I'm in college now studying engineering, and I realize that I don't need to play videogames anymore. It was eating away at everything I have dreamed of. I always dreamed of having a better life, more friends, a good job. a car. better grades. But every time I thought about it , it stressed me out and that stress was fixed by playing games and it was this never ending cycle until now. I have played video games since i was 10 and never thought I would stop playing until I realize what it was doing to me. Thank you for this video it has reassured me and made me feel more confident in leaving the fantasy world for good.

@ThunderStrikersTS

3 жыл бұрын

im in that same position, even studying engineering as well. I put in over 500 hours into destiny 2 solely over this christmas break, and realized that those 500 hours aren't going to do anything for my future. Its good to play videogames with friends to destress and all, but there is so much more experiences in life than playing videogames 8-12 hours a day. If those 500 hours were put somewhere else, I would be much more closer to the point I truly want to be in life

@anires1195

3 жыл бұрын

@Imran A we want our PS5 games on split screen.

@trevorfranks69

3 жыл бұрын

2 hours a week of video game is fine. Remember to schedule out your side activities and hobbies so you won't get stressed.

@imbolts1753

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a computer science major and a first year sophomore (college credits). I need to quit gaming.

@takenote7085

2 жыл бұрын

@@imbolts1753 you won't regret it if you do, but you will regret it if you don't quit.

Lack of discipline in general ruins people's lives.

@blaccpanther8715

5 жыл бұрын

Yes but addiction is not merely a matter of discipline, it is literally a chemical imbalance, a psychological disorder. Which is why videos like this are important, technology has brought new risks to the brain that we have never seen before.

@chrissre7935

4 жыл бұрын

They have the Discipline to grind sometimes boring stuff for months. So it is an addiction to a particular thing. If they focused that energy on something more productive they would be fine.

@A.m1m2m2

3 жыл бұрын

stfu gaming is a stress relever

@antiquarian1773

3 жыл бұрын

Gaming can potentially be a reason why someone would have a lack of discipline.

@thecurrentmoment

3 жыл бұрын

@Todor Samardzhiev Look at the book "willpower" - there is some research in there that showed that we have a certain amount of willpower that gets used up throughout the day, but we can build it up through practice. Just like a muscle - you can tire it out but also grow it

I have a friend who just smokes pot, plays games and watches amine all day, i hate it because hes a great guy but hes wasting all of his potental, his mental and physical health is going down the drain, he cant even have a real conversation because he has nothing to talk about he has very little real world experiences

@datlittlekid1567

2 жыл бұрын

Push him to change. If you are a real friend to him

@ActuatedGear

2 жыл бұрын

If he watches Amine all day just give a chemistry set!

@mrgarybusey2052

Жыл бұрын

@@datlittlekid1567 it's not that simple

@kooners6961

12 күн бұрын

I go to the gym, work, and sometimes play games.

Self control and moderation. Anything can become addicting and take over your life if you allow it to consume your thoughts and actions.

@spicycracker7828

5 жыл бұрын

exactly I'm not giving up video games but I realize if I play them many hours each day instead of focusing on my studies or working out and other things then my life can start heading for a downward spiral

@chrissre7935

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I don't bealive that. "Self control and moderation." - Depends on your personality. If you are a compulsive person like I am. I can sit working days with 4 hours sleep. If you put me in front of a game I can do the same. So I rather not play at all.

@LB-jw3ly

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah if it was as simple as self control and moderation it wouldn't be addiction. I bet you think being depressed can be cured just by positive thinking right.

Too much of anything can ruin anyone's life.

@n.jun_1071

3 жыл бұрын

Not living Godly

@chneider8000

2 жыл бұрын

But not studying and searching for knowledge

@learningnew732

Жыл бұрын

@@chneider8000 too much time in studying can ruin your life too, life is about balance

@SSS-rd3wr

Жыл бұрын

@@learningnew732 too much studying always pays off in the future, but playing videogames and watching anime is instant gratification, we should only consume really tiny bit of that stuff

@eon001

Жыл бұрын

@Patrick too much gym and sports can burn you right out. Over work your joints and muscles. Over training is a thing.

You should have a full episode on this topic. Escaping fantasy into reality

@UnfortunateKera

2 жыл бұрын

@@hyberkonawa272 gacha games where money makes you have anything you want.. game that requires money to get good.. unfair matching gaming.. it just not fun anymore.. most of the fun is ruined.. it just chaotic fan bases..

@jasonhaiflich8967

11 ай бұрын

I like that saying a lot man. “Escaping fantasy into reality” Usually it’s the opposite. But we were created in this world. A real world

I was like this all my life up until 16 and it's the worst, you feel so far behind everyone else and are playing catch up. Since I've found that balance I've made amazing relationships, had girl experience, took up many good hobbies like music and the gym, and am driven to not be defined as the quiet shy loser nerd kid. I'm about to graduate high school and will be joining the military so I can make something of myself. The danger of gaming and anime addiction is very real and it's very easy to end up like that all your life

I'll be 18 soon.. Need to stop these escapist behaviors ik they're holding me back.. Let's do our best guys 👍

@poopnotalive9197

3 жыл бұрын

Me about to be 17

@altrae1771

3 жыл бұрын

16 boutta be 17

I love anime and video games but I've gained weight and I'm doing terrible at school and I might get kicked out. I look like I'm a 50 year old man but I'm 20

@xsj_anonymous17domain-styd12

3 жыл бұрын

Change yourself u can still watch anime but workout now like do stuff benefiting.

@MrSlapabitch1000

3 жыл бұрын

That just means your ahead of your time that’s a good thing

@altrae1771

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@tomatokid135

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@Ive03

2 жыл бұрын

I am becoming skinnier :(

Everything is about balance and discipline. I do play video games and watch anime. The same could be said about overconsumption on self improvement and red pill videos and not actually acting on the information to improve. Don’t let your hobbies consume you. At some point as an adult you have to take control of your life because no one is coming to save you. Simple but for most not easy.

@lungasibanyoni7166

Ай бұрын

I get you man but some of us is not easy to balance our hobbies and it killing us , instead I think it better if we quit now than come back when u have done alot in yo life. People can live without anime and games what can't we. U get ?

Well Anime got me into going to the GYM. My man Guts.

@traveler6859

3 жыл бұрын

Anime got me playing volleyball and basketball

@bmoney3837

3 жыл бұрын

Anime got me into boxing hajime no ippo but watching too much fucked me up so I stopped same for video games but i haven't stopped watching one piece because that's favourite

@Mdplive77

3 жыл бұрын

R.I.P to Kentaro Miura

@movement2contact

3 жыл бұрын

@@bmoney3837 nice string of words 🤓👍

@VishwakarmaUwU

3 жыл бұрын

@@traveler6859 anime got me swimming, I learned about gods and cultures, learned about countries, learned about songs and learned many things from it even I am going to be a singer and sing many anime songs in my language and I will be the first anime maker of India

You explained this very well. Those of us who don't fit in to the real world venture off into the cyberspace like refugees, the cyberspace becomes a very fulfilling space for social interaction. then you experience an existential crisis when you realise you need real companionship.

This is such an important topic for both men and women. It goes much deeper when creating fantasy worlds as our brains often cannot make the distinction between a memory and a detailed fantasy. We grow up gaining instant fulfilment from the video games and shows but then feeling emptiness as the relationships and connections don’t actually exist, neither does the progress you think you’ve made in an area of life from dreaming it vividly. Psycho-Cybernetics preaches that you can turn this on it’s head and use it for your good, which is something you might be interested in exploring...?

You're right, but nerdy people and those who are socially awkward existed way before Anime and video games came into the picture for many Generations. And there are many people who play video games and watch anime and still maintain a great career, and a happy relationship. There are people who are just hooked on only anime and video games and use that as their escape from people and reality, but that's not neither anime or video games fault. There are people who are addicted to drugs, porn, video games, gambling, Gym, steroids, social media, clubbing, sex, body image, money, celebrities, conspiracy, and excetera that can ruin their social lives.

If I could say thank you 1000 times on this comment, I would. Hafeez, I had my 9 year old son watch your video. I think it was a strong wake up call to what could possibly be a terrible future for him, if he did not stop his addictive videogame behavior. He learned it from his father, who also has terrible social skills. Please continue sounding this clarion call!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥

@fryPS

3 жыл бұрын

You have no idea in the slightest how much I wish I had a wake up call at an early age. I have zero social skills and feel like crap right now and this video is so accurate it’s not even funny. So good for your son to make a change early on.

@nummy2

3 жыл бұрын

@@fryPS same man.. i wasted too much life on games.. and recently got too addicted to anime i wanna quit it makes me depressed 😭

@fryPS

3 жыл бұрын

@@nummy2 It really sucks

@mugenmasters8564

3 жыл бұрын

Gamers are blinded by there "fun" so they don't agree

@fryPS

2 жыл бұрын

@@mugenmasters8564 Plus video games are glorified now in days and seem like the cool socially acceptable thing to do now on the internet

Thank you so much for this video .... Lately I have been suffering from game addiction .. I tried to motivate myself to give but find it too hard because of the respect and fantasy I get from it just to get out of reality but now through your video u just shared I am beginning to see things in the bigger picture ... The fact that 5 years down the line .. what my future will look like if I continue the same path gives me goosebumps ... Also it's not just overcoming your addiction but also it's making a mature decision .. Finally I was able to get out of my room, interact with people and yes ofc play sports ... Tysm

@stas4086

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. When I imagine my future 5 years from now If I continue to do the same things I am doing right now, Im scared. Its so hard to interact with people now when you havent learned it since teenage years.

@Restless_Vibes27

2 жыл бұрын

it always makes me feel really bad about myself and it really hits me when its 4am and i check my Discord and Steam and im the only one still online

I watched anime 24/7 sometime i didn't sleep and watch anime 2 days straight without sleeping and guess what i can't start conversation and my relationship with people ruined i only know to answer them with anger..... I have no friends and can't even start conversation or hold conversation in real life.. So sad

@gamer_z9

3 жыл бұрын

:(

@MattaComicstary

8 ай бұрын

U have porn addiction not bc of anime

You said it all day balance all day. I still play gsmes and watch anime. But i have that balance another on point video all day

I feel like this shouldn’t be addressed to the Anime and Video Game community. Addressing it like this can make those in the community defensive and others that are doing what you’re talking about just with different mediums overlooked.This seems more like a call to those that aren’t balanced in social skills and discipline. This same issue can take place with people that consumes an unbalanced amount of Netflix, Sports, books, podcasts, social media and pretty much any medium that is not balanced with a healthy social life and interaction with other humans. Dope overall message tho

@NotChinese

2 жыл бұрын

But surely lots of them are unbalanced It's reality Stop defending yourself It's reality It's logical Now im going crazy cuz everyone around me is like that (animes and games) And whrn the f### i say my opinion it will be f### ignored Now i am like vegan But it's just my opinion,which is unpopular among gamers and animes BULLSH###

@BlackCatedialogue

11 ай бұрын

I agree not many are understanding in those communities

I wish I saw this 10 years ago lol

Sophomore and Junior year, I was obsessed with Videogames. My gpa dropped to a 1.7 and was put on Academic Probation for the 2nd time. I was told by my school that I have 1 senester to get it back above a 2.0. I stopped playing video games for that semester and got straight A's. Brought my gpa up to a 2.9. Unfortunately, I have to spend a 5th year in School.

@aaaaii6511

3 жыл бұрын

Same

They ruined alot of people's lives who grew up in the 80s on because our mind became hooked so young on video games. Video games ruined my 20s, it made me addicted to dopamine, and I could barely connect with people, I was sitting around like a zombie around people alot until my husband one day just packed up the video games and got us all off the addiction

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

It really sad does it when things we loved ended up owning us?

@aservant1284

3 жыл бұрын

Wow well said

@trevorfranks69

2 жыл бұрын

Enter the grindset like me

That's why i am afraid of watching anime again I've been addicted in my teen years when i was 13to 17 and then i found the truth about it it ruined me 20 years old im still trying to build myself up still struggling with social interaction and mental health in general

@seraphim7512

2 жыл бұрын

Can you say more of what you mean that you learned the truth about anime?

@everydayfun9531

2 жыл бұрын

How about instead of trying to see how other characters in anime are doing great why not build our own selves and build our own characters instead that in Real life?

@BlackCatedialogue

11 ай бұрын

Is thought i made this comment. It took me 1 yr 17 yr old took 1 yr to stop watching anime. Im glad i Found someone like me. Im 27 and i sometimes crave it

@BlackCatedialogue

11 ай бұрын

I also have fear in seeing any anime pic

I remember when I was in Primary school, I had a team of friends who use Paper to make wonders. After we got into secondary school and separated, the friends from the new schools are just not like that as they say it's "Shit", "Childish" and stuff, and I really feel alone now.

I respect this video, anime could be used to inspire you to be great like Goku and badass like Vegeta, so ultimately it’s how you use the anime and don’t heavily rely on it to escape your problems, and a balance with sports that puts you in social situations and makes you work with others is a win win in my book ✊🏼

I've been trying to get this through to a friend who is in their mid twenties. He always complains he isn't good at anything and is quick to turn to anime and other "time wasters". I tell him, you have to make sacrifices in order to be better at something. Anime will always be there, but time wont. Sadly it's been more than 5 years and I'm on the verge of giving up on him, especially since he hasn't met one goal.

@RachelsBadAssJamz64

Жыл бұрын

Dont give up on him, your probably his only friend. If you leave him he will have no one. Show him this video. Tell him you love him, you want to help him but , he has to want to help himself. That it hurts you to see this happening to him and if he doesn't make an effort to get better you will have to let him go. That you are there for him and are willing to be there for him go through it with him if he needs but, he has to be the one doing it , you cant do it for him.

I'm 38 and you described 80% (probably more). I have nothing and no accomplishments. I am quitting video games today! Thank you for this video.

@MyDude57

2 жыл бұрын

how did you fair out?

Thank you hafeez, I’ve been trying to quit video games entirely, it has been hard cos I always find myself in it again so I’ve started little by little to quit by limiting my time I play and I know eventually I will get there, gaming has really taken most of my time and I was nurtured to stay indoors always and somehow has affected me in socializing… I really want to change and improve my life

I always had a well rounded life along with these habits but now I’m at a point where I’ve been working for 10 years with the old habit of video games and I feel like I’ve wasted lots of time. Pandemic doesn’t help. 29 years old and I feel kind’ve empty at this point.

@Restless_Vibes27

2 жыл бұрын

im about to be 33 ive still been using gaming and anime to cope

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

@@Restless_Vibes27 anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Discipline equals Freedom

@rottenaudiobooks2310

4 жыл бұрын

Fyodor Dostoyevsky BROTHERS KARAMAZOV. You don't have to be religious to understand the sentiment in this passage: "The world has proclaimed the reign of freedom, especially of late, but what do we see in this freedom of theirs? Nothing but slavery and self-destruction! For the world says: "You have desires and so satisfy them, for you have the same rights as the most rich and powerful. Don't be afraid of satisfying them and even multiply your desires." That is the modern doctrine of the world. In that they see freedom. And what follows from this right of multiplication of desires? In the rich, isolation and spiritual suicide; in the poor, envy and murder; for they have been given rights, but have not been shown the means of satisfying their wants. They maintain that the world is getting more and more united, more and more bound together in brotherly community, as it overcomes distance and sets thoughts flying through the air. Alas, put no faith in such a bond of union. Interpreting freedom as the multiplication and rapid satisfaction of desires, men distort their own nature, for many senseless and foolish desires and habits and ridiculous fancies are fostered in them. They live only for mutual envy, for luxury and ostentation. To have dinners visits, carriages, rank, and slaves to wait on one is looked upon as a necessity, for which life, honour and human feeling are sacrificed, and men even commit suicide if they are unable to satisfy it... ...The monastic way is very different. Obedience, fasting, and prayer are laughed at, yet only through them lies the way to real, true freedom. I cut off my superfluous and unnecessary desires, I subdue my proud and wanton will and chastise it with obedience, and with God's help I attain freedom of spirit and with it spiritual joy. Which is most capable of conceiving a great idea and serving it- the rich in his isolation or the man who has freed himself from the tyranny of material things and habits? "

@aggelos8256

3 жыл бұрын

@@rottenaudiobooks2310 great passage, I love dostoejvski.. wanna get in contact with a fellow christian?

@rottenaudiobooks2310

3 жыл бұрын

@@aggelos8256 Thank you! Are you proposing swapping of contact info or a community invitation?

@aggelos8256

3 жыл бұрын

@@rottenaudiobooks2310 just swapping info , like email or if you have a reddit account

@rottenaudiobooks2310

3 жыл бұрын

@@aggelos8256 Got it! I don't share personal contact info publicly due to the desire to remain anonymous. However my Reddit handle is alyoshawanderer. Feel free to PM me (assuming KZread still has that function) or comment on my channel. Thanks!

never really found the appeal to anime, but i loved my games, quit them and get my life back best decision i ever made

I agreed 100% with this dude! It’s okay to watch anime and play video games, but do it in moderation.

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood gave me hope. And made me realize that this ain’t the life I can live anymore. I’m a female though; if you get on reddit. It’s affecting everybody. I think especially for men; because because it’s escapism for being the hero. I don’t like saying that; but I think that’s a big thing. Those moments in those shows and games they make us Alive. When we should chase that in REAL LIFE. But shows like naruto, FMAB, MoB Psycho shows the importance of life, and self improvement. I hope that others take those lessons as much as I did. In school to get into nursing school. And slowly; as I’m walking my purpose, I’m getting closer to the woman I want to be. Hafeez! Keep talking about this stuff man. The content is amazing. Young boys need you. I see so many hurt boys walking around and it breaks my heart. And it helps a woman like me not feel alone and hopeful that men aren’t so bad. Keep going man.

@mehdi-fu6mj

4 жыл бұрын

That something i would Say !

@BlackCatedialogue

11 ай бұрын

Me too. I left anime as a girl thats why im able to become a doctor. I couldn't have done both

Social media is worst plus not only that we have to stop blaming technology and cartoons parents are the main reason why kids are the way they are they don't have to watch the anime in the video games if they are not allowed to parents have to start telling them that you can only watch anime for an hour all you can only play video games for like an hour you have to at least go outside or I'll go outside with them to play basketball or any type of activity

Showed this to my students- thanks!

@dryfruitps5153

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh 😂

@VishwakarmaUwU

3 жыл бұрын

@@dryfruitps5153 bro these are anime haters

As an anime fan myself I 100% agree with you. When i was 13 i was so OBESSED with it! But as i got older i noticed that there's a lot of toxicisty going around in both anime and the anime community. I distance myself from it and i only watch like 6 anime. Like Attack On Titan, Death Note, Fruits Basket, Demon Slayer My Hero Academia, Little Witch Academia. But im also more open to other stuff like traveling, learning more to cook and bake, drawing more, reading books, gardening and growing my own food (mini garden) and also how to better myself and socialize to people. So Thank you Good Sir for making great points about it and respecting us at the same time ☺ It's all about balance

@LayLow_-sg6iy

2 жыл бұрын

Watch one piece

@bolivarmacedo8335

2 жыл бұрын

@@LayLow_-sg6iy Hell No

@LayLow_-sg6iy

2 жыл бұрын

@@bolivarmacedo8335 why

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

@@LayLow_-sg6iy anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

@@bolivarmacedo8335 anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Couldn't this also be applied to people reading books or watching TV?

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

So how do u break out of this

always remember: discipline over motivation, only you can change your life no one can do it for you

Lol... Video game has fucked me up but I rehabbed. I'm about to get addicted again.

You play video games to escape your life. I play video games to deconstruct immersive storytelling and reconsider the nature of the hero narrative in current parlance. We are not the same.

I love your spirit and honesty, I wish you so much success, you deserve it. 😊

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Thank you so much for discussing this subject and touching on the real issues affecting people now grown men who are dealing with these issues today, like my son is now. He is 22. It fucken kills me! That he'll never get those lost years back, it hurts me even more that I dont know how to help him? He wont listen to me anyway. I tried from the very start to keep my boys away from fucken video games! Their father used them as a way to buy them off, and has moved on his way leaving my youngest lost and confused, who knows? I cant get him to open up. I did discover today that he doesnt know how to be an adult, that is why Im watching your video. To help me know what to say to him. Im going to have him watch some vidoes Ive come across and tell him will talk about it after he watches. I can help clear up things that he may not have understood. Let him know Im here for im, utimately he has to be the one that really wants this.

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Gaming ruined my life but anime patched it up for me honestly I have self discipline if I’m busy and want a quick entertainment I’ll maybe watch 1 or 2 episodes if I’m free I’ll watch 6 episodes maximum no more no less I workout and I generally feel healthy

@TAFProductions

3 жыл бұрын

I still dont get the problem with Anime too.. whats the difference if we watched like series? DBZ has being a great teacher in my life.

@carlostony5140

3 жыл бұрын

@@TAFProductions the same things he said can be applied to other things such as TV series, comics or books

I finally dumped all video games, and I’ve been playing video games since the 1970s. I decided to only do anime to save money and time. I think I made the right choice. RuneScape? GEEK!!! EverQuest FTW. :)

Your a great guy. May God bless you in abundance.

Crazy how far The Roommates have come, 2 years ago vs now crazy difference

Thank you man for this video your awesome

AOT introduced depression into my life. Idk how I got there.. but following the series for a little above 3 years, I've let character deaths and the intense backstories eat away a part of me, each time. Knowing what awaits fans the coming season.. atleast for those that have read the manga it's only distressing. And, I've been going through this episode for atleast the past 2 months, that's when I finished reading the manga. Now I have to get my life together. I've become more deprived and anxious. I go blank during conversations and so on. Many people aren't affect by it atleast to this extent. But me in specific, I've no clue what's going on. Oddly enough, Ymir's death and her tragic past was what triggered a sense of grief within me and the music score just adds up to that sequence. It's mesmerising and depressing at the same time. If anyone could reach out to me and give tips how to overcome post anime depression, I'd deeply appreciate it.

@fryPS

2 жыл бұрын

Idk how to help but I always found how passionate Eren was to kill the titans only to die in his first fight relatable. The achieving his goals part not the getting eaten part obviously. And he is in the stomach and still says he will kill all the titans which causes him to transform. I guess I could recommend looking at the good parts and epic soundtracks of it. Like I said idk how to help but I tried something.

After some times.. I finally see what is the importance of balancing things up.. I gotta do something to live.. Soon I'mma step to real world.. Most of things Gon be on myself.. I gotta change..

I believe the first video I saw you was when you were talking to the guy that said he was 30 years old virgin I respect the way that you articulated the message to him, because that also applies to me and so many other people thank you for being an inspiration man. 💯💪🏾

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

When I babysat I used to negotiate with the child about limits to the computer, games all that. Worked out fine most days. Anything in moderation is just fine.

I wake up everyday for my hobbies and work as a plumber

Yeah i know anime and games many lifes are getting ruined but if you just limit your time nothing is the problem. I watch anime as well as play games but still i am a successful businessman 😑.

@kooners6961

2 жыл бұрын

So can drugs, social media, sports watching, alcohol, and porn.

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

@@kooners6961 anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Let's be real, nobody is watching anime for entertainment. They're watching it to see naughty anime girls 😂😂

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

I think it would help if they actually met up with other young people/peers in person and actually interact with them. There's all sorts who like anime and play games. gym nuts, salary men, artists, photographers. Edit: It'll help to go to such events to Meet new people. Just wear a nice anime or game themed Merch when you go to help strike up conversation...it's what I did, anyway.

I love that you guys are Christians, it helps me connect with you guys on a higher level. Keep making videos they are great. You guys are helping me. So thank you

Many anime fans are socially inept. I still watch it but I puy time into real life skills

I totally agree, I became an achievement hunter and became addicted to getting trophies in games which sucked up so much time and quitting has changed my life

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

That runescape boom around 2005 was fun, it seem like everyone was playing.

@TrucknGame

3 жыл бұрын

I know I was lol

@somedudeinatunnel3102

3 жыл бұрын

I still play and I started in 2007. This game ruins lives. I wish I never started, and I resent my childhood friends who showed it to me.

@Restless_Vibes27

9 ай бұрын

RUINscape @@somedudeinatunnel3102

All depend on own way. So, there is no guarantee that anime and video games can ruin life. We need to watch but need to think about limit. Overwatch can ruin life but watching sometimes will not ruin someone life. Ways your words are an amazing for some people who think only about anime and video games. ~Thanks for kind information~

Stumbled upon this video after spending $2500 for a gaming rig. Well that sucks...

I just watching anime when I finished all my task/works.

@chelsea571

2 жыл бұрын

@FearThisBear Oh the character on my profile? It's Chelsea from Akame ga kill. Btw I do other hobbies too like hanging out with friends, reading other books, gaming, etc.

The most attractive guys to me always end up being gamers when we start talking it's like huhhhh?

@jarrodheley7879

4 жыл бұрын

One of my friends is obsessed with games and anime. Pretty well adjusted guy, but when I go over to his house, sometimes it is all he talks about.

@mehdi-fu6mj

4 жыл бұрын

@@jarrodheley7879 that is what he love you should give him attention 😅 !

Good video because you speaking facts you gotta go out sometimes and not play games and watch anime all the time

The problem is the difficulty of striking a balance. I tried it and failed. The system I followed was that every hour I made an effort for anything (study - leaving the house - sitting with my family), I would record 30 permissible minute to watching (anime - manga - web novels) Provided that the period does not exceed four hours. The system worked at first, but after a while I began to only look forward to the end of four hours of the day to the point that I could not focus on anything in my day. The last four hours were the only ones I looked forward to out of the 16 hours I was awake. In the end, I canceled the system, unfortunately. What system do you follow??

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and scary movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Saying it ruined my life is more of a click bait in my opinion. I agree it's all about balance, some people just get easily addicted and obsessed with things. I am a huge anime fan but the same time have an amazing social, get girls and enjoy life while others watches that and does the polar opposite of what I do. So saying " it ruined my life" is a bit of a bold statement. Love the podcast 👍🏾 positive stuff

@LB-jw3ly

3 жыл бұрын

People have killed themselves because of it

@kooners6961

2 жыл бұрын

@@LB-jw3ly Who died over video games? Only person I can think of is the dude why Tyler Barris swatted.

My life in a nutshell. You just saved it.

They are incells, dont blame anime and video games, i do both in moderation and at times i go all in.. and still have a career job, and alot of chicks lol, some people just lack social skills.

@exploretheewebb2193

5 жыл бұрын

And parent have to be held responsible to that too, have kids in programs whether its athletic or educational, just to interact with people, my nephew has hundred of hours in fortnite, but he has other obligations and he is 9, and he is a TALKER!

@Simply_Enjoy

3 жыл бұрын

@@exploretheewebb2193 I’m the same it’s just a lifestyle I don’t let it revolve around me.

@TheTiredhermit

2 жыл бұрын

Or just ugly

Wise words Hafeez!!!

This man is speaking facts

We live in Genjutsu!

@leackbrick

3 жыл бұрын

No we live in plantation 13 and the energy is full of lava

Great video. Sometimes it works in reverse though...I've been in social groups where all the gamers are women and the guys are ignorant of the subject. Personally I think the problem is entitlement. Certain guys expect a girlfriend and a wife at a certain age and get angry when it's not given to them. What they fail to realize is that relationships are projects; they are things you build up over the course of a long time. That's why early exposure and practice is essential. I don't understand why Incels are so short sighted. If the world is unfair...why not focus on yourself and make the pursuit of virtue and discipline a core focus of your life? You can't control how women will react...but you can control your own actions. Attacking women verbally makes you look, well, immature. Unless your desire is to become the next Marquis de Sade. However even Sade had no pretensions that he would ever be respected by people. In his final will, he wished for no sympathy; he wanted to be forgotten from the minds of men. He died as he lived...angry and alone. Incels...is this the legacy you want to leave behind?

@TheTiredhermit

2 жыл бұрын

Because only looks matter bro personality means nothing dude

I certainly don’t want games to take all my priorities but I also certainly don’t want to prioritise people either as they’re just unpredictable an inevitably problematic. I just want to be independently fulfilled without being tied down to any attachments or needs. An all those kicking themselves for wasting time with games, don’t be hard on yourself. Everyone has their own fix to keep them together in this World, just be thankful it was escapism an not the hard stuff.

I don’t buy it. I quit gaming when the industry got stale but I’ve been a hardcore gamer most my life and made super strong long term friendships doing so. We lugged PCs back and forth from each others houses every other day. But then again we skated, boated, and roamed around too. I dungeon mastered d&d campaigns for 13 years and dated models and celebrities in the meanwhile. P.s. the games were dope the babes were BUNK!

@MikeBNumba6

5 жыл бұрын

It was easy for my to quit the gaming industry. Micro transactions and overpriced DLC is what ruined it for me. Plus the whole pay to win system on multi-player games

@chedpleb

3 жыл бұрын

"What works for one, doesn't work for others" Is the mentality that should be pursued towards any addiction or a hobby.

It was really good video 👍 And one of the things that missed out and I like you to tell young people is building a passion in your life, read books as much as you can Become great at something that you love, I think this is more important than taking to a girl. Because when you become winner you can have anything that you want. Read people life! Great people like ELON MUSK ،MESSI,.... AND START YOUR CARRYER NOW! THE SOONER YOU GET STARTED THE GREATER YOU WILL BECOME BEST WISHES TO YOU 🌷

We can say the same for Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram?

Those things are designed in a way that no one can moderate or balance , the only right thing to do is let go

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

I’m 34 I think I gotta quit

@Restless_Vibes27

2 жыл бұрын

im about to be 33 and im right with you brother

That was great legit video. I wasted my teens and 20s fapping to porn and video/pc games, now I'm 31 NEET living with parents, and as you said isolation led to zero experience, then led to social anxiety and loneliness. One good thing is that I take care of myself I have zero addictions, I hit the gym regulary, I help with everything I can, try not to be a complete f leach. I'm smart and in shape, but again that isolation, lack of experience, low self esteem, no friends/girlfriends led to huge social problems later in life.

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

I don’t mind alittle anime or video games from time to time but when it’s time to be serious, BE SERIOUS

Thanks , Iam really happy that i found this video . Thanks again you helped me so I'm going to save my life and stop these bad habits😺😺🙌🙌🙌🙌

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Thanks bro

Yo i was just having this convo

The video I didn't want to watch but the one I knew I needed to.

all i need is to start new game in this real world .. which isn't exist sadly. young lads will know they are wasting their time when the time is up and they need to pay the bill of playing in the past in their late's of twenties.

We all need to rest, playing games is like resting.

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

The disconnect with reality. Before i even finish the video.

Honestly I stopped playing video games recently, and my life has become so much more. I’m fifteen I’m got the girl I want I’m doing better in school, everything is falling into place. My best recommendation is to stop playing video games and delete tiktok stop wasting you life.

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Same bro, same

I dont know man I think you're reading a little to much into addiction and personal expectations. Comming from a hard core anime fan who has anime tats what your talking about having not realistic expectations on women and social anxiety to talk to any I did not experience from anime. Iv had multiple gfs and multiple hook ups. Also anime litterly has text book examples of corny flirting which I tested on girls who weren't into anime at all. Lol it worked. You also can't really show gaming and anime cause more social anxiety in life compared to any other form of media outlet. It's not like they are closest hobbies either, not hard to find someone who will atleast tolerate it if not like. Also telling people don't do these things cause it effects your health just sounds stupid, you're not constantly going to be active. Depending on how obsessed someone is with a show or character they may even try to make Hobbits based on it. Example when I was fat once I watched a boxing anime, I got so pumped by it I litterly worked out to extream every day and hard core diets along side the show, then took up boxing. Lol o en I was in a relationship at the time not in a basement terrified of people.... point is it can have positive and negative effects on different people but trying to bias it as a particularly bad choice of media just sounds stupid

its because theyre both an escape, escapes i still struggle with to cope with depression

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Real talk... This heavily helps the emo bunch.

I approve of this mans wise words , I used to be in a really bad spot , like watching sus anime , now ive changed and live a happier life

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

I'm a gamer and I love anime but Idk because ppl like what ppl can like 😋

@Warning-34079

13 күн бұрын

anime and video games is dogshit! Superhero and Horror movies is better video games and anime is lame!!!

Guys that game alot should meet other women that do the same thing and see how it works out

I really enjoy anime and I don't give a rats butt about what people say lol. I like what I like. There's some really great people in the anime community. Legit, I found out my boss likes anime not too long ago. Such a wonderful day it was to discover that.

What are they doing at night?

@jarrodheley7879

4 жыл бұрын

Five knuckle shuffle.

Balance, self control.