Devon Franklin Shares His Best Dating Advice

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On the podcast Devon Franklin describes his best dating advice and how men need to learn healthy habits today that will lead to success in their future.
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  • @Kiara-yr1cv
    @Kiara-yr1cv4 жыл бұрын

    "Don't play with my daughters heart, these are my daughters." Wow. Powerful words!

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    yep

  • @coolicetea7923

    @coolicetea7923

    3 жыл бұрын

    so powerful.

  • @thebetterplaybook7891

    @thebetterplaybook7891

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah love it

  • @JasonSmith-zv1rg
    @JasonSmith-zv1rg4 жыл бұрын

    Discipline is the greatest power anybody can ever have.

  • @utubecomment21

    @utubecomment21

    4 жыл бұрын

    ... but something nobody achieves this 100% of the time. Even the most outwardly disciplined person, loses their sh1t every now and gain, whether you're there to see it or not! I simply don't put anyone on a pedestal.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jason Smith thank you for sharing

  • @adriennerobinson1180

    @adriennerobinson1180

    4 жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @thebetterplaybook7891

    @thebetterplaybook7891

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree wholeheartedly. Discipline is also pursuing the woman you want consistently

  • @justoverbroke8063
    @justoverbroke80634 жыл бұрын

    I just lost a good woman off of lack of self discipline. It's not a good feeling and now I gotta work on that and do some deep reflection

  • @king-nick2023

    @king-nick2023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hope everything is ok bro! Keep pushing

  • @justoverbroke8063

    @justoverbroke8063

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@king-nick2023 appreciate it...we actually reconnected and trying to work it out

  • @king-nick2023

    @king-nick2023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just Over Broke nice bro! I hope it works out

  • @aye05jaye
    @aye05jaye4 жыл бұрын

    There is so much dating/relationship advice and coaching for Women. Its nice to finally see Men training other Men on how to date with good intentions and being disciplined outside of marriage.

  • @brandonwilliams1851

    @brandonwilliams1851

    4 жыл бұрын

    So April were are the women training other women to not be sluts, and single moms??

  • @nellynel6141

    @nellynel6141

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do you have virtuous discipline and good intentions April?

  • @unusedname197

    @unusedname197

    3 жыл бұрын

    Brandon Williams she doesn’t want to answer you. She doesn’t want that smoke.

  • @anetak.9494

    @anetak.9494

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brandonwilliams1851 wow so much judgement in a single comment. Have you actually learnt anything from the videos you are following? Is self reflection even a known for guys like you?

  • @rkt6240

    @rkt6240

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brandonwilliams1851 This is why you’re single

  • @kenrickwilliams2032
    @kenrickwilliams20324 жыл бұрын

    Using women as a conquest..... that was powerful

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    indeed

  • @nellynel6141
    @nellynel61414 жыл бұрын

    IN SHORT...have integrity and be up front WHAT you’re looking for with any particular woman you choose to get with and that shows discipline AND consideration and nobody gets hurt. Book DONE!

  • @paulmcwhite5388
    @paulmcwhite53884 жыл бұрын

    I just went back and watched the full episode. Really amazing and a blessing to watch. I even went ahead and bought his book

  • @kcdav7
    @kcdav74 жыл бұрын

    Last words in the video speaks volumes... “Just because some one is interested in us that doesn’t mean that they are for us”. Now I’m trying to figure out how to know if she is for us.

  • @butterflymage5623

    @butterflymage5623

    4 жыл бұрын

    Her actions, whether or not her values meets yours.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    great question

  • @denisec4043

    @denisec4043

    4 жыл бұрын

    brutha kc It takes time to get to know someone. Some people are playing games, some are desperate, in a hurry, lonely & confused. It simply takes time to observe their patterns.

  • @nellynel6141

    @nellynel6141

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well one of the first steps is to get her to find out if she’s in debt, what she does for a living, what she eats, and get her to talk openly about sex. Those are great starters..

  • @jhonram2496
    @jhonram24964 жыл бұрын

    What I like about this is that it applies to both genders Sexual discipline should be something everyone should learn

  • @esthernwosu7406
    @esthernwosu74064 жыл бұрын

    Love this channel 💕 Always so insightful and that laugh when he said scary dream took me out 😂😂

  • @JRis44
    @JRis443 жыл бұрын

    Waiting while being intentional and learning sexual discipline has been quite a journey. It would be a humbling opportunity to have a mentor at this stage in life for sure. Thank you for the wisdom Devon.

  • @abanfrancis6400

    @abanfrancis6400

    3 жыл бұрын

    What type of mentor should you have based on sexual displicine?

  • @kayek3155
    @kayek31554 жыл бұрын

    The interviewers laugh 😆 though! Great message to our brothers!

  • @Ike1129
    @Ike11293 жыл бұрын

    I can really relate to this sentiment. I've had a few "missed opportunities" in getting involved with and dating certain women but I passed because I didn't want to waste that woman's time if we both wanted different things.

  • @drea4373
    @drea43734 жыл бұрын

    Great interview!

  • @jumaaneworld3135
    @jumaaneworld31354 жыл бұрын

    U can’t really be one sided, u also gotta look at both sides of the ball just by him saying something about, these r god’s daughter, tells u we’re where his business is being marketing towards💯

  • @STeroidsnicca

    @STeroidsnicca

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jumaane World Derrick Jaxn and Co. has to make money 💰💰💰

  • @sarcasm176
    @sarcasm1764 жыл бұрын

    devon speakin them bars

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    always

  • @cocokitty623
    @cocokitty6234 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Love this perspective.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @SS-ly2bn
    @SS-ly2bn3 жыл бұрын

    Powerful words! Thank you!

  • @radumateuca916
    @radumateuca9162 жыл бұрын

    finally some real dating advice i was so sick of the bs from youtube with players and hot chicks

  • @thebetterplaybook7891
    @thebetterplaybook78912 жыл бұрын

    Yeah we agree about to launch a video about 5 single behaviors that hold men back from finding the women of their dreams. Discipline is about knowing how to limit your options and go after those women you actually truly want/desire

  • @apostleinthemaking
    @apostleinthemaking4 жыл бұрын

    Deep 💯

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    indeed

  • @rajnimalakhelawan6439
    @rajnimalakhelawan64394 жыл бұрын

    This is great!! Its putting responsibility where it belongs. Often times women are made to be moral gatekeepers of men. Women has to set the pace, deny her feelings, say no, when in reality, it is men whose behaviour needs changing so that woman can choose more accurately for themselves (not choose on the basis of a false or illusionary future a man has dishonestly projected upon her!)

  • @kaaiwilliams3629

    @kaaiwilliams3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rajni Mala Khelawan what are you talking about . Women get to choose whoever they want to get with: and women are terrible at picking men. You want the bad boy that breaks your walls loose and plays with your emotions because it’s more entertaining and fun. Choose a nicer guy and you’re going to alleviate that entire problem : but you wont . Women never take responsibility for the poor choices that they make in dating men, and y’all literally get to choose whoever tf it is that you want to mess with you. That blows my f-ing mind

  • @rajnimalakhelawan6439

    @rajnimalakhelawan6439

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am talking about a woman cannot choose correctly if honesty was not presented to her. Bad boys can be charming and offer a grounded future, and it takes some experience (trial and error) before a woman can recognize who they are and how they act. I am saying if men were raised (like the video says) to be 'honourable' and not pursuing people they knew they did not want, or not dating multiple people because it is cool, then we would have less women choosing the wrong type of people. Same rules apply the other way around too...(men get hurt too when woman behave without integrity and I would never say that men are terrible for getting themselves hurt...but this video is about men choosing differently, not women choosing differently!)

  • @kaaiwilliams3629

    @kaaiwilliams3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rajni Mala Khelawan Let’s go ahead and get one thing straight ... if a man gets his heart broken, IT IS ALWAYS HIS FAULT . Let me tell you something serious: even if a guy does everything right, follows the book he was given from society on how to treat a woman and how to provide for them, HE WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKED AT AS AT FAULT WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP ENDS .... and in a sense, it really is his fault . When a woman cheats, they will give ever excuse in the world to justify why their act of cheating was appropriate . “He wasn’t taking me out anymore”, “ he was too nice”, “ he wasn’t making me feel wanted “, and time and time again you will see them pushing all of the blame onto the men for why the relationship failed . Now, so you know why it is the man’s fault? The man is at fault because he stopped being himself and stopped being the person who attracted that woman in the first place by LISTENING to her complaining and letting her dictate how the relationship evolved . When a man does not take control of a relationship and set the tone, it is ALWAYS going to fall apart because women don’t have a fucking clue what the hell it is that they really want. They “say” that they want a nice guy, but diss him on the streets and bang the dude that they see as sexually dominant. They “say” they want a dude with honor, but then get wet to the dude that’s disrespectful and aggressive af . They “say” that they want a dude that doesn’t have all these girls around him, BUT HOW TF DOES A GUY GET A WOMAN IF WOMEN AREN’T CHECKING FOR HIM???? Why TF would YOU want a man that NOBODY ELSE saw as attractive ?? That’s why your comment is bullshit . You don’t know wtf you want, and putting the blame on men while women take zero action to chin check their own sex and control their actions is bogus . Women nowadays walk around half naked, have sex with WHOEVER they want, set up dudes with rape charges when they get their feelings hurt and always play the victim card like they don’t have special privileges that no man is ever going to have UNLESS THE DUDE IS ATTRACTIVE . Women either need to take responsibility for their own shit as a man is supposed to, or go back to having a lower role and reduced responsibility in society . Because let me tell you this: if girls did not want to chase after the player, THE PLAYER WOULD NEVER EXIST . The man does need to take responsibility, that fact is and will always remain present . But you don’t want to be in a man’s shoes, because as a dude, it is IMPERATIVE that we control the relationship and lead the woman so she actually has a direction on where tf she needs to go . If you don’t believe me, look around at all the girls who’re having daddy issues, and watch to see the kind of dudes they end up dating .

  • @kaaiwilliams3629

    @kaaiwilliams3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rajni Mala Khelawan I can give you honesty all fucking day sweetheart . You don’t want a mans honesty . You want to feel like you don’t need to hold the reigns, and you want to be sold a dream . Don’t sit up here and act like you’re really wanting for somebody to just “tell you the truth”, because the truth is you’re attracted to filth bags, they make your guts watery, and all of the red flags ARE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE... you just don’t gaf. It’s your own damn fault, and that’s not something that you’re going to understand until you hit the wall and you have no options

  • @rajnimalakhelawan6439

    @rajnimalakhelawan6439

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my! You are triggered. Thing is, we all get played and get hurt, because nobody is perfect. It is how we deal with it that matters! We can punish other people, get angry and triggered on you tube, OR do tons of meditation and become successful, get therapy, and really live your best life (which is the best revenge). Some people start fucking and discarding everyone and never look at themselves, and in the end only hurt themselves. Anger and hate is a painful emotion! I would personally never want to give up on love ever! Why would I let a nasty person such as you describe rob me of trying again and again and again!

  • @kareemabdulfumar7953
    @kareemabdulfumar79533 жыл бұрын

    My mans really holdin down that sweater

  • @vernefits1953
    @vernefits19533 жыл бұрын

    Devon is the man

  • @christopherholley3820
    @christopherholley38203 жыл бұрын

    I clicked because everyman needs to hear this

  • @liveman1002
    @liveman10024 жыл бұрын

    Yo I’m a young man and found this very powerful ✨

  • @LovelyPeach40
    @LovelyPeach404 жыл бұрын

    Just Beautiful

  • @KiKiCarr
    @KiKiCarr4 жыл бұрын

    5 mins!? Where the rest?

  • @Passion84GodAlways

    @Passion84GodAlways

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is a snippet. When you read the description for this it has a link to the full podcast. 😊

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    look under the description

  • @JustBeingJae01
    @JustBeingJae014 жыл бұрын

    Get discipline while you’re dating | wheww!

  • @nellynel6141

    @nellynel6141

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I say get discipline when you’re not dating. Just have consideration, it’s not rocket science. These guys write books on this topic that should only be a paragraph of how to be honest.

  • @brandonbarrett8928

    @brandonbarrett8928

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ppl should really read the books of Proverbs ;)

  • @godlovescouture8605
    @godlovescouture86054 жыл бұрын

    You guys see the irony of the most respected athletes, politicians, entertainers lead raggedy lives off the field? Is discipline a character issue or a heart issue ?

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    it could be all there. you have to dig to find out the root

  • @mwirigi_brian

    @mwirigi_brian

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think discipline is multi faceted. Discipline on the field does't translate to off field because they all entail different parametres and muscles.

  • @godlovescouture8605

    @godlovescouture8605

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bryan Riggz so money plays a role in discipline. Like if you told me to diet in my regular life, it might be a struggle. But if I was paid millions of dollars to trim for movie, I could have that discipline.

  • @amyliataylor
    @amyliataylor4 жыл бұрын

    This guy’s laugh 😆

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @enviedeveryday2835
    @enviedeveryday28352 жыл бұрын

    How did that work out passa

  • @daniellemiller9457
    @daniellemiller94574 жыл бұрын

    We as Women in 2020 have to carry ourselves in a way that demands respect without saying and in turn, Men will eventually follow suit and give us the respect that we deserve... That level of Respect Also goes both ways!!!!

  • @calvinriver9834

    @calvinriver9834

    4 жыл бұрын

    Danielle Miller. Women need to Respect themselves and give men something to respect. Too many womanizers out there and women need to be wise. Stop allowing men to choose you. WOMEN hold the power. Women decide if they wanna date a guy, if they wanna continue to get to know him & give him his time. She also knows when she is ready to give her body to a man. This saying it's a man's world. Best believe Women RUN this world!! Unless we start believing in ourselves, loving ourselves and accepting all of us First. MOST of these men will continue to toy with women. KNOW YOUR WORTH. Then Add TAX & then some....!!!

  • @edYeaYea70
    @edYeaYea703 жыл бұрын

    Realest 💩 I heard today!

  • @tmbrad1288
    @tmbrad12882 жыл бұрын

    This aged like fine wine 😂

  • @POLYLIVING
    @POLYLIVING2 жыл бұрын

    Hello! Brains! I’m not religious but this is juice! I NEED men to smarten up n b REAL

  • @sibusisiwendlovu868
    @sibusisiwendlovu8684 жыл бұрын

    Which book is he talking about

  • @TrevorHarris1991

    @TrevorHarris1991

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truth about men

  • @Lonerx14
    @Lonerx143 жыл бұрын

    dating advice: date one person 😑 and then I date when I was getting married to my wife...

  • @crosses101
    @crosses1013 жыл бұрын

    Decipline is a Super Power... Prove me wrong😎

  • @crosses101

    @crosses101

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Darth Vader I just did

  • @slim5750
    @slim57503 жыл бұрын

    Don’t be another Derrick Jaxn😂😂

  • @freydsonventura6323
    @freydsonventura63232 жыл бұрын

    Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6 KJV

  • @grateful1
    @grateful14 жыл бұрын

    Really a man shouldn't think any more about "commitment" than His commitment level to the Word of God... When you commit to taking God's guidance throughout the dating process, and actually DOING what He leads you to do; (regardless of potentially "missing out" on some things.) The correct woman will come around, and "Commit" to you. ...The healthiest Marital relationships will always stem from the Mans' commitment to Gods' navigational guidance through it... The more committed to God you are, the more automatically you'll be "committed" to your Wi-Fi. ....Sorry; I meant to say WIFE. and the more inspired she'll be by that commitment, to commit wholeheartedly to you. :-)

  • @pwrhitterp
    @pwrhitterp4 жыл бұрын

    What is the direct benefit for men in marriage ?

  • @Redsapphire2000

    @Redsapphire2000

    4 жыл бұрын

    Better health and a longer life.

  • @NyakzOTSD

    @NyakzOTSD

    4 жыл бұрын

    papers! depending on which part of the world you are from lol

  • @kaaiwilliams3629

    @kaaiwilliams3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    An ass-raping in civil court when she files for divorce .

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    life long love

  • @NyakzOTSD

    @NyakzOTSD

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TheRoommatesPodcast according to who?

  • @pwrhitterp
    @pwrhitterp4 жыл бұрын

    I always find it funny when this man gives advice on dating it’s always something the man is doing wrong smh

  • @sarcasm176

    @sarcasm176

    4 жыл бұрын

    men and women mess up for sure

  • @Redsapphire2000

    @Redsapphire2000

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, he's a man speaking to men. Just as women should speak to women about such issues. He can't speak to a woman's experience so he doesn't.

  • @kaaiwilliams3629

    @kaaiwilliams3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lori M women don’t speak to women about shit . I can’t even count the amount of times that I’ve heard a women talk openly with their friends about the dirt that they’re doing to their dude, and their friends just laugh it off and SUPPORT whatever tf it is that they’re doing . You’re trippin fr

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    it sells more

  • @pwrhitterp

    @pwrhitterp

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Roommates Podcast true women do pay to be told its ok to blame men

  • @istvantoth7431
    @istvantoth74314 жыл бұрын

    I just want to get more likes on Tinder...

  • @kaaiwilliams3629

    @kaaiwilliams3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Istvan Toth 1.) take professional pictures 2.) show that you have friends (1 , maybe 2 pics) 3.) interesting Bio 4.) Workout 5.) become a Chad, physically, mentally, and financially . When you’re not checking for women and you’re working on yourself, the rest will tend to fall into place, but it starts and ends with you .

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @istvantoth7431

    @istvantoth7431

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kaaiwilliams3629 whats a Chad :D?

  • @theduke6174
    @theduke61742 жыл бұрын

    LOOOOOOOL

  • @isac.andrew6498
    @isac.andrew64983 жыл бұрын

    Any body else see this dumb ad

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart94872 жыл бұрын

    Don’t have Oneitis there that’s the best advice you will hear, because she will ruin you.

  • @stevenbooth751
    @stevenbooth7514 жыл бұрын

    Woman’s feelings again...

  • @NBid-rp9ch

    @NBid-rp9ch

    4 жыл бұрын

    If you don't want to deal with women's feelings, then date men instead.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    what you mean

  • @brandonwilliams1851

    @brandonwilliams1851

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steven just pay for sex, that way you don't have to deal with her feelings. Cause you really pay for her to leave. You get sex, and no stress.

  • @Cuzndr3w

    @Cuzndr3w

    4 жыл бұрын

    These women for everybody. It’s 2020 not. 1920

  • @fatiie

    @fatiie

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol 🤦‍♀️ I don't get it.. women aren't out here starting their day by thinking "hmm 🤔, how can I be emotional, illogical, and crazy today!" You can't honestly believe men don't operate by influence of their emotion.. just because their triggers may be different, doesn't mean they don't get triggered, and don't react. Do you expect women to be trained dogs? Are women supposed to just gladly accept any and every behavior exhibited by the man she's with? So, what I'm understanding is we should be devalued, unappreciated, barely tolerated, and lied to and STILL be your woman, make you food, and pleasure you on demand with a big ol smile on our face? Is it wrong that women want to be treated with integrity?? If monogamy isnt for you, THAT'S OKAY!!!! Then stop finding yourself in those kinds of relationships, that way you dont have to be burdened with respecting another human. Like the others said, maybe you should try relationships with the "unemotional" gender, or pay for the kitty to leave. 😘 you sound like you've never met a woman you actually like and you've never experienced what it feels like to be loved by a woman you actually like.

  • @youx457
    @youx4574 жыл бұрын

    This Guy Is Not Once Saying Anything About Women Being Initially Responsible Like Women Are Children & Don't Like To Fuck & Have Fun .. Now He Gets A Vision From A Spirit Being I Guess Every Other Man Whom Not Seeing & Visions & Decides To Settle In With One Woman Is Not The Chosen One ... This Guy 😣 😆

  • @keelhe893
    @keelhe8934 жыл бұрын

    This dude is a pulpit pimp and is pumping out Megan. I don’t want any of his or his wife’s advice. This man is not healthy

  • @C33b3310

    @C33b3310

    4 жыл бұрын

    Regardless of what you're saying, he's spittin facts.

  • @tgarnett

    @tgarnett

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts Keel He

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    that's interesting

  • @adriennerobinson1180

    @adriennerobinson1180

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @TravelingDiva-vp1gt

    @TravelingDiva-vp1gt

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is dusty logic for "he's telling me what I'm doing wrong as a man, and I don't like it."

  • @christophersingletary3394
    @christophersingletary33943 жыл бұрын

    Is this fool....Steve Harvey Son!!!!

  • @ashantimahdi1464

    @ashantimahdi1464

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, he's a secure, self-respecting, self- disciplined, courageous humane-being. It's called being Brave.

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