Im going to start today. Ik ny issues i just not ready to deal with them.. but cant keep waiting

@Tojobtv

3 ай бұрын

I pray you still clean

@Spin1968

17 күн бұрын

You still clean g?

@Spin1968

5 күн бұрын

@reek459 Its ok! You can do this!!!

Amen

Confliction and Amirance`

Not Alcohol We are powerless over our addiction

I'm seriously trying to quit KZread (!) Good luck on your journey!

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Hay ❤ i love na pogram❤❤❤❤❤ like your 12.step motevison

So I have a question. My bf is in a 10 month program. He's been there 4 months? Appears to be a really good program. He was all hearts and flowers for two months until he started going into the forgiveness letter stage. I dont think they are using the traditional 12 steps. He's in some program sponsored by a local bible college. But the program has elements of the steps. He's been an addict for his entire adult life. He is 49. I'm sure he has alot of letters to write. But he's backed way way off. Is the process of seeking forgiveness and making amends overwhelming for the addict? He says he has to focus completely on that and can't write me for while. His words were, " this has to happen." Is this legit or am I probably about to get dumped? No more I live yours. No more " I can't wait to see you" no emotion at all and I waited a month for his last letter. I really don't know if I should even write him anymore.

@cycleofgrowth3202

6 ай бұрын

Sadly he has been indoctrinated into a cult. I hope your relationship works out. The program has broken apart many a relationship that don't entirely see eye to eye on certain things. I'm so sorry!

@crobinson9165

6 ай бұрын

@cycleofgrowth3202 My hands are tied. If I interfere, I interrupt his program. They have a pretty good success rate. If he had stayed on drugs he'd of died. His habit was out of hand and his suppliers were using him up. The people he hung with die off pretty quick. The cops pulled me over two or three times after he disapeared and even showed up at my house. I'm pretty sure he was about to get busted

@TMK2742

Ай бұрын

The whole program is based on bilble ! If he truly loves u then yea he will be forever with u ! Recovery means complete change in behaviour ! Dear lady your bf was love with on addiction (drugs) not u ! So if he get stays to you means yes he loves u more then anything ! Actually we men are 10 times further then a women we just never show it !

Christ is the answer to all things.

CHRIST CONQUERS ALL

How do you make amends to yourself when you're the main person you have hurt

@mariesalas4575

10 ай бұрын

Ask God to forgive you repent from your choices that harmed you and others . Ask God to help you forgive yourself and last but not least take it day by day . God bless you I believe in you ! Sometimes all we need is a confirmation from God to help us realize everything can change ! Much love Josh You are Gods son , created for a purpose and with a purpose ! You got this !

@Spin1968

8 ай бұрын

Pray to your higher power and realize you have a disease. Forgive yourself by helping others. Remember, you can't keep it unless you give it away! God bless!!

@janinemaldonado336

5 ай бұрын

Listen to Dr Jordan Peterson about the alcohol and also his lectures they will change your life around, he has 12 rules for life to read. Its a great start turned my world around . I'm a 56 yo grandma it can happen any age in life to see .@@mariesalas4575

@InChristWeTrust999

18 күн бұрын

@@Spin1968 ‘your higher power’ There’s only one higher power. Please don’t confuse people. Just say ‘God’ in the future. When you say new-age jargon like that you’re leading people to believe there’s more than one God. Jesus said ‘I am THE way, THE truth and THE life. Nobody comes to The Father except through me’. He didn’t say ‘I am A way, A truth and A life’. He said ‘the’. There’s only one way to Heaven. I’m not trying to be harsh, but our words carry weight and we need to be extra careful with how we word things when it comes to spirituality.

@Spin1968

18 күн бұрын

@InChristWeTrust999 As a fisher of men, Intitially the concept of a higher power is a great starting point, also used to communicate with addicts in early recovery who are hesitant of religion.

Mashallah

Dead or in jail?

So if u don't believe in God this 12 step doesn't apply? This should be rewritten

@BirdhouseMMA

3 ай бұрын

If they re wrote this without God it wouldn’t work. I’m sorry you don’t want to hear that, but it’s true.

@johncurtis6988

3 ай бұрын

@BirdhouseMMA nah. Go look at Russell brands version. Just as impactful.

The problem of the twelve steps program is that it will make u a slave again but not for the addiction but for the twelve steps . U need to holy tghe program and u need to keep going there ur whole life . And that's is very despaired.

@Spin1968

18 күн бұрын

So it's better to stay DRUNK?😅

@Ocean123-wf3cg

17 күн бұрын

I am not an alcoholic and i have seen many people (some of them are my friends) beating addiction on their own . I did not agree with the twelve steps approach but i still see it very unique

@Spin1968

17 күн бұрын

@Ocean123-wf3cg Great 12 step program. I have known many with decades of sobriety! It works if you work it!

@Ocean123-wf3cg

17 күн бұрын

I don't know why it's so hard for the people who believe in the twelve steps to admit that their program doesn't work for everybody . The program always say stay away from being selfish while the program on it's own is very selfish system because the program always claims "i am the only way and if u tried another way u are in denial " And that's too much funny honestly ! I wish u the best anyway 🖤

@Spin1968

17 күн бұрын

@@Ocean123-wf3cg Nothing works for everyone ! Stop ✋️ the BS.