What NOBODY Told YOU About SOLITUDE (Learn to Be Alone!)

🤫 There’s a secret that successful and iconic people like Pablo Picasso, Bill Gates, and Nikola Tesla knew but nobody ever really told us , and that’s the hidden power of solitude...
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⏲️ Timestamps
Introduction - 00:00
Modernity and Solitude - 00:15
Solitude and Evolution - 00:47
What is Solitude - 2:36
Successful People Leveraging Solitude - 3:25
The Benefits of Being Alone - 5:29
Tips and Recommendations - 5:50
Conclusion - 7:00
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  • @Inerize
    @Inerize2 жыл бұрын

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  • @SachinS-sf2vm
    @SachinS-sf2vm3 жыл бұрын

    Solitude is so peaceful

  • @kennethwithrow8711
    @kennethwithrow87113 жыл бұрын

    For introverts, solitude is absolutely necessary. Extroverted personalities may have a little more problem with being alone, since that's where they derive their energy from. I get a lot from your videos, and I wish I could be more supportive than I am. Keep up the good work.

  • @AJBuddha

    @AJBuddha

    Жыл бұрын

    Solitude is the only reason I’m alive today

  • @iamcrocodile3148
    @iamcrocodile3148 Жыл бұрын

    I have learned to truly love myself in voluntary solitude. When I’m ready I’ll start socializing again, but I’m enjoying this new type of inner peace.

  • @AJBuddha

    @AJBuddha

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly I am the same way 💯 For now

  • @gayanngodfrey2824

    @gayanngodfrey2824

    2 ай бұрын

    Enjoy 😊

  • @brandonwilliams9560
    @brandonwilliams95608 ай бұрын

    I don't hate or fear being alone. I'm more happy being alone than I am being around people.

  • @wendilandkammer8368
    @wendilandkammer83683 жыл бұрын

    Solitude is the only place I can be my self without people telling me how wrong I am. The nature of solitude tells me I am right as I am. Solitude affords me the freedom from having to perform for the sake of other people's comfort zones. I'm not opposed to other people's comfort zones, I just don't need or want them to exist. Solitude is the only place I never have to think about that. Solitude has shown me that I'm well suited to being there even if it is for the rest of my life.

  • @AJBuddha

    @AJBuddha

    Жыл бұрын

    Solitude is the only way I can be mentally sane. When I’m surrounded by people 24/7 & can’t control what’s stimulating my brain it worsens every aspect of my mental health

  • @tben5379

    @tben5379

    5 ай бұрын

    My wife and I recently separated. We are not divorcing. I am an introvert she an extrovert. We have found our relationship has become much nicer and being together is a pleasure. We meet a couple of times per week. But living on my own has become a freedom for me to be who I am, without the nagging feeling that I have to explain myself to anyone.

  • @sck7458
    @sck7458 Жыл бұрын

    Solitude has probably been the greatest catalyst of internal and external transformation

  • @joshuaalestre
    @joshuaalestre Жыл бұрын

    Solitude is a tool to replenish your energy on both mind and body, atleast for me

  • @thakanezulu5606
    @thakanezulu560610 ай бұрын

    I have just started to spend time by myself. I feel so free and organized

  • @prasenjitmishra6130
    @prasenjitmishra61309 ай бұрын

    Something that I learned by self and have always been productive in such hours. I really love it - solitude as because it allows me to focus on things properly !

  • @nicogrupe
    @nicogrupe3 жыл бұрын

    This is awesome bro! I've just realised I was really good at this, being alone and happy but it has been a long time since then. Now I feel alone with solitude. I have some work to do! Thanks!!

  • @lifeiswarwarislife1972
    @lifeiswarwarislife19722 ай бұрын

    Full days of motorcycling alone is my sweet spot, 30 litre tank, I don't talk to anyone for 8-9 hours, buzzing in my helmet, what a gorgeous place to be.

  • @alittlelate6188
    @alittlelate61889 ай бұрын

    I completely agree with you, solitude is extremely important. I started my journey into appreciating solitude thanks to Nietzsche, you should read his works if you haven't already. I leave you with one of my favorite quotes of his: "I Go In Solitude, So As Not To Drink Out Of Everybody’s Cistern. When I Am Among The Many I Live As The Many Do, And I Do Not Think I Really Think; After A Time It Always Seems As If They Want To Banish Myself From Myself And Rob Me Of My Soul.”

  • @Natashahoneypot
    @Natashahoneypot3 жыл бұрын

    You are never alone with God.

  • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves

    @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen but a lot of ppl don't believe in him 😣

  • @AJBuddha

    @AJBuddha

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s true but sometimes it’s difficult to know / realize

  • @olgamelo676
    @olgamelo6769 ай бұрын

    I love my solitude!! I hate to work with people. My dream work is work alone!!!

  • @Rapalienz
    @Rapalienz3 жыл бұрын

    Imagine there is no social media solitude will f#ck u up cause u need connections and strong friend to be successful

  • @AJBuddha
    @AJBuddha Жыл бұрын

    I used to be a drug addict extrovert, I quit all the drugs now I’m an introvert which is my true self. I really never knew my true self my whole life but now I really do I’ve had countless horrible experiences & events that still effect me to this day but I’ve found that I have the power to decide what my mindset is & what I choose to focus on & ultimately if I want to be happy I have to choose to be happy. So I hope everybody else can figure it out too I know it’s not as easy as it sounds it can be EXTREMELY difficult & frustrating & confusing but the biggest thing I’ve learned is that all my past experiences are learning experiences so I know what NOT to do in the future. I am currently doing the polar opposite of what I used to do & I am in better mental condition than I ever have the last 10+ years. Ultimately with the right mindset you can turn an L into a Lesson 🤙🏽

  • @andrearenee7845
    @andrearenee7845Ай бұрын

    Love living alone.

  • @theraymondsjolseth
    @theraymondsjolseth26 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this fantastic video!

  • @caribstarz
    @caribstarz3 жыл бұрын

    Inerize with the wisdom once again! Thank you Juan!

  • @frankmosses9121
    @frankmosses91213 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the information I had forgotten that and I will do it soon

  • @FarzanasLaw
    @FarzanasLaw3 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are amazing!

  • @Jahmarla3
    @Jahmarla310 ай бұрын

    Being alone can awaken genius abilities in us

  • @Momo-qo7is
    @Momo-qo7is2 жыл бұрын

    There is so solitude like that these days due to technology. However, it depends on self-control for those who are alone alone not to spend too much time on social media. I still believe in the power of solitude.

  • @Inerize

    @Inerize

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @AJBuddha

    @AJBuddha

    Жыл бұрын

    Balance is key 🔑

  • @dolittle6781
    @dolittle67813 ай бұрын

    Learned solitude and genuine solitude are two very things. The former doesn't work and the latter does. You can't learn it, and you can't unlearn it.

  • @guillaumemaurice3503
    @guillaumemaurice35037 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this video that was powerful and useful lesson. ❤

  • @souravkaran6511
    @souravkaran65113 жыл бұрын

    Thank You

  • @josephsassone3753
    @josephsassone37535 ай бұрын

    I've been an introvert all my life and I'm 58 now. I prefer being alone. I've built a wall around myself to protect me from the sick and chaotic world we live in. I am a rock, I am an island.

  • @SIERRATREES

    @SIERRATREES

    4 ай бұрын

    Because you said that, Id love to have a coffee with you and discuss it, because I think I'm the same...

  • @clintonmoyah7086
    @clintonmoyah70864 ай бұрын

    Good advice 👍

  • @LukaszAdams
    @LukaszAdams3 жыл бұрын

    In the end we are entirely alone alywas..

  • @robertbaldwin6307
    @robertbaldwin63078 ай бұрын

    Quiet. I love it

  • @kamboat7789
    @kamboat77899 ай бұрын

    Lovely facts

  • @KennonAshley-up8tp
    @KennonAshley-up8tp8 ай бұрын

    I'm not shy,however,I don't care for smalltalk nor that weird silence between folks,I do so enjoy kicking back in a lawnchair,smoke a blount,close my eyes and just breath

  • @mannycalavera121
    @mannycalavera1213 жыл бұрын

    Guess I'm odd, I love being alone

  • @chriscorbin3190
    @chriscorbin31909 ай бұрын

    Finding a balance with the right people sounds more like it. One might withdraw from people after making many mistakes or trusting the wrong people.... until one learns from their mistakes.

  • @mildredhighcock7333
    @mildredhighcock7333 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with SO Much of this and know it to be true, however...it's also said that bouncing ideas off people and being around stimulating conversation helps with creativity. So I suppose both are good, but it can be hard to find other people to be around when everyone is busy

  • @jesrod6623
    @jesrod66233 жыл бұрын

    Has vuelto!!!!!

  • @Inerize

    @Inerize

    3 жыл бұрын

    Esta semana por 2 😊. Ya la idea es mantener uno a la semana o 3 al mes ✌️✌️✌️

  • @jesrod6623

    @jesrod6623

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Inerize me alegro bro. Me caes bien y tus vídeos incluso me ayudan con inglés. Un abrazo!

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c4 ай бұрын

    I like being alone i find alot of people draining.

  • @jasoncrouzat7509
    @jasoncrouzat75099 ай бұрын

    I have learned a lot about thaw being alone

  • @nicholaskearney678
    @nicholaskearney6786 ай бұрын

    BRILLIANT 👏 narrative. 2023. War as was meant to be.. name the invader and sadness.

  • @elbassaraghii5744
    @elbassaraghii57449 ай бұрын

    Yeah I don’t know 🤷🏾‍♂️ people always say you Need to have someone in your life ,,, I live and know the contrary SOLIDARITY is better ,,,, but to each there own different people require different things if you need to have a partner you should find someone who wants the same thing not everyone is going to want what you want it agree sometimes it fits and sometimes it’s just doesn’t go with you , pretty simple ,,, yeah I chose Solitude that’s it basically 😎😉

  • @gojo-zn7du
    @gojo-zn7du7 ай бұрын

    1) give yourself time: solitude will be boring at first, almost excruciating. But it will get better once your body and mind realises that its still okay after facing boredom. (imagine a cartoon where the main character thinks he will be crushed by a boulder and so closes his eyes, but when opens them afterwards he sees that the boulder missed him and he's okay. Imagine his relief. That's how you are going to feel after getting comfortable with the discomfort and that will definitely happen soon) 2) find some activity to focus on: to help with solitude, pick up an activity, preferably an output activity like art writing, musical instruments sports gym etc, you can get your thoughts together in the meantime and that's good use of these time to deal with the boredom. 3) use solitude as a productivity tool: use solitude as thinking time for your problem and solutions. 4) avoid distractions: distractions are like cheat days and in the beginning of establishing solitude habits, go cold turkey. even after establishment go through your distractions carefully and see if you need the distractions you used to have anymore. de-clutter any distraction dragging you down on your progress. 5) schedule solitude time in the day/week: regular solitude periods feels good. its like retreating back into your perfect safe haven for a moment and that feels so good :-)

  • @theflyingdutchman1301
    @theflyingdutchman13019 ай бұрын

    Good thing i dont hate being alone, i actually find it quite a luxury. Havent figured out the self love aspect.

  • @jaypatel-kd6ql
    @jaypatel-kd6ql3 жыл бұрын

    You have given lots of quote from the internet but i really want to feel, how to be solitude cause it feels really suck to be alone ....

  • @fafacare
    @fafacare9 ай бұрын

    The reference to Bill Gates is the worst when we know how he is acting towards the planet

  • @Causeiamafisherman
    @Causeiamafisherman Жыл бұрын

    The creator flows through us. You need solitude to speak with the creator...

  • @thelawless1523
    @thelawless15235 ай бұрын

    yeah.. maybe

  • @helgavita
    @helgavita2 жыл бұрын

    I considered myself an extrovert for many years until the last year when I had a short four days vocation alone which I spent mostly in silence. That was an amazing experience which I never expected to have. I still consider myself an extrovert, however I believe that every person is a mixture of both and checking what works for you and trying new approaches is necessary.

  • @RicklessSanchez
    @RicklessSanchez9 ай бұрын

    So sad how adulthood already alone right now.

  • @Thomaschapmanbfc
    @Thomaschapmanbfc2 жыл бұрын

    🔥 💪 🎯 👍 🎯 💪 🔥

  • @lucifero__
    @lucifero__3 жыл бұрын

    Police protect us from a dangerous situation or the police are a dangerous situation

  • @Inerize

    @Inerize

    3 жыл бұрын

    I said hopefully 😅

  • @soysinser
    @soysinser7 ай бұрын

    Bro, i hope u already achieved it.

  • @menhera2
    @menhera25 ай бұрын

    よくわからん🤔

  • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
    @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves3 жыл бұрын

    But don't ppl get put in solitude in prison?? hmmmm interesting🤔

  • @Inerize

    @Inerize

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's a different kind of solitude :)

  • @ajlucky0076

    @ajlucky0076

    2 жыл бұрын

    Solitude without freedom is different from Solitude with freedom

  • @AyoBabaTv
    @AyoBabaTv2 ай бұрын

    Song at 3:30?

  • @larrykemble5683
    @larrykemble56838 ай бұрын

    Maybe I need jail. Throw him in the hole. I am freehandstigma I am alive I am not dead yet. I stillexist be still my beating heart.