How sad that parents feel abandoned by their children. If parents have made mistakes then children should show empathy and understanding of the reasons as to why parents may not have had time to give attention and love. Just as we would not abandon our children when they are young and parents endure so much pain raising them then children also should not abandon them them when they are old and vulnerable. It is so sad that one hears of the same story from virtually everyone regardless of how wealthy or poor they are. Let's see how my two children will treat their parents as they have been given all the attention and love we could give them! I think hearing this man it is very important for me to take action now to prepare for old age as much as one can and not to have any expectations.😢😔

@rpaafourever7908

4 ай бұрын

STAAP.. its SAD for the kids.. enough of the emotional atyachaar.. Are you kidding me? Do you know how much these unfit parents generally guilt trip and never even admit their mistakes?

There is nothing like the stage of loneliness. I feel remorse, hurt and sorry for you Mr. Singhania. Devote little time in prayer 🙏 It will help much .

One Golden rule Never hand over your wealth to your children While you are alive But be fair to them Write a will when you are still healthy and your mind is sound And give them a hint Or make it clear This is what I kept for you So they don't fight with each other Once you are gone God Bless

@supritiphani1282

3 ай бұрын

Beautifully written by you

It’s sad that some parents in India still only think their sons should get everything.

@SasmitaParida-fw6oq

4 ай бұрын

💯

@deepthiap2669

4 ай бұрын

its also sad that daughters and sons should get equal property but the son is responsible to look after his parents in old age and also bear their medical expenses and look after them(with all the luxuries) like why ??!!!! why cant a daughter take responsibility when she wants half their property …? No one talks about it. Actually now feminism is becoming more toxic nowadays.

@backiasara

4 ай бұрын

And also daughter will loot much more for her dowry till child birth and also wanted property into half ​@@deepthiap2669

@aakankshavashisth357

4 ай бұрын

​@@deepthiap2669😂😂behenji bcoz daughter is married in another family she has responsibility of that family too...... That itself is a huge and tiring responsibility.... 😂😂kaun si duniya me reh rhi ho ap..

@antrikshachatterjee368

4 ай бұрын

My mom too and she got kicks from her son

As a senior citizen cant you go to court to get back your property..i read court has got back the property if children didn't take care of their parents..

@geetharavi25

4 ай бұрын

If you go to court, lawyers will be earning and you won't get justice. Our experience..We read things like court gave back property to senior citizens, reality is nothing like that. We go to lawyer believing the news. We become poor. Lawyers become rich

Nice interview.valuable life lessons. I would have loved to see his daughter’s picture too. here.

Still his life is better than most of us.

This is a stage in life everyone has to pass through , By everyone I mean, even our children and also our grand children, May be, our ancestors also felt the same in their later stage of life, This is an inevitable course which life eill take in this jouney of life No one will be spared,

Sir, feeling very sorry for you 🥲🥲 life without money is very difficult

my father favoured my brot his entire life ..even through all the abuse he went through at his hands he supported him..when my father retired and my mother passed on(btw had beaten n verbally abused mum her entire life) my brot gt more violent with him..with his progressive age he was afraid what will happen to him if the abuse continues..Luckily my father kept all the asset to himself even though my brot wanted him to transfer property in his name.. then i entered the picture.. even though m a lady i stood up for myself and my father.. gave stern warning..he dare not hurt us or i will make sure he uses crutches to walk fr the rest of his life and i meant it.. i told him i will show you what abuse feels like..since then he keeps a distance from me and my father.. And yes there was a time when my father did consider giving my brother major chunk of his asset inspite of always treating us equal.. he realised his mistake.. now he very openly declared my asset will be divided equally , he even said if my brot as much raised his voice he will be disowned.

@heh8285

4 ай бұрын

Our society is as such they want the parents to be dependent on son's,so though your father was mistreated by your brother,he would have put up the mask of favouring son.then your brother would need therapy, counseling because a son is very much affected, depressed after a mother's death. though a daughter is also affected,girls express it to their friends,relatives and they cope up,for daughters there is always cooking- a healing therapy but the sons just are broken down because of the male ego of not crying,not sharing sorrow to others.protect your father,God help your brother also to heal fully and bless you for being a good daughter 🎉

@Angle86

4 ай бұрын

@@heh8285 my brother had beaten and abused our mother her entire life.. bc of his abuse she moved out of the house to our other flat alone..we thought her death will make him realise his mistake ,but things took a turn fr worst.. thinking father is alone n vulnerable his abuse gt worst with him.. he even started targeting me.. kept threatening me so i dont ask fr my share in property.. i never cared about money but his actions really made me wonder.. he has not earned a single penny or held a job his entire life n he is threatening us fr what..there are a lot many things he did that i would not want to divulge on this platform but can say my parents raised a bad asss girl.. when i took charge of things ,first thing i did was give him stern warning to be vigilant of me.. i am not my mother.. he is on my radar.. he took serious note of my warning.. time n again there is outburst by him but nothing major.. he has not dared to hurt me or my father since.. whereas it comes to inheritance i am not gonna leave a single penny of my share fr anyone.. my mother had long bfr sensed my brothers intensions..infact she has discussed about it with me and my father in confidence bfr she expired.. i will make sure i fulfil her wish and take what is mine at any cost..

@Angle86

4 ай бұрын

@@heh8285 my bother has verbally n physically abused our mother her entire life.. there is a lot more he has done that i would not want to divulge here.. my mother out of fear moved out of the house n shifted to another flat alone.. we thought her death will make him realise his mistake n change him fr good but things got worst.. he started targeting my father n me..he started abusing us more n that is when i decided to take the stand.. since then he is on his guard.. i warned him i will attack him at his most vulnerable state..whereas it comes to money n property i hold equal share so he better not think he is the only heir.. i will make sure i get what is mine.. nobody knows how much he has abused us.. n especially our mother.. he tried threatening me for property.. the day i took charge of things i warned him to keep a safe distance from me for his safety.. if i lose my mind i will bring him to justice..

@heh8285

4 ай бұрын

@@Angle86 sorry for all the pains your family went through.may the future bring peace , happiness for your family members from God the Almighty

@Angle86

4 ай бұрын

@@heh8285 🙏🏻🙏🏻

A daughter been told you don't belong to our family any more, what can you do you are a daughter only boys can manage things... Always ignoring daughter cry for help whenever she needs in life just bcoz she's daughter... Some parents try to squeeze finance from her bcoz the son is not doing well ... After all this how many daughter's will stand by parents

Gautam was his golden child while he pampered him and in return gave gautam all his share but gave NOTHING to the other two children so.he got his karma i guess so pls dont feel sorry for partial parents they deserve it

@KPlyf

4 ай бұрын

Exactly. He made his elder son relinquish everything. This budau deserves Jutta.

Felt very sad to see vijaypat sir in this state. His son's will pay for their karma soond don't worry.

Don't give them Car before giving them sanskar

Sir even today u have lots of power if u raise ur voice about what had you face than whole india will boycott raymond.

There is a supreme court order which says when your property is in your son's name which you have given him you can get back all your property as a senior citizen but why it's not happening please someone let me know

@geetharavi25

2 ай бұрын

The cheater son young he is. Pays police, lawyers and they are in sons side in court. Senior citizens no good health nor money to fight. So no justice

Now a days it is going to be like this in future,don't worry sir you are honest you lead your life happily, happiness comes from within.

Sir, soooo sorry for you.

He too is human he can make like all of us do we too don't when we hurt other n who holds grudges against us..... But the son got his name his status too so nothing can justify ehat he did to his father

Feel each words u say..SAD!!!

Bitter truth.

Sir,you have JK temple in Kanpur live there, many people will accompany you

Mr Sighania was too much busy with 'money' so had no time to kindle love in the hearts of his chidren Though late, now he realises that love is supreme.Forgive them after sll they are your children

U still have time to revoke ur will sir

@kirangowda7836

5 ай бұрын

Dude it's not will..will comes after death..he actually gave away property..but still he can approach court that his children are not taking care of him & take back his property..

@geetharavi25

4 ай бұрын

This is such an open case and proof that law can do nothing in front of greedy children. Greedy lawyers earn taking advantage from greedy children and senior citizen never gets justice . Such a shame on our judiciary

Dont worry uncle. Your son doesn't love his wife too. Moreover you favoured your younger son, the golden child. You deserve it. You are facing your karam. Aise cases dekh ke aur vishwas ho jata hai bhagwan pe.

@lonedude511

4 ай бұрын

N we will face ours.., don't be proud....

@KPlyf

3 ай бұрын

​@@lonedude511atleast am not trying hard to look innocent. Apne karmo ka pta hai mujhe.

Sir, you can reclaim your share of your lost wealth by a writ petition in the Supreme Court of India in these cases.

This man was a terrible man in younger days. He did unthinkable things and his son did what he did in his younger days.. Too late, Uncle! Pray to God 🙏 Note - I am glad, I am not so rich, but a great father, grand father and friend 🙁🙏🙏🙏🙏

@endroholic7161

5 ай бұрын

what did he do? im really curious now. It would be really kind pf you if you explain

@harry8701

5 ай бұрын

​@@endroholic7161he cheated his brother's family after his brother died and ill treated his wife which is why his other son left him and settled in Singapore

@smartindian4899

5 ай бұрын

@@endroholic7161 Google and see my dear 😀You will be shocked!

@ashitamalkani3845

4 ай бұрын

Didn’t know that 🙏🏻

@deepthiap2669

4 ай бұрын

basically nowadays only people are believing old people and women only.. you may not know what this opd man did to their children. I feel karma gave him lesson

Not at all a fair deal done,he should have given all his kids,Not only one Son.

Give your earning to charity and read Geeta Mahabharat and Ramayana keep your mind towards Adhyatma.

One shitty thing which is becoming prevalent in india is daughters and sons should get equal property but the son is responsible to look after his parents in old age and also bear their medical expenses. like why ??!!!! why cant a daughter take responsibility when she wants half their property …? No one talks about it. Actually now feminism is becoming more toxic nowadays

@backiasara

4 ай бұрын

Dowry looting also they do

@deepthiap2669

4 ай бұрын

@@backiasara yes and also these females who don’t look after their parents want the whole husband side property alsoand the worst thing is they are majority.

@rpaafourever7908

4 ай бұрын

Acha and when patriarchy is toxic, you turn a blind eye.. moreover women were suffering for centuries, and even now working women do far more housework and child rearing. A son's children enjoy their grandparents company, and their moral support. When they become old, that's when the issue starts. You want to have your cake and eat it also. If the son has an issue, send the parents over to daughters house, and go live with his in laws too after marriage. Split time and address equally, then talk.

@deepthiap2669

4 ай бұрын

@@rpaafourever7908 dont seek revenge for ancient times .. previous centuries… No one can help if you start speaking about previous centuries. patriarchy stuff is very less nowadays compared to previous generation days. And Im also saying the same take equal responsibility, spend equal time, and take equal property and equal finance sharing.

@deepthiap2669

4 ай бұрын

@@rpaafourever7908 And also they enjoy taking care of their grand children… it might be son or daughter… I have seen some parents who take care of daughters children and dont look after sons children and argue that son should take care of them now that they became old. What the solution now?!!! looking after grandchildren is just a bonus to the childrens parents and its choice for grandparents.

He is just reaping his karma for favouritism towards his children .. So no bad feel for u 😂

In sanathan dharma, at this age,you are supposed to detach yourself from the bondage. Saying is easy.difficult to follow

@supritiphani1282

3 ай бұрын

Really this is all you have come up with 😮