Omg this was so triggering im mad 😂 when you truly been cheated on and a pregnancy is involved it is the worst feeling ever it truly have you questioning you ! I remember feeling that 😮‍💨

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

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@mphomaseko9226

13 күн бұрын

Your story is similar to mine I often ask myself whether I will heal and be at peace

I love your videos it gives big sister vibes or a cool Godly homegirl vibe ❤ all your topics are so relatable to me 🫶🏽

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much!! 🩷🩷

You are such a brilliant storyteller that the trauma wounds resonate with me

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

Thank you! 🩷🩷 praying for healing 🙏🏽

Thanks for sharing! I needed this after discovering a friend backstabbing me by seeing a guy I talked to for over a year behind my back. And when I found out about them lying and cheating; she lied to mutual friends and others and portrayed herself as the victim. I don't think the cheating hurt as much as it was her and she was my only confidant when I dealt with him. She knew my secrets and I really thought she was my friend only to realize I was dealing with a snake the entire time. My trust is at an all time low after dealing with them both. He's a narcissist and she's just a snake. To experience that back to back has really changed the innocence and invigoration I once had about life. It doesn't help they're off in the wind without a care in the world while my heart breaks and the trauma just really takes me down. I'm definitely much better than I used to be; but it still hurts to my core.

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

Healing takes time! Thank you for sharing 🩷🙏🏽

I loved this. Very similar to my story as well & it’s funny how describing how these experiences wound you sound “dramatic” to other people. It really does alter how you see people and relationships. But love the outcome and wisdom from your story 🥳❤

Great topic, Thank you for sharing.

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14 күн бұрын

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Yes! That being needy to go through their phone is speaking to you for a reason!! Heed to it!!

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

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So good love the practical tools you give to apply so we can be loved well such a sense of Hope ! ❤

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

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I’m new to your podcast! I love it!

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

Yay! Thank you!🩷

“Transparency is allowing you to see what I want you to see. Vulnerability is allowing you to see what could hurt me.”

Hi Nona, I absolutely love your podcast ❤ Now, I just wanted to ask you what can I do to heal after separating from my Narcissistic abusive husband?

Yes I went through this in a relationship for 7 years, ignoring all red flags, boy how broken I was to accept such treatment, at 66 no more

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

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This!!!!😢

How long did it take you to stop thinking about what happened daily ?

@1QYITSTORM

14 күн бұрын

I know! It’s tormenting thoughts that continuously replay in your mind. I become more tick’d off at myself, thinking how did I miss that. I feel foolish at times

@R-rb1hb

14 күн бұрын

@@1QYITSTORM absolutely ! I’ve almost been out for 1 year but I still think about it daily, the intensity is not as strong, but I’m ready to never think of it.

@1QYITSTORM

14 күн бұрын

I’m praying my way through, it took me diving deep focusing on Gods words to keep me from cutting his stomach open. I didn’t go looking for cheating evidence it found me. I felt like a fool and I wanted revenge, opened Gods word and the page literally read vengeance is mine! I screamed my voice into a hoarse state. It took God to pull me out, I couldn’t do it on my own strength.

@lasheasimmonspogge2435

13 күн бұрын

When you are healed you remember but the trauma and hurt is not longer with it. I knew I forgave my ex when I saw him once, and didn't feel anything and I pray for, and feel sorry for his now wife.

Christina Howe in Vernon loves Vernon rehab n nursing

This took me straight back to when I was in the Air Force, stationed in Germany in the 80s. Then, I was so needy and wanting SOMEONE to validate me and fill that big gap lodged in my soul, I fell for a lot of ropey dope. I remember this one dude. He might’ve given me a hint that he liked me and I ran with it. I can see his face right now. This one day I must’ve called him a hundred times. Never picked up the phone. Then the male and female barracks weren’t that far from each other, separated by a locked door. Finally, after sitting on the bed, listening to ring after ring, I walked over the male dorm. I remember knocking on the door, in the middle of it was a glass window. Knocked. Someone told him I was out there. He came to the window, touching his heart, saying his grandmother was sick. That was the reason he didn’t answer my calls or reach out to me. I was devastated. Another blow. I could imagine him walking from his room to the door, saying‘I gotta get rid of this nut.’ He used his grandmother as an excuse. 😩😩 From then on until NOW, I’ve embarked on a journey to self, intertwined with ‘ why haven’t I found that ONE?’ Because of that experience, amongst others, I’ve begun a ministry of writing letters of inspiration to prisoners and penpals across the world. I do this because I don’t want anyone waiting by a phone or a mailbox for a letter of encouragement or inspiration or something to boost their day. Pain can be a prison or a school. NOW, I choose the latter. Thank you Lady Nona for this episode ❤

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

Praying for total healing through this journey! Thank you for sharing 🩷🩷

@donotwastetime

14 күн бұрын

@@NonaNotNora thank you Lady Nona. The healing has started. Now that I know who I am in GOD’s eyes, my spine is straight, my heart is full.

@mandeeqahmed9225

13 күн бұрын

​@@donotwastetime❤

@donotwastetime

12 күн бұрын

Thank you for sentiments🤩

Mild trigger...but does that mean I still have not truly forgiven 🤔

@NonaNotNora

14 күн бұрын

Healing takes time 🩷