This man is mature! Last video shocked me that he was 11years her junior but oh boy that man sounds like a wise Old man. I’ve been challenged to see relationships on a deep level. And thanks to the both of you for unraveling boxes for us. The introspection of seeing our partner goes beyond a check list and expectations. Thank you for opening your home to us through these podcasts. I’m growing

@bazirajesca9260

Жыл бұрын

@Judy I had the same exact thoughts. He is too mature for any girl his age or below. He indeed needed a senior like Shana

@janatsanchez3555

Жыл бұрын

I think may be most of us have not understood this well,11 years her junior might be in age or in professional work experience but me l think people most of us are looking at it interms of age difference which is not correct otherwise all the best

@LeboleKojo

Жыл бұрын

I was also shocked..but he is the right man for her

Both of them are spiritually sound and well mannered. Something special about their upbringing

Two emotionally and intellectually mature people these conversations are really eye opening and reassuring

Wow...this couple the gentleman is really in his place of leadership,the wife gracely follows.Their communication is smooth and flows effortlessly. I must say this has an origin at a prayer altar. God deepen and multiply you.

Watching your conversations always stirs up in me a hunger to sit with God to get to know Him more, and relate with Him as a friend. May the Spirit bring more people to your channel, and may they be impacted in the same way I am!

Adjust to let your spouse fit in that chair, sunk deep🤔. Your conversations are mind blowing, the eloquence from each end gets you glued on and on👌🏾👌🏾 I need to say this😊 the way you widely smile and look at Shana towards the end of the podcast, is romantic 🥰. Please hold your hands longer, affirm your love for each other and say a prayer to sum it up…just a thought. Be blessed, 🙏🏽

I just enjoy listening to this couple. When I start, it's hard for me to pause or stop. It's a must watch till the end... The Kitakas, well done & God bless yo marriage

This couple is really a huge huge blessing to me. I am learning a lot each and every single time I watch a video of you two. My request is that when my time is come to be like you two, I pray that you are part of my premarital counselors. And I know God will make it come to pass. May God mightily bless you guys.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Blessed to be a blessing. As for the counselling...:) who knows ! -RK

The long awaited one!

Just a few minutes in (where the discussion of the ongoing process of refining our mindset) and I am reminded of the verse that speaks about Jesus being the “author and perfecter of our faith” - it has me thinking about how indeed our faith walk will forever be a journey that is only perfected (completed) by Christ himself (I assume in eternity as is also highlighted in the promise on the cross).

Great lessons. God increasingly increase the grace upon you.

These conversations are such defining every word counts a millions insight. thanks for the podcast

Wow 🤩: So much wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing your lives with me … Am learning and unlearning

Thanks for these podcasts. They start conversations in my marriage. Thank you Thank you

Anyway after watching these series, I actually now believe there are good men in Kampala 😂 eh😂 Mwebale nyo!

Mr.Kitaka is so deep with his maturity & Shana ur very honest swtht.....kip up the vibes.....this is unstoppable

Thanks to you guys for opening up your lives to us. Was blessed by this conversation. As a Christian, I have loved the story of how Felix took the battle to the flesh. Conversation was a sermon and a pre-marital counselling meshed into one together with some beautiful light humour. Love you guys.

I just love the calmness in the conversations. If it is not for the cameras, I really do tap on the blessing in your marriage.

@rachellorna5109

Жыл бұрын

I knoww..so divine! Got me thinking about Gentleness as a fruit of the Holyspirit! The Kitaka's are a perfect example of that!

@kabamoolivalleria3241

Жыл бұрын

I tap into that same blessing too. Thank you the Kitatas 🙏

Expeditious Shana. I'm your no.2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci beaucoup !

Very profound. How can a creation try to figure out so much without the creator? There is so much wisdom here. Truthfully; you 2 are blessed.

Thank u for the cooperation may God bless your family.

How l love seeing and listening to this couple , l 'm always blessed and encouraged ,may God bless your marriage

Your conversations are so deep and meaningful! I love you ❤️

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

Thanks the kitaka’s for this podcast, haven’t officially walked down the aisle but i am staying with my sweetheart and we’ve a 3years old son but we’ve been tested naye through your knowledge and God above we shall win 🙏

Felix and Shan , thank you for allowing us to draw from your waters. We bless the Lord that your marriage is a blessing to all of us.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Glory to God. It is a blessing for us to share our life.

I could listen to you guys, forever. I feel rested each time I get to the end of the podcast. Your conservations are so touching, in many ways. After 15 years in marriage, it is humbling that I have had to learn so much from both of you. Thank you for keeping it real. Blessings

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Fifteen years...wow!! I look forward to doing life for thirrty and more by Gods Grace! -RNK

It's always the end for me lol. There's always so much to learn on this "podcast"

Am inspired with the amazing message delivered by the Kitakas. Special thanks please.

Shana thanks for always being honest and open. I watched your interview with Crystal before you got married and you have always been honest.

Wow wow...I never want it to end. But Thanks for the great insights. If you can't handle financial challenges as a single...thats my Take Home.

Eh but Mr. Kataka is deep....and so willing to talk....its amazing to watch you guys

@nona5684

Жыл бұрын

These guys really make me feel like I still have a longway to go spiritually. So amazing to us

Deliberateness & consistency/ 2nd nature indeed

i enjoy how these guys prolong simple stuff in an intriguing and realistic way ...................... very interesting

@masikashifra4054

Жыл бұрын

There is alot of critical thinking in a simple way ! I like them to

Thank you so much guys

The Kitakas are a blessing, I love love this podcast , the biblical principles are so immense, I love the way you share boldly about your experiences in life , the wisdom is from above. Kitakas I CD see you as pastors and mentors. May the lord favour you both and use u for his glory .

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

I applaud you Shan...you are truly blessed and loved by God

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Yes I am! Thank you Isabella. - RK

Thanks for the good message be blessed by God

This is the podcast that I was look forward to…. The nuggets unveiled are as real as they can be… There is no area that can be pointed out because every section is to the bone... Thank you for what you are nurturing in us…🥰🥰🥰

@namakulasusan6589

Жыл бұрын

I ,m really privileged to be part of this podcast , cos I’m really from showing yours shows , more blessings beloved.

@namakulasusan6589

Жыл бұрын

* cos I ‘m really growing into knowledge of many things more blessings to the kitakas.

What a humble and culm couple ! God you

The wisdom from you guys ...is great...I have to watch like twice....please make more podcasts ....

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Twice is good. I have to watch more than thrice to minister to myself as well :) -RK

Wao! You are blessed to have this at a younger stage of your marriage, you will escape many strifes... I tell you. Thank you, I have been personally blessed and now I know with marriage learning never stops indeed, you get to learn, relearn and unlearn things on this journey. Been married for 10yrs and still learning. Many more blessings the Kitakas🙏✌️

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on 10 years!!! And yes, we look forward to learning a lot more as well and for now we give thanks for the grace to learn! -RNK

Grateful to God I landed on your channel before marriage because menhhh I have learnt and unlearnt alot. Thank you so much for obeying the Holy Spirit

@thekitakas

3 ай бұрын

We are so glad! ~RK

Amazing insight, I am inspired

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

I love learning from you

eh! Mwami Kitaka makes me nervous - I don't like to be queried much less in public! This is what married people tell us to prepare for! Lord Jesus help me grow and help me be receptive to the vehicles you use to get me there 🙏

Mr Felix Kitaka; you mentioned something that I found profound about the differences between men and women. Kindly share resources like books that I can access in order to understand that. Even Scriptures in that line.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

The book men are from mars and women are from Venus is a good start.

Great conversations.Can you make your podcasts downloadable. Thank you

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Hey Dorothy, we will prayerfully consider that idea or another way to ease access! -RK

Thank you 🙏

You two are blessed having these conversations early in your marriage. No regrets but there are several things I wished I had learnt earlier in my marriage, naturally I think I would be far. But yeah thanks for God's quickening Spirit & ekisa kya Mukama ekyi kilondoola...& it's special for each one of us.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

It's indeed by His Grace and we don't take it for granted. -RK

Am spired, but also how do I find out my purpose in regards to God's calling?

little did I know that, mind is the principle of marriage , leaving God as. no 1 .

I don't know what or how I would react if I had someone that challenges me like he does all the time...guess it's a good thing and helps with growth...i like it though, or maybe am enjoying to listen because am not the one being challenged. It's got me thinking too....and, I just looked up the meaning of your name Ruhk-shana...and wow what a name with a beautiful meaning. All in all...when two people first get married...there is usually a period of adjustment for the both of them. My husband and I struggled in the first months..we have since grown so much, rough edges get smoothed out with time, it gets easier as the years go by.....good stuff, I like it

@kabeehodebrah5015

Жыл бұрын

I agree. He's not easy to deal with I guess.

If we had more such couples the national crime statistics especially issues of gender based violence which affect family would be low . Once family is threatened, community and society must be disorganized too by wrong citizens ✍️ It's not how long u have been married but all about what ur doing in that marriage God bless you the kitakas

You are everything I have ever wanted to see in a couple. And my humble request is to meet you some day. Especially the woman of God

Kitaka is full of wisdom. Shana is too honest

I just love you guys ....

It's easy to tackle marriage issues that don't involve a cheating spouse.

Hi ..I love u pipo and looking forward to meet you pipo...

Hello The Kitakas..Thanks for a wonderful podcast, I had to come back and listen again ..I have been pondering on this whole idea of oneness,why is just the flesh and not the Spirit as well? Is marriage that deep then, if its just the flesh which is corruptible? Or is that part of making marriage an idol? Also purposes, is there anything such as reconciling purposes? Thank you once again

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Many ponderings... some not very clear. But may the Lord give you the answers :) -RK

Awwwww 🥰🥰🥰

U make me want to try marriage again, thanks ba dia ❤ 😍

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

This is so heartwarming Eva! Commit it to God, seek Him out on it and trust Him. Pray for His will to be done :) -RK

Is me the old man or is me the new man...deep

I need to be on the same spiritual page as u the kitakas , plz help!

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

It really begins with the desire to want to know God intimately. 1) Study the word 1/24 JOSHUA 1:8-8 (AMP) 8 This Book of the Law shall not depart out of your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, that you may observe and do according to all that is written in it. For then you shall make your way prosperous, and then you shall deal wisely and have good success. 2) Find teachers of the Word that bring enlightenment to your soul. 3) Find people that are on the same journey to spiritual growth and continually fellowship with them. 10/13 HEBREWS 10:25-25 (AMP) 25 Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching. Those are my two cents. - FK

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@irenenamatende9583

Жыл бұрын

I love the way you open up to one another

@irenenamatende9583

Жыл бұрын

Mr. Kitaks you are " Deep" , Deep in the word. Thank you I am blessed by u both🙏

@irenenamatende9583

Жыл бұрын

The gigget🤔

@ninsiimaracheal8838

Жыл бұрын

I have just learnt to create room for my partner. Surprisingly I have been married for 7 years .. Thank you the Kitakas. I am going to expand my horizons and create space in everything I do. ❤

Ruk is just an alpha lady and very systematic. I also don't like any adjustments to my pre-planned program. Especially in the morning.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

That's not a very good place to be as I have learned. It does not allow for the fluidity that comes with one led of God. What happens if you are being prompted to go another way but you are set on your own way? The scriptures speak of the steps of a righteous man being ordered of God.

Who leads my mind is it my Flesh or the Spirit of God?

@gracessali7886

Жыл бұрын

You choose ,once born again,the spirit of God is in you. So renew your mind with God's word to lead you or else you may still choose to go by the world standards(flesh).But choose life.Romans12:2,deut 30:19, Galatians5:17

@rochellenteeba6291

Жыл бұрын

@@gracessali7886 thanks,I just loved the statement found it simple yet quite deep. Something major we all need to make up our minds on

@estherbirungi8036

Жыл бұрын

Am learning alot from you the Kitakas

Off to Read Galatians 5:17.

How about we just live as simple beings rather than thinking deeply about each and every thing. A coin has 2 sides totally different. A woman can never think like a man or a man who thinks like a woman. But we can compliment each other and support each of her. Let's enjoy each others differences. This makes a relationship more exciting than a systematic school.

@sandran1291

Жыл бұрын

Am not setling for 'simple', iam settling for excellence . When you are led by the spirit of God, one might think that u are thinking deeply abt everything. Bt when actually it's just mere obedience to the holly spirit

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Hallelujah! Preach sister, preach 🙏

Y'all, get some software engineers to join your family. we are all deep as Mr.Kitaka. I have always thought shana is a halfcast, I think because of the name Rukh Shana, so rare.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

Lol @ depth of software engineers and half-caste! -RNK

@Jackson-Mucunguzi2024

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 me too thought she is a south African kumbe masaka local breed ,tx for inspiring us the kitakas . I pity those who consider age difference in couples with a pseudo mindset that a man must be older than the woman !!!! Marry substance, content, character , vision, epitaph and upbringing not age which is a mere figure ✍️🇺🇬

Some men give u reason to submit.

@thekitakas

Жыл бұрын

I can see where you are coming from but it's not really that easy - this submission thing! I am still learning and I trip every other day. That said, our submission as wives is not conditional just as their love should not be.They are both instructions that have nothing to do with the state of the recipient!

@ninsiimaracheal8838

Жыл бұрын

​@@thekitakas Shan ....I probably want to read and read these statements once again. I am so much learning to submit unconditionally, but what if what if flowing in the vessels down the line is not the will of God?? Won't my submission be misguided?

Losing the plot!....so helpppp me God!

Need counseling from u...