I appreciate how you take Bundy off the criminal mastermind pedestal. An important step is to stop romanticizing serial killers through the media. Thank you.

@shawne7228

2 жыл бұрын

Ted Bundy should not be romanticized, but he was certainly very special unfortunately. A unique blend of determination intelligence Charisma focus, all inside of an absolutely deranged Maniacs mind. While appearing relatively normal to the vast majority of people.

@melodi996

2 жыл бұрын

@@shawne7228 there's nothnig special in that, after watching interviews with many narcis+psychopathic serial killers, they all look normal, but it's not hard to look normal.

@shawne7228

2 жыл бұрын

@@melodi996 looks like we can agree to disagree.

@sharonletchford9375

2 жыл бұрын

It's a bit late now, he had all that attention when he was alive. Just because this guy says that he isn't this n that you can t go by that, he s only doing this to satisfy the likes of you. How does he Jo, many of these shrinks arnt fit enough to diagnose ANYONE TEXTBOOK

@steretsjaaj2368

2 жыл бұрын

@@sharonletchford9375 lmao

What makes me sick is the women who threw themselves at him even after knowing what he did.

@shannonsmith7201

4 жыл бұрын

Yes me too there obviously sick like him.

@franwebb7756

4 жыл бұрын

Its some kind of mental illness why the women fall for prisoners and bad boys.

@lyndawood7937

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, same holds for other killers. What the h-ll is wrong with these women? They are sicker than the killer I feel. Charles Manson actually got married before he finally died. What a sick woman. I do not believe they should ever be able to get married. It would stop a lot of this crap.

@aliciaolgagaidaroffnieto7297

3 жыл бұрын

@@lyndawood7937 v

@stephanies34

3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Grande should do a video on this phenomenon. Why do people get obsessed with infamous killers, Dr. Grande?

@Dr. Todd Grande I have seen someone's eyes turn black once in my life. It was a very chilling and frightening experience. The iris does not change colour, however the pupils dilate so that the eyes seem fully black. Intense emotion triggers this response - such as rage or fear. I have since heard the term: 'the black eyes of narcissism'. Believe me, eyes can turn black.

@jenni.getstrongxo

2 жыл бұрын

I've seen this as well.

@commonsense571

2 жыл бұрын

I believe you. (Shiver..)

@syon600

2 жыл бұрын

I've seen it captured on film, chilling. But we have all seen how changed, and grotesque, ugly people can become when angry. unless we have been lucky in life.

@phil4986

2 жыл бұрын

It is the human expression of a animal as it prepares to attack it's prey. You see it,get away.

@VivaLeMoi

2 жыл бұрын

Me as well. My experience is a personal one. The night my ex tried to murder me. He naturally had brown eyes. However, that night his eyes were completely soulless. Black with no life in them. I will never forget that.

TB was a senior in my high school when my sister was a sophomore. My social sciences teacher, Mr. Savitz had a black and white 8x10 picture posted on his classroom door, which I believe ended up in the yearbook. Mr.S said that TB was a quiet student. Not a particularly good or bad student. He said if anything he tried very hard to not bring attention to himself, even when bullied he was compliant. In the picture are students acting like a normal high school class when the teacher is absent. Two guys are tossing a football. Some are lined up by the window talking. A few furiously working on their homework. A few sitting on desks talking and laughing with students behind them. Everyone is animated and active except TB. He is sitting in the center desk, hand folded on the desk with a far away look in his eyes and a pleasant smile on his face. He’s absolutely still, not inner acting with anyone. It’s a telling picture, and absolutely creepy. I think you’re very accurate. Mr. Savitz said he put up the pictures to remind his students that evil can reside in the most innocuous people and to watch what people do, not just what they say. If anything was special, I believe he practiced being invisible. I believe he enjoyed knowing his horrible secrets and in his seemingly thoughtful moments would relive his crimes.

@Skoopyghost

10 ай бұрын

I have a ASD diagnosis. I am normal with normal, but eccentric with other musicians. I am skilled actor in sense from mimicing for many years. I wonder if ASD, and ASPD are simular in a way.

@wh5xpogbloxk471

5 ай бұрын

He never had intentions of killing anyone on the future. He just snapped one day thats why he started killing he wasn't born evil.

@mahinshahrier7022

2 ай бұрын

@@Skoopyghosttheir are certaintly traits that can fit both, but that is generally true of the majority of mental disorders (the overlap of some characteristics). ASD and ASPD are not particularly known to be comorbid, and is defintely on the lower side of being document, if a correlation exists. And etiologically speaking, they are quite distinct and the similar traits are polar opposites in most cases. So I would lean towards no

I have an interesting take on this subject. After my husband and I were married 20 years, he started to change. He drove like a maniac, began to have strange sexual desires, amoral, violent. A marriage counselor suggested we get him a brain scan because of his personality changes. The neurologist diagnosed him with Fronto temperal Degeneration with Behavioral Varient, or bvFTD, a rather rare form of dementia completely different from Alzheimer's. It can strike people as young as in their 20's. It gradually destroys the areas of the brain responsible for empathy, insight, executive thinking, impulse control, and the ability to understand consequences, all the while they function and seem to be making these bad decisions themselves. It is progressive until they develop ALS type symptoms that ultimately kills them. I told the neurologist he seemed like a psychopath, he told me they can seem that way. I also asked if he had a split personality because he would act like himself, then do something horrible. He said no, he has a different personality. His face would change and his blue eyes turned dark. Before I knew what was wrong with him I told him that he wasn't my husband and that I no longer knew who he was. He passed away from it a year ago. My husband's actions had a physical cause, he had been a good man before. I wonder if some of these killers have brain damage or abnormality that causes their deviant behavior. Maybe they are evil, or maybe they can't help it, like my husband. The brain controls everything, and it is still largely a mystery.

@HumanimalChannel

5 жыл бұрын

very sorry for what you go through. I think it could be the case in some people. some people with acquired brain injury can change and cam have quite intense behaviours

@cynthiaallen9225

5 жыл бұрын

Wow. Very interesting. It must have been very difficult for both of you. The brain scans were definitely needed. You actually had a very competent doc. I hope you're ok now.

@ammie8659

5 жыл бұрын

@@cynthiaallen9225 Thank you. I'm getting better with the help of my psychiatrist and therapist.

@ammie8659

5 жыл бұрын

@@HumanimalChannel Thank you.

@alygodsquad

5 жыл бұрын

nah - this guy was a madness we will never understand.I understand your concept but this maniac killed over 100 times !!!!!!!!!!! he would have realised he was ill after the first 10, or 20, he was an EVIL KILLER

Ted Bundy was a 1st year law student. It's frightening to think he could have been a lawyer if he was never caught. Bundy's escape from jail in Aspen was a real embarrasment to law enforcement.

@dksdmusic

2 жыл бұрын

You'd be surprised by how many psychopaths exist in professions like medicine, law and business.

@nicklasvoncloust5001

2 жыл бұрын

@@dksdmusic : Terrifying, I know!

@ursodermatt8809

2 жыл бұрын

@@dksdmusic and police

@golddusttwoman

2 жыл бұрын

i don’t know how far he would have gotten since he was practically flunking but still a scary thought

@whodidit99

2 жыл бұрын

@@dksdmusic Not surprised. Those professions are a great cover for psychopaths.

I’d like to change one thing in particular about your analysis. Ted was a peeping Tom before he started murders. And he was a petty thief. He stalked his victims. Located them in his favorite hunting ground, college bars, followed them “peeped” in on them, to know if they had a boyfriend, stole underwear and picked his time to be a helpless guy with a broken limb needing help. There’s also a theory that a very young child in his neighborhood went missing & no trace of her was ever found. Ted was in his middle teens & a paperboy in that area. The girl had something wrong with her that woke her up a lot at night. She would go to the front room where the piano was under the open window & play it. Ted often talked to her as he went by delivering papers. Officials did question Ted, but he denied he saw her that day. He was already a peeping Tom. Like people that intentionally harm animal, I believe there’s a connection between his twisted childhood (relatives in mental health facilities, possible incest, abusive grandfather, mother was his sister& grandparents his parents), petty theft & peeping Tom activities can & do lead to bigger crimes. So while he wasn’t caught or his history unknown until trials he was needing bigger & better crimes for his satisfaction. JMHO

@onemoreday1550

2 жыл бұрын

He stated that porn magazines made him start. He said it was damaging. Ted never killed animals I don’t think. He was different in his thoughts process California had 5 serial killers on the state at once. Lazy police work

@rlynn5985

Жыл бұрын

Peeping Ted

@tidypeaches

Жыл бұрын

Sad and completely horrific

@greenman6141

Жыл бұрын

@Bonnie abrs100 responding to your comment left about 3 months ago on Bundy's history of deviant behaviour. Yes, you are so correct, and summarize it so well. The connection or trail of aberrant or criminal acts from smaller to extreme is strongly supported by such criminals' histories. This history of Bundy's was almost exactly the same as that of the Golden State Killer. In one place he (GSK) lived, a huge outbreak of peeping tom activity occurred, so large the local police figured it was one person. The next place he lived there was an epidemic of break-ins, some with theft, some without known theft - again the police felt it was 1 perpetrator. The next was a rash of sex assaults on women. And ultimately the murders with sex assaults - in which he stayed in the house for hours, roaming around, and taking objects. That Canadian army officer jailed for abducting, torturing, raping, & murdering women was also found to have a history of peeping tom activity, and breaking in. I don't know about killing animals - though Bundy did that, as did Jeffrey Dahmer. These patterns of behaviour are also found in people who are not serial rapists/murderers. The RSPCA (UK animal welfare org) and Child Services both realized that where they found an animal/a child being abused, almost invariably any child/any animal present would also be being harmed. It became their routine for the organizations to alert each other if they were called out .

@onemoreday1550

Жыл бұрын

@@greenman6141 Dalmer never assaulted women.

I watched dozens of kids get picked on by the masses in grade school, and several in High school. Some had impaired speech. Then I knew several who had been severely abused sexually, as well as excessively violently abused...in and out of foster homes. I, myself, was an early childhood victim of incestual abuse at the hands of my oldest sister. As well as needing to be taken to the emergency room for 12 stitches on my thumb pad ...from being thrown out of moms way...landing on a glass- top coffee table..at age 9...My reflexes ...extended my arm..to avoid hitting the it face-down. Then of course ....shook and slapped to the floor..for breaking that expensive table. And ..never once ...did the thought of random violence ..much less harming an innocent female ..ever cross my mind. It is the responsibility of the abuse victim to seek a healthy response to his trauma. Therapy was the route I took.

@tammydietschweiler7852

Жыл бұрын

It was a shame how years ago the school system didn’t protect children like they do today! Or at least they are much more aware. I suffered greatly with shyness and being such an introvert from severe child abuse that has destroyed my family entirely with one sister dying. Dam what is wrong with these people that never never should go near a child. I realize we can’t monitor the world…but it would be a better place for us if this could be better controlled with questioning by school counselors before the year begins and these punks that harass other students need their parents fined. That might put a stop to some of this crap. I’d see a small sized boy or girl with not perfect features or a little plump mercilessly abused on buses for years and dear God if this didn’t destroy their little lives. I cried often for them and myself and my rotten life of abuse with a mad man drunk that my mother let him hurt us. It was some sick stuff for little innocent loving children to ask themselves daily, “what am I doing wrong.” Nothing it was a crazy adult that belong behind bars.🥹🥹🥹 Protect our children!

@packersnerd

Жыл бұрын

@@tammydietschweiler7852 they don’t protect them today 😂. They get slaughtered by the masses weekly

@orientalgirl8926

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry what you have experienced. It is horrific and you are a very brave, lovely soul. God bless you so much.

@Es-yb3db

11 ай бұрын

And it's the responsibility of the state to provide adequate support for those seeking a healthy response

@michellelambert8729

8 ай бұрын

Therapy probably saved your life, it saved mine!

I love how Dr. Grande basically roasted the jail security he escaped from 😂 “...you’d think they would talk about people not escaping. that seems to be a central concept to what a jail does... I would say not escaping would be really high on their list of goals each year.”

@speteydog2260

3 жыл бұрын

Yep and why are they letting people out of the prisons?! Because of cov19? That seems really irresponsible.

@Missditabomb

3 жыл бұрын

@yes Omg. Never heard of that. Where did this occur?

@amoshtael1844

3 жыл бұрын

Dr Grande,love your analyses & DRY HUMOR, like escapes being high on list of priorities for jails, as above comment!!

@alymig70

3 жыл бұрын

I think Ted Bundy was gonna escape regardless. That’s just who he was. That’s just the story of Ted Bundy.

@MusicalMali

3 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE! I literally burst out laughing when Dr. Grande said that because it is such a great point!! What makes it funnier (and impressive) is how Dr. Grande remains so emotionally neutral when making such important and valid points. Great professionalism, thank you!

Your videos are extraordinary: Not a shred of sensationalism, just facts, just knowledge. Thank you so much for educating us.

@BJ-zd2or

4 жыл бұрын

This is very what we need 👍

@xat0304

4 жыл бұрын

KZread needs more PhD level scholars.

@LegalTyranny

4 жыл бұрын

@@xat0304 It isn't the PhD, it's the intrinsic capacity for critical thinking. Some people are born with it. That's how things like PhD programs eventually came about, by attempting to train others to engage in the same intrinsic mental behaviors as the "naturals". But there's no replacement for having the natural talent. Just like with physical talents. Some guys have better genetics to fill out more proportionally for Mr. Olympia Titles. Some intrinsically have an advantage at sprinting. Hard work can certainly push one to the limits of one's capacities, but when put up against another who is doing the same thing, but who just happens to have a larger innate capacity, the latter is the one with the factors to be better.

@LegalTyranny

4 жыл бұрын

@@xat0304 Also most people in higher education are far from humble. Many push further as a result of NOT being humble, but to make up for feelings of inadequacy. The nerd's nerd types are more rare than these people who are the strawman in the Wizard of Oz. They need that piece of paper from an authority saying they're smart to feel good about themselves or put others down. Dr. Grande comes across as some sort of NT, maybe an INTJ or INTP on the Meyer's Briggs type personality sorter. Most of them are into things for the sake of knowledge, not because of a weak or fragile ego.

@Newton14alan

4 жыл бұрын

A.Plosky -- I agree. I'm so sick of the labels, given to serial killers, such as "Evil" or "a monster". I feel that these labels prevent us from really understanding what is going on with these people. I'm one of the few individuals who believed Ted Bundy was telling the truth during his final interview with Dr. Dobson. Ted said that it was probably due to his exposure to hardcore BD/SM porn that began as a child, and progressed as he got older. There may have been other factors, in place (his grandfather, the feeling of being betrayed by his mother [being told that she was his sister]), but all addictions are progressive, and they usually evolve into destructive behaviors...whether "self-destructive" or "other-destructive".

I lived next door to Georgann Hawkins and was a sorority sister with her. Having walked the alley where she was taken by TB, I can attest that it was a very typical route back and forth for most of us. I know all the main players that were involved with her abduction in that we were on site and witnessed the police and anxiety. It was very frightening, and having no idea who "TED" was as he had not abducted the girls at Lake Sammamish, we were, however, aware the college girls were disappearing. There were no bodies found but we conducted our lives more carefully after Georgann. The frats would escort us back and forth to class...but after a few months, life got back to normal. I personally walked alone at night, hid a key to our sorority under a rock for after hours, and propped doors open to let friends in and out. When the Chi Omega murders happened, we were shattered as well as realized that our behaviors could have easily led to a similar slaughter. Our sleeping quarters were a few steps from the back door and at least 20 girls bunked in that room. He would have had a field day if he knew. Bundy got away with it because he knew the cops were not communicating very well with each other...and when the heat was turned up with his name and pic in the paper, he took off for Utah, where he picked ups here he left off in the Seattle area. All of his "hunting" grounds were blocks from each other...and where I spent many years. Even today, the area looks very much like it did in the 70s...the alley has not changed much at all!

@christina3521

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this. It must have been awful. Details like this need to be in a book. A retired co worker was hit on by him at a U District bar. She said she later saw his photo on tv or newspaper. I didn’t know if she meant then or years later, but Your account confirms a contemporary time line. She still had long straight hair when she retired, living just five minutes from the U district.

An interesting analysis. Ted Bundy is the epitome of the warning you should give your kids that killers can be clean cut and relatively attractive. I saw his mother in a video today and he looked just like her. It’s amazing that he could look so differently to people depending on his personality in the moment. The police were really inept in those days, letting him escape not once but twice! I bet he couldn’t believe his luck. Anyway, those poor girls, they had terrifying deaths.

@puketinmoarliek994

2 жыл бұрын

back then you could do anything you wanted

@allenh7835

Жыл бұрын

🎯 Same mistake some make picking up hitch hikers and stopping for "stranded motorists". Clean cut and friendly looking is often the last face they ever see.

@diannabutler2674

Жыл бұрын

@@puketinmoarliek994 no you couldn't. I grew up in the 70s.

@puketinmoarliek994

Жыл бұрын

@@diannabutler2674 ok? The police close far more cases now compared to the 70s.

@theowl3756

Жыл бұрын

On the very last interview with Ted Bundy, the day before he was executed, the primary source of his conduct is clearly explained. What is important is how he was able to get into the mental stage to commit the crimes. He is very intelligent and articulate in describing his metamorphosis from a normal kid to becoming a serial killer. He explains very clearly that although people may have different proclivities, there is often a common denominator in transforming a person into a violent sexual predator. He refers to pornography and violence displayed in printed material and movies.....And, of course, now we have the social media, and the teenagers who walk around as if the phone is an extension of their arm. Ted Bundy left the Clue, and it is up to the society to seek remedy.

One of the things that sets Ted apart from a lot of serial killers is that he didn't target people with risky lifestyles such as prostitutes or runaways. He targets people that should have been safe in the areas where they felt comfortable.

@HectorJPeabody

4 жыл бұрын

Jack Mars Spot on!

@alextorres990

4 жыл бұрын

@Cherry_Bomb I'm not trying to argue with you, I'm just curious about who else has done that?

@mariebernier3076

4 жыл бұрын

To your interesting point, Jack Mars, I've read that, when available, he chose college women that resembled a specific girl with long, dark-hair who rejected him in a painful manner. He assumed, and was so enraged and motivated to kill by this thought, that it had been because he didn't have enough money or status.

@missesmew

4 жыл бұрын

Most all do. Ole Ted wouldn’t have faired so well had he went after different nationalities. He would’ve stood out cruising a stroll or a hood me thinks

@mikesgoodmann9349

4 жыл бұрын

@Cherry_Bomb That's why John gacy's construction firm was so successful. He worked out of his basement, had only a skeleton crew, and charged an arm and a leg for his services!

"I never met Ted Bundy." Probably a good thing.

@SandraMontano-si3uf

3 жыл бұрын

@@fredricorosenfield9976 I was ready to give you a thumbs up till you said what you said about about my President Trump----

@sheilalopez3100

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, you wouldn't be her to say this.

@TheDollarKing

3 жыл бұрын

@@fredricorosenfield9976 your wrong, these people are special. There mental illness capsulates what trauma and genetic backgrounds can do to the brain and the consequences it leads to. Most cases of serial killers grew up in traumatic settings with little to no appreciation, well ofcourse besides Jeffery dahmer who grew up in a loving middle classes home. This is why these people are so fascinating and ‘special’, it doesn’t matter who you are or how you were raised, your mind can still fall ill to anti social personality disorder and many other personality disorders ofcourse. These people’s actions actually replicate ecosystems in nature which is what makes it so fascinating. These psychopaths and sociopaths are equivalent to predators catching there prey. Ofcourse is humans live in a society where morality is accounted for. In reality this shouldn’t be the case. Society rewards people for playing the victim card. The mind of someone with aspd or other disorders that can lead to aggressive twisted urges and fantasy’s is unique. They think differently and don’t account for feelings of remorse and guilt which in my opinion can be a very good thing or a very bad thing, the perception of the person is important. Our pets we take care of do not have ‘love’ for us, they do not have a conscience (like people with aspd), our pets do not care or even perceive our feelings they just want food and shelter. Essentially people like this have the same thought process as an animal in the wild trying to survive. They look at everything as threats and will do whatever they have to do to get what the need or want. In fact I think this thought process is correct to a certain degree. Nature does not care about morality or people feelings. Everything is a game to them, if you are tricked you essentially lost the game in there eyes. This would be fascinating to see in a society full of people who think like this. Would society fall or would there be a never ending rise of power due to survival of the fittest?

@_letstartariot

3 жыл бұрын

Dr Grande was not his target demographic. He liked young pretty women with long hair. Hence why his target was university campuses. Bundy worked in psychology. Specifically a suicide hotline. Grande is too young though to be doing what he does now in the 70’s.

@Fitness4Freshies

2 жыл бұрын

@@fredricorosenfield9976 Trump , really ? What about the drones that Obama sent to kill children ? Libya?

Yes, Bundy was special. He destroyed our innocence. He proved that, as Shakespeare said, “a man may smile, and smile, and be a villain” . I’m of an age with Ted. Before Ted the only serial killer we’d known was Jack the Ripper, and he’d been dead a long time. Our mothers told us to be careful of strangers, and we knew strangers were ugly, and menacing and we’d recognise them in an instant. Take care of yourself, don’t take lifts with men you don’t know, don’t walk across a field on your own at 1am. We thought we knew how to keep ourselves safe. And then came Ted. Ted whisked a woman away from her friends in broad daylight, in a park filled with thousands of people. And later the same day he came back and did it again. He somehow inveigled a woman out of a hotel containing hundreds of people, including her own husband. And no-one saw him do it. He took young women, again in broad daylight, from their college grounds. These were women who looked like us, nice young women, attractive, intelligent, just stopping for a moment to help a nice-looking young man. And you know why he fascinates us? Because he horrifies us. Because, if I’d spotted a friendly, handsome young man in the university car park, one arm in plaster, dropping all his books, I’d have helped him too.

@prettypuff1

11 ай бұрын

Special how? Tes Bundy’s behavior wasn’t smart. He knew people couldn’t imagine a white guy could do this to other white people. That’s why people are so mad. Now you actually have to embrace the security of being white is over. Why woukd I help some dude I don’t know? If women knew back then not to trust strangers, why would they trust him? He couldn’t even plan ahead for his injury he’s not competent All they knew me just met cuz he’s cute??

@michellelambert8729

8 ай бұрын

Ted Bundy sucks so bad I actually laughed when girls didn't help him!

@LisaPFrampton

8 ай бұрын

He also fascinates us because he accepts his most carnal, darkest self and acts out on it, without shame and without hesitation. He's as human as we can get, only the most vile, carnal, perverted, twisted and darkest form that a human can take. Because it's natural. Unbridled and unashamed human nature.

@valb9963

6 ай бұрын

He was an empty hole that was demon possessed, highly manipulative and evil. I feel nothing but distain for his memory. I am grateful that he didn't come to my university because I fit the profile and was naive. No excuse for his kind

@TammyM36

29 күн бұрын

Spot on!!well said & I agree! Ted was definitely special. Without question

My dad could be quite abusive when I was younger. Once when he went to hit me I saw his eyes go black (obviously pupils dilating). Was really scary and have never forgotten it.

@jesswnukow

11 ай бұрын

My father's eyes would change as well.

@user-ob6un3it9w

7 ай бұрын

The Bible says we war not against flesh and blood but principalities of darkness.

@mrtk-ph5sy

6 ай бұрын

Probably he hit on your brain that day, jk but there's nothing like look him in the eyes or smthing it doesn't change that drastically it's just how it is these body language gurus are mostly shit there's only so much so u can get from it and yeah as some with the charm of Ted I don't think it's hard to fake it

Maybe his pupils dilated through arousal when he spoke about his crimes giving the appearance of turning black?

@DrGrande

5 жыл бұрын

That's a good point -

@kellypawspa

5 жыл бұрын

Creepy..... But facinating!

@aquamarinedream8304

5 жыл бұрын

This is what I had thought too. Since otherwise the statement about his eyes would make no sense.

@generalralph6291

5 жыл бұрын

I had the sensation of seeing black in someone's eyes once. Found out later this woman was deeply hateful, lonely, and cruel. Your brain interprets all your sensory data for you. If your brain puts an odd spin on your experiences, it may be trying to tell you something.

@NotADood

5 жыл бұрын

My mom had eyes that changed color with her moods. Her baseline color was blue but if she was feeling gloomy they'd go gray and other times they'd go green. Bundy's childhood friends also reported his eyes going black when he was angry.

I think Bundy's seen as 'special' because he was arguably the first killer to go against the stereotype. Nowadays, we're taught that *anyone* could be a potential murderer, regardless of how they outwardly appear. But in the early 70's, most people expected only an uneducated, unwashed, anti-social weirdo could be dangerous. I think Bundy's still regarded as important in criminology is because his M.O. had a large impact on how criminal investigations are carried out; particularly homicides.

@26michaeluk

4 жыл бұрын

I think you hit the nail on the head.

@icieberry

4 жыл бұрын

I have heard from a video that says around 60% (if I am not wrong) of serial killers have had a brain damage/accident experience :(

@ReturnOfTheJ.D.

4 жыл бұрын

The first big thing of anything is always remembered - first pop band (Beatles), first on Everest (Edmund Hillary), first Serial Killer.

@franmellor9843

4 жыл бұрын

@@ReturnOfTheJ.D. true

@franmellor9843

4 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely on point I recall all this way back then

The Amazon series Falling For a Killer was the best and most interesting documentary I've seen on Ted Bundy. The one thing I find most interesting and unsettling about him is the strange phenomena described by those who knew him. One man-- a police officer in Florida, if I'm not mistaken-- described a very unpleasant feeling when he met Bundy, a feeling of "frustration and doom", which he said from then on became an indicator that someone in his presence was a murderer. Bundy's longtime girlfriend described his eyes appearing strange and "close together" the night of the Lake Sammamish murders. His lawyer described him suddenly becoming "dark" in appearance when he discussed his murders with her. In another documentary, the reporter who interviewed him described a strange white line that would appear across his face when he was talking in 3rd person about the murders. I personally don't think it's paranormal, but I have experienced similar pscyhic phenomena as that described, particularly the sense of frustration and doom around someone who had killed someone; I do believe there must be a scientific explanation, maybe simply the transmission and reception of extremely low frequency brainwaves from one person to another. But I also believe that the other people experienced what they described in his presence; it actually makes me wonder if maybe he was possessed by a demon, and I'm a very skeptical person who thinks there must be a scientific explanation for everything, and I ordinarily do not entertain the notion of demons. There has been speculation Bundy's grandfather was actually his father. It makes me wonder if such an extreme and peculiar epigenetic and genetic trauma could influence someone to become a killer, like some kind of genetic malfunction like DNA gone haywire and attempting to short-circuit itself.

@pigtailsandteddybears

8 ай бұрын

I loved reading your comment. (Random statement, I know, but I enjoyed your knowledge❤)

@mrtk-ph5sy

6 ай бұрын

Just one thing alot of those vibes and feeling were nothing but Just pure bs u can't consider it in any analysis, the fact that ppl say oh his eyes are like life less or smthing is nothing but bs, they pointed it out cuz they knew what he did and they feel that fear in there guts that all

What he meant by Bundy’s eyes “turning blue to black” was how wide his pupils got. Peoples’ pupils dilate when they see things they’re interested in, or what they desire. As he spoke of his crimes, he “saw” them in his mind. His eyes were affected by his reliving them.

I was briefly involved with an individual who displayed many narcissistic/sociopathic traits. On one occasion he became enraged in a way I’d never witnessed with anyone and he threatened to kill me. His face seemed to change & his very pale blue, almost gray eyes, turned completely black. My assumption was that his pupils dilated completely. It was genuinely terrifying and in a way I’d never experienced before, flight kicked in. I literally ran! It was one of the most frightening moments of my life. I still feel a sense of panic when I think about it, my heart is racing right now. Thanks for the excellent content Dr Grande!

@akehapkap6143

5 жыл бұрын

J T I lived with a narcissist for 7 years. He was never any danger to me or my kids, but was abusive and egoistic mostly. He was not physically abusive, but he changed the household totally with mental and oral use. Had no need for showing responsibility for things in an everyday life and rarely paid commune expenses like rent and power. They are pretty subtle, and most are not killers. Some use mental abuse, and some are leaders or have a job that need quick thinking. Some actually do a good job an function in society. There is a lot of them all over, and most behave in society. Some don't, and in close relations they are mostly abusive in some amount.

@cubbiesmith4505

5 жыл бұрын

X narc husband eyes would get larger look like boiled egg white ,his pupil went vertical line straight up and down. Some time blood shot red pupils jet black. If one never experience the narc stare its demonic you will know.

@jdr9419

5 жыл бұрын

J T so sorry you went through that. So glad you left and didn’t go back.Some women do.

@jdr9419

5 жыл бұрын

Akehap Kap hope your away from him now.

@vice2versa

5 жыл бұрын

@Macdealerx what do you mean they will always be much faster than you??

Dr. Grande is a great speaker; notice he never uses interjection words like "umm, ahhh" etc, which really allows his speech to flow and helps keep the viewers' interest. I try to do that, but it's more difficult than one would think.

@babaja23

4 жыл бұрын

He looks more crazy then Bundy

@kirstenbakker839

4 жыл бұрын

I've noticed that most people who speak without ever saying 'uhm', tend to use a short pause (take a breath) in the middle of their sentence instead.

@LegalTyranny

4 жыл бұрын

@@kirstenbakker839 It's a comfortable pacing isn't it?

@luminol

3 жыл бұрын

Uh yeah.

@janethomason3915

3 жыл бұрын

Due to editing, I believe.

Saw an interview with his younger brother felt badly for the man! He's had a hard time being related to a serial killer!

Anyone who is interested in learning more about Bundy, should read "The Stranger Beside Me" written by Anne Rule(famous author of true crime who worked beside Ted at a suicide prevention hot line). She is/was my favorite true crime author during the 70's-80's. Believe she wrote the very famous book "Small Sacrifices". Thanks for your info Dr. G! There was a rumor that Bundy inquired about which state imposed the death penalty and was told Florida, indicating that he wanted to be stopped.(?) I was in college when he was active...it was very scary time.

@rucianapollard7098

Жыл бұрын

I have read that book and it was very informative. Makes you wonder how someone can be kind and compassionat on the outside, but wicked and devious on the inside.

3:30 Eyes going from blue to black means that his pupils fully enlarged. A cat will always fully enlarge pupils to the point that the eye color disappears, all being black, when it is in a predatory mood. Ted Bundy's eyes behaving this way when talking about crimes indicates that those crimes and reliving them by thinking about them did put him in a predatory state. Important observation!!

@lmuriilo5803

4 жыл бұрын

Wow Nice!

@janicesimpson9849

3 жыл бұрын

Except that we aren’t cats 🤷🏼‍♀️. We should be looking at the human causes for dilated pupils rather than cats. It’s like diagnosing a dog based on a fish. No hard feelings meant, I just don’t think that’s comparable ❤️ Edit: Love your name!

@jannieschluter9670

3 жыл бұрын

@@janicesimpson9849 Stop being manipulative. Your argument is false and your heart emojis and "love your name" a$$ kissings in the end do not make your false argument somehow right. It's not like we are comparing a human with a cactus here. Back off, narcissist.

@michaelvlog5612

3 жыл бұрын

@@jannieschluter9670 when your pupils dilated its either fear or arousal/excitement. i get the analogy anyway.

@epoulos108

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely.

This gentleman’s voice is so reassuring.

@kallie9229

4 жыл бұрын

I've fallen asleep to Dr Grande talking about murder 😭😂

@lezel4swarts

3 жыл бұрын

I sleep to it

@joellekrippes4638

3 жыл бұрын

@@kallie9229 iìiìii

@violetdarling1008

3 жыл бұрын

Right? One of my absolute favorite channel subscriptions.

@ddruckenbrod

3 жыл бұрын

Didn’t TB state in an interview that had it not been for pornography he didn’t think he would have progressed to killing women?

Hey Dr. Grande! I love your videos, and I am a subscriber. Thanks for making great content. I wanted to comment on your remarks around 11:55 where you compare the duties of a prison and their priorities to the duties and priorities of a "for profit business". Indeed preventing escape is high up on their priorities... but the MAJOR difference is that the "Customers" of the jail have one singular priority and that would finding ways to escape. Even if they don't act on it with attempts, I am positive that every prisoner thinks about ways to do so. Apply that to your analogy and assume that every customer of this "for profit business" has a goal of decreasing sales, or profit... then the objective of this "for profit business" just got a whole hell of a lot harder. Just a thought. Keep up the awesome work! - Brad

When I was a kid I could hardly wait for the weekend ski report given by the same young woman. I was a kid and kind of looked up to her. He came in thru a window I think and murdered her. It changed my world and I was terrified that he was lurking around the area.

@memyself6360

Жыл бұрын

You dont know her name

@cathyh2483

Жыл бұрын

Lynda Healy

@kathleenmcconaha5608

Жыл бұрын

my parents moved us out of the Seattle area after the Lake Sam double feature be cause L looked too much like his preferred victims

@pigtailsandteddybears

8 ай бұрын

😔 I'm sorry you had to experience that.

I absolutely respect how you present no ego when discussing cases. You never try to say that you are absolutely correct or that you know more than others in your profession. I wish more doctors would develop this type of humility. Kudos to you Doc.

"I would say not escaping would be really high on their list of goals..." That was dead-pan comedy gold! Intentional or not, it really made me laugh hard!

@STYLESBYLIFEBEAUTYNMORE

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@andreaturnquist4855

4 жыл бұрын

I found it really funny too!!

@mariebernier3076

4 жыл бұрын

The greatest. Laughed in the shower, the dumb simplicity of it was glaring.

@geminikb

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. Dr Grande is funny as hell. I just listened to his videos about Trisha Paytus’ DID, and boy does he throw some deadpan shade her way.

@jmchez

4 жыл бұрын

"You had ONE job!"

Great analysis, as always! There’s one thing that no one discusses and know little about and that is who was his biological father. He may be the missing link to why Bundy was who he was.

Bundy also hid behind the “promising student role.” When things heated up too much in one area, he was able to move to another area and continue his “studies” there.

Bundy always thought that he was the smartest guy in the community and had real contempt for law enforcement. Yet it was an ordinary traffic violation spotted by an ordinary cop that took down Bundy. ha ha.

@peggypeggy4137

2 жыл бұрын

Fortunately he was an extraordinary bad driver. His driving was what got him caught everytime...before the cops had a chance to discover that the car he was driving was stolen LOL !!

@svenskgangmiljo2168

2 жыл бұрын

He worked in the DA's office in Seattle. Alongside Ann Rule who was a cop at the time.

@eriklarson9137

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine how off you must be that you put haha that he got caught after he murdered over 50 people. Lol at you. It's not like he got caught on the way home from his first murder. Good grief.

@joshsnethen2440

2 жыл бұрын

Kinda the point he was caught with dumb luck not any kind of good police work.

@blackbaron2572

2 жыл бұрын

@@eriklarson9137 her "haha" is still in order. Yes, unfortunatel he got away with several dozen murders. Nonetheless, it was still his arrogance and carelessness that brought him down. This other commenter doesnt have to be "off" to haha about that. Youre just bein' a bit trolly

We can always count on Dr Grande to give a balanced, well thought out and level headed look at things. Great video Dr Grande!

@DrGrande

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@amandarios448

4 жыл бұрын

You do a very good job in being balanced & we really need this kind of balanced perspective. People will often turn biased to please certain people or to satisfy their own questions. But that doesn't help in the long term in REALLY understanding & possibly developing prevention in those horrible cases

@dalegribble5661

4 жыл бұрын

Right girl!! Lol hes so calm and fair, i describe Bundy as pure evil period the end lol!!

@dalegribble5661

4 жыл бұрын

@@DrGrande Doctor what About his "good work" he did at the suicide hotline job? That messes with my head! Ppl said he eas REALLY good at it!!!😶

@Vicorcivius

4 жыл бұрын

You are such a follower pleb...

He was a chameleon'; college, jobs, Senator's interest, lawyer prospects, a girlfriend, family that loved him. He was no Manson, John Gacy, Ramirez, just from a different class. He doesn't have a fan club, the interest is in what we can learn and also trying to understand what made him tick so to speak. We do find it fascinating that we can be so fooled by the mask. I am so happy you mentioned his rage. He never admitted to it and I believe when he found out his Mom wasn't his real Mom, he felt lied to and deceived, but maybe enraged. I don't believe he was impulsive, but methodical, organized like you said. He was like a patient cat with a plan on the prowl. You did a good job on this one. Still so much to learn...

Man, I love to listen to someone intelligent talk sensibly and give an unbiased review of the evidence, allowing me to form my own opinion! Thanks for your fascinating non-sensationalist discussion of these cases. I wish KZread had a lot more like you!

The fascination comes from him seeming so likable, genial, intelligent, social and looking like the boy next door. It's his packaging that made him dangerous. We think we can tell when someone is 'off' and most people did not get that signal from him at all. He ticked all the boxes of normal: looks, education, volunteer work, relationships. His charisma was such that even the judge at one sentencing had praise for him -- it's horrifying how he manipulated with his charm. That was his most dangerous weapon.

@thesisypheanjournal1271

4 жыл бұрын

He had Ann Rule totally bamboozled, and she was a former policewoman.

@anonz975

4 жыл бұрын

Yes that and the fact he represented himself at the trial which really showcased his charm and gave him opportunities to speak with the media.

@rm6857

4 жыл бұрын

Thats why i avoid charming people, and most of my friends are just "boring" weirdoes

@phoenixrisin2269

4 жыл бұрын

The one thing that bothered me in the trial was the judge telling him how smart he was and how he would have loved to have him practice law in front of him, if only he had chose another route in life, after that judge saw what he did to those girls. Just goes to show you how charming and convincing he was. Disarming, when you should be aware that you are in extreme danger! That’s one scary mf!

@kdrxz5188

3 жыл бұрын

@@phoenixrisin2269 He did not do it with the purpose of praising, or exalting, but making it clear that it was in vain to have used his tactics during the court, that's why he said, but you took the wrong path.

As a therapist, I truly enjoy your videos. You have a very logical, factual, and ethical videos! Thank you for being a true role model for the mental health community

@amandarios448

4 жыл бұрын

Me too, proper "scientific" analysis of famous cases is so rare, lots on con people calling themselves psychologists or psychiatrists but lack all the scientific background or the neutrality. I just came by this channel but i really appreciate his work

thank you for your insightful videos and your effort, Dr. Grande. my personal theory on Bundy always was, that part of his murder spree motivation was his own inability to actually get anything done - in life, career, studies, etc. like the weirdest and most perverted form of procrastination one could imagine, because he could either put a lot of work, effort and concentration into things that would actually get him somewhere or get instant gratification by murdering people and feeling "superior" instantly. on the other hand, I have no idea how the minds of "special" psychopaths work. maybe my mind just wants to understand something that is inexplicable anyway.

@fiberpoet6250

Жыл бұрын

As a chronic procrastinator.. this assessment cracked me up 😂😂

@Jackie371

Жыл бұрын

@@fiberpoet6250 lol

@Jackie371

Жыл бұрын

I think that you're on to something there. I'm sure that I've heard that they kill animals as part of some kind of dominance thing, a show of power & superiority basically. The whole thing is just sad.

@duvessa2003

7 ай бұрын

This is an interesting theory, worth further exploration.

@mrtk-ph5sy

6 ай бұрын

​@@Jackie371Bruh the fact that u talking about most of the ppl is what that cracks me, ni your theory is bs tbh he was more successful than most of average once and u are trying to find the reasons for absurdity it's broken already he killed cuz he felt like killing and couldn't resist but society or courts can't take this cuz guess what everything is for reasons like my ass he probably knew what he was doing and yeah probably more aware of his condition than anyone else who tries to find reasons there's nothing. The fact that most nazi soldiers and supports were normal average ppl like u and I and not some blood thrusty freak points to that direction

Dr. Todd Grande, I don't know how I found you but you are an amazing person/Dr. . The way you tell ur stories are so fascinating! They are horrible tragedies but to hear u explain it, makes a lot of sense. You have definitely done alot of research/homework on ur subjects!! I can sit all day and listen to ur videos and learn alot more or clear up what I have heard. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us!

Hi , My name is Reo, I am a licensed therapist in northern Ca, I really enjoy your channel, Keep up the great work.

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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“Not escaping would be high on a jail’s to-do list” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@amber40494

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, LOL!

@hollyharte7831

2 жыл бұрын

Hilarious 😄

@mauriwestmoreland5687

2 жыл бұрын

And making sure none of the cells had air vents like Bundy's did. He even quit eating to lose weight to fit through it more easily.

@akimmbo

2 жыл бұрын

lot's of people miss Dr. Grande's dry wit...love watching...and listening for his witty jabs..😄

I love you Dr. Todd Grande! Anywho, maybe we are overestimating the staff at the Jail that left him alone for 17 hours. The late Ann Rule wrote about her friendship with him when she worked beside him at a Suicide Prevention & Crisis Centre in Washington state. She said that not only did he seem to have a lot of empathy but that he was very protective of her and would walk her to her car after a shift. I was also working in Suicide Prevention & Crisis Centre at the time, in the 80s, & her book spooked all of the staff at the Crisis Centre. We had some very strange & toxic volunteers there too but none like Ted Bundy! There was a movie from the 80s about him showing how he lured his victims and that they all had straight, long brown hair parted in the middle. Of course there was the usual child abuse "excuse" that was considered but it didn't explain his misogyny or the type of victim he chose. For example, was his abusive grandfather effeminate with straight, long brown hair parted down the middle? All these serial, rapists and mass murderers with their misogyny and rage against females yet their childhoods seem to typically be abuse my the males in their families. So how is this explained? My father, uncle, grandfather abuse me and I grow up to despise and take out all my rage on females! It doesn't make sense. Also the vast majority of people who are abused &/or bullied grow up to become rapists, killers or terrorists. For example, Jesus had a very stressful life, right from the beginning his life was in danger and he didn't grow up to be a mass murderer, neither did Mohammed, or Ghandi, etc. Keep up with your wonderful analysis and wicked sense of humor!

@rebelraccoon9018

Жыл бұрын

You're wrong about Muhammed. He married a 10 year old girl!

“People not escaping”. 😂😂 I love your dry sense of humor especially when talking about such a gruesome topic. I have read lots of books about Ted Bundy and I throughly enjoyed your video.

The description of his blue eyes turning black brought back memories of my abusive ex (Bipolar 2). I used these same words to describe the dramatic physical change as mania set in. The rage totaly transformed him into a different person, even physically. His face would contort and his crystal blue eyes would turn black. Now that i'm thinking about it I believe they did actually become more black from pupil dilation. Quite an effect. Terrifying to witness.

@joanneblack7697

2 жыл бұрын

There is a field of study known as "Pupillometry". That black effect is actually the eyes dilating wide. Eyes can dilate when someone is attracted to another, or when someone is preparing to fight or attack. I've seem it several times in martial arts classes. The first time you see it can be kind of scary.

@joanneblack7697

2 жыл бұрын

@@nattie911 That makes sense. You might see the pupils dilate in anyone who is in a rage for any reason.

@kuricho

2 жыл бұрын

I was watching an episode on ID and this killer's eyes turned black from blue when he got so angry. I couldn't believe that is possible but the female victim said that's what she saw.

@rpskaza

2 жыл бұрын

Now, that’s scary!

@rpskaza

2 жыл бұрын

@@joanneblack7697 Actually sounds like a cat’s eyes.

So how about an analysis of the women who flirted with him knowing what he did.

@cragerzz

3 жыл бұрын

They dont matter in any way whatsoever. They were victims. They have stories of sadness theyre not serial killers

@asutter6642

3 жыл бұрын

@Julie Sprik I think there should be a whole video dedicated to women who are attracted to men who are clearly very dangerous and what makes them flock to men like this.

@XaldinX

3 жыл бұрын

Think that’s more from a sociological perspective rather than psychological

@ineffablemars

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of time when women are attracted to psychopaths it’s because they themselves have a personality disorder that is kind of the “opposite” of psychopathy like BPD or Histrionic.

@ruth078

3 жыл бұрын

@@XaldinX I'm currently in my second to last semester of sociology and I can assure you that's not what sociology is about. This ks definitely psychology

I always looked at Ted Bundy as a person who despite any mental incapacity still knew the difference between right and wrong. I believe most of the time he would create a rouse to entrap his victims. I think the fact he could avoid capture became his motivating factor to move around freely. I think this was a huge reason he thought he was special. In documentaries I saw when he was in prison, he was always bragging about the fact he thought he was the best serial killer out there offering his services to help law enforcement deal with other serial killers. He was primarily a legend in his own mind.

I think Ted did indeed exploit the zeitgeist of the 1970’s. It was a much more permissive time and a guy like him could easily have flown under the radar. I also agree that he held no specific mystique other than being an improvisational con man.

This is seriously my new favorite YT-channel. I've watched like 10+ videos of yours, just today.

@lisafanucchi5939

3 жыл бұрын

Kackotopi m3 me too!!!

@loadapish

3 жыл бұрын

Have u watched jimcantswim jcs? He does the same kind of vids

@Kackotopi

3 жыл бұрын

@@loadapish I will check him out, thanks for the tip!

I think at the time Ted Bundy was special. The 1970’s was an innocent time. Young women often thought that a dangerous killer looked and acted different. Like an Ed Gein. A social misfit that lived on the edge of town in a run down shack. Bundy was the complete opposite. He was socially acceptable, even somewhat handsome and well educated. He was charming and women liked and trusted him. He guessed correctly that women are helpful and empathetic and would help a struggling man on crutches or who had a caste on his arm. Plus there was no such thing as DNA, no CODIS, no internet. There weren’t even fax machines. News traveled slowly and Bundy benefitted from this. Police departments rarely shared information from county to county let alone state to state. So Ted remained undetected. It took a while before the murders in Washington could be connected to the ones in Utah and Colorado. Ted was extremely mobile. The police had never worked on a case like his. He became the new face of evil, a nice normal college boy and Eagle Scout was a cold blooded killer. In that way, Ted Bundy was special

@Andeetec

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, first, he was not the first serial killer. We have always had them among us. He was the face of what you would want your child to become. Nice looking, academically successful, college bound, accepted in law school, attractive, truly an up and coming member of Société. If he had been able to control his impulses better. Girls trusted him because of his looks, yuppie ish, which worked to his advantage. For, he did not look like a monster, and he was definitely a monster. Look at how many women are fooled by narcissistic individuals, he was a master at manipulating people to think he was normal - not a murderer on many levels. I venture to say he escaped from prison because he was charasmatic in a way with the guards in a way that made them trust him. That is why they did not check on him or know he was gone. Now he fooled them and they knew he was a murderer. Really!!!

@jewelryboxballerina

3 жыл бұрын

Linda Costa I don’t see where he was so handsome. He was in his early 30s and looked like he was 45. I here that so much from women. Idk what they saw in him. They said he had movie star good looks. Um...not to me. He wasn’t bad looking, but not anything to go crazy over.

@katalac

3 жыл бұрын

@@jewelryboxballerina well this was back in the day..and I'm assuming you are very young...we didn't have all these social media outlets to see all the "beautiful" people. He was considered very good looking back in the day.

@almaburns6562

2 жыл бұрын

@@katalac Yes, Ted Bundy was boyish-looking & charming, which was disarming. He definitely did not look like a serial killer. Dr. Grande, on the other hand, with his emotionless, dead-pan delivery, could pass for one, LOL!

@detectivefiction3701

6 ай бұрын

You say the 1970s was "an innocent time.". Funny how that rather meaningless phrase seems to be said about every single decade. I'm willing to bet that a lot of people during the 1970s didn't think of it as "an innocent time" but instead saw the 1950s or the 1930s or the 1910s that way.

Dr Grande, I love your videos, they are always so objective, and informative, thank you ❤ I probably would've been one who was killed, in interviews and stuff he did always seem super normal to me, maybe a bit charismatic and charming. He didn't look bad, yeah I'd have been roped into it with how I was codependent/dependant for most of my life. He was the one that got me interested in killers because of how normal he did seem to me, it made me feel like "well anyone could be a killer," and then dove into research on it in partial effort to keep myself safe. I've learned after 14 years of researching that there is no one trait, no one sign that can tell you who someone is, but always follow your intuition bc most of the time these people give off creepy vibes. Now that I've been in therapy for over a decade i realize, Bundy was not normal he was creepy, I just didn't have my alarms properly installed so to speak.

In 1978,I placed Bundy in a cell at Escambia Co.Jail Pensacola, while I worked as a Correctional Officer ,he always looked entirely different ,a true change artist, he was brought in with a leg brace,he was termed a rabbit,he would not escape Fl.

@mikeymoo1291

Жыл бұрын

that's so interesting Eli. Wish you'd expand!

@kaljaukko5439

Жыл бұрын

Sure you did lol

@elifoust7664

Жыл бұрын

@@kaljaukko5439 👍 true

@Romulan2469

Жыл бұрын

@@kaljaukko5439 If it's written on YT, it has to be true right? I mean everyone on here is a self proclaimed expert.

Excellent presentation, very spot on about Bundy. I have been studying him since 1985. Glad I found this channel. Also, the thing that bothers me is people know who he is, but no one seems to think about the victims. I can name every girl when I see their pictures, which states the were from and specifics about how they were taken. I can't imagine their last hours. Thank you Dr for this speculation.

@azoutlaw7

2 жыл бұрын

Bless your heart.

@briankennedy1192

2 жыл бұрын

Melissa Smith God bless darling girl.

I liked that you were sure to add that you cant be diagnosing someone unless you are around them for a significant time. ~

@zoewynne8433

5 жыл бұрын

That is a very helpful piece of information that rarely makes it into youtube videos - that there must be personal time spent with someone and a requisite number of hours. I also appreciate the concentration on what people may have observed; this is an art not only a science.

@definitiveentertainment1658

5 жыл бұрын

Zoe Wynne This view may be losing some popularity with the advent of telemedicine..more and more clients are switching to “Skype Therapy”. Until someone publishes a study showing significantly lower efficacy and reliability, (and maybe even then,) this trend will only grow. I cringe to think about it.

@summerrose7286

5 жыл бұрын

@@definitiveentertainment1658 There have been lots of technological advances since the 60's and 70's, some for the better, and unfortunately, some for the worse. The advances in technology make it easier to capture the Bundy's and Ridgeways of the world. On the down side, It's so much easier to hide behind our computers rather than meet people face to face. I haven't heard of 'Skype Therapy', but I can see how this trend will be the preferred method of therapy. I would also think it would make it much more difficult for therapists to properly diagnose patients if they're not meeting face to face.

@definitiveentertainment1658

5 жыл бұрын

Summer Rose Yeah it’s part of the ‘telemedicine’ fad we’re seeing more and more of. On one hand, not everyone can leave their house due to disability, and others find the social stigma of going into a psychologists office too much. I understand this. But on the other hand, I shudder to think of how society’s misconceptions about mental health/social trends will transform therapy. There are IPhone apps that hire LPC’s still In/fresh out of school, to have chat room sessions/ Skype Sessions with their subscribers. And the subscribers use it in place of face-to-face therapy. So you’ve got IPhone app developers acting as pseudo case managers, and employing counselors this way.. It just feels like muddying up an already misunderstood discipline in my eyes. The most popular is called “Better Help” if you want to learn more. I’ve got a lot to say about this trend obviously so don’t get me started haha

@carlosmatos9848

5 жыл бұрын

Sure, but I think we can all agree that he was a real jerk.

Your dry sense of humor is awesome. The argument that a prison or jail should have “ inmates not escaping” at the top end of their “ to do” list had me dying

Dr. Grande, I was wondering if you could analyze both the serial killer Wayne Adam Ford (The I-5 Interstate Killer) and that of Richard Allen Davis - who murdered Polly Klaas. Another case to analyze would be the Josiah Lawson murder in Arcata, California in Humboldt County. Three missing person cases are that of Kevin Collins in San Francisco (early 80's), Sharlene Rosser from Eureka, California in Humboldt County (late 80's), and that of Karen Mitchell, who was also from Eureka, Humboldt County, California.

He definitely had a type in mind. One of the college students he picked up whom he was apparently going to attack expressed disappointment that she had cut her hair. As a result, he delivered her safely to her destination.

@paohaqui

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, and was based on the ex girlfriend who rejected him.

@sarahholland2600

3 жыл бұрын

They all looked like the middle class wealthy girl who rejected him aged 17. Years later when he had a good job etc he looked her up & she asked him out. He made a point of rejecting her. She's in the latest documentary.

@gabe-po9yi

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahholland2600 I’ll have to find the documentary; I’ve never seen her or knew she ever spoke of him.

@dingfeldersmurfalot4560

3 жыл бұрын

This is something that startled me about this video. I've seen pictures of his victims and they largely follow what has been pointed out about him numerous times -- that he tended to go for women with a very particular look.

@ladybaabaa3294

3 жыл бұрын

Many serial killers have a "type". Because the killings are based on sexual arousal, they kind of need to find their victims attractive. Whenever I'd read about serial killers in my late teens (I found their inner workings very interesting), I decided if ever there was a serial killer around, I'd look for their type, and then make sure I looked absolutely nothing like it.

"If you're in a meeting at a jail, you would think they would talk about people not escaping. That seems to be a really central concept to what a jail does. As a matter of fact, it's hard to think of many other important tasks that they really do." I don't know if you meant to be funny, but this dry utterance makes me laugh out loud! You would think... great videos btw.

@kirstenbakker839

4 жыл бұрын

I like to think it was his serious analysis.

@leahd4170

3 жыл бұрын

I think it was hilarious too and definitely his delivery did it. Also, would like to know who he thinks is the most unique serial killer and why

@dingfeldersmurfalot4560

3 жыл бұрын

They do have to feed them too, but those microwave burritos aren't exactly gourmet ..

@Tom_Tom_Klondike

3 жыл бұрын

Really though, 17 hours before you notice he's gone? What about food and water? You put food through the door and you don't even peak?

@jenniferhill5375

3 жыл бұрын

I must be really bored to listen about Ted Bundy! But, I like Dr Grande’s voice, etc.

I've always been drawn to criminal psychology so I watch every movie, bio, interview, or crime story on all the diff serial killers. Just to form my own personal, non professional assessment. I agree that Bundy wasn't an evil genius but simply thrived in an era of limited investigative means. I'm astonished though how the ppl in his circle were so stunned when they learned what he'd done. I know we don't generally look at ppl we know and think I wonder if he could be a murdering rapist but Bundy's eyes were absolutely bat sh*t crazy, without already knowing he was bat sh*t crazy. His eyes screamed it and I don't understand how they didn't notice that something was seriously off about him. Even being a master manipulator. Manson has the same eyes. I do have a theory of the possible root cause of his twisted mind though. His father was very hard and abusive and he couldn't please him no matter what he did. I think it beat down his self confidence and made him feel powerless and weak. Add his first love, his college girlfriend that he adored and did everything in his power to make her happy. They got engaged and happily told everyone all about it. Only for her to dump him, leaving him devastated, heartbroken, humiliated and angry. I believe that anger and humiliation manifested into rage. Most of his victims shared a striking resemblance to her. I feel that the animal in him satisfied his lust for her by raping women that reminded him of her then he felt powerful and dominating by killing them but really he was killing her over and over since he couldn't actually kill her for real. I'm not insinuating that it's her fault at all, she has a right to change her mind about being with them. Just believe that was a main cause of his mental break. Oddly enough he had a long term girlfriend for over a decade that he seemed madly in love with, for as much as he could love anyway and he adored her little girl and never harmed either of them, however he had troubles in the bedroom performing when they were being intimate but he had no issues when raping women which I find very interesting. Almost like he didn't want to make their love impure by being with her in the same intimate way as the women he hated and had no respect for. Very fascinating circumstance. I don't find him clever, he even returned to the bodies of some of the women he killed for many days afterwards raping their corpse. Returning to their location is actually one of the stupidest things a person could do. He just believed he was smarter than everyone else and wouldn't be caught. He was wrong!!!! Oh and dogs didn't seem like him at all and would get worked up and agitated if he was near them. Red flag! If someone is upsetting to a dog or a horse that normally are fine with being around ppl.... RUN, they sense evil minds. 😁

@ISRL380

Жыл бұрын

OK I hate when dogs are mad at me and I’m just trying to be normal that is a weird analogy. I’d rather a person who’s slightly psychotic making an analogy on him than a seemingly normal person with no similar backgrounds

You can tell this is one of your old videos. You're so much more polished in your new videos. Keep up the great work, DR. 👍

I appreciate your appraisal that Ted Bundy wasn't too extraordinary as far as serial killers go. I have had quite a few discussions over the years with a lot of folks who believed he did have "ultra human" abilities but I never thought so. Part of that may be because I'm a recovering alcoholic of 29 years and can identify with a lot of the narcissism and manipulative personality traits he had. Thanks again

@kicknadeadcat

3 жыл бұрын

Remind me not to invite you to my birthday party....... on second thought maybe you’d be a lot of fun. Lol

Ted Bundy was pretty criminally sophisticated for the time. And he was cunning. But, there's no way he'd be able to get away with a fraction of the things he did nowadays.

@odin1313

4 жыл бұрын

Barack Obama got away with murdering thousands of pakistani farmers.

@gerardgarvan6388

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you're right.

@sea_9002

4 жыл бұрын

Peter Lightning nah, it’s definitely possible. There was a man in Delphi two years ago who was dumb enough to be recorded before he murdered two girls and he still hasn’t been apprehended. I’m sure he will be, but that’s just one example of a sloppy ass killer who nearly got away with what he did. Criminals just learn from other criminals by seeing how they got caught and adjusting their methods accordingly.

@Crazywaffle5150

4 жыл бұрын

He was an idiot.

@missesmew

4 жыл бұрын

No problem for a truck driver to still get away with it. What about cops themselves? Pretty sure the human brain is still relatively as fucked as it’s always been cept now their gonna have to be smarter. Urges will always be. Kemper ( my favourite) walked right out brilliantly passing the tests a changed man after acing gram and gramps. People are smart

I was in junior high school when they executed Ted Bundy. It was early in the morning before the bell rang. A few students had portable Walk Man radios. When the news was announced, all of the kids broke into cheers and applause. Then a couple of minutes later, the bell rang and we all walked into the crowded walkways. It was a sunny day in South Florida. The school was an open-air school. It was warm, humid and bright.

I find you the Best at analyzing people than other Doctors Ive watched. You have an amazing insight and explain well of observation instead of assuming facts that know one really knows as truth. Where do you think the Rage comes from in serial killers?? Love your videos!!

Interesting vid. Ted got away with so much because he wasn't a grubby, inarticulate, loner freak. He looked like the guy all dad's wanted their daughter's to marry, and Ted could really pour on the charm when necessary. My grandmother, to her dying day, doesn't believe he did all those crimes (lived by where the murders took place in Florida), because "People who look like "that" don't commit those kinds of crimes." A shower, clean clothes and charm lets you get away lot. Lol...oh grandma..

@rupatiwari5923

2 жыл бұрын

Lol oh Granma

@DSmith-tx5pz

2 жыл бұрын

My Mom had a case of beloved famous people can’t be guilty of crimes….like OJ. She watched that trial from start to finish and swore he was innocent…

@JustCallMeLiberty

2 жыл бұрын

They all got the same programming/brainwashing...it's all about image and money to that certain age group. I think Teds Mom is totally fake nice too!

@DSmith-tx5pz

2 жыл бұрын

@@JustCallMeLiberty If you look at the book of OJs titled (if) I DID IT the word if is tiny and hidden inside the letter I. Visually what you see is I DID IT unless you look closely. There is also an image of a bloody shoe print on the cover. It’s very disturbing/disgusting. I watched a lengthy sit down interview a woman did with him in relation to his book and he was creepy and again disturbing talking about how it would go if he killed his wife and the other person. He was enjoying talking about it. The interviewer said it sent chills down her spine. I know there are people that even now believe he is innocent but I wonder how they would feel if they watched this interview and read his book. Sadly he literally got away with murder.

@JustCallMeLiberty

2 жыл бұрын

@@DSmith-tx5pz yes he did ...nobody I know thinks he's innocent. His lawyers turned the whole thing into racial politics. I feel sorry for the two kids he had with Nicole and of course for her and Ron Goldman and the families. OJ is a creep.

Eyes can go from blue to black when pupils dilate. The blue color would "disappear" as the Iris diminish in size. This would typically occur during a sympathetic surge occurring with excitation (as in a fight or flight response). If the Bud man was excited as he spoke then his eyes would appear to go from blue to black.

@eriklarson9137

2 жыл бұрын

Can brown eyes turn black too, or just blue?

@LisaPFrampton

2 жыл бұрын

When our switches from the frontal lobe to the brain running from the central, or animalistic, or instinctive part of the brain, the pupils will dilate creating the effect of "black eyes". When someone's full of rage or anger and acting out on these impulses their eyes can dilate quite dramatically and appear "demonistic".

@john-paulsilke893

2 жыл бұрын

@@LisaPFrampton pleasure typically causes dilation or expansion of pupils and anger or discomfort is often constricted. However these affects are typically brief, usually no more then a few seconds or perhaps a minute. In fact some experts in body language use this and micro expansion and constriction for interrogate purposes, (although it usually requires a high quality camera and the ability to measure, rewind and playback slowly such videos).

I love how you have none of the arrogance that some mental health professionals seem to have and are honest about your own limitations. in other words you tell it like it is. My experience with professionals in psychology and especially psychiatry have had me view them largely as those who do a lazy job of making diagnostic labels out of other's misery that needs to be fixed. DSM is a good example that shows this history.

It is hardly imaginable that Bundy suffered from bipolar disorder. I worked in a psychiatric hospital. I worked with exactely these people. In the phase of mania they are soooo striking that people really bring them to a hospital. In the phase of depression....well, they hardly talk and mostly stay in bed, hardly eat. That does not go well with Ted Bundy.

"I don't see him as that special. " Exactly. You're on the money Dr. G

@musicmixesforyourheartsoul4129

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah killing 30+ people is totally normal, everyone does that. Not special at all. You make sense. Santa Claus is real too! :-)

@jeffshackelford539

2 жыл бұрын

Especially horrible.

@musicmixesforyourheartsoul4129

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeffshackelford539 Special is special so they were both making no sense.

@musicmixesforyourheartsoul4129

2 жыл бұрын

@@hahmann Nobody in this thread said one word about neither being clever or being charming, we all commented on being special or not.

@musicmixesforyourheartsoul4129

2 жыл бұрын

@@jonsprong1842 This thread is obviously about whether Ted was special or not, so your comment "he conned women out of their lives" has no relevans whatsoever. And murdering women is not to "con" them. So also your non-related comment makes no sense! 'Con' definition: persuade (someone) to do or believe something. Him KILLING a woman is not her being conned out of her life. Pretending to be wounded and needing help is not murder. You don't die from a con. You die from a crowbar hitting your skull. The women died, because he killed them. Whether he conned them to do something first has no relation.

The comment in the documentary about Bundy's eyes turning from blue to black I believe was referring to pupil dilation. I found that journalist's observation really interesting because pupil dilation is a sign of sympathetic arousal. It suggests that recounting his killings excited him in a way that normally occurs when we talk about something thrilling or someone we love.

@shaynelahmed6323

5 жыл бұрын

Meaning he "loved" or "enjoyed" his handiwork... Ugh!

@catherinevaz6139

4 жыл бұрын

Some drugs do that too ( LSD, coke, etc... ). But that’s not the subject, lol

@louise-yo7kz

3 жыл бұрын

@joobular, exactly. His pupils were fully dilated.

I like how you give us facts instead of giving only opinions but you also put in your own little opinions enough to the point we’re people understand what side you’re coming. Amazing channel I love your work

My attacker's eyes changed color. His eyes turned from a dark color to a dull gray with no light reflected from them. Shark eyes. I know what I saw and will never forget.

"The pupil can change size with certain emotions, thus changing the iris color dispersion and the eye color. You've probably heard people say your eyes change color when you're angry, and that probably is true." (source: Fort Lauderdale Eye Institute)

@dingfeldersmurfalot4560

3 жыл бұрын

Well that's very cool. I never suspected.

@ladybaabaa3294

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. The more the pupil dilates, the darker the eye will be as there will be more black pupil and less coloured iris. Like, David Bowie and other people who appear to have two different coloured eyes? They don't. The darker eye just has a permanently dilated pupil, making the eye seem darker.

@MimimiMcArthur

3 жыл бұрын

@@ladybaabaa3294 that’s not true at all. Different eye colors are caused by differing amounts of melanin in the eyes. More = brown less = blue. Under our brown eyes are blue eyes the melanin just needs to be destroyed.

@Girl-101

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah my eyes once went black when I went absolutely nuts at somebody once! The person I went nuts at deserved me going nuts, and I calmed down after it, but I was told my eyes went from brown to jet black!

@baby_snaps

3 жыл бұрын

can eyes go near black in color? i heard someone say in a documentary, "his eyes were black and cold."

I think what made Ted Bundy so "special" is the fact that he had charisma. He was good-looking, educated, smiling: all together charming handsome necrophiliac psychopath.

@toothyfangface1583

3 жыл бұрын

Is he really that handsome? I've always heard women say that. I mean, he looks like a regular guy, not a ladykiller like he's always described

@toothyfangface1583

3 жыл бұрын

@Brian Jones I just saw the Netflix on Bundy. Ok, how Bundy fools everyone is beyond me. He talks and talks and supposedly looks clean cut and 'handsome' but he has 0 substance. He talks a lot and says nothing. He reminds me of an ex brother in law. Bundy really was a vampire and he is not impressive at all. He is such a fake and narcissicist

@danielfisch389

3 жыл бұрын

"He had been a liar from the beginning to the end" (Ann Rule)

@Blanca-4444

3 жыл бұрын

@@toothyfangface1583 What you describe sounds like word salads, which narcissist use to manipulate and confuse. I really dislike narcissists cause my ex was one, and Bundy reminds me of him. Handsome, superficial charm, but 0 empathy. They are good at acting but when you see through their charade, they get violent. They can't stand not being able to fool you, makes them feel stupid instead of the mastermind they think they are. To me, Bundy is not impressive either, these people work hard to deceive others and to portray an image but they are empty inside. Their own ability to be fake helps them to fool others, but it's like a natural thing to narcs, so I don't think they are geniuses, they are just good at that, even then, they can't fool everybody.

@toothyfangface1583

3 жыл бұрын

@@Blanca-4444 Bundy reminds me of an ex brother in law. My ex brother in law now charges people to listen to his guidance as a 'spiritual' teacher. It is sickening and ex bro in law talks and talks and talks and says nothing. Can never get a straight answer from him and Bundy does the same. Playing a game, draining everyone around them, and is only self interested. It is so obvious to me, as well as yourself, but Bundy is such a fraud and his punishment was justified. Apparently he got really scared when he knew his time was up. He can kill women but when it was his turn? He didn't want it

I am a 2nd year psych student right now and we aren’t doing online classes as much, so we rely on modules. I am in here to further find information to describe Ted Bundy in terms of Fromm’s syndrome of decay. So this helps a lot, thank you so much Doctor! :)

Hi I always find your Synopsis of the different cases that You cover very interesting and thorough. I also enjoy your use of empathy and understanding. Thank you Dr Grande. 👍😁

You might enjoy Ann Rule’s book she knew Bundy before he was a known killer. If I recall the book is called the stranger beside me, she was a cop for years before she became a writer.

@Julessteenbergen

3 жыл бұрын

teamcougars it’s a really good book which is absolutely not glamorizing the situation at all, thank god

@Julessteenbergen

3 жыл бұрын

Dave Bronstein i read it too and agree with you.

@Cryptonymicus

3 жыл бұрын

Rule and Bundy worked side by side at some hotline one summer.

@ThirstyEye

3 жыл бұрын

They worked at a suicide hotline together for some time. She said there were occasions where she showed up and Ted was taking a nap with the phone ringer turned off!

@Muirmaiden

3 жыл бұрын

Ann Rule also updated the book a few times (the last time was in 2008) and shared more information (and shared stories of women who managed to escape from him).

Im from Seattle and turned 21 in 1974. I had long hair, parted in the middle, everyone did. It was also dark. I spent a lot of time in the University District, including having a part-time job in a clothing shop on the main drag. The owner was very cool and didn't care if the Black Panthers sold their paper on the sidewalk outside her store. Id hang around outside on my breaks to get some fresh air, and got to know them pretty well. They did not deserve the their rep. They provided community service and developed a free milk program and augmented school lunches..... I started taking a stack of papers every so often to sell. I'm white, and let's just say, although Seattle is known for being progressive, it practiced segregation. I had this crumpled bag where I put money from paper sales . My parents were divorced , and I lived with my mom. Imagine her response when she found a bag pretty full of change, bills, and a few copies of the Panther Paper I'd saved in my room. I got home about midnight that night, and she was waiting outside. She was whisper yelling the whole way in the house . She was an FDR liberal, and she actually collapsed on the couch from relief when I told her I was selling newspapers for the Black Panthers, instead of running numbers for a bookie jount.....which was what she'd come up with while waiting. I kind of liked the thought. All she said was, "Do not EVER go anywhere in a car with those fellas." They probably did have guns. Anyway. This is a hard memory. A very good friend since Jr. High was one of Bundy's victims. I was at her house five days before she disappeared. As young women kept disappearing that looked just like me, I cut my hair and left for Hawaii with 2 girlfriend's. I returned in late June, and July 5th, I got the paper from the front porch with a headline about the 2 missing young women who wemt missing from Lake Sammamish the day before. I read quickly and they did not know each other. My heart sank. The next day their pictures were in the paper, and I recognized one , who lived in the next block, and would smile or wave since Id often pass by in my car.She'd only lived there a short time. Ann Rule, who was s famous true crime writer, and wrote about Bundy, lived about 3 minutes from us. Here house was in s very nice, but low key area. Woodsy, gated street. with obscured, but large monitors. Her house was way down the side of s bluff surrounded by Puget Sound, with only access an elevator requiring a code. She also had 4 Dobermans

@merilupa9942

2 жыл бұрын

Nice to hear your account of that time. Thanx for sharing.

@taticatnineland

2 жыл бұрын

…cool story, bro? 🤷🏻‍♀️

@katarina1852

2 жыл бұрын

Very interesting to hear about your close proximity to Ted Bundy’s criminal activity, also very scary. Thank you for sharing this. So sorry your friend was one of his victims.😥

@BariumCobaltNitrog3n

2 жыл бұрын

I grew up in Berkeley and for a while, it turned out, the Zodiac killer liked to roam around there. About a week after sleeping over at a friend's house down the street, the Zodiac killed someone on the same block as my friend. For fun, we were 12 at the time, we walked/ran around the block in our underwear, unaware we were being watched by a serial killer. Two years later, Patty Hearst was arrested a few blocks away.

@bonnieabrs1003

2 жыл бұрын

Ann Rule worked with Ted at night at the crisis hotline suicide prevention center. He walked her to her car so she’d be safe.

Great video Dr G! This thing about "his eyes changed color" is actually seen often in martial arts classes. What it actually is, is that your eyes completely dilate. This is an involuntary response when someone is scared or ready to attack. The eyes dilate wide in order to take in more "data". Same thing with an adrenaline rush ... that is your body getting ready to fight or run. I myself have witnessed the "black eyes" in martial arts class, and have also been told: "Your eyes turned black and you got really scary, etc." People love to glamorize this type of thing. Cat's eyes do this also, just before they attack. If you stare down a housecat and annoy it, and it's the kind of cat that likes to attack, bite and scratch, you'll see this in the eyes a second before they pounce and attack you. So, no, he didn't have special powers to change his eye color.

@solidcatink

2 жыл бұрын

narcissists shape-shift a lot and their eyes go black.

@joanneblack7697

2 жыл бұрын

@@solidcatink When people (and cats, if you've watched them closely) are about to attack, their eyes dilate wide open, and all you see is the pupil, which is black. Shape-shifting, I believe is done by changing facial expressions in a more extreme way than average people. Consider how different good character actors appear by changing facial expressions and posture (even without makeup).

@solidcatink

2 жыл бұрын

@@joanneblack7697 I guess my ex narcissist is a good actor.

@joanneblack7697

2 жыл бұрын

@@solidcatink So glad he's your ex and not your current. Many actors are narcissists or have narcissistic traits. Most narcissists have a need to be the center of attention. Acting can fill that need. I don't know if you've checked out HG Tudor's videos on Narcissism. He has some great insights on the subject.

@solidcatink

2 жыл бұрын

@@joanneblack7697 Thank you. HG saved my life, in fact...

What struck me was that he had a doting mother who believed him innocent until the very end.

I saw a movie with Mark Harmon portraying Ted Bundy. I was very young, but it has stayed with me my entire life. I started out to become a clinical psychologist and neded up as an RN in psychiatry. I am always amazed how personable a narcissist or psychopath can be..

@debbielockhart7762

2 жыл бұрын

It was The Deliberate Stranger based on the book The Stranger Beside Me by true crime author Anne Rule (who had worked with Ted volunteering at a suicide hotline). I saw it when it was first on TV in the 80s (I was also a kid at the time).

The public was fascinated by him because he was charming, handsome, articulate. He was a studying to be lawyer, he volunteered on a suicide helpline with true crime author Ann Rule. She said she had thought of him as a friend, kind caring, trustworthy. Definitely the 1970's with all its limitations helped him.

@RB01.10

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. And there were no cameras, no DNA, and forensics weren’t what they are today.

@unicorngirl1901

2 жыл бұрын

Hmmm he helping on a suicide helpline is so ironic

Thank you. Your coverage helps us understand some of the people we deal with on a regular basis. It is instructive.

I'm going through some of your earlier videos, Dr. This is a good one!

I did not watch the Netflix show about Ted Bundy. I did watch the complete interview of Ted Bundy done by Dr. James Dobson. As you may know, Dr. Dobson is a licensed psychologist whom I view as a complete professional with total credibility. Ted Bundy's interview with Dr. Dobson allowed me to watch Ted Bundy's body language and the manner in which he responded to Dr. Dobson's questions. I should also mention that this interview was done 1 day before Ted Bundy's execution. What stood out for me was Ted Bundy's rationalizations and not directly answering Dr. Dobson's questions. At least in part, Bundy blamed watching violent pornography and consuming alcohol for his actions. I don't think we will ever know what exactly causes people to behave like Ted Bundy. Thankfully, they are rare. As always, thank you for your analysis and discussion. Stay safe and be well.

@gloriamontgomery6900

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Anything but admit that he was responsible

@gcrav

3 жыл бұрын

Dobson was vomit-worthy for kissing up to Bundy for the sole reason that Bundy was pumping up Dobson's anti-porn agenda. It was not an incisive or insightful interview, just a couple of agenda-driven manipulators scratching each other's backs. And that's the polite way to put it.

@aaronfrench8748

3 жыл бұрын

Bundy manipulated Dobson the way he tried to manipulate everyone else...

@valerielawrence61

3 жыл бұрын

Buddy blamed his crimes on pornography. Dobson was all too ready to believe it.

@aaronfrench8748

3 жыл бұрын

@@valerielawrence61 Dobson was anti porn from the start so he was more than happy to hear it...problem was, it wasn't true.

One of his female relatives reported that he surrounded her with knives while she was sleeping - he was very young - maybe 3 years old. His predeliction for violence started early.

@guinevereinthefield176

4 жыл бұрын

honey bee This would definitely lend weight to the reason behind the social rejection he experienced as a child. Can’t have been the only weird thing he did as his childhood progressed.

@transamination

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah people like this are born like it. There's no 'explanation', they just are. It's hard for any of us who are not like that to believe it, which is why people are determined to believe that it must be due to abuse in childhood etc.

@aprilsilvers381

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. Makes you wonder if it's TRUE, some people are born to kill

@Kee2Oz

4 жыл бұрын

She could have been a liar. A 3 year old doesn't know that a knife equates to a murder weapon.

@fiveandfour

3 жыл бұрын

suny123boy1 it’s in the Netflix documentary.

You really presented a great description of Bundy. I was a young adult at the time. In the 70s, I would have helped someone without hesitation. He was fascinating because he was the first known serial killer. Thanks for another great analysis.

Sat on forensic interview / teams. 25. Yrs. Sir, you have helped me connect various elements in this field . Thank you .

Did anyone see the 60 minutes episode about the researcher who did brain scans on serial killers for research and found that they all had similar damage in one area of the brain? The researcher then, on a whim, did a scan of his own brain and found his was almost the same as theirs. He was shocked. Then why wasn’t he a serial killer? All he could surmise was that he grew up in a large Italian family that hugged each other and were positive to one another. I’ll try to find it. I’m not discounting anyone else’s experiences and information in posting this. Just found it fascinating.

@angelwings1979

3 жыл бұрын

It was Dr. James Fallon. He was doing two separate studies. One on psychopathy and schizophrenia in convicted murderers and one on Alzheimer's disease. They were double blind studies so he had no idea that the scans he had that showed clear evidence of psychopathy were his own. It's actually quite fascinating to hear him talk about it.

@reggiejames1986

3 жыл бұрын

What's the link

@JonDoe-uq1mk

3 жыл бұрын

I think it was underdevelopment not brain damage.

@therenegadepianotechnician5170

3 жыл бұрын

I had been badly abused as a child. I could have gone in a really bad direction. The help I sought for my suffering steered me in a very kind and compassionate direction.

It was the perfect storm. Genetics, abuse at a young age, bullied, the trauma surrounding his sister/mother.

@santiagoarce5672

3 жыл бұрын

I thought he had quite a good upbringing. Maybe even average. Lots of people are bullied, too. I don't think he necessarily was a perfect storm, but you don't really need a perfect storm to get a serial killer.

@ziledevara1

3 жыл бұрын

The first years of his life were spent around a violent grandfather. And as normal as his life was after his mother got married, he became aware that he had been the shame of the family, the illegitimate child which back then was considered the most shameful thing.

What I love about you, next to the content? I am German and I understand 99.9 % of what you say and describe. I can really enjoy it. It is pretty hard for me to get what people from GB say, I understand a liitle more from Down Under dialects, but your language is so clear, accent free I persume and brought to the point. Thanks a lot!!! It is a pleasure.

Y'all might find this interesting. I grew up in Seattle and knew Denise Naslunds family. Ted either couldn't remember where he buried Denise or he wouldn't say. Denise's Momma hired a psychic to locate her daughter. The psychic came within 50ft of where they eventually found Denise. It was such a blessing to Denices Mom that she was able to put her daughters body to rest and have closure before Mrs.Naslund passed herself.

@karenboyden1842

8 ай бұрын

😮😮

Blue to black eyes. Probably his eyes became extremely dialated when talking about his crimes because he was aroused.

@urbannsquirrel

3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing. Most people think David Bowie had two different-colored eyes, but really one pupil was unable to constrict (anisocoria), giving him the appearance of one dark eye but really the irises were the same color. It makes sense then that Bundy's eyes would look dramatically darker if he was either sexually aroused or angry.

@citykani6287

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Also, he could metaphorically mean that first he was this innocent puppy leaning forwards with innocent looks and clear blue eyes. In an instant he became leaning backwards with a grim look on his face and looking below the brows with black eyes.

@natashaapplegate2075

3 жыл бұрын

Came here to say this! 🙌

@uggggggghhhhh

3 жыл бұрын

wow its almost like the top comment is exactly this!

@lavonnealexander6936

3 жыл бұрын

@Sam lmao 😂

“everybody that looked at him saw something different in his personality” Interesting points, Dr. G.

@johngreydanus2033

2 жыл бұрын

He was the Jim Carrey of serial killers

Him being so self-aware is very interesting to me. There is a video I watched, where Bundy gives advice about what parents should do to prevent their children to turn out like him. He actually pointed out very valid things. He said watching porn triggered his violence. He had started with normal porn but over time he had to watch more and more specific kind of porn to get the same "effect". It also led him to have obsessive thoughts etc. So his advice was, keep your children away from porn. Its interesting as, every action starts with a "thought" an idea. That can become an obsession and led you to start to give in to it and act on it. It can be something harmless or harmful. Most religions does condemn the porn watching, and todays science has shown what kind of bad effects porn can have on an individuals perception of him/herself, the world, and others, the view on sex etc. Bundy was of course an example of an extreme case.

@AddressOK

2 жыл бұрын

He made up the porn trigger to deflect responsibility -- this is addressed in the documentary.

@RE-xv9fp

2 жыл бұрын

@@AddressOK Oh thats very interesting to know! I have not watched the documentary yet. In the said inteview, I dunno it does not seem like he is "deflecting", he is just giving advice and offering some type of self insight, I mean, thats how I thought about it when I saw the interview. Me using the word "triggered" was miswritten by me, He is genuinly describing how he got more and more OCD thoughts when the porn he watched got more and more violent. He is describing his thoughts becoming OCD, in the interview, not that it "triggered him". I might remember it wrong though, have to watch it again.

@mishka8233

11 ай бұрын

most researchers have concluded that his sudden condemnation of pornography was one last manipulative attempt to shift blame by catering to the interviewer who was a longtime critic of pornography. Even Bundys comments about his religious faith couldve been an attempt to cater to the interviewer since the interviewer was a founder of a Christian organization. Bundy constantly shifted the blame on what caused his violence to various different scapegoats

@meike3641

3 ай бұрын

The 'porn is bad' thing was just a bandwagon for him to jump on because the interviewer was against porn and offered this idea to him. Ted just 'jumped' on this idea because it gave him an excuse and had people pointing at porn instead of him. Again, he was manipulating and in control.

My mother was stalked by Ted Bundy at the University of Utah. My mother-in-law's friend went on a date with him while at the University of Utah as well. Pretty scary that my mother had the experience that she did. She had really long, pretty hair, too.

@marymargaretmoore9034

Жыл бұрын

Wow, your mom is lucky; so glad she wasn't one of his statistics.

@jeandixson5610

Жыл бұрын

I wonder if she got the creeps from him?

@LisaPFrampton

Жыл бұрын

@@jeandixson5610 she definitely did and didn't understand why.

@annechris2677

8 ай бұрын

False

@LisaPFrampton

8 ай бұрын

@@annechris2677 oh because you were there 🤦🏼‍♀️

Whenever I see footage of him he always strikes me as being very pleased with himself, even when he talks with a smidgeon of remorse, it's almost as if he's in awe of his own cleverness at having got away with so many murders. Plus, he doesn't look like your typical bogeyman...I wouldn't call him handsome, personally, but y'know ... I always thought he looked like a bit of a slimeball.

@jc10907Sealy

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissistic smirk 😏

@jviarruel

3 жыл бұрын

Arrogance

@whatreallymatters571

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I agree 100% every picture where people say he looks charming comes off as creepy and slimy. One look not even knowing him would give me the creeps. How people were defending him back then, beats the heck outta me.

@dianacassinelli3600

3 жыл бұрын

farmgal77 he was a slimeball

@deaberos4157

3 жыл бұрын

His eyes were too close together

I remember listening to an interview on the radio with Ted Bundy right before he was to be executed. The interviewer asked him "what can women do to stay safe?" He answered: park in well lit and don't park to far away from doors in large parking lots" Don't walk between cars. (All fairly common sense things). He also said that because of the new found freedoms that women had in the 1970's made them more of a target - walking alone, living alone etc. I always remembered his advice and i pass it on to other females. Also read the book "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin DeBecker.

@kirstenbakker839

4 жыл бұрын

In Germany, it is very common that the well lit parking spots closest to the doors are marked as 'womens parking' (Frauenparkplatz). For this very reason. I've also seen this concept in other countries a few times.

@LegalTyranny

4 жыл бұрын

@@kirstenbakker839 Germans need to throw off the shackles of being governed by USA controlled puppeteers. I know things are different after WWII but the USA never offered a peace treaty and your country is now intentionally being flooded with foreigner's to complete the Coudenhove-Kaergi plan (Something actually written and warned about by the German NSDAP. Don't bother with responding. If you're aware of these truths doing so could get you in trouble since the you know who's have a lock on freedom of speech there since they won the war, and if you're not aware of these truths, well, the brainwashing has been extra heavy there because the resistance to the NWO started there.). It's a fact that foreigner's are more likely to rape and attack the locals. The Swedish statistics on the rapes of their women since opening the floodgates is despicable. The Judeo-Masonic controlled politicians have to go.

@debbiecharles7912

4 жыл бұрын

The Gift of Fear is an excellent book! Fascinating, eye opening and a page turner 💜

@Victoria-bq2oz

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. But some people don't follow or don't like to get told on what common sense is. I have a teacher who is a psychologist if I'm not mistaken, knows about public security criminology and works for private security -he told us that if we are always aware of our surroundings, nothing will happen to us. No matter where we are. I don't know how to word it better but just follow your common sense

@iamangie724

3 жыл бұрын

he also mentioned that he could quickly tell by the way a woman walked if they would be a good victim.. i think the video is on yt i just cant think of the title rn

I happen to know Ted's little brother. He is a regular guy that plays guitar in garage bands. He is really kind. Only has good memories of Ted. He loved his brother. Though they were several years apart. It was shocking for the family to learn that Ted was killing women.

Very interesting Dr Grande . Like you said, and I agree, the time these crimes occured (70’s ) had a great deal to do with the fact, not only Ted Bundy but also the other serial killers, were able to commit many murders. I think the first part of the 80’s had also many serial killers. Social media had also an influence. I mean a great deal. But for him in particular I think the fact that he was really good looking facilated him to approach women.