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Love plays such an important role in our lives and society. It is one of the key foundations of marital and familial harmony. An ideal marital relationship is the one that is built on the foundations of tranquillity, love and mercy. Love, marriage and family are among the most popular searched themes online. While some may think the newlyweds are the ones searching for answers, in reality, it is a learning journey between two hearts that continue to commit their responsibilities and love one another. Watch before you get married.
Lecturer: Mufti Menk
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  • @o_o-037
    @o_o-0373 жыл бұрын

    Oh Allah, forgive all of our past, present, and future sins, Ameen.

  • @smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69

    @smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69

    3 жыл бұрын

    Got chills. This is the exact wording i use after every salah

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah

  • @Fatima_YNWA

    @Fatima_YNWA

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @aryand5585

    @aryand5585

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you a bot? You been commenting on ever comment

  • @o_o-037

    @o_o-037

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aryand5585 I've been posting this comment on every Islamic video I watch for years.. Sorry if I made you think I was a bot.

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin
    @awakenthegreatnesswithin3 жыл бұрын

    To all those people who are looking for a spouse, may Allah make it easy on you and bless you with a beautiful spouse that Allah approves of - Aameen.

  • @TheTheletterI

    @TheTheletterI

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen!

  • @saracarson9359

    @saracarson9359

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @aahilindia3002

    @aahilindia3002

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @hainikhan8278

    @hainikhan8278

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen jazak Allah khair

  • @sarahandicoy1862

    @sarahandicoy1862

    2 жыл бұрын

    AAMEEEN

  • @farhanishraq9335
    @farhanishraq93353 жыл бұрын

    People who need to watch this (parents) don't end up on this video. Rather we (children) are the ones always hearing these out.

  • @smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69

    @smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly lol

  • @sadmanrafi3775

    @sadmanrafi3775

    3 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately this is the sad truth.

  • @10highsky

    @10highsky

    3 жыл бұрын

    Inshallah we will become parents one day and implement all of this 😁

  • @haze1811

    @haze1811

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@10highsky U have to get married first for that to happen , bro..😂 And that's the problem here..

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah. It shall come to past.

  • @marwawickama7742
    @marwawickama77423 жыл бұрын

    In a world where you try to stay righteous it has surely become very difficult to find a righteous spouse

  • @aakhtab8403

    @aakhtab8403

    3 жыл бұрын

    Also there are many available people to marry but usually things like racism and tribalism or nationalism keeps many muslims from marriage( at least in the US)

  • @abbysheyba8421

    @abbysheyba8421

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aakhtab8403 not just the US, everywhere actually

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah in shaa Allah it shall be.

  • @salmahhussain7956

    @salmahhussain7956

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@adoringquran6267 there is no such a thing in the Quran. Many pure women are plagued with narcissistic heartless men and many good men are living agony with mean women. Your translation to the verse is very wrong.

  • @prettyloubey8411

    @prettyloubey8411

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow I thought it was just in the African-American Muslim community. I’ve been staying righteous for years and can’t find a suitable Muslim brother who wants marriage, it’s sad. No one values marriage anymore including Muslims. Well according to most 32 is to old for a women to be married 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @abbysheyba8421
    @abbysheyba84213 жыл бұрын

    Most parents will never listen to this. To them, culture and how they appear before people takes precedence over the deen.

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Knowledge is important.

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah

  • @jannatidyali

    @jannatidyali

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kabadabo2098 yes, my friend, yes, knowledge is really important, and really good,. My friend knowledge is good, my friend knowledge is like ketchup and the brain is like French fries 🍟, my friend you are the MacDonald, my friend knowledge is important.

  • @user-eo2th2lf6f

    @user-eo2th2lf6f

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346

    @muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @a-ishahamardien7236
    @a-ishahamardien72362 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah loved this, I'm married 11 years since the age of 17 and I have 3daughters and my first baby boy is on his way inshallah, alhamdulilah very blessed

  • @deenaddict6625

    @deenaddict6625

    2 жыл бұрын

    Allahumma barik

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah

  • @TheServantOfAllah99001

    @TheServantOfAllah99001

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank Allah that he gave you an opportunity to marry early, many people want this but sadly alot of people can't get married until 23-28

  • @nilofarrahmaty6902

    @nilofarrahmaty6902

    Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah, did you get married in an Islamic country?

  • @bellaspage8908

    @bellaspage8908

    Жыл бұрын

    Ma’sha’Allah

  • @mrclips999
    @mrclips9993 жыл бұрын

    Being a young person and listening such wisedome make me understand better what waits me.

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah is good to say.

  • @saveYourOWNsouls.

    @saveYourOWNsouls.

    2 жыл бұрын

    wisdom awaits

  • @kashimo_05

    @kashimo_05

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Riveringot

    @Riveringot

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey Hi Hello 😀😀😀😀😀

  • @dangsaddah3617

    @dangsaddah3617

    Ай бұрын

    Subhanallah.. so.. nice to the ears..❤❤😊

  • @10highsky
    @10highsky3 жыл бұрын

    I feel like there is so much advice that even married couples should definitely watch this.

  • @keto-lowcarbtv2900
    @keto-lowcarbtv29002 жыл бұрын

    I hope I found your video before everything, May Allah forgive us all. I am a Christian but I love your lectures they are so life changing and enriching. For a few nights now I have been listening and everytime I discover and learn new things.

  • @sinanprof7264

    @sinanprof7264

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am glad you re open minded to listen to an imam despite being a Christian . Inspite of the fact that I am a Muslim, I have just finished listening to a pastor on this topic and thereafter KZread suggested this video to me. I glad to have met like-minded person like u.

  • @keto-lowcarbtv2900

    @keto-lowcarbtv2900

    2 жыл бұрын

    It is always great to listen to God's word no matyer what religion we are... That is what our faith leads us, to love each other and to look out for each other not to hate...

  • @rafeiamehboob488
    @rafeiamehboob4882 жыл бұрын

    I'm looking to get married too but finding it so hard as I have kids already I do dua so much so do my kids for me can everyone else please do dua for me too 🤲🤲🤲 may Allah swt make it easy for all off us who are looking to get married Ameen Suma Ameen

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you with a beautiful spouse - Aameen

  • @unsignedtexture2668
    @unsignedtexture26683 жыл бұрын

    My late father, may Almighty be please with him and allow him to jannatul firdaus, had been so close to me to talk about both of our problems, rules amd thoughts. It helped me very much to be quite genuine, face tough enemies, problems and many other things. Please Pray for my father

  • @yayraushgoldi7586

    @yayraushgoldi7586

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mamari6463

    @mamari6463

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lucky you had that brother, may Allah grant him Jannah

  • @oyesanmiaminah8649

    @oyesanmiaminah8649

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah forgive his shortcomings and grant him Jannah

  • @angeldelight55

    @angeldelight55

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant your father jannatul firdaus Ameen

  • @gemsofamusafir1824
    @gemsofamusafir18243 жыл бұрын

    To the brothers who are waiting for a wife so they can fix their deen "brother fix up , why would you need a woman to help you fulfill your duties to ALLAH and remember death don't ring the door bell when it comes, so dont wait to worship ALLAH, do it now and the wify will come along anyway. To the sisters who are waiting for that perfect man to come along so she can be happy "sister there is no perfect man, you would be waiting all your life, you are blessed, you should find happiness within yourself and through the worship of ALLAH only then a Prince charming will come along and you both can work together to make each other happy.

  • @unsignedtexture2668

    @unsignedtexture2668

    3 жыл бұрын

    Gems of a musafir. Very very well said brother

  • @akinleyeyinusa7058

    @akinleyeyinusa7058

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the words of advice brother! May Swt increase you in knowledge 🙏

  • @Amina-vo8vk

    @Amina-vo8vk

    2 жыл бұрын

    jzkAllah khair for the reminder brother

  • @yayraushgoldi7586

    @yayraushgoldi7586

    2 жыл бұрын

    True may Allah grant us both happiness and good spouse

  • @GK-nc6rh

    @GK-nc6rh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Especially what you said about the brothers, T-H-A-N-K Y-O-U :). *Many* Muslim men intentionally go out of their deen for years and then suddenly want to get religious again and think that a wife will fix them. That alone tarnishes the reputation of Muslims who are not like that. Similarly for women, totally agree, many (including non-muslim women) think that happiness comes from a man and that's already a "failed" person because that's zero confidence.

  • @gal_b5057
    @gal_b50572 жыл бұрын

    Ya Allah please help everyone with their struggles, ameen 🤲

  • @MsPinkz2010
    @MsPinkz20102 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah, this was a great watch. Really beneficial

  • @shakirakira9769
    @shakirakira97692 жыл бұрын

    Have nothing to say on this lecture have learnt alot inshaallah starting from now I will change my self may Allah grant you more than you expect

  • @halam899live8
    @halam899live83 жыл бұрын

    Great video today keep it up your doing amazing job

  • @ashm441
    @ashm441 Жыл бұрын

    This is such a good talk the more I listen to it.

  • @Rifmaista
    @Rifmaista2 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah . He talked about my situation. May Allah SWT bless him.

  • @sadmanrafi3775
    @sadmanrafi37753 жыл бұрын

    I really love the intro adhan.i wish to hear the full adhan Such a melodious voice

  • @huda2864
    @huda28642 жыл бұрын

    May ALLAH keep you long with with more blessings DEAR sheikh

  • @UmarKhan-mp2gy
    @UmarKhan-mp2gy2 жыл бұрын

    thank you for this lecture ....

  • @Meetingpeoplefive
    @Meetingpeoplefive2 жыл бұрын

    This is great, thank you Sheik.

  • @simplyserena7962
    @simplyserena7962 Жыл бұрын

    He is preaching preaching !! Yes 🙌🏽

  • @AmanAli-mi5ev
    @AmanAli-mi5ev2 жыл бұрын

    This lecture was surely a well summarised pre notation before marriage, it was best lecture on this topic, Mufti menk explained it in a very nice way, Mashallah, May Allah grant us all his true and right guidance Ameen ❤️🙏

  • @ummuameen
    @ummuameen3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make it easy for our youth, May Allah make our boys more responsible , Financially stable and be able to give their family the best of their ability. I pray our girls be more responsible too and be good house wives and mothers

  • @halemashah2047

    @halemashah2047

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nice prayer. But not every women wants to be a housewife or a mother, and this is a huge reason why they don't want to gey married becuz they want to have freedom to choose either option not be forced into one. Pray for Muslim men and women to achieve happiness and contentment not the specific life that is culturally expected of them. Pray for Muslim men to know the sunnah of our Prophet (PBUH) which is both working outside, and working in the household from raising children to cooking, washing, ironing. While his wives like Khadijah (PBUH) was a great business woman and a great wife who is the guardian of Jannah now. Women r raised to do 100 jobs while a man is only raised to do one. This is not Islamic and is the unfortunate truth of our Ummah today. Inshah'Allah may our Ummah raise sons to follow the sunnah and the women as well.

  • @ThBeastKingofBeasts

    @ThBeastKingofBeasts

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@halemashah2047 it was just a dua for the norm lol. what do you mean by women 100 jobs a man 1?

  • @halemashah2047

    @halemashah2047

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ThBeastKingofBeasts I understand the dua was meant well. But praying for all women to become housewives is like praying for all men to become engineers. Like wt? I have no ill will just pointing out an improvement in which a dua prays for the well being of our ummah for peace, health and safety for our Muslim women, men and children.

  • @ThBeastKingofBeasts

    @ThBeastKingofBeasts

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@halemashah2047 He was talking in general lol. And in general its true. So it was alr affective

  • @aminmaxammed4448

    @aminmaxammed4448

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen sister same for the both of us may allah make this ummah succeed

  • @md.akashali9223
    @md.akashali9223 Жыл бұрын

    Got a lot of knowledge. Surely implement in my life

  • @kherojandahal1275
    @kherojandahal12753 жыл бұрын

    Asslm Everything before starting U must have a plan To decide a best plan yr honesty and sincerity are the keys for a best future life!

  • @lilyg4925
    @lilyg4925 Жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you for sharing this. Is is so true ! finally someone has the courage to say it. Hopefully many ignorant parents will listen and truly please GOD.

  • @khamissultan279
    @khamissultan2792 жыл бұрын

    Assalam aleykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh brother you always give out most beautiful speeches you always speak answer so many questions that know one ever even talk about them May Allah repay you with the most high Jannah🤲Ameen

  • @thureyaphilip556
    @thureyaphilip5563 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah very nice topic

  • @islamtube2672
    @islamtube26723 жыл бұрын

    Dua for Laylatul Qadr nights اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ كَرِيمٌ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي Allahumma innaka Afuwwun [Karimun ] tuhibbul `afwa fa`fu `annee O Allah, indeed You are Pardoning, [Generous,] You love pardon, so pardon me Aisha reported: I asked: “O Messenger of Allah! If I realize Lailat-ul-Qadr (Night of Decree), what should I supplicate in it?” He replied, “You should supplicate: Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun, tuhibbul-‘afwa, fa’fu ‘anni (O Allah, You are Most Forgiving, and You love forgiveness; so forgive me).”

  • @lordy3162
    @lordy31622 жыл бұрын

    I don't even know why I am here 😳 but I'm so moved by this. 😭 Made my heart so full after listening to everything this amazing speaker had to say. The best 30mins of my day. You just gained a new follower ❤️ God bless.

  • @inayaisaac1824

    @inayaisaac1824

    2 жыл бұрын

    The speaker is Mufti Menk.

  • @Amina-vo8vk
    @Amina-vo8vk2 жыл бұрын

    I really want to find a truly righteous brother for marriage but I am struggling. Please keep me in your duas that Allah swt grants me a husband who is strong in practising the deen. Nothing impresses me anymore but a sincere muslim with good character.

  • @zakarianoorbarrow7165

    @zakarianoorbarrow7165

    2 жыл бұрын

    There are also Good men who are looking for Good women ,

  • @Amina-vo8vk

    @Amina-vo8vk

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@zakarianoorbarrow7165 it’s starting to feel like they’re all taken 😭

  • @ayxxn4931

    @ayxxn4931

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Amina-vo8vk Allah has promised to give you what you deserve. As long as you've done the things you want your mans to do you will get a righteous man InShaAllah. Allah created us in pairs. You just have to find him

  • @SULTANHABIBI
    @SULTANHABIBI3 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khair

  • @kabadabo2098
    @kabadabo20982 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah Ya Allah. Thank you God for waking me up this time so much. For i wish to get married. O Allah don't hold me to account for what they say about me. Forgive me for that which they don't know about me. And make better than what they perceive about me. Aameen. I thank you so much appreciated. For you teaching me getting closer to my goals. Aameen ya Razzaq.

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah ya Mujid.

  • @serreh
    @serreh3 жыл бұрын

    Ma Shah Allah May Allah guide us all and May Allah forgive us all. Ameen

  • @movementofspirit9296
    @movementofspirit9296 Жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant kindness on the soul of his believers to a successful marriage INSHA’ALlAH ♥️♥️♥️

  • @user-sx6xb5nq9l
    @user-sx6xb5nq9l5 ай бұрын

    Very inspiring to new start to knew Islamic really is impressive to me allah blessing all

  • @stochasticxalid9853
    @stochasticxalid98533 жыл бұрын

    Well said sheikh...

  • @shad8161
    @shad81613 жыл бұрын

    I liked a girl she liked too.. both of us told in our homes that we like each other and want to get married.. I don't have bad habbits no bad friends.. but my home didn't support me.. her home didn't support her.. her parents rejected me just because i didn't have much money that they expected.. both of us tried hard but in the end she got no way nd now she is going to married to someone as a sacrifice nd satisfy her parents.. i am mentally broken now.. my parents nd family ignored me they didn't even care the matter.

  • @danishhameed8799

    @danishhameed8799

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you with someone better, ameen

  • @modernwasnas9863

    @modernwasnas9863

    2 жыл бұрын

    I made dua for you brother, please tell me more about this situation

  • @shad8161

    @shad8161

    2 жыл бұрын

    her wedding is tomorrow brother. 🙂

  • @modernwasnas9863

    @modernwasnas9863

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@shad8161 tommorow? She is forced to marry a person she doesn’t love?

  • @khalidabdulsemed4782

    @khalidabdulsemed4782

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel you bro. Why don't you try speaking to the person who is going to marry her.

  • @MohamedHassan-xz5dz
    @MohamedHassan-xz5dz3 жыл бұрын

    Salamualaykum Islamic guidance Is it possible to keep that same background nasheed for all vidoes really motivating the second nasheed background in this video

  • @rparwez6206
    @rparwez62063 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllahu khair,.

  • @hdstudio3736
    @hdstudio37363 жыл бұрын

    May allah keep us pure ameen

  • @berenice6307
    @berenice63072 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️ what a lovely speech! 🙏

  • @AsimibnAzad
    @AsimibnAzad Жыл бұрын

    Ya Allah please forgive and cure my sins which I have done in my past ,present and guide me to be free from such bad deeds in my future days to come. Ammeen

  • @latifaklein1347
    @latifaklein13473 жыл бұрын

    May allh bless you ismeal! Amin

  • @madhuryamaa
    @madhuryamaa2 жыл бұрын

    Listening to this to get guidance and was brought to tears. Thank you for the reminder that pleasing God should be at the center of all our decisions.

  • @y4ska37

    @y4ska37

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hhhh sister change your profile peace be upon you.

  • @harrylorenzo1291

    @harrylorenzo1291

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Maddy C.yeah you are actually right anyways I would love to know more about you if you don't .

  • @serreh
    @serreh3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make it easy for all those who are single with righteous husband and wife including my self and May Allah bless all those who are marriage and May Allah make it easy for all those who are having problems and difficult. Ameen

  • @sofiashami3039
    @sofiashami30392 жыл бұрын

    May Allah Swt grant us all good spouse and make them comfort of our eyes and us of them, ameen

  • @thureyaphilip556
    @thureyaphilip5563 жыл бұрын

    Shukran jazakhum allah

  • @wishingtomarryagain2052
    @wishingtomarryagain20522 жыл бұрын

    Some situations do not require a solution.. He just needs someone to tell you.. I feel for you I'm with you...🤔 It's not a condition of sustenance, it's money May God bless you with someone who brings a lot about you..🤔

  • @ChampionsPath11
    @ChampionsPath113 жыл бұрын

    Bravo 😄😄

  • @tahiraabbasi3593
    @tahiraabbasi3593 Жыл бұрын

    Great. O Allah bless everyone. ‏آمين يا رب العالمين 🙏👍🙏

  • @kherojandahal1275
    @kherojandahal12753 жыл бұрын

    Ones basical future life start with a best plannification of his or her marriageand this is yr ownplan Always mske sujood to ask Allah yr best companion because HEIs the only one who knows the best! So patient and peresverance are the best to pick and choose! U have the right ! So proceed tobe sureto get the best one!

  • @huda2864
    @huda28642 жыл бұрын

    Am facing such problems sheikh and I am 27yrs now and want to marry the one I love , hmm is a big problem for Muslims, MAY guide the upcoming Muslims with more knowledge and understanding.

  • @FaisalWahedi
    @FaisalWahedi3 жыл бұрын

    We try our best to be as good Muslim as possible but it put fear in our hearts when we see our Muslim sisters and brothers doing bad deeds so hurt to get married in today’s day and age, I ask all the Muslim brothers and sisters to pray for me so I can get married with a Muslim sister who’s a good muslima amen

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen Astaghfirullah is the best dua.

  • @yayraushgoldi7586

    @yayraushgoldi7586

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ammeen

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen same here pray for me too. Astaghfirullah

  • @timelapse3828
    @timelapse38282 жыл бұрын

    Don't start a Haram relationship. Haram is Haram. You can choose someone but don't start a relationship. If you like someone then let your family know asap. Hopefully you can start your relationship through marriage.

  • @Abu-Kurdi

    @Abu-Kurdi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ you are a fasiq

  • @inshafahamed9872

    @inshafahamed9872

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ shame on you

  • @Abu-Kurdi

    @Abu-Kurdi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ why should he get himself a girlfriend instead of getting married?

  • @inshafahamed9872

    @inshafahamed9872

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ why should i put myself in trouble, my parents are there they will do the Best

  • @nur_islam_nxt
    @nur_islam_nxt2 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah 🥰

  • @allahsservent3580
    @allahsservent3580 Жыл бұрын

    No rush for marriage we have a whole life In front of us,work on yourself first,leave the rest with Allah

  • @AdamAdam-yc6mz
    @AdamAdam-yc6mz Жыл бұрын

    Oh Allah keep us in this life as long as you know this life is beneficial for us and call us for the next one soon as you know the next one is better for us. Ameen

  • @rahmacheptoomagut1074

    @rahmacheptoomagut1074

    Жыл бұрын

    Aameen Aameen yarabil al-ameen

  • @haengbog6900
    @haengbog69002 жыл бұрын

    I wish our parents could understand this..😄

  • @anisaagustin4104
    @anisaagustin4104 Жыл бұрын

    I am adult already, i goes work, goes to campus at the same time. Tired to be new adult, i scared to be marriage. Heard this makes me thingking a lot of things. Hope that's bad dating never happened to me, hope my future husband propose me and ask my father first, hope he was already have wisdome knowledge and insyaallah, Allah will give me the best future husband. Aamiin 🤲

  • @amlyn508wabobi9
    @amlyn508wabobi92 жыл бұрын

    Lord bless my husband Assuman with everything

  • @Abdusshakur215
    @Abdusshakur2152 жыл бұрын

    Looking towards getting married soon. Inshallah

  • @Design--om2zx
    @Design--om2zx2 жыл бұрын

    Im 17 and i think that when i turn 20 ill get married , thats what my mother said . Time passes very quickly... I cant believe ive come so far in life. I really thought life was much much longer , but i felt like these past few years were just long like one day or less.

  • @Design--om2zx

    @Design--om2zx

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oiyajiamv6736 I know more about it than an "anime football" fan.

  • @Design--om2zx

    @Design--om2zx

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oiyajiamv6736 and I probably won't get married at 20. I might do it at like 24 but not less. If you are jealous, just get a girl, fool.

  • @Design--om2zx

    @Design--om2zx

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oiyajiamv6736 look at the videos you're posting, you act like an 12 year old. And you call me kid? Lmao, kiddo.

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    2 жыл бұрын

    We are near the end of days that’s why the time is going so quick.

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oiyajiamv6736 do you know about manners and respect?

  • @ahmadabdullah1194
    @ahmadabdullah11942 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah ho Allah for all of our past present and future sins Ameen

  • @user-uu6vb3jx6f
    @user-uu6vb3jx6f4 ай бұрын

    Ameen,ya Allah

  • @naggayilailah2440
    @naggayilailah24402 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah tabaarakallah

  • @AashifAmeer
    @AashifAmeer3 жыл бұрын

    Let's say Subhanallah Alhamdulillah Allahu akbar La ilaha illallah Subhanallahi wabihamdihi subhanallahil aleem

  • @raynwani137
    @raynwani137 Жыл бұрын

    jazakallah!

  • @yayraushgoldi7586
    @yayraushgoldi75862 жыл бұрын

    Please make dua for me. i want to get married but haven't found a spouse yet.

  • @yoursister99
    @yoursister992 жыл бұрын

    رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” Furqan:74 رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ “My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.” Qasas:24 May Allah guide me to find the right one, who can guide me in Islam, be with me to improving ourself both Deen and Dunya, and together until Jannah, İnshaAllah. Ameen.

  • @hussainishaq7073
    @hussainishaq70732 жыл бұрын

    Ya Allah bless us with good spouses. 👍

  • @yayraushgoldi7586

    @yayraushgoldi7586

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    @awakenthegreatnesswithin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @Protips4Life

    @Protips4Life

    Жыл бұрын

    US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

  • @tarek399
    @tarek3993 жыл бұрын

    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani. Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage/status, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani

  • @rownakmushtari5632

    @rownakmushtari5632

    2 жыл бұрын

    What about to choose husband?

  • @DTKRDMNK
    @DTKRDMNK7 ай бұрын

    I'm a revert and have been looking for a spouse for a long time, long before Islam. It still isn't any easier because now I have to deal with more different discriminations from different ethnic family members/friends within the Muslim communities too. I've been working on myself since forever and been praying for a Wife for a very long time. She has to put Allah first and foremost, even above me. Sometimes people try to make me feel like I'm not good enough but I know it's not true. Allah chose me through dreams so I know I'm good enough. The only thing one can do is stay on their path.

  • @youssefouchtak
    @youssefouchtak3 жыл бұрын

    unfortunately our financial stats are very miserable in the arabian and islamic countries (i wish i can get a guarantied job so i can get married because i love a girl and i am so afraid to not be able to marry her ) btw the same thing you said in the video happened to me and i can't stop loving her and seeking after her

  • @HeadshotKillaa

    @HeadshotKillaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Brother, please continue to pursue this is in a halal way. May Allah bless you 🤝🏼

  • @sadmanrafi3775

    @sadmanrafi3775

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bro please be patience, i pray that you get a good job and you can marry that girl you like

  • @youssefouchtak

    @youssefouchtak

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sadmanrafi3775 thank you so much bro please make dua for me

  • @youssefouchtak

    @youssefouchtak

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@HeadshotKillaa thank you so much bro, btw she is my best friend's sister and i will never betray my friend

  • @HeadshotKillaa

    @HeadshotKillaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@youssefouchtak of course my brother i will make dua for you tonight InShaAllah

  • @ammaraldafari7368
    @ammaraldafari73682 жыл бұрын

    😞💔I cried watching this I'm so tired of everything I wish my parents understand this 😞

  • @akhtars9602
    @akhtars96023 жыл бұрын

    I love Mohtram Mufti Menk for raising the issues that no muslim dares to talk about. I hope parents are listening

  • @mahamjdi5515
    @mahamjdi55152 жыл бұрын

    As I watch this wonderful video ✨.... To my future husband I promise that I will be a good, loving and understanding wife ever inshallah 💎 Oh allah grant me a good husband who fears you and protect me 🤍 amen 🤲

  • @YKing-zr3di

    @YKing-zr3di

    2 жыл бұрын

    Where are you from?

  • @silentraven4582

    @silentraven4582

    Жыл бұрын

    10 months later, did you find him?

  • @Protips4Life

    @Protips4Life

    Жыл бұрын

    US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

  • @hannoh9451
    @hannoh94512 жыл бұрын

    أسال الله ان يرزق كل شخص برفيق الدرب الصحيح زوجه او زوج صالح يعينون على طاعه الله

  • @anikarafiq4704
    @anikarafiq47042 жыл бұрын

    Learn alot 😊🇵🇰

  • @islamicfinders5085
    @islamicfinders50853 жыл бұрын

    First African to view 😍

  • @ha77_
    @ha77_2 жыл бұрын

    You said it all that’s exactly (me)

  • @shahidumar612
    @shahidumar6122 жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @ousmanchorr3542
    @ousmanchorr35422 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 🤔🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲❤❤❤

  • @iloveallah.9418
    @iloveallah.94183 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah

  • @TheDuaLearningChannel

    @TheDuaLearningChannel

    3 жыл бұрын

    Would you like your good deeds to continue increasing even after your death? The Prophet (sa) said "When a man dies, his good deeds come to an end except three; ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and righteous offspring who will pray for him." (Muslim) Please share my channel with your contacts, and inshaAllah if they benefit and teach others this will count as beneficial knowledge and your good deeds will continue to increase even after your death as long as the benefit continues inshaAllah. JazakhAllah khairan.....

  • @xiesaad3089
    @xiesaad3089 Жыл бұрын

    But usually parents doesn’t agreed about what we feeling.kinda a prostrated about this issues.Alhamdullilah

  • @aa-qm7uo
    @aa-qm7uo3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @BasiraLawal-RN-BSN
    @BasiraLawal-RN-BSN2 жыл бұрын

    I'm 34 and praying for a righteous loving husband.

  • @GK-nc6rh

    @GK-nc6rh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Age is just a number. Don't ever settle just for the sake of marriage.

  • @yayraushgoldi7586

    @yayraushgoldi7586

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @sabhiabasir5506

    @sabhiabasir5506

    2 жыл бұрын

    Incha’Allah♥️

  • @lifewitt4881

    @lifewitt4881

    2 жыл бұрын

    there is a 36 year old brother above @zak Dune

  • @GK-nc6rh

    @GK-nc6rh

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lifewitt4881 Hopefully Basira replies, you might just be the matchmaker here! :)

  • @dinnix4703
    @dinnix47033 жыл бұрын

    Im 26 im so stress about this i want to marry but i see this so hard in this times

  • @kherojandahal1275
    @kherojandahal12753 жыл бұрын

    Without prayers one id lik aship wihout a raw he won' t be able to move forward so his plan is failing So prayer is our key for a better lif !

  • @muhamadabdullahhajr8727
    @muhamadabdullahhajr87272 жыл бұрын

    We love u law man

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny88722 жыл бұрын

    If you can’t handle responsibility in your parents home. And have never put anyone before your self. Happen to live a me, myself and i lifestyle premarriage! You are not ready for marriage Anyone can get married for “halal” intercourse. Become an parent yet are you ready to share respect and help another person. Or live a selfish life

  • @user-eo2th2lf6f
    @user-eo2th2lf6f2 жыл бұрын

    My parents are narcissistic and close minded. They care only about what they want and have in mind. They make sure my siblings and I get it through our heads that they are the ones that get a final say, that it’s their house we live in, that it’s them that bought this and that, that it’s them who have all the control and power....

  • @GK-nc6rh

    @GK-nc6rh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Screw it and marry who you want -- in many cases, when you say whatever and push for it, the parents end up accepting at the end.

  • @saskia.halder9438
    @saskia.halder94382 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdullilah inchaAllah Ammiin Saskia from Maastricht The Netherlands Mamma from Cas al Hakim al hack and Balu Al Fatah al Adl Ammiin and now i am waiting for their Baba from Syrië inchaAllah Ammiin Pray for him Ammiin

  • @zackriyah03
    @zackriyah033 жыл бұрын

    Please make dua I really want to get married but haven’t found the right person Subhanallah

  • @mre9908

    @mre9908

    3 жыл бұрын

    What are the qualities that would make a person 'right' ?

  • @Hunredbandz

    @Hunredbandz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Mohammed Nasir Its actually personality and money

  • @lrich2263

    @lrich2263

    2 жыл бұрын

    Assalamoo Alaikum sister......I am a single Muslim living in 🇯🇲 we could talk and see if we are compstible

  • @yayraushgoldi7586

    @yayraushgoldi7586

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lrich2263 masha Allah may ALLAH conect you together

  • @khalidabdulsemed4782

    @khalidabdulsemed4782

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yayraushgoldi7586 ameen

  • @fayazmd2333
    @fayazmd23333 жыл бұрын

    Duas for ramadan ----------------------------- Allah! I ask of You integrity and soundness in my religion, my life, my family, and my possessions. O Allah! Cover my shame, pacify my fears, guard me from what is in front of me and behind me, from what is on my right and on my left, over my head and under my feet. O Allah! Grant health to my body. O Allah grant health to my hearing. O Allah! Grant health to my sight. There is no deity except You. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from unbelief and poverty, and from the punishment of the grave. There is no Deity except You. O Allah! You are my Lord. There is no deity except You. You are my Creator and I am your creature. I try to keep my covenant with You and to live in the hope of Your promise as well as I can. I seek refuge in You from my one evil deeds. I acknowledge Your favours to me; and I acknowledge my sins. Forgive me my sins, for there is no one who can forgive sins except You. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from worry and sorrow. I seek refuge in You from impotence and sloth, from stinginess and cowardice, and I seek refuge in You from the burden of debt and from being humbled be men. O Allah! Make the beginning of this day good, the middle prosperous, and the end successful. I ask You to grant me the good of this world and of the Hereafter, O Most Merciful of all Who show us mercy! O Allah! I ask you to make me pleased with what You decreed for me return to good life after death, and I earnestly seek the pleasure of looking at Your Glorious Countenance and the craving to meet you, without distress or affliction or misguiding trial. I seek refuge in You from oppressing others or being oppressed, from doing wrong or suffering wrong, and from committing an error or a sin, which you will not forgive. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the feebleness of old age. O Allah! Guide me to the best of deeds and the best of morals, as none can guide to the best except You, and save me from bad deeds, as none can save me from what is bad except You. O Allah! Strengthen my faith, expand my living space and bless me in my livelihood. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from negligence, degradation and destitution; I seek refuge in You from unbelief, wickedness, vanity and show; and I seek refuge in You from blindness, deafness and leprosy and bad diseases. O Allah! Give my soul piety and my conscience purity. You are the Master of my soul and the Guardian of my conscience. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from a knowledge, which does not benefit, from a heart, which does not tremble, from an ego, which is not stated, and from a supplication, which is not accepted. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the evil of what I did and from the evil of what I did not do; from the evil of what I know and from the evil of what I did not know. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from a decline in Your favour, from a change in Your protection, from Your sudden punishment and all Your displeasure. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from ruin and falling, from drowning and burning and from senility: I seek refuge in You from being bitten by venomous creatures. I seek refuge in You from greed, bad manners, bad actions, bad desires and bad desires. I seek refuge in You from the burden of debt, from being humbled by people and from ridicule of enemies. O Allah! Strengthen my religion, which is my fortress, make this world a better place of sojourn for me, and grant me a good life in the Hereafter which will be my abode. Make my life increase in all goodness and my death a rest from all evil. O Allah! Support me and help me, and do not let others overpower me; guide me and make the following of Your Commands easy for me. O Allah! Make me grateful to You, mindful of You, full of fear toward You, devoted to obedience of You, humble before You, earnest in supplication, and penitent. My Lord, accept my repentance, wash away my sins, answer my supplication, establish my veracity, guide me heart, make my tongue truthful, and remove all ill-feeling from my heart. O Allah! I ask You for a resolute mind and firmness in following the guidance. I ask You to make me thankful for Your favour, to be good service to You, and to grant me a sound heart and a truthful tongue. I ask You to grant me what You know to be good and to give me refuge from what is evil, and to forgive me - and You are the Knower of the Unseen. O Allah! Inspire me with good conduct and save me from the evil of my selfishness. O Allah! I ask You to guide me to the doing of good deeds and abstaining from bad deeds and love those who are humble, and to forgive me and show mercy to me. And if You wish a trail for Your servants, take me to You before falling into it. O Allah! I ask You for Your love and the love of those who love You, and for the love of every action which will bring me closer to Your love. O Allah! I ask You the best of the request for the best in my supplication, for the best success and the best reward. Strengthen me, make heavier my balance of good, confirm my faith, elevate my rank, accept me worship, and forgive my mistakes, and I ask You for good beginnings, good endings, the totality of goodness, from the first to the last, from within and from without, and I ask of You the highest ranks in the Garden. O Allah! I ask You to exalt my fame, lighten my burden, purify me heart, keep me chaste, forgive me my sins and I ask of You a high rank in the Garden. O Allah! Bless me in my sight, in my hearing, in my soul, in my body, in my conduct; bless me in my life, in my family, in my work; accept my good deeds, and I ask of You a high rank in the Garden. O Allah! I seek refuge in You against difficulties, calamities, troubles, oppression and the ridicule of enemies. O Allah! O Controller of the Hearts! Keep my heart firm in Your religion; keep it contented with Your worship. O Allah! Grant us increase and not decrease, honour and not dishonour; give us Your favours and do not deprive us; prefer us, let not others be preferred to us. O Allah! Grant us the best of outcomes in all our affairs, and save us from disgrace in this world and from punishment in the Hereafter. O Allah! Grant us such fear of Your as will come between us and acts of disobedience to You; such obedience to You as will bring us to Your Garden; and such certainty that the calamities of this world will be made easy for us by You. Let us enjoy our hearing, our sight and our faculties as long as You grant us life, and let it be the last to be taken away from us. Avenge us from those who have wronged us and help us against our enemies. Let no calamity be fall our religion; let not worldly affairs be our greatest care or all about which we know; and Let not those who have no fear of You and who do not show mercy toward us rule over us. O Allah! I ask You to bestow your mercy on me, to forgive me, to protect me from every sin, to give me a share of every good, and to grant me the attainment of the Garden and salvation from the Fire. O Allah! Leave not for us a sin, which You have not forgiven, nor a shortcoming which you have not concealed, nor a wary which You have not removed, nor a debt which You have not paid, nor a need from among the needs of this world or the Hereafter, the fulfilment of which is beneficial for us and pleasing to You, which You have not fulfilled, O Most Merciful of all show us Your Mercy! O Allah! I ask for a mercy from You by which You will guide my heart, settle my affairs, remove my worries, protect me from what is unseen to me, make my face radiant, purify my deeds, inspire me with wisdom, avert calamities from me, and protect me from every evil. O llah! I ask You for success on the day of Judgement and a life of happiness, and the rank of martyrs, the companionship of the prophets, and victory over the enemies. O Allah! I ask You for correctness of belief; for a faith which leads to good conduct; for a success which results in eternal felicity, for mercy, health and forgiveness from You, and for your pleasure. O Allah! I ask You for health, for integrity, for good character, and that I may be pleased with my portion. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the evil of my self, and from the evil of every creature which You are grasping by its forelock. O my Lord, keep me on the straight path. O Allah! You hear my words, You behold my situation, You know what is open and what is hidden within me; nothing is hidden from You. It is me alone who is in need, a humble seeker of Your forgiveness. I beseech You with humility in my heart, with trembling and fear, in prostration and utter helplessness. O Allah! Grant me soundness of belief, goodness of character, forgiveness of my sins, and Your eternal pleasure in the Hereafter. May Allah's blessings be upon Muhammad ( S.A.W) and his family and Companions. Aameen

  • @Criticalthinker1912

    @Criticalthinker1912

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @saharodon1087
    @saharodon10872 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah I am not married yet but thank you for this video it helped a lot.

  • @zubairhafeez3963

    @zubairhafeez3963

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oiyajiamv6736 that's Haram, idk what's wrong with this generation, always finding a way to Zina

  • @LIFEandHADEES
    @LIFEandHADEES3 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah

  • @TheDuaLearningChannel

    @TheDuaLearningChannel

    3 жыл бұрын

    Would you like your good deeds to continue increasing even after your death? The Prophet (sa) said "When a man dies, his good deeds come to an end except three; ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and righteous offspring who will pray for him." (Muslim) Please share my channel with your contacts, and inshaAllah if they benefit and teach others this will count as beneficial knowledge and your good deeds will continue to increase even after your death as long as the benefit continues inshaAllah. JazakhAllah khairan.....

  • @meridianumi
    @meridianumi2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, do you have a transcription for this video on your website? I would love to translate this to some people. Thanks!