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I met my husband on Match back in 2020 and we were married in 2022. 🎉 He was my second date and we were both divorcees.

@andrea48103

8 ай бұрын

Congrats…did you follow most of the advice they discussed on Match to meet your hubby?

@Baja2424

7 ай бұрын

@@andrea48103they going through something right now that’s why she didn’t respond to you

@justmontina

6 ай бұрын

@@andrea48103 I updated my bio based on the dating coach and then listened to KS.

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

Ahmazing

@cia6566

19 күн бұрын

What website?

Please do not post photos of your children on a dating app. There are child predators everywhere especially online.

@kingmaafa120

Ай бұрын

Even without children PREDATORS LURKING 👍

I’m updating my dating app today with marriage, long term and commitment. Lesson learned.

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Let me know how it goes!

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

Yess

@byyvonnerenee

5 ай бұрын

I am actually considering using a dating app now. This was some great information shared here. If I do,I now know to say longterm partner and a couple of apps that should be good to use❤️💛

Oh I need this episode! Online dating is a whole science in itself! 😳

@AngelaBusi190

8 ай бұрын

Louder!!!!

@rlvaughn7855

8 ай бұрын

It's on youtube right now

@rlvaughn7855

8 ай бұрын

Yes

@msvanessa8640

8 ай бұрын

Yes it is

@thekelseymckinsey

8 ай бұрын

That part… bc dating apps is crazyyy

This was needed. So I'm going to pray over my notes to God and see if He wants me to go back on dating apps

@Damareonblack-wx5bg

8 ай бұрын

God and see if he wants

@sherrynelson365

8 ай бұрын

Don’t do it Sis

@dondrell5033

8 ай бұрын

As a bro this a lot for apps. I agree praying with my notes also. The lord have way of sending the right person because the apps X. Lol

@TL-kt2ye

8 ай бұрын

​@dondrell5033 did you get back on?👀

@GnosticCushite

4 ай бұрын

Bro, I'm 6'5, athletic, I have my own place, I have a good, stable, blue collar job and even I couldn't get decent matches when I was using the dating apps. Bro, stay off the dating apps if you value your sanity!​@@dondrell5033

I like this coach! She's straight to the point. Bring her back for a live.

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

thank you! ill be back soon. Feel free to check out more content like this on my KZread channel!

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

Right. I remember her being on Tonight's Conversation

I met my husband on hinge February 2021, I was engaged by June and married in October. We now have two kids ;).

“Wow she looks exactly like the photos!” OR “Wow she looks even better than the photos!!” ❤

I am a purpose and relationship coach teaching Christian single women how to date with confidence and cultivate relationships that lead to marriage. I'm also married. It does matter if your coach is married or not! I met my hubby online and these strategies are 🔥🔥. Helpful for me as I coach. I focus on more than just dating but preparing to be someones wife. Loved this convo!! Sis, holla at me if you need anything!

@justmontina

8 ай бұрын

I think your mission is awesome! I don’t do this for a living, but more for fun and sharing my experiences with women over 40. Let’s see if there’s some synergies and connect.

@smf427

8 ай бұрын

Whenever is see ppl talk about Christian dating . .. I automatically think about a group of ppl who are lying about their core beliefs. Dating for most ppl are having sex 1 or multiple ppl while they’re trying to figure out if this is someone who I want to marry. Dating isn’t biblical. Do you teach celibacy/abstinence while dating as well?

@crespeakslife

8 ай бұрын

@@justmontina i would love to connect!

@crespeakslife

8 ай бұрын

@@justmontina what's your IG?

@crespeakslife

8 ай бұрын

@@smf427 hey sis! Yes, I do. I am so tired of other Christian dating experts doing this. I don't like the whole "try before you buy" concept. I think they want to fit what the world says to gain influence. I myself, was a virgin before marriage. My coaching and strategy session also deal with the woman as a whole. I want you be married but can you truly say you are ready to invite someone into your life? We talk about "work" before marriage. I can help. My hubby and I have a podcast on my channel encouraging and supporting singles.

Wow! @alignwithalison is definitely a wife. She presents respectfully, no provocative blouse or dress light make-up, no suffaluffagus eye lashes, no extra long finger nails and she is very articulate. You can actually see her and not her body. This is what guys mean when we say we like our women "natural". Way to represent your husband respectfully. Much success to you! Keep coaching with purpose.🙏🏿👍🏿

@thanks2ugod

5 ай бұрын

I agree! Yes! She walks the talk!

Positioning yourself in dating Creating an attractive dating profile Choosing the right photos- 6 PHOTOS- head shot- full body presentable attire, form fitting but not skimpy- action photos with personal interests Presenting yourself on social media Crafting effective dating profile Paying for the App & setting Giving profile advice Having fun and being honest Managing interactions on dating apps Utilizing dating apps The number one dating app To finish the date or walk away Applying immediate game

@shawnwashington1778

7 ай бұрын

Thanks!

I thoroughly enjoyed listening to her. She came prepared. She was wise and knowledgeable. She has done her homework, research (I'm sure thru personal experience as well) and was very easy to understand. I'm like, "Is she a preacher and/or teacher???" Kudos to this queen 👸🏾 👏🏽

@janicelewis9474

6 ай бұрын

😊😊

I disagree with her saying men should not put in their occupation, that leads to a waste of time. I skip those.

@mistahjay8598

8 ай бұрын

Why cause you looking for man who gon spend that bread huh, 😂see you looking for a man for all the wrong reasons, you should be focused on his character, not his cash, the occupation shouldn't matter.

@nikki7168

8 ай бұрын

I have a tendency to do the same. Unless through the pics and stuff I can discern something ❤

@nikki7168

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 it does matter for whether or not you feel you can support and be of service to that person's purpose. Occupation says a lot about lifestyle and availability. Entrepreneurs/people with transient jobs (i.e. trucking or something like that might require a lot of travel) may not be ideal for someone who prefers to be stationary with a lot of quality time.

@ElizabethHernandez-dg1jl

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 Someone like you would assume that! I have a REAL career, building for many years and title starts with Senior xxxx😅. I don’t need nobody’s bread. But if I’m going to be in a traditional relationship, homeschooling and all, I need to know what I’m getting myself into, there’s a lot of unemployed people claiming they have a business. Even if not traditional, I still want to homeschool and move out of the big city, some jobs may not allow that. A firefighter making $120 may not do it for me because he may not want to move out, job is niche. But a nurse (job on demand) making $50 will work. I am crystal clear on the life and family I want to have. You keep judging out here and protecting the money you don’t have😃.

@SE-gs6gd

8 ай бұрын

Not having an occupation listed is a red flag to me too. If you're unemployed you should say that and explain what you're trying to do in your profile...I'm trying to start my own business, I'm going back to school etc. Being deceptive about something so basic is a problem.

My fiancé *FOUND*me, a year after my divorce. When I HEALED & stopped operating out of a state of desperation GOD sent him to me. Sometimes when you stop looking & focus on you, it’ll come right to YOU. Plus it makes more sense bc the Bible say HE who finds a wife finds a good thing.

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

That's great. Where did you guys meet

Im over the "Good Morning Beautiful", WYD, What you cooking??? Uugghh 😂

@cakesinthecity

8 ай бұрын

Right 😂

@michellejessey8654

3 ай бұрын

What you cooking is the worst

I think we need male guest to speak on this. Curious to know what different men think about dating apps and the guys that are serious what they look for on the apps

@FeM_ny

8 ай бұрын

Good point.

@asdfdc1946

7 ай бұрын

good men don't go on dating apps. you won't find them on there. one because if they're good, they will be taken & two, women have FAR MORE options than men. your average woman has more options than the average male celebrity. so its actually pointless for men to be on dating apps. especially when men know that 80% of women are swiping right on the top 10% of men & swiping left on everybody else... while 90% of the guys are just swiping right on everybody hoping to get a single match. to put it in perspective, the average woman will get 50-100 matches in a week & may even be able to schedule a handful of dates off of those matches, while a man will be lucky to get one or two matches & those 2 that match will ignore him when he messages them, even after they matched... the women will just match for a confidence boost & then never message him. thats the difference between dating as a man & a woman. the smarter men know this & simply avoid dating apps altogether. its a waste of time for them.

@liabw05

3 ай бұрын

I met my current boyfriend on a dating app and he’s the best man I’ve ever met and dated

@jaysonbourne8841

3 ай бұрын

For real because... I need some internet game🤦🏿‍♂️😂

A guy I dated told me his story about a lady he met and fell in love with a woman over her picture and had spent 15-20hrs in conversation before meeting her. Two weeks later, he drove the 300 miles to meet her. He planned to marry her as soon as he saw her. When he got to her house, she was 100lbs heavier, claimed to be an attorney, forgot to mention she was a serious hoarder AND SHE turned out to be a HE! He’s from a small town and she lives in a major metropolitan city. He told her he forgot something in his car and drove back 300 miles! She blew up his phone for two or more hours with no response. He, of course, blocked her number and that was that.

@quronicamabry2555

8 ай бұрын

Crazy something similar happened to me but it was in the same town

@linp5045

8 ай бұрын

😲 glad it ended safely for everyone involved

@mimisibz1278

8 ай бұрын

This video provides great tips. I agree with her on not doing long distance unless its someone you have dated for a while in the same city. Honestly, like the coach in this video recommended, he should have done video call especially for a 300mile drive. There are so many apps that support this: whatsapp, Google Meet, Facebook messenger, skype...I guess in 2023, we should now also ask people their assigned sex at birth. 😒

@awillis244

8 ай бұрын

WOW!

@olaines9154

8 ай бұрын

I would have liked to see that on Catfish lol

"Give it a try, you will not die..." I decided to do this about a month ago! This entire intro gave me goosebumps. Love this...rewounded and shared!! 💎💎💎💎💎💎

Yes mam. I was on dating app and the man has on a towel only in one of his photo, that immediately gave me red flag signal. Thanks for all this good advise cause be single out here is a hard knock life. I just rather stay single. I don't have time for these games!

I’ve met men on dating apps that turned out to be good friends.

@TL-kt2ye

8 ай бұрын

WHAT SITES??? 👀

Loved this topic and your guest Alison who dropped exquisite game on how to manage dating apps and our profile. I am so glad you are asking her to come back again. Please ask Alison next time how to weed out the dangerous men who are lying to women. I am thinking of men who target women and lie in order to meet their own agenda such as pedophiles who target single moms to abuse their children, serial murderers, rapists, players, men with STDs, drug addicts, alcoholics, gamblers, married men or men who are in committed relationships, men who are hiding their true sexual orientation of being gay or bisexual (aka down low men) (my friend divorced her husband because he used her to hide the fact that he is actually gay and was having sex with various men), etc., etc., etc. Men lie so much about their age and height on dating apps. How can women address this issue with men to determine the truth? Men have no idea how much women fear being on dating apps due to authentic safety concerns. Alison said we need to keep our bios to 6 sentences, but she only helped us with the first sentence. What should the topics be for the other 5 sentences? If I think of more questions, I will add more posts.

@PrinceInawRakah

8 ай бұрын

I here you sis.. and this is unusual to me, being that Ive been married for 5 yrs.. and don’t use dating apps.. heres my question. Women tend to not look like themselves period after they remove makeup and extensions… what’s the issue there?

@Pheonix1111

8 ай бұрын

@@PrinceInawRakah I think their goal is to look their best, but most women are truly not intentionally trying to deceive men about their looks. Around the world, men are pressured to become rich and women are pressured to be beautiful. So the beauty industry uses this fact to prey upon women to enhance their looks. Beautiful women get whatever they want in life. All doors are opened up for them automatically. Unattractive women are immediately rejected and shunned by everyone, and they are extremely lonely. At least unattractive men who are wealthy can get married and avoid loneliness. Elon Musk is one example. Beauty for women and money for men is the doorway to human connections. Being unattractive for women and poverty plus being unattractive for men is the doorway to lifelong loneliness. At least attractive poor men can still get married. Only gold digger men would marry unattractive rich women, but they would probably cheat. Sorry, I do not understand more than what I wrote above. I have never worn make up, used hair extensions, etc.

@Anna-st5dm

8 ай бұрын

⁠@@PrinceInawRakahbeing happily married for 5 years, why are you concerned? She’s on the dating market. She has genuine concerns about pedophiles, being sa’d, and lied to about STDs. Health and safety concerns. You’re concerned about hair and makeup on women you’re allegedly not looking for. I’m confused.

Nope the man, you attract the wrong man when you are being the provider. Real men want to provide, protect, and pursue

Upward dating app targeted for Christians. I’m currently 5 weeks in on a connection and it’s going quite well. I loved all that she shared, however, I do pray I don’t need to return to these apps! 🙏🏾

@user-mz3ii2cr2u

8 ай бұрын

are people saved on there

@sonjamoore5467

8 ай бұрын

@@user-mz3ii2cr2u I am 😂! Truth is you must vet those you connect with.

@Baja2424

7 ай бұрын

@@user-mz3ii2cr2unope

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

That's great😊

@jessicahitchens6926

2 ай бұрын

The likelihood is you will be returning unfortunately. It's a revolving door by design for the majority of people. It's a businesses. Doesn't matter which app or anything online.

Working in healthcare you will be surprised how many people don't know their actual height. Height is minor, but age is major to me.

I've been off of online dating due to disappointments and meeting counterfeits. Looking forward to what I've done wrong loll

@fbzzzy

8 ай бұрын

Are you going back to online dating?

@hurtingfeelingsdaily

8 ай бұрын

Youve done nothing wrong. Most of those apps are full of married men. Those appa are 75 to 80 percent male. Youd do better to meet people out and about. Too many liars time wasters and game players on those apps.

@jessicahitchens6926

2 ай бұрын

This is basic information. That she is stating in the video. Online dating or anything online when it comes to seeking a serious relationships is a waste of your time.

I just edited my profile.. let's see how it goes 😊. Thanks for the tips.

Meeting people online can be fun with open heart and mind. It can be disappointing when going online "hungry". When living a purpose driven life, online dating apps is just another avenue to meet people. Great online profile/bio tips from this young oozing with confidence woman! Her energy is contagious! Thanks HI Tysean and Ryan for what you do. Be blessed.

I think all this dating app mess needs to be shutdown!! We all need to go back to the old days when folks met each other at the mall, movies, walking down the street etc... Nowadays it's weird!! How and when did this mess become the norm?!! It's just foolishness.

@chavala3140

7 ай бұрын

I agree but I feel we're so so long gone...

@Baja2424

7 ай бұрын

Yep

Watching this 5 months later made me go online and sign up while listening. This was really good

30:04 😂lol “you need to be on INDEED”

I was literally taking those throughout this whole episode. I’m really considering getting back on dating apps again. Thank you so much.

Online dating is so overwhelming and so much work trying to find the right one from all the junk you get hit on. I learn something on here today so I will try these tips.

@awillis244

8 ай бұрын

Whatcha learn?

@Maya38438

8 ай бұрын

@@awillis244 to start with be specific what you want in your profile like marriage etc

@msm3668

8 ай бұрын

Online dating can be just as a dangerous playing field as conventional dating. Supermarkets and malls are a tad better. But, 'referrals' are best. Edit: In my most humble opinion, I believe working on oneself to become what/who it is you may be looking for or may be attracted to is essential; someone with self respect, has integrity, is courteous and considerate. Someone whom you should hope to become. Healing from previous relationships and loving yourself in ways that are noticeable WILL attract like-kind individuals...generally. Having expectations that are too high for a person on your perspective level of 'readiness' may cause one to miss out on an ideal mate.

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

I'm on a break cuz it emotionally drained me

I met one guy about a year ago tell me he was 57, met up and I realized he was older. 2nd date I asked him his age, he didn't want to tell me until the next date. 3rd date, he finally told me he was 72. I'm 47.

@mistahjay8598

8 ай бұрын

But did he look it, you know black to crack 😂

@mistahjay8598

8 ай бұрын

You also might have missed out on yo policy blessing 😂

@k_serenity10

8 ай бұрын

Geez!🤦🏽‍♀️

@KJ-my8ow

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 🤣🤣🤣

@KJ-my8ow

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 He looked it and walked it too.

Marriage is not a flex. A healthy marriage is. At least for me because I've been there and done that. Nonetheless, very good points made.

I am abstinence and no masterbation ,but it's was a process and only with the holy spirit I can achieve this .

@mistahjay8598

8 ай бұрын

So now that pookie and ray ray got it before hand, you expect the Good man to come along and wait 😂😂

@jacquelinewashington9501

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 I have been married for 17 years and had my kids and is not looking for no man period . I am divorced not single I don't want no kind of relationship from no man and I'm not dating .but if I decide to he will be biracial like my ex husband period . Not in no relationship and don't want none 😂 but l types of other races like me are interested but not right now been married already done that .periodddddd

@jacquelinewashington9501

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 and I don't date pokie and ray ray s my preference is biracial men Latinos and Cubans my grandparents are Cuban and mixed race thats my preference no pookies and ray rays lol

@jacquelinewashington9501

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 I'm divorced my husband is biracial was married 17 years been there done that never waiting on a pokie or ray ray they never had sex with me my husband is mixed race I guess you mean Brad with some mix 😂

@jacquelinewashington9501

8 ай бұрын

@@mistahjay8598 don't want no relationship with these narcissist demonic demons . No kind of relationship with them dogs . I'm at peace ✌

Omg! People, you’re GOLD! I am going through beginning of my dating phase, and I can tell it’s BRUTAL! The expert is so right, don’t entertain a guy who has no interest in a woman.

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! feel free to check out more content around dating on my YT channel

When I first went on a online dating site (a paid platform) It was a instant turn off to see men profile pictures with their shirt off or if the majority of their pictures they had a drink in their hand.

Loved it, but I wish they had discussed when men give their number instead of asking for your number. That is a turnoff to me, making me feel like I am pursuing him to call him first.

@sonjadf47

8 ай бұрын

I have one better. A man told me to call him to make the first date! I said no, but he insisted. I never made that call…next!😂

@justmontina

8 ай бұрын

My husband gave me his number first and I just responded with mine and he told me that he would text me after he mopped his floors. It’s that simple.

@shakyfrazer8127

7 ай бұрын

When they do that im bold n tell them i never initiate contact to a man

@liabw05

3 ай бұрын

I would immediately text back and thank him for sharing his number and tell him to reach out if he’d like to continue talking.

This is why we are having many relationships breaking down because we require perfection from the start. Our grand parents and parents met their partners when they were broke... but those relationships were till death. If this new person has never seen you sick or broke, you have no business talking about marriage. They have to be able to see your not so pretty side and still want to be with you. Otherwise the way you chew is reason enough to end the relationship.

@bdott1538

8 ай бұрын

This means making sure young men AND women are ready to be married in their twenties. Because if one person is broke while the other is in the middle of their career, this can set up some toxic environments. Growing together isn’t a problem. But trying to grow someone, bc you’re so far ahead, is.

@jas1565

8 ай бұрын

Women couldn't even work and were stuck in marriages they didn't want to be in because of it. Stop using our grandparents as an example when half of them were miserable.

@PrinceInawRakah

8 ай бұрын

The highest divorce rates are lesbian couples.. I believe they’re at a 76% divorce rate.. highest domestic violence rates as well, sisters.. Not bashing women, that’s note worthy.. Now check this out… the average time of a black marriage is 5 yrs.. our marriage rates have dropped 50% in the last 65 yrs.. over 70% of black children are raised by single mothers.. and they’re raising boys.. Y’all see the correlation? Brothers are being raised by women and they are raised with the mentality of the BW.. creating lesbian-like relationship dynamics.. The boys are emotional.. flighty and indecisive.. narcissistic.. impulsive.. obsessed with consumerism (cloths, bags, shoes, jewelry).. they hate male authority.. they hate correction.. etc.. So being that the BW has lived in this dynamic for the last couple decades.. they have no respect for their male counterparts.. making it IMPOSSIBLE for them to pair.. because they don’t respect men.. and if they do, for superficial reasons. On the flip side., when BW marry wm, according to the handful of those marriages, they stay together longer.. So the BW can override her disrespectful nature that she has around the BM.. and adjust to be with a wm.. why? Because her and the wm have the same nemesis.. the BM.. and their relationship is fueled by the desire to humble him.. and the BW doesn’t care as much about the wm’s money or looks.. they have a common mission and a common enemy.. Y’all may not have made it this far but the point is.. many BM don’t like BW as ppl (still attracted to them tho) because of their upbringing.. and BW don’t like BM.. because he’s just like her, psychologically.. Idk what mechanism outside of The LORDs instructions that can fix this mess.. so it looks like The LORD is who we must seek to bridge this gap. Y’all sisters say y’all Christians so this should be an easy concept to grasp ❤ #unsolicitedtruth

@chimenedjousse2273

8 ай бұрын

I am a widow I meet my husband we were broke buil together and later what he did put everything in trash by teaching with other girls but coronavirus gave him his karma very quick today I have my peace

@shakyfrazer8127

7 ай бұрын

@@chimenedjousse2273 wow this is funny 😄 😆

This was too short. Alison is amazing and dropped some gems. Thank you.

@mariannepanlilio1614

8 ай бұрын

I used Facebook dating, Hinge and BLK

@alignwithalison

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I use Bumble and Match. In the past, I've used Plenty of Fish, Interracial Dating Central, BLK, Black People Meet (old school😅), and some more that I can't remember. Here I am 14 years later and still single. 😢

@erieb720

8 ай бұрын

It's like finding a needle in a haystack.

@TL-kt2ye

8 ай бұрын

#thatpart

@Baja2424

7 ай бұрын

Cause your picky

Whew! When she said we need to do better with rejection 🎤🎤🎤

Oh no it’s so important that we put on our profiles what we do. There are professions or job types I will not date for valid reasons and it doesn’t matter how cute he is or how attractive his personality is.

@Baja2424

7 ай бұрын

Your right

Great episode! If you’re over 40 be very intentional because there are less men in the pool for you to choose from. Engage with men that message you and seem a little bit interested.

@mkharris531

8 ай бұрын

I'm over 50 and state what I'm looking for. 90% of Men don't read

This was awesome! I have been feeling very intimidated with going in a dating app. I know I need to expand my dating pool, and this has given me the confidence to move forward. I feel empowered and have valuable tips to also keep me safe. Thank you, thank you!!

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you! I'll be back soon. Feel free to check out more content like this on my KZread channel!

This was a great interview with actually useful info. Looks like you also have some other good content. Subbed!

I really enjoyed watching this and took a lot of mental notes. It was refreshing to see mature adults having a healthy conversation about dating with unbiased advice. Thanks Alison!

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you! I'll be back soon. Feel free to check out more content like this on my KZread channel!

I would be testing Ryan's boundaries lol. Love his voice, n he is the smoothest, well-spoken.

Yes I met a guy on an app he said he was 5’11” and he was 5’1 I tried but I couldn’t and he was hurt but he lied he was a little person 😢

@linp5045

8 ай бұрын

Wow, that's a huge difference. I guess he could always say the extra 1 was a typo.

@POOLIN751

8 ай бұрын

Maybe it was a typo… 😬

@Micheleb21

8 ай бұрын

@@POOLIN751 nope he lied lol

A fantastic MASTERCLASS!!! Really learned a lot. Thank you.

Crazy times. You get fit, work on yourself, great career as an engineer, but without a proper digital image they don't care. I can only adapt!🤷🏿‍♂️

@patriciathompson7666

8 ай бұрын

I agree… crazy times

@ScissorN

8 ай бұрын

😂

@bdott1538

8 ай бұрын

Digital dating is especially hard for men bc dating apps have way more men on them than women, and women have to sift through tons of dudes using mostly photos as the rubric. I feel like a man like yourself may fare better with a matchmaker. It costs more upfront, but all of who you are will be taken into account when the matchmaker sets you up on a date. In any case, good luck to you.

@zero1188

8 ай бұрын

You make no sense. If you work on yourself and have a great career but dress like your homeless, it would be hard to sell that you are not homless lmao

@polescodes

2 ай бұрын

lol what’s your socials?

Loved it! Definitely re-watching. She need to come on a LIVE show with a male guest.

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Ill be back, Thank you!

I hate when men lie about their height and fitness level😐

Alison is the GOAT!! I found your page on IG and chose this video bc she was featured and it did not disappoint!! LOVE LOVE LOVE this content!!

If I see a shirtless pic or an obvious flex on a dating app I assume the guy is not serious lol

No to dating apps.

@kingmaafa120

Ай бұрын

Facts

This was great information! Thank you for this episode.

Wow. So needed! Thank you so much. I suggest a part 2. All the way from South Africa

Wow, she is AMAZING!!!! I am now a fan for sure!! Please have her back!!! Xoxo Nikki 💋

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation!!! Im ready to go back into the dating game and a lot of deep game was shared. Im optimistic now!

@9jachic

7 ай бұрын

Me too! She made me want to get back on with these tools.

This is probably my favorite episode so far!

Great video! Definitely needed to hear some of this

The dude in the black shirt is so level headed, i hope men and boys take his advice ❤

I’ve never tried Dating Apps… My friends say I should. I’m scared!😩😅

@crespeakslife

8 ай бұрын

Do it!!!

@charmece_me

8 ай бұрын

@@crespeakslife I’m thinking about it 😬

@Jammastertay

8 ай бұрын

I was as well, I recently got off but my experience was a lot better this time around since my focus and intent was more clear.

@crespeakslife

8 ай бұрын

@@charmece_me well if ever you need some help. I can, just launched my Dating with Confidence and Clarity Strategy Sessions. Game Changer for my clients

@crespeakslife

8 ай бұрын

@@Jammastertay just launched my Dating with Clarity and Confidence sessions. Would love to work with you.

This has helped me so much!! I know better in the next 9 Mons when I am ready again

I love her dating advice! The only thing I won’t do is give someone my number until after we meet in person. I’m not looking for text buddies and we can just message on the app.

@flordelis9649

8 ай бұрын

This is the same thing I do to my surprise most men find this weird😶.

@HisGraceIsSufficient555

8 ай бұрын

@@flordelis9649They probably do that to make you second guess your boundary of not giving out your number until you feel comfortable.

@justmontina

8 ай бұрын

So you’d rather meet a person in person and then give them your phone number? I think most men would think that’s weird too. I met my husband on match and he gave me his phone number and then I texted mine back.

@sherondahi11

8 ай бұрын

If you are on Instagram, she touch on texting recently. She said if the conversation is not progressing, meaning he hasn’t called you within 3 days or asked you on a date with a two weeks or less time frame of getting your number. The guy is not serious and move on. (I’m paraphrasing her advice but hope this helps you) 💚

@HisGraceIsSufficient555

8 ай бұрын

@@justmontina yes because I personally can discern more when I see a person in person. And especially if you’re doing online dating where you will probably have more conversation as your trying to find someone that you are truly interested in, so for me I wouldn’t want to have a bunch of random men having my phone number.

You deserve every good thing coming your way

I always look better than my photos

Great video and yes please have Allison come back! ❤

Her conversations flow like water with swagg additives

Wish this episode came out 8 months ago when i rejoined dating apps. Im fatigued out 😪 by the stagnant conversations I've been having with these men and decided to delete the apps 2 weeks ago

@MeekahLynne

7 ай бұрын

Right there with you. It feels defeating and honestly boring. Have you had any change of “luck” since your original comment?

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

its been a month, The break is over! Girl get up!

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

I stopped back in December. I was on Hinge for six months and didn't find anyone that I was interested in and didn't even get a date. I am currently taking a break. I am focusing on single in person events and meet up groups. I miss meeting people authentically

I need someone here to talk for the non religious folks like me lol. Everyone not a Christian. ❤

Great information I learned a lot and we will see how this works for me. Thank you 🙏🏾

This was so good! But I was waiting for her to answer the questions to ask on the date to make sure things along 🥺😣

This lady has dropped some real gems here. Lover her personality and deliverance 👌👌👌👏👏👏

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Alison gave some great advice. I'm going to change my dating profile. 😊

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

any updates ???

@gretablackwood

6 ай бұрын

@@alignwithalison I was on Bumble and Match when I watched this video. I updated my profile based on what you said but I don't think the men read what I wrote. They just looked at the pictures. I'm 60 and I got hundreds of likes. It's overwhelming. I paid for Bumble then deleted because it was too much. I haven't paid for Match because I've been on and off of it for many years. I'm tired of giving them all my money. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I have over 300 likes sitting there and over 1000 views on Match but I can't see who they are. My problem is that I live in a place where there aren't many Black men. The men who "liked" me are far away. I don't know how to navigate that. I've met men in the past who live far away and have been flewed out at my old age. 😁 But I hate getting there and having no chemistry. It's a waste of our time and his money. I've been single for 14 years. I'm frustrated and tired.

@gretablackwood

6 ай бұрын

@@alignwithalison I'm on Black People Meet now and I'm paying. Same people on there from 10 years ago with the same pictures. They're all far away too. 😔

I very much appreciate this one. Thank you so much and please have her back asap!😊

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you! I'll be back!

Great video!!👏🏾

I don’t agree with dating apps most Men on there are married or not quality Men period

@melmel4029

7 ай бұрын

Or let's talk about the scammers out here. Will say anything they want you to hear, then try to con you into some bullish👀😠

@Baja2424

7 ай бұрын

The woman on there are bad too most just want money for sex and scammers etc

Enjoyed this ❤

Very good episode. Thanks for this. Not currently on dating apps but may give it another try 😊

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

any updates?

@shareenladd1048

6 ай бұрын

@@alignwithalison omg so funny you reply that because my cousin was just asking me, have I been on any dating apps. And sadly no 🤦🏾‍♀️. I honestly forgot to do that.

You are doing a great job you two

This was excellent!

She is the mfkn truthhhh! Love how she backs up her knowledge.

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you!

This was amazing and offered solutions. Thank you for this!

It was really helpful, thanks

This is amazing!!!

Love this!

Very good advice!

So many gems were dropped😮‍💨💎💯

Am watching this 5 months down the line honesty straight to the point on what you want. Other man label you to the other woman of your race or nationality that they have come across and think you are the same.

I think one big reason I find it hard to date non-black men, is the fact that if we get married, how will I explain to my child(ren) their mixed culture in a way of not offending my white/asian/indian husband. It seems like a stressful thing to do

@kingmaafa120

Ай бұрын

Thank you

@kingmaafa120

Ай бұрын

You married now or in relationships?

Great conversation all and all.

This was Sooooo good Thank you

This was a great information.

It’s best to meet people organically. It’s very rare for someone to meet and actually marry someone they met online. Plus, you can’t feel someone’s spirit through a screen.

@missm472

7 ай бұрын

It’s actually not rare. Depends on where you live. If you live in the dmv, it’s very common.

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

not rare at all. Half of marriages in 2022 come from dating apps!

@livinmabestlife

5 ай бұрын

Wrong

@kisht7469

5 ай бұрын

@@alignwithalison That’s a lie!

The thing is, a woman ought not to be “looking” for a man. Let men do the looking and, as a woman of value, either reject or approve of the men who approach.

@thedojoofmanhood2136

7 ай бұрын

Most women never get "approached by the guy they want" though. Plus, guys have more options now than before, so it seems like women have to meet halfway

@servmlrcc

7 ай бұрын

Why can't women approach?

@thedojoofmanhood2136

7 ай бұрын

@servmlrcc most are lazy then complain about the guys who do approach them. It ain't the 1920s, women need to put in more effort

@shakyfrazer8127

7 ай бұрын

​@@servmlrccbecause naturally men are hunters

@shakyfrazer8127

7 ай бұрын

​@@thedojoofmanhood2136women are suppose to reciprocate

This episode was soooo good. There should be way more views!!!!

My girl Allison on here!!! 👏🏽 🎉

@alignwithalison

6 ай бұрын

Thank you boo!