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0:00 Intro
0:17 Forget about confidence
2:23 Daytime beats nighttime
4:25 Everyone lives in the story
6:54 Opportunity, not excuse
8:36 Skin in the game
13:20 Building abundance
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@RobertTaylor-gz2fu
19 күн бұрын
It's great for you that your looks, height, athleticism, wealth, status, confidence & social skills enable you to enjoy life on easy mode. Try coaching a guy who doesn't have any of those major advantages & see how he does cold approaching.
@tomcaldwell5750
18 күн бұрын
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu it would be pretty cool, and Benjamin would work with you one on one just to see if he could teach you to have success with cold approaching women.
@BikeTipsUK
17 күн бұрын
The woman on all of your thumbnails for this vid is www.twitch.tv/berticuss . Really not classy to use just her photo and not even link her socials
@realbenjaminseda
13 күн бұрын
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fuI literally posted a video of me taking out an awkward / nerdy Indian client
@Microphunktv-jb3kj
7 күн бұрын
lol @ cold call 150 girls... 1. be non-white (in America) do that as heterosexual white male and make a video : )))))))))))))))))))))
hes pretty good looking so this is the first step to not get the police called on you. lmfao
@KulaGGin
6 күн бұрын
No. Shut up. This isn't how it goes IRL if you approach women. If you want a proof, there's a show with IRL approaches. I know one great one called "Social Animal" here on YT. The author meets with subscribers and makes them approach girls under his supervision. He's far away recording with a hidden camera. It's all 100% real, the author of the channel is real nice and is on the mission to just help people with social anxiety. The point is that very few interactions go wrong. The worst I saw after watching quite a few videos is girls just keep walking and ignoring or saying "Not interested" and keep walking and looking away. That's all. Yeah it sucks, but.
@KulaGGin
6 күн бұрын
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@Billy-bc8pk
4 күн бұрын
Yeah I was about to say the same thing -- like, it's easy to get their attention if they're already attracted to you. He's literally one of the top 15%, so his success literally aligns with already known data.
@A_Mystery_Man
Күн бұрын
You won't get the police called on you, but I've done this before and what happens is I'll have a seemingly successful conversation, get their number 90% of the time, and then 99% of those numbers won't text back.
@niekv9683
12 сағат бұрын
First comment i see is an excuse already.
“55% of men have not approached a girl in the last year” does NOT mean there is no competition 😂
@amalrajpr6800
14 күн бұрын
There is no competition actually, its that when you lack certain aspect of being a man(not looks alone, nervousness, lack of experience, lack of confidence)make it harder for someone as a male
@kebman
9 күн бұрын
I've only ever had competition when I approached women in clubs. And even then not so much.
@smiechu47
7 күн бұрын
Guys who don't approach compete with you on tinder, these simps ruin the dating market.
@edge-climber8540
6 күн бұрын
@MattiaManzini -- There is a bit of a problem with the channel host's Logic, isn't there? Ha!
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
The competition is literally Tinder, tiktok, instagram, Chads at her workplace, Chads at her social gatherings/parties, Chads everywhere she goes.
Said tall, good looking and muscular guy. Okay bro. 😂😂😂
@rustyme1122
14 күн бұрын
Exactly. The very definition of a Chad. Tall, dark and handsome.
@jt43578
13 күн бұрын
your language is pathetic.
@vincentfederico1585
13 күн бұрын
Yeah, It much easier for him. How about a guy that's a 4 or 5 ?
@curiousconsultant7922
13 күн бұрын
He's not that tall. In his approach videos, he looks fairly average, if not a little short too. (Even girls don't look small next to him)
@donkeylong.
13 күн бұрын
Just hit the gym bro It’s not that hard
1. Good looks 2. Good looks 3. Good looks 4. Being charismatic
@davidking4838
5 күн бұрын
5. Good looks.
@persiizee1819
3 күн бұрын
Excuse Excuse Excuse
@davidking4838
3 күн бұрын
@@persiizee1819 Excuse or a Reason. If I tell you why I failed at something it could be I'm just telling you why - giving you the reason, that doesn't mean it's an excuse. For example, I'm not an NBA basketball player......now the fact that I'm a non-particularly athlete, 5'10" white boy might be a reason - it's not an excuse. An excuse is not required.
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
@@persiizee1819 Cope.
@persiizee1819
12 сағат бұрын
@@gaynzz6841 🤡
Having a dog has helped a lot lol. Meet a lot of women who also have dogs.
@realbenjaminseda
14 күн бұрын
This is very true
@abel4776
7 күн бұрын
Your Wingdog.
@christopherlopez2729
Күн бұрын
Yes its true. But it only demonstrates you are a somewhat decent sane individual. Unless you have some game...being able to lead a conversation to future interactions and SEX, you will just have some very cordial platonic interactions with people...LOL HAHAHAHA!!!
@0077user
21 сағат бұрын
Right
9:11 "You wake up one day, you're 31..." I'm burnt 🤣
@socloseagain4298
Күн бұрын
💀💀💀
Why is it always a greek god saying any guy can do it?
@Microphunktv-jb3kj
7 күн бұрын
because he is yet another grifter who prays on desperate american men he competes with the maaerican women to extract money from simps did i answer your question
@adamcimrmann
6 күн бұрын
not sure if this is an intended joke, but this channel used to be called "Based Zeus" and he literally used a Greek God persone before doing a face reveal
@edge-climber8540
6 күн бұрын
@@adamcimrmann-- Not to speak for Daniel, but that is Very Interesting Background information on the channel host...
@kishanchali8752
Күн бұрын
He looks average and isn't that tall. Y'all are sitting on your basements and making excuses for not approaching women.
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
@@kishanchali8752 No we're not. Keep coping
you are tall, handsome, of course you will have success meeting women in person. Most men are instantly rejected by women simply by the first look
@C.viscione
7 күн бұрын
Not really, depends on how you present yourself.
@andreasrigas713
6 күн бұрын
@@C.viscione well, it's a matter of perspective, our experience differ
@edge-climber8540
6 күн бұрын
@@C.viscione-- "How you present yourself" is what she sees on "the first look" which is what she rejects when she does. And most do.
The moment I herd "My clients" I knew this was BS grifting scam.
@srodigital
9 күн бұрын
...the exact point i stopped watching.
@Microphunktv-jb3kj
7 күн бұрын
because he is yet another grifter who prays on desperate american men he competes with the maaerican women to extract money from simps
@davidking4838
5 күн бұрын
It does tell you he's a professional - and I suppose hiring a professional is sometimes a good idea....?
@Billy-bc8pk
4 күн бұрын
@@davidking4838 Only if you enjoy throwing money away. If he looked like Jack Ma and managed to get the same results, then I would be impressed. But looking like a male model makes it extremely easy to "sell" the solution to undesirable men.
@persiizee1819
3 күн бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 Have you actually seen this or all these stats from your head. Just because you approach doesn't mean you're entitled to anything. You still need to have "game".... If these results were true the "some guys" are obviously doing something wrong and I've seen plenty of ugly guys get laid🤷🏻♀️
Your a CHAD of course 😂
@mattplayzgamezandstuff8790
8 күн бұрын
hater, become one instead of being fat n weird
Alright guys, here's the right formula, step 1: Look like Benjamin Seda, step 2) always have had girls fawning over you to have your confidence with women go through the roof, step 3) have enough success cold approaching women that you become a dating coach for guys who don't look like Benjamin Seda, Step 4) Make KZread videos coaching guys on how to cold approach beautiful women using a "simple formula" when you don't look like Benjamin Seda
@patnor7354
9 күн бұрын
Truth. But grifters be grifters and guys will dream...
@Billy-bc8pk
4 күн бұрын
lol I'm so glad the comments addressed everything that popped into my mind while watching this video.
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
@@Billy-bc8pk same. everyone here is based and black pilled
I was approached by a very beautiful air hostess in the airport after we had several long eye contact. She was 4-5 yrs older than me . I was 18 at that time. And was surprised and got shy. She was quite nervous and didn't know what to say. That's the biggest opportunity I missed. After 1yr I saw your videos and getting over my shyness.
now put someone looking like asmongold cold approach 150 girls in 30 days
@DylanKurapica
7 күн бұрын
He might have success that guy is a content creator and his socials are above average. He just need a shower and above average clothing style and he would smash at least 20 or more from 150 numbers
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
That guy is at least an high tier normie
Guys take this from an older guy... cold approaches are a waste of time. And even if you do get a number.. its is unlikely that it will lead to a long lasting relationship. Just think of any couple you know and tell me if they ever told you they met via cold approach. Girls are always protective, cautious and want a more romantic way of meeting someone they actually like. I would only do an approach if i get the signs first. This means she gives you a smile, or keeps staring at you or gets closer to you. However this is a cold-warm approach and obviously only works if you are good looking. Even then, i noticed that it's not natural and the dates feel like work because you have to win them date by date by date. The best way of securing a girl has always been through work, friends, social gatherings, or places you frequent. The more times you both see each other , and especially if she already has a crush on you, then the more feelings will be formed. Any guy that cold approached and got her number will no longer break that connection you guys have.
@Billy-bc8pk
4 күн бұрын
Presto. Too many snake oil salesmen out here these days.
@bonitaoestranho
3 күн бұрын
"cold approaches area a waste of time, blah, blah, blah" . . . well, clearly, you've never left North America before, as cold approach works alllllll day, every day
@thingfish000
2 күн бұрын
I can't fathom getting a hug (!) from a girl that is a total stranger. You sure as hell wouldn't try that in a Middle Eastern country.
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
All of this effort just to have endless drama in your life. I don't understand men. And I'm a man.
@gaynzz6841
12 сағат бұрын
Let me correct you. Dating is a waste of time. Done.
Anyone can do this as long as they.... are attractive. If you're not already attractive (and/or tall) she'll perceive anything you say as creepy automatically. This can range from a polite rejection to an earth shattering rejection that causes a scene. I'm an average to above average looking dude, and I still don't feel comfortable gambling with those odds. My sanity and reputation thank me every day for not playing those odds. I shoot my shot when its more than probable they like me back, but until my career is where I want it, I don't think gambling with my sanity is worth it. I'd rather save that energy to further my career and further my finances right now, so that when I meet a girl that clicks well everything is already lined up.
@playthisnote
11 күн бұрын
I was passing through and read this and seemed worth saying. I think you’re on the right mindset. If you could only add not giving a care to it. Talking to all random women the same as asking for a napkin or a 2 go box at a restaurant just change the words. And not be affected when they don’t have napkins! If it’s a women your too into than you probably are going to be affected when there’s not a 2 go box. So skip that one and ask for the napkins. Come back later when you’re not in your head and ask for the box!
@mickaellandry9726
9 күн бұрын
Good looks can help you get an easier opening with women, and they can persuade women to cut you more slack. But if you haven’t developed the skill set of a fluid romantic courtship, all you’ll end up as is a good-looking incel. I have seen short, fat, minority men who were sleeping with hot white girls taller than them because they had gregarious personalities and skillful game. I have never seen a good-looking guy whose game sucked get laid. In fact, I have seen a lot of good-looking incels.
@gaynzz6841
11 сағат бұрын
100% right. Rejections don't makes anyone confident. It's why we have poor confidence in the first place. Only success can build confidence.
Been cold approaching for a year now. At the beginning it was scary as fuck but now it’s so easy once you have so much experience & success under your belt. Rejection is inevitable but I became immune to it after 2 months or so. It’s amazing how my brain has adapted to approaching girls like I’m going for a gym session 😅 I’ve approached girls in Greece, Dubai, Paris & Thailand when I’ve travelled for holidays - greetings from UK 🇬🇧 😊
@Movin2Elite
17 күн бұрын
hows your success rate? Do you score? Get dates? etc
@JohnM...
16 күн бұрын
The key word ‘success’ - ‘failure’ doesn’t ensure the confidence to continue.
@Axman2024
13 күн бұрын
That is awesome!!! I would probably cold approach women in those places too. Not in New York though....these women here are hard as stone and have the crazies attitudes. I don't see any dudes approach any of these NY women and I don't blame them 😂
@dansari0007
13 күн бұрын
@@Axman2024 come to London, I’m sure it’s 100% worse here than NYC. Also, I have a British accent which I’ve been told is kinda a cheat code in the US 🤷🏻♂️ so I think I’d thrive in the US tbh.
@dansari0007
13 күн бұрын
@@Movin2Elite plenty of dates and yes I’ve scored too, but I’m also had lots of rejections. It’s the constant rejections that gave me an abundance mentality, as I go straight to the next girl
It's true...I spent years at the cocktail lounges and pubs. Met some girls and hooked up....but it was RARE. Day game is going to be my focus now. Way cheaper and more efficient. The girls are more my type also
@BobRoss-wm3lc
15 күн бұрын
What is day game?
@jordanbailey23
14 күн бұрын
@@BobRoss-wm3lc Approaching during the day, instead of going out at night to clubs / pubs, etc.
@BobRoss-wm3lc
14 күн бұрын
@@jordanbailey23 oh ok
bro looks like Collin Farrel of course its easy for him 😂
@DoNotEatPoo
13 күн бұрын
And not "The Lobster" version of Collin where he put on 160 lbs for that movie.
@Microphunktv-jb3kj
7 күн бұрын
ur pattern recognition is very poor lol
One of the best, honest videos on this topic
Loving ur motivation bro, been doing some cold approaches lately
@albedo9617
18 күн бұрын
In India? What city and how is it working so far for you?
Tall, dark and good looking of course your going to do well. Hire average looking guys and try it again. Your going to get a 99.9% refusal rate.
@r3games1985
11 күн бұрын
Facts.
@patnor7354
5 күн бұрын
Truth doesn't sell courses to "his clients"...
@gaynzz6841
11 сағат бұрын
Yeah man.
Yo I won’t lie I started watching your vids and fitxfearless, and your totally right your confidence won’t build success but in my opinion it depends on how confortable you are with approaching, when I got comfortable it got easier and I got more confident
Thanks a lot, I needed this motivation.
Bro is an absolute unit 💪
You can approach if your not confident, but lack of confidence equals rejection
Thanks for thinking through all of this, I'll be stealing your homework. Nice job.
It's really easy .. ...said the Chad
Chapter 4 is key boys 👌
@realbenjaminseda
17 күн бұрын
❤️
Love the content brother 🙌🏽
@realbenjaminseda
17 күн бұрын
means a lot - appreciate you homie
Best thumbnail ever 😍
It's true,i have a period were i meet a lots of girls and others people (the summer,since i work on a beach from may-september),and in this season it's way easier to start a conversation with a stranger because YOU GET USED to it,while in winter since I don't see much people i tend to care less. The approach however might work better if you differentiate the places too, because if there are 10 girls in the same place,one could approach all sure,but I don't think they will feel compelling considering "you choose the other one first", unless you start casual with all and then decide who is worth more for you. A lot of very good and meaningful tips in the video,hope to apply theme sooner rather than later 🤞🏻💪
Good video, glad I came across this
always speaking true facts, love it!
Women can sense if your nervous and when they do its over with for you unless your extremely good looking
@Krispy4real
14 күн бұрын
I think you should approach even when you are overthinking but if you are nervous, I’d say calm yourself first before approaching.
Benjamin fookin goat!!!
I find it easier to communicate with women during the day than in nightclubs where you can’t hear yourself speak.
how do you I approach a girl infront of her friend group though? Even if there are guys in that group
Thanks man ❤
I know about all these things but main point is to get something out of all this and get dates per week
Alot of what u said actually made sense tbh,thank u brother 🫂💙
thank you very much Ben, very usefull.
I'm from India 🇮🇳 💙🔥 You explaining very very well 🔥 Thanks Brother ❤️
Love this as a challenge 🥰
its depend on your desires thanks for sharing dude
Daytime game is hard in small cities though I’m in Tucson and there isn’t much places in high density during the day, even the malls are dead
This "skin in the game" angle is a very convenient way for this guy to generate more paying clients!!
@realbenjaminseda
9 күн бұрын
Try doing anything in life without skin in the game. I’d bet against it every single time.
....said the handsome guy. Nice it works for you bro ;)
You are SO right! It's not about outcome, it's about being comfortable with the process. When I struggle, I approach other guys and less attractive girls to get my comfort back.
I was like you 50 year ago... when I was young ! Those good old days are over for me...
Based content man. Mastering the art of talking to strangers, especially women has a ripple effect that helps with other aspects in life.
Thank you for the comments that are not full of copium. Stay hard
@realbenjaminseda
8 күн бұрын
Stay hard 🥇
A lot of good information to glean. I found out about #2 last night. Played out exactly the same, except I ended up just leaving. It was better for me.
My biggest fear is not beeing rejected, its rather that Im gonna be awkward and and just blocked in my brain to say anything and smile :(
Where is your black t-shirt from?
A friend of mine keeps telling me how daygame now is way different as it was 10 years ago with girls relying heavily on Instagram. I kept arguing with him about how it wasn't true. The natural courtship ritual will never die away regardless of the climate.
@B_Souza93
16 күн бұрын
Disagree. Back in the day women had limited options for dating, now they can literally meet anyone in the world. You might get a girl's Instagram and DM her, but you gonna be just a number adding up to her profile.
@OnderHassan
16 күн бұрын
@@B_Souza93 That mindset is why daygame is easier than it was 5 years ago when everyone was out on the streets doing it. Less guys on the streets now who don't know about Tom Torero, Nick Krauser or the London Daygame Model.
@jesusisking3814
12 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned and deserve punishment but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God bodily, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by shedding His blood on the cross. He died and rose from the dead so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace you must believe from your heart in Jesus Christ, that He paid the price for your sins, that He is risen and alive. Don't trust in your own goodness but transfer your trust to Jesus and follow Him, get to know Him personally. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Believe in Him, read the Bible and pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@fabianshaw_
12 күн бұрын
@@OnderHassan the ogs
@gaynzz6841
11 сағат бұрын
The cope is strong with this one
great content benjamin , love you man , this is reality
Is cold approach really the best
Would it be okay if I approached her at the gym?
Am successfully approaching women and getting numbers, but unfortunately am having difficulty keeping them and maintaining a relationship as am jobless, broke and unemployed... So for now I just had to quit cold approaching till I get my shit together, Jobs are really hard to come by here
@carlrav5660
19 күн бұрын
Where you at? I'm in ft worth...same issue
@mr.g1758
18 күн бұрын
Don't give up. Not your fault. We are fixing to have hard times.
@yorubamexico
14 күн бұрын
More or less the same to me, i have been always lucky when talk or try soemnthing with women even that im a little shy but the real problem comes when i try to do somenthing serious or somenthing to last, i cant have a long realation or somenhting memorable, that sucks
@jesusisking3814
12 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned and deserve punishment but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God bodily, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by shedding His blood on the cross. He died and rose from the dead so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace you must believe from your heart in Jesus Christ, that He paid the price for your sins, that He is risen and alive. Don't trust in your own goodness but transfer your trust to Jesus and follow Him, get to know Him personally. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Believe in Him, read the Bible and pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@edge-climber8540
6 күн бұрын
@@jesusisking3814 - Your comments are misplaced & your Theology is in error. "It is All finished" "Now You Must..." Contradicts. You misunderstand grace. Being born of the Spirit is Not a result of "Your faith" but the Cause of it. Rom 9:16-18; John 15:16, 1-Thes-2:13 etc
how many times did they mention their boyfriend in the first few seconds?
The guy approached more girls in a da than my entire life😂
It's just a numbers game.
@jesusisking3814
12 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned and deserve punishment but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God bodily, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by shedding His blood on the cross. He died and rose from the dead so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace you must believe from your heart in Jesus Christ, that He paid the price for your sins, that He is risen and alive. Don't trust in your own goodness but transfer your trust to Jesus and follow Him, get to know Him personally. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Believe in Him, read the Bible and pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@edge-climber8540
6 күн бұрын
@@jesusisking3814- Your comments are misplaced & your Theology is in error. "It is All finished" "Now You Must..." Contradicts. You misunderstand grace. Being born of the Spirit is Not a result of "Your faith" but the Cause of it. Rom 9:16-18; John 15:16, 1-Thes-2:13 etc
@davidking4838
3 күн бұрын
@@jesusisking3814 Have you ever thought to ask yourself why a person born to be a sinner should be punished for his sins? Should a fish be punished for swimming?
What does it feel like to feel nervous.
Many cities especially newer areas in the suburbs are not pedestrian friendly.
Need some ideas for getting my skin in the game.
Where you find these girls at? I go out during the day to cold approach and it takes me about an hour to find a pretty woman.
@kinnyg27
14 күн бұрын
@@Sagefrakrobatik Find the biggest city near you, take a walk DT
Damn, Bro Actually Spoke Facts 💯for 15 mins straight. Now I know the true meaning and reasons people Actually hire personal trainers.
You probably confirmed the odds of cold approach and you got the girls number -> date -> hookup. Congrats!
Where is the girl of the thumbnail?
What if work and career is low priority? You didn't seem to cover this :D
Did you get any numbers or just instagram
@kku6857
17 күн бұрын
I get numbers or fb, it doesn't matter
Keep up the good work
@e-mail881
7 күн бұрын
You are so lost that you have no clue about what 'good work' is, kiddo!
Make a video about approaching gurls to make them a very good friend not for dating
@RihannaBk-j3l
19 күн бұрын
Ya
@nickson7485
19 күн бұрын
Like making friends with anyone as an introvert and zero social skill
@carlrav5660
19 күн бұрын
Oh...I'm an expert at that lol
@moslimislam5714
19 күн бұрын
I need to hear this from a short fat balding dude. Not a tall fit good looking dude. The real challenge is to not be tall fit and good looking
@caiovinicius5204
17 күн бұрын
@@moslimislam5714the fit and good looking part are in your control.
Where did you get that long sleeved polo 😭
@realbenjaminseda
11 күн бұрын
Joe Merino
bro is the exact definition of "tall, dark, and handsome" and he's saying any guy can do it. let's see a manlet who never goes outside and has the build of a stick try and be this successful
Main Trick: practice with old people, men or women, doesn’t matter, compliment them on something/anything and once you are on a roll, throw one to your crush and begin a casual conversation.
@ZachOneil
5 күн бұрын
imagine fighting in WWII and having high blood pressure and some dude comes up to practice game on u
@gaynzz6841
11 сағат бұрын
@@ZachOneil 😂
Making women your top priority in life is foolish.
Just only for curiosity, how many rejections did You have during that 30day challenge? more or less..
@realbenjaminseda
9 күн бұрын
Prob like 50-100
how many of those 150 did you actually hook up with
@Shadowgrace760
18 күн бұрын
Probably 0. They never show themselves going out
@caiovinicius5204
17 күн бұрын
That's not the objective
@jesusisking3814
12 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned and deserve punishment but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God bodily, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by shedding His blood on the cross. He died and rose from the dead so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace you must believe from your heart in Jesus Christ, that He paid the price for your sins, that He is risen and alive. Don't trust in your own goodness but transfer your trust to Jesus and follow Him, get to know Him personally. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Believe in Him, read the Bible and pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@edge-climber8540
6 күн бұрын
@@jesusisking3814 - Your comments are misplaced & your Theology is in error. "It is All finished" "Now You Must..." Contradicts. You misunderstand grace. Being born of the Spirit is Not a result of "Your faith" but the Cause of it. Rom 9:16-18; John 15:16, 1-Thes-2:13 etc
@khaleb8340
Күн бұрын
Thats the data they never show. Success for me is at least going on a date with them, not getting their phone number: lots of them Will reject You later or Ghost You, or give You a fake number.
Stat away from absolutes-defying NOMADS!!!!!!
Tall Chad. I would of said no thank you
I see a tons of nice girls and to wanted to have one ... I wish to have a trophy girlfriend but my wife has a different opinion on that topic. I dont get that. Any advice ? ;)
please change the titles bro, your content actually has substance, the titles look like any generic clickbait video, love
@realbenjaminseda
18 күн бұрын
What would you title this?
@kostasntg4224
18 күн бұрын
@@realbenjaminseda I approached 150 in 30 days, this what I learned. (I know it’s literally rephrasing and i was coming from another of your videos which had a worse title, maybe ill look it up and give you an example)
@kostasntg4224
18 күн бұрын
“20 year old virgin picks up girl” (not sure i got it 100% right) kinda sounds like a porn title and definitely might get more clicks. I had been watching your content for a while now and recently came across your vids on this channel again. I think you give good advice but maybe more clickbaity titles attract people who dont necessarily fw you. Ive stuck around bcs of your personality and would even watch videos vlogs or related to business related topics while i eat. I usually associate these type of titles with “trashier” redpill content
the guy looks 8+ out of 10 but still says the right things.
Anyone can do this: You go over. Make a noise. She will go: "WTF?"
Do you just approach them for your videos sakes Or you're really on game with them ?
Easy for you to say Jimmy Garoppalo
I often asked, why do women have not a single channel like this? I mean, are we men supposed to be the only ones who add something to the table?
What was your longest relationship? Dating is one thing, what's the long term goal here?
Chad saying anyone can do it.
You seems iman gahdzi😂
I am a very average guy and i did something similar in the past. It was still a waste of time as i had to walk 1 or 2 hours per day to find the girls. But there were some results. I managed to f... 2 girls one of them became a relationship for 6 months. Success rate was 1 out of 30 so not so bad but i know it s difficult to do it honestly.
My only issue with women is I have been chasing mirages (digital women from Instagram and women who never existed or were imposters) than real women.
@CoachSteveJandS
13 күн бұрын
There's little risks of a catfish meeting out in person...
8:33 skin in the game
@realbenjaminseda
18 күн бұрын
Most important
Before you attempt to approach you probably should understand how you rank in the dating market. The more attractive the woman the tougher competition is. Are you in shape, are you well groomed, do you smell good and dress well? If you can’t say yes to all of those then go back to the drawing board or lower your standards
Bro i am 25 Indian i had one gf back in the year 2016 it lasted till 2017 end. Until then I am single. Am I too late or still can I make a comebcak.Actually my exams ,college and career pressure is massive high that's why I don't want to get involved into all these .I don't fear rejection I can easily approach girls
@antoinehoward9524
2 күн бұрын
Depends on the country you’re in. If it’s America you probably won’t have the best results if you have an Indian accent.
Again your height does give you a confident, what do you do when alot of hotties are taller than you, and shorties want someone much taller, what do short guys do? If but be confident; but when women give you bad reaction from the start, what do you do?
@itsmetheman_7790
14 күн бұрын
You keep it moving there are millions of chicks out there if one doesn't another will believe in yourself dude
@sidhaantnangia635
14 күн бұрын
Idk bro I was in Norway, everyone is just tall, broke me on the inside. Thinking of getting height surgery
@gooniusmaximus94
13 күн бұрын
How tall are you? I'm 5'10 and been to nordic countries and I was taller than most women
oh.. you have "clients "..
I wouldn't know where to find 150 girls.