Knowing that Wes is so contemplative and darn-near indecisive, I'm surprised he came to his conclusions somewhat fast. Lol.

@bensonq

6 жыл бұрын

there was 2-days worth of footage cut out from this episode

@kawaiiafangirl

6 жыл бұрын

bensonq Your editing got better! Lol. It used to be that those cuts would be very apparent.

@bensonq

6 жыл бұрын

Wasn't me this time around haha! All credit goes to Sherry!

@thewesleychan

6 жыл бұрын

every damn time haha

Also, Jenn looks especially beautiful in this video.

Proposing in public is the worst thing a person could do. It's manipulative and it should not be considered consent, because most probably they didn't want to embarrass the person

@EnvyTraxus

5 жыл бұрын

I've always wondered how many people say yes to just avoid embarrassment then properly explain no in private

@mr.q337

3 жыл бұрын

Well, define public? Is it public if you and your gf just having a dinner date at a fancy restaurant, then you bust out the big question? And I think it is ok, if you are 100% sure that she will say yes, or she mentioned that she want to marry you from times to times

6:03 " ... but, are they ever really the same when they come back?" That's why I love Wes :) He really did think about the aliens abduction LOL

I love these relationship videos. I've never had a boyfriend so this is like indirect advice for future relationships 😂

@WorldWideWong

6 жыл бұрын

yes, but sometimes, you won't know how hot the stove is until you touch it.

@impjbtw

5 жыл бұрын

World Wide Wong that was fucking deep

I’ve been seriously binging lunch break for the past few days, love this series so much!!

don't date your friends' ex if your friend is still single.

so i broke up with my ex boyfriend and i didnt think it ended really badly, but 2 weeks later he started dating my best friend . Yeah. so she doesnt tell me for like a month and were all hanging out and every one knows except for me , someone finally tells me and i wait her out. she comes over my house for a whole day but doesn't try to talk to me and completely avoids me in my own house lmao. Then a week she later tells me through a text message. and then i blow up but every one tells me to forgive her and that I'm somehow the bad guy. DEFINITELY TALK TO YOUR FRIEND BEFORE HAND. I wouldn't have cared if shed talk to me face to face but she went around me and tried to avoid worse case scenario which she got in the end. If you care about your friendship you should put it first and be honest!! This was a year ago so he treats her bad and I'm not missing out in case yall wanted to know lmaooo

@indiecloud100

6 жыл бұрын

gracie Daaaamn, that's brutal betrayal from your friend there. I don't think I'd have had the patience you did D:

@Pitcrak

6 жыл бұрын

I feel you genders reversed, same thing happened to me : /

@gracie4452

6 жыл бұрын

Pitcrak im so sorry dude

@lovelyminnie7666

6 жыл бұрын

BRO I FEEL, Litterally the same thing happened to me, she avoided me, denied any feelings for him and that they would never date and then started dating him behind my back 2 days later.

@splashpont

6 жыл бұрын

Response to break ups: NEXT. Don't let exes break up a great friendship.... Then they have hurt you 2x.

I love these what if episodes, you guys always come up with the most ridiculous questions and the funniest answers

Please make a short about the alien breakup scenario. That would be so funny.

@Hangger

6 жыл бұрын

please add on a line about where were the person being abducted.... and the answer is... we went to uranus.

Love these types of videos!

I love you guys so much. So excited for Yappie!

this is definitely a favourite topic of discussion. love all the hypothetical scenarios

This was really fun! For the proposal, I think I would employ Wes' strategy. Big hug and whisper, "Let's talk about this away from others." Jen's "then you don't know me at all!" cracked me up so much cause that's soooo true!

3:23 when Wes’ hair goes super saiyan 😂

@SamiJoie

6 жыл бұрын

Kyle Kung OMG I DIDN'T NOTICE THAT UNTIL I SAW THIS COMMENT. Makes you wonder how long of a break there was for him to put it up... 🤔

@thewesleychan

6 жыл бұрын

edamame in my rice bowl was actually senzu beans :x

YAY NEW EPISODE!

How Wes stalls for time to think....."Let's talk about this"

soo I'm def proposing to Wes, so I can get that hug^^

Can we have more of more wong fu? I mean you guys are busy making awesome videos, so I guess not but it doesn't hurt to ask. Thank you for your awesome videos we all love all of you.

I love how everyone is using their own metal forks! Keeping it eco-friendly wongfu :)

I always enjoy your relationship videos! Keep it up

New favourite thing to do: Lunch break-ing while watching lunch break :)

According to The Sims, alien abductions usually only take a few hours, so I'm with Wes on this one lol and yes, please do more of this!

Why am I here so early during exam week 😅😅😅 rip my GPA but priorities are clear: Wong Fu 4 Life

@emilyhuang5997

6 жыл бұрын

You mean Wong Fu 4 Lyfe smh do you even WF bro XD

@PoTommyPo

6 жыл бұрын

Emily Huang Nooooo my typo that isn’t really a typo but technically still is 😂

My ex went out with my best friend 4 years ago.. it pretty much destroyed me when I was in high school cuz they always seemed to be flirting even when they were broken up. BUT I've moved on and I've learned and have grown so much in terms of emotional intelligence, strength, and maturity - and at the end of the day I'm really glad I experienced something like that so I can come out to be a better version of myself!

Do it again!! This was a fun one

this episode is so funny!! and sad to know Jenn is leaving

Bingewatching the lunch break episodes. Haha like low key, I want them to actually finish their food. Especially the people who haven't eaten, get real hungry like me rn. Lol

Hey WongFu, apart from awkward situatiom like this, I'm so glad you guys used less plastic in this episode! It really means alot to someone like me! #zerowaste

I'm not a big fan of vegetables, but Lunch Break videos somehow make me crave for them. 😋

Let's go!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

WONG FU 4 LIFE

Do you guys ever take suggestions for lunch break topics? I was wondering if you could do a group conversation about breakups and answer questions like, what you think let to it, should you be cautious of red flags, are you friends with your ex, etc. My college gf and I recently broke up after 4 years, she was my first and only so I was hoping to hear some advice. Your videos have definitely helped me during this time

@elucified

6 жыл бұрын

The answer is simple: Watch their short, "After Us" over, and over, and over, until you've finally reached the last step. This is coming from personal experience, of course. I must have contributed to at least a good 0.01% of those views lmao

@splashpont

6 жыл бұрын

Break ups are always sad. But take some time, then move on. (Easier typed than done.)

Benson is thinking about all the ways to exit the scene. LOL

part 2!!

How do you guys come up with topics for lunch break?

Haven't watched WongFu's video in ages and glad to say I still enjoy it very much!! Thank you for all the effort, WongFu!! If I have to kill a beloved to save the world, most likely I would do the Romeo and Juliet...lol... And please, no public proposal....but if I have to reject it, I would do what Wes does - hug the person and whisper my answer in his ear... And how do you date your friend's ex and not see their memories together in your mind?? no way for me....

“Hmmmmmm, generic poke brand”🤣🤣

This is the best group dynamic

Am I the only one who loves seeing Jen seating next to Wes and that they look so adorable together

Watching this at 1am is not a good idea but I had poke for lunch too~! *high five*

What's that *iloveyou* thing from? Need for research

Jenn's favourite short is somewhere like this?!?! Omg me too

Does anyone know what the clip at 10:51 is from??

Super megaaaa duper early!! 🙌

Omg... I just broke up with someone I work with and I’ve had a crush on another guy for a while (but of course I felt like it’s never gonna happen so I was like I’m going to move on). And I just found out by him that he has a crush on me. But he gets along with the guy I just dated they are not close friends and they do talk almost every time but they secretly don’t like each other that well. I’m honestly still hesitant. Plus I’m not gonna jump in. To another relationship like I did this time

love you wong fu ♡♡

PLEASE PLEASE PRETTY PLEASE DO A PODCAST SERIES!!!!!!!

i loved this one LOL

Can we please address the fact that Wes actually contemplated on a super random scenario like having your significant other abducted by aliens??? 🤣🤣🤣 Lmao but tbh, I probably would have thought of that scenario too at least once in my lifetime 🤣🤣🤣 And also, I have a suggestion! How about you do these lunch break episodes with at least one person in the group who’s not a wong fu employee or a youtuber or any of your friends. Like just look for a random asian/asian-american in the streets or on social media and invite them to do an episode???? Like me for example!!! Lol but seriously, it would be awesome to have a regular person on these episodes 😁😁😁😁 Love all wong-fu related!!! ❤️❤️❤️

@thewesleychan

6 жыл бұрын

Pam Loberiza let’s.

@pamloberiza

6 жыл бұрын

Wesley Chan okay hold up 😂 is this really Wes or just a fan account or idk 🤣

Waiting for my lunch/(dinner) break on the east coast sucks lmao :P

I love the alien situations ahahaha

the bleachers scenario i’m Dying

It's not lunch, but I was just finishing a cheeseburger with two patties from earlier and it was pretty satisfying

Notification squad😂😂 1st

Ahhh, Phil is gone so we got poke! I can tell Wes has thought about these hypotheticals because he answered pretty quickly. I feel like I could map out what I'd do and then choke if any of it actually happened to me.

I've never been in the situation, but my hypothetical rule is once the friend gets into a new relationship, then I can go out with the ex

Wes' eyebrow!!

dating a friend's ex, also depends on how close i'm with the friend and the situation of their break up. i have dated/ "seeing" a friend's ex. but that was with a friend that i was only acquainted with and also they haven't been together for about 2-3 years. also the friend pretty much cheated on him. and the way that we started seeing each other was that one day he just msg me on fb and we got to chatting and then started hanging out. but unfortunately it didn't last too long since i found out later on he had some issues and i ended it. oh well, it was a good experience. that's first scenario. second scenario: i had to find out from one of my ex, (that i became good friends with) that he started to date one of my closest friends and she didn't tell me. when i confronted her about it, she told me she did have an interest in him but wouldn't really give me all the details of her feelings and what was going on. i was hurt, because she was the one i always told about my feelings and problems when i dated him. i felt a bit betrayed, and hurt that she couldn't tell me herself. after that i pretty much lost my trust in her and i'm still friends with her to this day, but we're not as close and i don't go to her to talk about my life or any of my problems. also her and my ex didn't work out, but not cause of me, just that my ex turned into a total douche and blew her off later on.

They need their own podcast

benson’s highlight tho

Please continue lol. What if you end up dating your best friends brother, & your best friend had no clue about it

benson is so hilarious

One time, My first love/ my first boyfriend pursue and tried to go out with my best friend. It was so awkward and upsetting for me. Mostly because after he and I broke up, we still decided to be good friends. What a-hole move for him to pursue her. There are about 7 billion people on this Earth and he couldn't pick another girl to like. Thankfully, my best friend was considerate of my feeling and I was considerate of hers. I had a long talk w/ her and I told her if she liked him. Of course I would set my selfish feeling aside because I care more about her happiness than mine and she told me she wasn't even remotely interest in him. LOL. And she just thought the attention he giving to her, was flattering which I can totally understand. I'm happy to say my best friend and I are still best friends and our friendship came out stronger than before. As for my friendship with my first love... It still exist and it's okay. I just lost some respect for him because it showed me that he clearly didn't care for my feelings or had common courtesy to ask/ think it would hurt me. I will say I had a talk with him and we sorted all this out but I haven't quite forgave him nor do I think he would even cares if I do or don't forgive him. #shittyscenerio #pleaseexcusemycursewords

Legally, the person that gave the engagement ring is entitled to its return because it's considered a conditional gift. #themoreyouknow

@mashisseosseo1171

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@kirag9509

6 жыл бұрын

What if the guy cheats on you? Is he still entitled to get the ring back even though HE cheated?

@meeohchannn

6 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, yes.

I would only keep something given to me if I can use it. If it has sentimental value and isn't useful-it's gone

engagement ring: depends on the circumstances... who broke up w/whom, was it a bad reason like cheating or just cold feet, was the ring a family piece, etc.

@SEAscd

6 жыл бұрын

L Newton it definitely depends on the situation. My ex fiance cheated on me while I was planning our wedding (luckily I figured it out and called it off before we put the deposit for the location down) and he never asked for the ring back. I obviously didn't want it so I ended up pawning it. But if the situation was flipped I would have given it back.

You guys are great and awsome but I missin my buddy phil on these breaks

Wesley is so adorable oh so cute 💋💋💋💗💗💗

Jenn is soo adorable

there should be an equation, you say... perhaps some of the love experts from wong fu can make a short about this...

#tayisbae

Do it again

Thank God my ex bf’s gifts for me have always been functional stuffs like earphones, sneakers and a kindle. Ain’t no mf way I’m throwing them out! Lolol

me like, like always

lol at both running away for rejected proposal.

“ will you marry me ?” .... “ home Run “ #tayisbae Ps : What is jenn eating ? It looks really good !

@_jennle

6 жыл бұрын

my typical poke order: salmon salmon salmon!

the aliens scenario made me think of the Manifest trailer....

I heard that if the guy breaks off the engagement, the girl keeps the ring; but if the girl breaks it off, she's supposed to give the ring back.

Benson's arms 😍

do this again 😛

Hey, Wong Fu Pro. I know my comment is just a comment among hundreds or thousands of other comments, but no harm in trying, right? I recently just got out of a relationship. Me and my girlfriend had been in an LDR (America to Indonesia) for 5 months, I felt like we were perfect for each other. But gradually, after the first 2-3 months, I guess I kinda started to dislike talking to her. She wasn't the most talkative person and I had to do all the communicating work. We grew distant, but we still talked every day. Just less and less. I tried my best to keep talking to her and dating her, despite our language barrier. It was tough, and I felt like I had to do all the work in the relationship. I almost came close to breaking up with her 2 times, but just a week ago I actually left her. Then I cried and begged for her back, and I got her back, but because of circumstances (and I didn't feel happy with her anymore), I decided it was best for her to not date me. She's dating her ex again, and he seems like a cool guy, but was I wrong to let her go, just because I felt unhappy? Or was it for the best, and we weren't meant for each other?

@kritsanapatthamang8683

6 жыл бұрын

Probably not the response you wanted but here's what I think anyway! I broke up with my ex 5 months ago and recently had a 'relationship withdrawal' and went through heart break too. I doubted if breaking up was the best thing too because I missed his presence and the things we did together. Now, I think that breaking up was probably for the best, because there's a reason(s) why it didn't work out. If it's meant to be it'll be! I found that writing down on paper what went wrong helped me accept the end of the relationship and helped me get over him too. I know how you feel :/ I'm super indecisive and kept doubting myself but it's all in the past now and you really can't do anything but to focus on the future! You got this.

@zanelealendell4090

6 жыл бұрын

@Kritsana Patthamang Thank you for taking the time to reply and thank you for your response. I guess you are correct. I probably should stop thinking about her as well, it's not healthy haha. She said she still loved me, and I still loved her, but I just couldn't feel the connection between us anymore. I'm glad to see that there is someone out there who knows what I'm going through. I miss her terribly, but I know she'll get over me and she'll be lots happier with someone else (By the way, I've never commented on anything before, so if I'm doing this wrong, sorry XD)

@kritsanapatthamang8683

6 жыл бұрын

Zane Lealendell No problem! You'll feel happier too, like her, hopefully soon. Don't get too down and drawn on the past, you'll only glorify your time together and miss her more :( Good luck!

@zanelealendell4090

6 жыл бұрын

Kritsana Patthamang Thank you, and I'll need the luck. I hope you find the right man (or girl, I don't judge) someday soon if you are still looking! :)

@kritsanapatthamang8683

6 жыл бұрын

Ahahaha thanks man, at times like this I feel like social support makes so much difference. If you need to talk or if you're feeling down, feel free to message! Good luckkkk

How will you deal with your best friend dating your brother?

@splashpont

6 жыл бұрын

If it works, great. If it doesn't: too bad bro!

@SendohJin

6 жыл бұрын

depends if your brother is a scumbag or not lol.

fuhhhh i Miss you guys #jollibee

Hey so i know you guys look at comments and stuff, and i wanted to try this since you know, you guys are known for all the relationship stuff, and i'm gonna go straight into it since it doesn't really need an entrance lol. I'm in love with my best friend, and i don't know what to do. I've known her for 2 years and im about to be a sophomore in college. We have this kind of friendship where we talk to each other about EVERYTHING and ALL of our problems, yet this is the one thing i can't talk to her about. I dont think i've made any progress getting over her. If anything, it's gotten worse. And here's how friend zoned i am lol, we role play being husband and wife regularly, and she has a boyfriend (its weird i know, but we've made it clear to everyone its just a joke... despite looking really bad). Deep and twisted huh XD but even so, there's this very small part of me that keeps saying you have hope, and its weighed a LOT. Though i know i will never act on it because i dont want to destroy or break my friendhsip with her. I dont know what to do other than just wait out my emotions, which seems almost impossible right now haha. Any feedback is appreciated :)

Personally, I think the idea that an ex can’t date your friend comes from the concept that these people belong to you. So your friend is “stealing” your ex or your ex is “stealing” your friend. Truth is, they are their own person and entitled to their own decisions. At the same time, you are not obligated to maintain a friendship with either of them. That’s up to you. It’s also very situation-dependent. What if your friend treated their ex very badly such as abuse or cheating? What if the relationship had dragged on because your friend wouldn’t let their ex go? Or what if you are good friends with both? Situations do happen and you probably won’t know what you would actually do until you’re in one of those. So, whatever you do, it’s important that you make the decision that will make you yourself the happiest rather than trying to make everyone around you happy or doing what you think other people/society would approve of.

I’m single and remaining that way for a while so none of these situations apply to me

bring it back after a long time........... #TAEISBAE

I think the appropriate time that someone should wait before dating an friend’s ex should be similar to the appropriate age gap difference equation. So let’s say you dated your ex for 3 years and 5 months (so a total of 41 months). If thing end amicably between you and your ex and your friend (not best friend, that answer is never date best friend’s exes) told you that they were into your ex and you were cool with it, the equation for time they should wait, to be respectful of you: (Time you were together + 7 months) ÷ 2 So take the example of 41 months, your friend should wait 2 years before they can date your ex BOOM MATH

Mulder waited for Scully after she’d been abducted, Scully knew Mulder had been abducted and waited the whole time, even after he supposedly died the first time so 🤷🏽‍♀️

For the ex dating a friend thing, it's all about how you communicated about it. So if they start dating and you find out way after that's a d*ck move but if my friend was like hey I think we have a connection then it's a different story.

Wes seems tanned.

depends, if i had kids w/ my x or still friends with them, I'd keep the gifts they gave me I'd sacrifice myself for the world, but if I'm on a rescue mission w/ a partner, it depends on the other person's age (will only sacrifice myself if they're younger than me) i don't believe in aliens, so if my significant other was 'abducted by aliens' I'd permanently breakup with them (if i 'saw' it happen, I'd check myself into a mental hospital) i don't mind being the center of attention or PDA, but i don't agree w/ the pressure of public proposals (should be private just in case), but it's not a red flag 4 me & would just tell them afterwards if i didn't mean "yes" i'd only date a friend/acquaintance's x if they gave me permission

❤❤

thank you for not using single use utensils!!!

you ever notice how oddly wes chews?

I feel like I won’t take the gifts back though. I’d feel more hurt if they returned the gifts

How many points till marriage? 😂

my friends never really dated people in high school... and neither did i :( we were the nerds... but i wouldn't...

Just put all the gifts you don't want or the ones that no longer hold a significance in a box and mail it to them.