Unscripted E07: 7 days of silence // Overcoming pride in our marriage
The Kitakas podcast is one of those you can be sure to experience candid insight at its best. In a series of honest conversations about their life as a young couple, Felix and Rukh-Shana peel back the layers and unmask the challenges couples face in marriage, sharing their experiences navigating through them & how to thrive through the different seasons on the journey to becoming One. It’s a podcast about candour and conflict, identity & self-discovery, sacrifice & submission, love & leadership, faith & hope, passion & purpose, and everything in between. Rooted in Christ, the shared experiences will help you see how the Word can be applied in everyday life.
00:00 - The rebuke of the Lord
7:26 - When pride threatens the union of marriage
11:30 - The wisdom in guarding the tongue
12:41 - How men relate with respect
14:03 - Dealing with the little foxes that spoil the vineyard
17:38 - The husband’s place in standing in the gap
22:37 - Separate your spouse from their weaknesses
32:25 - The place of Grace in marriage
Let's connect on Twitter:
Felix Kitaka - / themutambuze
Rukh-Shana. N. Kitaka - / rukhshana
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You guys…your first podcast saved my marriage! I was so ready to pack and go,I had actually already called a broker to get me a house,thennnn I landed on your podcast. Thank you dear kitakas.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Glory to God.
@annettewere4843
Жыл бұрын
We bless the Lord for that miracle. May God give you grace & establish you in your marriage.
@politeayikiriza4605
Жыл бұрын
Awww amen
@babeskjo
Жыл бұрын
@@annettewere4843 thank you. God is faithful
@marthangala7941
Жыл бұрын
"Your partner is not the enemy, the enemy is the weakness in your partner. Separate your partner from weakness". Learning is taking place! Thank you the Kitakas
" ....you are the one woman, I felt saw me...I was on the floor, I did need my friend, you saw something, over time the world agrees with you, I promise you, the woman that saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses over that woman. " What a statement , what a love story. This blessed me in so many ways, and I can relate, may we learn to honour our loved ones ( those who saw us ) over their weaknesses and mistakes. Amen.
@estarallen8575
Жыл бұрын
In most times we determine and rate people how they dress how they sleep and this is our canal minds which we've to get rid off. May God help us see beyond material things in our spouses
''Marriage can break simply because none of them is willing to break for it'' Very powerful statement .Thank you the Kitakas for this ministry, you are touching many peoples' marriages.
I asked God for a good marriage counselor who will show me; not what I wanted to hear but the truth. I also didn't want a third-party who I would be afraid of opening up to, and I told God, to counsel me by Himself. I have been diligently following each episode. Today is when I realize this must have been God's answer to me. May God impart more wisdom to the Kitakas... I have been blessed beyond what I envisioned or ever asked for. God bless you!
@sarahnamwanje
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@rachellorna5109
Жыл бұрын
@@sarahnamwanje This is exactly my sentiment! It is just amazing how God in His great wisdom has a way of equipping us for every season of our lives. The Kitaka's were indeed meant to be here for us, in a time such as this. 💚💚
@charlesisabirye9128
Жыл бұрын
Mr. Kitaka you carry a wisdom i honestly admire. I pray i get to meet you some day. Thanks any ways!
Naye these guys bring us back to earth regarding this marriage ministry. We need to share this content with as many people as possible . Wabula
I know what it means to be silent in the same house ,mine was extreme end for good 8 months ,when I told God let you will be done in marriage even around me knew my marriage was over but I trust God and God turned things around and my marriage was restored ,it was a miracle ,thx once again for saving people's marriage.
Separate your partner from weakness. This is profound!!!! I need to meet you two❤
Wow I love the Spiritual maturity Mr Kitaka has led his bride to surely like Christ cleansing the church to present her to himself, I pray God gives you an unction to raise more men unto a place of being spiritual leaders. God bless you
Thank you for letting us in your space. Am learning so much
❤wow this is too good,thank the Kitakas.
Thanks so much for this am always waiting for the new podcasts They are of help Many thanks
Ouhhh this is so amazing 🥰🥰💕💕, thank you the KITAKAS.
Sending love from Kenya..I'm not married but following you is really preparing me for it. Keep loving, alil of your vernacular here and there that I don't understand but I'm glad I follow your teachings.
Wow. Thank you so much! I believe we all need to have such honest conversations with our spouses
You people this intro ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ be blessed I can't be patient
Wow, I like the way this ended . Thank you
You two have blessed me. May God's grace continue to uphold your marriage 🙏🙏
Such encouragement 🙌 I am edified and encouraged! What a blessing you are to this generation. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably 💜
Came back to give my appreciation for this seed. Thank you so much guys
I dont really know how I landed this amazing podcast. But I really love them both.
Expeditious Shana. I am your no.2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci beaucoup !!!
Amazing people.... May God Keep u stronger In Him and build ur bond stronger
"You are the woman that I felt saw me...over time, the world agrees with you. And I promise you, the woman who saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses above that woman." Just wow! ❤🔥 If this is not a perfect example of how Christ loved the church!
@godsown4683
Жыл бұрын
Weee I am telling you I love these guys.
@ninsiimaracheal8838
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Rachel (namesake) for writing the words for me... you know in these podcasts am helping Shana in crying...we always cry together and I miss the most important words. The more I play it again, the more I cry..... Thank you the Kitakas....it's not easy to do life with a spouse you just met and you have a responsibility of being one. But if that's the truth, am ready to walk the path well knowing that the grace is sufficient..in my weakness
@rosekitur8429
Жыл бұрын
Those last perfect words from a man to a woman he loves❤. It gives me tears. It reminds me of The Love of Christ for a mere being like me. Then reminded me in 2018 when I was going through hell and in a dream A man appeared to me and hug me so tightly and said to me I Love you, I accept who you are, I Love you both with your son and I don't care of your past. I cried tears of Joy and it began a journey of healing. I don't know if that Man was Jesus (he was so perfect) or my future husband 😊. Am still waiting and not losing hope. Kitakas you bless me. I can't wait to share and to re- listen these podcast with my husband in future. ❤❤❤
Wow! Not glorifying the weaknesses of our spouse and knowing that it is by the grace of God. I have learnt alot.
This man affirmed you at the end, I could feel your apprehension Rukhshana. He is honored to do life with you, he is leading you as he lets Christ lead him. Let your heartstrings flow and receive from this cup greatly. You are doing an amazing thing showing us how marriage should glorify God, and we thank you ❤️❤️🌺🌺
@persist.b.ushindi
7 ай бұрын
That book on Honor by Ap.Moses Mukisa is such a blessing and life saver.
You guys embody a love that I believe in. A love that sees deeper and seeks to know the soul of a person. Lovely..
This has the GLORY of TMH all over it. May the two of you be increased. ✨🙌🏿☺️
I have loved that first part, praying together 😊
This is deep stuff, real discipleship. I have watched like six episodes of " The Kitaka's" in the last 2 days. God loves this.
I have been blessed beyond measure. Thank you the Kitakas.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure!
Wow..this is so beautiful❤
Honestly am blown out with this, blessings 🙏🙏🙏 a lot unsaid
I love the way Mr. Kitaka always holds Rukh's hands eeeeh ummm only God knows how i feel
It doesn't matter the duration of the podcast. The unveiling of what lies underneath the decisions/reactions we make in every circumstance is golden. Thanking you for this podcast is not enough.... You are making that mark...
First time here but l must say l am loving it
A true definition of marriage as in Ephesians 5. Wonderful man, keep it up sanctifying your wife you'll surely enjoy life together.
Thx We are really humbled to hear from you guys
Best KZread channel! May God continue to grant you grace. You are a blessing❤
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Ronah. Amen to more grace! -RK
Mr. Kitaka i am extremely proud of you and your lovely wife. This is what the world needs.
I like the honest conversation ❤
Eehhh this was deep… I felt that Rukhshana and I face the same thing. The reconciliation of who I married and who I had as a friend is hard because my friend and my husband seem like two different people. Super glad to have watched this.
Thank you the Kitaka's; I see God here!
So truthful, so painful.. And at the same time so deeply profound 😔 More grace to you both. The Kitakas you are, forever in Jesus name. Amen
I can only say see what the Lord can do when you surrender. You are such a blessing to this generation. I see we are almost reaching the topic of submission 😂😂. Eagerly waiting for the next episode❤
Banange tuwebwa omukisa in these videos they have added value in my life be blessed ba dia
I love you both. Thank you for Ministry
It is Shana's deep breaths for me when Mr kitaka is talking 😊😊😊
@liliannabirye3951
Жыл бұрын
Because through her husband's talking,the Holy spirit is ministering
Woow you are such a blessing and this is ministry you are doing
If only I could meet you Mr and Mrs Kitaka for me to say thank you and ask you more Blessings
With few minutes into the podcast I quickly subscribed and turned on the notification! I can’t afford to miss and upload! I’ve been so blessed by this podcast!! God bless you both!!
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Welcome aboard! And thank you.
This is a free therapy session. Thank you, the Kitakas.
@thekitakas
4 ай бұрын
It’s always a pleasure! -RK
Loving every episode❤
May our Lord keep blessing u two To grower stronger spiritually in ur marriage 🙏🏻
Thank you for being candid and sharing your marriage with us. Thank you doing it with such purpose, this podcast gives us so much information for us looking to marry. Thank you for being purposeful!
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
This was so beautiful.. I thank God for your marriage.
@thekitakas
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! -RK
Beautiful Beautiful Beautiful Podcast. Thank you soo much this has blessed me way by far. Amazing. Stay blessed.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
So glad! - RK
On a lighternote, Mr.Kitaka is not of this world. May God grant you both your hearts desires. You are touching marriages in ways no one can explain.
Woow God bless you the Kitaka’s. Thanks for always sharing with us the wonderful Word of the Almighty God🙏🏻
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. -RK
I feel the Holy Spirit in this channel. Continue with the great work.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Amen.
Wow. Am here for this.
This is wisdom overload
Woooow nze leero am speechless bantu bange. The ending got me oba how....
My take way ,a marriage can break because neither is willing to break for it .The little fox Pride that couldnspoil the vineyard ,thanks .i have subscribed immediately ,im so blessed
How I ended up here last night at 23.00hrs! I was already in bed but for some reason I couldn't fall asleep. Anyway, I got up and picked up my phone, went to KZread to pass time till I get sleepy then I straight away came across this video! It addressed me in many ways and I feel the Holy Spirit led me here! There's so much I learnt from you both. Thank you🙏🏽
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
We are glad you were led here :) Eugenia!
Thank you for the ministry to add value to marriages. This is purpose! May God grant you more wisdom beyond your years.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Amen! -RK
This is wisdom
You people are lovely. Kale I have loved this
Great lessons..such a beautiful podcast. Thank you for allowing God to use you and for being real. Blessings all the way
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for listening. -RK
24:43 There is a PUREST form of a man, the SPIRIT! Separate the weakness of men from their true identity. War unto not fresh and blood... I am blessed. Thank you, thank you, thank you the Kitakas❤
Am speechless, looks like i have homework to do. May God be my guide. God bless you the Kitakas, thank you for allowing God to let you be vulnerable to us.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome. -RK
Am first here today. Thanks for always blessing me with so much wisdom the Kitakas❤❤
@charityngabirano-fz2pd
Жыл бұрын
Me too❤ Here taking notes ❤
@joygood2795
Жыл бұрын
@@charityngabirano-fz2pd Mrs. JM omu bwati... glad to know you also tap from the well of wisdom of the Kitakas. How is outside countries?
Down to earth couple,thank you for sharing your life
Thank you for the message we need to look at how God has been graceful to us and we give that to our friends. Neighbors. Another is needed
@MsGratefulgal
Жыл бұрын
...being completely humble and gentle; being patient, and bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2
This is answered prayer for me💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I asked God that you do more podcasts in a month after watching 06 and I found this🙏🏽🙏🏽, thank you the Kitaka’s, God bless you more🙏🏽
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
👐
This is such an intimate discussion.Big up to you Shana for actually allowing to share your world with us.I don't think I can bring people this upclose so help me God
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
🙏 It is He that works in us both to will and to do for His good pleasure (Phil 2:13). - RK
U guys are jhs spectacular meant to be❤🔥
I dont have the exact words to describe this video. Thank you so much for sharing your hearts ❤❤ I have been extremely blessed
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
We are so glad! -RK
@brendakembabazi4388
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you 150%.
Waaawoooo, that introduction, I love u two guys.
@janasiimwe4780
Жыл бұрын
Happy to fall this on my Birthday..i guess it is one of the blessings for me today.
I am always blessed by this couple! Thank you the kitakas for allowing the Lord to use you to speak to marriages! These real stories build!
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
We are thankful for the opportunity to share our lives in the hope that it helps someone some couples grow better. -RK
Separate your partner from weakness! There's purity in every man! And that's the truth in a man
Eeeh this is powerful 👏
Kili wano..."who said am Settling" the Kitaakas I love love love while learning. God bless your beautiful marriage. Amen.
@kimberlychelsea9341
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
I am really being blessed 🥰. Marriage is ministry.
Thank you so the Kitakas. I like how Mr. Kitaka has explained how to know a person using David's relationship with God. I too is looking for a man with such level of understanding
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
May the Lord prepare you a man such as that!
Yooooo.... Shan, God got you a sword to prune you and get you closer to Himself. You're a blessed woman.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
This is indeed true! -RK
Shana brown looks very lovely on you.❤Blessed couple.Thanks for being raw and same time giving marriages lessons.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! RK
You both blessed me. May God bless you both, your marriage and the work of your hands. New subscriber here🎉
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! -RK
This is deep. Thanks 😊
Ehhh but Mr. Kitaka always has the perfect words to make his wife feel so special! 🥰🥰 God bless you both! ❤
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
That he really does 😊! -RK
Thank you for this🙏
My councelors .....im learning from u people ....i pray God keeps you together not only for u but for me too....your my marriage role models .....love love you so much guys
@paskaziatumwesigye1534
Жыл бұрын
Such a nice prayer
God bless for building our lives with your wisdom ...
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Amen and thank you Deborah. -RK
Wow great episode.. These podcasts have really helped me build my relationship with God.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
It is a joy to hear that Abigail. We pray that you will grow deeper in Him. -RK
too short but sweet😉😍. I never get enough of this always. i always have to repeat watching and listening like 2 times😂 , u guys bless my heart sooo much and i keep blushing from the start to the end🙂. am not yet married but u guys make marriage look so beautiful, easy and authentic🙌. a man who loves the lord is all that i need 🤩👃
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more Sarah. A man who loves and is submitted to God will help make marriage worthwhile even with all its struggles. -RK
@annettewere4843
Жыл бұрын
Yeees, may God fulfill your heart's desire, it is noble.
@rwakijumasarah1716
Жыл бұрын
@@thekitakas ❤
This one podcast👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
I love these people mbwenu
Wow such an inspiring episode. So many people struggle with pride. But at the end of it all love wins.. Humility is key. All the best to the Kitakas as you keep inspiring us
MAY GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOUR UNION.
@thekitakas
Жыл бұрын
Amen.
I love how Mr Kitaka is so touchy 😍.. He always stretches out his hand to touch RK... It's so romantic 💕😘... Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I am blessed through everything that you share.
@violahyusufu1966
Жыл бұрын
He is like my husband touching touching all the tym but now am used to😅😅