mental health issues. Thank you for making these videos.

  • @grandma460

    @grandma460

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! We need caring people providing mental health.

  • @ottokos5487
    @ottokos54872 жыл бұрын

    'Do the little things that make you happy..' Wonderful lady..

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