A "part 2" of this video will definitely be on it's way! I've already thought of so many other aspects of this issue that *must* be discussed. 💪

@soulkeeper4905

3 жыл бұрын

Hey girl, I'm glad to hear that! 😃 Simple honesty and great advice in this video ~ just love it! 💜 It's an awesome topic to talk about...can't wait for the next video!

@flashy5150

3 жыл бұрын

Gen, I am a lot older than you, I’m almost 50, but I just wanted to tell you who you look and remind me of and it should be a compliment. You remind me of Erin Grey, she used to be on a show called “Buck Rogers In The 25th Century” in the 1980’s. She played Wilma on the show. She was a very pretty lady too, just like you. Both of you are always very kind and mature. Look her up and then you will see your look alike. 😀

@flashy5150

3 жыл бұрын

You are so classy, pretty and sexy. I just like listening to you and your thoughts. 🥰

We need to normalize not being too concerned with people's opinions, what they think etc. Especially considering most people are mentally asleep or behave badly to say the least.

It used to bother me when someone disliked me but then I decided that I wasn't going to let it bother me anymore. The people that matter are always around no matter what time of day. I am now more at peace for not letting it bother me. Loved your video thank you xxx

I grew up feeling disliked, I was always the wierd one in class, always wore mostly black and just never fit in with stereotypical groups. As I got older and started working it was still the same but by then I was ok with my individuality and thought if no one else likes me at least I love myself, so I'm fine with that : )

I like everyone until they give me a reason not to. The only time I ban someone from my life is when I feel they have an unhealthy or negative influence. I like you. You have good sense.

Hey Genevieve that's one thing I hate in life is when people dislikes you especially for no reason and especially when people dislikes you and they don't even know you from hole in the wall. Thank God in my life I'm fairly well loved by most people. But this is what they say we were not made to be a pot of gold for people to like us and we will not made to be a dollar bill for people to want us but the ones who dislikes us we could just rebuke them ignore them and put them in the rear view of our mirror. Genevieve I'm sure you're well liked by a lot of people especially with the interesting videos you put out I love your videos. I'm always following your videos.

I love you so much for this message! I needed to hear this. Everyone needs to hear this.

@GenevieveClough

3 жыл бұрын

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loved this video! It has taken years to understand i don't have to please everyone, or change myself to be acceptable to anyone. You spoke these truths so perfectly. wish i had understood all this years ago; i would have avoided so much anxiety and heartache. I love Brene' Brown also; my daughter introduced me to her books. Keep up the good work you do. You're an empath; it shows.. Wish everyone was

Hey G, my motto is to not make others folk's trip, my trip. It took me a long time to get here, but I'm much more peaceful now. So very worth it.

love it! shared!

I really needed to hear those words. So inspiring. Thank you for sharing 🙏

This is a lifelong problem for me. Thank you for the video

Amazing video, this helped me alot. Thankyou!

My frontal lobe loves this message! I was just thinking this morning that I need to watch Genevieve and 🌈💥, you have posted a new one, and this message was one I needed to hear. Amazing, as always. Thank you and I'm including you in my 5 most important people in my 🌎❤!

@GenevieveClough

3 жыл бұрын

Best comment ever! 🎉👌

Very insightful.

I love you!!! Never waste a minute of your life letting people take away your joy. Bless those who curse you,!!! God is the only one I live to please!

I like you. You look extra pretty in this video, probably because you're speaking truth. I dealt with this when I was younger, but I haven't GAF what people think in years. It was so bad that I would think people were talking about me, now I know that I'm not that important. We had a girl in school who used to think that and she did kill herself. Thanks for this.

@GenevieveClough

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you’re out of that phase! And yes, of the people I know who’ve committed suicide, it’s almost been connected to this issue... 😔

Wow you must be able to read my mind today I felt what your saying .now I feel capital.luvs ya thx for your wise words

Incognito right now, but wanted to let you know that I decided to quit my job. I discovered that every person there didn’t like me, even my supposed good friend coworker. I’m going to leave that all in the past tho. I honestly am at the point where I don’t care. I will find a place to work where they’ll appreciate me and my hard work. 😁

I like the way you think. Glad you transform into an extrovert on your videos and shine. I think often about being judged, liked, disliked, etc and what it is worth. Even though I'm fairly self-confident, I sometimes wonder about what opportunities may have passed me by, without me even being aware, because someone has quickly judged me and said "pass"...their huge loss, but also, over time, a big signal to me that I'm swimming in the wrong pond and need to find another. You know, just that realization that hmmm...nothing great is happening for me here, I wonder why? Also, different context, this makes me think about retail sales. Initially, I always wanted to win every customer over with some charm or wit or likability, and would feel failure if every customer didn't leave happy. This gives every customer huge power over you! Lately I am often "meh", it is what it is, some customers are just a-holes, have enjoyed shrugging off hysterical requests, and even glad to see them leave the store. It is liberating and healthy. Lots of parallels...can't make everyone happy every time, can't make everyone like you all the time. We all should just keep shopping around until we find our favorite stores and salespeople, and ignore the rest?

Be yourself. Don't ever let anyone tell you who should be in their eyes. Bullshit... Peace....

I needed this! my in laws and husband are uncomfortable with my emotional honesty and how I share so vulnerably. it is tough to be judged and rejected because of this innate trait. any guidance on how to cope with a spouse who is triggered by my personality? It has taken me some time to accept that I am who I am and accept that others might not like me but this is who I am! it really does help when I accepted myself and stopped hiding myself and being timid. I am finding my “family” now as a 37 year old woman and it is freeing. I had to grieve the relationships that didn’t accept me and that had helped as well.

@florsanchez6826

7 ай бұрын

I am in a similar boat as you with my brother in law and his wife who are extremely passive aggressive when I am around. It’s so mentally straining being around them.

@florsanchez6826

7 ай бұрын

Great to know that you are doing better. ❤I’m going to try and adopt some of this stuff. Hopefully it helps.

Ah so thats why we feel attacked when the dislikes roll in it deprived us of sereronin

I like you. I really like what you have to say. Thank you. Everyone needs to hear this I feel ❤

I Needed To Hear This-Although, I See Myself More as a People Protector than a People Pleaser.

I agree you don’t need a lot of people Also, I try not to be tribal. Tribalism leads to too many compromises and blind spots and also leads to isolation. The few important people in my life have the same values, not same tribal identifiers

Yayyy.🤗💕🙋‍♀️🦅Good to see you sweetie.

Great video. You pretty much have to give up on caring. I find it works wonders!

on the first time if people rub me the wrong way i would talk to them i just keep them out of my life and stay away from them

Fantastic info & well rounded presentation, thanks Gen! By the way, I DO like you. 🙋‍♀️💜✌

*Excellent 👌👍 video.*

totally agree, and take the negative connotation to the word tolerate. my friends tolerate my lack of typeing with proper grammer and spelling when it's not a professional setting and they love me, i tolerate silly stuff of fam and friends and strangers but I still love them.... idk probably an unpopular opinion lmao

You mean we need to go back to the ideal of being comfortable in our own skin and being ourselves? What a concept 😅

i do enjoy your videos

I agree.

I relate. I do...

It definitely feels this way also 😂

I wish I could hit like 1000 times on this video!!

One day I woke up knowing I do not have to have everyone to like me. I do good to get along good with a few people. That’s enough for me. 🙋‍♀️💕🤣☕️. Oh and I do like you even if you don’t like me🤣😂🤷‍♀️🥰💕♥️

if I can do that with my beautiful frontal lobe, you can do it! ☺️❤️🦋

normalize evil and mischief 😈

People Don't have to like you people don't have to love you they don't even have to respect you but when you look in the mirror you better love what you see. (Sheryl Lee Ralph)

The NFL draft is on, but no, I want to spend some quality time with the Boulder Babe ;)

I don't like how you keep removing my comments. it makes me feel disliked.

@GenevieveClough

3 жыл бұрын

Hmmm I don’t! I almost never remove comments unless they’re blatantly rude/disrespectful. KZread will shadow ban certain comments, too. And I don’t even see those. So I’m not sure why you’re not seeing your comments but I’m certainly not deleting them!

@aprilcallohan6145

3 жыл бұрын

@@GenevieveClough Ok, i believe you. I must be on some kind of youtube list or something. lol :)