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1) an available job 2) a job that pay's enough to cover expected expenses 3) a job compatible with values and family duties

@ffnovice7

6 жыл бұрын

AC Fatemi being unironic here, real talk: government jobs. The benefits you are allowed to enroll in are like leaving the tutorial stage in American life.

@renansilva3879

6 жыл бұрын

That's not that simply.

I think that this is one of his best videos.

How deterministic are certain aspects of personality, though? And to what extent can you reliably chalk up personality shortcomings to fundamental personality traits, rather than problematic beliefs you formed early in life? If you really are "wired up that way," sure, definitely pick somewhere where you fit in the best from the start - but is there no merit in doing things you find challenging in order to improve yourself?

@Ot-ej5gi

3 жыл бұрын

Sure, as long as the stakes aren't too high...where if you fail, your family doesn't go on welfare

@user-jy7cz4xw4y

2 жыл бұрын

suggestion: maybe he is trying to say that ability is flexible but personality is not. maybe you can act as an extrevert, but the deep truth will always be that you are an itrevert. personally i think that you can become great at anything. everyone can deal with stress if they really want to/if they are in the right mindset/if they are trying. its all about your will, isn't it? that what will make you disiplined and great at something.

Dr. Peterson, 100% correct. Currently, I work in a place that even my manager knows I am a lot smarter than him and better at my job. I know I am in a job that I like and good at, but this situation causes jealousy and hostility towards me . I don't like leave my job, but already started looking for a different job.

Thank you !!!

wow. such an Amazing human being!

Expert on everything, ain't he.

@mirainikki6665

5 жыл бұрын

It's just his experience, he can't know everything in the world, but at least he can analyze world around him.

@raideduela

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@samuelcollazo5129

2 жыл бұрын

to be fair he is right. not hard to figure out what he says makes sense. its just he is very good to explain it all in words.

Did i tell you i only subscribed because of the thumbnails 👌

I'm in the 25 percentile (below average) any tips?

He talks like my dad....but more eloquently.

I was a nurse. Yeah, that was a mistake. In way over my head.

@timwright4263

3 жыл бұрын

@@assedio3631 I didn't want to be a nurse. I had trouble in my role as a care assistant, and university was an option. I loved university. I loved being a student. I worked very very hard at university. Sadly I lack confidence, and that can be crushing if you're required to lead a team.

@timwright4263

3 жыл бұрын

@@assedio3631 I appreciate the input, and you are right with your observations. I guess it can take a lifetime to restore confidence. The best advice I was given came from one of my teachers, way back in 1983: 'Be yourself.' Sounds great, but I'm 52 and it's an ongoing journey.

Competent people accell? Never seen that in my life!

lol who works 75 hours a week thats insane i thought 40 was a lot.

@azaz911c

3 жыл бұрын

Many people, including executives at the C-suite (CEO; CFO; COO), professionals like doctors, and lawyers, entrepreneurs, tradespeople and commissioned sales people. There are certain jobs where you work: i) as much as needed to keep the business running or to meet the expectations of your customer/client; ii) as much as you can when you can because you don't know when the next job is coming; and/or iii) as much as you can because you are paid by how much you produce/sell.

@ROSALIEIK

3 жыл бұрын

@@azaz911c oh :O sounds like shitty jobs

@azaz911c

3 жыл бұрын

@@ROSALIEIK they are if you don't like the work, don't think you are being paid enough, or if you are losing your family in the process. Of course, some of these people make the choice to work like this, and are well rewarded, while others do so by necessity, and aren't.

@ROSALIEIK

3 жыл бұрын

@@azaz911c oh D:

@williamfleckenstein7316

2 жыл бұрын

Lol 40 is nothing. Lazy and stupid people only work that. I work a 40 hour first job, do 15 hours of dialysis, work a 4 hour second job, and still run my own repair business (about 25 - 30 more hours) a week. And honestly I only work the job because it's constant physical exercise.

no, thx