Unique & Strange Father-Son Relationships in India | Indian Society | UPSC GS1

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In this video, we delve into the intricate and often unusual dynamics of father-son relationships within the complex fabric of Indian society. Discover a wide range of examples that highlight the diverse nature of these bonds, from traditional patriarchal roles to modern interpretations of filial relationships.
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  • @studyiqofficial
    @studyiqofficial7 ай бұрын

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  • @anandtajane8753
    @anandtajane87537 ай бұрын

    Father tries to save 100 Rs by walking 20 mins, Son tries to save 20 mins by taking Uber ride spending 100 Rs. Beauty is both father and son are right.

  • @sreejithvk8478

    @sreejithvk8478

    7 ай бұрын

    Mathematicallly the son is wrong because he needs to book the cab, the cab needs to arrives and he needs to take the ride so he's not actually saving 20 minutes, 10-15 minutes depending on how soon the cab arrives. That's only break even or profit if he's paid at least Rs 10 a minute.

  • @qusaipen102

    @qusaipen102

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sreejithvk8478 which he probably will be, not directly but indirectly a lot of more productive things can be done in those 20 minutes. I am not saying that walking is unproductive, but it largely depends on the context and how busy you are at the moment.

  • @rajrao25

    @rajrao25

    7 ай бұрын

    It depends on the economic situation cannot judge without understanding the situation.

  • @user-uh4ih6wr5k

    @user-uh4ih6wr5k

    7 ай бұрын

    In my home I save money and my father is extravagant

  • @abhaythakur133

    @abhaythakur133

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@sreejithvk8478 Even if example is wrong what is stopping you from saying both father and son is right no but you are into example??

  • @gauravrana8379
    @gauravrana83797 ай бұрын

    Me & My dad are poles apart. We can't stand each other. But that doesn't change the fact that HE'S MY FATHER AND I AM HIS SON.😊❤

  • @RomanReigns-be9jj

    @RomanReigns-be9jj

    7 ай бұрын

    Same goes to me 😌😌

  • @Vaibhavmaurya606

    @Vaibhavmaurya606

    7 ай бұрын

    almost everything he say we disagree but the fact is we all love our father

  • @medhanshsharma2033

    @medhanshsharma2033

    7 ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @abhishekkanaujia2805

    @abhishekkanaujia2805

    7 ай бұрын

    Lucky bro

  • @santunubhaduri5353

    @santunubhaduri5353

    7 ай бұрын

    Same here 😢

  • @uniqueuser483
    @uniqueuser4837 ай бұрын

    Father is like a sun , if he is there , there is heat but it hurts but with out sun we are nothing 😢😢

  • @pankajk.r2448

    @pankajk.r2448

    7 ай бұрын

    True ❤

  • @rakshitpatel9664

    @rakshitpatel9664

    7 ай бұрын

    This will not be applied to all.

  • @Sanskrit.Mukherjee.1997

    @Sanskrit.Mukherjee.1997

    7 ай бұрын

    dekhna sunstroke na jaaye

  • @NeelamGiri-iu7lh

    @NeelamGiri-iu7lh

    7 ай бұрын

    True

  • @sajidalam9200

    @sajidalam9200

    7 ай бұрын

    Son

  • @niteshraj2771
    @niteshraj27717 ай бұрын

    Ego clashes as the son grows into an adult, he starts on to take lead of the family, father does not want to lose power.

  • @shubhamvishal1216
    @shubhamvishal12167 ай бұрын

    I can hug my mother anytime. But to hug my father still a dream. Our conversion ends till demand of money. I listen my father talking to my mom about me in my absence only. I want to hug him but a/c to me it demands my success.

  • @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719

    @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719

    7 ай бұрын

    It's your father's fault never opened his heart for you I'm lucky my father always Opened himself to me But situation is not different for me eather My Father still demand Success hardwork money I like to give you some advice Force your father open himself to you Show some aggression attitude Hurtful Arguments Disrespect Push his Nerves Until your father Breakdown mentally When your father Feel he have to open up He will force to open up

  • @india4843

    @india4843

    7 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @saqlainmushtaq360

    @saqlainmushtaq360

    7 ай бұрын

    But I'm quite lucky in this case.... I get to hug him twice in a year

  • @RomanReigns-be9jj

    @RomanReigns-be9jj

    7 ай бұрын

    @@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 father & her ?? 🙄🙄

  • @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719

    @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719

    7 ай бұрын

    @@RomanReigns-be9jj my mistake

  • @Raaaa-lx2fc
    @Raaaa-lx2fc7 ай бұрын

    Few people are lucky where there's a friendship between son and his dad. It's very rare to see where a guy can share everything with his parents without any fear. The fear of getting scolding or making the situation worse keeps children away from their parents as their reactions would be very harsh to any bad situation in life making him further weak, depressed and sad in opposition to a friend who if not useful to overcome the situation but can atleast make him feel light by sharing his situation without fear. Dad or son both are living in different generations which have huge gaps about the way life to be lived and with the power to take independent steps everyone tried to impose their believes on others. And hence the argument starts, but since parents sometimes loose temper and may hurt child with chappal or thappad, even a small scolding or harsh reaction will distant their child from them, call it fear of parents which a guy will never overcome untill and unless a miracle occurs. Main thing is in western countries parents show low even if it is morphed while in india parents show their anger but fail to show their love when their kid needs it the most. We as parents simply can't say i love u to our kids as they grew older. We stop understanding their point or try to say it's ok we can fix it, instead we shout and start beating them making them feel more sad and lonely.

  • @USER74137

    @USER74137

    7 ай бұрын

    It is the bitter truth dude

  • @parikshitholmeroy4861

    @parikshitholmeroy4861

    7 ай бұрын

    I am one of them 😊

  • @lancerag1437

    @lancerag1437

    7 ай бұрын

    Can feel it

  • @SagarAbhishek

    @SagarAbhishek

    7 ай бұрын

    sensible comment.

  • @itsakingfisher4354

    @itsakingfisher4354

    7 ай бұрын

    I can feel it

  • @Rajpathhome
    @Rajpathhome7 ай бұрын

    Today, I'm 39 years old and married. However, even today, my father has total control over me. He has two different tones; he speaks with my elder brother in a different tone, slightly higher, and with anger towards me. In my family, there are five people - my parents and three kids, two boys, and one girl. I was the middle child. Since my childhood, my father treated me as if I knew nothing, while my elder brother was seen as the one who knew everything. This same treatment continues today. This is the reason why I never eat with him at the dining table. I prefer to eat before or after him, but not with him. In the morning, whenever he wakes up and comes to the hall to sit on the sofa, I move back to my bedroom and wait for him to leave or go into his bedroom. In the meantime, I play with my daughter. Our relationship soured after I lost my mother to Covid. Thankfully, there are others like me who have a similar relationship with their fathers.

  • @SanjayVerma-bj8sv

    @SanjayVerma-bj8sv

    7 ай бұрын

    90%your situation matching with me

  • @TheDSGroupSoro

    @TheDSGroupSoro

    7 ай бұрын

    Brother, Try talking to your father a little little words... Distances will end. God bless you.

  • @Rajpathhome

    @Rajpathhome

    7 ай бұрын

    @@TheDSGroupSoroNo offense, I am 39, do you really think that I never thought about it? I do not know if you can understand this, it is in Gujarati 'પાકે ઘડે કાંઠા ન ચડે'

  • @DOGESH-superstar

    @DOGESH-superstar

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Rajpathhomeohh you are gujrati now I can understand you better... gujrati parents are conservative and have a lot of restrictions on their kid due to societal pressure..I have seen many kids growing like this there .

  • @nv2224

    @nv2224

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Rajpathhome why are you living under the same roof as him? Its possible that he is a narcissist. You need to find your own house to stay. Tomorrow your baby girl is going to grow up observing all this. It's bad for her.

  • @user-ir3jr8dd3v
    @user-ir3jr8dd3v7 ай бұрын

    My father is my bestest friend we share our thoughts everytime even when one is in dilemma he takes my advice and i take his advice....... ❤

  • @drstrange404

    @drstrange404

    7 ай бұрын

    You're very lucky dude! Btw what's the age gap? I am guessing it will be lower...in may case its almost 40 yrs...so becomes impossible to have similar perspectives on anything!

  • @ashisanshuman8873

    @ashisanshuman8873

    7 ай бұрын

    You are lucky man!

  • @Surajbansal909

    @Surajbansal909

    7 ай бұрын

    Same bro,my dad is 52 And I am 17

  • @harmony318
    @harmony3187 ай бұрын

    Me and my father belong to same engineering profession. Both have studied in IIT and NIT. But we are poles apart. Our discussion turns into a fight in just 5 seconds. The clash of egos is strong. Through the profession is same, i've learned not a single sentence from him but was still able to surpass him interms of technical knowledge. Bas, do sher ek ghar me honge to ladai to hogi. Fir bhi, hai to baap hi na.

  • @lakshmidutta1236

    @lakshmidutta1236

    7 ай бұрын

    Daaang!

  • @shaikshafi1284

    @shaikshafi1284

    7 ай бұрын

    Same goes with me and my dad both did mbbs and he did pg and I am studying for it now people just assume he helped in reality not a single sentence help i got from him always strained relationship

  • @loveyour6111

    @loveyour6111

    7 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @kavishwarmokal124

    @kavishwarmokal124

    7 ай бұрын

    Baap ka ego problem yahi ek reason hai strained relationship ka 95% cases mei.

  • @rajrao25

    @rajrao25

    7 ай бұрын

    There is no communication in today's relationship

  • @swapnilsharma9619
    @swapnilsharma96197 ай бұрын

    "Forget the past grudges"..... Just one problem though (in some cases):- What if father used to hit mother,had extramarital affair, misbehaved with in laws, never took interest in child's hobbies or studies?? Can one still forgive these?? Is paying large school fees and giving comfortable lifestyle enough to compensate above points?? This happened to a friend very close to me(😅), is he right if he has stopped talking to his father?? And what should he do in future about about his father?

  • @train_xc

    @train_xc

    7 ай бұрын

    He’s not right. The father have paid for his everything. A father’s main job is make sure his children have a comfortable life, feel secured and make sure they become independent. And have done that. As such, your gains should at least have gratitude. Like saying : “Thank you for everything but won’t forgive for what you’ve done”. You should always be grateful no matter how the person is. He became his father if he’s not talking

  • @ambarpal70pal2

    @ambarpal70pal2

    7 ай бұрын

    @@train_xc you're wrong. Generally in these cases son is already grateful but the cons outnumber the pros so best is he shouldn't forgive his dad and he also shouldn't try to establish new relationship with him

  • @train_xc

    @train_xc

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ambarpal70pal2 I do not share your view, but I respect it .

  • @DemonMrinmoy

    @DemonMrinmoy

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly this happens to one of my friend tooo..

  • @sahildadhwal

    @sahildadhwal

    7 ай бұрын

    @@train_xcthis kind of father will traumatised there kids for lifetime no way u r serious with your argument

  • @aberi007
    @aberi0077 ай бұрын

    I have not seen this video, just clicked on the link and wanted to share. I always loved but I couldn't show that much love to my father, may be beacuse of 'male ego issues' and biasedly taking my mother's side in times of conflict. Couldnt understand his importance until, one day he was diagnosed with blood cancer and I lost him within a month. Moral of the story is, nobody in this world can love you unconditionally, more than your parents. So always love and respect them. They are irreplaceable.

  • @saurabhoza6299
    @saurabhoza62997 ай бұрын

    Why not create video as well on relationship dynamics between daughter in law and mother in law. As this relation is mostly strain in every second household which impacts mental health of all family members

  • @himanshutyagid58
    @himanshutyagid587 ай бұрын

    This is also my story. I also love my father but after many years now I have no feelings for my Father because of mental traumas.

  • @ankurhalke139

    @ankurhalke139

    7 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @supremekrishna1088

    @supremekrishna1088

    7 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @smruti94
    @smruti947 ай бұрын

    *It seems that my mobile is reading what is happening in my life, what thoughts are arising in my mind🔎*

  • @CELLST-YT

    @CELLST-YT

    7 ай бұрын

    Same😢

  • @newchannelverygood162

    @newchannelverygood162

    7 ай бұрын

    AI is that very thought reader😅😅

  • @Zisheng
    @Zisheng7 ай бұрын

    Am so lucky to born in my family and my father is real world super hero for our family 😊

  • @sathyanarayana887

    @sathyanarayana887

    7 ай бұрын

    Either u r a son of Amitabh bacchan or Mr Deve Gowda or Mulayan Yadav 😅

  • @Zisheng

    @Zisheng

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sathyanarayana887 I only know Amitabh bacchan🤣

  • @aryanator1485
    @aryanator14857 ай бұрын

    I almost cried when he said that " ki beta tumhari jindgi kaisi chal rahi hai" this made me cry , i am 18 year old now my father never asked me , he ask only about how is my academic growth " ki beta padhai kaisi chal rahi hai "

  • @VP-bq3et

    @VP-bq3et

    7 ай бұрын

    Sad but its reality

  • @user-uh4ih6wr5k

    @user-uh4ih6wr5k

    7 ай бұрын

    Because Padhai se hi jindagi achchi banti hai

  • @atulmalhotra2303
    @atulmalhotra23037 ай бұрын

    You kinda missed a very critical aspect of that puzzle. A lot of guys feel that their fathers are openly biased towards their sisters. This is a pain that runs in many many families. In cases where there are no sisters, some fathers are biased towards the son who is less successful.

  • @exolovebambibambi1763

    @exolovebambibambi1763

    7 ай бұрын

    We can see some mothers pamper sons more😅 ,i think father wants their son to be responsible person especially if he is eldest kid,

  • @LittleBoy-nr5mk
    @LittleBoy-nr5mk7 ай бұрын

    Nice presentation! But you forgot one crucial point! Which is "worshipping of dominant elders"! In the west, they don't confuse age with good personality! Being an elder, doesn't give you immunity to disrespect! If you do something wrong, people will call out on you and probably you'll get punishment too! But here, it's totally opposite, with age indian culture and society gives you unconditional respect even if you do something wrong! For example, if you're 65 years old and you slap someone in the street, people around you will directly accuse the young without thinking twice! Even if it was your fault in the first place! And if the young slaps you to defend himself the society thrash him asking "How could you slap someone of your dad's age?!" See? Being "dad's age" you're automatically immune to wrongdoings! Age is like a character certificate here! But in the west, everyone is equal to the society! If you're wrong, you're wrong! Age doesn't matter! Here, you can't even openly and fully question the elders! You'll be labelled as a bad boy/girl by the society! In west, new generations take control of the society like new leaves of a tree! Imagine what would happen if the old yellow leaves tried to dominate the new green leaves! The tree would face growth issues! Same with society! That's why the west has rich and sophisticated societies! They don't care what would the society or elders say! Best example is Elon Musk! One of the richest men in the world! He publically humiliated his abusive father in X ! Imagine what would happen in India! Everyone would call him evil and he would probably lose many investors!

  • @manbhumtraveller_officials

    @manbhumtraveller_officials

    7 ай бұрын

    The Sentence "AGE IS LIKE CHARACTER CERTIFICATE " ❤

  • @ashisanshuman8873

    @ashisanshuman8873

    7 ай бұрын

    You are completely right about this. 100% agree with it.

  • @puneetsingh6277

    @puneetsingh6277

    7 ай бұрын

    Ya you are right

  • @narendrapratapsharma2287

    @narendrapratapsharma2287

    7 ай бұрын

    People always gives the example of Shree Ram and Raja Dashrath but they always forget about Prahlad and Hiranyakashyapu

  • @sureshchitroda2271

    @sureshchitroda2271

    7 ай бұрын

    We are the generation ( Around 55 to 65) who sacrificed for Father & also for the Son, We do the things please our Father, & now same thing for Son

  • @narayansingh9407
    @narayansingh94077 ай бұрын

    Basically shame and izzat culture has forced both to remain silent all the time. Both can't express and thus the relationships are strained. Not just father son but entire family situations are like this

  • @SanjayVerma-bj8sv
    @SanjayVerma-bj8sv7 ай бұрын

    My Friend take bear with his father and share many thinks to eachother

  • @Rahul_deadpool
    @Rahul_deadpool7 ай бұрын

    No matter how hard/rude our Father appears, One day we all are gonna miss them a lot. But, even after having such issues have due respect towards parents.❤ Because, none can replace them

  • @samiersamier8889

    @samiersamier8889

    7 ай бұрын

    I won't miss him . If I'll miss him surely not in positive ways.

  • @F.......k_You_Homophobes

    @F.......k_You_Homophobes

    7 ай бұрын

    kids can feel when their father is hard to let the kids learn, and kids can feel also when the father is hard cuz of carelessness and ego, in both situation the father is hard and strong, but both these have different result and impact on kids, father think their kids know nothing and can't feel the why the father behaves certain ways, but kids actually can feel, but sometimes fathers are themselves caring but still not caring

  • @F.......k_You_Homophobes

    @F.......k_You_Homophobes

    7 ай бұрын

    @@samiersamier8889 same

  • @Curiosity6504
    @Curiosity65047 ай бұрын

    Often I think am right and my father is wrong but after some time I realize father was most of the time right.

  • @abhilashpatel6852
    @abhilashpatel68527 ай бұрын

    my sister is closer to my father than me. She's a constant reminder to me that it's okay to come to my father with itsy bitsy demands and not just career related. That's why I am always be grateful to my little sister. She's gonna be married next month.

  • @d_man181

    @d_man181

    7 ай бұрын

    Best wishes for you and for her too, enjoy the marriage. May God bless you all

  • @rajpawar9343

    @rajpawar9343

    7 ай бұрын

    But be careful father sometimes ignore sons if they have daughters.

  • @ryk2131

    @ryk2131

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@rajpawar9343but sons are never ignored by mothers 😂

  • @rajpawar9343

    @rajpawar9343

    7 ай бұрын

    But not every son get mother's love.

  • @akkhan7237
    @akkhan72377 ай бұрын

    अगर पिता को नए जेनरेशन के विचार वाले अपने अपने बेटे के भावनाओं को समझने की जरुरत है तो हमें भी उनके पुराने खयालात को बदलने की नहीं बल्कि उनके साथ समंजस बनाने की जरुरत है , अगर उनका हम पर पुराने खेयालात थोपना गलत है तो हमारा भी उनको अपने खयालात जैसा बनना या अपने विचार उनपर थोपना गलत है

  • @amansaini6908
    @amansaini69087 ай бұрын

    I think saying "I Love You" to a girl is a little easier than saying "I Love You" to your Indian dad .😬

  • @Danny_088

    @Danny_088

    7 ай бұрын

    You can't say I love you to your dad. 💀

  • @train_xc

    @train_xc

    7 ай бұрын

    You can just show him. Take him to a cricket match if he love cricket, or take him for a vacation of his dream destination.

  • @mariogtgaming7593
    @mariogtgaming75937 ай бұрын

    Ek ek chiz relatable hai 🥲

  • @prateekgupta5216
    @prateekgupta52167 ай бұрын

    How much accurate research you put in these video on ground reality level is awesome if any foreigners is seeing this video it's 100% accurate about India

  • @ankurrana913
    @ankurrana9137 ай бұрын

    "PAPA KI PARIYO" KA SOCIAL RELATION STUDY BHI HONA CHIYA

  • @parthasaha6646
    @parthasaha66467 ай бұрын

    Appreciate such content in social media. These are much needed in India. You are doing a valuable service.

  • @sanskarsharma5750
    @sanskarsharma57507 ай бұрын

    My father is my best friend , who supported me emotionally in my low phases and he bought everything for me which i want in my life ,i can understand about relatives and society but how people have arguments with his own parents ,they are the only ones who have selfless love for you.

  • @mayrafrommokhra8453
    @mayrafrommokhra84537 ай бұрын

    मुझे लगता है यह Strange एक पिता के द्वारा ही बनाया गया है जो 80s और 90s के बच्चों में ज्यादा देखा गया। उसे समय के पिता अपने बच्चों के साथ बहुत कम समय स्पेंड करते थे। और बहुत कम बातचीत करते थे। जबकि आज की जनरेशन में बाप बेटा ज्यादा समय बिता रहे हैं और बेटा अपने पिता से ज्यादा ज्यादा कनेक्ट हो रहा है और कम्यूनिकेशन गैप भी बहुत कम हो। आज की जनरेशन के पिता यह सब समझ रहे। और बाप बेटा,बेटी के बीच की दूरी कम हो रही है। जो की एक अच्छी बात है मुझे लगता है।

  • @sohamfam6233
    @sohamfam62337 ай бұрын

    My father is open minded and listen every word of me. I also obey my father in a way of respect. bond between me and father is more strong.

  • @antaresbnv3350
    @antaresbnv33507 ай бұрын

    I was also in search of the same question from a long period, but after reading the book "company of women" in corona lock down I learned the reason. This book is written by the famous journalist Author Lt Khushwanth singh at the age of 93. It's the mothers built wall between the children and father.

  • @ashwanimaurya8163
    @ashwanimaurya81637 ай бұрын

    Right sir Sir aapne man ki bat kahe di I haven't decided What do you

  • @anjalirohira855
    @anjalirohira8557 ай бұрын

    Videos on Social and moral issues suit you well, just personal opinion. Great video 🙌

  • @shubhamgoswami5974
    @shubhamgoswami59747 ай бұрын

    पिता के imotions को एक बेटा तब समझता है, जब वो पिता बनता है❤❤❤

  • @supremekrishna1088

    @supremekrishna1088

    7 ай бұрын

    मैं भविष्य में अपनी संतान के साथ वो कभी नहीं करूँगा, जो मेरे साथ मेरे पिता ने किया।😢😢😢

  • @himani000
    @himani0007 ай бұрын

    Fathers are also tend to be authoritative in normal indian families.

  • @rajkumarhembram022
    @rajkumarhembram0227 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate that STUDY-IQ is bringing this topic to public. That really awesome . I have the same relation with my father and mother .

  • @Edu_Think.007
    @Edu_Think.0077 ай бұрын

    Boy child is prepared for service to his family & society. So he forget lot's of emotions.

  • @user-ob7dp8oz2j
    @user-ob7dp8oz2j7 ай бұрын

    My father is my bestfriend.. We talks like best friend about any topics I teach new tech products to him ,How they can use and they provide me guidance on life decisions. We both listening songs at loudspeaker, dancing & goes to vacation together.

  • @Leftist_broker
    @Leftist_broker7 ай бұрын

    Alcoholic and gambler father and I got to NIT but now struggling to give my father good time at least in his old age.

  • @asfaquehussain7146
    @asfaquehussain71467 ай бұрын

    Mai yh Dukh 😢😢😢 Jhel rha hu... daily pr mai apne beta k sath aisa nhi hone dunga....❤❤❤❤

  • @vikramjeetbharti
    @vikramjeetbharti7 ай бұрын

    That's why we love mamma ❤️🥺

  • @VinaySingh-vq1pe
    @VinaySingh-vq1pe7 ай бұрын

    India mein To ladkon ne Aaj Tak Apne papa Ko huge bhi nahin kiya hoga .Aur uss me se mai ek hu..🥹🥹😭😭

  • @sovanguru1824
    @sovanguru18247 ай бұрын

    We all feel this.. Thx for making a video on this topic

  • @AnantVVerma
    @AnantVVerma7 ай бұрын

    Proudly CAN SAY THIS IS NOT SO SAME IN MY CASE .

  • @Sanskrit.Mukherjee.1997
    @Sanskrit.Mukherjee.19977 ай бұрын

    4:58 Maa ❤❤

  • @user-de5xy2rz4y
    @user-de5xy2rz4y7 ай бұрын

    You are assuming that all fathers are busy and all mothers stay at home. Families come in various forms. These stereotypes do not help. Moreover, fathers of today are largely involved in the lives of their kids unlike the previous generations.

  • @nirajpandey5451
    @nirajpandey54517 ай бұрын

    Thanks for bringing this video really appreciate the studyIQ thought process from recent fews week the topics on which you people are making videos are commendable. These are very important & sensitive topics which the society hardly like to talk about. Through your videos only might be a father & Son atleast thought about the same and try to make a better connection with each other.

  • @nitinsomanathan88
    @nitinsomanathan887 ай бұрын

    The present generation dads know what they missed and they do not want their kids go through the same situations.

  • @Sanskrit.Mukherjee.1997
    @Sanskrit.Mukherjee.19977 ай бұрын

    আমার কোনো দিনো মনে পড়েনা যে আমি আমারা মাবাবার সাথে কোথাও ঘুড়তে গিয়েছি না কাজে ব্যাস্ত থাকার জন্য নয় তারা ঘুরতে যাওয়াকে কোনো দিনো প্রয়োজন বলে মনে করেনি। 😑 মাধ্যমিক পরীক্ষা রেজাল্ট বাড়িতে আসার সাথে সাথে ঠিক হয়ে গেলো আমি কি নিয়ে পড়বে আমার মতামতকে পাত্তা দেওয়া হলো না, আজ ও আমি পস্তাচ্ছি। একজনকে ভালোবাসি কিন্তু বাবার ego র জন্য তাকে হারাতে হয়েছে আজ সে অন্যের বউ কিন্তু আজও ফোন করে সে কাঁদে। ব্যাবসা করার চেষ্টা করছিলাম, তার সাথে শুরু হলো পারবি না হবে না। সরকারি চাকরির পস্তুতি শুরু করলাম উঠতে বসতে কথা শুনি। আমার বাবার একটাই কথা - "বেসরকারি কারখান বা অফিসে চাকর থাকো, ছুটির দিনে বাড়ির কাজ করো, বাবা যা বলছে সব ঠিক মেনেনাও, নিজের মতামত দিওনা, তার পছন্দ অনুযায়ী বিয়ে করো, বাচ্চা জন্মদাও, তাদের দেখা শোনা করো তার পর মরো। আমি এমন ভাবে বাঁচবো না।

  • @samniar4095

    @samniar4095

    7 ай бұрын

    E toh amaro same case

  • @jyotidasultrapromax
    @jyotidasultrapromax7 ай бұрын

    Parents need to adopt this is as new normal. Just because our parents produced/Gave birth to us, does not mean I am their property. Kids have own choice on job , study , marriage , relationship , leadership , travelling , way of life and so on. I always wanted to be a single father but my parents rejected. I wanted to enjoy my life , earnings , savings but my parents disagreed. Time has changed. Parents need to understand the value of individuality. After 18 , I am responsible citizen of this country , I vote in election , I am free to choose my partner as per my choice and I have every right to live my life in my own way. Parents of this generation need to understand this. They must accept this change.

  • @USER74137

    @USER74137

    7 ай бұрын

    You are right bro 🖒🖒🖒🖒

  • @train_xc

    @train_xc

    7 ай бұрын

    At 18 generally people are much less experienced. People get more matured after 25. I’m 31 and at 18, I also used to think “Now I am adult and can do whatever I want”. Looking back I knew I needed some guidance and luckily got some.

  • @purushottampradhan2687

    @purushottampradhan2687

    7 ай бұрын

    Wow👏👏👏👍

  • @jyotidasultrapromax

    @jyotidasultrapromax

    7 ай бұрын

    The more time goes the more advances the generation. Kids born in/after 2010 will be matured at the age of 18, whcih took 25 years for GEN Y or Z@@train_xc

  • @ratneshsaho5625
    @ratneshsaho56257 ай бұрын

    A big ❤ to you sir for Acknowledging all these problems of today's world, and discussing in public. Thanks a lot.

  • @biswajitkarmakar03
    @biswajitkarmakar037 ай бұрын

    Your videos always hits me.. Like everything which are in my conscious or subconscious mind.

  • @Curiosity6504
    @Curiosity65047 ай бұрын

    Pancha varsha lade, dasha varsha tade, prapto sodasho varsha mitravat aacharet..Sanskrit Subhashit. A father should not be a father but a best friend to his son as soon as the son enters adulthood.

  • @shashankayadav5274
    @shashankayadav52747 ай бұрын

    Now generation Father & Son life bonding like closefriend..

  • @USER74137

    @USER74137

    7 ай бұрын

    Not at all

  • @yourdaddy510

    @yourdaddy510

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@USER74137 Mera mumi ko maarna chtta hai aur baccho ko sa nafarat krta hai .

  • @USER74137

    @USER74137

    7 ай бұрын

    @@yourdaddy510 your father?

  • @yourdaddy510

    @yourdaddy510

    7 ай бұрын

    @@USER74137 mera papa second wife bhi hai humko pta chl pr yeah papa ko nahi pta hai . Hum disclose nahi kr rha phir ghr sa nikal denga

  • @mrigankaguha6388
    @mrigankaguha63887 ай бұрын

    Fathers and mothers are not always angelic at all there are many devil fathers and mothers are existed in this world 😢

  • @AyushKumar-zq9rz

    @AyushKumar-zq9rz

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah ! You are right😔

  • @user-rn3oh2qt1k
    @user-rn3oh2qt1k7 ай бұрын

    Respect is not demanded, it is earned. The tradition of worshipping elders and ELDERS CAN DO NO WRONG just bcz of age is also a major factor. Just by the virtue of being a father does not mean you can demand respect. Your acts earn you respect. Even fathers can be wrong, and they fail to acknowledge that the older generation can also learn from the younger one. This creates a major divide,

  • @rambo_2697
    @rambo_26977 ай бұрын

    Father compares his child to others so there is always fight ❌ comparison always lead to quarrel

  • @Meghnaaad
    @Meghnaaad7 ай бұрын

    My father is so caring but our views are poles apart. I love him a lot.

  • @sutanuguin2404
    @sutanuguin24047 ай бұрын

    Today in a changing world it is true that the relationship between father and son is always a little strained . A father should understand his son' s thought and a son should also understand the condition of father. A father should be open but also should have a touch of strictness so that his son should not get indulged in any bad habit or activity . After all father and son relationship was a very important part of life and both should have an understanding between them to enjoy a healthy and good relationship

  • @DOGESH-superstar
    @DOGESH-superstar7 ай бұрын

    Well our relationship has improved a lot since past ....

  • @rohanagarwal6848
    @rohanagarwal68487 ай бұрын

    I have seen my father and grandfather not talking to each other for a year

  • @_dyson
    @_dyson7 ай бұрын

    Indian Gen z me kuch changes toh hain but after this generation most of the father becomes best friend of their son

  • @Shouryavardhansinghtawar-qv4uk
    @Shouryavardhansinghtawar-qv4uk7 ай бұрын

    VERY INFORMATIVE AND RELATABLE VIDEOS

  • @speaktogaurav5
    @speaktogaurav57 ай бұрын

    My Father Was My Pride and Will Remain Forever. He was not just my best friend but my mentor too. Surya aur Pita ki Vajeh se hi hum sab is dharti pe aye hai...

  • @VishB-nf5ye
    @VishB-nf5ye7 ай бұрын

    Bottomline: You can choose who your neighbour can be but with family you can't. You r there as a part like it or not. So why not make the best of the relationship.

  • @500010011
    @5000100117 ай бұрын

    The topics you're choosing ❤ respect

  • @dking1053
    @dking10537 ай бұрын

    This is a nice topic. Maybe little difficult, but We should be open with our family as much as we can.

  • @Yashraj_Ghorpade
    @Yashraj_Ghorpade7 ай бұрын

    Indeed my dad pushed me in open society but always stood behind. No matter what situation ahead always there to talk and act, gave advice. We often fight. Over the time he's the one who is one of close like friend to me.

  • @aqpyareaq
    @aqpyareaq7 ай бұрын

    This is because everyone including media movies tv shows celebrities promote father daughter relation much much much than father son relation even man also do that That's the main reason May be it's bitter but it's harsh truth

  • @YTStudio952
    @YTStudio9527 ай бұрын

    I lost my dad when I was 28 but never said to dad, I love you as much as I love mom.

  • @Juststayhopeful

    @Juststayhopeful

    7 ай бұрын

    Feel ur pain

  • @MrTKB-tc2gs
    @MrTKB-tc2gs7 ай бұрын

    R. K Hirani ka film khud ka ideas nehin hee, it's a dubbed film, but film story❤❤

  • @prangyasingh3050
    @prangyasingh30507 ай бұрын

    I have this kind of strained relationship in me and my mom But anyway she is a good mom and my father has encouraged me a lot in taking new decisions in life Blessed to have them 😇😇

  • @user-kk5pn4do4h
    @user-kk5pn4do4h7 ай бұрын

    Father should be like Mentor in son’s personal life… He should play a role like Ja beta jo karna hain woh kar le, sambhal ne ke liye mein hoon tere saath. Give that trust and confidence in him , Son will flourish then…….

  • @prinncepandey
    @prinncepandey7 ай бұрын

    Strict dads have made more masculine men. 🗿

  • @CELLST-YT

    @CELLST-YT

    7 ай бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @gyann9894
    @gyann98947 ай бұрын

    What you make of yourself after you are an adult is totally upto you rather than end up with self pity & just playing the victim card. Once you are an adult you must think how I can be the ideal father one day that I didn't have & for that one needs to have success in their endeavors against all odds without any resentment towards the father. Rest assured your kids will learn from how you treated your dad without knowing all the past dynamics & will behave the same with you with a vengeance when they grow up & your elderly mellowed down dad will come across as a sweet innocent grandpa to them & they will hate you for mistreating him & will pay you back with interest when their time comes. & so the circle will continue...So focus on how to break this cycle for your next generation by carefully following the Do's & Don'ts rather than wallow in self pity & resentment & cast the shadow of your troubled childhood on your kids.

  • @rniteshm

    @rniteshm

    7 ай бұрын

    What are the do's and don'ts

  • @akhileshpanchal4153
    @akhileshpanchal41537 ай бұрын

    How is it possible to share time with son... Somewhere roll model says to spend 70 hours in a week for work.

  • @natotako3882
    @natotako38827 ай бұрын

    That's why I love this channel you guy's have answered many of my questions thankyou.

  • @KVfoods17
    @KVfoods177 ай бұрын

    Same is happening between father and daughter somewhere!!!

  • @vive121
    @vive1217 ай бұрын

    Appreciate your team for cominng up many important topics. Cant afford to miss any of the video from your channel.

  • @Rahul-jd1mi
    @Rahul-jd1mi7 ай бұрын

    Amazing video!!!

  • @user-rg6lq1vj5u
    @user-rg6lq1vj5u7 ай бұрын

    Indian fathers apne bacche ko apna jagir samaajte hai isliye and population bhi responsible hai, jobs not available, isliye beta bhi sehta hai

  • @umangrathore6909
    @umangrathore69097 ай бұрын

    Mere papa toh ekdum chill hai, i like my mom and dad very much

  • @shashankmh2000
    @shashankmh20007 ай бұрын

    You have nailed it perfectly in this video about father and son relationship. We must see Pursuit of Happiness movie by Will Smith to understand the sacrifices made by both father and son. God bless you bro 😊❤❤❤

  • @vivekkhakha2203
    @vivekkhakha22037 ай бұрын

    I thought it was my personal problem. Surprised, its a global issue.

  • @utsavraj224
    @utsavraj2247 ай бұрын

    I love my father He is God for me 🙏

  • @silentstormstudio4782
    @silentstormstudio47827 ай бұрын

    The relationship with my father stayed like this until i got into adulthood and i decided change the way things happen

  • @shivampunjabi4435
    @shivampunjabi44357 ай бұрын

    ThanK You sir..

  • @PrathamKumar-bo4pt
    @PrathamKumar-bo4pt7 ай бұрын

    My father is my best friend since childhood.❤

  • @Growwithus90

    @Growwithus90

    7 ай бұрын

    You are Lucky brother

  • @CELLST-YT

    @CELLST-YT

    7 ай бұрын

    That's good..kaafi ache communication rahe honge bro ke..

  • @jithumapper7059

    @jithumapper7059

    7 ай бұрын

    You're lucky

  • @homosphonesbriefhistoryofh7019
    @homosphonesbriefhistoryofh70197 ай бұрын

    मुल समस्या यह है की एक बाप ऊसके बेटे को अपनी बुढापे की लाठी समजता है.भारतीय घरो मे कभी भी एक बेटा पैदा नही होता पैदा होता एक startup जिसमे एक बाप लगभग 20-25 साल तक निवेश करता है.अगर यह stratup सफल रहा तो ठीक नही तो बाप अपने बेटे की रोटीया गिनने लग जाता हे की मेरा ये फेल स्टार्टअप(बेरोजगार बेटा) आजकल कीतनी रोटी खा रहा है...कडवा है मगर सच हे😢

  • @abhisheksingla4528
    @abhisheksingla45287 ай бұрын

    Ur videos are so relatable

  • @dksnewflim9176
    @dksnewflim91767 ай бұрын

    Thank you bro.

  • @jayashreeverma4464
    @jayashreeverma44647 ай бұрын

    Mirzapur city Night 11:35 Earthquake 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @krgs4697
    @krgs46977 ай бұрын

    Very good topic..👍 ❤

  • @satishaher1814
    @satishaher18147 ай бұрын

    Touched very sensitive and practical topic

  • @PankajKumar-cd5sz
    @PankajKumar-cd5sz7 ай бұрын

    Lovely session ❤❤

  • @sachinarvindsr4110
    @sachinarvindsr41107 ай бұрын

    Udaan (2010) movie deals with father son issue. Classic one.

  • @biznesstruggle7146
    @biznesstruggle71467 ай бұрын

    I have best relationship with my father. I share each and everything with my father. We talk a lot with heart. He share everything with me and I share almost everything with me. We talk hours and hours sometimes whole night. We should understand our father.

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