What It Means To Be A Gentleman Today
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The term gent or gentleman has become ubiquitous in magazines, blogs and on TV. Overall it is used for all kinds of men and it’s very hard to tell what the meaning actually is and what it entails.
The Original Gentleman
1. A man of high social status and wealth
2. A polite or formal way to refer to a man.
3. A man of noble birth or someone of a royal household.
4. A man of good social standing or a member of the House of Commons.
5. A man with a general good societal position.
We came up with 11 hallmarks of a gentleman today.
02:23 A gentleman is imperfect.
02:36 A gentleman has high standards.
02:48 A gentleman is well dressed.
03:08 A gentleman has good manners.
03:30 A gentleman is open minded.
03:54 A gentleman is interested and informed.
04:18 A gentleman’s actions match his words.
04:35 A gentleman treats people with respect.
04:56 A gentleman recognizes the difference between arrogance and confidence.
05:16 A gentleman wheels his power purposefully.
05:31 A gentleman gives the benefit of a doubt to other people.
Being a gentleman sets a very high bar and it's not a definitive thing. It’s a lifetime pursuit of self-awareness, motivation, and improvement. Now all of that comes with challenges. Even though we have the best intentions, sometimes if we are stressed or if we get up on the wrong foot or in a bad mood we may treat people in a way that is not gentlemanly. If that happens, own it, apologize and be sincere and people will respect you more for it and understand it.
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A gentleman follows the campsite rule with everything: leave it as good or better than you found it. This goes for all aspects of life.
@drewabbott6993
3 жыл бұрын
I was raised with this as a rule
@brutustantheiii8477
2 жыл бұрын
WISDOM, right here. Very glad to be the 200th like
@olbradley
2 жыл бұрын
In that sense does being a Boy Scout make me a gentlemen by default?
@eliegbert8121
2 жыл бұрын
but what is "better" defined as? it is a baseless and meaningless word if you have no moral standard.
@James_Tharp
Жыл бұрын
@@olbradley as a fellow scout, you decide. Do you follow the oath and law? If so I’d say yes. A scout is morally straight, if so then you’re a gentleman.
A gentleman doesn't say he is a gentleman but he tries to be one
@Eric-sy1xu
6 жыл бұрын
"A fool thinks himself to be a wise man, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool" - William Shakespeare. Thought it was quite apt.
@Eric-sy1xu
6 жыл бұрын
William Holden :p
@jonathanthethird52
6 жыл бұрын
Layton disagrees.
@nicholaswood821
4 жыл бұрын
That is so important; you’ll never hear a truly humble person say “ I am humble “.
@artemis2545
2 жыл бұрын
Yes i agree, actions define that
You might like The True Gentleman by John Walter Wayland (Virginia, 1899): "The True Gentleman is the man whose conduct proceeds from good will and an acute sense of propriety, and whose self control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humbled if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others rather than his own; and who appears well in any company, a man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe."
@MikeDubya
5 жыл бұрын
In my book, this is the best description of a gentleman.
@Dominik-kx6il
4 жыл бұрын
this text is too long, otherwise i would put it on my shoulder as a tattoo :)
@scottalbers2518
4 жыл бұрын
Great quote.
@dr.s.p.
4 жыл бұрын
That quote succinctly defines a gentleman more than the video.
@ZunarZulfiqar
4 жыл бұрын
I've been this way my whole life. Even when walking through junior high. I've gotten quite a bit of nonapproval through my years about the way I am. People often say that I "should just be a kid." As you might expect, I've been the lone wolf my whole life.
I loved this subject. I've been called a gentleman throughout my life (I'm 63 now) and I can give the credit to my father. As a young boy and teen I would always observe how he treated my mother and others. Although he and I didn't get into many conversations about character or such I still learned a great deal. I plan on leaving a letter to my 7 year old Grandson with these words of wisdom, to be given to him when I pass away. I consider my son to be one also. I believe he did like I did. He learned and became one through observation. By the way, I certainly don't hit all 11 points on the mark but I do try. Lets spread this to our younger men when ever the opportunity arise.
@natpadget
2 жыл бұрын
Write that letter today! Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
@MuhammadAamir1
2 жыл бұрын
Can you share it with us too? Thanks in anticipation
If I were a father I would show this video to my son.
@rizwanalikhan1755
6 жыл бұрын
yeah me too
@anonymousmessenger23
6 жыл бұрын
I'll share this video to my little brother when he gets older. He'll learn a lot from it
@Ingrid0410
5 жыл бұрын
Consilium i will show this to my sons thank you
"A gentleman doesn't argue simply for the sake of being right." I believe this to be one of the most important lessons everyone should learn. If you are correct that's fine, however, if you are wrong, then you need to be able to accept that and rethink your current belief on the subject, keeping the new information you just learned in mind.
“The True Gentleman” The True Gentleman is the man whose conduct proceeds from good will and an acute sense of propriety, and whose self-control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humbled if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others, rather than his own; and who appears well in any company, a man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe. - John Walter Wayland
Arguably one of the best videos I have seen in a long time. Very decent and very mature messages are presented in this video. Keep it up.
Honestly, I really, really appreciate you showing a more positive version of masculinity (instead of the bossyness and toxicity often perceived as masculine) as well as its cultural roots on your channel. I think that the concept of the gentleman is not old-fashioned and backwards but instead a vision of masculinity perfectly suited to today's world and as I said, I really appreciate that you showcase how this vision of the old-school gentleman suits today's ideals.
I do wish there were more gentlemen these days. Great job Raphael!
@MrJackrockerman
7 жыл бұрын
i become..
@axelmohammad5864
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah... On these days now it's Just fuckboy and rude boys
@NTHNCSGOContent
6 жыл бұрын
Dilan Matthews Yes, lets be plain racist for no reason :>
@cm725
5 жыл бұрын
A L Vo it really goes both ways Men and Women would have to work together on this. We have to acknowledge and reward the good things about each other and get rid of the negatives which will be hard because anything negative gets all of the attention these days.
@orbitingsentientsatellite4361
4 жыл бұрын
DI ON i as a man usually will have to lead the lady into acting like one, and please dont get offended, its basic biology. If a man leads a lady, the lady will follow, however there are women out there who are leaders and can inspire a following, and i applaud those women.
Watching the gentleman's gazette is a real gamechanger for me. Working during the day in pyjama's at the operation room is fine, but dressing up the rest of the time, at home, or on my way to work has become a lot of fun lately. Thanks for all your superb videos!
I'm a big fan of of being a gentleman! It fits my personality smoothly! Team Gentleman all day and tomorrow!
A gentleman is one who's self-assured and respecting, reserved and cool, calm and gentle. Pleased to always be of help and to do goodness.
I must add this to the list: A gentleman is not defined by the clothes that he is wearing, because i have seen many well dressed individuals but they were not even close to the definition of a gentleman
@terrywestbrook-lienert2296
5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@thejohn6912
5 жыл бұрын
Ivan M thats not entirely true though, a gentleman may care about his appearance more than others, but don’t pretend like you’re going to get dressed in a full suit just to go to walmart
@dandysmecatholique
5 жыл бұрын
@@thejohn6912 lol I did that last weekend
@neitherlink6612
5 жыл бұрын
The John being well dressed also implies being able to dress according to the occasion.
@lamedrawings
5 жыл бұрын
@@thejohn6912 I wouldn't wear a full suit, rather a nice and ironed dress shirt will be more than enough.
A female version of your channel would be dope. Might get a lot of criticism but it would be cool to see
@hotcoffee6911
6 жыл бұрын
Lance Evangelister you are spot on ,,,,
@garlicgirl3149
6 жыл бұрын
Lance Evangelister I have asked once. No response. I asked my friends why I found on You Tube 6 channels on being a gentleman and zero on being a lady. I don't care if feminist are offended. There are those of us who are confident in our skin of being a lady and be a woman who accomplishes goals at the same time. I can only hope.
@masontaylor7708
5 жыл бұрын
This kind of thing has been on my mind too. I went to a fantastic barber the other day that was the true, A1 gentlemanly experience. Wood paneled room, fireplace, complimentary alcoholic beverage. I then found myself wondering, "what's the womanly counterpart to this?" There such a cult of personality around the idea of being a "Gentleman" but I struggle to think of the female equivalent. I feel like there's a really good discussion here as to why isn't a thing, or, if there is, what even is it? Everyone deserves to take pride in their gender identity.
@dandysmecatholique
5 жыл бұрын
@@masontaylor7708 being a lady?
@gazebo9730
5 жыл бұрын
he could have his wife do it and call it the ladie’s tribune
Own your Wrongs, Apologize and be Sincere #Gentleman
@marekeos
5 жыл бұрын
That's not being a gentleman. That's just being a regular, decent human being.
One thing I disagree on. A gentleman doesn’t pursue perfection, because perfection is a bad goal. Excellence- doing the best you can with what you have/know- on the other hand is a great goal.
@yunarukami14
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Perfection isn’t possible realistically
This is one of the best vids made by you in my opinion. Thanks
Your values and advice are completely correct. I agree and try to do those things. I just find that society and history judge people by broad social class based on wealth. Somebody like Sir Alex Ferguson who is wealthy and knighted will be remembered as an upper class "gentleman" whereas he is pretty much the opposite. And, say, our poor grandfathers as working class "men" even though they may have been the epitome of polite gentlemanliness but happened to be poor.
One measure of a gentleperson is how they behave when noone is looking.
This is my new favourite channel. Keep up the good work sir.
A very well considered and comprehensive definition of a gentleman for the modern context without losing the most important elements of good behaviour and taste. Well done!
A very admirable exposé on who and what a true gentleman is. I especially appreciate the spiritual dimension of your reasoning and encouragement to others via this particular video. Thanks so much and keep the great work up!
Excellent guidance for everyone.
very good video as always! very true on many levels as I have experienced many of the same things you mention!
A toast to all of the gentlemen in the making (incl. myself). Thanks GG!
"Money and position can't buy you class" yes, indeed. thank you. This is what separates us socially. Your video is... Excellent is the right word to use here. Excellence inspired; the virtue of excellence.
I salute you sir, you have just perfectly described a gentleman by conduct. Well done!
What it means to be a gentleman - "Respect yourself and others."
Really love these thoughts on what it means to be a gentleman! It's something I've been pondering recently and this is resonates with me. It seems that the mark of a gentleman is in how they treat others. I aspire to be a gentleman that can both show respect and empathy for others while also having grit, determination, and strength.
I think this is very well presented. This would be a nice guide for any father to teach his sons.
Sven, I've been following your channel for a few months now and I will say it is absolutely fantastic! The information that you provide and the manner in which you deliver it is perfect! This is my go to vlog for ideas. Thank you for what you do.
Nice video Sven, I agree with all your points.
Sven, thanks for the upload.
This is a very brilliant interpretation of a modern-day gentleman. With how things are in the world treating others with dignity and respect goes a long way especially to those who are less fortunate than others be humble and grateful for what you have.
I really appreciate your message. It’s timeless but especially important today.
What an uplifting video. These values are timeless are the true mark of the civilised individual. A very worthwhile project. Thank you for making this short but important film.
thanks sven for reminding me to always keep on my character. because when im stressed and angry, i tend to be more aggressive and hostile towards people. it is a good advice to own it, apologize and be sincere even though it is hard sometimes when your ego got between you and the people you love
If only more of todays mondern men took note of such things, i'm a patient man but even i get fed up with the lack of respect these men have, no only for themselves but those around them.
I love this! I have so much to work on, but I definitely want to be a good man, an Honest, Integrital, Virtuous, Christlike, Polite, Loving, Genuine, and True Man.
excellent...just lovely...one of the more positive clips I have seen and with excellent points...thank you kindly sir!
A gentleman is a gentle man
My life realling changing by seeing gentleman's gazzate , now I am seeing difference in me , and also people around me .lots of good wishes and love from india
Fantastic-and oh so needed-video Sven. This should be required viewing for every young man.
“The forebearing use of power does not only form a touchstone, but the manner in which an individual enjoys certain advantages over others is a test of a true gentleman.” -Robert Edward Lee
I just found out this channel. Its amazing all the tips you give. It brings joy to my heart that there could be more good men nowadays.
That was a great speech Raphael, congratulations.
Great video, Raphael! It's nice to hear your view on the modern gentleman.
Good video. Well said
Excellent video, definitely something to strive for!
Great job Raphael, thank you for the advice.
Outstanding video! Really appreciate your posting this. Points #1 and #9 are particularly important to me.
I'm glad that I have fit approximately half of these traits. As an early teenager, I intend to culture and improve myself as much as I can before the age of 18, so I am ready to become a fully fledged gentleman during the course of my career. Thank you for your guidance, Raphael.
Your videos have been outstanding lately, Raphael! Keep up the great work!
Just discovered your channel and I enjoy your insights! Keep up the excellent work.
Great video and subject matter.
I totally love this video. Amen you are a true Gentleman.
Great video, Raphael.
Awesome definition of a gentleman.
thanks for the lesson- striving day to day to spread the gentleman philosophy- thanks Sven!
I like this mans delivery... Very Smooth operations. Thanks
That is very very close to my definition of a gentleman and I aspire to master the individual parts that make you a valuable person to your environment. Still, I strive for this kind of perfection for the sake of it, not to gather compliments. What makes it quite hard to keep this kind of composure together is an environment that mistakes this for being reserved, a snob or sees a less agressive way of communicating as a weakness, not an unconditioned toll of respect towards the conversation partner. Being respectful in my eyes is one of the most important and at the same time one of the hardest things to master. :) Thank you very much for this video, it was very uplifting and reassuring!
Excellent! I love this. Thank you!
this was a great veido ! thank you sir
Excellent advise
A gentleman strives to attain wisdom throughout his life, as well as the good sense of when to offer what he has learned to others.
Das Schönste auf KZread! The intro makes me so happy!
I agree. I am a person who is constantly trying to improve my personality so I can be more respectful to others. I remember one girl told me “Lucas you’re not like those guys, you’re a man Lucas, a gentleman.” I felt very good and flattered m.
I'm homeless and more a gentleman than many... proud to have chosen this path, of knowledge and sincerty, goodness and kindness. Never felt better about myself until I decided learning to be decent. Needn't of money when you're decent a man.
Very well done.
Great video, you nailed it. Thx
Amazingly succinct summary ... Bravo! And I think every word should go just as true for the ladies .... 👍🏼👍🏼
Love your channel, my man.
Excellent and well voiced ideas. Mahalos!
Thank you for this.
Great advice sir!
Awesome video this was on another level from anything else on youtube
Great video Mr. Raphael!
I've Been enjoying your work Sven. Many thanks for doing this! Very best regards, Frank Bruno from Boulder, Colorado
Thank you for the amazing knowledge good sir.
Thank you to teach us how a gentleman should think.
They need to show these videos to high school students. They would be a great teaching aid for HS seniors about to head out into the world, and who have probably never had any lessons like these before.
Well thought out and well presented.
Great video Sven!
Love it when you illustrate using the Apparel Arts images.
excellent video
Nicely done Sir, nicely done..
What an amazing video, it could only have been created by an amazing young gentleman as yourself! I am a mature lady and can say that these guidelines apply to both genders. I wish there were more people like you in our world, maybe you will inspire a new generation of real men. I have already subscribed and will link your videos to my son. Wishing you the very best in all your endeavors.
@gentlemansgazette
7 жыл бұрын
We are grateful for your kind words and support!
Well said, Sir!
Thank You for the excellent video old sport
Excellent excellent video! :) so well articulated
Very good video nice job
We need more voices like yours reminding us of these timeless values that are being lost in a post-modern maelstrom of selfish decadence and PC tyranny! Thank you!!!!
YES!! YES !! VARY, EYE OPING! SO MUCH TO WORK ON FOR MYSELF. Thank you, Sir.
@gentlemansgazette
7 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
Well said.
Good vid!
Well said. I once read the phrase, 'a gentleman does no harm'.
Nice encapsulation.
Beautiful. Aspirational. Thank you. M
This video should be seen by everyone please. We need everyone to understand the value of this term nowadays :(