The Causes of Anxiety and Suffering

In this teaching, Mingyur Rinpoche talks about the panic attacks that he experienced as a child and how he used compassion and calm-abiding meditation to free himself from anxiety. Mingyur Rinpoche teaches these forms of meditation in his Joy of Living Level 1(Calming the Mind) and Level 2 (Opening the Heart) courses. You can discuss this monthly teaching in the Monthly Teachings Forum of learning.tergar.org under the topic The Causes of Anxiety and Suffering.
_____________
🔗 Joy of Living Meditation Program: Learn meditation under the skillful guidance of Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche at your own pace.
joy.tergar.org/
__________
🔗 Vajrayana Online: Study and practice of the Tibetan Buddhism with Mingyur Rinpoche.
learning.tergar.org/
_____________
🔗Online events, retreats with Mingyur Rinpoche events.tergar.org/
_____________
🔗 About Tergar Path: tergar.org/programs/

Пікірлер: 1 300

  • @MagisterialVoyager
    @MagisterialVoyager5 жыл бұрын

    "Everything beside this present moment is just an idea." This is my ultimate way to combat overthinking.

  • @Fari106

    @Fari106

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ada K. I like that.

  • @censura1210

    @censura1210

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't see how that's going to work but good luck with it 😋

  • @KatelynIngle

    @KatelynIngle

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @KatelynIngle

    @KatelynIngle

    4 жыл бұрын

    R Hopzing the ability to choose not to think and feel is an accomplishment.. for sure.. especially so in modern times 😀

  • @flyin5952

    @flyin5952

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ada K. Thank you so much for sharing that!!

  • @JamesDel
    @JamesDel6 жыл бұрын

    "The fear of the panic is worse than the panic." This is a cycle I am desperately trying to break.

  • @goofyahhh254

    @goofyahhh254

    6 жыл бұрын

    James Del have you broken this cycle? Are you better Now? Be truthful.

  • @daneleva

    @daneleva

    6 жыл бұрын

    Don't try, just break........

  • @jb-hj9kw

    @jb-hj9kw

    5 жыл бұрын

    It takes consistent practicing exposing yourself and logical thinking and eventually it Will click.

  • @killianlomax8237

    @killianlomax8237

    5 жыл бұрын

    I had been struggling with generalized anxiety disorder and days-to-weeks-long periods of strong panic for more than 15 years. First thought after waking up? Anxiety ... Arriving at lunch time with a fully developed state of extreme anxiety and ending the day fighting physical symptoms of panic. I had many phases of deep depression about this disorder, I didn't understand what caused it, I wondered why me, what went wrong in my life and so on ... usual questions. Life still had its ups and downs but the latter always were more prominent, felt more real. I started to fear everything, like he said in the video, I developed a strong panic against panic, a vicious circle which drove me crazy night after night. I dropped out of college, I broke up long-term friendships, I destroyed my relationship, switched jobs like pants just to run away and try to find a save place on this planet. Then, after 15 years of constant anxiety, panic attacks, depression and delusion I started a therapy (CBT). I thought 'YES, this will fix me, this will make the anxiety and panic go away'. Guess what, it did not. It couldn't! Because I didn't understand what was going on. I thought, there must be a reason, there must be a time in my life when this started, there must be physical, a real(!) event that caused the disorder. I never understood that all the time it was me who fed the anxiety, who made the fear stronger by trying to beat it. Like he explained in the video, my mind made proposals and I followed. I tried to analyze my fear, tried to find out why a sunny day scares the shit out of me on one day, the other day I can enjoy it. The answer was pretty simple, it was my perception of my own emotions, specifically my anxiety. I needed to realize while danger might be real and physically existent outside of me, fear, anxiety and panic whatsoever just exist within my mind ... holy cow, what an insight this was to me. Recognizing the fact, that my mind played tricks on me was hard. Recognizing the fact that I joined those trick games and played a major role was even harder. So how am I today? Have anxiety and panic attacks vanished, am I 'free'? Well, I'm definitely doing a loooooot better than during this long period of my life. I enjoy being alive, I sleep well (still too less, but hey :) ) and I can think about all these topics without falling into the pit of anxiety. Sure, bad thoughts try to creep in sometimes (what had 15 years time to develop will not go away fully all of a sudden), but now that I know about my perception, that it can be wrong, life got extremely better for me. It needs a lot of courage to recognize your own anxiety, especially when there is no reason for it, when it is generalized and you might think you're just insane. It needs even more courage and commitment to learn to handle it, to learn how to get rid of the bad habits that support fear and panic. BUT it is doable, I can do it, you can do it, we all can do it. I didn't have the luck of having heard of Mingyur Rinpoche or Thich Nhat Hanh back in those days, man I wish I had, it would have helped so much. Nowadays I watch these vids and read some books (not many, but some) to confirm my new learnings, to solidify my new perception and it works. I went through more than 15 years of mental darkness and now I'm free of symptoms for already two years. Thanks to CBT which got me started to think differently, thanks to people like in the video which offer some good ideas, thanks to myself for finally starting to disbelieve the monkey-mind and starting to believe in my own strength. Never again will I fight anxiety or panic, I'll acknowledge and then I let them go. I got it inked onto my wrists: "No retreat, no surrender", taken from a silly 80's movie, but true down to the heart. I did it, you can do it, too. It's a process, breathe in deeply, trust yourself and just start somewhere. Soon that cycle will begin to bend, twist and finally set you free. All the best, my friend.

  • @nataliemcw3375

    @nataliemcw3375

    5 жыл бұрын

    Killian Lomax thanks so much killian for this, honestly really struggling the last 4 weeks especially have been so tough, I’ve cried every day, had intrusive thoughts, thought I can’t take anymore, said no to so many things and the grip doesn’t seem to want to let go, it’s there as soon as I open my eyes it’s there all day and when I’m trying to sleep at night, I feel lower than I’ve ever been and reading this has given me the slightest glimmer of hope and I completely understand what you mean about the weather I’ve never heard anyone say it before but sometimes even a rainy or humid day can scare me and I don’t understand why, I’ve always thought I was so different, thanks so much for your post 😊

  • @queenofmoderation7668
    @queenofmoderation76686 жыл бұрын

    "Gossipy neuron". He is roasting the hell out of anxiety. 😂😂😂

  • @Yetipfote

    @Yetipfote

    4 жыл бұрын

    😃😄

  • @LateshaRenee

    @LateshaRenee

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @shortsdeliveries

    @shortsdeliveries

    3 жыл бұрын

    haha its funny that your nickname is queen of moderation

  • @musicstories9451

    @musicstories9451

    3 жыл бұрын

    LMAO MAO MAO MAO MAO!!

  • @saquibbamne8.1bviews3secon4

    @saquibbamne8.1bviews3secon4

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah 😂😂yeah I laughed so much that my parents were confused at a moment, like what happened to me.but I said everything is ok nothing to worry I was just some funny and unique video which made me laugh.

  • @cotegt
    @cotegt6 жыл бұрын

    i've been meditating everyday for over a year now. And it is a tremendous method to practice self discipline. However, doing it alone was not enough to tackle my anxiety. What helped me moved through fear in my experience was also taking action and practicing doing activities regardless of how I felt. If I didn't feel like cooking, I would cook, if I didn't feel like taking a shower, I would take a shower, if i didn't feel like going for a run, I went for a run. Learn to move forward regardless of how you feel, combine that with meditation. That is what Im on right now.

  • @Capsulaneitor

    @Capsulaneitor

    6 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing nowadays? still meditating? hows the anxiety? I suffer from the same problems, and would really like to know, thank you

  • @DingoNwonderland

    @DingoNwonderland

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for that! Great advice ☺️☺️

  • @namastetyson6267

    @namastetyson6267

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what I needed to read - thank you.xx

  • @davib7534

    @davib7534

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, sometimes, (most times) a combination of practices helps you get to a better place. When I read what you wrote I thought to myself and how I tend to procrastinate things sometimes. Perhaps anxiety from procrastinating is what you are feeling? When I get started on anything I immediately feel better. That alone is not the solution though - I need to look into why I feel that way - why my mind goes there and starts the anxiety. Meditation can help with this. What is there in my thoughts that can bring that negative 95% of my thought into light, and how it is irrational. Anyway - keep it up, keep working, make it a way of life, and the worse that can happen will be you (we) feel a somewhat better. :0)

  • @mohamedladha7054

    @mohamedladha7054

    5 жыл бұрын

    Master the mind,purifies the thought,sanctifies the heart,simplify life.

  • @muk8911
    @muk89114 жыл бұрын

    True words when he says "95% of our worries never actually happens"

  • @GK-qc5ry

    @GK-qc5ry

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes this

  • @LateshaRenee
    @LateshaRenee4 жыл бұрын

    I started with not calling it "MY anxiety". I stopped claiming it as "mine". Then I trained my mind. I AM IN CHARGE OF MY THOUGHTS, not vice versa. Even the random thoughts, I forced myself to be neutral. I dont have to label this thought good or bad. I can just let it pass by. I do NOT have to emotionally react. We give everything its meaning/label. Choose what YOU want because YOU'RE in control. I constantly, and I mean CONSTANTLY read psychology books, self improvement and self love books, spiritual books and videos, I CONSTANTLY strengthened my mind. I went from depression, anxiety disorder and suicidal thoughts, to complete peace and bliss!!! It was so quick that I actually forgot i ever suffered. I did it, so can you!!

  • @EllieRose2000

    @EllieRose2000

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you recommend any books?

  • @miuyiyuyo

    @miuyiyuyo

    3 жыл бұрын

    When you are at a state of ever lasting peace its when the spiritual journey beggins, congratolations

  • @paulalegaspi3544

    @paulalegaspi3544

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuuu!!!

  • @bigupbig2198

    @bigupbig2198

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@paulalegaspi3544 please reply what books did you read ??

  • @jason-jo2jw

    @jason-jo2jw

    3 жыл бұрын

    so if you are aware of the thoughts and and just let it be ..then what do you do when positive thoughts airse do you observe it and let it be or do you focus on it. and since you have thoughts and you just accept it as thoughts , then do you also think positive thoughts as thoughts. and Do pretreating positive affirmation to oneself help, or will it cause more negative effect?

  • @oknarub3038
    @oknarub30387 жыл бұрын

    Man I had to stop in the middle of the video just to comment: I love this guy!

  • @Ilikeyoualot

    @Ilikeyoualot

    4 жыл бұрын

    I felt the same thing!

  • @BenitaWinckler

    @BenitaWinckler

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too :)

  • @jvibes3280

    @jvibes3280

    4 жыл бұрын

    The same thing i love him

  • @tonhopdriman3211

    @tonhopdriman3211

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, me too 😊

  • @bigbatpapa6433

    @bigbatpapa6433

    4 жыл бұрын

    I really like this concept of monkey mind. So accurate !

  • @noahrodriguez293
    @noahrodriguez2937 жыл бұрын

    "Gossiping neurons", I'm writing that down!

  • @choeyangtsomo2961

    @choeyangtsomo2961

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol same here

  • @YTV101
    @YTV1017 жыл бұрын

    Love this man, he's adorable, very funny, wise and enlightening. Everyone should strive to attain this level of acceptance and peace.

  • @Siberius-

    @Siberius-

    4 жыл бұрын

    "Enlightenment" is just a weird silly term that doesn't apply to reality. Most mindful practices don't subscribe to such a notion (it's always a journey, in reality). Unless one wants to apply their own usage to the word. Or like, con artist "gurus" pretending they're "enlightened" or whatever. This guy is great though, I will say that.

  • @shortsdeliveries

    @shortsdeliveries

    3 жыл бұрын

    he is not a man and not an enlightened man, he is enlightment

  • @onefreebird1
    @onefreebird17 жыл бұрын

    It's amazing that he understands the need and the importance of discussing such things as anxiety and panic. I wish it was discussed more.

  • @sigmamale520

    @sigmamale520

    7 жыл бұрын

    it is. Now..

  • @howardstrauss5166

    @howardstrauss5166

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Susan Moran yes we are. but let us do ourselves a favour, and rely on the wisdoms of the sweet lord Buddha, who has worked out a lot for us. it works. peace and love.

  • @jenniferpinto7044

    @jenniferpinto7044

    3 жыл бұрын

    As he said, he suffered with (severe) panic attacks for many years.

  • @Miselain
    @Miselain6 жыл бұрын

    This video actually made me teary eyed. I've been doing an 8 week course of mindfulness meditation (now on week 4) and everything he has said, I've nodded and have said yes! Exactly! I never thought that I would be able to completely control the anxiety that I had been experiencing, but through mindfulness meditation, I have learned so much and am able to completely minimize it. I really encourage everyone everywhere, to take the time to learn mindfulness meditation. It would completely transform your life.

  • @finneire2081

    @finneire2081

    6 жыл бұрын

    Miselain ummm

  • @mystigician

    @mystigician

    6 жыл бұрын

    Miselain yo your very beautiful and yes I will.

  • @everyoneswireddifferent1712

    @everyoneswireddifferent1712

    6 жыл бұрын

    Miselain I'm really depressed because of the temporary worldly pleasure that is like an aluminum can covered in vegetable oil that you can grasp but only for a short while. It's like I wake up to grasp these pleasures all day every morning. I know I'm much more then this material world but I can't seem to tap into that mind state

  • @jamierobinson2373

    @jamierobinson2373

    6 жыл бұрын

    im suffering with anxiety fear n worry my lifes very difficult with struggle ' tried alot of things maybe this is my last resort '

  • @carminepizza

    @carminepizza

    6 жыл бұрын

    Do you mind saying where are you taking the course? thanks

  • @thupsidedown
    @thupsidedown2 жыл бұрын

    I was going through a lot of anxiety and depression during my college days. I stumbled across this video and it quite literally saved my life. Three years later, I had the privilege of taking his blessings in person (with a wonderful stroke of luck and chance) - I never thought I would see him in real life. Today is almost five year later that I am watching this video again, since it led me to understand my own psyche by practicing meditation. I hope this comment motivates anyone here undergoing through pain to give meditation a shot. ☺

  • @rolandemiltoledo1283

    @rolandemiltoledo1283

    2 жыл бұрын

    How did you meet Rinpoche? ^_^

  • @thupsidedown

    @thupsidedown

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rolandemiltoledo1283 There was a small meditation talk conducted at my hometown in Sikkim, India.

  • @shyrishdhyani

    @shyrishdhyani

    Жыл бұрын

    I have anxiety and my muscles become stiff during meditation. Any tips for that?

  • @thupsidedown

    @thupsidedown

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shyrishdhyani I have found that journaling before meditating can be pretty helpful. What Rinpoche teaches is an understanding of our human consciousness and relaxation is sometimes a byproduct of that and not exactly the end goal. If you are looking to release the anxiety and tension in the body, I have found dynamic meditation to be pretty helpful. For example, Silva Centering exercise is one that I do often.

  • @Maria-sv9ts

    @Maria-sv9ts

    Жыл бұрын

    How did you start incorporate his teachings to help you during college? Im in college now and i am panicking all the time :(

  • @letshearyourside9115
    @letshearyourside91157 жыл бұрын

    he's very calming and funny

  • @willbournerv2259

    @willbournerv2259

    7 жыл бұрын

    Paul yet very wise

  • @siddeshparkar2073
    @siddeshparkar20733 жыл бұрын

    6:30 when he laughs and gets back to finding a problem 😂😂 he is amazing ... Love him ❤️

  • @probablyanalien0
    @probablyanalien07 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are so enlightening. When you think of Buddhist monk you don't think panic attacks. I also suffer from anxiety. These lessons on meditation have helped me a lot

  • @alvardavidsson5933
    @alvardavidsson59333 жыл бұрын

    This video changed my life. Now I know what I need to do to overcome any suffering or irrational worries I encounter in life: -Acknowledge that they're there, don't avoid the issue. If I find it hard to know how I'm feeling, I'll use meditation to do so. -Don't attach any negative judgement to my 'panic', just let it exist and be aware of it, not necessarily shutting it down. -Employ self-compassion. Every time I know I've overcome a minor issue, praise myself for it, therefore rewiring my negative thinking. Hope this also helps others.

  • @SanguineYoru
    @SanguineYoru7 жыл бұрын

    I've developed depression and terrible generalized anxiety over the past few years. It felt like a losing battle that would defeat me. This video was the first video I've seen where I feel like someone understands exactly how I feel and how to overcome it, and it has given me an incredible amount of positive energy, like I used to have. I thought this is just what happens when you become older, but that's wrong. This spoke directly to me and helped me to finally come up with a plan to change my outlook on life and overall become a far less negative person. Thank you so much.

  • @adamdrury5556

    @adamdrury5556

    7 жыл бұрын

    crypto practise mindfulness it saved me from.severe anxiety

  • @SeaHorseGypsy

    @SeaHorseGypsy

    7 жыл бұрын

    That's beautiful man

  • @antaramalis

    @antaramalis

    6 жыл бұрын

    Adam Drury how to do mindfullness

  • @FoundSonofMary

    @FoundSonofMary

    6 жыл бұрын

    crypto I'm having the same experience friend. good luck on your path.

  • @musahyder11

    @musahyder11

    6 жыл бұрын

    crypto listen to alan watts...it helps

  • @katherinehague5053
    @katherinehague50534 жыл бұрын

    I love how his sunglasses match the color of his robes! Stylish guy :)

  • @maudedurand7430
    @maudedurand7430 Жыл бұрын

    The fear of the panic is stronger than the panic and it is SO TRUE. Just thinking or worrying about having a panic attack will bring on panic for me. Being afraid of my anxiety and panic attacks.

  • @juliesngh
    @juliesngh3 жыл бұрын

    Meditation, yoga, having a positive outlook to life, eating healthy and sleeping well is the key to a happy life👍🙏

  • @danielwilkinson491
    @danielwilkinson4917 жыл бұрын

    thinking is the casue of all SUFFERING.

  • @DEROGOIOFFICIAL

    @DEROGOIOFFICIAL

    7 жыл бұрын

    i don´t agree...i think it´s WRONG thinking...

  • @sheilakirwan6900

    @sheilakirwan6900

    6 жыл бұрын

    user one attachment and belief in thoughtsccauses suffering

  • @lucioh1575

    @lucioh1575

    6 жыл бұрын

    sentience* is

  • @emanuelm3255

    @emanuelm3255

    6 жыл бұрын

    sugarbabylobve Nah It s true

  • @thetavibes9021

    @thetavibes9021

    6 жыл бұрын

    What about natural forces and weather 'cycles' present before we existed? Wouldn't that be a cause of suffering? Regarding life that is. Lol

  • @swaartgevaar727
    @swaartgevaar7275 жыл бұрын

    3:33 I'm anxious about my anxiety. Anxious about finding inner peace so I can escape my anxiety. It's a vicious cycle.

  • @aaronwarner1949

    @aaronwarner1949

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @shyaaammeneen63

    @shyaaammeneen63

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tsepamiso, Time to develop your mental muscles. Meditation is the permanent way to a relaxed and stress free life because it reprogrames the mind. Enter "Alternate nostril breathing meditation videos" on Google search and do the simple meditation for 10 to 15 minutes if possible twice a day. Also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation. It can also be done sitting on a chair. Best wishes. Do meditation daily to enjoy a relaxed life. Best wishes--Shyaaam Sir,--Life Coach. God has given us life to be happy.

  • @purnagurung2306

    @purnagurung2306

    2 жыл бұрын

    I escaped I am free now

  • @JustinBirtwell
    @JustinBirtwell6 жыл бұрын

    This is a beautiful person. He is bringing tears of joy to my eyes.

  • @peleketorresii9069

    @peleketorresii9069

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very beautiful

  • @alicekrizman6517
    @alicekrizman65173 жыл бұрын

    How can you possibly be so funny and so wise at the same time? If you can, I can too! 😊

  • @MrBlack-vg8rv
    @MrBlack-vg8rv4 жыл бұрын

    This guy explains it better than any doctor ive ever been to..therapist be like "theres nothing to be afraid of you will be fine" thats like all they ever say.

  • @sezza271
    @sezza2716 жыл бұрын

    I would happily sit under this monks tutorlage for hours, he's fantastic!

  • @DrDave-cp8vq
    @DrDave-cp8vq Жыл бұрын

    I love Yongey because of the energy and humor he can bring to his teachings. Wonderful insight and delivery!

  • @healtheworld7173
    @healtheworld71737 жыл бұрын

    I Love this guy. Soo wise, knowledgeable, caring and understanding. And what makes him more lovable is the way he describes things that are true. He's soo funny eg "Gossiping Neurons" I actually laughed out loud. Thank You God and the Universe for this man and his teachings in my Life. He is a Blessing

  • @zekedallas6687
    @zekedallas66876 жыл бұрын

    From someone (myself) with ptsd and panic disorder; something pulled me to this video as well as Buddhism. Miracles work in the best ways. Genius man.

  • @anniechua8985
    @anniechua89853 жыл бұрын

    Fear of panic... panic over panic... that’s the worst... because it snowballs. Like the Buddha’s teaching on the second dart. Applies to all forms of suffering. Thank you for your teaching Rinpoche.

  • @Leeohlin89
    @Leeohlin896 жыл бұрын

    ♡ can I just add, by saying how lovely and adorable this man is. I loved this. thanks! :)

  • @gurkansisman4097
    @gurkansisman40976 жыл бұрын

    "The neurons loves gossip" HAHAHAHAAAH YOU, SIR, MADE MY DAY

  • @utcy5444
    @utcy54446 жыл бұрын

    I find it painful to do meditation while having an anxiety attack because the burning sensation in my chest becomes so strong. I find it best to do meditation every morning or night. If you do get a panic attack; sit out in the grass, feel the sun or the wind, listen to the birds whistling and drink camomile tea.

  • @luciesimackova4805
    @luciesimackova48053 жыл бұрын

    I am very glad to see person who live what he teaches. I extremely laughted. "Don´t eat" "But I want to eat" " But no good" :)) May the Force be with you!

  • @maggiemetz6090
    @maggiemetz60903 жыл бұрын

    I used to work in one particular nursing home for about a year and throughout the course of the year, there was a resident’s sister who always preached about meditation. She never hesitated in coming up to me during work with her stories and daily habit of meditation. It took me over a year to finally start practicing and now I am getting into it everyday. I am thankful for those such as this man, that put wise words into my mind & give people true and powerful words of wisdom to practice

  • @ersterkommentar2415
    @ersterkommentar24157 жыл бұрын

    amazing dude. Much love.

  • @kennethjones4811
    @kennethjones48117 жыл бұрын

    Great video. This guy knows his stuff. I can tell he's been there.

  • @tsdz2008

    @tsdz2008

    4 жыл бұрын

    This guy knows his stuff.

  • @KrishmanyuThakur

    @KrishmanyuThakur

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tsdz2008 that's what she said

  • @szokerichard7544
    @szokerichard75447 жыл бұрын

    He is so understandable!

  • @neharawat4212
    @neharawat42124 жыл бұрын

    I was fine 4 months back don't know how got anxiety attack, started fearing from things which I had full control off .. don't know I'm trying to come out of it .. Talking neurons makes the situation bigger and I loose the reference of what other is saying .. this is a hell situation.. I'm trying to break this cycle and I'll do it ..

  • @ruohanli5231
    @ruohanli52317 жыл бұрын

    When I was in my worst days of anxiety, meditation helped tremendously, but also very temporarily. It is later on the wisdom that sealed the victory when meditation is like a first-aid. Therefore, I really agree with the part that awareness of the problem and meditation has to come together to eradicate those unnecessary miseries.

  • @davidmorris6278
    @davidmorris62788 жыл бұрын

    Many thanks for your wisdom and help

  • @othergeorgea
    @othergeorgea8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Your videos are helping and teaching me things I never knew before.

  • @johndickerson2537
    @johndickerson2537 Жыл бұрын

    I love the simplicity and honesty of these inc redible people, balm 2 the Soul,I believe, Wow, John

  • @pricopstefania7086
    @pricopstefania70865 жыл бұрын

    Yes, true ! Thank you ! Love and blessings !💖

  • @fnjr578
    @fnjr5788 жыл бұрын

    your videos are of such a great help.

  • @sigmamale520

    @sigmamale520

    7 жыл бұрын

    how you feeling now?

  • @shubhamdubey7349

    @shubhamdubey7349

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sigmamale520 hum bhi puch lo bhai

  • @romayne333parnell6
    @romayne333parnell67 жыл бұрын

    I love this man

  • @isabelzandarin6396
    @isabelzandarin63967 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @BenitaWinckler
    @BenitaWinckler4 жыл бұрын

    He is such a great teacher - always makes me smile 😊 thank you for the videos!

  • @aslninat8792
    @aslninat87928 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @bonjourcoco
    @bonjourcoco8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @Warriorphonic
    @Warriorphonic6 жыл бұрын

    Many thanks Rinpoche!

  • @JasonGafar
    @JasonGafar2 жыл бұрын

    This has to be one of the most chill people out there.

  • @arianaelektra7184
    @arianaelektra71847 жыл бұрын

    so sweet my heart melts

  • @tanistylo1890
    @tanistylo18907 жыл бұрын

    Thank rinpoche it my karma that i found your videos it help me alot....thanks one again feeling blessing by you...

  • @jennifermoon620
    @jennifermoon6204 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rinpoche! You are inspiring and I adore your wonderful sense of humor! Namaste 💗🌈🙏🌈💗

  • @yogatron3290
    @yogatron32908 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for Sharing! I'm happy I found your Chanel! Just what I needed to hear today, positive message!

  • @goldenfuturestargeneraltra2706
    @goldenfuturestargeneraltra27065 жыл бұрын

    The world really needs such people more like him,

  • @dupthocwangmo1737
    @dupthocwangmo17377 жыл бұрын

    Perfect.....very simple and sweet

  • @saldonsonam3215
    @saldonsonam32153 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so kind you are giving us encouragement and compassion.

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc33445 жыл бұрын

    Thank You so much dearest 💐 You’re such an inspiration 🥰 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇

  • @bigfatdick5000
    @bigfatdick50007 жыл бұрын

    There's always a good way he demonstrates the teachings. Always interesting. :)

  • @AlanGonzalez-js5sy
    @AlanGonzalez-js5sy3 жыл бұрын

    I suffer most days with severe anxiety, but not when I listen to this wonderful man!

  • @mikealan2075
    @mikealan20754 жыл бұрын

    I love this Guy. The simplicity of the message and the way he explains it. Makes me smile.

  • @mynorlutin5104
    @mynorlutin51047 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR TEACHING!!! i have no words to discribe it..many thanks!

  • @nothing.lasts.forever
    @nothing.lasts.forever5 жыл бұрын

    I can convey only one thing to you, that is "Thank you" 🙏🙏

  • @ReverendJoanKistler
    @ReverendJoanKistler5 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video! As someone who struggled from panic attacks, I can verify that what he is saying is true. We can free ourselves from panic!

  • @vipultewariibm
    @vipultewariibm7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for such a beautiful thoughts and sharing your experience.

  • @damarcochambers5274
    @damarcochambers52746 жыл бұрын

    May God bless you. Thanks!

  • @laurashiatsu
    @laurashiatsu7 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @vijayendrachaudhary5693
    @vijayendrachaudhary56936 жыл бұрын

    Great video sir. Thank you

  • @ravenisabell9794
    @ravenisabell97946 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom😊💓

  • @Lava_Girl-
    @Lava_Girl-6 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness I feel like I needed to hear this today. Thankyou.

  • @like-icecream
    @like-icecream6 жыл бұрын

    I beat my anxiety and panic attacks when I read an article on the internet written by a female doctor who said something like it's physically impossible to have a panic attack if you don't breath in other words hold your breath until you feel your heart rate drop (for Gods sake don't hold your breath until you turn blue lol) it's not easy at first because you will feel anxiety and panic and holding your breath is the last thing on your mind but this is how you learn now some situations like having 10 coffees or running may make your heart beat fast and it's a recipe for a panic attack but even then fight them head on because your mind and fear is what caused them so say to yourself whatever happens they won't kill you and they happen only because I think it, it's these little barriers I created in my mind that ultimately stopped them now I think my life is 99% better although my life still sucks in other areas panic is not something that worries me anymore, I remember at one point I felt so happy because I actually wanted to have a panic attack to prove to myself I could handle it and I don't think I had one after that. And don't worry if this doesn't help you every panic attack you have you will live and learn to cope better even if you have them all your life which I think is impossible they will get easier and easier to deal with and the fear will be gone and the attacks will be gone, I promise you you may feel like you suffer now but you will get better soon just stay strong. We were not put on this earth to live a happy life, this life is a test for us all but for everyone the test is different and I think you can pass it easy so long as you just don't give up you will see.

  • @Victor-tm2bh

    @Victor-tm2bh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe that has worked for you but i would not take that advice since breath is the key in life. I dont think its because you hold your breath you relax its because you take your mind away from the Panic and focusing on the breath instead do the same but while breathing

  • @shyaaammeneen63

    @shyaaammeneen63

    3 жыл бұрын

    Meditation is the only way to permanent healing of any depression. Sit on a chair, close your eyes, be still and do alternate nostril breathing meditation for 5 to 10 minutes early morning and evening. First watch "alternate nostril breathing meditation" videos on you tube. Also try to observe your breath while inhaling and exhaling. Slowly the negative thoughts will reduce. Do the above practice daily. Best wishes--Shyaam--Life Coach

  • @sanskrutidas2965
    @sanskrutidas29654 жыл бұрын

    This is what has been happening in my head from a very long time. I get panicked and worried for no reason. Thank you for letting me know I'm not the only one and this can go away.

  • @gregpantelides1355
    @gregpantelides13552 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rinpoche!

  • @TheNikolaYo
    @TheNikolaYo7 жыл бұрын

    Such a great man,this helps alot,thank you very mutch.

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen6 жыл бұрын

    I love this video, such an inspiration and it reminds us that we are all in charge of our own happiness. And Mingyur is so nice to listen to :-) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

  • @matthewking8944

    @matthewking8944

    3 жыл бұрын

    i agree.xoxo.namate

  • @MrSridharMurthy
    @MrSridharMurthy7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ! You speech soooo much like the Dalai Lama ! God Bless !

  • @lungien8481
    @lungien84816 жыл бұрын

    thank you for this video❤ god blessed you.im saved

  • @algobo
    @algobo Жыл бұрын

    Amazing! I love the gossiping neurons example, so good! Fantastic, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!

  • @italocarvalho1030
    @italocarvalho10307 жыл бұрын

    Great guy, and so funny too! all the problems, depends of our point of view!

  • @koyel7961
    @koyel79616 жыл бұрын

    I am so much relaxed just hearing his voice and the way he talks ... So natural and soothing

  • @SalvatoreSapia
    @SalvatoreSapia2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you rinpoche for your teachings 🙏

  • @safourasalami
    @safourasalami5 жыл бұрын

    I ♡ you Mingyur !!! Thanks

  • @myforgottenlove5391
    @myforgottenlove53913 жыл бұрын

    I worry alot but, this advice has helped me move on from hard times. Thank you Rinpochie, for all you have given me!

  • @miuyiyuyo
    @miuyiyuyo3 жыл бұрын

    Anxiety comes when you want to control how fast things happens or not happens, the thing is, the only thing we can control its ourselvs and how we react to things that happens arround us, if you cant controll yourself what can you controll then?

  • @Rohitbhole1
    @Rohitbhole16 жыл бұрын

    I love this guy.. gives me shivers

  • @bensu8525
    @bensu85256 жыл бұрын

    I've got such a lovely vibration while you are talking. I send you my kindness and love! :)

  • @thanie18
    @thanie188 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video .. I have very bad anxiety and depression for 5 years now ♡

  • @ankitparihar6825

    @ankitparihar6825

    8 жыл бұрын

    Take care of ur self... Do meditation like 4-5 times a day....it really helps..:)

  • @thanie18

    @thanie18

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thanks ♡♡

  • @ankitparihar6825

    @ankitparihar6825

    8 жыл бұрын

    Where r u from thanie??

  • @sweetalmondnuts

    @sweetalmondnuts

    8 жыл бұрын

    How comes it's been only 5 years may I rudely ask

  • @thanie18

    @thanie18

    7 жыл бұрын

    Okay thanks ❤️😀😀

  • @DerMessiasderSatire
    @DerMessiasderSatire3 жыл бұрын

    A bit food for your mind: Is there really no pain when we are noy aware of it? I don't think so. Animals still feel pain, they just aren't aware of all the things that could possibly hurt them. In that sense, our awareness makes us suffer and, ironically, one might say, what helps us to get out of it is awareness of our over-awareness. As Mingyur says:"You recognise your own perception". That is for me the biggest problem. Thank you very much, Mingyur Rinpoche! 🙏🏻

  • @pushthetempo2

    @pushthetempo2

    3 жыл бұрын

    Animals don't suffer like we do because they live in the moment and have no concept of time, past or future. When two ducks have a fight, they swim away after and go back to normal, they don't complain and worry about it all day. Eckhart Tolle teaches this!

  • @MrOtis909
    @MrOtis9094 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for teaching me to be at peace with my thoughts.

  • @noneya9035
    @noneya90356 жыл бұрын

    I smiled, laughed and nodded in agreement the whole time... Thank you.

  • @papabear6204
    @papabear62047 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video. I developed a panic disorder with agoraphobia last year so I related to the "fear of panic" you mentioned. Was terrified to drive on highways or be in open environments. I feel that exercise, and meditation played the biggest roles in my recovery, as well as repeated exposure to my fears. Don't give up, anyone struggling, keep up with your meditation and healthy habits.

  • @Sexyguy8888

    @Sexyguy8888

    6 жыл бұрын

    Papa Bear how Long did it Last?

  • @otcreed

    @otcreed

    6 жыл бұрын

    Papa Bear hang in there... @pierre woodman you'll never know. And you don't have to. I spend 6 month of my life (and my family) wondering when will it ends, dont work. It only puts me on repetitive cycle. But when i let go and accept my harm ocd it becomes easier,tolerable. What ifs,oneday,someday... Just let it be, ride the waves and live. Live.

  • @youtrippin35
    @youtrippin355 жыл бұрын

    this is amazing making me consider on becoming a monk I have so many issues I just wanna get rid of em all

  • @kikifish8493
    @kikifish84937 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, your help has helped me with depression and panic.

  • @thiswaswrittenlike2102
    @thiswaswrittenlike21024 жыл бұрын

    Rinpoche, You are the best!

  • @LittleBirdsings1
    @LittleBirdsings14 жыл бұрын

    I laughed when he said “you feel like you’re very uglyyy.” 😂 he’s funny

  • @ismellrudolph
    @ismellrudolph6 жыл бұрын

    focus on the opposite of anxiety; peace, laughter, calmness and enjoyment

  • @Nahahya
    @Nahahya5 жыл бұрын

    Muchas gracias, por tus conocimientos y gran simpatía! Me ayudas mucho para elevar mi conciencia y conocer más mi pensamiento. Un abrazo

  • @gabriellejackson6327
    @gabriellejackson63273 жыл бұрын

    How brilliant and perceptive. Thank you. Very helpful