I edited this comment so you wont know why it has so many likes

@juliakocher1829

4 жыл бұрын

😂 thank you for making my day

@arunjoy7036

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyyye

@OCPDesigns

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyyyyee

@sewingfrankly7497

4 жыл бұрын

ayyyyyy

@Elhastezy888

4 жыл бұрын

UGH!!! soOo clever ^ :-p luv the super clever comments the most

official Aye count: 13 official Cool count: 50

@flaviagiuffra1035

4 жыл бұрын

U ju uh guy you uh uh

@moisesdiazmartin

4 жыл бұрын

I didn't think I needed to know that information... grateful that I know now! ayeee

@imid3440

4 жыл бұрын

the lords work

@puffdaddy_6969

4 жыл бұрын

Ayeeee!

@yellownotsus7538

4 жыл бұрын

Wow you waste your time for masterpiece.

The ace representation is off the charts -ayy -cool -noice -high fives -awkward as hell but trying to have a good time amazing.

@HoneyxBee-yw7lw

4 жыл бұрын

Five* sorry but pretty much yeah

@CoolPikachu

4 жыл бұрын

Didn't know this was considered an ace thing, but I'm ace and...wow I say all three of those on a regular basis xD

@pinkphoenixvids

4 жыл бұрын

Not everyone who is ace is like this though, that's just the stereotype I feel (I'm ace myself haha)

@m0r614

4 жыл бұрын

Ok, but so true for me....

@izzy350

4 жыл бұрын

CoolPikachu RIGHT 😂😂

"ayyyy" is officially asexual culture

@sammyisqueer8628

4 жыл бұрын

suddenly we´re not asexual, we´re ayyysexual

@dbfamily9272

4 жыл бұрын

ayyyy

@tamia4907

4 жыл бұрын

yeah its law now

@GlitterGhoul

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyyyy

@mariano17swan

4 жыл бұрын

No, it's officially Canadian culture

everyone's talking about 'ayyye' and 'cool', but we're all forgetting about 'noice'

@IrinaCupsa14

4 жыл бұрын

That's a brooklyn 99 ref for sure

@Atomicqueen9

4 жыл бұрын

Yess!!

@milkmilk2485

4 жыл бұрын

cool cool cool cool cool

@justellie3056

4 жыл бұрын

NINE-NINE! ❤️❤️

@2to5Raccoons

4 жыл бұрын

Ok, but why do words match our sexualities so well? I'm Ace Aro and I use all those words all the time. Even the specific pronunciation of noice

"You wanna marry me?" "Ayyyyye!" "Oh, cool."

When she said “picky as in terrified” ... I felt that

@savbon195

4 жыл бұрын

They* oops

@ginandromeda1618

4 жыл бұрын

If they identify as both nb and woman, I think they would go by more than one pronoun.

@erialccrasher970

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate,when you're terrified on something you're not really that I to trying things easily.

@mydee1

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I felt exposed by it

@redacted5078

4 жыл бұрын

Accuracy at its finest

No one: Me: Them: “Eyyyy”. “Oh Cool”

@gracetrask1522

4 жыл бұрын

I hated it

@HoneyxBee-yw7lw

4 жыл бұрын

Grace Trask okay

@imleilani1314

4 жыл бұрын

thanks, i hate it

Why do their names together sound like an expensive clothing brand in New York? Heather & Bethany Collection.

@alleycarter6286

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@billieeilishx3792

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god hahah :D

@jengilman3476

4 жыл бұрын

It doesn’t...........

@user-mc6sm6pm4m

4 жыл бұрын

Omg I thought the same 😍

@Meimoons

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂 It does!

Both: "I would date you" Both also: high five

@ametsbb2814

4 жыл бұрын

I found that so cool

@chickensoup3301

4 жыл бұрын

Ace culture

Still waiting for the day when they guess someone’s name right

@tivianengel7789

4 жыл бұрын

R. H. If they would guess Mine I would be so creeped out I’M the only one in the world with my name

@hettyfox

4 жыл бұрын

Tivian Engel that’s cool

@MT-ry8gv

4 жыл бұрын

Tivian Engel thats not right. 7 people in the world have your name. And a company is named tivian.

@myvisualdiares

4 жыл бұрын

Get two Tibetans there, there’s like 90% that the name is “Tenzin” or “Tsering” 😂

@ivymoody4238

4 жыл бұрын

@@tivianengel7789 I would also be surprised to find someone with the same name as me, my name is Ivyann and if I do find one(I did, my old math teachers niece but it's was with an e and was hyphenated) I would expect it to be hyphenated, my parents litterelly just smashed two names together cus they couldn't decide

As an asexual I can confirm that I do in fact say “cool”, “noice”, and “ayy” quite regularly

@xkayelz

4 жыл бұрын

Carolyn H. I guess we are all different, I stay quiet all day and I don’t say cool or noice

@delusionaloctopus5857

4 жыл бұрын

Carolyn H same here 😔

@Z1ng1s

4 жыл бұрын

You must hate your life...

@rivyrmoon7571

4 жыл бұрын

Yass same

@pluto3194

4 жыл бұрын

I go for the classic "niiiice"

She actually does kind of look like a "Lavender."

THE GREATEST STORY EVER TOLD IS AVATAR THE LAST AIRBENDER SHE'S SO RIGHT

@purplepotato8938

4 жыл бұрын

Heeeeellllll yeah

@Zelda00Gamer

4 жыл бұрын

Crocoshark oh my god I said Yes out loud too and clapped lol

@heathermurielnguyen9501

4 жыл бұрын

YAS

@shotaaizawa1320

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyyy

@salemisarat3469

3 жыл бұрын

FORREAL

Cool. Cool. Ayyyyy. Cool. Ayyyyy. Cool.

@mariapaz6379

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyyyy.

@charlesmuneri

4 жыл бұрын

So cool

@kjbrbl8724

4 жыл бұрын

cool

@whatcolorjunebug

4 жыл бұрын

noice

@justmart4455

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyyy

I dont think Heather's little "ayes" would be as awkward if Bethany didnt imitate her lol

@JeanPaulBeaubier

4 жыл бұрын

she's not imitating, she's echoing. Ayys are meant to be parroted back 😔

@queerlybee

4 жыл бұрын

@@JeanPaulBeaubier oh! I guess I didn't know. And I didnt think she was doing it to be mean or anything - it just made it more awkward because it called out how many times she said it in the one interview. Either way I think they're adorable 🤷🏻‍♀️

@savbon195

4 жыл бұрын

No, I think it makes it soooo much less awkward. I think it was really cute that they did the same thing

@kissthemessenger

4 жыл бұрын

that plus the death stare bethany gives when repeating it back lmao

@roebearwhat

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's an American thing bc I thought it was really awkward too?

Even if they didn't go out I think they'd be really good friends

Am I dreaming? They're representing us "asexuals" 😍.

@gracemangum

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so here for it!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼♠️

@Haililibunnie

4 жыл бұрын

Right!?!😭😭

@THEISAAC1593

4 жыл бұрын

I literally thought the same thing ❤

@Katiec6597

4 жыл бұрын

Me tooooo!!! Join the ace groups on fb. All exist. Amaze

@weirdperson4145

4 жыл бұрын

Finally

I love how awkward their chemistry was. Heheh. Two awkward people coming together 😂 ACE representation! Yayay! ♠🏳‍🌈

ITS MEEEEE IM ASEXUAL. MY PEOPLE. MY COMMUNITY. I’m happy we are being shown. Thank you so much

@redacted5078

4 жыл бұрын

IKR

@halleys.comett

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss much love

“Yeah I get like *feelings*” “That’s valid”

Ok but saying that they want their cat to play them is very in character for someone who would cosplay Luna

@ravioliravioli118

4 жыл бұрын

Yessssss

@alegria1813

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr

I've never felt so seen as an ace person who is romantically attracted to multiple genders *and* has a really complicated relationship with religion. I love seeing their energy together lol

@rilla5058

3 жыл бұрын

same tho

aw they are both so sweeet! the way they carry themselves is cute.

This was the most awkward thing I’ve ever watched but I didn’t stop watching it

They’re super cute but I cringe when they say “aye”....

@cristinavalan7152

4 жыл бұрын

I cringed so hard lol

@halloweenallyearround4889

4 жыл бұрын

I found it cute :) They are both awesome

@Loralis_

4 жыл бұрын

Me too.. me too..

@fantasykay9620

4 жыл бұрын

They our both nervous 😂 it happens lol

@ginabelle7

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I wanted them to stop that immediately. It was so awkward. 😩😂

this is coming from a bisexual Christian: any “Christian” who treats anybody as less than them or does horrible things to someone because of who they are or says terrible things about people for the simplest things, THEY ARE NOT PORTRAYING GOD!!! I cannot stress this enough!! God says to treat your neighbor as you would treat yourself, treat everybody with love and kindness and to never judge anybody. Just know no matter who you are, whether you’re gay, white, transgender, atheist, whatever, then there is literally nothing you can do to make God love you any more or any less. He loves everyone equally and he loves everyone as much as he can. God bless💛

@Traumatised311

4 жыл бұрын

Aww youre a good religious peolle we need more christians like you, but we just have a bunch of assholes who bully otherz who claim to be christians

@oliviahughes3883

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! This means so much to so many people, keep bringing good to the world.

@joypomeroy1452

4 жыл бұрын

Lol "white" isn't looked down on by Christians

@carelessdreamer

4 жыл бұрын

Joy Pomeroy Same that threw me off. I was like “aww... how swe- wait what?”

I’ve never seen so many facial expressions in one video

@ANA_youre_enough

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Solano it was all over the board with them 🤓😳🙄

@mysteriousme3006

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

"picky as in terrified" lol same here girl

Their reactions to each other talking is like... idk unsettling but cute cute

@kaylahgreen5080

4 жыл бұрын

Like the other will just completely shut down or have dramatic reactions

Dianne from Bojack Horseman is also a Vietnamese ghost writer

@Snorlaxxll

4 жыл бұрын

I was gonna say!!!

@katyhill4345

4 жыл бұрын

Thats what I was thinking!!!

@soucriant3035

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I thought!!

@giuliapinto8067

4 жыл бұрын

yes yes yes!

@redacted5078

4 жыл бұрын

And BoJack Horseman also has ace representation. Im seing a pattern

Thank you so much for asexuality visibility on this channel 🖤

Heather: Ayy Bethany: Ayy Me: Aww

@shotaaizawa1320

4 жыл бұрын

Ayyy

@magdalenajaworska7476

4 жыл бұрын

@@shotaaizawa1320 Ayyy

@reynhacoezy5510

4 жыл бұрын

Noice

drinking game: every time heather say “ayyeee”, “cool”, or when she clearly doesn’t know something but tries to understand and continue the conversation anyways. love them both, so sweet and awkward and geeky, but such great conversations. i think they had some of the best “tell my story” conversations.

Good job soul pancake for putting them together

"Why'd you say yes?" "Because aaaaaye!"

Other than the “eyy” and “cool” every five seconds, I enjoyed the asexuality chat and felt really seen.

It was awkward but still cute

Heather is insanely beautiful and seems so sweet and cool!

@alfonsojhamila8591

4 жыл бұрын

Oh cool!!

@mayanaja2630

4 жыл бұрын

cool.

@Misanthr6py

4 жыл бұрын

Eyyyy

@kittenkong3135

4 жыл бұрын

Noice

@MsXenyy1

4 жыл бұрын

Heheheh

When she said the greatest story ever told was avatar the last airbender I felt that 😭

I love how dorky they both are. They are like a weird accidental match made in heaven.

Take a shot every AYE

@laferiousdequarius1636

4 жыл бұрын

I’m down I’ll tell you how it goes

@Dylan-ni9my

4 жыл бұрын

Liver failure.

@emilyw7917

4 жыл бұрын

I was down until about 15:05. Don’t wanna die cus I have to feed my cat

@imsilvur7045

4 жыл бұрын

I aint tryna get alcohol poisoning

@JackOfAllTrades0404

4 жыл бұрын

No because I value my life

No hate genuine question- how can somebody be a non binary woman? I thought the whole point of being NB was that you don’t identify with either gender.. feel free to explain tho I’d love to understand!

@Nejem

4 жыл бұрын

i guess she is maybe connected to her physical body that is (genetically) female, so non-binary (gender) woman (sex) is something that she connects with too? i'm agender (falls under non-binary), so it's just my take on it.

@roxannemoe8512

4 жыл бұрын

Nejem ahh interesting perspective

@brittanysmith3716

4 жыл бұрын

I think she’s just confused 🤷🏻‍♀️ we can safely say she’s biologically a woman.

@riley3984

4 жыл бұрын

It's in the realm of "demigirl" if you're familiar with that term. I know people who identify as nonbinary women and to them it's either that they partially identify as a girl and partially not, or that they identify as agender but align themselves with womanhood. It depends on the person, but I know a lot of people who identify this way would technically describe themselves as "woman-aligned" but saying "i'm a woman-aligned nonbinary person" is quite the mouthful so people often default to "nonbinary woman." I know a lot of lesbians who consider themselves nonbinary women or "woman-aligned" because the complexities of being a lesbian in a society with a very rigid view of what a woman is creates this strong sense of alienation, and saying you're a "nonbinary woman" is a simpler way to make sense of that for yourself and also for others. Nonbinary is an umbrella term, and while some people do identify as nonbinary, plain and simple, it's still an umbrella term in that a lot of different identities and experiences fall under it. It's not just a third gender, it's a term to encompass the large amount of complexities that exist. "Agender" (on its own) is a common term used when you don't identify with men or women. Hope this helped! If you have more questions lmk :)

@romancrowley1467

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a trans man but a lot of my world view was shaped by my social experiences as a woman. I think a lot of non binary men and women like to hold on to that part of the identity that has shaped them even though they don't feel particularly that specific gender

How Bethany goes from laughing to an absolutely straight face kind of scares me ngl

@lauren-ww1ip

4 жыл бұрын

That can happen because of anxiety or nervousness and wanting to keep up with the conversation. It's happened to me, like I can feel it happening and know it looks weird but it can be hard to stop it.

@carelessdreamer

4 жыл бұрын

lauren I do it constantly and it’s definitely anxiety.

I absolutely adored this. It was so lovely to see ace representation, and both two such beautiful human beings. This was the best one yet, desperate for an update!

Their chemistry!! This was one of the most wholesome videos I've ever seen; I hope this plays out well for the two of them.

They are awkwardly cute ☺️❤️

“I’m from San Jose” Rest of the video- “Ayyyy cool”. Yup, definitely from the Bay lol.

@hellaSwankkyToo

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO! i was scrolling trying to figure out if anyone else was gonna realize the “ayyyye” thing is cause Bay Area [most likely]. hahaha love it. i felt seen.

@kookoo4pandas

4 жыл бұрын

Fosho!

It's nice to see two aces working in the entertainment industry. It's such a sexualised industry and as an actor myself it's nice to see.

This was so wholesome such lovely ace representation.

I'm asexual and my favorite movie is also "Howl's Moving Castle"!

@crowspears3265

3 жыл бұрын

Doctor Who? 👀

They seem so geeky I want to hang with them 😍😍😍

@wangxian_

4 жыл бұрын

SAME

@FoxyCurls66

4 жыл бұрын

Bethany is my best friend from college and I can confirm that she’s the best. Most supportive friend.

no one: me:SHE SAID THE LAST AIRBENDER OML YASSSS IM IN LOVE OKAY HELP ME AHHHH

@Fmradio803

4 жыл бұрын

Khushi Dodhia ME TOO

@amandaoroberts

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@queenkatara7861

4 жыл бұрын

When she talked about avatar I’m like “hi I’ve been summoned.”

@pedrosenchez5622

4 жыл бұрын

Yes that was the best answer 😃

@marley7659

4 жыл бұрын

I was more excited when heather replied with howl's moving castle.

This is cute, i always get anxious when i watch these though because im kinda socially awkward and i get worried that they will be awkward too. It is a little awkward cause its a unique situation but they handled it really well

@knest3425

4 жыл бұрын

Gracie same😂 i feel so awkward now that I watch the video

i’m 5 minutes in and i already want them married

The blond one looks like that woman from parent trap

@kiedjunickyyoon1188

4 жыл бұрын

Meredith Blake?😂

@cookiekhoala

4 жыл бұрын

It's the teeth

@natpoma

4 жыл бұрын

My thought exactly!!

@ivym3969

4 жыл бұрын

hell in That is the woman from “Parent Trap.” 😒😒

@ivym3969

4 жыл бұрын

Rachel Edinger Was joking !

They both have such a good sense of aesetics and style, they seem so fun and interesting! I would love to be friends with these two.

I’m so glad they’re actually even discussing us on a platform like this. Kudos SP

These two are the cutest yet.

@taopaille-paille4992

4 жыл бұрын

they sound so fake to be honest.

Hahah i loved all the moments when the right woman said „ayyy“ and then the other person responded „ayyy“

I was like "oh, asexual representation, cool, let's watch". Then "aaaa nonbinary ❤️" and then "aaaaaa grey-ace ❤️❤️❤️". And then even more, they have such a nice conversation and watching them connect and share their experiencies was so cool. Lovely.

They are so adorably awkward, love it

THEYRE ACE WRITERS IM AN ACE WRITER AAYY

@GamingLikeAGirl

4 жыл бұрын

[REDACTED] Sameeee!

Can we please get an update video on their relationship? Too sweet!

I'm confused about how the "does size matter" question is relevant in this scenario.

@SaffAshworth

4 жыл бұрын

Dildos?

@abirdbrain9109

4 жыл бұрын

Saff Ashworth theyre asexual tho

@SaffAshworth

4 жыл бұрын

@@abirdbrain9109 ... good point One said they do enjoy sex though?

@m0r614

4 жыл бұрын

Saff Ashworth You can have, and enjoy, sex without having sexual attraction. Asexuality is defined as not having sexual attraction. An ace may look at someone and find them aestheticlly attractive and be appreciative of their looks, but the thought of having sex with them doesn't enter they're mind. What asexuality is not defined as abstaining from sex, that's just abstainence. Some asexual people are sex-positive (it's not necessarily that they like sex, but may enjoy making their partner feel good) some sex-nuetral (they may not really have an opinion or it may vary) some sex-repulsed (wouldn't consider ever having sex, or it grosses them out). The point though, is that sex doesn't always have to do with sexuality. An example is the scenario where a gay man marries a staight woman, they raise a family together and years later he comes out as gay, he was still a gay man their entire marriage, even when conceiving their children through heterosexual acts. So he may not have found her sexual attractive, but he was still able to have sex with her, asexuality is like that, but with no sexual attraction to any sex or gender. I hope this may have cleared up some things, but if you have any questions, you can ask.

@m0r614

4 жыл бұрын

I made a comment replying to someone in this thread, and I think it might answer your confusion.

Thanks for the ace representation and Vietnamese girl (forget her name) is cute!

"eyyyy cool"

I love how Heather kept saying "ayyy" omg I thought I was the only one who does that

The gay energy they create together is so much, love it! this is exactly how awkward i am when i first talk to a girl I'd possibly go on a date with, so I just feel it all

They're so cute. Also as a Grey-Ace I love that Asexual Persons are being represented more in media. These two seem to vibe, please tell me they're either dating or best friends.

@hawkeyescoffee6399

2 жыл бұрын

I know this was 2 years ago, but I could totally see them in an open QPR. They were adorable together and really seemed to vibe.

I feel like they both were such good active listeners! They both look at one another with full engagement!

im scrolling through the comments and waiting for people to realize the “ayyyee”s aren’t an asexual thing, they’re a bay area thing-

I really loved this! Scrolling through comments and watching the video made feel valid as an asexual which I have longed for quite some time. It's funny to see how people view their talking session as awkward because the ayyys and cools but I personally think it's their way of adapting to each others ways of talking and by doing so having a good time. All in all I hope people watched more closely on the people's body talk and actions in general. This conversation gave me the feeling of understanding mutual respect and not being feared to tell more about the wounds they have had or are having. Maybe I'm way too in tune with their talking because they act so much like I do and I don't have these kind of vibes with other videos with the similar idea but not having aces as the blind daters.

They give off such a positive vibe! I would love to be friends with both of them :)

This interview makes me so happy. They’re such vibrant, thoughtful people.

The ace and Christian rep I’m loving itttt. Thank you 😊

They're cute, they're gorgeous, they're intelligent and they're adorable! Hoping something sparks! Keep us updated xxx

I love how the thumbnail is mega accurate. AYYYYYE

That got really deep! Kudos to them for being vulnerable with an audience.

T_T omg thank you for the ace representation

They were so nervous and the ayyyye and cools were so annoying but so cute. Their vibe is so sweet.

Ayyyye can’t wait for the first date follow up

wow i talk almost exactly like Heather... i need to stop saying "ayy" if these comments are anything to judge by.

this was so cool to watch! ayy!! but seriously, best 24 minutes spent on youtube lately

heather is like valentine’s day personified

This is do good and pure and makes me so happy. These two are so cute.

My little ace heart is swooning, seeing how the conversation gets more comfortable is so nice

I am officially so old that these kids don’t even associate the “ghostwriter” reference with the PBS show...

@haudace

4 жыл бұрын

What's pbs

@fjordsi7404

4 жыл бұрын

I know, right??

@goddessecho

4 жыл бұрын

I loved that show

@Whirlbee

4 жыл бұрын

That purple slime guy!

@remister1984

4 жыл бұрын

Let's go, Viewers Like You

feels great having ace representation from two beautiful people ♥️

I seriously blushed watching this omg they're so cute

Ok but I love seeing not one but two Aces in the entertainment industry!! Thanks soul pancake 🥳

They’re super adorable, can we get a series?😂😂 it’s refreshing to see ace-pan romantics 🥺🥺❤️

I feel like I'm watching me trying date myself

@maybe_sansperry

4 жыл бұрын

StatisticallyUnnatural bro- i love the roman pfp

@statisticallyunnatural1286

4 жыл бұрын

@@maybe_sansperry OMG :DDDDDD

@maybe_sansperry

4 жыл бұрын

StatisticallyUnnatural :D !!!

These two are just the cutest ever. Hope they end up in a relationship together :)

These two are like .. amazing for each other it’s so nice to watch

OBSESSED with Bethany’s lipstick

“I’m a lesbian” “I date girls and guys” That’s not what being a lesbian is lmao

@peachplease3221

4 жыл бұрын

Also,,, non-binary woman..?

@johnnybestjojo7789

4 жыл бұрын

@@peachplease3221 Nonbinary is literally everything in between and outside of man and woman when it comes to identity. Its incredibly diverse. Some people identify as partially male, or partially female, hence terms like Demiboy/Demigirl, and Nonbinary-woman and Nonbinary-man.

@peachplease3221

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnnybestjojo7789 so how can one be inside the binary and also non-binary at the same time? Im just trying to understand. If youre between being male/female or something entirely different, how do you simultaneously identify with being a woman?

@johnnybestjojo7789

4 жыл бұрын

Peach Please well it’s sorta like a sliding scale in between male and females in this case. Most nonbinary people skew to one side a little more, like I skew feminine more than I skew masculine, but not the point where I identify as partially a woman. Some people might be a lot closer to one side or the other, and as such might choose to label themselves as partially male or female. It’s a little more complex than that, but that’s the more simple version.

@peachplease3221

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnnybestjojo7789 thanks! Its easier to understand it when you put it that way, gender is still something Ive yet to wrap my head around. But when it comes to the original comment im still confused

awww this is the cutest couple yet, they're such a good match

omg

this was actually so wholesome 🥺💞