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@ROBOTRIX_eu

7 ай бұрын

..don't take advice on marriage, by whom married more than once..!

Isn’t it funny…we all think we’re the only ones who feel a certain way…but we’re all walking around with the same worries and regrets and concerns

@isaacmasimore

9 ай бұрын

yup

@chusoskever2649

9 ай бұрын

That's why I try not to be selfish and fuck around with people like those jerks that because they're having a bad day they throw a tantrum on everyone around them, just don't, they probably are having a bad day too, and everyone has problems, the least you can do is to not become another problem for someone else

@iolairmuinnmalachybromham3103

9 ай бұрын

@@chusoskever2649Yes! It’s very easy to make someone’s day or even life much worse. It’s not always easy to bring your focus out of wherever you are and onto your impact, but when we keep it in mind we can do much better

@hippychick420

9 ай бұрын

​@chusoskever2649 what you're describing is projection. Hurt people, hurt people. Sadly.

@bbghoul_x

8 ай бұрын

​@@chusoskever2649 some people need a taste of their own medicine.

"Nearly everybody is wearing a facade, some are just wearing it to a greater degree... Being vulnerable is what we're fearful of." Agreed and thank you. I am working on this.

@radekcrlik5060

9 ай бұрын

I wish you that you can throw it away one day and be yourself. Cheers :)

@theobnoxiouslycharming1747

8 ай бұрын

I've worked on it so much that imma give you a cheatsheet for a later lesson: don't feel foolish for being vulnerable. The awkward moments that come afterwards CAN be TMI. but likely it's because you've shown a side of yourself that others are uncomfortable to show. Respect others boundaries and enforce yours. Do that and remember you're going about it "weird". You're choosing connection over rejection. Which most can't relate to. Rejection feels better momentarily. But you're working on Generational curses and all that. The black sheep is different, she's unique, and for that she's ostracized, admired, and hated. Show them how it's done. It sucks but it's awesome

@Lehmann108

8 ай бұрын

We're all working on this. Our "heart" is so tender and vulnerable and we are so hesitant to tell someone that we love them.

@noormohamed11

5 ай бұрын

me too

Heard so many “brother”cases! It really puts light on men’s mental health issues that aren’t spoken about. We gotta put a stand to prioritizing/seeking help before it’s too late. Life is so much more precious than most people know.

@nepashas

6 ай бұрын

No room for that, world is too busy inpowering women and trashing men.

@randomyoutubecommenter2863

5 ай бұрын

I’ve also heard a lot of “dad” cases

@subsbefore-gp9uy

5 ай бұрын

@@randomyoutubecommenter2863yeah thats true, my mom for example never said "i love you" to her dad and she regrets it.

@SeattleRaindrop206

5 ай бұрын

THIS POINT! ⬆️👏👏💯💯💯

@Vanifest24

4 ай бұрын

I was thinking the exact same thing

People live with so much burden on their shoulders. I wish they all heal and live a peaceful life and see beauty in the world. You are doing a great job doing videos likes this, it’s healing

@theobnoxiouslycharming1747

9 ай бұрын

I knew people had a lot of baggage when I saw a post that said "a 100 million dollarsor a time machine you can only use to fix one mistake in life" and not everyone said money. Like people have such lifelong regrets that no amount of money would make it okay. Like fuck that's dark

@strategicinsomniac5607

4 ай бұрын

@@theobnoxiouslycharming1747 I'd need quite a few of those time machines sadly.

The first guy☹️ My heart goes to you please don’t blame yourself as it’s your parents manipulated you to do that. Much love ❤

@cinderellie9583

9 ай бұрын

Facts! Thats a REAL hard life

@Jeebus-un6zz

5 ай бұрын

Yeah I'd have liked to hear more from someone like that and less from some bitter old broads about why marriage is bad actually because that's a super relevant and underappreciated topic zzzzzzzzzzzz

@bearclaus2676

4 ай бұрын

At least he can cry. It relinquishes the suffering. Im numb in comparison.

@RichardHarlos

3 ай бұрын

@@bearclaus2676 I once heard Brene Brown (Power of Vulnerability) elaborate that the wall that we put-up to keep pain at a distance also keeps pleasure at a distance. Not saying it's easy, but you have to feel it to heal it. The alternative is numbness, which I suppose is fine in the short-term, as a self-protection mechanism but... coping mechanisms are supposed to help us get through a particular experience; they're not intended to become a way of life. If you're struggling with this, please consider seeking-out someone to talk to, be it a trusted friend, close family member, or even a counselor. There's no greater feeling than the fresh, new life that you begin to wake up to. To feel again... Best wishes to you!

@radicalpaprika1720

3 ай бұрын

⁠​⁠​⁠@@bearclaus2676Sorry/congrats? What a bizarre competition you’re trying to win

To all those people who mentioned their sibling: Thank you for that reminder. My brother and i have never been super close. I had to leave home at the age of 20, had to learn to stand on my own feet, make my own decisions, be mature and independent. He stood at home until he was almost 30, never left the town we grew up and he wasnt eager to explore the world. Early 2020 he was diagnosed with chronical myeloic leukemia and althouh the pill therapy works very well right now, there is this constant fear in the back of my mind that he might be gone some day. Our relationship still isn't super close but thanks to the video i had the urge to send him a short "I thought of you and i love you"-message.

@cinderellie9583

9 ай бұрын

Be proactive with that. Dont just leave it with a text message. You could bring joy and happieness to him that might bring his heart and body strength to continue fighting.

@stephanievalenti6894

9 ай бұрын

@jessmark763

9 ай бұрын

@@cinderellie9583 Good comment! You never know how much you can actually impact upon someone until you try.

@jessmark763

9 ай бұрын

@dieypslackiert I'm just going to second cinderellie's comment. Feeling like we have no hope left and no one to turn to is why people give up on this mortal coil. What have you got to lose as adults if you try to build a bridge to him? You will never know unless you try and he may well not be in the mindset to, so if you have (as far as I see it) two options. You can leave it as it is and always have it in the back of your mind that you COULD have tried more but it's too late, or... go and see him, give him a call, send him a LETTER, even. I have no siblings to reach out to, so I admit I don't speak from experience, just opinion and forethought. Good luck!! You sound like you're a solid person and can do this if you want to.

@cemo4642

9 ай бұрын

I wish you the strength to have more contact with your brother

I think one of the hardest moments in life is realizing that sometimes you don't get second chances. Maybe that is also a point when you start living.

@victorsamsung2921

5 ай бұрын

Some or many don't, but I did. Almost 2 years ago. A major incident in late February 2022. I got my 2nd chance, maybe 3rd chance. Due to another major incident earlier in July 2012, and then, when I thought I was living the better life afterwards, until I got confronted again in early 2022 and realized I wasn't. 3rd times a charm they say. Hence, after this 3rd time ... I really feel like I am living.

@CRJR94

2 ай бұрын

You’re right, the hardest part is when you realize sometimes it is too late to start again.

“When did you stop loving me” is the saddest question in existence. Omgg 😔

@pennyjane9906

2 ай бұрын

he looked heartbroken.

Something that i have always wanted to say was to a cat. She was my boyfriends cat, but i loved her like my own. She passed away in January. i grew up with no pets, and getting to have a bond with her before she passed was the best thing that ever happened to me. I wish i would have told or communicated to her in some way how much of an impact she had on my life. I miss her and think about her everyday

I swear, we never stop being children trying to make sense of ourselves, our world and how we fit into it. Watching others being vulnerable is just SO beautiful! This is whats around us. We are all starving for true blue kindness, love and understanding. Thoraya, thank you for putting your talents into this. Its so important we have footage of what we really are out here, not the content made with an agenda. Thank you, beautiful! ♥️

@melaniepeters4744

9 ай бұрын

Beautiful perspective, thank you

@the_light_writer

8 ай бұрын

I hope Thoraya reads this!

That's really heart-breaking how many people are losing loved-ones to drugs particularly fentanyl. I'm not from the US but I know it's "coming over" here too and it's scary. I watch Soft White Underbelly videos and 80% of people there are fentanyl addicts. The inequalities in the US boggle the mind, really.

@sharonhutchins5784

9 ай бұрын

I also watch SWU, and I am struck by how many are affected by fentanyl. It’s a horrible drug. I pray we can get a handle on it somehow.

@ariasworld9991

9 ай бұрын

Same here guys, swu is the best👏👏

@janetheard4357

9 ай бұрын

Also a fan of SWU. I learned so much about different people’s struggles beginning with lack of a stable and loving family. Most often it’s hopeless. Here I learn what can connect us, what small things I can do.❤❤

@bbghoul_x

8 ай бұрын

I live in Canada and it's everywhere here too. We lose hundreds of people to it every year where I live in particular.

@davidunderwood4341

6 ай бұрын

People who die from Fentanyl know how lethal it is. They care so little for their own life.

I kinda envy everyone who has found their group of people where they can also hang out with each and everyone individually. I never found that and think it's incredibly important. The girl can truly be happy about having her friends.

@bbghoul_x

8 ай бұрын

Same.

@user-rg8qk4vp4v

7 ай бұрын

Same right here

@cbail1323

6 ай бұрын

Same, but as I get older I become less bothered by it. I find hobbies like sewing or crafting are more beneficial then being around people who may or may not love and care for me.

I very much appreciate this channel. Hearing people spill their hearts out, even briefly, is always interesting to me.

Man the brother ones hit so hard. I wish I could have told my brother so many many things. I lost my brother due to drugs as well, he was ten years older than me so he was my hero, when I grew up I realized his demons. At the advice of his parole officer and our family therapist and psychiatrist we needed to cut him off, no enabling and letting it traumatize us, they said he had to hit rock bottom (which in my opinion he was already at) we did cut him off. He died less than a month later. I wish I would have never stopped being there for him, I wish I could tell him I’m sorry for all the things he went through and I loved him no matter what! RIP brother.

@AthenaIsabella

9 ай бұрын

Sending you love ❤ my brothers struggling and sometimes I get frustrated and your comment brought so much love to my heart. Thank you for sharing.

@hippychick420

9 ай бұрын

I'd never agree with cutting my brother or any family off for this exact reason. It's hard seeing them struggle but it's better to be there & be able to try to save their life than to find out you cut them off and they passed away. 😢

@AthenaIsabella

9 ай бұрын

@@hippychick420 in my experience, family can be really persuading when it comes to encouraging to cut people off. I love that we aren’t though♥️

@elizabethmendez4133

6 ай бұрын

This one is a hard one. Watched my Mom go through life with my sister in addiction. She never cut her off. My sister died in addiction. It drained life out of my Mom. Even in the end, my Mom would have traded places with my sister, giving up her life so my sister could live. I heard her praying. Too bad love isn't all we need to save those we love from addiction . . . . .

@nyko9631

5 ай бұрын

@@elizabethmendez4133 My condolences

The first guys story made me audibly gasp and start to tear up. Parents aren’t supposed to use and bully their kids. Children should feel loved. I feel you man.

A lot of sibling regrets, very interesting 🧐

@aikighost

9 ай бұрын

la familia lo es todo

@kevinalleyne361

2 ай бұрын

I thought so too, very interesting.

I loved the 2 sisters. If the effort outweighs the pleasure - it’s time to move on. Timeless ⏳advice. Reminds me for some reason of the words of Anais Nin: “Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.”

@mayas883

9 ай бұрын

Yes they were the absolute best! Also love that that wisdom was followed by "don't marry a philip" 😂

@fuzzylogics139

9 ай бұрын

Me too. The sisters were so sweet :) That anxiety analogy of yours though s giving me nightmarish images lol.. And I've been very very anxious for periods in my life. But I tend to not see people rather than cling on to them when I feel like that, I think. Must say one friend really stuck it out with me a few years ago when I really had a bad streak. She spent hours on the phone with me every day so I would be distracted from my mind. A very beautiful thing.

@nopenope9118

9 ай бұрын

⁠@@fuzzylogics139I love that you had a friend who was there for you during your difficult times. She sounds like an amazing person. You should do something nice for her - get her flowers or something - just to show your appreciation. We all need people like that in our lives.

@fuzzylogics139

9 ай бұрын

You are right. She is a special person for sure,@@nopenope9118 I told her I truly appreciated that. And likewise I do things for her as well :)

@davidunderwood4341

6 ай бұрын

They have shitty advice. Life isn't just for personal pleasure. They're just 2 bitter sisters that feed it to each other. No benefit of marriage?

I love the 2 sisters at the end! Such wisdom, such jolly and carefree personalities... they've seen it all! ❤️❤️

@larryshipper8070

9 ай бұрын

Yeah my thoughts exactly! ❤

@Jeebus-un6zz

5 ай бұрын

Why, because they're old and they hate the men they married? I wonder what those men would have to say about them if they got some screen time.

Another session: What is one thing you said that you wish you could take back?

There was a trend here, most young people talking about regrets in relationship buildup and progression while most of the elderly ones regretting inactions and words unsaid due to the loss of a person that was part of their family. I'm now aged in-between these two groups. Watching my folks grow old; I'm scared for the future, but this video helps me remember to say "I love you" to them every once in a while.

"if the effort outweighs the pleasure, it's time to move on" damn

@MadonnaGrogan

2 ай бұрын

So true

I pretty much tell people what I think. I'm an open book. I am grateful for this strength because once I followed my Dad from a community gathering to a cliff top above a beautiful ocean view, and expressed to him how grateful I was to have him as my dad, what a good man and father he was to me and how he showed me how to appreciate. 4 months later he was gone. I was 23. That was 40 yrs ago. I still get comfort in knowing he knew his life made a difference.

@ariasworld9991

9 ай бұрын

👏👏

@stilianifakidaraki3724

9 ай бұрын

Just be careful with abusive people. To be an open book to the wrong person comes at a very high cost. Take care ❤

@shockedpikachuface7376

8 ай бұрын

​@@stilianifakidaraki3724my issue exactly, bot necessarily abusive, just toxic people that have used me over and over again

"If the effort outweighs the pleasure, it's time to move on"

The sisters at the end, they give off such a calm, wise energy ❤

That's fine I'll cry before work

I really appreciate what the sisters said about marriage and how they also acknowledged that it is different for our generation than it was for theirs. Some people rush into relationships and want to be with someone so bad but can’t decide on what to wear. They were awesome! 😂

The ending was unexpected but beautiful! The whole video was beautifully emotional. Thank you for that!

Truly my most looked-forward-to uploads are from you. This episode reinforces the importance of (a healthy) self-awareness. We're going to die one day, buddy. Take your risks. Do the right thing. Give yourself the same love you would to someone you're in love with. Choose compassion.

For me, it's that final "I love you" that got stuck in my throat when I was leaving my grandpa the last time I saw him in that hospital bed, when I was 18. I'm 24 now and that still hasn't let me go. I've been crying for like half an hour now thinking about it. I haven't even watched the video yet. I'm not sure I can right now. I might some other time. Y'all take care ❤

Might be unrelated but this video just really has me thinking about how I should just be open to talk about how I really feel. To be willing to let go. To be open to love or show love. To put actual effort into things, stop giving up and being afraid of failure. I think I'm heading to the right direction but sometimes I lose focus and end up in a loop. I think its about time that I get out of it. Thank you for making this video.

just wanted to say thank you for what you do, you help a lot of people Thoraya 💗

@bbghoul_x

8 ай бұрын

Yess thank you so much Thoraya ❤❤. Sending hugs to anyone who may need one.

"if the effort outweighs the pleasure, it's time to move on"

"If the effort outweights the pleasure, it's time to move on" - is a GREAT piece of advice, I think it could apply to many other things other than relationships, such as jobs. Overall I loved what the sisters said, and the fact that they asked Thoraya for her opinion on marriage too, it was super sweet.

@monk3110

5 ай бұрын

I don’t like it. No limit. All good things are hard

@-._.-KRiS-._.-

5 ай бұрын

@@monk3110 Partnerships take both people working at them, though. When one person is being a bum and not putting in any effort, all the effort is left for the other person to bear. At that point, it's futile to keep trying to hold the relationship together.

@nolongerjuicyboiz4413

4 ай бұрын

@@-._.-KRiS-._.- Your point about effort is valid, but it's clearly not about 'if the effort outweighs the pleasure, it's time to move on'. That's why divorce rates are at an all time high and relationships are failing. This is just hedonism. It should be about both putting effort in, and not just about 'pleasure' being outweighed by effort. Imagine if parents took this attitude with their kids.

@suneater_zeef050

Ай бұрын

i had that with my relationship where i would only feel good with him when i was doing the things he liked to do that he knew i wasn't such a big fan of. it's like there was a tenseness in the air if i tried to engage him with my hobbies and interests. and i tried really really hard... it ended up just eating away at me

@maxguichard4337

Ай бұрын

@@nolongerjuicyboiz4413 Personally I think pleasure is much more than just the immediate reward. It's the satisfaction and purpose of dedication, the comfort of mutual trust and vulnerability and the knowledge that one is loved and can love. All the effort which is unpleasant in the moment ultimately leads to those, and if it doesn't, then the effort truly outweights the reward. I believe you need to be aware enough to decide whether your effort is leading somewhere, and have the patience to continue when the feedback isn't there instantly.

Many of us carry more regret/pain/insecurity than others can ever imagine. Always try to be kind. Thanks for the reminder,Thoraya❤

im crying right now because everything that the two kind women said spoke to me but specifically at around 9:52. Leave. That was something ive needed to hear so badly.

I love these videos they make me feel like I’m not alone

The guy at 4:10 was the coolest dude! He had so many great insights and he just seems like a great person in how he moves through life!

@taramatheis1451

8 ай бұрын

Agreed! He is really cool and full of wisdom I'm sure he's had a pretty colourful life!

I'd thank my father for protecting me from my mother as much as he could, and for believing in me and supporting me as an artist from the time I was ten months old, buying me art supplies and bringing me to New Mexico to paint in Georgia O'Keefe's desert! I didn't realize how much he did for me, and how big a part he was of me as an artist today.

Damn, everyday people are wiser than I thought.

5:27 the innocence of love 🥹

I'd tell my stepdad how much he meant to me. How much I appreciated all he did for me and especially for my mom. He provided us with a great life and busted his butt to do so. We weren't as close as we should have been. Now that I've lost him and become a parent there is so much I'd like to say.

@love-light369

9 ай бұрын

You can still tell him... He listens & guides you 💛💫🌟

@19powpow91

9 ай бұрын

@@love-light369 Exactly.

@nyko9631

5 ай бұрын

My condolences

Love from Turkey, I have been following you for 3 years and you really helped me thank you

Thoraya PLEASE start doing again those "call your crush and tell them how you feel" videos, they warmed our hearts during quarantine, I miss them so much

This video is so heartbreaking because the most important phrases that we forget saying during life are: “I am sorry” and “I love you”. It is so dumb as those are very simple words that we just decide to keep for ourselves and regret it later.

To apologize and to forgive are such gifts 🙏

The two sisters are such a vibe.

What a queen, imagine getting everyone ready for a wedding, showing up, and everything, and then saying "I don't." When they ask if you take the other person as your husband/wife, what an absolute chaos nova. That should be an SNL sketch

@Confessions089

Ай бұрын

Sometimes I wish that is what I would have done in my first marriage.

on that last perspective of your favorite meal I think its like someone who likes eating eggs kind of thing you can fry them, boil, poach, sunny side up, etc I think the purpose is to find your favorite meal and learn how to make it in many ways with different spices in order to keep the meal flavorful so that it doesn't become bland to the taste and it transfers well into relationships where you gotta continue to learn about each other and every once in awhile mix it up to keep the relationship interesting. many people think marriage is the finish line but really its the starting line. my favorite quote has always been "Don't stop dating your partner".

@samanthahill9367

9 ай бұрын

This is such good advice, it needs a pin.

People are so beautiful.

I would say no and stick to my boundaries and not be afraid to stand my ground and not get guilted into doing things.

Oh, man, the two women made me smile. You can really feel the strong bond between them! They are both so positive and nice :)

This was probably one of my favorite episodes so far, very touching!

4:50 that man has the wisdom and maturity that can only be achieved through age and hardship. He has a great way of speaking and phenomenal choice of words.

Thank you for your heart-full videos. They bring me solace, joy, and a glimpse of humanity.

You're videos, the people in them... everything is soo incredibly beautiful! It always makes my heart melt to hear the stories of those wonderful strangers.

watching you makes me cry. your voice, look, and kindness all remind me of my mother. you're a great person. thank you

A separate video of yours came across my recommendations, and led me to check out your channel and this video. I don't remember the last time I cried, but both videos have had me tearing up... Thanks for these videos you make, this is awesome.

This episode was especially impactful to me. Things unsaid have such a theme throughout humans. What's holding us back has so much in common! I think sometimes the fear of not saying things is due to being misunderstood and what the outcome could be.

just found your channel! love what you do as a filmmaker, keeping it fairly real and raw, and polishing the truths out there :) keep it up! hello from Australia!

I love the way your videos make me feel vulnerable and human. They remind me how everyone has a burden and I am not the only one struggling with feelings and thoughts. Thank u for doing this ❤️

I really enjoy your interviews!!

Sending so much love to the first guy🫶🏾🫂. That must be hard. But i'm sure he knows it was never your intention. Sending love and healing💗💗

everyone has a story to share. the way you connect with people is continuously so refreshing, Thoraya. it doesn't matter where you are, the topic of discussion or who you speak with - I am in awe, every time. thank you for this channel, for this source of love 😌❤

So many beautiful souls out there! We are all one!

@icyqueen8296

4 ай бұрын

There really is!

I love your content. I gives me different outlooks and space for me to reflect on my own experiences and thoughts.

Thoraya you’re literally my favorite content creator, your videos fill me with such love and hope! Truly something I look forward to watching, thank you so much for making these with such patience and love! 🦋🌸

I like the two sisters at the end a lot. They look as if they're at the right place in their life, they seem content 💕

Those zoomed frames on faces is so touching, to see the expressions of someone whos digging deep in their heavy thoughts.

Your videos are so beautiful. So refreshing to see good people being good

I love this so much!❤❤❤

It's because of stories like these that I make it a priority to tell my closest friend that I love him every single day. ❤

Thank you for this video. Literally from 50 seconds of footage, I stopped and messaged all of the people closest to me and told them I was thinking about them. You’ve totally made not only my day but their days too. What a lovely chain reaction you just caused with your work! 🙏

The night before my mom and my niece were killed, I was speaking to mom on the phone. I’d been in California for a year, and I was missing my mom and little niece very much. Mom was raising my niece since my sister was off in her own little world of men and drugs. I talked to my niece who was 11 briefly and told her I was coming home soon, and I was looking forward to seeing her then. She said she missed me too, and then ran off to play…I had every intention of telling her I loved her. I remember thinking I was gonna have mom put her back on the phone so I could say it. It was really nagging me…to tell her that. The next morning my mother was taking her to a dr appointment when they were hit head on. The man in the other vehicle fell asleep, his foot became heavy on the gas, and he plowed into mom going 80mph in a curve of the road where the speed limit was 35. I never got to say I love you, my sweet sweet baby niece. The man suffered two broken ribs, and we suffered two broken hearts…

@love-light369

9 ай бұрын

(((hugs))) 💛 💫 🌟 She knows you love her, because she's with you often.

@nobodysthere9317

8 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry. This is truly heartbreaking, and with all of my heart, I hope you’re okay now and that your lovely mom and your beautiful nice are waiting for you and having a peaceful time.

@saintejeannedarc9460

8 ай бұрын

The grief and loss is enough. Please don't let yourself regret. Your precious niece went happily off to play knowing her auntie loved her, because you told her you missed her, were looking forward to seeing her and were coming back soon. Love is in all those statements. Even though you didn't say it explicitly, you said it w/ everything else you said and she felt it. I'm positive. As for the man. It was a terrible accident and you can be sure he regrets falling asleep all the time. He is also living w/ the terrible emotional anguish of knowing he took part in killing 2 people, and one a little girl. Even though it was a tragic accident, that weighs so much heavier on a soul than some broken bones. That can drive some people crazy or into drug or alchohol abused. He might even wish he was the one who died sometimes, esp. knowing a child was involved. What a terrible thing all around.

@stelladoyle9401

Ай бұрын

So sad. Sorry for your loss your loss

@sharonhutchins5784

Ай бұрын

@@stelladoyle9401 Thank you. God bless you.

I always enjoy your videos. Thank you ❤

every and each of your videos bring tears to my eyes

Thoraya, You are my favorite person that I have never met in-person. You are genuinely the REAL deal. The best of humanity. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world.

What a wholesome conversation at the end. Generational bonding right there.

I just want to express how much I appreciate and enjoy your insightful videos Thoraya..you are such a kind and caring person.. you are truly beautiful and your questions bring out the honesty that can surprise the person whom is speaking.. you have a very special talent for allowing people to express their deepest feelings.. if I could see you, I would love to give you a big hug for being you!❤

Thank you so much for this wonderful video!😥

Thoraya, you have no idea how much yout videos help me learn to navigate my emotions ❤

The 2 sisters at the end were the best part of the video, loved their story and life lessons.

Thank you Thoraya! all you videos are amazing!

Thoraya you are so so cool. Inspiring I want to do this in my own town today!

That was really beautiful to watch ❤

I really enjoyed this episode thank you for all you do Thoraya

Honestly, I love these videos so much. Each and every single person has their story, which you manage to capture in a beautiful way! If only we would talke more with strangers and see each other's value, the world would be such a brighter space.

Great content, as always.

The problem with the meal metaphor is that people change and evolve. I think that's the biggest hurdle of relationships is some people change in the relationship while the other stays stagnant, or someone changes for the worst. But I do agree with the waiting until 35 idea, or at least wait 7 years of dating before getting married.

My favorite people are the ones who ask the interviewer genuine questions. ❤️

Your videos are pure gems

I was recently feeling quite anxious about something and this is what I needed to see. I guess behind a facade of smile and confidence we all are dealing with fears. I hope everyone dealing with fears or regrets a good life full of love.

Great question - gripping episode

Those ladies on the beach were hilarious and insightful. I loved them!! Good video Thoraya! ❤️

I love the videos. Make me sad and happy

@Thorayaa Thank you for your work and bringing out those special answers to your interesting questions. It makes me thinking about these questions too, which is a good thing. Thanks a lot ❤

I really enjoyed this, just what I needed this morning. The sisters were so cute on marriage 😂 a good reminder to say, and do, what you need

No matter the content, I love your vids. Every. Time. ♥️ thx Thoraya 😊

this channel is so fucking beautiful. just binging it over here and thinking it about mine and the people i know's lives.

Please continue to make these fabulous videos ❤