Mediation has truly saved my life

@rootsAlkebu

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@nowornever07

3 жыл бұрын

How..can yu explain a lil bit abot yur experience..

@ourloveourjourney215

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto!!

@leoncharles1431

2 жыл бұрын

@@nowornever07 tell me plz

@beauty1nchaos

2 жыл бұрын

@@nowornever07 it was rough in the beginning but so far it actually helps.

"How nice!"

I like the idea that anger is just another side of loving kindness. We get angry with other people when we want to control them for, we think, their own good, but they resist or don't understand. We need to turn this wrong attitude into one just of wanting the best for others without our having to exert control.

@kiringuyen

3 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@patrickdallaire5972

3 жыл бұрын

What you are describing reminds me of non-attachment. We would probably benefit the most from loving-kindness without clinging to a certain outcome, especially when that outcome is, like you mention, outside of one's control. To have the wisdom of the latter - the extent of our control in the present moment - would be another skill worth developing. If I understand Buddhism correctly, the pathological desires (tanha) that lead to unnecessary, if not all, suffering (dukkha) can be characterized by the following 3 poisons: * Delusion (ignorance, confusion) * Attachment (greed, lust) * Aversion (Anger, hate, disgust) Reassuringly, the more wholesome desires (chanda) that can free us from some, if not all, suffering can be characterized by the following 3 antidotes: * Non-Delusion (Wisdom) * Non-Attachment (Generosity) * Non-Aversion (Loving-Kindness) For a long time, I severely misunderstood the 3rd noble truth. I thought his holiness was advocating for the complete absence of desire. However, now I believe that, during this lifetime at least, this is impossible. The best thing we can do while we are bound to all the impermanent conditions of our reality is to curate our desires to the best of our abilities.

@maryballesteros2045

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 👏

I started crying hard when I realized that everyone's innate nature is good.

@medicalanimal1479

Жыл бұрын

So you think Hitlers innate nature was good? Not trying to be smart about this, just trying to understand your view

@AdamFiregate

Жыл бұрын

@@medicalanimal1479 Maybe his nature was good before age 4. His father beat him up regularly, as I heard. That probably had a distorted effect on him, which contributed to his personality.

@JellyTradestheMarket

Жыл бұрын

@@medicalanimal1479 mental illness is real.

@mariap.894

Жыл бұрын

​@@medicalanimal1479 There are always bad apples, bad seeds in life and nature but MOST people have good in them😉

"You want to do better", so true. Anger is always anger at one's own weakness.

@jamielawrence4749

3 жыл бұрын

Oh wow, well said. Thank you

Thank you Rinpoche! Even as a christian I very much love and cheerish Buddhism. I pray for Your long life and preservationnof Dharma in this degenerate time!

Iam blessed iam lucky that in this era i can get such great teachings online 🙏

This is one of the most empowering messages I have ever listened to.

Thank you Rinpoche 💖💖💖

I am 57, brilliant, smoked pot all my life, and have done nothing to help anyone except play pretty guitar. I have so much to give. I want peace so I can help others. No more pot. Thank you guru. I will be watching all your videos.

Thank you - healing words. I had an angry heart and this wisdom was a medicine.

@juwitayu2768

4 жыл бұрын

You are not alone. Angry impermanent. So lets we diligenly practice love and compassion to ourself and all sentient being. If we full love and compassion then we peace mind, calm and patient. Have bless day .

I have realized that a lot of my anger, resentment, anger, fear guilt, and sadness is love and compassion for myself at the core because they are there to push me to so better and because I am not being my true potential.

@ivonnelopez8203

3 жыл бұрын

me too. I'm just really frustrated

goodness me, this has lifted so much weight from my heart right now!

@matthewking8944

3 жыл бұрын

cool deal namaste

I've watched a lot of your videos, but this is probably my favorite one.

Finding answers makes me happy. I am happy to be addicted to life

How nice 😊💜

Controlling our emotions is probably the hardest thing, specially when we're angry, jealous or needy. I hope I get to find the loving compassion within these negative emotions.

This is why we have to be so careful these days when everyone wants to "cancel" someone just for having different feelings or opinions than theirs. It's often not as extreme as people fear. But, even in the case of outright, more extreme hatred, if it is met with more hatred and extremism, it can't help, and we are seeing that. I am so grateful for this message and the perspective shift. I'm sad so many people claim they want to help change the world to a more compassionate place, yet they are still saying and doing things to others that encourage the opposite. Things are so intense and reactive these days, we definitely all need this wisdom. I pray we absorb it well for the betterment of humanity (myself included!) 💖

Hello, i am just reading a Tibetan book of life and death.Packed with wisdom Thank you Mingyur rinpoche

@rohlay00

3 жыл бұрын

It is one my favourite books !!

Thankyou rinpoche 🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏

Watching this video knowing that Mingyur RINPOCHE took off to the Himalayas as a wandering Yogi recently, inspires me beyond words and reminds me of the importance to increase practice, EMAHO! May he be protected and free from all obstacles!

you make me giggle. thank you!

This is really wonderful ...I have been feeling anger with politicians and scientists in my country at the coronavirus times and I see how it is because there is loving kindness there in it .. Already feel transformation....and understand that they ...the politicians and scientists believe their thoughts so they cannot help what they do ....

Namaste 🙏🙏

Thank you so much for posting this!

Absolutely amazing.

Absolutely incredible.

Mingyur Rinpoche's teaching are so amazingly clear. I'm taking this into my practice today.

@juwitayu2768

4 жыл бұрын

Rejoice

thank you for the message.

Thank you for this teaching.

This is the most compassionate voice and the best help I've gotten anywhere.

Thank you.

this dude is amazing

@matthewking8944

3 жыл бұрын

i agree

holy moly i'm speechless and greatful

Thank you for the teachings. It was exactly what I needed to hear

I hope my friend and teacher and student Justins anger can transform to loving kindness, he probably wont wanna watch this video, but ill meditate on it, wishing him well, may he be fully healed!

Healing words.. thank u so much for the post..

Happy birthday mentor rimpochi ❤️❤️❤️❤️

We spend all our time lost in thought. Recognizing anger in the mind and body in a state of mindful awareness inherently shortens the half life of said anger. In other words don’t add fuel to the anger and hatred fire. You have to think of reasons why you’re angry to remain angry. You have to think of reasons why you hate to continue hatred. Simply acknowledge the feelings of anger and hatred as another appearance in consciousness and you will find it dissipates.

This needs more views!

Brilliant!

I love his vibe. This was a wonderful talk. His talk about how to meditate is priceless. Thank you for being you.

Wonderfull thank you such a reassuring talk and gentle voice thank you again

Incredibly insightful. I feel like I really needed to hear that.

@Sh0n0

Жыл бұрын

Im glad u fiund it helpful glad i could help

Beautifully presented, never thought of hatred like this. Yes I have myself a lot due to hatred I had for myself

Wonderful clear words for when things seem difficult. Return lovingkindness to love and kindness.

Thank you!❤

How nice indeed..thank you

Wonderful Teaching.

Such calm and compassion in your voice dear rinpoche🙏🏻 going through the worst I've ever been and a breakup at the verge of marriage.. Two weeks into the breakup, I attribute most of my sanity that's left to the calmness I receive from your directions🙏🏻

@phimedo5129

Жыл бұрын

May you feel better these days!♥️✌

@phimedo5129

Жыл бұрын

Sending you good vibes ♥️🥳

Thank you for sharing your wisdom 💚 🙏

Thanks for your compassion

Thank you for your wisdom. Respect.

I am tired of all this bad peoples that are stressing and making me sick, Thanks for your video, I try to calm myself, but probably the only way to find happines is to be far away from peoples

thank you rinpoche 🙏🏻

wow I think evry one need to her this really ifs fantastic many thanks

Sir, Loving kindness good explained everyone person looking for love .Thank you so much ,All is well

Peace, love and light from Canada~ I LOVE IT, NAMASTE ..

Thank you so much for sharing this. It's truly a gift and blessing to me ❤ It helped me transform my pain into something soothing and so I can focus better on better thoughts about my situation

He means hatred is an emotion just like love , if you change your thoughts you will change your emotion.

@Sub-cx8vg

Жыл бұрын

Wow 5 years passed

VOW! VERY GREAT, BEAUTIFULLY APPRECIATIVE, EXCELLENT 👏👏👏👍👌😊

Okay this just made me ball my eyes out

Obrigada Mestre!

Thank you for sharing another inspirational message.Just today I ask myself the question .What do I really want within my heart?The answer was joy,peace of mind, health.Uncondition love dispels all defendants.

When i was looking for stuff to help my anger for some reason i instantly new the best people would be monks, love you guys

love every video

Thanks for ur advice Sir 🙏

Yepp. It's wisdom in this. Anger can be out of love or fear. Love and the betterment of humanity is what all need to aim for.. Thanks

Thank-you.

Thank you for this beautiful explanation. I know its true

Very beautiful sir. Thank you so much.☺️☺️

Thank you for sharing

This is what I look for: See love within anger; and anger transforms into love

Thank you 😊 🙏

Thank you Master 🙏

How nice.

Great video!

fantastic!

I wish i had it together as much as you guys

Nice video. I really appreciate the message you are trying to get across. I wish we were all capable of understanding each other at a conceptual level rather than just through linguistics and body language though. That sure would clear up a lot of miscommunication!

thank you :)

beautiful....

Very nice teacher 😊

"How nice!" ☺️

How Nice!😊

Thank you :)

Thank you

thank you

GURUJI I LOVE U

wow .. this is good

Thank u..

I got to practice this in real time. I got a text that made me angry as I was reading the comments. 😅 I think I can see what he means... I looked deeper and felt angry because I felt hurt, rejected, misunderstood ... (essentially; unloved) and therefore angry at the other person for not loving me, because ultimately I want love. Is that right? Feeling compassion for myself underneath, as well, as a result. Could it be we are often angry because we feel we are not getting the love and connections we crave or feel we deserve?

THANKS

great video

what we focus on affects our perception and its underlying experience? if we focus on loving kindness, underlying everything is loving kindness? how about hatred? or confusion? this gets to me.

Nicely explained

Have a different relationship with your thoughts as love and hate is complementary and one cannot exist without the other. Hold them together and accept them and be at peace!

he's so calming and relaxing. this is how a true monk should be. his other recent videos though I'm not a big fan he speaks to loud lol.

He talks about hatred for others and hatred for self, then gives a really good example and explanation of turning hatred for self into loving kindness, by recognising that at the base of it, hatred for self might be an expression of a need to be better. So, the need to be better is what on the surface seems like self hatred. Can anyone give a similar example or explanation of how to turn feelings of hatred for others into loving kindness? What aspect of loving kindness could be at the base of hatred for others? Especially feelings of hatred towards other people who have harmed or wronged you.

@isaaca6445

5 жыл бұрын

@@MingyurRinpoche Thank you for your reply.

@des4249

5 жыл бұрын

Isaac A do you know how to answer the question now? Really struggling with it and the person you replied to deleted their comment.

Long Live Rinpoche La kyab su chio Tashi Delek.