Three tech tricks romance scammers use

Romance scammers use more than sweet talk to lure their victims in. They also look for ways to use technology against you -- to trick you into falling in love with a fake. Here are three tech tricks romance scammers use.
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  • @annettefowler3118
    @annettefowler31182 жыл бұрын

    Normal people aren't going to share bank log ins with someone they've never met

  • @africa_everyday

    @africa_everyday

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @norlavine

    @norlavine

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@africa_everyday Ditto

  • @debbiebland567

    @debbiebland567

    9 ай бұрын

    Amen to that!

  • @elizabethramsey4245

    @elizabethramsey4245

    8 ай бұрын

    Bullshit, when u r in love and trust someone, u will do it for them. You've never been scammed by a talented con artist!!

  • @tonyhudson8698

    @tonyhudson8698

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@elizabethramsey4245 Hun, how can you Love someone you have never met.. Never held, never hugged, never kissed, never shaken their hand.. THEY tell you things you WANT TO HEAR, but in the end you fail to understand that they are Con artists.. TOO YOU PERSONALLY I wish that you can Heal . Cheers from NEW ZEALAND.. Ps, we have not met.. We will probably Never met, so when I say HUGS to you, I mean Hug YOURSELF from me..

  • @lemoncrinckles
    @lemoncrinckles2 жыл бұрын

    NEVER send money to a stranger. Never.

  • @barkz2265

    @barkz2265

    2 жыл бұрын

    Especially a multi millionaire

  • @toosexy7955

    @toosexy7955

    Жыл бұрын

    @@barkz2265 But they can't get to their Bank Account...lol

  • @jennifervaughn1541

    @jennifervaughn1541

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem is they never feel like a stranger but rather your best friend or your lover

  • @tonyhudson8698

    @tonyhudson8698

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@jennifervaughn1541 They can't be YOUR Lover if you have NEVER MET.. Don't sent money.. Don't INVEST MONEY online..Go to the Bank.. If you have a BIG balance, ask for Advice on investing.. GREED will distory You, not them..

  • @sheraarehs
    @sheraarehs2 жыл бұрын

    I always ask if they will meet for coffee at a public place then wait for the excuses. If I get excuses that they can't meet in person in public then I block them.

  • @johnballard6725

    @johnballard6725

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes if the new possible date won't meet in person at a public place within a short period of time they are probably scammers so block them immediately.

  • @debmccafferty1007
    @debmccafferty10072 жыл бұрын

    My failed oil rig scammer showed me a bank account with $6M in it and told me to help myself. LOL. Whoops --account froze at sea and needed a lil $30K "loan" to continue purchasing supplies. Did not want me to tell anyone about our "relationship." Never send a stranger money.

  • @toosexy7955

    @toosexy7955

    Жыл бұрын

    DID YOU EAT & ARE YOU ALONE?

  • @juliemizrahi8133
    @juliemizrahi81332 жыл бұрын

    Noooo they didn't get smarter we got dumber, who in the right mind will think that a millionaire is asking a stranger for money dump, dump dump.

  • @angelmission
    @angelmission2 жыл бұрын

    They can use all the tech they want, but when they start to get you to log into their accounts and ask you for thousands of dollars, GET A CLUE! They aren't getting smarter, there are just some very naive and desperate people in the world.

  • @oleggorky906

    @oleggorky906

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s true. I knew a woman who got taken in but her problem was herself; she just wouldn’t listen when people tried to give her a reality check. She was religious but in one of those unaccountable and unbalanced groups and she would say things to her friends like she was ‘in the spirit’ and that they were ‘worldly’ and ‘carnal’ and all that. She almost had her own language and she didn’t speak like normal people, she just confused them, quoting Biblical verses, but it’s obvious that she didn’t really know what they meant because she was usually always quoting out of context, yet believing herself to be super spiritual. In the end she felt foolish when it all fell through and she had pissed all her friends off but there was nothing that you could do because when she was on line she would try to find her old friends but keep slipping back into this over the top spiritual persona and it pushed people away. In the end as much as he was a rat 🐀 it was her own arrogance and pride that was her downfall.

  • @christineoleary3862
    @christineoleary38622 жыл бұрын

    This is not a ‘sophisticated scam’ at all. Its pretty standard I would say. The shocking thing to me is WHY on earth would you send anyone that they don’t know from a bar of soap, money? These victims seem to justify their behaviour by saying the scammers are ‘intelligent’ or ‘sophisticated’. There is ONLY one simple rule. Do not send money.

  • @patriciamcdermott9589

    @patriciamcdermott9589

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly. they aren't sophisticated or smart. desperate people choose to ignore all the simple warning signs and fall for all that ridiculous love bombing. still.. no matter what is sad or what they show you (pictures don't mean shit, they are all stolen from someone else).. don't send money to people!!! you will never get scammed if you never send money because that is all they care about and if they aren't getting it then they disappear. it really is that simple.

  • @toosexy7955

    @toosexy7955

    Жыл бұрын

    @@patriciamcdermott9589 My scammer was grooming me, (he thought) & it took months, then he was in for the kill, wanted $25.000.00 to get from Syria Damascus to USA..DAMN, I know everything has gone up but a plane fair? - & NO he didn't get a red penny!, I told him to go "JERK OFF"

  • @marymedford6771

    @marymedford6771

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree! They’ve said the scammer stole their money, when in fact, they simply gave it away.

  • @sharmainee.3845

    @sharmainee.3845

    Жыл бұрын

    Never send anyone you don't know money.

  • @LetsTravelThisYear
    @LetsTravelThisYear Жыл бұрын

    Nice people get scammed because they think ALL other people are nice. They just need to be made of aware that this goes on. Spread the word to every one.

  • @xjssts7127

    @xjssts7127

    10 ай бұрын

    I love your comment because it's true.

  • @Lucapascale

    @Lucapascale

    7 ай бұрын

    NO. People get scammed because they can´t stand being alone.

  • @leigh310

    @leigh310

    26 күн бұрын

    People who treat scam victims hardhly have not been ever talked to by real scammer. These scammers have gone to trainings and work in groups. They know exactly how to manipulate women.

  • @bigd9526
    @bigd95262 жыл бұрын

    Bottom line if we can't physically meet then we can't even talk anymore

  • @vickygraham2444
    @vickygraham24442 жыл бұрын

    If an online romance can't meet in person within 2 weeks, ghost them

  • @fayeking5066

    @fayeking5066

    Жыл бұрын

    Meet or delete

  • @donnahilton471

    @donnahilton471

    Жыл бұрын

    Too late, once you friend them, they've gotten into your account, anyway! Don't friend anybody you don't know.

  • @larryharry9129

    @larryharry9129

    9 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @Drogal976

    @Drogal976

    6 ай бұрын

    I learned my lesson after I realized I was dealing with a romance scammer that kept being a no-show

  • @667illin

    @667illin

    17 күн бұрын

    What if it's long distance?

  • @janea.dripin4546
    @janea.dripin45462 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. I have decided not to go online dating or friendship anymore. So difficult to know. Better just stick to face to face and local community.

  • @nothingworksworks3511

    @nothingworksworks3511

    Жыл бұрын

    Or meet associates of actual friends online- and meet within 3 exchanges. If they don't know someone YOU know, that's a red flag in this connected world. Also meet within a few exchanges THEN slow cook connection

  • @Lucapascale

    @Lucapascale

    7 ай бұрын

    If you are stupid and willing to send money to strangers, then do not do it.

  • @africa_everyday
    @africa_everyday2 жыл бұрын

    Why would you send money to anybody you don't personally know.

  • @angelmission

    @angelmission

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! So dumb!

  • @sheraarehs

    @sheraarehs

    2 жыл бұрын

    I won't even give money to people I DO know in person, I'm certainly not sending a cent to a stranger.

  • @garyacker7388

    @garyacker7388

    Жыл бұрын

    One asked for my credit card to help her pay for here to get it back from her manager and of course pay me back. I told her I wouldn't give it to anyone except my brother. She didn't like it at all!also she would make love to me for as long as I want. Nice deal eh 😉

  • @africa_everyday

    @africa_everyday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@garyacker7388 excellent deal 🤝

  • @1rustyboy1

    @1rustyboy1

    Жыл бұрын

    I'd rather be lonely than give money to a dumb monkey

  • @abdurrahmanwakeel3923
    @abdurrahmanwakeel39232 жыл бұрын

    As they are getting smarter each day, we must drift light years away from online romance

  • @EuleneWages4644

    @EuleneWages4644

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes they are

  • @marionwallsten7507

    @marionwallsten7507

    9 ай бұрын

    Well spoken ! 😊

  • @hmk..
    @hmk..2 жыл бұрын

    Come on, narrator! The only rule that manners is DON'T SEND ANY MONEY! if there is no money gained, online scamming will die a natural death! You can enjoy even fake relationship online until the cows come home,(this is called scam baiting, very enjoyable!)

  • @amperenews

    @amperenews

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your comment. You might be surprised to find out that many if not all victims say they know the rule that they're not supposed to send money to strangers. Knowing the rule is not the problem. The problem is that the scammers use a series of tried-and-true tactics on the victims to make them break their own rule --- like the no-money rule --- and fall for the scam. That's why our stories are focusing on the scammers' tactics. The tactics are more powerful than simply re-stating a rule the victims usually already know.

  • @twilfits

    @twilfits

    2 жыл бұрын

    Eww

  • @DerKapitanHowdy

    @DerKapitanHowdy

    2 жыл бұрын

    In fact scambaiting is a very intresting hobby. I've been exchanging emails with this "russian girl" which, of course, is single, has been in bad relationships, love children, wants a family and bla bla bla... But she can't do video calls because he phone is broken and doesn't have internet at home or anywhere else in town besides her job; so she wanted to install skype on the job's computer but her boss found out and almost fired her, and a lot other bullshit like that. I gotta admit this scammer is doing a decent job, It's been more than a month and "she" didn't ask for money yet... but she will. Suppousedly, we are going to meet in a week in Moscow, let's see what excuse she comes up for not being there.

  • @johnballard6725

    @johnballard6725

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whatever the sob story you are told,no matter how convincing it is - daughter sick, wife died in crash,he's mugged in a foreign country,no access to credit card blah blah blah just don't sent any money.It ain't rocket science.

  • @CarolAnnePeskin

    @CarolAnnePeskin

    11 ай бұрын

    Such rotten, despicable, cold-hearted people! I hope they all rot in the same hell!

  • @SanFranDentist94301
    @SanFranDentist943012 жыл бұрын

    They didnt steal it. She gave it away.

  • @Baddscorpio

    @Baddscorpio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ok!!! 😂

  • @nancyparker2199
    @nancyparker21992 жыл бұрын

    It's never going to get better unless people wise up and stop sending money to total strangers. Start thinking with your head and not your heart.

  • @scambaitnaansense512

    @scambaitnaansense512

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes they have soo many different types of scams also

  • @lizmacleod8903

    @lizmacleod8903

    2 жыл бұрын

    It seems many people are afraid to tell their nearest and dearest when these scams are going on because deep down subconsciously they know that they are under some sort of spell or fairytale which will all come true if they just do X Y Z actions their soulmate will turn up and they will prove everyone wrong

  • @scambaitnaansense512

    @scambaitnaansense512

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lizmacleod8903 yeah they feel Shame and they shouldn't

  • @markman63
    @markman632 жыл бұрын

    Tech tricks or not. Just don’t give strangers money, it is that easy.

  • @kerry1979

    @kerry1979

    2 жыл бұрын

    It is Indeed how hard is that.Mainly if they ask for thousands of dollars. That's Insane Really insane. I don't have thousands to just throw away. lol all invested

  • @darrenfulton4380
    @darrenfulton43802 жыл бұрын

    Meet people in person not dating sites

  • @rogerstephenroth8073
    @rogerstephenroth80732 жыл бұрын

    Never ever ever send money to anyone you never met online or even outside on a date. If they are asking you for money it is 100 percent a scam

  • @channelthree9424
    @channelthree9424 Жыл бұрын

    Common romance scammer tactics: They love bomb the victim with flattery. It doesn’t take them long to start calling the victim beautiful, queen, honey or baby. If there’s a big age gap between the victim and the age the scammer is using, they will always say “age is just a number“. Frequently their occupations are oil rig worker, doctor stationed in Yemen or Turkey, interior decorator. These are not the only occupations they claim to have. They are widowed, separated or divorced. They usually have a small child in a boarding school in a different country. If their spouse is dead, it’s usually something tragic like cancer or a car accident. If they are divorced, the ex spouse cheated on them with their best friend. They will claim their child is looking for a mother. At some point the child or the scammer’s parent is hospitalized and needs money for an operation. Scammers will frequently say they’re from America yet they do not understand the American medical system where you are treated first and pay later. You do not need to pay upfront to have an operation usually. Sometimes scammers claim to be the only one in the world. All their family is gone making the victim believe they are the only ones that could help them. Scammers pretend to be wealthy and will give the victim access to a fake bank account that shows millions of dollars (no rich person is going to give a total stranger access to their bank account). If the scammer claims to be working on an oil rig, they will claim that equipment has broken down and they need to buy new equipment and that’s where the victim comes in at (they claim to be on the oil rig but you can hear roosters in the background). During the grooming stage of the scam, besides flattering the victim constantly, they also get the victim involved in phone sex. Most victims are too embarrassed to admit to this especially if they’re elderly. This is one of the tactics scammers use to keep the victim emotionally tied to them plus they can use it as leverage if they need to blackmail the victim. Scammers will always mention three or four different countries: the country they’re born in, the country they were raised in, the country they were living in and the country that their job has sent them to. They give the most illogical reason why they sound Nigerian when they are supposed to have been raised in America. They will say that their one parent is from one country and another parent from another country and that’s why their accent doesn’t match the country they claim they were raised in. One scammer claims to have been raised in Germany but was forbidden to speak German that’s why he couldn’t speak German but his accent is Nigerian. The person who the scammer was trying to scam speaks German and this was the excuse he had given her as to why he couldn’t understand what she was saying. They come up with a new lie when the person they’re talking to speaks the language of the country the scammer said they are from. The scammer will take a victim off the platform they originally met on and ask them to go to WhatsApp, Google hangouts or telegraph. On Facebook, after accepting their friend request, they will start communicating through Messenger. If they can’t keep the conversation directly on Facebook for everyone to see, they are a scammer. Block them. One of the reasons victims are victims is not just because they’re not knowledgeable of scams or tech savvy, part of it is they’re not using logic. A 35 year old handsome man whose buff and can have his choice of any woman is not going to fall madly in love with a 75-year-old woman. Nor will some hot porn star looking woman (the pictures are usually those of porn stars) in her 20s is going to fall madly in love with some overweight guy with missing teeth who is old enough to be her father. Once a victim gives a scammer money, even if it’s a small amount, the scammer will give the victim’s name to other scammers. Those other scammers will contact the victim and the cycle starts over again. They start telling the victim how beautiful they are and how much in love they are with them leaving the victim thinking all of a sudden they have become desirable to all these men.

  • @DeeDee-wx7fi
    @DeeDee-wx7fi Жыл бұрын

    People help me understand. Some of these victims have family who can’t get a dime out of them but send thousands to strangers.

  • @mildredpierce4506

    @mildredpierce4506

    Жыл бұрын

    You are exactly right. Also the same family and friends are usually warning them that they’re dealing with a scammer but they don’t listen. On a different Channel, one woman‘s best friend told her not to send her online romance any money and she said she wouldn’t but of course she did. This woman ended up being a drug mule and got arrested in Hong Kong and could be sentenced to 20 years. She’s from Canada and the scammer had her go to Ethiopia and then from there to Hong Kong.

  • @Gurra88
    @Gurra882 жыл бұрын

    Whenever I'm sad I just remind myself I'm not dumb enough to get scammed.

  • @user-zg7nf5yv1r
    @user-zg7nf5yv1r2 жыл бұрын

    Love yourself and never look for love from stranger.🙏🏻❤

  • @bila-ii2bt

    @bila-ii2bt

    2 жыл бұрын

    that's right👍👍

  • @edithng9169

    @edithng9169

    10 ай бұрын

    JESUS LOVES YOU .

  • @shel629
    @shel6292 жыл бұрын

    It is not about romance. It is about loneliness and needing someone to talk to and someone to care. . These scammers check on you more than your family. Friends help friends when they have problems and you discovered they are scammers. Sad!

  • @nothingworksworks3511

    @nothingworksworks3511

    Жыл бұрын

    Why pick apart the targets? It's a mix of need/vengeance/cruelty to prey upon trust- any human being can be lonely, that's called being Human. Personally focus on the tactics of criminals, more productive

  • @rebeccaabel4589

    @rebeccaabel4589

    Жыл бұрын

    Elizabeth lm 53 years old and l was recently scammed $ 28,700 USD . It was the same tactic . It was not a romance scam but a business partnership one. I now own the bank $28700 dollars . It’s one thing to take out a loan for a car , property, school but to take it to please a scammer. I’m really stupid but l learned my lesson. If you are talking or texting someone do reverse image search. If you are investing in financial institution do your research. If the person you are texting messaging starts referring you to a financial or ask for your ID block him or her. Lister to your inner voice. .

  • @patriciamcdermott9589
    @patriciamcdermott95892 жыл бұрын

    bottom line is you NEVER give money to someone that you have never met in person and i wouldn't even do it then. if you give money to someone you better be doing it with the thought that you will never see it again and probably won't see them again either. just don't do it. if she had said no, he would have dropped her and she would have known that he was just a filthy scammer. and i bet that the guy on the skype call had a nigerian accent. that would be a sure clue as well.

  • @toosexy7955

    @toosexy7955

    Жыл бұрын

    I had one that called me on messenger on fB, he was looking for LOVE, I told him BUDDY, YOU ARE IN THE WRONG PLACE, his response was....' WHO'🤣🤣S BUDDY

  • @patriciamcdermott9589

    @patriciamcdermott9589

    Жыл бұрын

    @@toosexy7955 🤣🤣🤣I always tell them they are in the wrong place and they say “well my best friend found his soul mate here and they are happily married”. I mean they all have said that. I say “ you mean he found a temporary sugar mama?” They either laugh or just disappear. I have to try the “Buddy” thing. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lizmacleod8903
    @lizmacleod89032 жыл бұрын

    So sad, these con artists ( scammers) are ruthless knowing the things to say to break down defences. Poor souls, lonely hearts ❤️ if it seems too good to be true, then they are !

  • @EuleneWages4644

    @EuleneWages4644

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hate when they shame them or call them stupid.i think they are brave to tell their stories

  • @jo5707
    @jo57072 жыл бұрын

    Vulnerable women need to stop sending money to people they think are real.

  • @barbarablack7767
    @barbarablack77675 ай бұрын

    I am so very sorry. I have been in a very similar situation and have lost all my money too. My heart is broken and I feel so disappointed in myself and am working on trying to accept God's love. I allowed the situation to break me apart. Thank you for posting. My heart hurts when I listen to the speaker. I am numb.

  • @ClissaT
    @ClissaT2 жыл бұрын

    Women across the western world fall for men who look after themselves, have good appearance and grooming etc. It's sad but true, apparently, there are no real Aussie men out there, just scammers posing as Aussies. And I guess the same applies across the western world where there is a wholesale shortage of real men for real women. When I say "real men" I mean men who look after themselves and treat very well, the women they meet. This is why women get dragged into these traps set by the scammers. If the scammers treated women as badly or used photos of unkempt men like the real ones are, no woman would fall into the traps. It's the fact that scammers use photos of men who look after themselves, are well groomed and well spoken and have manners that causes women to be interested. SO here is a warning to all the single men of the western world:- buck up your act, get yourselves into shape, learn how to be well groomed and well dressed and how to treat a lady the right way. What to say, write and do so women fall for real men rather than scammers.

  • @steved7961
    @steved79612 жыл бұрын

    While I sympathise with this lady, I find it hard to believe that anyone who is just an ordinary looking and mature lady would believe protestations of love from a multi-millionaire who they have never met. Surely her friends and relatives would have seen through this at an early stage even if she was love-struck.

  • @francesfehrman741

    @francesfehrman741

    2 жыл бұрын

    He has $$$. All his co workers have just as much as him$$$$. He doesn't need your$$$$. Ask your coworker for$$$$. Not you?! Ask him for 💰, tell him the same lies, karma

  • @monamomma5506
    @monamomma55062 жыл бұрын

    If they won’t meet you within two weeks of talking to them they’re a scammer

  • @Plysdyret1
    @Plysdyret110 ай бұрын

    I met a pilot on Facebook. He pretty soon declared me his love, but when I asked him to write my name on a piece of paper and show it to me on a picture, he got mad and accused me for not trusting him. Come on, we'd only known each other for two weeks!

  • @Chopperdog

    @Chopperdog

    24 күн бұрын

    They can use photo chop that looks real i had one last month do it but reverse image search caught them out with the original photo.

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 Жыл бұрын

    Never tell anyone your passwords for any of your accounts. Never give money to strangers. Not even your own family.

  • @ginny709
    @ginny7092 жыл бұрын

    First of all, they need new mirrors.....an attractive man out of your league, is not going to fall for you period....99% is attraction.... A lot of these women are in denial... .Yes, age sucks.....And if you spend your money false love... it's your problem.....And going on shows to show you were a fool, is past tense....

  • @christineoleary3862

    @christineoleary3862

    2 жыл бұрын

    Age doesn’t suck at all. It only ‘sucks’ if you are relying on your looks and relationships to make you happy. I find this view of ageing very superficial and foolish. It is such a view that makes, women, especially, feel invalidated and insignificant. Depending on our looks to attract the opposite sex is ok for a while bit should not be the pre-occupation of a lifetime. There is too much to do and see in the world. We can become liberated as we age and occasional loneliness is a small price to pay for freedom.

  • @holliss5

    @holliss5

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree some of the women are old fat and ugly( like me) why would they think that a handsome wealthy man would be remotely interested in them, use common sense ladies

  • @lovelyletter7460
    @lovelyletter74602 жыл бұрын

    Honestly though, these people always turn the conversation to money and how they need some. That’s when you run away, folks! Don’t give anyone a dime!

  • @billinorlando2887
    @billinorlando28872 жыл бұрын

    I get these people pop up in my socials. I normally just ignore them. I occasionally goof around and chat them up. The ones i get always ask for gift cards. I found out their are apps that they can use to cash them out. I think its cashed out at a discounted amoumt The last time I talked to some I had two reach out to me within minutes of eachother. One i busted because they knew nothing about our geography. I would tell them how much snow we were getting in Orlando and how lucky they were to be in Buffalo during the winter where its warm Finally the fessed up and offered me a job. 😆 I think they were laundering money. I stopped playing with them and blocked The other used a profile of a female Army soldier named Palomino. They had good social media and had some US knowledge. Eventually they fessed up. Offered to tell me everything on a video call. An adorable young Nigerian girl claiming to be.. 😆 a law student of all things. And over the years Ive had my share do a video without any sound and its a very short video. Ive yet to encounter the more higher tech fake videos No- never gave any a penny

  • @mildredpierce4506

    @mildredpierce4506

    Жыл бұрын

    Never point out to a scammer their mistakes about geography or culture. Their mistakes could be enough of a red flag to deter a potential victim.

  • @billinorlando2887

    @billinorlando2887

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mildredpierce4506 if you're dumb enough to send money to someone you don't know just so they'll like you, you deserve to be taken to the cleaners. Most of these people are being taken by a profile out of their league. Who is scamming who?

  • @edithng9169
    @edithng916910 ай бұрын

    PEOPLE NEED THE LORD AT THE END OF BROKEN DREAMS .

  • @antoniettefriscia620
    @antoniettefriscia6202 жыл бұрын

    The minute they ask for money it's a scam?

  • @fabianruiz3566

    @fabianruiz3566

    2 жыл бұрын

    The above name is a God sent, I appreciate your efforts in restoring my scammed crypto back

  • @chris.18045
    @chris.180452 жыл бұрын

    I think women reading too many romance novels (or watching Lifetime movies) over the years haven't done themselves any favors. Most of these victims are average at best, expecting this "Fabio" millionaire to sweep them off their feet while turning away from equally average (to them) good and loyal men, because they're not at least 6 ft. tall or writing poetry for them. Even though I would never tell any women to lower her standards, I would say to be realistic and recognize a "good man". You may not get a handsome poet, but if he really cares for you he'll get you some cards where Hallmark has done the work for him or wear some nice clothes (cologne etc.) because he knows you like it.

  • @j.e.7028
    @j.e.70282 жыл бұрын

    Golden rule,its simple.Never Never Never send money....NEVER NO MATTER WHAT IS SAID OR DONE....I do feel sorry for this lady...it stops people even trying to date.i trust no relationships now....sad to say safer staying alone

  • @kimkoch3272
    @kimkoch32722 жыл бұрын

    I once had a man send me a picture of his bank account! Though texts, we had never even met or had a conversation. This was through a dating site. I thought i was the strangest thing ever! He was blocked . I have given up dating sites. Too many predators!!!!

  • @vigithavigitha1964
    @vigithavigitha196420 күн бұрын

    Exceptional work, *Universaldispute* -I'm glad you're battling these jerks out. We must take every precaution to safeguard the elderly and the general public from these disgusting scam artists! You've earned it!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for keeping us safe, brother.

  • @victornims8169
    @victornims816920 күн бұрын

    This man really hit the ground running and hasn't stopped yet. He gives us more understanding of him without interviews and negative antics he just shows us who he is through the Recovery. True living legend. We salute you. Incredible recovery. The execution, creativity, and goodness that came from it were inspiring on a number of levels. Cheers *Universaldispute* on the internet & looking forward to seeing what you do next!

  • @anampc6678
    @anampc6678 Жыл бұрын

    THE SKYPE CALL MADE MY HAIR RAISED!!! UNBELIAVABLE!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING

  • @Collinawaves
    @Collinawaves19 күн бұрын

    *UNIVERSAL DISPUTE* Team I want to thank you from the depths of my heart! So many are afflicted by severe living conditions, and you are assisting them by providing them with something they require to survive. Thank God for amazing individuals like you who are making the most significant differences. Blessed be *Universaldispute* ! Regards from Greenville, North Carolina

  • @user-io1vk1ml1y
    @user-io1vk1ml1y19 күн бұрын

    Exceptional work, *UNIVERSALDISPUTE* -I’m glad you’re battling these jerks out there. We must take every precaution to safeguard the elderly and the general public from these disgusting scam artists! You’ve earned it!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for keeping us safe, brother.

  • @HiHi-dd1xi
    @HiHi-dd1xi2 жыл бұрын

    Don’t send money to anyone you have never met in person…

  • @linabailey4947
    @linabailey49472 ай бұрын

    Thank you ! for all the good tips...it breaks my heart to hear about all of the elderly women that get scammed every day😪

  • @terriwhalen3618
    @terriwhalen36189 ай бұрын

    I so understand, thanks for sharing. God Bless!

  • @karenmalone3275
    @karenmalone32752 жыл бұрын

    Man! I am not in a relationship at this moment and would love to be I am not that desperate nor a fool. Give someone my money. He'll no! Come on people get smart stop being scammed.

  • @cindyeisenberg8367
    @cindyeisenberg83672 жыл бұрын

    Scams are so prevalent in every spare. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your money. They are so believable. This is ridiculous and need to go to jail for a long time. My anxiety is through the roof. You can be highly intelligent and get scammed. My father’s fried had been scammed many times.

  • @usafjoch
    @usafjoch Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes one's arrogance can get them scammed, like many of the commenters here. In one way or another, by some technique or another, anyone can be scammed of something. I spent enough years in law enforcement to know that.

  • @aiai-j7i
    @aiai-j7i Жыл бұрын

    "It looked real". Wait till AI technology has taken over...we won't know anymore what is real or not. Terrifying.

  • @ntsokolomemani3874
    @ntsokolomemani38747 ай бұрын

    I have just subscribed I need to learn all these tricks. These could be a very profitable side hustle in this tough economic times

  • @Jeanniebeanie2612
    @Jeanniebeanie2612 Жыл бұрын

    Just don't give money to people you've never met. Tell your family and friends about

  • @shirlainewilliams152
    @shirlainewilliams1522 жыл бұрын

    im very sad as to what happened but if you have never met its not dating ,,end of !!!!

  • @marciathehooligan9967
    @marciathehooligan99672 жыл бұрын

    Love that red jacket-- totally the bomb 👍

  • @calliopivogiatzis2235
    @calliopivogiatzis22352 жыл бұрын

    I've been scammed in 2009 but not by a romance scammer but by a scam artist who almost took my home away

  • @marythomasashe9086

    @marythomasashe9086

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for what happened to you but it's never too late to get your money back. You will highly appreciate him for his tremendous help getting your lost funds back from ur scammer,

  • @marythomasashe9086

    @marythomasashe9086

    Жыл бұрын

    *90SpyTron* can really help you get your lost back

  • @marythomasashe9086

    @marythomasashe9086

    Жыл бұрын

    He's on instagram

  • @PatrickFoley-vf3lr
    @PatrickFoley-vf3lr Жыл бұрын

    I have a trick too and on three sites, as a man, I asked the women what their dress size was and since men don't know women's dress sizes, when they could not answer I knew it was a man doing a scam with a women's picture. Worked like a charm.

  • @scambaitnaansense512
    @scambaitnaansense5122 жыл бұрын

    Please be aware everyone

  • @quincykeatase3121
    @quincykeatase312119 күн бұрын

    This young man is very talented I just hate the bad reputation rumors and fake allegations but when it comes to money get back he's in his own lane and has his own style and that's what makes *Universal Dispute* on the internet so unique and untouchable.

  • @MetroidMeister
    @MetroidMeister11 ай бұрын

    My question is why would people Elizabeth's age think that someone that is Alec's age date them. Alec looks about 30 years younger than Elizabeth

  • @angelesvarella1461
    @angelesvarella14616 ай бұрын

    It's very easy to know, if after a while they ask you for money, it's a scam. The end.

  • @beatapogorzelska1241
    @beatapogorzelska124111 ай бұрын

    In many cases scams may be prevented by buying a good mirror and getting some critical thinking. In real life a man with that look and good money wouldn't take notice of an average looking middle aged woman let alone wade through tonnes of profiles on a date app. He doesn't need any date app in the first place as he is a big catch.

  • @cherish867
    @cherish867 Жыл бұрын

    It’s always amazing to me that when people say they need money yeah they’re showing your bank account with hundreds of thousands of dollars! At the very least they should have a good credit rating to get their own kind of money. I feel bad for them, I have known people have been scammed, people I love. How to try to keep my wits about me.

  • @pamelav.5699
    @pamelav.56992 ай бұрын

    🌈🌟🌷ThankYou for this video!!!!!!! I've asked people I believed might be scammers to take fresh pictures waving and they did, others got upset and said they don't have to prove anything to me I can just move on!

  • @agnieszkagielata7461
    @agnieszkagielata7461 Жыл бұрын

    I don’t care how sophisticated the scammer acts. If they ask you for money or anything money related it’s a scam.

  • @TheCerebralDude
    @TheCerebralDude7 ай бұрын

    A reverse image search of the pictures they provide to you or what is posted on their page is very effective about 80% of the time the search will show if those pictures are stolen

  • @myrnavera4077
    @myrnavera40772 жыл бұрын

    Don't look for love, love will find you. In God's time

  • @jowyrick9337
    @jowyrick93372 жыл бұрын

    You are so RIGHT, the police explained to me how much SMARTER they are getting. My phones are set up so he can get my personal phone calls, emails, and messages b4 I do. Don't bother going to the phone companies, go straight to POLICE, they will eventually hear you out and Attorney will have it investigated!

  • @hevinamber
    @hevinamber5 ай бұрын

    Please stop saying these scammers stole from them! Nobody robbed them! They were foolish enough to send all of their money to a complete stranger who they never even video chatted and were able to ask questions to. They have to take the responsibility of their foolish decisions before the real Healing Begins!!!

  • @jo-annmacneill6454
    @jo-annmacneill64542 жыл бұрын

    If they ask for one Nickle the answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @jeanmyers1787
    @jeanmyers178711 ай бұрын

    I don’t care how sophisticated they are if you do not give money to someone you’ve never met you will be ok.

  • @reenamukherjee1455
    @reenamukherjee1455 Жыл бұрын

    Well you started loving someone on a virtual platform and never ever met how can you give him or her your hard earned money

  • @annechung2341
    @annechung2341 Жыл бұрын

    The problem with these scammers is this is their job and they will contact you daily and tie you down for hours. I'm retired and I detest anyone being allover me like a bad rash. It's not normal. Doesn't he work? After a while you run out of things to talk about, he has nothing to offer because he's a poor ass from a poor country which leaves you doing all the talking. How are you? Have you eaten? Did you sleep well? What kind of relationship is that? It's all in the head of the person being scammed building fairy castles in the air. Stop. Use your head first! He may have millions in an offshore bank which eventually is frozen. But every American has an account with a US bank that is insured from which they can withdraw funds. If he wants to see you in person, he needs to come up with the means otherwise the relationship is meaningless.

  • @FreeSpirit47
    @FreeSpirit4711 ай бұрын

    The people who sent money are not victims. They willingly sent money. Refusing to view yourself as a victim, taking full responsibility for your own actions gives you the ability to stay away from feeling powerless. It will also give a person the confidence needed to keep them from falling for similar scams. When a new scammer contacts her again, she will have the satisfaction to either just ignore or block or have a bit of fun, calling their BS what it is. BS.

  • @lindahaddock7136
    @lindahaddock71362 жыл бұрын

    Lots of scammers on tiktok

  • @EuleneWages4644
    @EuleneWages46442 жыл бұрын

    Don't feel shamed you are not alone if you need someone to talk to there are people on these scam sites that are victims as well and they chat to one another it seems to help when you talk to another victim cause they truly no how you feel.💔💔heartbreaking

  • @Michael-bf1dt

    @Michael-bf1dt

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Eulene how are you. Greetings from Ireland. I agree with you, people who get scammed feel very isolated and don’t know who to turn to. They also feel shame. It’s so sad. Best wishes for a lovely weekend and stay safe 😊🙏 Michael

  • @SirGregg
    @SirGregg Жыл бұрын

    Love is a drug that has the same effect on the brain as cocaine. Women appear to get hooked on that drug easily. Men are learning the affect that drug can have on their lives if they let it attach them to the wrong woman. Woman appear to need a 'hit' of that drug when they get bored so seek it out to fill a perceived gap. Being aware of the dangers that drug can have on long term success can prevent a living nightmare.

  • @sarahphillips295
    @sarahphillips2959 ай бұрын

    You will avoid 99% of these scams by doing 2 very simple things. 1.🗣️🗣️ NEVER 🗣️🗣️E V E R🗣️🗣️ Send money or any picture you wouldnt want sent to your parents or your boss at work to a stranger. 2. If they can't or won't meet you in person for a date within 7 days of "meeting" online, cease all contact and block if needed. They're either a scammer or at the very least trying to waste your time.

  • @susanlane4283
    @susanlane42833 ай бұрын

    red flag nobody is going to show you their bank account , next

  • @susanlane4283
    @susanlane42833 ай бұрын

    there are red flags all over this mess

  • @jeanblackburn8725
    @jeanblackburn872519 күн бұрын

    Number #1 tip! If they ask for a penny it is a SCAM!!!!!

  • @Jazna1
    @Jazna110 ай бұрын

    No good-looking rich man is going to be hitting on an average-looking 50+ woman on a dating app, come on. Don't be a sucker, ladies. Get a dog ... I got a cat. Even a cat is way better than mind games with some dude.

  • @arlynalba7921
    @arlynalba79212 жыл бұрын

    Money matters don't give anyone you didn't know who is it ,hes a stranger

  • @marapeters9144
    @marapeters9144 Жыл бұрын

    No people have gotten more gullible 😮😮its not believable 😮😮

  • @ronnieterry4916
    @ronnieterry491626 күн бұрын

    It's very simple never send money. If you haven't met the person in person never consider sending money.

  • @woollyprimate
    @woollyprimateАй бұрын

    I used to online date years ago. It's not hard not to get scammed. I had guys message me who were out of my league. I ignored them. I had a guy message me from a couple states away. I asked him what his plan was to deal with the distance. He said something about distance is nothing when it's the right person. I blocked him. And I learned about doing a reverse image search. It's not hard, people.

  • @vernidakendall8524
    @vernidakendall85246 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately for them, karma knows everyone’s address

  • @bonniebloom4953
    @bonniebloom4953 Жыл бұрын

    Ask yourself right at the first time you and your new love interest met, would a gorgeous, rich, successful person Ever EVER have to go on say POF or any other site to meet a love /friend interest? I think not.

  • @johnshelton1963
    @johnshelton19634 ай бұрын

    NEVER give money to someone you have not met in person.

  • @1rustyboy1
    @1rustyboy111 ай бұрын

    Scammers are so smart, joke. Don't send money. If you need money I would not date you

  • @susanlane4283
    @susanlane42833 ай бұрын

    michael also is wearing a ring

  • @mavismounds
    @mavismoundsАй бұрын

    The photo of that guy at the conference, shows him wearing a wedding ring..

  • @kimberlydubois7453
    @kimberlydubois74537 ай бұрын

    Usually a group talks to you.

  • @kimberlydubois7453
    @kimberlydubois74537 ай бұрын

    Do not accept packages flowers etc do not give address online please.

  • @bosiesmom
    @bosiesmom11 ай бұрын

    I also love how all these handsome millionaires fall in love with older homely women but within weeks or months they have the worst luck over and over and over and need money for this, that and whatever. If they're so rich, they would be calling their accountant or money manager to help them not a stranger and beg for money. Or why wouldn't they ask their rich friends or family? But they ask the "victims". It doesn't make sense in real life people don't behave like this.

  • @vampoftrance
    @vampoftrance2 жыл бұрын

    Honey get an online wallet like mine. If anyone tries to talk to me i say tip me first. I dont have enough money to call everyone who wants to date me .you shouldn't either. even Trys to chat or date

  • @fontanillamelanie8389
    @fontanillamelanie83892 жыл бұрын

    this year group scammer soon arrested

  • @Baddscorpio

    @Baddscorpio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Try again in English

  • @annfeeney1662

    @annfeeney1662

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Baddscorpio d

  • @frangaller8753
    @frangaller8753 Жыл бұрын

    What if they refuse to let you see them