Trust Your Voice - How to Sing with More Confidence

Can you trust you voice when you sing? Are you confident that when you sing, your pitches are perfect and you breath supported all while still being able to focus on emoting what you're saying and connecting to your audience? Is your voice there for you when you need it most?
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Questions like these are difficult to answer for any singer. In this video, we explore why the pursuit of perfection causes paralysis, and how you can sing more confidently and trust that your voice is ready when you are.
0:00 Intro
0:27 Trust Your Voice
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  • @carrym123
    @carrym123 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been in therapy for years. And sure I’ve come a long way and I’m very proud of my successes with the development of my “self”. But I just started voice lessons and really investing in my singing and oh my gosh it is so powerfully therapeutic. I’ve really had to learn how to trust myself and I’ve learned so much about my self worth and confidence. It’s like my personality is growing alongside my voice and I truly never expected my singing journey to be as deep as it has been for me. This video really helped me put aside my judgements and trust the process. And find empowerment in my achievements. Thank you for being such a compassionate soul!

  • @MrDogonjon
    @MrDogonjon Жыл бұрын

    Mel Blanc captured vocal characterization of mixed voice cracking with Elmer Fudd. If you can be satisified with your first note sounding like Elmer Fudd and still keep going you will not die...yet... but may crack up laughing, Internal positive feedback generates external positive feedback... it's all good... even if you do suck.

  • @amgm1996
    @amgm1996 Жыл бұрын

    shes a ray of light in the form of vocal teacher

  • @muleface1066
    @muleface1066 Жыл бұрын

    As a chronic observer, thank you for this. From those rare occasions when I've reached to experiencer stage, I can say that it's a lot more fun. So thank you for this guidance on getting there again.

  • @MariCanta
    @MariCanta Жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what I was searching for! For the past year or so I stopped believing in myself and trusting my voice. It's still an uphill battle. But your videos are what I needed. I feel like crying every time I watch them because you address everything I felt inside. And now I feel seen and understood.

  • @kathrynclass2915
    @kathrynclass2915 Жыл бұрын

    Madeleine, thank you for the bottom of my heart. This was everything to me. I let myself be the experiencer of your words tonight so I could take it it and absorb your message. I need to put this on repeat for a few days to really let it sink in, then revisit it often. 💕

  • @1992LauraJean
    @1992LauraJean Жыл бұрын

    I'm a chronic observer and have trouble leaving that at the door when I perform - I can do it well on my own but in front of a crowd is another story. This is my number 1 priority at the moment, leave the observer at the door. When I simply experience the song and the feelings invoked it sounds so much better and I feel so much better.

  • @errol-ih4jy
    @errol-ih4jy Жыл бұрын

    NO DESIRE IS NEEDED OR SEEKING PLEASURE IN SINGING IS NEEDED, ITS JUST THERE, THATS WHEN THE TRUE JOY COMES.

  • @anrymquidangen3919
    @anrymquidangen3919 Жыл бұрын

    Hello ma'am! I'm a choir in our church and a musician. I played the guitar. There are sometimes that i lost my confidence in my voice. Thank you for you video and it helps me a lot. Singing in the church is not to prove that i am good but to render a song to the Lord and sing a song for His glory but i want to give the best for His glory. Thank you for the message it really helps me a lot, i learned many things, new things from you.

  • @Helena_Ten
    @Helena_Ten20 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much Madeleine! In 3 days, I'll be singing in front of a live audience for the first time and I'm really going back and forth with my anxiety, but at the end of the day I have so much soul to give, no matter what my vocal strengths or weaknesses are... I know it would be a waste to let the anxiety swallow me, I won't allow that. And your words have truly been helpful. Fingers crossed everything goes well! :)

  • @grownknow6857
    @grownknow6857 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks... I've always unconsciously understood this but I've never heard someone say it out loud.

  • @Catalinddm
    @Catalinddm Жыл бұрын

    Glad to see you back. Missed you. Needed your input... Hope you're well. All the best. God bless.

  • @highcontrasthughes1923
    @highcontrasthughes1923 Жыл бұрын

    My god, you put words to an experience I had recently that I didn't know for to explain to anyone else and I had the fear that I would not be able to recapture whatever it was that I did and what had happened and you've LITERALLY just given me the map back to that path. Thank you beyond words. Truly, thank you ❤️

  • @YayretroCoUk

    @YayretroCoUk

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree, this was a fabulous lesson that encapsulated a recent singing experience I had and now I know why I had it and how to trust it can happen again. Thank you Madeleine you are the most fantastic teacher. I really do feel like you are talking directly to me!

  • @ImmortalAmbitions
    @ImmortalAmbitions Жыл бұрын

    I struggle with the lack of skills and what my body wants to respond and it definitely responds in a traumatic way. There’s definitely a connection to the response and what I anticipate the performance is.

  • @ImmortalAmbitions

    @ImmortalAmbitions

    Жыл бұрын

    This is such a struggle for me. And I feel like it’s exacerbated by the worship band format. It’s not like a regular band or a regular practice for performance where you practice over and over and over before you perform. It’s like you have one practice with the group that Wednesday and the Sunday you’re on the stage making a habit. And that’s not nearly enough time for my body for my everything. For my confidence. It’s just not enough time and it sucks

  • @jessicagomezlopez1993
    @jessicagomezlopez1993 Жыл бұрын

    Words cannot express how THANKFUL I am for you and what you share! 🙏🏻

  • @williambrandon9660
    @williambrandon9660 Жыл бұрын

    Jesus my soul is like... in tears, so many emotions to sort through, I'm excited for the future, thank you so much!

  • @oliviajordan7716
    @oliviajordan7716 Жыл бұрын

    She’s way up there as one of the best teachers on KZread. This lesson was worth it’s weight in gold for me. So on time!!! I really got it!! Thanks girl!’ Love your personal style too!

  • @tamarapowell6996
    @tamarapowell6996 Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love you 😍 You’re my favorite voice expert xx

  • @nowisnownowismark8901
    @nowisnownowismark8901 Жыл бұрын

    Barefoot at the piano! Let’s sing! ❤️🎶

  • @DayneReedy
    @DayneReedy5 ай бұрын

    I just love your generous spirit and courage to talk about these things….and how to deal with fears in singers. I feel less alone listening to you. I never get to talk like this…so thank you. ❤

  • @ghuyakalika
    @ghuyakalika Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant brilliant ❤ I am a professional opera singer but just want to tell you that you have saved me Thank you Dearest Madeleine

  • @theresasimmons9007
    @theresasimmons9007 Жыл бұрын

    Heart, soul, magic, love, passion are major components to what brings out our best voice❤️Listening & learning to love our voices is important to improving it..

  • @danayeshurun7641
    @danayeshurun7641 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Madeleine! ❤️ I have a feeling that this is going to help me so much. I love singing, really. Singing is all for me. The problem is when i try to sing in front of people I start getting nervous and i feel like I can’t sing anymore. I’m sure it’s all about confidence and not my voice- it’s mentally and not physically issue, which makes the fight even harder for me. I hope it’ll get better. I hope I’ll get better. Thank you❤️

  • @NextCherryParadise
    @NextCherryParadise Жыл бұрын

    You have articulated something that I've been intuitively grasping for the past few weeks, thank you so much for this message. It completely crystallized my understanding of that aspect, also it ignited my passion for singing even more. You have such beautiful energy, I love it!💜

  • @mem5567
    @mem5567 Жыл бұрын

    I lack confidence sometimes when singing. It has to do with my shyness I guess, but when I'm done singing a song im like yayyy I did it. I love ur beautiful dog by the way

  • @user-abc789
    @user-abc789 Жыл бұрын

    Madeleine this is absolutely awesome.This is yogic teaching of singing which first time I am listening.thank you so much.I have to listen this video many many time to understand and experience beautiful aspect of singing …can be called ultimate……love you adore you 💞

  • @priscilapenzo2434
    @priscilapenzo2434 Жыл бұрын

    I totally cried with this.

  • @dennis130
    @dennis130 Жыл бұрын

    I watched this video again and got even more out of it than before. Thank you for explaining the difference and interaction of the observer and experiencer. Sometimes during my songs I would be observing and wondering what the audience was thinking. Bad lol! I also saw the need to trim my song selection to just a few for a while. Thank you for your insight and inspiration. I wish I could give this video a 2nd like. Lol.

  • @laurellee5903
    @laurellee5903 Жыл бұрын

    OOOHHH my goodness! I found my singing mentor. You're speaking my language- I just didn't know it! Thank you!

  • @ayakaistall
    @ayakaistall Жыл бұрын

    This video is so underrated! This really helps because I've been having trouble being confident in my singing and it just doesn't sound like how I want it to since I always stick with the observer but now I know that I need to let go a little and have the experiencer take control for a bit or my voice is going to sound like the same expressionless thing it does now. Thank you so much for making this!!

  • @camilleeiseman8596
    @camilleeiseman8596 Жыл бұрын

    What a gift you are, Madeleine. I'm gaining so much through your videos. Thank you for all you do for this community! Grateful to have found it & you!!! Much love from Chicago!!!

  • @nightcoreshinxo
    @nightcoreshinxo Жыл бұрын

    I randomly came across this video and it helped me deeply to understand why I was having trouble with how I was trying to sing thank you

  • @paulciobanas2451
    @paulciobanas24518 ай бұрын

    From this moment I know that you're the one I want to start my singing journey with. I'll do my best to get the most out of all your videos and when I'm where I wanna be I'll come back and thank you for all❤. You're an awesome coach❤❤. Wish you the best❤❤❤

  • @luisvasquez9362
    @luisvasquez9362 Жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this. This video was so helpful!

  • @willowdraws13
    @willowdraws13 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the advice :)

  • @Calida
    @Calida Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this... I've always been so disconnected when I perform in singing, and I never understood why. In practice, I could feel it and emote... but when performing, all my practice goes to 💩 Visualizing it and feeling through it this way was so helpful! I realized that I definitely did not trust my own voice and I now I understand how to practice through observation and experiencing in a much more productive way. Gonna try this often!

  • @judithheald4437
    @judithheald4437 Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE this class today! Totally get what you are saying and it’s lovely to have it put into words.

  • @MichaelAntus
    @MichaelAntus Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Madeleine. Your videos are always interesting, and never boring...

  • @atobve
    @atobve Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely awesome, thank you for the lesson!

  • @ais148
    @ais148 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You always make my day

  • @butterflytotem
    @butterflytotem Жыл бұрын

    Very useful Madeleine! Thank you so much. I love it! 😃🙏💜

  • @zhongchenle1493
    @zhongchenle1493 Жыл бұрын

    i just noticed the dog behind when the video is almost done, that's how *captivating* you are! 🎀

  • @essykinyua
    @essykinyua Жыл бұрын

    This is so deep and I love every bit of it. I really resonate with everything you said. Thankyou

  • @anthonyvaldez-martinez4108
    @anthonyvaldez-martinez4108 Жыл бұрын

    Madeleine, God bless your soul! Just recently came across your page and this video was sooo good. So beneficial. Going to listen to it over multiple times. I had never heard it be broken down this way before, and will be implementing right away (I just woke up haha) I look forward to growing and learning from you!! Thank you soooo much!!

  • @billdemaineiii6979
    @billdemaineiii6979 Жыл бұрын

    Well I looked through some of the comments… And apparently I’ve commented before! But I have to comment again. Madeline Harvey, you touch my heart. You help me see. And you give me courage… Not only through what you say but through the lessons I learned implement into my own thought process and technique. So, I wanna thank you again. You, my friend, are very much appreciated.

  • @yanwang6018
    @yanwang6018 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 🥰

  • @JabrielWoodall
    @JabrielWoodall Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for understanding and giving wisdom on this topic. 🥰

  • @jamesarriola4372
    @jamesarriola4372 Жыл бұрын

    Wow.....I have never considered this. Thank you. Perhaps this could be applied to real life too.

  • Жыл бұрын

    Madeleine!!! thank for this! i am from Argentina, big fan of your videos. It`s really beautiful and powerful to listen to you💜💜

  • @carrieorsel1340
    @carrieorsel1340 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your videos. Unlike any other and soooo helpful

  • @betobernabeu6359
    @betobernabeu6359 Жыл бұрын

    This has been a beautiful video and insight that you've shared with us....and your doggo snoring was the icing on the cake... I love the way you've talked about such an etheral subject indeed. Thank you for your vision and encouraging spirit with us!

  • @madeupname3008
    @madeupname3008 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with the world. I’m nearly recovered from lpr and it feels like a sign that you’re posting again. I love and missed the human part of singing sooo much, I’m very excited to experience it again soon!

  • @aldynadamping
    @aldynadamping Жыл бұрын

    i feel like i wanna cry watching this, im struggling to trust my voice right now... thank you madeleine🥲

  • @Bluefeathermedicine
    @Bluefeathermedicine Жыл бұрын

    Thankyou for this amazing video and a beautiful guidance on how to truly support our voice process 🙏🏼☀️💜🌈

  • @marciavox8105
    @marciavox8105 Жыл бұрын

    I love that new intro with the piano!! It is riveting. The camerawork is exquisite and the outfits are splendid!

  • @moonshine.melody
    @moonshine.melody Жыл бұрын

    this is... it's a true meditation miz madeline. i have so much clarity on what i want now. i just. thank you so much.

  • @rossprod9586
    @rossprod9586 Жыл бұрын

    This is amazing

  • @LilynAround
    @LilynAround Жыл бұрын

    love evrything about this video! Love your lessons on singing with soul and love how your dog snores in the back :D

  • @singingmanmd
    @singingmanmd Жыл бұрын

    Great content!!

  • @BabyBat14
    @BabyBat1411 ай бұрын

    This was just what I needed. Thank you!

  • @vvp4995
    @vvp4995 Жыл бұрын

    The intro is so beautiful

  • @jimmysuperbig
    @jimmysuperbig Жыл бұрын

    Spot on!! So Cool Thank You

  • @elliel9042
    @elliel9042 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful. Thank you

  • @Indigo.ascension
    @Indigo.ascension Жыл бұрын

    This was a spiritual experience ❤️ Thank you for sharing your genius here! 🙏🏼🌈

  • @LoriMiller1111
    @LoriMiller1111 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! Thank you for addressing this.

  • @sebastianf9503
    @sebastianf9503 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️ thank you

  • @mariarodriguezrodriguez5613
    @mariarodriguezrodriguez5613 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, God bless you

  • @mrsmongooseable
    @mrsmongooseable Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much brilliant video ! X

  • @MetalManiaAllTheWay
    @MetalManiaAllTheWay Жыл бұрын

    This is Madeline's second best look. Also, I love the new intro.

  • @albertobigcal7650
    @albertobigcal7650 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome Madeleine ❤🤘🎩

  • @thaisayresrebello8498
    @thaisayresrebello8498 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this content! I recently started voice lessons and I am having a hard time letting it go as I learn.

  • @followingthenorthstar
    @followingthenorthstar Жыл бұрын

    Love this video, you explained it so well

  • @KaitlinsCovers
    @KaitlinsCovers Жыл бұрын

    Such a good video 😌

  • @williamanthony6148
    @williamanthony6148 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the great topic. You ate awesome 😎

  • @emilianapiccini3179
    @emilianapiccini3179 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent.

  • @qelquel895
    @qelquel895 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for shining such a bright light on this topic.

  • @NewHeartChurchcrc
    @NewHeartChurchcrc Жыл бұрын

    couldn’t help notice your dog on the couch. Looks so comfortable

  • @auradeaurum
    @auradeaurum Жыл бұрын

    You are very much appreciated Mrs. Madeleine Harvey!!!!!! 🏆🏆🏆🏆🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @yasmlnmody383
    @yasmlnmody383 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. That's quite a teaching you got there!

  • @rthebaron
    @rthebaron Жыл бұрын

    Phenomenal. Thank you so so so so so much. I needed this video so much.

  • @luigonzales985
    @luigonzales985 Жыл бұрын

    Thank youuu

  • @spinach4616
    @spinach4616 Жыл бұрын

    awareness and presentness is so important within music and in life in general

  • @heathersterling_
    @heathersterling_ Жыл бұрын

    Wow. Thank you for this. I have a hard time getting past the fear element of messing up and how that feels. I think this was the first time I ever took a moment to imagine what it would be like if an audience did enjoy my voice.

  • @bradmunns9908
    @bradmunns9908 Жыл бұрын

    You just blew my mind.

  • @simplyb.8959
    @simplyb.8959 Жыл бұрын

    BEST ADVISE‼️‼️‼️‼️ THANK YOU!!!!

  • @zarinsubah9331
    @zarinsubah9331 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this Madeleine. Thank you so much for inspiring us and inducing hope within us. You're the best vocal coach I know 🫂

  • @AlwaysHereAndNow
    @AlwaysHereAndNow Жыл бұрын

    Heart soul magic love... Some of my favorite words! ✨✨✨

  • @patthemuse3504
    @patthemuse3504 Жыл бұрын

    Love you and thank you 💕

  • @cameliastanica4072

    @cameliastanica4072

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks for the helpful tips

  • @coreenamusic
    @coreenamusic Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Video. Thank You!

  • @jhonguedez1294
    @jhonguedez1294 Жыл бұрын

    Miss, thanks for putting into words what i had felt when recording, your charm spoke beautifully!!

  • @mindbodylifted222
    @mindbodylifted222 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @iamewaoluwa
    @iamewaoluwa Жыл бұрын

    This is such a thoughtful video, you’re literally saving lives because our talents are a part of how we enjoy life, God bless and increase you ❤️

  • @mozzamon
    @mozzamon Жыл бұрын

    I'm gobsmacked - that was a beautiful explanation of art and performance, or how to perform, and how to quiet the critical voice. I'm still catching my breath a bit from the concepts. First vid of yours I've watched, a pretty powerful place to start!

  • @rajmusicvibes5638
    @rajmusicvibes5638 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing ! How nicely you took all fear and frustration out of the performer and launched the possibilities of presentation to possible best satisfaction and pleasure. A magic of *instinctive sound* of emotion. *Heart To Heart*

  • @Japtune1
    @Japtune1 Жыл бұрын

    I love watching your videos. You have the most loving way of teaching. I think from now on, my observer is going to look and sound like you. Thank you so much for doing what you do. You are a blessing.❤️

  • @_atira
    @_atira9 ай бұрын

    Amazing Video ! You are the best vocal teacher

  • @sinkeo789phommachack9
    @sinkeo789phommachack9 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for teaching how to sing 😎

  • @mysoulcalledlife
    @mysoulcalledlife Жыл бұрын

    This video is everything I’ve been needing to hear for years and years and years and years… I wish I had more to give you. Thank you!!💖💖💖

  • @MadeleineHarveyVoice

    @MadeleineHarveyVoice

    Жыл бұрын

    Just saw this now! Thank you so much for your support! PS. It's always a pleasure seeing you in the live chat. You bring a lot of good questions and comments. Thanks for being a part of this community! Hope to see you at the next live.

  • @Ellazam
    @Ellazam Жыл бұрын

    Madeleine I, I really needed to hear your words and every single sentence is so true to how I feel and have felt. There is such a nice connection to oneself. i have always felt within me that there is a song to be discovered but its hiding because of the fear of being judged. which comes from trauma when in school as a child in a music lesson I was asked to sing a song to get a good grade, which somehow left traces of not daring to sing in front of people. then I hung out with people who were good at singing but I didn't dare. Within this six months I have a new gained courage in waves from singing to myself a little bit to myself and my little children. I'm practicing listening without judging myself but it's hard. During a month or so of singing, I notice incredible progression and I know I can do more. then the wave ended and I did other things. but I know deep inside of my core that I have somethings maybe it is a feeling that want come through. Thank you for giving me hope and bringing great instructions.

  • @empresssunbow
    @empresssunbow Жыл бұрын

    Wow that was deeeeep ❤