WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

@croissants1280

2 ай бұрын

3+ hours and no timestamps?

@ChristopherWaddelow

2 ай бұрын

Hey Tom, really loved this conversation, I thought it was fantastic, and loved your questions!

@juniperstardust5549

2 ай бұрын

This might just be the best episode you've ever had, holy, so many conceptualized ideas and models so unique that make me realize how little we really know about ourselves and reality. Dr K is an experience.

@martinbrousseau2560

2 ай бұрын

He’s absolutely right about Addiction.

@penderyn8794

2 ай бұрын

What if everything is simply meaningless and absurd

Great convo🔥Thanks for having me on!

@MartinGrabovac

2 ай бұрын

So glad to see you on here Dr. K, can't wait for the book release! ❤

@EmperorSeneca

2 ай бұрын

DUDE. This was intense. Best wishes

@HowToGoSupernova

2 ай бұрын

Life changing wisdom!

@Photik

2 ай бұрын

Harvard Psychiatrist! Description is missing that about you!

@DJMilez

2 ай бұрын

Love your content man!

"If you have a life worth living, addiction melts on its own." Beautiful

@francodegasperi3814

2 ай бұрын

That's the problem, most people live with the certainty that their life is going to suck balls super hard that's why so much people are drawn into addiction

@benlane7282

2 ай бұрын

@@francodegasperi3814true, hard to get out of that feeling

@INameIsGood

2 ай бұрын

What's holding you back from having a life worth living?

@dericmederos1514

2 ай бұрын

Yes! On a rare instance instagram had a dating reel of someone who had great advice for once "If you're obsessing over someone, it means your life isn't interesting to YOU" What she meant was you want this person you're crushing on to substitute a fulfilling existence and that isn't fair to the person you like or to yourself

@MomoBeci

Ай бұрын

⁠@@INameIsGoodfinancial constraints, time, family circumstance, competition, capitalism, nihilism, pessimism, depression, sadness, loneliness, illness, motivation, to name a few.

You dont interview Dr.K, he interviews you.

@cristina9753

2 ай бұрын

Lmao yes

@D_Jilla

2 ай бұрын

In russia, game plays you.

@simaosimoes

2 ай бұрын

​@@D_Jilla what does Russia have to do with this interview?

@zubairsafi2537

2 ай бұрын

@@simaosimoes cuz Dr. K makes that joke

@mosterchife6045

Ай бұрын

@@simaosimoesIt's an old joke called the Russian reversal. He was just making a reference to it.

1:52:31 "My audience hates when I interrupt." Very true Tom, thanks for reading the comments.

@tc59932

2 ай бұрын

On the contrary, I often think his interruptions are well chosen and reasonable. It keeps guests on track and drives the best out of them.

@Jikrin

2 ай бұрын

​@tc59932 Like a third of the time, other times it's a person asking a question, not getting a yes or no quick answer, then interrupting the person trying to give you what you asked for.

@fpenman

2 ай бұрын

Naa he interrupts far too often. Tries to connect the dots and confuses himself further. Needs to stop.

@msk5789

2 ай бұрын

I really appreciate that too. I stopped listening to this show bc of it and I only clicked on this episode bc of Dr. K.

@rmschindler144

Ай бұрын

I love it when you interrupt

Anyone who is not moving towards their goal is not because they are not motivated ,it is because they are motivated in a different direction

@kurtholus

2 ай бұрын

Or they're mentally ill. I would avoid these black and white modes of thinking

@diamondgarcia9409

Ай бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@TK_Prod

Ай бұрын

Or because they don't know or understand their goal

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

11 күн бұрын

Very true

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

11 күн бұрын

​@TK_ProdThis!

Never imagined this crossover would come true!!! Very valuable talk guys.

@TheConvectuoso

2 ай бұрын

OG Dr K fan here, before he was even over 50k subs, and it’s amazing to see him on these podcasts now knowing where it all started

@D_Jilla

2 ай бұрын

​@@TheConvectuosoyessir! You live to see it.

@TheConvectuoso

2 ай бұрын

@@D_Jilla it’s hard to imagine a universe where Dr K doesn’t exist right

I just love Dr. K. The way he explains things on his channel is simply amazing!

He was not ready for Dr K

@killy374

2 ай бұрын

And his bullshit

@KIN_KOLO

2 ай бұрын

@@killy374 Intelligent response. I'm sorry this made your little head hurt. You and Tom have lots in common ❤️

@killy374

2 ай бұрын

@@KIN_KOLO I see. You contribute with nothing to the current topic. Just being full of shit.

@crustykeycap5670

2 ай бұрын

@@KIN_KOLOthis response was intelligent. I’m glad you bothered to engage and question his perspective. Love to see people learn something.

@MatichekYoutube

2 ай бұрын

poor guy was afraid of the word pratyahara

3:10:13 I have to admit: the final question you asked was extremely well done because it allowed Dr. K. to come up with the puberty analogy. Your question showed that you truly tried to understand beyond what you may be able to logically understand in that moment. Very very well done. 💪🌱

The host tom is really good at yapping and saying nothing of substance while also being wrong at the same time. Truly amazing.

@EmilyLe2909

2 ай бұрын

Frustrating!

@kerotan2444

2 ай бұрын

And strangely enough, it raises very good questions, which at first seem silly but are common mistakes. Truly amazing indeed.

@jasonfanclub4267

2 ай бұрын

He's an entrepreneur

@aronnemcsik

2 ай бұрын

You don't have to agree with him. That doesn't mean he's wrong. Also if he would be wrong Dr.K would've pointed out to him.

@stevenlomon

Ай бұрын

Truly breathtaking 😌 I haven't seen or heard a more annoying host

You have so many assumptions and opinions that you are testing against your guests, that I feel like you sometimes miss to just be with them and truly try to learn from them.

@XTen1000DaysX

2 ай бұрын

i think hes trying to learn about himself and shed his believe or challenge his framework.

@christianklement

2 ай бұрын

Since this was my first video of the channel I had the feeling he tried to understand his point of view the most compared to all other talks Dr. K had.

@XTen1000DaysX

2 ай бұрын

@@christianklement he was kind of straight forward with a straight face ngl seemed rude but I can't say it was. Seemed to be selfishly about his own framework but also helps the audience as well

The algorithm recommended this guy to me a couple of times before but i didn't pay that much attention to him. I was an idiot because I loved the things he said here! Thanks for bringing him on!

@Rubicek7

2 ай бұрын

😄 such a cute comment

I could listen to Dr K all day, great combination of intelligence, EQ, great communication skills with the ability to explain complex ideas in simple language and most importantly life experience great episode.

@jacobmorres9817

2 ай бұрын

One of the only brown people universally liked unfortunately

@whateverimake9350

2 ай бұрын

The guy visibly struggles to step out of podcast mode when the host asks him insight questions. The full control tangit question/disagreement was completely dismissed. Unflexible seems aspergers

@italkgory99

Ай бұрын

@@jacobmorres9817not even remotely true, the hell are you talking about 😂

I love a lot of the Buddhist mentality he uses. It seems counterintuitive, but there's definitely something very freeing in realizing that you have very little control over what happens to you. That doesn't mean you get to stop trying to do things that are rewarding in some way, but it also means that you don't take your situation "personally" as much - ruminating about "why me?" or "why can't I be as lucky as that guy??" We can make improvements in our outward appearance, even in our education/career/psychology/etc., but at the end of the day, that doesn't prevent us from experiencing loss, depression, anxiety, sickness, and myriad other forms of suffering. That's called life, and the only "antidote" to that is not living. Even "enlightenment" doesn't necessarily end suffering, it just doesn't make it an issue that requires us to try to avoid it at all costs...

@KingKBGames

2 ай бұрын

If you wanna dive into more of Dr. K's mentality, he actually recommends the Raja Yoga path, as it is the clearest and easiest path to set your life up to be free.

@KaneLivesAgain

2 ай бұрын

As Jordan Peterson said, the "antidote" to suffering is meaning. Everyone suffers, and sometimes greatly. Finding a deep meaning can help you through suffering.

@dvdmon

2 ай бұрын

@@KingKBGames thanks, I think they are fairly compatible in their outlook, with subtle differences in approach (I mean Raja Yoga and most schools of Buddhism), so whatever works for an individual is great. I'm not a Buddhist or Hindu and generally shy away from practicing any form of religion, but I do enjoy learning and understanding some of the practices. I meditate daily, but do not do any somatic practices like yoga or tai chi, etc. I'm non-denominational and feel like there are pieces from all traditions (and non-traditions) that can be in helpful.

@chandanbanakar333

2 ай бұрын

He's a Hindu monk, Buddhism is simply atheist hindus

@mamzellenoodolls2512

2 ай бұрын

I'd argue that it doesn't stop you from feeling "pain" (whether physically or mentally) but it does prevent you from "suffering". I heard this story (Buddhist, if I remember correctly) that I find explains this well: Two guys are on the battlefield, one of them gets hit by an arrow, he survives but gets angry and sad while wondering "why me?", "why didn't my friend get hit instead?", "it's not fair!"... This is his second arrow. The 1st arrow was the actual "pain" that was caused by an outside event, the 2nd arrow was the "suffering" he was inflicting on himself. So while we cannot avoid "pain" in life, we can learn to avoid "suffering".

Tom: You get that from yoga?? Dr. K: Absolutely! Tom: Tell me more Tom: I did yoga once

@kerotan2444

2 ай бұрын

lmao

@sonyaakhanna

2 ай бұрын

😅😅

That was amazing! I even took notes when it was about creating a life worth living! Share them here with ya all: - A life of neutrality and nothing → Life with no goals, where you just exist in the present, you focus on action, life is just meant to be lived (appreciate the “now” is the essence of it) - Don't attach to “wanting to be detached” → Decide what is worth suffering for and attach to it by all means. Accept the suffering for these parts of life - if necessary. Still detach from most stuff, that is not as important to you. → “The acceptance of attachment is detachment” - "Can you be okay with being unfullfilled?" - “It's when we are ignorant of our attachments, that we really get into problems” - If you can say: "I don't need my needs fullfilled first, I might go down, but I'll try to save as many people as possible first", that's when thinks start to become better in the world. It was important to me, cause like many young people out there, I often feel like there is just no chance in life.

@Kit-kk9cb

Ай бұрын

good notes, thanks

I'm here as a regular viewer of Dr. K but not Tom, so it's my first time watching the podcast. I wanted to say I really did enjoy the interruptions and attempts to summarize Dr.K because that way Tom showed a genuine need and effort to understand it and compare it to his existing beliefs. I've seen many who'll get completely cought up in everything that's being said without really questioning it, but I believe it's in questioning it that we'll get an even better understanding, both Tom and his audience. When he speaks back what he understood, he gives Dr.K an opportunity to adjust and explain further or as he did a few times, let us know that Tom's understanding was not precise but fine for now so those who want to venture deeper can take that with a grain of salt and dive into those bits later themselves.

At around 1:53:00 Tom the interviewer did interrupt Dr.k but honestly it's refreshing to have someone really try to understand Dr.K's perspective while having a totally different perspective themselves. I could just feel the friction of clashing beliefs.

@jasonfanclub4267

2 ай бұрын

Same thought and it's just the first 60 minutes for me

I love your podcasts, Tom! But I must admit, among the luminaries and brilliant minds that you’ve had on your show, this one was my favorite to date. I was looking forward to one day witness someone open your biologically focused awareness into a more sophisticated spiritual understanding. Up until this interview, the guests you had on the show, even the world renown ones, were basic. Dr. K’s insights and explanations were much more accurate. I’m looking forward to watch your curiosity unfolding into the deeper mind. Full disclosure, I too studied with an enlightened Buddhist master for 15 years and am an ordained Buddhist monk. My teacher taught many eastern and western spiritual traditions and techniques for opening of the mind and intuition, so I think I understand the challenge of reconciling physical and spiritual insights and practices, including meditation, business, relationships and health. But I’m super excited for you to receiving the insights from Dr. K. and looking forward to more of your awakening.. or at least considering an exploration in that direction. It was a real treat! Thank you!!

@gonthyalavishalchandan1193

2 ай бұрын

I think you can't date him he is married

@D_Jilla

2 ай бұрын

@@gonthyalavishalchandan1193 please tell me you're not the average Tom Bilyeu viewer.

@Cayoroots

2 ай бұрын

@@gonthyalavishalchandan1193 Very thought out and useful comment here. Very proud of you

@TonioTonius

Ай бұрын

@Cayoroots @D_Jilla lighten up

Flex Dr. K! Appreciate the conversation!

I 👏 how Dr K tried to understand and challenged this host’s theories and conclusions. I lowkey wait for Dr K to clap back every time 😂

Love Dr. K!!! Glad to see him in more channels, he deserves more recognition 💚💚💚

This episode is now in my top 5 most favoured! What a lovely dichotomy of perspective! Thank you both, thank you.

When we talk about meaningless in life being the root cause of porn addiction it makes a lot of sense why it's such a common issue these days. I've noticed our society is built in such a way that the elements of life that would be the most meaningful are really difficult to get, while meaningless luxuries more accessible to the average person than ever before.

@chevy11786

2 ай бұрын

Porn addiction is simple. It’s not the horniness. It’s the loneliness.

@death31313

2 ай бұрын

@@chevy11786 agreed though I think it even goes deeper than that, I think think it stemms from hopelessness and loneliness. If you're lonely and you don't see any hope for that to change in the future why bother trying, why not just engage in hedonistic pursuits to numb yourself to your suffering? I'd argue it's almost a form of self-medication.

This conversation is exactly what I needed. Thank you for asking the tough hitting questions and getting Dr K to explain more. As an internet mind, I come across all these problematic thoughts of online debates, and Dr K really breaking that down helped me come out of my deluded thinking. Tom has a way of articulation that makes so much conventional sense and the interplay of you two is so interesting.

The power of detachment in everything is true freedom.

@stagebloq6002

2 ай бұрын

We’re social animals. This will lead to shorter lifespans.

@cocogemini6623

2 ай бұрын

@@stagebloq6002 by detaching from the outcome...how so? Please educate me.

@stagebloq6002

2 ай бұрын

@@cocogemini6623 our selection process is the problem. We need to find out who we’re are and select compliments for that behavior. There’s always something we have to fix because there’s only so much time. Loneliness will lead to lower life expectancies. These are the facts of the real world that stand in the way of how we feel. Eventually, when you realize no one’s around the game will be over. I doubt any one of us who are thinking well enough want that to happen. All life exists to persist and keep itself going. Cant do that without partnering up to a degree and creating a social family life or with people in general. If we do not our line disappears from the root of the tree of life. Men are hardwired to make sure their line succeeds and women are designed to select the best genetics they can find. It’s just how it works.

@stagebloq6002

2 ай бұрын

@@cocogemini6623we’re social animals. We shorten our lifespan by staying alone. This is more of a necessity for men to learn than women because we’re more-so individualists than communal in nature. Shorter lifespans are also a consequence of the current lifespan where everyone’s in the house and detached. Women will find someone to communicate with everyday because that’s how they survive, but we all win when we set our standards to finding a person we trust who we can take care of in some way. Men are designed to compete and spread their genes. Women are designed the select the best genes. This is widely why women dominantly control any market they pay attention to en masse. Biology puts itself out into the world and if we fail to think around or of the things downstream of biology we lose.

@cocogemini6623

2 ай бұрын

@@stagebloq6002 I understand what you are saying but from an individual perspective and from experience my husband passed away 4 years ago then I moved in with my dad then he passed away. My mom passed away when I was young. I have no kids just a dog...I feel at peace when I am alone and I thrive more. Bug again I understand what you are saying. Most people don't do well being alone.

Loved this conversation, but there was definitely something frustrating i cant pinpoint about listening to tom's counter arguments. It's cool to see someone consider another perspective without being rude or dismissive though. Great interview!

@GratefulTurtle

2 ай бұрын

What i was able to pinpoint amounts to sexist, clueless arrogance.

@pencil6965

2 ай бұрын

that something was using so many words to say absolutely nothing

@lniles29

Ай бұрын

Yappuccino extra yap

Kudos to both of these guys digging deep. It takes a lot of energy explaining complex concepts and emotions all the while discovering more about yourself.

It feel very much taking an analytical lense like you're trying to win an argument or get the right answer during the conversation, when more often Dr. K seems to want to just understand both sides. It's not right or wrong I just noticed this during the conversation.

@TheStarrySky-sb9df

2 ай бұрын

AGREE

@alexandrudinca3080

2 ай бұрын

He was just trying to keep up with Dr K which is not an easy thing to do.

The opposite of addiction is not sobriety. The opposite of addiction is community.

@killy374

2 ай бұрын

We are becoming lonelier though.

@ThatGmoney

2 ай бұрын

@@killy374that can only happen if you continue being shameful about rejection. Every successful person gets over 100 rejections a day. People who stay lonely, you know what to do! Good luck! Community is not hard, you have to face rejection in order to figure out rejection. Also, if you have depression you really want to get help for that.

@INameIsGood

2 ай бұрын

​@@killy374yea, less community, more addictions

Dr K changed and keeps changing my life for the better. Thanks so much Dr K and Tom for this interview

Mind blowing interview… Still processing it all… I’m in awe

Thanks for asking difficult questions! So valuable to hear someone not just nodding along

When I listened to this, I understood that this is not an interview and it is not a debate. This is something, at least for me, very unusual to hear. This is a discussion. Wow, don't know if I've ever heard one like that before on youtube!

Watch both of you guys all the time, totally didn't expect this convo to happen, love to see it!! Thanks for having him on Tom

@Dave_of_Mordor

Ай бұрын

Tom isn't used to having guest with non-redpill and non-incel views. He was very condescending, and close minded. The fans might see that as him challenging Dr. K but I'm not buying it. He was so insecure about his redpill philosophy being challenged, he became rude just to cover up that insecurity. Just look at how annoyed he was.

The top of my head is tingeling right now. Thank you so much guys! Highest truth is highest joy is highest level of functioning!🙏🏻✨

Tom it would be so great if you were more humble with the experts - interviews aren’t about the constant exposé of your personal opinion, they’re about learning about someone else’s expertise & opening your mind to that.

This is the collab we all needed. More of this please!

Wow, just finished the whole pod. Amazing, although it's more of the inspiration for me that made it amazing for me, cause I didn't understand a lot of the things. I discovered healthygamerGG 3 years ago, and I also love Tom, so that made it incredible and I was really interested of the conversation the whole time. Also the fact that I discovered the episode so early, made it more special to watch. I also pushed myself through some resistance to watch the whole thing, but I'm suprised that there weren't that much resistance. Thank you for this upload!

1:58:37 You don't try to describe the same thing. I think you did not understand what Dr. K was trying to say. And not understanding it, is not bad. Assuming that you understood, is the problem 🌱

Seriously one of the most interesting and useful conversations. Actual applicable and practical tips 👌🏽

this healthy gamer has some amazing debate skills! UT man here, Kumar.

I really hope that there are even more interviews like this. Because I watch Healthy Gamer AND this channel, often love both ideas, but sometimes they seem to contradict each other. This is sometimes more valuable, than both just agreeing all the time. I love it, how open both are towards each other ideas!

One of the best episode so far. Wanna see him again.

I have been listening to & watching podcasts for over 5 years and this specific episode is definitely in my top 3. It opened my eyes in a way that I didn’t know it’s possible, I took so many notes…I’m gonna be watching this over and over again. I highly appreciate that this episode exist, thank you Tom.

I was hoping Dr. K would come to this show, am so glad he did !

Great podcast I love that you kept challenging each other throughout the discussion. I still got 1 hour left but I felt inclined to drop a comment already 🙂

Really awesome and intriguing conversation!! I didn’t even know who Alok was, but he came in and brought so much insight. Great podcast 🙏🏾

Never knew Dr. K would be here! Super excited!

I love this! These two people are are completely different levels, and both so advanced on those respective levels, and it moves for a very useful conversation. Thanks guys!

I wish you could understand how much I enjoy your interviews and the way you aren’t afraid to ask questions. I hope many more years of interviews

I've been watching your interviews on and off for about 4 years now. I must say that I'm not even half way through this one and it's already the best interview you've ever had in your channel in my opinion.

16:57 best moment 😂 Dr.K does funny accent and host does the 🗿 face

Wow Dr K.... you did NOT have to go this hard! This is life changing wisdom. Our motivations are stronger than our will many times. Conquer that and nothing has you! I'll DEF be thinking on this for some time. When it passes through my filters I'll make a video about this on my channel. Thanks!

@killy374

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I feel like a fart in the wind since these advice. Fuck...

Dr K getting into it right from the first question is so DR K

It stopped suddenly. And it stopped in the most interesting part. It is fascinating the difference between the two characters where the one is materialistic and the other one is spiritual finding their common ideology when they both want to help others. It is just shame he didn’t let dr.K go further on his explanation on spiritual

Such a fun convo!

Great interview! This area is super helpful and something I don't hear discussed often enough. 👍

Mind blowing interview. Love the references to spirituality

Wait. Tom Bilyeu, 4 million subs, but believes he can control another human being? That's a level 1 cognitive dissonance mob and it's surprising he never meditated on this idea before.

@shawnjordan2716

2 ай бұрын

Well, that's optimistic... needless to say... most of us are controlled by someone. And manipulative psychopaths are real, and have real power over plenty of ppl. Lookup charles manson.

@stevenlomon

Ай бұрын

Frfr, mindboggling stuff haha

@felixf4378

Ай бұрын

You can definitely control another human being it’s called manipulation. You can take advantage of another persons lack of experience or flaws in their character to get them to do things you want and they won’t realize that they didn’t want to do that until it’s too late.

@ClaireLoprensa

Ай бұрын

@@felixf4378 You're referring to influence and less about control. Both philosophy and psychology recognize the complexity and unpredictability of human behavior. People are influenced by a multitude of factors, including their biology, psychology, social environment, and past experiences, making it impossible to control them fully. If you consider influence as control, you might as well say you're always under control because realistically, you're making decisions due to external influence. Until your decisions are motivated under pure free-will, you're under someone's control. But I doubt you'd claim you're under control right?

We have to shift our focus from external to internal 🔥🔥🔥

This was an amazing convo, both are super smart. Love it

I think one of the best duo so far . Great insights!!

Love you Dr K!!! Great interview, Tom!

I am thoroughly amused by the contrast between Healthy Gamer’s EQ and Tom’s complete lack thereof, highlighted around the 19:26-19:28 mark. Haha Love them both though.

@cross-eyedmary6619

2 ай бұрын

“That’s one way to look at it…” Tom exposing that he still lowkey views women as objects and the look of incredulousness on HG’s face😂

@liamabean3532

2 ай бұрын

Tom is kinda feeling… unsettling in his conclusions lol

@tiryaclearsong421

2 ай бұрын

​@@cross-eyedmary6619 Yeah. I'm a woman who likes Dr. K. I would not recommend Tom's attitude. Some women don't mind it, especially for a ons, but it is only likely to get you laid once or a few times with women who don't want anything more. I feel slimy listening to him keep talking about his attitude. I want to date people who want to date me because we both like each other. Which means I can't be an object to him.

@cross-eyedmary6619

2 ай бұрын

Slow playback speed way down and watch Dr K's face when he asks "Can you control another person?"

the most interesting part is always at the end when there isn't enough time. I want more of that non-physical realm stuff that he talks about!!!!

Never thought I'd see this crossover collaboration. Im a regular listener of both these great guys.

Ugh the host wanting to make everything into right/wrong competition and wanting to sound smart with weird incel ideologies were so annoying. Im glad Dr. K called him out on it.

@TheStarrySky-sb9df

2 ай бұрын

Agree

@jarvanwildrift8056

2 ай бұрын

I dont think Tom tries to sound smart he is just true to his thoughts.

@proxied8075

2 ай бұрын

I'm not sure I see it this way! I think he's just a dude sharing his thoughts and is open to discussion and disagreement. He does seem pretty firm in his beliefs for sure! If anything, saying his ideas are "weird incel ideologies" actually belies Dr. K's point! When men share their feelings/thoughts, general society shuns them as you are doing now. I think disagreeing with someone will always happen, but putting someone down for it just doesn't sit right with me.

@Princessbubblegum567

2 ай бұрын

@@jarvanwildrift8056 nah he was trying waaaaaaay too hard to be correct all the time and got so defensive when Dr. K was calling him on his BS

@ashleybriggs1198

2 ай бұрын

@@proxied8075I complete agree with this. very well put.

What an incredible conversation ❤

Did anyone else notice that Tom seemed annoyed at Dr K? I haven't watched impact theory in a while so maybe this is a new Tom I am not used to?

@Dave_of_Mordor

Ай бұрын

He's not used to people with non-redpill and non-incel views. I've always known that Tom was a fraud and extremely close-minded, but I just needed a guest to prove that, and Dr K did just that.

@helpee

Ай бұрын

I agree. He seems a bit dismissive as he cannot wrap his head around what Dr K is saying.

@simplysaso

27 күн бұрын

Agreed he was getting challenged on his entire view of motivation!

This is a great piece. Very educative 🔥💯

Cool to see you two collab!!

At some point we just need to accept that reality is what it is, not what we imagine or want it to be.

@ardianha5346

2 ай бұрын

I disagree. There isn't one reality everybody experience the same. The only solid in this world is the physics of nature. Most of the experienced reality is made and calculated with your thoughts and what you believe is true. We can approach the same goal. One of us could do it effortless and the other have a bad time pursuing or experienced different results.

@juniperstardust5549

2 ай бұрын

Exactly, people's suffering stem from trying to change the unchangeable and people's happiness stems from enjoying and accepting what is there.

@m00se40

2 ай бұрын

@@ardianha5346Even the physics of nature are not as solid as we may think; someone in a coma has a much different perception of something like gravity than someone who is awake and walking around.

wow. Intense convo. Transcendental in a way. Given Tom's disclosure about his game use for drive fulfillment it amazes me he created such a hugely successful business. It kind of flies in the face of the studies that show willpower and motivation will be depleted from either excessive P and mast and/or gaming.

Amazing, this discussion touched me deep. Loved it

AMAZING EPISODE , thank you 🙏🏻🌹✨🙏🏻

Dr. K is incredible and I’m glad you had him on!

This is as good as any good television in the past 20 years! KZread podcasting is here to stay!🎉

Great episode this. Thanks both.

So emtertaining and light hearted.

What a great guest. One of the best you've had. It's very unfortunate that most of the information and ideas that Alok talks about goes way over your head. You do a dis-service to your listeners by paraphrasing or summarizing his information into 1-2 sentences. When you do this, most guests will say they agree with your summary as a sign of respect to you. But your paraphrasing is completely wrong in all of his points he makes.

@TheStarrySky-sb9df

2 ай бұрын

Agree, a lot of the time he makes assumptions that he and Alok “say the same thing in different ways”, but it’s not as simple as that.

@Miah_Lake

2 ай бұрын

So true

@proxied8075

2 ай бұрын

I actually really appreciated his thoughts and questions! They helped further the discussion! I didn't take his paraphrasing as something for me, but rather a way to wrap up that segment and move on to the next as well as clear up any misunderstanding! :) To learn we must ask questions and I believe he certainly did that!

@EmilyLe2909

2 ай бұрын

Agree 100%

This was truly fantastic! Mind-blowing! ❤

An interview I've never expected here!! Positive !!! ❤

I have been waiting for this duo for so long. you only need to listen to those 2 to walk your own walk in life and be fulfill in life

wow this episode is GOATED. I was wondering why this talk with Dr. K is 3 hours and OH MAN. (btw I've been following Dr. K for years and he's helped me through a lot of my personal baggage)

Wow! it changed my freaking perspective towards my problems and desires! Thank you Tom for having GG

@killy374

2 ай бұрын

Yeah 2 gay dudes talking about how to fix your path lolllolololol😂

@TheConvectuoso

2 ай бұрын

Clean your room brother

@D_Jilla

2 ай бұрын

​@@killy374lmao what a silly comment

@killy374

2 ай бұрын

@@D_Jilla thank you kind sir. You really contributed with the highest of value information to this

@D_Jilla

2 ай бұрын

@@killy374 anytime

DOCTA K! Im so stoked for this one

Damn, this was such an interesting conversation. Im glad Tom decided to take the convo in the direction it went 😊

Seems like Tom is always "slow" to figure things out. He seems curious but confused. 😢

@Miah_Lake

2 ай бұрын

True

@jutjub22

Ай бұрын

He is fine, interesting, just a bit of a simp.

This was really good, thank you!

Recently, Dr. K said he was in a podcast for over 5hrs. This must be it

Man, I don't often berate someone but the host is dense and instead of trying to understand the guest, tries to abstractly explain things to the point that it's simply obnoxious. Also, even though to my view the guest tells him not to find a quick solution, he seems to just want the steps to whatever his agenda is. Is this an interview or just trying to convince others of his views? Glad Dr. K knows how to avoid his ways.

@EmilyLe2909

2 ай бұрын

At one point I thought is this some kind of debate that Dr K signed up for 😅. It’s important to have discussions and okay to have different opinions but the manner in which the host responded or asked a question or made a statement, etc. in this interview was just condescending and borderline disrespectful imo.

@Dave_of_Mordor

Ай бұрын

@@EmilyLe2909 He's not used to people challenging his thoughts. This is what happens when you keep having guests with the same opinion. I mean, he got offended by a genuine, curious question about being domesticated 🤣. Based on how annoyed he looks the entire interview, Dr K is definitely not getting another invitation

@cindercheng

Ай бұрын

Yeahhhh! Like I was genuinely curious about what the host had to say to support his point on that , but I got nothing

@andylawlzz

Ай бұрын

I disagree, I think the host was simply trying to understand what Dr k was saying by interpretating it through the language of his world view, and by doing so all of the hosts regular listeners can also more easily understand what Dr k is trying to say. @Dave_Of_Mordor has this interpretation of "this guy will never invite Dr k back ever again" but I got the feeling that he super super enjoyed this conversation and would jump at the chance to have another one. It just feels like a perfect example of not even attempting to understand people you disagree with that they talked about when politics was brought up.

Tom is pretty dull headed here.

Thank you for this video! One day I'll be in your show 💯

Dr K’s emotional intelligence is above this world, he is FASCINATING. Amazing talk.

"You have to take the actions, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions"

@Asrajzz64

Ай бұрын

That's a dumb quote, your actions of you doing the sowing does give you the right to the things you reap.

@dericmederos1514

Ай бұрын

@@Asrajzz64 Not in this context. You asking someone out after you've been nice to them doesn't entitle you to a YES

@Asrajzz64

Ай бұрын

@@dericmederos1514 Then quote someone differently.

@Dimitris_Balf

Ай бұрын

​@@Asrajzz64 maybe you aren't mature enough to understand the meaning of these words

@Asrajzz64

Ай бұрын

@@Dimitris_Balf Or maybe you don't realize it doesn't apply to this situation? And well to assume someone's maturity based on a quote taken out of context huh? I think that's a lack of maturity.

Great insights on overcoming tech addiction. it's crucial to balance tech use with offline activities to maintain creativity and personal connections. Scheduling tech-free time can boost productivity and well-being.

Love you Tom, I love when you ask questions to dig for deeper understanding!!

Daaaamn, the combination we all needed...