I'm officially back. Going into the 30 day challenge in January, I was already dealing with months of health issues. Felt terrible throughout the whole challenge but pushed through and completed it. Funny enough, literally the day after I uploaded the final video and completed the challenge I got salmonella 😂 Was on and off dealing with health issues ever since. Also crypto absolutely exploded and I had some big wins in that department so was having fun taking time off from KZread. If you care about money right now, you should at the very least be paying attention to crypto right now. If you missed me while I was gone, you should follow me on IG as I was active there the whole time I was gone here. Excited to be back and already have a bunch of new videos filmed and ready to go. Anyways, let me know what you think of this style of video - definitely different than what I've done before. See you guys again very soon. - Benjamin

@legendbtv

2 ай бұрын

Honestly super impressed you stuck through because you believed enough that every man can cold approach when you felt like shit. Would never have guessed you felt awful. But hey man…. This was an excellent video and I am trying my best to hook my single friends on to this, because I found the woman of my dreams and they certainly can too!

@dabocousin

2 ай бұрын

Hope you get better boss

@ACE112ACE112

2 ай бұрын

fyi 99% of ppl lose in crypto. be careful out there

@ponokunishima1

Ай бұрын

Glad you’re feeling better bro and good to have you back.

@Abbotttdesign

Ай бұрын

In this video it seems you're being a poor mentor in order to demonstrate week points. Is that the case?

Claps for Sonjay. Shit's not easy!

@realbenjaminseda

2 ай бұрын

100%

@shashanknetikar541

2 ай бұрын

btw he's name is Sanjay

@Trafalgar_Law111

Ай бұрын

Indian guyyy​@@shashanknetikar541

@ponokunishima1

Ай бұрын

Nope, it’s not.

@IntegraDIY

Ай бұрын

it’s not easy when you are alone and spot someone attractive. it’s a lot more easy when you are with someone who has experience, being recorded and mic’d up 🎤. A lot of the anxiety goes away when it’s recorded.

He has the balls.. He just sounds like he's tipsy trying to act as sober as possible.

He approached more strangers in a day than I have in my lifetime

Bro this guy Sanjay got balls of steel. Approaching any living being without hesitation. Respect

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

I'm not sure about the living being part 💀

@rishabrege3479

22 сағат бұрын

That's the key - living being. Men put women on the level of goddesses then terrify themselves. Get out of your head. She isn't special.

Man…. The attention to detail in your coaching is spot on.

It shows how cold blooded and unfriendly women can be. Props to the guy for having the guts to do this.

Balls of steel...he approached more women in one day than I've approached in my life. That being said, the interactions were awkward and uncomfortable and a little hard to watch. Props for the effort and putting yourself out there.

I had to pause this vid a few times to digest the cringey parts. Then I realized: stomaching the cringe is what makes dudes good with women.

@ahmedhaiba-ng8dz

Ай бұрын

Meee tooooo bro i thought that im the only one

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

No, good looks does.

Him "I wanted to say hi" Her "I have a boyfriend" 💀

I watched your videos a lot in my high school days when you were still “based Zeus.” You helped me tremendously with approaches and just learning basic social skills, I can say I’m happily engaged because of the lessons you taught my younger self. I’ve even helped a few friends out with approaching girls, or just being social. You’re a hero that doesn’t wear a cape

Supermarket approach… “Hi… I haven’t made any dish with zucchini… do you have a fav zucchini recipe?” Or grab something and say a bit loudly “what the heck is this!? Do you know what this is and what dish can be made with it?” It really is so easy to approach PEOPLE…. Just act normal… say things that if some stranger approached you, you wouldn’t feel it’s weird.

14:31 you could really feel how his energy changed at this point which is why it worked out well imo

Sanjay, try not to apologize you come with complements and kind energy with the intent to make their day, not asking for direction! Great job on that last one and for grinding 👏👏👏

Finally you made a video 😭 after 4 months please continue this series. And take care of your health if you get sick again then we are not able to access these qualities and valueable videos on KZread

I would like to see more videos like. I think it teaches men how to actually approach, what to say, what not to say and overall make the conversation more natural.

Absolute banger of a video! Loved how you broke everything down. I saw a lot of myself in Sonjay. I am also 31 and have never had a long term relationship. This inspired me to get my physique in order + do more cold approaches.

Sonjay is the type of guy we all want to be! Get back up from rejection and go forward for the next. The majority of guys would block themselves after the first one.

We need part 2 of this!!

The last woman was interested in him and she was more mature with social interaction and she is studying that in college. All women can benefit from this college class.👏

"I used to work with a woman who didn't have much of a personality and I believe might of suffered from social anxiety, didn't do well in social situations She never had a problem getting boyfriends since she was cute/attractive, despite her "social awkwardness". Cases like that make me angry and pissed off because its a reminder that the reverse is normally not true, guys, men, who are described that way, will normally have a difficult time getting girlfriends, attracting women.

@p.e.3653

Ай бұрын

Getting mad over things like that is just weak, just put in the work

@initiatorhater0688

Ай бұрын

@@p.e.3653 yeah and men are the only gender that have to put in the work

@UserRobot215

Ай бұрын

The worst part is many women pretend or believe they have it just as hard as men in dating

@user-je8bd4mj7b

Ай бұрын

sore loser

@dusanstojsin4938

Ай бұрын

Guys have to be literally perfect in every aspect of life or die trying.

You make the best version of these videos on KZread. Just is real and simple

Big respect to him.

My G is back! lets go

Yessir! Lets go Sanjay!

I wouldn't ever joke about being a sociopath or anything along those lines ever

Need more of these type of videos!

I need to see more videos like this , thank you for the video. Hope that was a date afterwards

Very hopeful ending 🙂 Great video

I think greeting and talking with a smile makes it less awkward and just makes the words and the self feel more confident

he's got the right idea, but the self doubt shines brighter than any smile - he's practicing, that's good 👍 just remember, if you're willing to walk away, she's gonna get defensive and want more attention - sometimes less is more

The boy is back

Sonjay has balls, he knows what he want. He have is objective, is mission.

Itd that you add the blow outs to show the reality that its a numbers game and its about inner confidence keep it up 💪

I'm 100 percent sure everyone felt very excited n happy for Sanjay after his first success....kudos sanjay

Well done Sonjay🎉

His voice tonality is monotonous and robotic. Acting class would be helpful to him. His bravery is off the charts.

looks like the one that he finally 'got it right' is more of a chemistry thing, it looked to me that she was in the mood and he was also very much relaxed in her presence but it could also be after all other awkward interactions this felt like chillaxing

Listen, what I’ve experienced in these months while having cold interactions with women is that with those who have an average physique or aren’t as attractive, I have about a 30% ‘success rate’ for getting their Instagram or social media. But the more beautiful and attractive the girl is, it’s strange, but I have a higher percentage of ‘success.’ I’ve thought that maybe it’s because the prettier she is, the fewer men will approach her with confidence and ‘a pair of balls

@Lukasen

14 күн бұрын

This is true. Not many men have the courage to approach very attractive women, so fewer men approach them. This makes it easier for you to stand out by approaching them, which they often appreciate.

Great video, also interesting to see how other people do. Not an expert, but personally I don't think there's any point in exchanging names so early in the interaction. Better focus on more engaging stuff. Most people forget names super easily anyway. Also ending sentences with "or..." shows a lot of uncertainty/low confidence.

Asian dude got balls big up sonjay

Washington Square Park!!! 🌳🙌 one of the best parks in New York City!

I would say most guys need a guide on what to do on the actual date. As a 40+ y.o. virgin with 5-10 dates under his belt, I have had limited success getting the number, but it all falls apart on the actual date. Horribly awkward, never know what to say or how to keep a conversation flowing, yet I can chat, joke, and banter for hours with my male friends or even female friends where there is zero mutual sexual interest. Sometimes I think MGTOW is the way forward. I am so far behind the normal dating norms, and I was raised as a traditional, monogamous guy. Lost 80lb over the past year, and I'm trying to make up for lost time.

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

Don't try to make up for "lost time". As you try that, more time goes out of the window. Find something you really enjoy. I thought for 15 years that I needed a gf to be happy. Now in my 30s I'm finally cured. I realized I don't need a woman, love is fake, it's all a social construct, status symbols, and so on. Only I can make myself happy. NOBODY can do it for me.

it is hard but he is there, good job

He already has a lot of girls in the bag because he has balls, he is gonna succes for sure

How to improve one's confidence if you always receive "no"? It might improve after a "yes," but it is a vicious cycle.

Looks primarily>>>>>> for approaching like that But if you avg looks Try on your workplace, gym, any group, mutual friends and slowly slowly natural build connection, Their will be high chances But you can try on stranger Worst will be she say no 😅 But may be 10 out of 1 girl you build your connection

Yooo you are back?

Zeus AND Eminem back! This is crazy! What type of crypto to get into Zeus, tell us more! Bitcoin is in that 68-70K range but yeah if you got in earlier in the year back when it was 20, that would have been good for you glad to hear it man!

he sounds like a person on Xanax when approaching, just a bit of confident speech he would get far

And this is why cold approaches are better suited for extroverts. But yeah appreciate the video. That's a guy I would say is a pure introvert. All the other KZreadr who claim to be introverts is dubious.

@dusanstojsin4938

Ай бұрын

Cold approaches are best suited for 6'4 muscular white Gigachads. It doesn't matter what your personality is, women nowadays only want the top 1% men. It's brutal, but it's true, 63% of men in the US are single for a reason and I can guarantee you that it's not because of their personality, and that number is only gonna get higher.

@chingchingbling2145

Ай бұрын

​@@dusanstojsin4938Cold approaching is an utter waste of time today, and especially when done in this manner it's absolutely useless unless you are a GigaChad, because only a GigaChad is high value by default, therefore being the giver in the transaction. In every other case, you are no different than a street beggar asking for change. In the original mystery method, you don't even approach the target directly. In fact, you don't even give the idea that you are approaching them for the sake of getting to know them; everything is done obliquely where you build status around the target and get them to chase you instead.

@orianogiorgetti6459

16 күн бұрын

@@dusanstojsin4938 If you are an ugly, poor man, will any of this work? I have some doubts. You can be good and know how to do things, but if she doesn't like you aesthetically and you have a menial job, you won't get far with women.

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

@@dusanstojsin4938 Based.

Someone should be coaching women on how to communicate with men, if ur not interested in him, don't destroy his confidence for the next woman he approaches. If women think it's so easy to approach and risk rejection, then why don't they do it.!

Because they rather be with a bear

Great video .

One of the many reasons why i don't approach. Shit's brutal.

In the beginning I was like this guy is cooked but he’s got balls to approach and he was getting a lot better every interaction

@KaushikBala333

Ай бұрын

He is a 9 to start with.

You need to find it in yourself to genuinely be interested in getting to know them in a brief amount of time, then you should be the one to cut it short and ask for their number to hang out some time.

The smiths, New York 500 days of summer run!!!

He sounds too monotone.

You can just barely see me, but im actually sitting way off in the background in the first shot 😂

@10ksubsnovids

Ай бұрын

Lmao what are u wearing?

Can you do a vid with someone who is already good? To see how you can get better when you don't struggle with flowing a convo but maybe still struggle to '' close the book''

@theowlfromduolingo7982

2 ай бұрын

This is not the point of this video. Sometimes it’s best to see the mistakes that others do to improve yourself. He actually published around 30 videos with different scenarios.

11:15 skateboarder dude looks exactly the same as him!

@howardliu2293

7 күн бұрын

And he got my full attention at that moment LOL

Hey Benjamin, I've been watching your videos for a while and I did my first approach (two girls) an hour ago. I know you have said before asking for directions is ineffective as you're just wasting their time, but it's what I did. I proceeded to ask where they were from and we had small talk for a minute about travels and stuff, like you do in your videos all the time, but didn't ask for the number. It feels a bridge too far, for now I feel like I have to get used to talking to girls without having the 'number goal' in mind.

He should have said " The Smiths? I Iove The Smiths"

why blur his face, when u reveled it in your thumbnail lol??

@sparkle4211

2 ай бұрын

He generates face with AI for thumbnails

@Boe3

Ай бұрын

@@sparkle4211right cuz if that was really his face he would’ve got more numbers I was confused at first 😂

@Shadowgrace760

Ай бұрын

Probably because it’s a paid actor. Don’t believe any of these dating gurus

@chingchingbling2145

Ай бұрын

The thumbnail guy is like a Chadpreet lol, this guy is probably not.

Can you get women while unemployed

Not sonjay ❌ he is Sanjay indian 🫀

"wasted" 💀💀

Bro just needs to shown his masculinity and it'll be easy...he was kinda insecure too

Was that a Latina Jennifer Garner in the thumbnail?

How to pick up girls rule number 1: Be attractive

@ShfallerkaeFerkes

Ай бұрын

Maybe he was

@orianogiorgetti6459

16 күн бұрын

But if you are an ugly, poor man, will any of this work? I have some doubts. You can be good and know how to do things, but if she doesn't like you aesthetically and you have a menial job, you won't get far with women.

I’m not a fan of immediately trying to shake their hand. What do you think?

14:32 - the moment she asks You a question is Game on, she is in. All you need to do is lead and DON"T fuck it up. :)

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

Yeah and he ignored her question 💀

So what's the 3 second rule that the thumbnail talks about

@comicrandomness3289

Ай бұрын

He talked about it. His body language is not committed. He doesn't say anything about eye contact but pretty much stare at her eyes for more than 3 seconds. You've got to appear committed.

just go gym and lift heavy, earn money and do a lil bit of show off, be confident and care a lil bit and thats enough

Humans are unpredictable

@comicrandomness3289

Ай бұрын

Isn't that what makes us fun?

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

Unpredictable? Literally 90% of all girls say "I have a boyfriend". That's predictable af.

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

Repeating "I have a boyfriend" over and over is not unpredictable. It's quite predictable.

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

Humans are the most predictable species ever. Thousands of years of history and everything is the same.

this shits hard, and sounds and looks way too exhausting. can't do it

@InglesFilm

Ай бұрын

That’s the reason why you can’t do it

Central Park Place full of tourist and hardly and single girls

Great job. Two things that helped me also 1) Start off short conversations with no intention of getting numbers so there is less pressure on you so that you can focus more on your tonality rather than making conversation. 2) open the conversation with some random question like "Is that dog yours?" or "What book are you reading". Its a lot less awkward for both of you than commenting on appearances and it allows the conversation to flow better and opens the door for humor

He is also Indian like me , I can understand how he suffers like most of the Indian men. 😢

The platform you're posting videos is that of introverts also, and you're depreciating them in their own arena. Just see extroverts, what they did throughout their lives, bang some of them and live like they achieved something worthwhile and great, until 30s kick in and you gotta earn money and all that to get ahead in life. Most of the unemployed are actually extroverts and the high earners are introverts, I can say you from my experience, kindly teach people to earn money and all that rather than this bs. Because you can do a lot of things by money, you can travel, you can taste, you can go to every restaurant you want etc. There are lot of things to be done with money, but having a girl for some time is just a liability, as I have had that. They are just like another tension that we need to get in touch, we need to talk, we need to meet, call etc. That is too much of a headache, On the other hand, My parents are struggling to earn money, And then i decided to go all in career and achieve something worth. They will tell you are working too much and you need to slow down a bit. Because most of them are spoiled brats who haven't done anything in life and thus doesn't have aims in life.

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

Hats off for this comment! You are so right!

@ss2616

Күн бұрын

Absolutely!

This is no good with the blurred images. Not worth watching

cringe, showing his face would increase his chances

ohhhhhhhhhhh dang

I think his tone of voice is downward which makes it boring, he should try to end sentences with higher note

Introvert or not, there's nothing natural about cold approaching women. If you're treating meeting women like a numbers game, and have such a bad social life that you can't find activities, classes, events etc to attend where you meet people in a natural way, then hanging out in public and waiting to target the first attractive woman you see and randomly walking up and telling her she looks good or you wanted to come and say hi, then no amount of pick up training is going to help.

Bro, this is not work. It is picking up girls. What kinda girl will like a humble nice guy? Duh!

Now try teaching him how to get girls to come on to him. Oh, wait, PUA has no clue how to do that. They can't progress beyond begging for attention.

the social animal?

I respect him very much for approaching women and that even in groups. But he talks like arobot, that’s his biggest flaw. He told some banger jokes but he is telling them too dry

Is he of Indian origin?

@realbenjaminseda

2 ай бұрын

Tes

@saadaqeel9437

Ай бұрын

you really have to ask that for a guy named "Sanjay"? 😂

This is such bull. Going up to a woman in a park without much of a reason is creepy as hell. It doesnt matter how good his phrases were, he would have still got rejection and a instagram. A much better place is a cafe, sports club, musem or place where this is a mutual interest.

Currycel

No diddy

His word choice is crucial. Say want to watch instead of wanted to. I think ur pretty instead of I thought you looked pretty. Instead of asking questions turn them into declarative statements. You’re local aren’t you. You’re not from around here. You look like a Brenda.

@dontpraiseme

26 күн бұрын

*I want to say hi. Instead if I wanted to say hi. Big difference

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

What's crucial is his looks, and his height. Everything else doesn't matter.

Let's face it, Sanjay comes across as creepy.

I guess I'm just lucky because I've NEVER approached women, they approached me all my life. I'm not rich or exceedingly attractive. It never seemed to matter. I'm 57 btw and it is most often the younger women that approach.

@gaynzz6841

9 күн бұрын

"I'm not exceedingly attractive" dude, if you get approached by women you are a Chad. Like in the top 10% at least. Most men never get approached once in their entire lives.

First of couple of interaction was cringe 😅

Go

Missing Based Zeus .... sanjay 🗑️🚮