Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

It's important to recognize when someone is trying to manipulate your emotions. This can be done through guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or other tactics that are meant to make you feel a certain way. It's important to set boundaries and stand up for yourself when this happens.
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  • @user-gf7nn5jc1i
    @user-gf7nn5jc1i5 ай бұрын

    I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

  • @rudranijana8205

    @rudranijana8205

    5 ай бұрын

    Same here I also do the same thing dear...❤

  • @kidsstoriesbypoonam3417

    @kidsstoriesbypoonam3417

    5 ай бұрын

    Peaceful listening

  • @amiyamitra3251

    @amiyamitra3251

    5 ай бұрын

    Gyanjyoti Debi Saraswati Didi Shivani 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @chidanandakrishnegowda4028

    @chidanandakrishnegowda4028

    5 ай бұрын

    Very happy to know about your thoughts. 🤝

  • @ramprasaddas948

    @ramprasaddas948

    4 ай бұрын

    Very lovely discussion

  • @JM11423
    @JM114232 ай бұрын

    Recipe for Peace 1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently. 2) Absorb the messages 3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt 4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you. Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍 Based on my experience😍 I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

  • @sreevidyavenugopal5352

    @sreevidyavenugopal5352

    Ай бұрын

    U said it❤

  • @rosepham3001

    @rosepham3001

    Ай бұрын

    Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

  • @rosepham3001

    @rosepham3001

    Ай бұрын

    That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

  • @cinthaa1

    @cinthaa1

    Ай бұрын

    You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

  • @alpsalangad2898

    @alpsalangad2898

    Ай бұрын

    Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

  • @padmajasalkar2358
    @padmajasalkar23582 ай бұрын

    Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

  • @sanjayarora856
    @sanjayarora8565 ай бұрын

    She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

  • @ranupushpargha3977

    @ranupushpargha3977

    4 ай бұрын

    I love you....

  • @user-gf7nn5jc1i
    @user-gf7nn5jc1i5 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

  • @deepalideshmukh456

    @deepalideshmukh456

    3 ай бұрын

    Such great thanks

  • @user-ci1eh3ip7s

    @user-ci1eh3ip7s

    2 ай бұрын

    When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

  • @shilpar4848

    @shilpar4848

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@user-ci1eh3ip7sEven I have had the same experience.

  • @mythreeshagowda6535
    @mythreeshagowda65355 ай бұрын

    Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

  • @ananyachakraborty4665
    @ananyachakraborty46654 ай бұрын

    According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

  • @shaziakhawar4154

    @shaziakhawar4154

    Ай бұрын

    Yes this is true

  • @asmasheikh5001
    @asmasheikh50013 ай бұрын

    Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

  • @ravzp
    @ravzp5 ай бұрын

    Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” : The right way is - that will increase my inner strength - that will increase my flexibility - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy - that will keep me happy always Now choose your right way. If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside. 🙏🙏

  • @jessicahou8340
    @jessicahou83405 ай бұрын

    I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

  • @aditisheoranc
    @aditisheoranc2 күн бұрын

    Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

  • @kirtinarang6994
    @kirtinarang69944 ай бұрын

    BK Shivani is so much like a faithful teacher I ever had in my life..I am now going through a very emotional trauma these days and want my parents to support me ..I dont know why my parents dont have time but yes BK Shivani sessions helped me a lot to overcome the anxiety and depression..I am grateful to you mam...Om Shanti...

  • @lavi_arun

    @lavi_arun

    3 ай бұрын

    We r with u…don’t worry, God bless you!

  • @ushareddy3237
    @ushareddy32374 күн бұрын

    Thank you BK Shivani

  • @ulrikehohn6707
    @ulrikehohn67073 ай бұрын

    Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

  • @ClassesMANI
    @ClassesMANI4 ай бұрын

    I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

  • @positiveMindset665

    @positiveMindset665

    3 ай бұрын

    Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

  • @charissastella8920

    @charissastella8920

    Ай бұрын

    How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

  • @shellyedwards2875
    @shellyedwards28754 ай бұрын

    Love you for this ❤

  • @bkharshn
    @bkharshn5 ай бұрын

    Beautiful!

  • @rashi2044
    @rashi20443 ай бұрын

    Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

  • @hemavathislreddy1725
    @hemavathislreddy17255 ай бұрын

    Om shanti ❤

  • @indirakb6163
    @indirakb61635 ай бұрын

    Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

  • @tomicafrance9515
    @tomicafrance95155 ай бұрын

    I love her so much

  • @praveennov
    @praveennov5 ай бұрын

    Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence. Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

  • @anamei9923
    @anamei99232 ай бұрын

    Thank you.🙏🏽💖

  • @geddadavijayalakshmi489
    @geddadavijayalakshmi4895 ай бұрын

    Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

  • @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
    @rajasekharvenkataswamy31634 ай бұрын

    A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

  • @mamtabhattacharyya73
    @mamtabhattacharyya734 ай бұрын

    It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad89613 ай бұрын

    God bless you maam, thank you🙏

  • @wordsrevealed2784
    @wordsrevealed27844 ай бұрын

    Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

  • @vipulaahuja8042
    @vipulaahuja80422 ай бұрын

    So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

  • @chandneeramsaroop7101
    @chandneeramsaroop71015 ай бұрын

    Really words of wisdom

  • @drfouziayasmeen066
    @drfouziayasmeen0665 ай бұрын

    Very beautiful talk

  • @penny6921
    @penny69213 ай бұрын

    Om Shanti Sis.🙏

  • @sharadakshetry5768
    @sharadakshetry57685 ай бұрын

    ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

  • @bhanugopal7132
    @bhanugopal7132Ай бұрын

    Came across this thoughtful video just when I needed some guidance and thank you so much Amma for your inputs. 🙏🏽

  • @RadheyRadhey108
    @RadheyRadhey1082 ай бұрын

    Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

  • @geethpriyasaravanan8460
    @geethpriyasaravanan84603 ай бұрын

    Thank you🙏

  • @user-fr6qt6qf7h
    @user-fr6qt6qf7h20 күн бұрын

    Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad89613 ай бұрын

    Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

  • @inspirationalwomandebasree1080
    @inspirationalwomandebasree10805 ай бұрын

    I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

  • @user-zb2rp1he5h
    @user-zb2rp1he5h3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @Manraji
    @Manraji4 ай бұрын

    Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

  • @jessye5418
    @jessye54185 ай бұрын

    Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

  • @eeman_ali
    @eeman_ali3 ай бұрын

    Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

  • @ratnamaissin80
    @ratnamaissin805 ай бұрын

    Om Shanti. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @deepapradeep876
    @deepapradeep8765 ай бұрын

    Ohm Shanti🙏🙏🙏

  • @monikasingh5799
    @monikasingh57993 ай бұрын

    Heart feel the pain mind forgets

  • @rajashreesharma4067
    @rajashreesharma40675 ай бұрын

    Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

  • @faridafahrtash1617
    @faridafahrtash161717 күн бұрын

    Om Shanti Peace / Joy Shivani

  • @divyaaggarwal9860
    @divyaaggarwal98602 ай бұрын

    Thank you Didi❤❤❤

  • @user-fn1qd1hl6x
    @user-fn1qd1hl6x5 ай бұрын

    God bless u always

  • @saundryakaushal
    @saundryakaushal2 ай бұрын

    Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

  • @erinjayawickrema7204
    @erinjayawickrema72042 ай бұрын

    Much merits ❤

  • @JyotiShivaShakti
    @JyotiShivaShakti9 күн бұрын

    💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema56632 ай бұрын

    Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

  • @jnuisahadas5916
    @jnuisahadas5916Ай бұрын

    Om Shantii Sister,,🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @avijitransingh4413
    @avijitransingh44135 ай бұрын

    Om shanti jii

  • @amberdays3499
    @amberdays349910 күн бұрын

    Wow so good❤🙏🙏

  • @sidduhiremath2866
    @sidduhiremath28663 ай бұрын

    Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

  • @MrFelipefelop
    @MrFelipefelop3 ай бұрын

    Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj33175 ай бұрын

    Good morning sister om Shanti.

  • @doolariesingh2502
    @doolariesingh2502Ай бұрын

    Thank u 🙏🌺

  • @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056
    @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin20563 ай бұрын

    Great thoughts......

  • @anjalinicholas4441
    @anjalinicholas44414 ай бұрын

    Great🎉🎉

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317Ай бұрын

    Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

  • @carolannburke5450
    @carolannburke545011 күн бұрын

    Wow....life-changing. Really great, xo

  • @rooba1042
    @rooba1042Ай бұрын

    Om shanthi

  • @lankankeys8310
    @lankankeys8310Ай бұрын

    Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

  • @TakJhalMishtiMB
    @TakJhalMishtiMB5 ай бұрын

    Om Shanti

  • @drsuruchiupadhyay9375
    @drsuruchiupadhyay93752 ай бұрын

    Superb ❤

  • @AnilGupta-mn2iz
    @AnilGupta-mn2iz5 ай бұрын

    It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

  • @q2_20
    @q2_2023 күн бұрын

    om shanti didi

  • @neelamkankariya1680
    @neelamkankariya16805 ай бұрын

    Superb

  • @peacockLife
    @peacockLife3 ай бұрын

    it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

  • @lizbethbautista4781
    @lizbethbautista47814 ай бұрын

    Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

  • @positiveMindset665

    @positiveMindset665

    3 ай бұрын

    This is amazing to hear 😊 Good on you.

  • @annapurnasuresh3668
    @annapurnasuresh36685 ай бұрын

    I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

  • @annapurnasuresh3668

    @annapurnasuresh3668

    5 ай бұрын

    I'm in Karnataka

  • @annapurnasuresh3668

    @annapurnasuresh3668

    5 ай бұрын

    🙏

  • @bhanurana5731
    @bhanurana5731Ай бұрын

    Dee acha bol rhe ho

  • @user-ko2el7vs9o
    @user-ko2el7vs9oАй бұрын

    Truth

  • @jayashree8512
    @jayashree85125 күн бұрын

    Super didiji

  • @jhansilakshmi7850
    @jhansilakshmi78504 ай бұрын

    Nice words madam

  • @wamanbhide4410
    @wamanbhide44105 ай бұрын

    Due to Artificial intelligence, the situation described here can raise in our life. So, human has to be careful against side effects of AI. and has to keep ourselves strong by minds.

  • @StarLightPlanets
    @StarLightPlanets3 ай бұрын

    Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

  • @user-bg4pc5mo6q
    @user-bg4pc5mo6q3 ай бұрын

    Om Shanti jiii

  • @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123
    @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya1235 ай бұрын

    ओम शांति

  • @ruthmanhoihching3204
    @ruthmanhoihching320421 күн бұрын

    Amen

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw2 ай бұрын

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw

    @Marywhite-pd1hw

    2 ай бұрын

    Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

  • @archnaarchna3428
    @archnaarchna34285 ай бұрын

    I love this

  • @lincykp1421
    @lincykp14215 ай бұрын

  • @syedruhullahrizvi8173
    @syedruhullahrizvi81733 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @ayanbiswas2883
    @ayanbiswas28835 ай бұрын

    om shanti 🙏✨.She's angel ✨👼🙏💫👑

  • @jayantakar6678
    @jayantakar66785 ай бұрын

    🙏

  • @savithatrsavithatr3131
    @savithatrsavithatr31314 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @Quantumanandha
    @Quantumanandha5 ай бұрын

    I'm easily getting manipulation 😢

  • @adv2666
    @adv2666Ай бұрын

    That's the whole game 😢.... emotionally manipulate!!! Who is a glib talker , wins 🏆

  • @BrightMinds-kl8fb
    @BrightMinds-kl8fb2 ай бұрын

    Note for me to remember - It’s not healthy for me when I allow somebody else to control my state of mind. There’s no freedom for me; nothing is in my hand everything is on peoples behaviour. For one day I will take charge no expectations for world to be my way. Be and do what you want for one day and say what you want to do for one day and I will respond with peace and dignity for one day. This is my personal guarantee to my self. We will do it. It’s a decision. It’s not trying as word try is about those aspects that is not in our control like other people, the world, things we cannot control. When it comes to my mind, it’s not try, I have full control to decide. If I reflect what other people are doing, I lose my creativity. My options that can come in my mind to respond in a way that’s a reflection of me. Always remember, anything we don’t use, any power we don’t use, we start losing it. It’s a power, a gift from Almighty. We should not let it go!

  • @padmiabenayake1524
    @padmiabenayake15245 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏💐

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527Ай бұрын

    Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️ My way of thinking and analysing the situation has changed in a very positive way I feel very good listening to your voice especially when i am low Keep educating us 🙏🙏❤️❤️ Very grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @rakhiaggarwal3852
    @rakhiaggarwal385224 күн бұрын

    What about those who thinks that support is only money. Rest other things don't come in support for them

  • @chelsy2255
    @chelsy22555 ай бұрын

    we don't have that much control of our own mind either, it's very hard to change our subconscious mind, our limiting beliefs, come out of our own traumas.

  • @arunajyothi2499
    @arunajyothi24995 ай бұрын

    ❤please help me how to handle evil people in life

  • @dishau7541
    @dishau75415 ай бұрын

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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