I’m a grown man, I don’t want any form of contact with underage children.

@gozardsmooth

24 күн бұрын

I agree, this is why we should ban all sports. It is merely a grooming ground for men who do want that contact.

@evening_streets

24 күн бұрын

Does everyone else have to live by your standard?

@Drayonis

24 күн бұрын

​@evening_streets they should. All it takes is one accusation from a kid "they felt uncomfortable " and it's a wrap

@gozardsmooth

24 күн бұрын

@@Drayonis - true that. Keep children away from the neck beard daddies. And the Religious weirdos. Men who eat candy and cake have sticky fingers.

@ridwanomar5351

24 күн бұрын

@@evening_streets your statement tells us you don’t know boundaries.

Unless it's cosmetology class, I don't send my child to school to do hair 🙄

@ridwanomar5351

24 күн бұрын

Yep, there are times and places For that.

@crystalsherman8896

24 күн бұрын

Exactly

@CotyB-wr1wt

24 күн бұрын

Period.

@michellelove8146

24 күн бұрын

I know that’s right lol. But even if it was, he should be using volunteers or mannequins, js

@chinaarlene7035

24 күн бұрын

​@@ridwanomar5351 it was after all their work had been done and permission granted from their other teachers. They had to be in good academic standing as well.

This is 100% inappropriate. Those are not your daughters.

Him calling the students his little best friends was all I needed to know about him… Very inappropriate behavior as a teacher

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Definitely

@ljonespratt7094

23 күн бұрын

Immature

@SincerelyEMartin

23 күн бұрын

Exactly!!

@cr-cg7kn

22 күн бұрын

gordon flowers and co. will be paying him a little visit soon.. sorry to meet you like this , i know you’re a good person…

@MrBubyV

21 күн бұрын

Right?!? ……..Red Flag all day. 🚩

Its inappropriate. Why are people trying to Justify it?.

@mxhughes

22 күн бұрын

Cuz most ppl are morally bankrupt and justify their feelings of when they were young n moving fast to excuse a possible predator

@javiruiz8365

21 күн бұрын

Exactly!!! This is why the bLK community is dumb

@WrldWideOp

21 күн бұрын

Because its innocent😒 because when something really wrong is goin on, you same ppl be quiet asf

@Confused_Biracial

21 күн бұрын

they're sick.

@jasonwolfe3252

20 күн бұрын

Baby mamas are trying to justify it.

I doubt any father would approve this.

@robertmotion

23 күн бұрын

ion know none .... including me. /Bklyn👑

@yvette1710

23 күн бұрын

The comment I was looking for. Nobody but single mothers would approve of this.

@RainAprilDiamond

23 күн бұрын

❤

@bdukes8075

23 күн бұрын

🎯 no good father would go for this

@javiruiz8365

21 күн бұрын

This only happens in blk schools! I can’t imagine giving one of my teachers a shampoo and a scalp massage before she goes to her appointment. This is so bizarre

Not saying he’s a predator but most of the teachers I knew that was close with students like this were predators messing with underage students.its not appropriate 💯

@Alicia-kg3hs

20 күн бұрын

Same! Then it’s little touches here and there for no reason, a secret exchange of numbers to text and then after school meet ups and then…. Yeah. This is done very slowly over time. I know it second hand. We have to protect children because of cases like this.

@skyjacksonA1

19 күн бұрын

Omg he's definitely not and everyone is worried about everything but raising their own kids

@05zianne

19 күн бұрын

Most of the teacher you knew that were close to students like this were predators? How many predator teachers did you know??

@tynieamarie8160

19 күн бұрын

@@05zianne one was a women & one was a man .

@tynieamarie8160

19 күн бұрын

@@skyjacksonA1 not saying he is but I’m just speaking from my experience. Me personally I wouldn’t do it knowing how the world. Looks at it not saying he’s wrong but it’s how its perceived.

Unprofessional, inappropriate and scary that people think this is okay. Little girls are not your best friends. He has an unhealthy relationship in his mind with these kids and he is satisfying a need for attention and admiration through these kids. On the surface it seems harmless but on a deeper level this is actually sick. I also know at those little girls age having a crush on a young looking teacher and having him give me access to “help” him do something as intimate as unbraid his hair… yeah as a teenage girl I would be dreaming about him every night and claiming him as “my man” in my mind. That’s teenage girls for you! of course the kids would not protest. So, It is for the teacher to understand boundaries.

@supercic123

24 күн бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@CookingwithKrys

23 күн бұрын

I agree, sis!

@nkotbsouth

23 күн бұрын

💯

@Kidanification

21 күн бұрын

perfect observation. 👌

@keyahninaylor4974

21 күн бұрын

Facts

This woman attempting to defend him when men are clearly stating it’s inappropriate is very troubling.

@sunflowerlady2057

22 күн бұрын

Yeah it’s eye opening for sure.

@sjoo8

22 күн бұрын

I mean I agree with you… but also it’s a little funny because she probably knows just how annoying taking braids out can be and how she’d be grateful for help to… meanwhile the two vocal guys are bald. They don’t know the horror 😂

@workingman9787

19 күн бұрын

Because she wanted that relationship with her teacher when she was 15. 🤣

@BishopEddie5443

19 күн бұрын

Too much is being made of this! Most of those female students have no fathers in the home and are actually comforted by being able to touch a man's hair. Why aren't we discussing how fatherlessness is creating thugs shooting up the Black community instead? This is just a gossip channel not to be taken seriously!

@alexiswilliams8475

19 күн бұрын

This is what being discussed point of view. Perception of how you see things. The majority of you guys drage the women for agreeing with the teacher. And she did not. She gave back reference meaning this teach has done things before and let school know. Also if the parents of the students in the video knew this was happening and ok with. Then who is she not to be ok with it. But if not she don't feel that's okay. That's why she said she is in the middle. Which means she is not with him on this if he did not get the permission of the parents and school.

This is very inappropriate and unprofessional behavior by that “teacher”. It shows a lack of good judgment, common sense, and inability to maintain professional boundaries. He should be disciplined for his actions.

@Soulsoother333

24 күн бұрын

Perfectly stated

@michellelove8146

24 күн бұрын

Very well stated!

@devinevisionary

24 күн бұрын

Decipline for two ponytails ? I’m sure they didn’t mention this is an inappropriate no no in his interview or any of the school meetings . Smh

@iMatti00

24 күн бұрын

Omg. So a teacher does one thing wrong in your mind so now the teacher is worthless? Because exactly what you are saying when you wrote: “teacher”. Sorry, that’s a hyperbolic or irrational reaction. And you awake that schools with this demographic are often starved for male role models and motivation to care about school work. So a teacher is breaking through and now the teacher is worthless? Smh

@iMatti00

24 күн бұрын

1. Omg. So a teacher does one thing wrong in your mind so now the teacher is worthless? Because that is exactly what you are saying when you wrote: “teacher”. Sorry, that’s a hyperbolic or irrational reaction.

The woman on the panel sounds ridiculous. The two men on the panel expressed why it’s inappropriate from a man’s perspective and we should be listening.

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Right dumb

@Chicago48

23 күн бұрын

Are they IN the classroom getting braids? Nope, don't do it. The classroom is NOT a salon. It wouldn't happen in a white school.

@sunflowerlady2057

22 күн бұрын

Hmm 🤔 that’s interesting…so are men just inherently sexual predators? Or are they saying that men should stay away completely and avoid building rapport or bonding because they can easily be accused of sexu@l assault at any time? That’s what I heard these men said.

@sunflowerlady2057

22 күн бұрын

Listen to what the men ACTUALLY said.

@uknw1952

22 күн бұрын

No, it's "people with narrow minds, like you" have issues and are ridiculous" 🙄

As a grown man why do you want these little girls, that are your students doing your hair in the classroom? Why don’t you consider that invading your personal space? He’s creepy

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Period

@javiruiz8365

21 күн бұрын

As a teacher I see bLK men acting extremely inappropriate with children! Maybe it’s the culture! Try to be cool!! As a teacher the majority would never act like this, but I see bLK teachers act like this all the time

@BishopEddie5443

19 күн бұрын

Too much is being made of this! Most of those female students have no fathers in the home and are actually comforted by being able to touch a man's hair. Why aren't we discussing how fatherlessness is creating thugs shooting up the Black community instead? This is just a gossip channel not to be taken seriously!

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

Exactly

@riggs2431

17 күн бұрын

Talking about he’s a video creator

Other people's kids touching a strangers hair is not what kids go to school for. This is not up for debate. This is unacceptable period.

@PRETTYBROWNEYES1982

25 күн бұрын

He's not a stranger he's their teacher

@Jessbaby215

24 күн бұрын

Very much so unacceptable 🤦🏾‍♀️

@maribelle7673

24 күн бұрын

@@PRETTYBROWNEYES1982A teacher is a stranger. Students shouldn’t be intimate and familiar with their teachers. There needs to be boundaries to maintain professionalism.

@parrotcracker6629

24 күн бұрын

@@maribelle7673 Sometime kids see their teachers more than their parents.

@noreply3424

24 күн бұрын

@@maribelle7673stranger?

As a father i would be outraged! This is very inappropriate in my opinion. Why doesn’t he have boys participating?

@statestreetradio2967

24 күн бұрын

Thank you 💯💯💯💯

@evening_streets

24 күн бұрын

Does the average boy have any experience unbraiding hair? Are you insinuating something sexual with the gender mention as if a teacher can't be gay?

@Jae-pe2xh

24 күн бұрын

Yeah, right. You and the ppl who agree with you would be way more "outraged" if your son was doing his or even a females hair.

@robinsonfamily3948

24 күн бұрын

As a "father" why aren't you homeschooling your OWN child if you're sooo great?

@kurokaizen1889

24 күн бұрын

Cause that's gay. Fq wrong withchu?

Lady stop trying to make excuses for that grown man’s poor judgment. Even if their parents allow it, use your common sense.

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Exactly

@Jo-jackson

23 күн бұрын

@@marikahopgood8862 Same thing R Kelly said...the parents bought them too me...Fool shut up

@nkotbsouth

23 күн бұрын

💯

@javiruiz8365

21 күн бұрын

She is the problem!!! With bLK people face

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

She is old and delusional and based on her responses here, she shouldn't be around kids either.

Does it matter if the parents are okay with it? Does that make it right? Parents allows bad stuff to happen to their kids everyday

@mrsevergreentree

24 күн бұрын

Yup there are a lot of dumb parents who make poor decisions

@kaof-1958

24 күн бұрын

@@mrsevergreentree every child needs a parent, not all parents deserve a child

@ougirl6500

23 күн бұрын

Exactly did parents okay they kids to go with rkelly

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Period

@skyjacksonA1

19 күн бұрын

kzread.infoU8AfAAYPsQQ?si=fRjDhp61HqDaB2_j

I don't send my child to school to do their teachers hair😮

@Jase-L

24 күн бұрын

Of course you don't, don't be ridiculous AF. You send your child to school to learn and give them a fighting chance at success in society. And that's the expectation held by the parents who gave consent as well. And yet a bunch of overzealous people obsessed with perversion and distrust that doesn't exist (and who themselves have never been a part of anything bigger than themselves in society) have destroyed a wonderful educator and jaded the youth he inspired. It's a goddamn travesty.

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Period

@akaishadouglas8259

20 күн бұрын

So you send them to do their friends hair then? Honestly the teacher looks and seems gay and is just trying to be relatable to the girls. It works for him I am sure his class listens and learns because he is fun. Good teachers are hard to find let the man be a positive male role model. When I was in school I had a history teacher you would probably say he was a bully because a girl use to make fun of my big feet all the time and he told her infront of the whole class what size shoe do you wear? He told her leave Akaisha alone and worry about your own dusty shoes. I am 32 and that still makes me smile as a woman with size 13 feet who was made fun of for them even as an adult. Maybe a student in the class was being made fun of for having old braids or her braids not looking right so he was like lets show em you have something they dont skill. Unbraid my hair and braid it up real quick that will shut them up. Also how we know a student wasnt his neice or family friend kid and those are her friends and they see eachother all the time?

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

​​@@akaishadouglas8259 Gay men s+xually assault teen girls too! One gay BM is in jail now for harming the teen girls he coached in a cheerleading team.🤦🏽‍♀️ He he also was grooming teen males too. So.wake.up! Being gay doesn't mean you're not a child predator too.

@maverickbourne2.0rph.

18 күн бұрын

💯

It’s not old school to not touch students or allow them to touch you. We have annual training about inappropriate behavior/sexual Harassment/sexual abuse of students. Parents and others saying this is ok are dead wrong. Smh, awful.

@ibobeko4309

23 күн бұрын

You are crazy as hell, they touched his hair/head. They unbraided his hair, those girls or guy did nothing inappropriate or morally wrong, nothing.

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

Exactly..I worked in schools before and they made us sign employment contracts stating.."don't touch students, and don't allow them to touch you." 💯 We also had the trainings you mentioned as well. Idk what possessed him to do this, then record & post it online but this was inappropriate & wrong.

As a teacher, I find it a bit too familiar. I allowed my little nieces to “style” my hair. But that was in a family context. Teacher student relationship should have certain boundaries.

@bernardwade8096

19 күн бұрын

Most predators are family members

@AnaJots

3 күн бұрын

Predators are also teachers that get to familiar and close with students. Predators exists everywhere this is why people should be more overprotective of kids.

@bernardwade8096

Күн бұрын

@@AnaJots that dude is not familiar with them kids like that. He got to really trust them kids to let them take down his hair as bl**k man we don't let anyone touch our hair.

She feels it’s risqué behavior, yet she’s kind of okay with it. Nothing with an inkling of risqué should be going on in the classroom. This is 100% inappropriate.

@mizzury54

24 күн бұрын

She did not say she was totally okay with it. Try listening a little harder.

@kurokaizen1889

24 күн бұрын

​@@mizzury54 🤦🏾‍♂️

@kurokaizen1889

24 күн бұрын

​@@mizzury54 Be quiet.

@bessycorrales2259

24 күн бұрын

​@@mizzury54​@mizzury54 ​@mizzury54 I stated that she's KINDA OF okay with it. Looks like reading comprehension is not your strong point. Sorry that the education system has failed you too.

@erictaylor3897

24 күн бұрын

The sad part is she even thinks hugs are okay. I wouldn't mind a hug at graduation where everyone sees it. But in the classroom or any other random place on or off campus... Nope

And that lady’s mentality? That’s how children go UNPROTECTED and get touched by family members and people they shouldn’t be touched by! He HAS opened the door to getting himself in trouble! If one of those girls feels jealous, they can say something crazy! Everyone in here KNOWS this but wants to keep going past go!

@lemonadelexus

24 күн бұрын

We know she a mammy. As old as she is. Pathetic!

@Jase-L

24 күн бұрын

That "lady" is a seasoned and well respected educator. As if these students are "unprotected" out in plain view with parental consent. Mr. White has nothing to hide and if a student were to go manipulative and deviant, he's in a perfect position to defend himself, he's got the MF'n receipts to prove otherwise. Video doesn't lie. Predators and perverts are a rare occurrence in overall society, those are the facts. Distrust and conspiracy in everyone is a horrible way to live life. Predators can lurk in any corner of society and this is why we teach children "Situational Awareness". Making children despise and disinterested in school benefits no one in society. Mr. White was making a difference in society, one youth at a time. And a bunch of overzealous people obsessed with perversion and distrust that doesn't exist in any reality have destroyed a wonderful educator and jaded the youth he inspired. It's a goddamn travesty.

@anamneses28

24 күн бұрын

💯 She is exactly the type of relative in the black community that is careless and then covers up the harm. It's unbelievably common. And it's sickening.

@JameSackey

24 күн бұрын

Said the same thing

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Exactly

Take ya own damn hair down! My nail tech charge to take my nail polish off, my beautician charge me to take my weave down, shampoo my hair and braid my hair. This is not a hair salon, it’s not cosmetology class, and this isn’t a place where my child is sent to do work besides class assignments and curriculum. Our tax dollars should not be paying teachers to sit in class and get their hair done! It’s wrong on so many levels.

@doc2746

24 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@lalomontoyajr.9282

23 күн бұрын

I'll do all that you mentioned your hair tech does, for free, for you gorgeous lady 😍

@GodsChosenMekAmoR

23 күн бұрын

You are correct! This is why they are failing standardized tests and focus on appearance, hair, tik toks, and shoes.

@queenie.lawyergirl.pittymom

22 күн бұрын

Facts sis. He's a drama queen to the fullest and that video was just a NO!

@circulatetheapp3747

22 күн бұрын

My hair stylist just went from $35 to $75 to do take downs.😅 My immediate thought was he had them do it to save a buck and make social media content at the expense of the kids!! Even if the parents thought it was OK, which is so VERY WEIRD, it still wasn't professional or appropriate. 🤷🏽‍♀️💯

I doubt he actually asked for the parents permission for those kids to touch his hair, probably just for the cameras. He got an inch and took a mile.

@kittenpawsbb

24 күн бұрын

Agree. Also in terms of him posting this video on his personal social media. When a Parent gives permission to the school to post their child’s image. No way does that extend to the Teachers personal online account. This is just wrong, he should be reprimanded for this.

@javiruiz8365

21 күн бұрын

He never asked! This is why bLK children can’t read! Never in my white schools would this be acceptable or even normal. I can’t even imagine washing my white teachers hair because he has another appointment! This is ridiculous and only happens in black schools

This is out of pocket… he would’ve been investigated and fired. This is coming from a former school admin! 👩🏽‍💼

I can’t believe this woman on this segment. She’s okay with minor black girls touching an adult male? Very inappropriate. You can see the name of the school on his uniform shirt. He put those young girls on the internet for all the child predators to know what school they go to and know what they look like. He needs to be investigated. ASAP

@TEM14411

24 күн бұрын

Amen. This is grooming behavior. Finding reasons to create a physical connection.....normalizing touch between and adult and a child.

@edj2045

24 күн бұрын

@@TEM14411 huh? I was a daycare teacher for years and let the kids play in my hair all the time. I'm a woman and also let the kids sit on my lap, held them etc. I remember my teachers holding me and letting me play in their hair too. You folks are soooo weird and clearly have been through some stuff that has really altered your perceptions in such a harmful way.

@tendays456

24 күн бұрын

@@edj2045 they have sexual trauma and are projecting 😭😭. It’s really not that deep

@jenniferross4646

24 күн бұрын

​@@edj2045 Times have changed and the main child predators are those who work with children. We don't know if this man is grooming these girls as others have stated and displaying them for internet predators to choose which one they want. He's surrounded by young impressionable naive girls who could end up in a secretive sexual relationship with him. This Is Dangerous Territory.

@msanm0986

24 күн бұрын

This is not grooming. He had permission from the parents and the principal. Is it professional? No. But it's not sexual or having the intent to do something sexually inappropriate. He literally was just doing it for views...he is a content creator.. BUT there is a reason why you don't even call teachers by their first name. You have to have boundaries for different reasons.

Society is officially going downhill nothing productive being taught!

He is a liability to the district.. in a civil suit against the district the standard of proof is more than likely .. he is in a position of authority which makes it potentially coercion

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

I prey he was fired...he looked so crazy and sick. What teacher would record kids doing this?🤦🏽‍♀️ I pray he doesn't work with kids again.

It is very inappropriate they are not in school for that they are there to learn and there are other ways to build relationships appropriately with students…

@MsBellasworld

24 күн бұрын

I don’t see no male students either…just too risky for my taste.

@RnBReworked

24 күн бұрын

And why are the girls dancing and using their mobile phones in addition to doing his hair? I’d be furious if I were their parents to see that this is what’s happening when I think I’m sending my child to school to study books.

@iMatti00

24 күн бұрын

@@RnBReworked- Oh no, a few minutes a day to laugh and joke to create a bond with kids. How horrible. Instead that send kids to school with his no fun and it’s 100% teaching, but the results are bad. But hey, who cares if The results are bad, as long as there’s no fun than online experts will not be able to criticize. Sounds good to me.

This is another example of being to familiar with the children. We are teachers NOT FRIENDS, BIG BROTHERS/SISTERS, none of that! He’s doing a lot!

@skyjacksonA1

19 күн бұрын

Oh please ghetto people love to complain kzread.infoU8AfAAYPsQQ?si=fRjDhp61HqDaB2_j

I would be LIVID as a parent! Where is the teacher's code of conduct? Also, there are many appropriate ways to build a relationship with a student. This is too close to personal space. Please stop Trying to Make WRONG, right by excusing this behavior. Let's Keep a standard for the next generation.

@BreenyLee

24 күн бұрын

🔥

@laverneclarkson5298

22 күн бұрын

Unfortunately this the signs of today's world everybody wants to defend the indefensible, everyone wants to make wrong right for some twisted reason.

@javiruiz8365

21 күн бұрын

This is why bLk students can’t read! Never in my school’s and private schools will these be normal or okay besides a blk school

“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” While THIS instance may be “innocent”, it’s a huge NO for me. It’s not appropriate and there must be boundaries. This could’ve gone left really quickly but if he was teaching and they were learning, there’s little room for accusations and misunderstandings. Common sense and wisdom will take you far.

@Kat92.

18 күн бұрын

Perfectly said 👏🥹 children are the main individuals we need to protect! I've heard this awful ideology which is changing p3d0toMAPS 🙅🏾‍♀️

Its inappropriate...............wtf

Unpaid child labor is illegal. This is work that is supposed to be paid. It is work! He’s saving money and he’s using these girls. This only happens in the Blk community. He is NOT a KANG! If he’s not in jail he’s a saint in that community and can do no wrong. Now me as a student, I would be afraid to say no because now you’re getting cool points in his book he’s going to remember you were one of the ones that helped with his hair if you say no that will negatively affect you.. this is not a part of the curriculum. This is grooming.. we all had those inappropriate teachers in school. We all know them! Stuff like this is why 80% of black girls have been touched before the age of 18!!!!

@deeg9498

24 күн бұрын

I agree with every word said save for the phrase “he’s not a kang”. He is a Kang, not a king. Beautifully stated.

@jayj.6146

24 күн бұрын

This! Even if he’s never had any sexual interest in these students he’s normalizing grooming behavior. It’s the same reason why we tell our daughters not to sit on men’s laps. It’s not always because these men will touch them, but rather we’re establishing healthy boundaries early.

@Jase-L

24 күн бұрын

Talk about jaded. Whoever did you wrong and hurt you in life, you let them DESTROY and scar you. I've never read such twisted, pure unadulterated goddamn nonsense. Mr. White is a well respected educator, who has NOTHING to hide and has made a positive impact on countless youth. There are good people in world despite your inability to see and recognize it.

@Godgotmealways

21 күн бұрын

Thank you

@hannaansari2921

20 күн бұрын

💯

Boundaries! Boundaries! Boundaries!! This is grooming behavior.

@downbad2874

24 күн бұрын

You know if y’all stop focusing on the sexual part and simply focus on the professionalism people will listen more but because y’all are too busy, yelling, grooming, grooming, grooming no one can hear you just saying this is it professional will get the job done

@babydii3487

24 күн бұрын

​@@downbad2874I understand your view but many people do groom children

@iMatti00

24 күн бұрын

OMFG. Oh yeah, groomers usually put everything online after getting the permissions of parents. 😂 I guess if he had a class handshake y’all would say that’s grooming because the teacher is touching them so it desensitized them to the touch.

@MrJkusmc23

23 күн бұрын

​@@iMatti00They put what they want you to see online and do their dirt behind closed doors. What grown man has 100 high schoolers as "best friends?"

@hannaansari2921

20 күн бұрын

Exactly!grooming it is

If I hear her say he’s not doing nothing inappropriate one more time when he is doing something inappropriate this is not his job title. This is not his job description so it’s inappropriate.

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Right

My daughter would be on serious punishment if I saw her a school-age child playing in her teacher a grown ass man’s head. just wait till your hair appointment. That’s very creepy.

@deeg9498

24 күн бұрын

The daughter is on punishment. But what are you going to do to the adult male? Where is the heat for the adult male?????????????!!!!💀

@ratchetrock6040

24 күн бұрын

​​@@deeg9498if I didn't know they both on punishment he said he got the approval so it's half ok ....he asked permission from parents and the principal.....I hate it but if her dad says ok and mom says it's fine than it's fine not my child tho

@Jase-L

24 күн бұрын

Ignorant AF. You all don't know a goddamn thing about Mr. White. Just a bunch of sexual deviant, perverted minded sickos in this comment section.

@anamneses28

24 күн бұрын

💯

@anamneses28

24 күн бұрын

​@ratchetrock6040 That mentality is the problem. "It's not my child" so whatever happens to them happens. Sick!!! As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse by a childcare provider I am disgusted by people like you who look the other way. Idiot parents shouldn't be listened to just because they will sell out their child. The fact that a parent would sign to let their underage child be put on social media says it all.

Why should he be building a relationship with these teen girls

@derricklangford4725

24 күн бұрын

Teen

@amarianaja-vq4qv

23 күн бұрын

Because if you are a teacher you would want to build a relationship with your students it helps them learn and understand them every good teacher had good relationships with their students

@coopernecole7962

23 күн бұрын

​@@amarianaja-vq4qvthis selective outrage is ridiculous

@Entertainmentnews778

23 күн бұрын

@@amarianaja-vq4qv so what if one of the teens started to become emotional attached. And start to learn liking the teacher more than a friend. At how relationship began. Then it’s more than one teen girl. Then why is it all girls where’s the video of the interaction with the boys. Im just saying 🤷🏽‍♂️

@amarianaja-vq4qv

23 күн бұрын

@@Entertainmentnews778 so what if the girl has a crush as long as the teacher isn’t doing anything with those kids then it’s not a problem

“He received permission from the parents.” In my past experience working in Title I schools, I recognized that students will work harder to learn when they have established a relatable relationship with teachers. It’s definitely a different generation.

@ActionNotWordz

24 күн бұрын

Thank you OMG someone said it. He actually got fired for this video that the admin was aware of, and his relationship with his students. The Parents gave permission. So with consent of parents and the awareness of employers, a teacher is fired and out of a job, and looked at as a sick person, because his braids were taken out, and people's opinions from the outside mind you, took this man's ability to provide for himself. Is it really this easy? I can show you 20 videos (right now) of girls taking out their female teachers hair online. How much do you want to bet that some teachers didn't even do the respectable thing, and get permission to post other people's kids online doing their hair. I'd like to see that waiver that states "I'd like to post a video of your daughter doing my hair online" but this dude had such a great relationship, it became normal. Like, literally no parent to this point had an issue with him and his bond with his kids. What now, does this help the kids? What does this kind of attention do because of some keyboard loud mouths, who have the power somehow to destroy the safety to trust in a teacher that cares of all the times that we're living in right now...nope you lose your job for doing a good job and having a good heart. Take a look around at what's happening, we need to keep paying attention. 🙏

@sandraphillips7827

24 күн бұрын

Nope. We keep allowing the slippery slope. With too many of “us” there are no standards. Every thing is to be overlooked or diminished. We make excuse after excuse. More than likely only one parent to give permission, and not to be ugly, too many of those parents allow too much access to their children. Did he need to be fired? I can’t say, but definitely eroded to be reprimanded. If female teachers have students taking their hair down should be reprimanded as well. But let’s stop co-signing foolishness.

@anamneses28

24 күн бұрын

​@@ActionNotWordz He got permission to use them in his social media videos (which is crazy). Not permission to have inappropriate contact with them. I have also worked in Title I schools. Many children there are neglected on every side. It makes them easy targets for manipulation by adults who should know better. It's TOTALLY inappropriate for young girls to be stroking and touching the hair of an adult male teacher. There's a lot to consider like the fact that their fathers are likely not in the home. Making it more likely that they could be groomed or taken advantage of. A middle student of mine was sleeping with a 34 man. When we asked her mom to come in she dismissed it saying she was too busy with her newborn. The man was coming in her daughter's window. This type of behavior was very common and being ignored. No one is standing up for these children. And that needs to stop.

@DojaRat12

21 күн бұрын

@@anamneses28How is this contact inappropriate though? Taking out or doing someone’s hair is not “intimate”. By your judgement you can’t take any child to an opposite gendered hair dresser bc it’s “too intimate”.

@MEUltra

21 күн бұрын

@@DojaRat12it’s inappropriate because children go to school to learn! Not to be playing in a grown man’s head! Those are not licensed cosmetologists, those are children! If that man had an infectious scalp condition he could have easily transmitted it to the kids. Aside from that, he’s exploiting them for free labour. Those children obviously look up to him and he’s taking advantage of that admiration by making those girls feel like it’s a privilege to be doing his hair for free. The real prize is proximity to him, and he knows it. Some of those girls are probably crushing on him and instead of being the adult in the situation he’s taking advantage of it. If he wanted to reward them with some down time after the presentations, an appropriate alternative would have been letting them play an educational game or taking them to the computer lab for the remainder of class. Instead he decided to use them to make content for his TikTok. He’s blurring the lines that exist between students and teachers to gain cool points on TikTok, but this is at the detriment of the children. Teachers are supposed to be training students to become professionals themselves one day. Is this what we’re teaching children is acceptable in the workplace?

Can we bring back professionalism? Man got tattoos and giant fake diamond earrings on. He looks like a kid.

@AndriaaLeoLove

24 күн бұрын

A man “getting his hair done” not barbered is a no no for me. Men should be doing other things than getting their hair done. It looks crazy too.

@AndriaaLeoLove

24 күн бұрын

A man “getting his hair done” not barbered is weird despite how “normal” it has gone.

@ZeeJuque

24 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@jayj.6146

24 күн бұрын

That’s the point. He’s trying to be these students friends instead of a mentor. I had young teachers when I was in school that we considered cool, but the boundary of adult/child relationship was never crossed.

@analicejones8055

24 күн бұрын

There is an uprising in the black community of adults wanting teens to view them as friends and it needs to be discussed more.

What is wrong with that woman!? Just like the parents that THOUGHT R. Kelly was HELPING those girls with a "music career..." Yea ok...🤦🏿‍♀️ I wish I would let my niece ( 9 yr. Old) un- braid a grown man's hair...other than her brother or even her father, but her teacher!?

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Yess I was saying the same

@marianb2530

23 күн бұрын

@@marikahopgood8862 ...and their teacher? Clearly this woman has no boundaries nor does she watch the news 🤦🏿‍♀️ The teacher should be ashamed of himself...clearly he's ok with all of it. If it was his daughter, I wonder what he would think? 🤷🏿‍♀️

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

She sound like a mammie or BM worshipper!!🤦🏽‍♀️ These types of women, are VERY dangerous to kids & teens.

Grooming at its finest! No kid’s should be touching a teacher or vice versa. I do not understand why every group wants access to our kids and expose them to adult behavior. This needs to stop! We are the main group that will always pay the biggest cost for it in the end.

@sandraphillips7827

24 күн бұрын

I pretty much just wrote the same thing. Agree. Agree.

Building what type of relationship???

I'm a high school teacher. This parent who says he does not want his child building bonds with the teacher has no clue what we do in classrooms. I can guarantee that his kids are not very engaged in school. I understand he may not want contact between his child and teacher but the teacher still need to find a way to a relationship and bond with the kids for them to grow interest in the subject and get excited about learning. I'll pray for that man's children.

@workingman9787

19 күн бұрын

#youreapredator

@monember2722

16 күн бұрын

Children learned for decades with a less touchy feely warm and cuddly relationship with teachers. It was called appropriate respect for each relationship. A teacher that teaches and is a basic degree of personable is all that is needed.

So I guess the teachers that do the students hair are grooming too?

@DonutsForever24

24 күн бұрын

Literally 😅

@deeg9498

24 күн бұрын

No one should have to do a child’s hair in class. The parent should have done it prior. It’s not a teachers job to do their students hair. Weird take.

@mlynettepinky595

24 күн бұрын

​@deeg9498 It depends on the situation. Every parent is not a good parent Some kids have been neglected I worked at headstart preschool, and a black girl had lices in her hair. Black people think we can't lice they are wrong. Headstart teachers and stuff went and got some delice for her hair. Later one of the staff adopted the little girl

@jayj.6146

24 күн бұрын

You’re comparing apples to oranges. If a teacher fixes a child’s hair it’s an adult caring for the child, which is literally the adults responsibility. Adults don’t need children to take care of their grooming routines.

@ratchetrock6040

24 күн бұрын

Yes

It may be innocent. It just does not look right. Someone playing in my hair unless it is a hair stylish is intimate to me. It feels good to have someone ply in your hair. So this doesn't seem right. Bond another way Mr. Teacher

4:45 right. He’s opening some dangerous doors. He don’t know which one of them girls may have a secret crush on him. Or maybe he does!

@tomeko0762

24 күн бұрын

I said the same thing I guarantee one of those girls got a crush on him !!

@98slime86

24 күн бұрын

@@tomeko0762that doesnt matter at all tho… they are kids… crush or not a grown man isnt going to entertain it yall know how many teachers i had crushes on?? 😂 that I literally voiced?? A teacher will reject tf out u make u realize u a kid real fast

@ok.s4830

24 күн бұрын

@@98slime86 ... What are you talking about? Grown Men entertain students often. Have you lived under a rock for the last 30 years! Just this last 2 months 2 resource (Police Officers) were fired and arrested for "entertaining" 2 female students. Geesh. No wonder society is in the mess were in. Your flesh knows no bounds when there are no boundaries. Not to mention.. If one of his "crushes" decides to make up a lie about him SA her. Although it may be a lie... His career is over. You're thinking like a child.... Not a responsible adult.

@tam1729

24 күн бұрын

@@98slime86you need discernment. Cause wha…. Go back and read your comment again.

@98slime86

24 күн бұрын

@@tam1729 no you need it if you think them having a crush on his matters… even if they werent playing in his hair and they had said crush its been there before it 😂 like i said as a grown man you dont eveb think that way and it aint nun but a word to shut it down fast if he really was a perv i doubt hed be on camera putting it on full display so who really has poor judgement

I am with the parent on here. I think it's inappropriate.

This is why I want no physical contact with any of my students. It's sad, but I protect ME! Some of them look hurt when I don't hug, but this is the society that we live in.

@ibobeko4309

23 күн бұрын

We live in stupid time, last week i left the train and it was heavily raining and i looked to a girl with no jackets or umbrella with surprise for a second and went my way and there is only one way to go the left side of the street, when she saw me again, she become anxious and went faster and looked back, i looked to my phone was like wtf. Some people are just stupid and paranoid, there is only one to the left or i have to go like 5 minutes straight.

So, he got free child labor instead of paying a salon to do it? Honestly, he should be teaching these kids during school hours, not playing beauty school.

As an educator, I have a strict rule of no physical contact with my students ( unless it is a medical situation to stabilize said child while help is on the way). I also make it a rule to never be alone with a student either and if I am the door to my room is open.

@edithart5753

22 күн бұрын

Yet he recorded and posted it online to show no malice

@yakiralovesall

20 күн бұрын

​@edithart5753 yet he has videos of his male students asking him what type of women he likes. And he said gyat meaning big behind in front of the children. In another video a girl calls him sexy. ITS GROOMING IN PLAIN SIGHT. You don't act like that with children

“Popping pimple of his back” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 funny but he does have an excellent point. The two male parents are correct.

She said its “our mind set” ? Its clear as day a little girl is touching a grown man and she think it’s nothing wrong with that?

@danyelgarcia3689

21 күн бұрын

It could have been how she was raised because people see clear as day how inappropriate his behavior is.

@mrs.kjackson9301

21 күн бұрын

@@danyelgarcia3689 there were absolutely no boundaries, I understand he wants to bond with the kids and want them to think he cool and all that but he needs to pursue a better image and still be able to maintain a professional environment and stop letting lil girls take his hair out! Period

@MEUltra

21 күн бұрын

This is the kind of toxic woman in the black community who protects predators instead of children.

@Letsbefriends75

21 күн бұрын

She just wants to be “woke”.

Why he thinks thats ok is beyond me

@kittenpawsbb

24 күн бұрын

And his followers too. None of them thought it was inappropriate for him to do this. They should have reported him to the school right away.

@ratchetrock6040

24 күн бұрын

IDC, IDC that's sexual to me.... Not my child that's sensual do your own fucking hair perd

I feel like in the 90s we would've done this and no one would think twice. It seens like he has a good relationship with his students.

@downbad2874

24 күн бұрын

That’s a lie in the 90s this would have still been seen in met with outrage. The only reason it may have slipped through the cracks is because there would not be any Internet or a video to prove he did it.

@downbad2874

24 күн бұрын

Also, him being black and being unprofessional would have gotten him fired

@MaiMai-ys4yg

23 күн бұрын

The 90s my teachers weren’t like that. If they were cool it’s because their classes were cool. Not because imma be touching their hair. And I went to school in the hood- the teachers were either nice or strict but not touchy touchy

@Letsbefriends75

21 күн бұрын

Let’s be honest…back in the day, he would not even be allowed to teach with those tattoos and earrings. 🤷🏾‍♂️

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

I'm from the 90s and NEVER did this nor thought to! Our teachers were professionals back then.💯 They weren't trying to film us just to go "Instagram or TIk Tok famous"!🤦🏽‍♀️ It's something seriously wrong with these new generation of teachers.🤦🏽‍♀️ Too many are craving to go viral, begging for public attention & likeness & abusing children/teens.💯 It's sickening!

U can’t b their friend because then they lose all respect even my mom is my mom she is never my friend

Very unprofessional, #1 I don't think the students should be that close to the teacher from the Get go

Now when a female teacher has her male students giving her a breast exam y'all better not say nothing!!!!

@supercic123

24 күн бұрын

Okay!!!

Teach them how to WRITE IN CURSIVE. NOT APPROPRIATE AT ALL.

That is gross! He should not be around children!!! Whats next? It's not worth the risk!!

@BG-lo1vi

21 күн бұрын

You know what's next, as the man said, popping pimples on his back. Smh

The men's point is on point. Letting students touch you in any physical way nowadays is dangerous for your freedom and future let alone your livelihoods. I used to work at a school and it was a teacher who got accused by a little 2nd grader of touching her. But she was knowned to be a little liar and drama queen and meeting her mom you definitely would see how. I was in shock when 1st heard about it then other teachers and the other security guard there who knew better and was more in the situation told me he was innocent and she was lying. I was a friendly person and cared about showing kids love i didn't mind hugs but after that i stopped hugging and everything except fist bumps and daps. You gotta be careful and aware these days anything can be used against you even if you did no wrong and are lied on. It's sad because its almost as you gotta get a job or career where you can work alone and be to yourself somehow to avoid that like working overnight somewhere or be a delivery person or mail carrier like im about to do.

Hell Naw. Inappropriate.

Parent's permission my a$$

I get that he wants to bond, but find a different way. That is a no for me. Teach my child please. Call a friend to help you, have another teacher do it for you on a lunch break. Things can go south. Edit: Oh wait he has parental permission? As long as he has that then fine, but my child will not be among them. Homegirl needs to wisen up. She knows that female teachers get a lot more grace in the touchy department than men.

No boundaries! Teachers are in a situation where they KNOW they can’t be replaced anymore so they can do whatever they want. If these kids need friends find them mentors. Teach them academics and get your girlfriend to braid your hair. DO YOUR JOB!

Well why does he only have girls doing it

@prettybwillowbee7584

24 күн бұрын

They don't even make sense what you said. No man or underage boy that is straight is going to be in another man's head

@sjoo8

22 күн бұрын

Because… girls generally know how to take care of hair + they’ve probably had braids so often that they can do it much faster than him. Not saying they should be doing it at all but asking any of the boys who’ve probably never taken out a braid would take so much longer than him doing it alone. Imagine the knots! My sister is so fast now she can do it one handed while texting with the other. I know but I know my sister

He got fired, sorry but he got what he was looking for 🤷🏾‍♂️

@Southern.Nappiness

23 күн бұрын

Well...What did he expect??

Why are the guests and host laughing? this pisses me off Black people are always joking about things that are serious another reason why we are not taken seriously, safeguarding minors clearly isnt important in America.

*It’s not that deep y’all are making it DEEP*

@prettybwillowbee7584

24 күн бұрын

Right....most of these people that are on here complaining damn children probably don't tell them anything. The streets know more about their children than they do

@nattyisisyah1760

24 күн бұрын

Most of them probably got brutally hit to learn by their teachers when they were in school. My parents generation did and they gave b-day whippings in my class room. No outrage then.

@TheMikki2332

24 күн бұрын

AGREED

@christianbond5269

24 күн бұрын

You the only one on here making sense. Hair is so apart of us, it’s normal to do one another’s hair when it needs done. Taking down braids is simple

@ok.s4830

23 күн бұрын

Single Mother Babble BS

And you best believe this guy is messing with some of these students on the low

@marikahopgood8862

23 күн бұрын

Definitely it’s giving r Kelly

@bdukes8075

23 күн бұрын

I won’t go that far. He could have a weird fetish or it could lead to that but either way he definitely outta pocket

I can't believe a woman has no problem with this & she look like she from the old school of teaching.

@BreenyLee

24 күн бұрын

Unfortunately, Most older black women are lead my emotions and sentiments not logic.

@amarianaja-vq4qv

23 күн бұрын

I don’t see the problem with this if he had permission and not doing anything inappropriate he’s building a bond you can literally see so much videos of kids doing their female teachers hair and braiding it but because it’s a male who’s not ugly y’all have a problem

@gifi11

23 күн бұрын

The only thing I can think of is that she thinks he is handsome. Women let a man get away with murder if she is attracted to him.

@amarianaja-vq4qv

23 күн бұрын

@@gifi11 why are you comparing this to murder?

@gifi11

23 күн бұрын

@@amarianaja-vq4qv wow..... this is why we don't have the time to be taking out hair in school. What a weird response. "Getting away with murder" is a very known saying lol

Totally inappropriate of this teacher. He should be fired!! and never be allowed to teach or work with kids again.

The teacher was probably trying to break up the monotony in the classroom with something that would get the kids to get up and move around.

One question…why is he only “bonding” with the female students in the class?

@jayj.6146

24 күн бұрын

That part! Our Black boys are in desperate need of mentorship from Black men. But here he is posting “bonding sessions” on social media with Black teenage girls.

@U-TubeAddict

24 күн бұрын

Because males usually don’t care for stuff like that

@user-of2co3ke5p

24 күн бұрын

​@@U-TubeAddict They claim ignorance all day with silly questions.

@seaweed876

24 күн бұрын

bc most teachers like to create connections with their students

@Pageisclose

24 күн бұрын

So u want him to have a gay guy do it 😂 oh ok 😂😂😂😂

🤦🏾‍♂️ that’s why kids don’t respect yall because yall treat them like a friend!!! It’s very inappropriate!!!

My substitute teacher braided my hair in afterschool -- two braids. I was like 7 or 8, back in the 90s. She was an angel, pure soul.

The fact y’all keep saying he isn’t doing nothing inappropriate. He is doing something inappropriate. He is having kids do his hair while he’s on the job. This is in what his job titles for nowhere in this is his job description, so yes inappropriate because it’s unprofessional

@ozzee5094

24 күн бұрын

You act like teachers spend every second of there shift teaching that’s not how it works goofy there’s always down time

Why i the world is she defending this??

Inappropriate! Bonding with students? What about boundaries too much closeness. And Im a dad with a 10yr old daughter. H-E-L-L NAW

This lady is ridiculous. She has no common sense. Please don’t justify inappropriate behavior.

This is why fathers are needed in the home.

@moneymakingblack9087

22 күн бұрын

Really shut your stupid ass up like frfr

@Maui_Gyrl_

19 күн бұрын

Kids who have dads in the home are molested and groomed too! Look it up! And quit assuming that these kids don't have dads in their life bc you're only making that assumption bc they are Black.

A lot of people are confusing "inappropriate" with "smeggsual" and because they don't see anything smeggsual in nature, they assume it's fine. No! This teacher's behaviour is inappropriate because it lacks boundaries and is an abuse of authority. Understand the difference. Because the teacher is in a position of authority, there are strict boundaries they must upheld as to not (whether purposefully or inadvertently) take advantage of the students. Why? Because the students may not feel safe to advocate for themselves. Imagine you are at work and your Director asks you to take out his braids (during work hours). How would you feel? Some may feel comfortable doing it, others may feel they have to do it, to keep their job. Unless they are hairdressers, in the eyes of the law, that Director would be seen as contributing to a toxic work environment and could be let go. BOUNDARIES! And that is how grooming easily takes place with people of authority. The authoritative figure uses their position to build trust and emotional connection by slow pushing someone’s boundaries until before you know it, you can’t tell that you’re even being taken advantage of, manipulated or exploited.

Its over the line, this brings alot of risk,

Please that's how it all starts. First he's becomes their best friend, then next thing you know, there's a full blown INAPPROPRIATE relationship going on!

This is during the school day. Why is this happening when children should be learning???? That’s the first issue. America’s children are at a deficit academically. It sounded like his lesson was restructured to get his hair unbraided. Simple solution change your hair appointment. Mrs. Murray wasn’t clear on the facts surrounding the story. He was not on his lunch break. He did not get permission from parents. He ended his lesson earlier than scheduled to get his hair unbraided. Mrs. Murray was not impactful in this discussion.

This lady is delusional.

@MyStalkersArePostingMe

23 күн бұрын

VERY DELUSIONAL

@taneesharobinson8717

18 күн бұрын

Fr fr she accepts that behavior

Cringe.

Building a cordial relationship with students can be done without touching. Don't cross the lines. Mind your boundaries. He may send the wrong message to a student that may take it a different way.

Ummm no all around. This is very inappropriate. Teacher is there to educate. Where did he find time to play with a lizard and have his hair taken out by 5 underage females.

It’s nothing wrong with it at all you ppl really over thinking it honestly not everyone a bad catcher

@TV_Tv214

24 күн бұрын

He stated there are cameras in the classroom too tell the full story

@MoneyOverFame

24 күн бұрын

Might’ve not been ill intent. I’m sure it wasn’t. But it’s unprofessional. Why put your job in jeopardy?

Teachers / educators and students AREN'T peers so theres a power dynamic going on..so that the first nono, secondly personal space is important to learn at an early age.. and lastly.. those young girls will be fighting over that man soon ( he can be totally innocent in the matter) .. young girls will not do anything like this unless they like him... And we all know this regardless how its dressed up.

@supercic123

24 күн бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@nkotbsouth

23 күн бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

You can bond with ur students without them touching u at all .

It is so disgusting to let children touch his dirty hair 😪 😫 what kind of school is this? This is so unprofessional.

I would be upset if it was my daughter

When I was in high school, our gay chorus teacher, Mr White, would have the girls in his office, give them chocolate candy with liquor in it and one of the girls would massage his chest. I always thought that was weird. It really pisses me off now.

@jayj.6146

24 күн бұрын

That’s so gross and predatory. 🤢

@user-of2co3ke5p

24 күн бұрын

Aint nothin new under the sun.

@Shmiddler

23 күн бұрын

Ok that’s a little weird

@bdukes8075

23 күн бұрын

That’s crazy 😳

It is interesting how it's always the most attractive person in the room who is setting up appropriate boundaries.

It's important to have boundaries

Grooming behavior! Why didn’t he have the boys playing in his hair! Completely unprofessional! Students are in class to LEARN and he is suppose to be doing his JOB which is teaching completely inappropriate and highly unprofessional!

@AB-lv6dy

24 күн бұрын

What make you think that a boy should played in any male hair?!? How would that look that another male playing in another male hair?!?

For the record… the teacher said the parents, other teachers, and admin are aware of and don’t have a problem with him making videos and/or including his students. HE DIDN’T SAY…That he informed the girls’ parents and school admin that “At the end of that day, he’s asking his bff girl students to take his hair down during class BECAUSE HE scheduled a hair appt right after school and he didn’t have time to do it himself”. Something tells me if his school admin knew he was going to livestream this they would’ve told him not to and explained why it’s a bad idea.

@laverneclarkson5298

22 күн бұрын

Of course, he's a liar.

That is why its important for fathers to be apart of their daughter's lives!!!

Agree with the men on the panel period.