WARNING: Social Media is Stalking YOU
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WARNING: Social Media is Stalking YOU
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Have you ever felt like when you're on any of your social media accounts (even here on KZread) you see content that you didn't necessary subscribe to... but it might really fit your interests? I know I sound like a conspiracy theorist, but I just saw an incredible new documentary on Netflix called "The Social Dilemma" that describes how social media platforms are used to sell your attention and has worldwide severe consequences. I feel like this is an episode of "Black Mirror"... but it wouldn't be 2020 without feeling like that, right? LIKE this video, SHARE with someone who you think should see it, SUBSCRIBE by clicking the bell button and COMMENT below your thoughts after watching the doc!
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i absolutely love how he used dan as an example of hot guy content. i mean he’s not wrong
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
I DIDN'T LIE!
@superbflowerchaos
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley facts facts facts
@tealrose3248
3 жыл бұрын
Tyler Oakley you really didn't, babe. So - collab? Just to improve 2020 for us all? Just a little zoom chat, you know you want to.
I don't think I'll ever stop loving this guy,,, wisdom with sass I'm definitely gonna watch the documentary
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
omg who ME
@nicoleotieno8763
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley yes definitely
@boyceps
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley: Yes, you. You cute ass sassy, wise beyond your years.
*me giving information to KZread that I like Tyler Oakley*
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
NOT A BAD IDEA TBQH
"hot guy content" *insert photo of daniel howell*
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
I DIDN'T LIE!
@superbflowerchaos
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley it's so true
@1996squareenix
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley it's true and you should say it 😔✊🏽
As serious as as this video is.... Mr. Oakley is serving me sophisticated beach boy with his shirt and little mustache and I am here👏🏾 for 👏🏾it👏🏾
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
IT'S A MOOD IT'S A VIBE
@witchchick.128
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley ISSA MOOD ISSA VIBE
social media is scary but content creators like you and dan make it a better place 😌
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU KINLEY!!
My 2013 self internally squealed when Tyler called Dan hot.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
WELL I SAID WHAT I SAID!
@superbflowerchaos
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley WOOOOO
@superbflowerchaos
3 жыл бұрын
yup yup yup
@anotherhappyday93
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley And I'm 100% here for it, baby
@tealrose3248
3 жыл бұрын
Sebastian Lima I think we're all on board with that. 😍
The social dilemma is so eye opening, I'm so glad my professor made us watch it
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
IT WAS A DOOZY
*shows picture of dan* “hot guy content” I DIED
@Deadhousep1ants
3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@va4lent
3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this comment! Hahaha, I died!!
thank you for shouting out Dan Howell as a hot guy
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
I HAD TO
@escandalu
3 жыл бұрын
kings stan kings
I teach a class for freshmen about college and career readiness and we definitely talk about the issue of “selling your data” for free. It opens the eyes to students, but I don’t know how much it changes day-to-day activities.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
WELL AT LEAST THE CONVERSATION IS HAPPENING!
When that one guy in The Social Dilema said "if you're not paying for the product, you are the product" fully freaked me out.
I watched that yesterday in my psychology class!
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
WASN'T IT WILD?!
I’ll never forgive Spotify for sending me targeted ads based on my incognito searches. Nothing like getting ads for my kinks. 🥴
I have watched The Social Dilemma and also the one thing they said that stuck with me was really "if you are not buying the product, you are the product" and that scares me tbh.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
terrifying but a good thing to realize!
I stay away from social media as much as I can. Only have Twitter for collaboration inquiries and that's pretty much it.
the social dilemma was SO GOOD. I was already scaling back my social media consumption and now I’ll likely be scaling back even more! But that’s fine- more time for activities
I watched it too. I ALMOST deleted every damn thing! Scares the shit out of me!
Yes, but I wouldn’t phrase it as “stalking” more manipulating you to stay on that platform, manipulating you to think that way.
Dan Hot Guy Content Howell
The algorithm solidifying beliefs thing!! So true!I feel like everyone who has a crazy belief is only always served things that make it seem more real. I literally remember talking to someone who was into Trump (we were arguing about it) and I was shocked at some of the things he had seen in the news or on social media. I was like “I think we’ve been seeing different things....because that’s not true lol”
Really loving the fact that your videos fully stopped appearing in my recommendations for years, and only resurfaced a few weeks ago. Don't know what's going on there. Do not like it. I can't tell the difference between channels I'm subscribed to and those I watched half a video from, they show up with the same frequency. The adverts have gone from irritating to insufferable. I am beginning to suspect that they're trying to kill KZread. It's all very worrying.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
WELL WELCOME BACK
@booksflavia
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley glad to be back!
@ashtentygret
3 жыл бұрын
THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME TOO. i was subscribed to him the entire time too. and i stopped seeing his videos for a long long time. i love you tyler and i love this video!
@ashtentygret
3 жыл бұрын
Tyler Oakley THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME TOO. i was subscribed to you the entire time too. and i stopped seeing your videos for a long long time. i love you tyler and i love this video!
@Madi-tp5jg
3 жыл бұрын
Tyler Oakley this happened to me as well. It wasn’t until about a month ago that I started seeing your videos again. I assumed you had left.
QUEEN STATING FACTS! just got back from a week online life detox and this is exactly my main reason & thanks Tyler, now I can just send this video to my friends instead of explaining patiently all over again
‘hot guy content’ **everyone looks at dan**
@dumbass_pml1199
3 жыл бұрын
SHSHHDS WHAT HELLO ITS TAYLOR FROM TIKTOK????
@vanessagripton6718
3 жыл бұрын
dumbass_pml: HI LMAOOO
love you tyler. i also saw the doc a bit ago and im so happy youre spreading the info!! crazy stuff, man. i knew this was happening but when they lay it out in front of you like that 😰 it hits hard for sure
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
I heard you mention this on the podcast and I watched it that same day (this past Tuesday of course). Honestly the credits were everything!! I changed my notification settings and am currently using Brave browser (a browser mentioned in the doc that block a lot of shit). Thank you for speaking up and bringing this issue to light. Thanks girl.
Tyler: Algorithms are constantly learning what you like to sell you stuff. Tyler +2mins: I feel like i might be part of the problem. Tyler +4mins: If you like the video be sure to give it a thumbs up and maybe share it with somebody.
@MaleOrderBride
3 жыл бұрын
Lol i know, right?! He is a massive hypocrite. He only lives in that fancy house because the algorithm targeted his Channel to us Gays
I’m so appreciative that you are still making content, it really helps to fill the void that 2020 has brought
TYLER. I literally watched this yesterday and Facebook recommended this vid straight away, seems like my algorithm is quite on point. I feel like these trillion dollar companies really do need a revamp on their purpose. What’s scary is that they have all this information and they could use this info with bad intent, revamp the purpose and I think we’d see a drastic change is the way people use social media.
“Bitch, it’s the end times. Get with it.” 😂🤣🙏
Depends, funeral homes, drugs, final expenses, nursing homes, assisted living, fancy walkers you name it I see it just because I am 79.
‘if you are not paying for the product, you are the product’ **existential crisis position enabled**
i watched this documentary last week with my brother and we were both shook by how in depth it went !!! i'd never even thought about half the stuff they brought up in it, it was crazy
Tyler, thank you for always using your platform. Thank. You! And yes! We’d love to see you have these discussion with those people.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
OF COURSE!!
I really loved the Social Dilemma because it really brought forward what Edward Snowden told us years ago, but now with these people we can associate with. I think the downside is that they kind of ended it off by saying the real world is out there, without really acknowledging that it's Covid times and it's not really possible to meet new people irl. I struggled to meet people before these times.
Yikes...I might have to watch this so I can be more aware of what’s going on. Thanks for telling us about this, Tyler.
I watched it a week ago and I have been trying to share it with the people around me. I am so glad to see someone with a big platform talk about it! Thank you so much for using your platform for good this is one of the many topics people should raise more awareness.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
And your sing-songy tone of voice is v spesh, such a joy.
My KZread glitched and shut off when he was talking about how they’re watching you. 🥴
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
GOTTA GO
those people that helped create this mess better put their millions towards this issue and not think 1 documentary wipes them clean of their wrongdoings unleashed.
ive known i needed to take social media breaks for the past couple years, and you saying this and talking about the documentary is really going to help going a month without social media! I am taking my birthday month (october) to detox and spend my time doing something else like playing my bass, piano, writing stories, etc. thanks tyler
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos lately! Thank you for discussing this! Also your mustache fits this video too well haha love you Tyler!
Isn’t it funny that Tyler watched a documentary on a platform with the recommendation algorithm that instilled in him the idea to share with others not to believe everything the algorithm puts in front of them... I’m glad that this documentary is raising awareness of this issue and the fact that it came into public awareness so strongly and quickly is support for its own argument!
I've always wondered why your recent videos are always somewhat short time-wise, but when you brought it up in this video I really respect your decision to do that. this documentary really opened my eyes to a lot of dark truths about social media. now I'm really aware that I am in favor of introducing some kind of legislative regulations for social media standards/layouts for the sake of this country, humanity itself, and the future of this planet.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
This is a great documentary. Probably the most important one this year. We all need to watch because the first step to solving the problem is learning and admitting the problem first. Thanks for sharing this. It’s so important.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
HAPPY TO START THE CONVERSATION ON HERE!
Lmao I LOVE HOW casually a picture of Dan popped up when you said “hot guy content” 😂😂
I watched the documentary, it reinforced some anxiety I had about social media but also gave me a lot more to think about. Honestly, is it is too late to just not have the Internet? Is that possible? Will we survive? Who knows. Anyway Tyler, I'm glad you made a video about it. Your videos feel like a warm hug.
I already knew I was being stalked haha, I say something about a certain product in casual conversations and suddenly, like 5 minutes later I get an ad on my phone for that product...
I literally watched the trailer for the Social Dilemma yesterday and was properly freaked out, then you uploaded this a few hours after!! King
Damn I keep getting this Tyler Oakley dude keep coming on my KZread channel I cannot figure out what the hell I saw that got me in this algorithm. LOL!!!
Yeah we’re in the apocalypse
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
YIKES
I would love to see a deep dive with you and one of the documentary's creators. Thanks as always for the great content! 💖
I just graduated with a BA with a minor in journalism, and I had to take a social media class that discussed how people are impacted by social media and what it looks like to interact with it without being trapped by it. We listened to tons of discussions from Tristan Harris, and I found it so absolutely necessary for our generation. Wish more people would think critically about what we consume, how we consume it, where we consume it and why we consume certain things over others. Now more than ever people have to be conscious with our decisions and the implications it leaves us with.
Just wanna say that I love you forever Tyler. Thanks for always being yourself ♥️
today has been the absolute worst for me with issues at home and just thank u i needed this video today, i need this escape
So change the algorithm. Look at some opera or chemistry, or something entirely not characteristic of you. Start watching pro-Trump videos or Biden spots. Confuse the shit out of them. You can change and confuse the algorithm. So on any give day I might be a new mother, a Q anon supporter, a Jewish rabbi, a trans teacher or maybe non binary barbie doll.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
HELL YES
Omg I love your videos Tyler!! Like omg I’ll watch any content you make 😅🥰
That's a great point how our personal algorithms reinforce our beliefs in a way that hinders us when we interact others with opposite opinions in real life. It is a way to divide us all.
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!
Thanks so much for this! I rarely comment on videos but I have to say now i'm sitting here working on my internet privacy thanks to you :)
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
You don’t sound crazy. I appreciate you putting this message out. 🖤
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!!
The way I see it is social media removes the need for one to truly think for themselves and form their own values and beliefs. The removal of think for one's self is truly terrifying to even consider. I choose to avoid social media as much as I can to keep my values and beliefs my own.
I see more and more people start to talk about this so I think the conversation is gradually starting up. I feel like as a people we have to start demanding boundaries for this sort of stuff from our governments so that these giants will have to abide by them. I feel like we'd be off much stronger as a whole if we weren't cooped up all the time with this stuff. Really nice video Tyler and I think too that it'd be mad interesting to see you have a deeper discussion about this with one of those people.
I’ve slowly started to phase out social media over the last 3 years. After all the speculation around what happened in 2016, I realized how much of a problem it was. Plus it’s always creeped me out how much they know about us, but we are all in one way or another contributing to the problem. In California I believe you can opt out of them selling your data. We need that at a federal level. Now if you add stuff like Clearview AI into that mix it makes you realized how truly non existent our privacy is anymore because current technology. It’s a double edge sword.
I watched the documentary yesterday! IT IS SO GOOD! So glad you are on board with this, too, Tyler! ALSO I LOVE YOU!!!!
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
GLAD YOU GOT TO WATCH IT!~
I watched this on Saturday and I deleted everything. Is it going to mentally hurt for weeks getting adjusted back to a human brain without constant stimulation? Yes. Is it necessary? Absolutely. I don't ever want my phone to tell me I've averaged 4 hours a day of screen time again.
i’m glad ur using ur platform for spreading important and useful issues that are relatable to all who own a phone :)
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
IT'S IMPORTANT!
@gracesanmiguel49
3 жыл бұрын
omg u actually replied to me 🥺💓 ive been subscribed to u for so long and am so glad to have always consistently see u put only great content that only comes from a good place w harmless intentions, always staying true to u 🔥🔥 love u queen, hope u r always thriving 💓
Hell yeah. I got off of facebook one week before this documentary came out. Feeling #validated. Gonna watch it! I replaced all my social media with letter-writing and phone calls, and it’s been good. Do recommend.
Thank you for your good vibes while we’re still in Stage 4 Lockdown in Vic, AUS 🙄 you really do be out here getting us through our COVID-19 lockdown depression ❤️
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING MOLLY!
@mollymagee7800
3 жыл бұрын
Tyler Oakley always ❤️
This was great! Thank you💜
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
TYLER ❤️❤️❤️ you make my day better
watching you literally lifts my spirit 😩🥺 just love the vibes 💗
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
thank you friend!!
@haleighshaffer4922
3 жыл бұрын
Of course and I’m so glad you made this video too, cause BIHH I watched the documentary the night before you uploaded and I was SHOOK 🤣
i am now convinced to watch that netflix show. restarted watching you again, ty 💕
I love you since day 1
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that! sending love!
That documentary was amazing and after watching it I still think about it every time I’m on my phone or computer
Yes! Turn off those notifications!! Only have the best of the best come through to your front screen. One way to attempt a bit of control.
Great video. I had already watched the documentary and loved it. I just wanted to point out that creators like you are not really the problem. The problem are people who share fake news and/or sell opinions as facts. As long as you make sure that what you say is not some conspiracy theory full of correlations and no facts its okay and really helpful
Ilysm most genuine content this year! Thanks Tyler... iconic
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
thank you friend!!
The book 1984 predicted that nothing was gonna be private and hasnt been for a long time and as the book says "big brother is always watching"
For those interested, Destin from SmarterEveryDay made a 3 video series about social media manipulation on different platforms. One of the guests in his series was also in the documentary. I think another very important takeaway was how strongly some the people being interviewed felt about not letting their children use social media. I think those pulling the strings have been very effective in using echo chambers to stoke the current political fires, especially surrounding BLM, protests, and the pandemic.
I believe it. We gotta stand together!
This is great content Tyler, gonna watch the documentary ❤
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!
im so happy that people like you with a platform are calling this out,, i hate it here
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
SAME
Awesome video. Def Black Mirror vibes!
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
SEE!! YOU GET IT!!
I’m reading binge right now, I love it!!
That was such a good documentary!!! Highly recommend! It def opened my eyes!
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
I’m loving the mustache 💕 and I’m defiantly gonna watch the documentary.
I haven’t watched that documentary but a year or so ago I listened to Robert McNamee’s interview with Sam Harris and I was terrified. Highly recommend that interview!!
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
OOOO WILL LISTEN, THANK YOU!
and even when you DO pay for the product they still collect, use, and sell your data.
i hope this doesn’t sound weird but i love your voice! like, i could listen to you speaking for hours
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
well GOOD NEWS i've got hours of content uploaded just for you
@dumbass_pml1199
3 жыл бұрын
aw thanks tyler 😌
Tyler ive beeb watching you forever and i think its AWESOME you're replying and talking with us! This video was awesome as well! Have a wonderful day!
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
awww thank you emily!! glad you enjoyed
@bostonemily617
3 жыл бұрын
@@TylerOakley seriously thank you! Im watching the doc right now! I knew this was happening. THANK YOU! no need to respond! I just cant thank you enough for spreading awareness! Using your reach for good. So refreshing!
All of Tyler's reply comments are in all caps and that is the energy I need
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
READ THEM AS ME SCREAMING
I left all social media except youtube and discord (if you count discord as social media) in January. I feel so much better now that I am off it and I am pretty careful with the people I do follow on youtube and never look at the suggestions or recommended for me stuff because, I have enough youtube to get caught up on from channels I already care about. Idk, I definitely think that more regulation is needed just because of the insane amount of influence social media platforms hold
Yeah I notice it on KZread a lot, click on a wrong video on accident get reminded for the next half year because videos like it get recommended. Also it wants me to rewatch videos. Like no! I already watched that video 3 months ago
Queeeennn. Love you!!! 🧡
6:20 i love the sass tho
Thank you for talking about this Tyler!!!! I watched it and was wondering why more people aren’t talking about it 😅 #ReformSocialMedia
Preach Tyler!!
yeah we really do be living in echo chambers. i think one of the most important things to do to improve the world is to try to break out of our own echo chambers by engaging with content we don't agree with because that will also be breaking into other people's echo chambers so it's a win win
ok i NEED to watch the documentary also i love your vidssss
@TylerOakley
3 жыл бұрын
HOPE YOU ENJOY
Im watching escape the night rn cuz i had just now knew that it was free?! I really had so much fun watching you scream and gasp everytime in s2 lol Much love ❤