Unscripted E06: Love over Justice // A revelation of love in marriage
The Kitakas podcast is one of those you can be sure to experience candid insight at its best. In a series of honest conversations about their life as a young couple, Felix and Rukh-Shana peel back the layers and unmask the challenges couples face in marriage, sharing their experiences navigating through them & how to thrive through the different seasons on the journey to becoming One. It’s a podcast about candour and conflict, identity & self-discovery, sacrifice & submission, love & leadership, faith & hope, passion & purpose, and everything in between. Rooted in Christ, the shared experiences will help you see how the Word can be applied in everyday life.
00:00 - How the enemy attacks
7:30 - The faith to let go
12:26 - The power in remembrance
17:48 - My husbands gratitude made me cry
25:05 - The ministry of marriage
30:15 - The crowning of God
46:57 - The revelation of love
Let's connect on Twitter:
Felix Kitaka - / themutambuze
Rukh-Shana. N. Kitaka - / rukhshana
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Very powerful for husband and wife to worship together. Generations are being established by you the Kitakas!
The humility, respect, transparency, and submission and dependency on God's ways on this space is extremely inspirational. God bless your marriage
@faithnassy6573
Жыл бұрын
Hi Sis, fancy meeting you here! What a blessed couple we have been connected to!!
@theugandanvillagewife6647
Жыл бұрын
@Faith Nassy sis lovely to see you here and happy that both tap into the same inspiration and blessings
Listening to part of Mr Kitaka's submissions reminds me of Paul's message to the Philippians. 'I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength..' Philippians 4:12-13. True contentment comes only from God and a revelation of His love for us.
Thank you Mr and Mrs,you speak wisdom to us. I'm not married yet not even in a relationship but I believe the more I create my relationship with God. He will bring me someone who will love me just as christ loved the church
Oh how l waited for another episode. The Kitakas are such a blessing. Thanks.
@stellanamuwaya2905
Жыл бұрын
May God bless the kitakas
The kitakas giving us all the nuggets…Mr. Kitaka oba you also don’t belong to this earth… everything your saying is truth but we have many years for people to come to terms with it! Thank you again for this space…
Rukh-Shana tearing up reading the appreciation message got me tearing up too. Thank you for the great example you show us and the vulnerability to share these moments with us.💗
@godsown4683
Жыл бұрын
I actually teared up too. Fantasizing my husband sending such a text. I cried.
@rachellorna5109
Жыл бұрын
@@godsown4683 aww, I wish that for you ❤
Mr. Felix your the true definition of humane .. I pray God gives you Happiness in your marriage financess you really deserve the best ......and my baby Rukh ...your the luckiest woman.....
Ohhh how my spirit has been longing for this. Thanks so much
If only you knew how long I've been waiting for the next episode.. every week checking for the new vid. Thank you the Kitakas
@janasiimwe4780
Жыл бұрын
I can imagine
Couldn’t wait for the next episode 😍!!
I needed this so desperately today,thank you for being vessels,love you both
I’m always looking forward to your podcasts. So educative mostly to us the marrieds, keep it up!!
Loved the conversation. Thought provoking and relevant on many levels. Thank you for sharing
Love you the Kitakas you are such a blessing.
To see a podcast begin with worship and unity is so refreshing. Thank you the Kitakas.
Ohh am so excited,been waiting for an upload
Only God knows how long i waited for the next episode as always thank you guys for the wisdom
i was also waiting for another one and its that powerful. insightful.
love love these conversations. well done. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Been waiting for your next episode. You speak to us though not yet married believe when we get there somethings will be a walk over. For sure you are such a blessing. Thank you for the insights.
Wow. Thank you for such deep insights Mr. Felix. Am blessed! Your marriage is such an inspiration. God bless you both!
I have been waiting 💃💃💃💃💃uuuuuuhhh ❤❤mob love
You carry so much grace God bless you and yours ❤
Keep that fire burning .....i love you guys
Wululu the long awaited🎉🎉
Thank you for blessing us with your world such an authentic conversation I love your revelation of the word of God 🙏 just subscribed may the lord refill your cup with his love n Spirit.
Expeditious Shana. I am your no. 2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci.
I am always glad to sit here and listen
Wow thx to the Kitakas ...such a blessing to watch n listen.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for listening Rosette. -RK
Am guilty of thinking my boss's projections on me when never she asks me "what's wrong" it's always been pissing me off and I end up grumpy but I have learned to extend love over justice by the grace of God🙏🏽 although it's challenging with these Arabs. Always grateful for your insights, wisdom and transparency the Kitaka's to God be the glory 🙌🏽
Thank you for this powerful teaching. There are so many revelations in your teachings. We bless the Lord.
Theophilus Sunday worship hits different❤ am glad you connect to it
Thank you so much. Very insightful.🙏
Powerful session...God bless this couple. #The crown that God gives.
Thanks for blessing my life the Kitaka's❤
It is gratifying to see Rukh Shana's submissiveness to Felix. With her exposure and success you expect that she would naturally ascribe to the feminist agenda. But her love of the Lord Jesus Christ makes her who she is; like Sarah who called her husband Lord. (1 Peter 3: 6 KJV Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.)
Love over Justice ,crown understanding etc is my take home.Which reminds me of how the devil is such a liar! I was so excited to watch your first episode and just couldn't wait to watch the next till episode 3 that the devil interjected that you more so Mr.Kitaka was so deep or speaking deep stuff that were setting my mind to work to comprehend instead of making this space a resting place 😂😂,I now appreciate deep /hard conversations that shake the table and how it takes a willing heart and work to learn and be better.Thank you the Kitakas.
That sigh Rukshana! Wonderful
Thanks for the long awaited podcast.Really starved alot. Thank you, pray for the Holy Spirit to reveal to us to extend the love He offered for us.be blessed
Please help us talk about"Marriage and money" this is an epidemic in my home . My husband loves this t podcast so much im sure he will pk a leaf ooooooooooooh God
Loving this all the way...
Well done good and faithful servants
I always look forward to these sessions very enriching,insightful ,the brutal honesty.Wow!!I honour this couple
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sitting through our sessions. We are glad that you find the time valuable. -RK
Oh my God Felix and Rukhshana I can’t put in word how this has blessed me.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Glad to be a blessing :)
I love the worship 😍😍😍
Very thought provoking...these podcasts are the hard gospel eh 🤔....thank you The Kitakas, kindly consider making a video on contentment in singlehood for those without heads or necks as yet
Mwami Kitaka is so mature and full of wisdom. He carries himself so well. Shana Shana.... u are just wonderful and u looking so amazing.
Just enjoy watching the kitakas humility transparency is at a higher level
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Grace, grace and more grace!
The little things are a testament of a grace that is present
To whom much is given, much is required. God Bless you
I like the worship you start with that's a way of honouring God in you podcast.
😭😭😭😭😭thank u. God bless u🙏🏾
I’m blessed, thank you 🙏🏽
Thanks for opening us into your world.... You have been such a blessing in my life....
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! -RK
You are both great communicators and that is a powerful tool. You are ministering to many by using God's word and his amazing love to "mirror" into your lives as you reflect deeper when faced with differences of opinion and laying your marriage foundation on Christ the Solid Rock crowns it all. May the Holy Spirit be your Consultant in every situation and God's name be Glorified. You are amazing people. I accidentally bumped in your podcast,who knows, could have been divine. Bless you both
I just cant get enough of this Godly family.
@KEMIGISHAGILLIAN-kx5fh
Жыл бұрын
Me neither...
So much wisdom here
I love them, especially because they know someone who is above them, Jesus!
Waawoooo great introdn it is. Thanx lovely people of God.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! -RK
Every Good thing comes from The Lord. Am new to this channel but am over heels with it. Much love to the Kitakas😍
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
You are welcome Faith :). -RK
Blessings good people,always nourishing our souls
stay blessed, favored, wise and graced
Am learning so much.
My happy place... Thank you....
I have been waiting. The upload took long
I love watching you two your indeed full Rukushan.
Eeeeeeeh......how come I am seeing this after 3 days!🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ I thought I would see a post about it on Twitter 😪 Thanks for sharing
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
:) we had not posted on Twitter but glad you found it #justintime. Turning on notifications would help!
Oh wow...... Mr. Kitaka..... Your spiritual knowledge and wisdom are unmatched. Praying that your marriage gets to the place of God like love as opposed to justice. Meanwhile the wave of emotion that engulfed you with the pronouncement that for sinful man, God gave his most coveted possession. At a point I thought you would end the podcast. 😢 Mukama abanjagalire. ❤
This is so educative, may God reward u, the kitakas with what he thinks deserves u
@thekitakas
9 ай бұрын
Thank you Carol. -RK
These conversations are not for the faint hearted. It can easily come off like putting diamonds before pigs but may the grace of God abound for us listeners & the Spirit of God open our inner ears & eyes. To you two, I appreciate you for being so vulnerable so you can pass on the messages effectively. This is serious ministry to marriages of Christians & cool stuff too.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
We are thankful to God for it is He who works in us both to will and to do! -RK
l love you the kitakas and your blessed to have each other.Its a profound your podcast is being best on God 's wisdom.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Robinah for the kind words. And yes, we feel blessed.
This is validation.educative. calm.u know most of us have been conditioned for love to be toxic the more u can put up the more the love.❤❤❤❤❤❤
This got me in tears and was my manna for today. Thank you the Kitakas for the deep sharing!
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
Keeping the feast, always be greatfull🎉🎉🎉
Amen,am so so happy my dia sis
Massive teaching
Really inspiring,
mbade natera okukwanira ku podcast 😂😂😂tekirimu sitani😂😂😂❤thankyou for the knowledge..God bless you!
Their love for Christ has naturally bonded them, u can think they're siblings. May God bless your marriage 🙏
Am not married yet but gosh i love this this channel thank you the Kitakas
Ani ansoseee wanno banangeeeee😢😢😢😢... Kale tusimbudeee.... Long waited
@anolds
Жыл бұрын
We really jump to recognize the one step beauty... I have learnt it Something much more than the law... Christ in me
Love you guys ❤❤❤
Eh!!! This is a deep conversation🤔 Thank you The Kitakas🤝for awakening my shallow thought-line to raise to the bar of your conversations.
It's like you are pastors helping some of us...🙏🙏
Love you guys♥♥♥♥
Wooow,powerful couple
I only discovered your podcast a few days ago and I am truly blessed and cannot get enough of the wisdom you are sharing!! Pls can we have more of the worship at the start of the podcasts, it really ministers to me and would love to worship along with you both. God is using you to change my heart as a married woman and to learn to honour my husband as I continue to listen to you each time. May God continue to bless and enrich your marriage so that you can continue to be a blessing to us all 🙏🏾
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Blessed to be a blessing to you. The Lord is the one who changes the hearts of men and may He continue refining you in your marriage.
@faithnassy6573
Жыл бұрын
@@thekitakas Amen and amen 🙏🏾
The paradox in the crown ohhhh....... The beauty and the weight or responsibilities that come along with it then the thorns(Jesus) in that beautiful crown
There is a more excellent way, where grace is extended to the undeserving 😊
I have been blessed
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your walk. God bless you. God uses marriage to purify both spouses. Neither of us is perfect and we should be careful to let God work on us both. The more spiritually mature must be careful not to take God's place and think God sent us to 'work on' our spouse. If we do, we miss God's work on our own heart and make marriage our project on our spouse instead of God's on us.
@abenakesewah7604
Жыл бұрын
This comment is deep.
Thank you for sharing. I am picking on headship😊Man's glory and the tower of Babel and the confusion🤔. Principle: Submit to one another for Christ's sake. In all my thoughts and actions, it is my prayer that I always remember not to forsake Christ. The cross/responsibility that I chose or that He gives, can be heavy and I choose to look to Jesus so that I can live. The heaviness of the cross never out-weighed His grace for He submitted to the Father. Submission here looks like Trust, Love so God became the spring of unquenchable grace🎉 to submitting Jesus What are your thoughts on submission? Song: He giveth more grace as our burdens grow greater, He sendeth more strength as our labors increase; To added afflictions He addeth His mercy, To multiplied trials He multiplies peace. 2. When we have exhausted our store of endurance, When our strength has failed ere the day is half done, When we reach the end of our hoarded resources Our Father’s full giving is only begun. 3. Fear not that thy need shall exceed His provision, Our God ever yearns His resources to share; Lean hard on the arm everlasting, availing; The Father both thee and thy load will upbear. 4. His love has no limits, His grace has no measure, His power no boundary known unto men; For out of His infinite riches in Jesus He giveth, and giveth, and giveth again
Eeeh these two are a perfect match.....and the worship was so mwaaa.....
Wow!
For guilty man God gave his son...speaks so much volumes.
My prayer is to meet Mrs Ruk-shana ohhhh God
The space l want to be at always ❤🥰🥰💃🏻
Thank you for opening up about parts of the journey of your marriage and for sharing your wisdom and God's truth with us. Am praying for this podcast to grow and never stop!
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Amen! -RK
I tap this anointing......may the Good Lord bless me with a Godly man.....and make me more submissive
@thekitakas
11 ай бұрын
The Lords ears are open to the prayers of the righteous! -RK