My jaw dropped when she called him r****ded and smacked him while he was in a full blown meltdown. Get that poor guy out of their custody ASAP

@martingardner9124

3 жыл бұрын

Get HER under arrest.

@tomdwayne5198

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👍

@amanikaafarani9335

3 жыл бұрын

what part was that??

@papyrussbiggestfan

3 жыл бұрын

literally.

@toledoborn1392

3 жыл бұрын

That didn't happen

Sadly, I don't see the boyfriend moving out. That chick is one of those "I need a man in my life" persons who will always put the man before the children.

@sharonw7078

3 жыл бұрын

Bingo!! She's despicable and her son is paying the price. I hope CPS comes knocking on their door pronto!

@rjchavers9267

3 жыл бұрын

I will never understand a single parent moving a boy/girlfriend into the home with their child within months of starting a relationship. It's just not a wise choice.

@dianakenealy8573

3 жыл бұрын

pathetic huh I agree with ya on this one.

@idalarsen2540

3 жыл бұрын

Fr. Ugh, it's so disgusting and just utterly selfish. They really thought that letting practically a *stranger,* this unknown *big man* come in as a authoritarian "parent" would be ok??? Letting him move in at all!? They're literally *bullies.* Both verbally and physically abusive. They demand all too much from him. This little boy is rightfully scared af. Who wouldn't be? They also don't allow him to express himself. He have no safety. He's losing more and more love and affection, (emotional) space, his place in the home, he's losing everything while getting abused because he's scared. HOW can anyone be this selfish. What a terrible mother and arrogant "step-father". They're all letting him down. They don't care about him. He's become a burden to them, and he feels the same. He's internalizing the abuse, leaving him feeling like nothing. No self esteem, just self hatred. There's no wonder why he acts like he does. I mean, who wouldn't?

@pattystone4157

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. I just walk away from people like this. If you try to help they turn on you and drag you down. And you can’t warn them of the train you see headed for them because they know it all. All you can do is call someone to help the kids and let these people burn themselves up.

Boy when he is an adult: "I don't want anything to do with you!" Mother: 👁️👄👁️

When he said that he "hated himself", my heart just broke. He doesn't know how to make his world better, but he wants to.

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

bruh u dont know the real story

@shutterbug_713

Жыл бұрын

​@@gavenmcdougall881 and what, U do?

“She saw a child acting out, but I saw a child backing into the corner” THANK YOU

@kendrickviera-ramos6077

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Ariana

@jaxl1931

2 жыл бұрын

Your welcome

@michaelaburke3096

2 жыл бұрын

@@kendrickviera-ramos6077 L

@EARTHLYANGEL1111

2 жыл бұрын

Parents bullying him.

@EstherHulst-Artist

2 жыл бұрын

And this is was they send in, i hope its not much worse behind close doors

No kid should ever say “I hate myself” I’m in tears.

@mindrolling24

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😢

@axhlia.x

3 жыл бұрын

Fr😭

@trczxwtf_.416

3 жыл бұрын

My sister says that all the time lmao

@Blvcksvnctuvry13

3 жыл бұрын

I would if I treated my family and my own mother like that 🤷🏻‍♀️ He needs help. What a spoiled brat.

@A_Pigeon181

3 жыл бұрын

@@trczxwtf_.416 That's... not a good thing, y'know?

10:19 “I want to go to my Dad’s” Such an obvious indicator who’s the better parent here.

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

not really lol

@Mimi2jack

2 ай бұрын

He maybe the one to indulge him that’s why he wants to go

@justme240

Ай бұрын

Not necessarily. My daughter wanted to go to her dad's because he never made her do anything. He didn't make her go to school, do chores, clean up her mess, nothing. At my house, you must go to school, at the VERY least. Period.

Michael has to be permanently removed from her care for the sake of his all life.

@jackiegarroutte8970

25 күн бұрын

💯 %

@theKevronHarris

16 күн бұрын

💯 %

"Stop hitting yourself!!"... Proceeds to hit kid two seconds later. These parents are so vile, this poor child.

@darajoyce5514

2 жыл бұрын

I just can't:(

@danim3714

2 жыл бұрын

I stg I don’t remember the last video/movie/book/etc that’s made me cry and I’m bawling! This poor boy deserves patience, positive reinforcement and unconditional love… I just can’t understand these “parents”

@chrismiksworld

2 жыл бұрын

She literally gave the kid a tap on the wrist OMG She is the Vilest Parent ever I'm not saying she is the Best Parent but you are all 100% overdoing it on Vilifying this mother

@josannasantiago3979

2 жыл бұрын

@@chrismiksworld exactly! They’re acting like these are parents not feeding their child and hurting them to the point they have injuries ☠️☠️☠️☠️ it’s so dramatic if people are actually crying over this

@briar8855

2 жыл бұрын

@@josannasantiago3979 you act like physical abuse is the only valid form.

I’m so so triggered by this parenting. My heart is broken for this child.

@dove.9833

3 жыл бұрын

That mother honestly seems sadistic like she gets a kick out of antagonizing him and then when he acts out bullies him

@Summer09824

3 жыл бұрын

D O V E. and the boyfriend. It’s horrible. I can’t believe she’s hitting him like that. This child is in agony and she’s tormenting him 😥

@alandry4114

3 жыл бұрын

I felt sorry for him up until I heard he hits and abuses animals. Then I didn’t like him

@sharonw7078

3 жыл бұрын

Mine too. Absolutely heartbreaking! Their "parenting" is taunting and bullying and mocking. They disgust me. She doesn't want him. She's talked about giving him up for adoption twice FFS. I'll take him.

@absolutelyridiculous6743

3 жыл бұрын

My own son is very defiant. He reacts this exact way when my demeanor changes and my voice gets "hot". Patience and remaining calm are KEY.

The father need custody asap.

“I’ve dealt with his tantrums” those are not tantrums - it’s a cry for help! My gosh Dr Phil help this precious boy. This mom is NOT the victim.

@AllyFin

Жыл бұрын

Personally, I think they are meltdowns. I have autism and he is very similar to how I was as a kid. How they treated him was literally the complete opposite of what a parent is supposed to do when their child has a meltdown.

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

​@@AllyFin exactly also I'm the older brother

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

​@@AllyFin it was just him being bad and hurt me he never listened but hes in line now

@miltoncat

7 ай бұрын

“Precious boy”?! Hahahaa

I can’t stand the boyfriend. He is definitely making things worse.

@corvettedm1

3 жыл бұрын

I think he’s creepy.

@abird1539

3 жыл бұрын

His pompous know-it-all attitude!! Get OUT jerk! But I doubt Mom will follow theu wirh Doc's recommendations. Either...

@wandarobinson326

3 жыл бұрын

@@abird1539 I was thinking that too...she really needs to have him leave until she can work with her son and get him to where he needs to be...He should be her #1 priority...Not a guy...

@mydogsioux

3 жыл бұрын

He a moronic bully. She's a useless fool.

@EnubeeStyle

3 жыл бұрын

I think the boyfriend is in way over his head here.

She threatens to give him up for adoption!? Woman, this child is 7. You’re the one who brought him into this? He ain’t ask to be your child.

@allthatsheiz

2 жыл бұрын

But maybe she should 🤷🏽‍♀️. If she can’t handle this which isn’t an easy thing and are likely to drive abuse then let him be with someone who is equipped

@honeybear9564

2 жыл бұрын

@@allthatsheiz if she gives him up & he doesn’t get to live with his grandmother, then he will likely be abused by the system on top of what he is already enduring. My mother is a high up supervisor for CPS in my city. She and I constantly have talks about how flawed the system is (CPS, parent services, foster care, group homes, etc.).

@mementomori4840

2 жыл бұрын

I mean…if a lovely family could adopt him, it might be for the best.

@amelialaw8758

2 жыл бұрын

Th mother needs to put her son up for adoption for good

@honeybear9564

2 жыл бұрын

@@amelialaw8758 Adoption is “for good”. There are no take backs. I’m not trying to come off as rude (sorry if it sounds that way), but I have seen firsthand being in a group home myself for half of my teenage years- the abuse. Also, my twin sister went to foster care, we were getting in trouble prior to this (smoking pot, cutting class) and my parents gave us up. That is something we are working on now (building back trust, and relationships)... or should I say I? My sister my twin sister is now dead (March 3rd), and she endured nothing but heartbreak as a child, and as a teenager, an adult- no support, no help. No preparedness for the harsh world she re-entered with nothing. The statistics are jarring, and the sad part is the statistics aren’t even correct, because there are so many that are not reported. 😓

He was finally calming down when his head was in the jacket and she just continues to antagonize him.

Animal abuse is unacceptable .. PERIOD! 😢

@beaglemama7928

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed wholeheartedly. I taught my children that the only touch an animal should feel is a loving touch.

@LindaCasey

2 жыл бұрын

@@beaglemama7928 💞

@beaglemama7928

2 жыл бұрын

@@LindaCasey love you too, my sister ❤️

“I hate myself” No, baby boy. You don’t hate yourself, the people around you are convincing you that you do. Someone get him outta his “mothers” care.

@tiffanyozturk3498

2 жыл бұрын

My heart broke when he said that 😭

@texrose7068

2 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanyozturk3498 seriously. I remember being a kid, thinking that bc my mother resented me for being born with a heart defect that requires multiple surgeries. THAT made me hate myself. I didn’t really hate myself, my mother resented me so much, I thought if she hated me, then I don’t like myself either.

@tiffanyozturk3498

2 жыл бұрын

@@texrose7068 I’m sorry u had to grow up like that no kid should experience that !

@xIMissYou1609x

2 жыл бұрын

That made me so sad

@marcyostrander936

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree Her son knows he doesn’t like how his mom is trying to discipline him and wants to please his parents and “be better.” A child shouldn’t have to endure sorting all of his emotions out while getting absolutely shamed for it and directed with yelling.

“Who is the adult? Who is the adult huh? Who is the parent??” Good question, lady

@melissa8313

2 жыл бұрын

Right I was asking myself the same thing.

@elijahraziel2856

2 жыл бұрын

It'll end up being one of her kids. That's who the parent is or will be. Cause it's sure not any or the adults.

@gameshowguy2000

2 жыл бұрын

No. Neither. Dr. Phil is right... authoritarian parenting is wrong. Authoritative is the way to go. JUST like the grown-ups on Full House.

19:08 is very dangerous behaviour on the mother's behalf. She is essentially saying that you can't disagree with an adult. Which is wrong, this is how dangerous situations happen where the child feels like they can't say no. Also, yelling "who's the adult" feels like the mother is on a weird power trip. That poor boy, I hope his father gets full custody and the mother learns to be a better parent.

You can see how he’s emotionally struggling especially with him hurting him self and saying he hates himself🥺 all he wants is a little reassurance

Please send cps over there, Phil. Nothing is going to change. This child has no advocate.

@braydenjensen6059

3 жыл бұрын

They want that miss... they came in to get the justification to “take out their trash”

@mydogsioux

3 жыл бұрын

@Imari Brown I agree. But that's not what's happening here. She's immature, lazy and vindictive, the boyfriend is a moronic neanderthal. The father is also immature and lazy, but at least he shows genuine compassion for the child. Most people love the idea of being a parent, but a large percentage don't understand how much work it takes to raise healthy adults. They don't understand the vast amount of emotional labor that raising children requires. And because the cycle is so easily repeated, you have generational dysfunction that can result in a near continuous loop. As a society we need to educate people to these realities. We also need to normalize being childfree. Not everyone is equipped to raise children.

@VKrulikoski

3 жыл бұрын

@@braydenjensen6059 I think she was hoping to send him to some ranch to be "fixed". She didn't expect to get homework. I don't think she'll do it.

@COMPL3XGAM3R

3 жыл бұрын

Cps won’t and can’t do anything.

@imarielmermaid

3 жыл бұрын

Cps is extremely flawed

The mom and her boyfriend are disgusting. She bullies her son, and then she let's her younger boyfriend spank him?? That's just unacceptable

@corvettedm1

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t believe it.

@hiemily7603

3 жыл бұрын

@@corvettedm1 literally she should check if he has any type of disorder like my little brother is autistic and has his breakdowns a lot but we have never spanked him. The child seems like he might have bipolar disorder they should really get him checked he seems like he wants attention. Spanking doesn’t help and I know because I went through it , parents think spank your child it helps with discipline but doesn’t it actually gave me the idea to become more rebellious and show them I was just as powerful.

@hiemily7603

3 жыл бұрын

And the mom also seriously called the child “ retarded “ like how could she do that? Also cussing the child out. The mom and her boyfriend are bullies thats just it.

@corvettedm1

3 жыл бұрын

@@hiemily7603 I agree completely. Spanking only teaches children to hit people. My son is autistic but his behavior was perfect. The younger one OMG!

@unapologeticallyamy9031

3 жыл бұрын

@@hiemily7603 I agree. This little boy doesn’t look like he’s misbehaving because he’s a bad kid. He’s crying out and needs a doctor, a neurologist , not a spanking 😢 I can’t believe they think spankings will help the situation. Omg they just said he has cystic fibrosis. Children with chronic illness need special parents. I hope these two are willing to learn how to be what he needs instead of trying to punish a kid into being what they think is ideal.

The mother and boyfriend make the child's life miserable. They're bullying him. Who talks to their child this way? She sounds like she hates him. The boyfriend is immature and defensive.

As someone who went trough this type of emotional abuse, the parents are making it worse. My stepdad was both of these people my mom ignored. Them restraining him, them hitting is hands, threatening to hit him etc.

"stop scratching my couch"*hits kid* YOU DON'T WANT HIM TO HURT YOUR PRECIOUS SOFA BUT YOU HIT YOUR CHILD....

@sudq69

3 жыл бұрын

That's one of those couches that when you move your hand over them it changes to a darker color or something

@uuhhyeah5596

3 жыл бұрын

@@sudq69 lol it's a unique and valuable part of her family

@frogsblog1178

2 жыл бұрын

Microfiber imported from rooms 2 go

@amandawallace105

2 жыл бұрын

Bingo

@cheyanneluna8225

2 жыл бұрын

It’s just called respect and clearly her son doesn’t have any she’s being a mom trying to show her kid how to be good and he’s not listening like you guys are so soft it’s sad

The father needs to get full custody of this child immediately.

@hayesydays6333

2 жыл бұрын

He’s just as much of a douche. Kid should be with grandma. She’s a calming influence.

@dizzydumpling2801

2 жыл бұрын

@@hayesydays6333 I agree

@nevaehwelderrr7914

2 жыл бұрын

@@hayesydays6333 i thought that was the boyfriend not the husband/father. he said he's never had children of his own in the video so yes he should probably go to his father

@CaitHoover

2 жыл бұрын

"Who's the adult?" Not you.

@FeelTheLack

2 жыл бұрын

His father isn’t parenting at all, he said so himself, he lets his son play video games for the entire time he is visiting.

Reminds me of my parents. Emotionally immature bullies. Ugh

She doesnt need to have children..

I HATE THEM. Cystic Fibrosis is torture anyway. To have a mother and a rando beat you on top of that????? Dr Phil always threatens to call CPS but never actually does it. This poor baby's whole life is pain.

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

U think thats bad im the middle child the one that got scratched and i aggre they need to put her in jail

@Luxlazuli

3 жыл бұрын

@@gavenmcdougall8871 I hope you and your brother are safe. I'm sorry he hurt you, I hope you understand he does love you and he's just struggling. Keep your head up and remember success is the best revenge.

That 24-year old dude boyfriend is a joke, and the mother is even more pathetic to move him in.

@korensylvester1324

2 жыл бұрын

They are bullying a special needs child. Where are they finding ppl this stupid to show the world what horrible parenting looks like

@JenessaAndKingston

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely ! Not to mention the statistics of live in boyfriends & abuse. He has no business parenting or disciplining those kids. He probably wont even be around in a few years

@martingardner9124

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder if HE had some issues

@adriennelopez5936

2 жыл бұрын

@@korensylvester1324 he's not a special needs ...he's just a brat...and needs to be disciplined, what is her boyfriend's age got to do anything

@Ms_Tania

2 жыл бұрын

You mean the 24 year old child??

The mom should be more concerned over the fact her own child is hurting themselves over the fact her sofa is being damaged smh

7 year olds should not be playing violent video games. Come on parents, PARENT.

I’m a nanny and one of the kids I watch is a boy about his age that gets himself worked up easily over minor things. Instead of yelling at him to stop, I just sit down next to him and rub his back. I calmly and WARMLY instruct him to breathe. I reinforce that everything will be okay. I help regulate his emotions when he isn’t able to do it himself. Once he calms down, I give him a hug and he gets up and plays. *THAT’S* how you handle an emotional child! You don’t antagonize or insult them! You don’t intimidate them! I’m not saying don’t punish him if he does something wrong; just make sure he knows that you’re on his side and that you want the best for him. I’m just so upset watching this! *Edit* Okay, please stop “diagnosing” the boy I watch. I have my degree in psychology and see absolutely nothing warranting professional help. He is a happy, healthy little boy who occasionally overreacts to things that upset him. Not every crying spell in a CHILD means that there is something more insidious lying in wait!

@lolli2943

3 жыл бұрын

As someone who’s watched others kids for 15 years I 100% agree with you. The only other solution is to ignore till they calm down you don’t antagonize them.

@pinkpugginz

3 жыл бұрын

tried doing that for a kid at the preschool and he turned around and bit us 🤣

@carleethe1st

3 жыл бұрын

@@pinkpugginz Yeah, that technique is not going to work on a toddler having a meltdown. Lol.

@iescapedtheasylum2015

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!

@rinnyrindawg

3 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!! I have horrible anxiety and PTSD and my parents are horrible at deescalating. I remember being backed into the corner more than a few times growing up. As a nanny I always tried to be sensitive to the needs of each child. I watched autistic children, children with anxiety, and children dealing with trans issues and each required their own level of delicacy and finesse. Ultimately it’s about understanding the unique needs of each child and responding to them in kind. It also takes a lot of empathy, and if you don’t have that you have nothing.

A step parent can NEVER be a Disciplinarian. Shame on her for letting her revolving door of men put hands on her son 😤😡

@victoriajo5683

3 жыл бұрын

I know that made me so mad

@nadiage7434

3 жыл бұрын

Why do you want the step parents MONEY. WHY DO THEY PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR THE KIDS THAT ARE NOT THEIRS AND PAY FOR GROWN ADULTS COLLEGES. STEP PARENTS NEED RESPECT. BY NO WAY I CONDONE PHYSICAL PUNISHMENT BUT RESPECT IS NEEDED

@tomdwayne5198

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👍

@johnwilliams3745

3 жыл бұрын

Stepdad here. I think your idea of both stepparenting and discipline is askew. A stepparent is a parent responsible for raising a child, full stop. I’m the only father my daughters have ever known and I act like a father. Not some whimsical variation of a father, an actual father. I do 100% of the things any father raising children would do.

@prettyinink1661

3 жыл бұрын

@@johnwilliams3745 you count if you're all she's known. What i meant was a revolving door of diff boyfriends trying to come in and then discipline a child. Glad it works for you but your situation is the 1 where it may be okay. Lots of step parents don't have any interest in the child and sometimes don't even attempt to bond let alone raise them.

“I wanna go to my Dad’s!” That made me tear up.

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

how?

The more I watch this mother's behavior the more upset I get! He is being punished, you don't add more punishment.

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

u dont know the real thing happenef

@shutterbug_713

Жыл бұрын

I hate this mother! 😡

This mother is a freaking mess! Her ‘man’ is just another child.

@TheSampern

3 жыл бұрын

Agree

She’s a Momzilla. This is difficult to watch. She’s an abusive parent and she doesn’t know it. That’s the scary part.

@AJBJ0802

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, she knows.

@Mr.Thermistor7228

3 жыл бұрын

It's amazing that she filmed herself acting like this and can't see her faults

@austinrichards1740

3 жыл бұрын

Lol u said momzilla

@lorabetht9206

3 жыл бұрын

And this was FOR THE CAMERAS!! Imagine what happens behind closed doors 😲

That poor child! I hope his parents (and mom’s boyfriend) get the parenting help that they need because what they are doing now is abusive. I have a 7 year old boy with Autism and I understand how difficult it is to deal with a child’s meltdown. Yelling, hitting or screaming adds more fuel to the fire, making a meltdown more intense. I calm my son by sitting on the floor with him, I wrap my arms around him and we rock together. I’ve done this with him since he was a toddler and it works amazingly. I can’t even imagine if I stood over him, bullied and yelled insults at him. Parenting with love is so important for a child’s emotional well being.

I wish I could just hug that poor child! He is in need of help and support.

I hate to call a parent literally terrible, but the maturity of this mother is on the level of the kid. And they boyfriend shouldn’t even be parenting. He’s been there 8 whole months. She’s a flake and honestly, he would be better off with another family.

@themeg5199

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly the mom should have set limits on how the boyfriend could interact with her kiddos.

@VKrulikoski

3 жыл бұрын

@@themeg5199 Another mother choosing a man over her child.

Those videos of them “disciplining” him look more like they’re trying to break that boy’s spirit. That was stressful to watch.

@zm8077

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. And then I can’t help but to feel if that’s what she felt comfortable to film and share with Dr.Phil and millions of people, what on earth are those two monsters really capable of doing when not taping. 🤔

@MarieAgawa

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! It was as if they teamed up to bully him! I really hope he can grow passed this and have a wonderful life without those terrible adults in it.

@kzagame

2 жыл бұрын

@@MarieAgawa You are on the kid's side?!

@MarieAgawa

2 жыл бұрын

@@kzagame Absolutely! How can’t you be?

@nohorasims656

2 жыл бұрын

bullys

so we have a " bully " parent and an "enabler " .. This child needs some parents ! SMH

They’re provoking and taunting him the whole time and almost borderline making fun of him… her and the genius boyfriend are ruining that kid, great parenting lady. You shouldn’t be having children.

The audacity the mom and boyfriend had sending in those videos thinking everyone would side with them...

@obirSIMIR

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately this is the abusers mind. They live in their sick reality and hurt their children.

@joelraymond6799

2 жыл бұрын

Talk about stupid.

@ButchJoestar

2 жыл бұрын

RIGHT? LIKE THEY SEE NOTHING WRONG? This poor kid…

He’s only 7 he might not even know why he’s so angry. That’s why tantrums happen. When you can’t express feelings they come out physically in the form of crying, screaming, hitting. He’s just trying to let his emotions out. My heart is crying for this child.

@tesstickle6462

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. They don't give him a chance to voice what he's feeling. Shoot, the mother is awful and I'll bet she never taught him how to express himself. My babies know how to voice their feelings....and if they don't know how they feel at that moment, we work it out together to find out what's bothering them. Sad to see this stone age parenting 😔

@edgy_unicorns5065

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! That and possible underlying trauma

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

Hay jessica im her other son the one if the scratched back and i agree

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

@@tesstickle6462 i aggre

@darajoyce5514

2 жыл бұрын

@texasj123 no, he's traumatized

"Who's the adult? Who's the parent?" Uh, nobody in that room that's for sure.

waiting for doctor phil to yell at these parents and tell them their abusive.

First of all...NO MAN WILL EVER LAY A HAND ON MY CHILD NOR THREATEN THEM, LIKE THIS MAN DID

@tomdwayne5198

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👍

@comedygalorefunnyhaha5116

3 жыл бұрын

This post deserves more likes

@marshmellow1912

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! If I had a child, i wouldnt care if it was the father of my child, no one will ever hurt my child.

@deannekliene2673

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@champagnesupernova777

2 жыл бұрын

This!!

The boyfriend has the “about to sneeze” look ALWAYS.

@punk.rock.hippie

3 жыл бұрын

LOL I was thinking that same thing 😆 what a goober!

@dlemon90

3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHA!!! That is hilarious!!

@tomdwayne5198

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👍

@tomdwayne5198

3 жыл бұрын

Where are you from?

@thecocksaysmoo

3 жыл бұрын

Mouth Breather D:

Every child deserves a parent, not every parent deserves a child.

As someone who was the family scapegoat my heart goes out to him, poor little boy, all he wants is hugs and stability.

As someone with autism, the moment I heard that they use prone restraint on the child I knew they were the problem.

@hiddenanddeletedvideos6971

3 жыл бұрын

I think the kid has it

@annahs.channel

3 жыл бұрын

@@hiddenanddeletedvideos6971 i definitely agree with that.

@PhoenixJohnson29

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that the mom so casually said that “that looks r******* when you do that” made me want to jump into the screen and slap her.

@fusionfan6883

3 жыл бұрын

Yes my immediate thought when I first saw his behaviour. I spent two years working in the autism field, including drafting legislation, and through that experience learnt so much from parents and those with condition. Autism is a spectrum and this child seems to have many of the indicative traits. The parents are awful, no love or empathy, just ignorant bullying!

@Meh-sn5kj

3 жыл бұрын

i dont have autism, but i know that restraint doesnt help at all. also i feel like he might be autistic but i really dont know. what a sad situation

Hearing a 7 year old little boy cry saying he hates himself breaks my dang heart so bad. It reminds me of my youth and growing up.

@MiMiTaRaJ

3 жыл бұрын

That part brought me to tears. Poor little soul, no child deserves to feel that way.

@nothing2see625

3 жыл бұрын

It's a huge difference between crying and screaming his lungs out in a crise of anger. It's seem that you aren't capable is hearing the difference.

@sudq69

3 жыл бұрын

I do that once a month

@EC-tt3nj

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you went through that. I feel like I can also empathize with this poor kid. I had ADHD as a kid I recall feeling like a monster. I still have a hard time forgiving myself for who I am.

@darajoyce5514

2 жыл бұрын

Same

A child so young should never hate themselves.Hearing him say that is heartbreaking.

Parents need a huge look at themselves. Damn they need classes or something. And the kid just needs constructive discipline with time outs and consistency. Poor kid.

The comments restore my faith in humanity. I am so glad awful parents like this are not the norm and the majority of people out here have empathy for this helpless poor child. My heart breaks for him. May God help him.

@yerfeelings6667

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Her abu*e and neglect has made him who he is. His actions are an action of her parenting 100%. Now that she's created this situation she's trying to just demand a change from everyone but herself. Like lady, get real. You are the problem! I hope she gets help. Heck, both parents couuld use some! That poor little boy needs out of that situation 🙏😢

@BsTheLadynred

3 жыл бұрын

As a Mom myself I can't even imagine talking to my child like that. These people are horrible.

@dianakenealy8573

3 жыл бұрын

@@yerfeelings6667 I AGREE TOTALLY!!

@trentjohnson6333

3 жыл бұрын

People tend to lack empathy and compassion for children.

@nicktheguru8890

3 жыл бұрын

thank my fellow black brother

When she says “Who’s Adult” does anyone else cringe?

@jettanyx1

3 жыл бұрын

Just a power trip for this woman. Then pushes him anyway

@GreyPajamas

3 жыл бұрын

Seriously sounds like she’s saying “Who’s a dolt?”

@catsantos353

3 жыл бұрын

It’s like The Trunchbull & Mr Wormwood from Matilda all over again *im BIG youre SMALL*

@arickak.7364

3 жыл бұрын

I was waiting for Dr. Phil to say "well it's clearly not you"

@ahjahlilulaamadeus3632

3 жыл бұрын

I did. If she's the adult, why is she acting like a child? I've experienced it with teachers in elementary who didn't know how to deal with special needs kids and it just has left me with Psychological trauma. If she does it to the kid more, he'll have Psychological Trauma, or at the least *a strong Distrust and Hatred knowing he was abused when he was at his worst*

All they have to do is leave him alone… he’s definitely not the problem!!

they literally sit over that kid when he’s upset and terrorize him. that isn’t okay….

they holding each other hands but they can't hold 7 years old child hand ,so sad 😞

@jeanieherron7706

3 жыл бұрын

So TRUE. I saw NO kindness offered to the boy!

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

@@jeanieherron7706 stop thats my brother he actes like that cause he has multi disorders

*"DON'T SCRATCH MY COUCH!"* was unreal to me as a mother. The poor kid is being tormented not parented!! I have a 5 year old son on the spectrum who has behavior problems. *NEVER* would I hit him or belittle him! These ppl are a disgrace!

@jennaharris3975

3 жыл бұрын

,n be gf CT

@juliannestanciu2390

3 жыл бұрын

and the fact that they care about their freaking couch more than their, clearly depressed, child.

@MaryJane-jt1ds

3 жыл бұрын

And I didn't hear them being reprimanded for each and every infraction against the child. They are tormenting him and I know if their this open about abusing this Child, it's been so much worse for him when the cameras weren't around. She better get the ultimatum boyfriend or Children, because together the2 are a disaster waiting to happen. Prevention is key.

@MaryJane-jt1ds

3 жыл бұрын

@@juliannestanciu2390 and the dog..

@MaryJane-jt1ds

3 жыл бұрын

@@juliannestanciu2390 and the dog..

From the start, i knew from the get-go when she said that they're not accountable as to why THEIR child is acting like this, that there's major problems within the household. I can't fathom how disgusted and furious i feel about the parents, and sad for the child to have experienced all this. Hope he gets the help he very much deserves, and especially find someone that can SHOW him the very much deserved love and affection that failed to give.

Mom and her boyfriend are just plain nasty to that little boy. Tell me they don’t like the child without telling me they don’t like the child.

I love how they keep bringing up that he has medical and mental health issues yet they aren't being sensitive to those issues AT ALL! They just like poor us he has all these issues that make OUR lives so hard

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

Lol his disorder makes it worse and im telling u that cause i live if him im his brother

@pratkier

3 жыл бұрын

@@gavenmcdougall8871 somebody's disorder isn't their fault

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

@@pratkier i have disorders i dont act lukr that its ny momd fault i kne

@pratkier

3 жыл бұрын

@@gavenmcdougall8871 every disorder isn't the same and yelling in a kid's face and bullying him when you know that didn't work isn't helpful

@gavenmcdougall8871

3 жыл бұрын

@@pratkier ik

Hey little guy, if you see this online when you get older plz know that there are people world wide sending you love and respect. We are rooting for YOU! You deserve love and respect and nobody should ever put their hands on you!

@Keepdreamingbro11

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful🥺

@trentjohnson6333

2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what all children need to hear 💯💯💯💯

@easymoneyrad

2 жыл бұрын

🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

@trentjohnson6333

2 жыл бұрын

@@easymoneyrad what does that mean.

@easymoneyrad

2 жыл бұрын

@@trentjohnson6333 means 2 things, how do we know what he’ll turn out like, prolly the same prolly not, 2nd are we saying it’s fully the parents fault or both ways

Poor kid. I’d be crying to too if I was being yelled at by someone who looked as strange as that guy does

when that little boy said he hated himself, i felt so sick. that poor child.

This boyfriend thinks he knows everything🥴

@blondesense1708

3 жыл бұрын

He does, it’s sickening. He was 12 years old when she started having kids, he knows nothing.

@melanatedqueen

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing is easier than parenting a child you can take back to the "owner".

@HannahLiastis

3 жыл бұрын

Came here to say that

@roobertoober4686

3 жыл бұрын

The more I watch this video the more this comment makes sense

@colleenc.9900

3 жыл бұрын

@@melanatedqueen I’m sorry if you’re familiar with this feeling... 😔

hearing that child say he hates himself... it’s heart breaking.

@kayleecakes318

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that one got me. 😭💔

@saranicole1614

2 жыл бұрын

My heart hurts from hearing him say that. A 7 year old shouldn't hate themselves or know what that feels like 💔

@darajoyce5514

2 жыл бұрын

He's harming himself. That is what he feels.

@mishellekarn5260

2 жыл бұрын

Omgosh I know right! That was so sad 😔

The boyfriend is so far past inappropriate with his behavior of those children. I have been a stepparent for over 5 years and I never touched my stepdaughter. They are a complete disaster. The more I watched, the more angry I got. WTF.

One thing I'm glad of is they stopped him hurting the dog. They need to speak loving to the child too.

If that’s what she feels comfortable to film and give to Dr. Phil to view and share with millions of people, I truly fear the monsters they are when there’s no recording in process. Poor little man, I just want to hug him.

@christancochran8861

2 жыл бұрын

THIS!!

@arizonawarningsirens6067

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t hug him! He’ll scratch you across the back!

@QueenMel_

2 жыл бұрын

he probably really needs it 🥺

@mermaidgirl9232

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@jeremymcculla4727

2 жыл бұрын

Lol goodluck hugging him🤣

Mom with 2 kids by 3 dads. I'm so shocked the kid is having issues. 🙄 They hit the child, then tell him not to hit. The kid is just reflecting the crappy "parenting" that he has received.

@Ray-uf8dj

3 жыл бұрын

The BOBO doll experiment in full effect.

@beholdthegriffin5488

3 жыл бұрын

Girl I completely agree but check your math

@angelsarraa2001

3 жыл бұрын

@@beholdthegriffin5488 😂

@duplicarus

3 жыл бұрын

2 kids by 3 dads? Ok

@mechelemede4579

3 жыл бұрын

@@duplicarus Refer back to above comment. 🙄

My heart breaks for the poor kid...I’m literally crying. He needs someone to pattens him with love, affection, understanding, and a little bit of firmness. And NO physical abuse or threats of physical abuse or emotional/mental abuse or any abuse at all.

That poor child!!! How can these people call themselves parents?!?! I grew up in a similar environment/situation... with a narcissist control freak mother and an abusive, antagonistic step-father. I had ulcers as a teenager from the stress...and I have C-PTSD as an adult.

How precious. He's lived with those kids for eight months and now he has a "parenting instinct". I've been a parent for 13+ years and sometimes I literally have no idea what to do still 😂

@not_jon_vendi

2 жыл бұрын

he didnt even pronounce "parental" right. Amazing how they have no idea how ignorant and awful some people are

@bellabeaton8192

2 жыл бұрын

right and for him to have such a mean hard approach with the parenting is disgusting.

@courtneygooden9609

2 жыл бұрын

Whoa is me….ehh

@celianunn2070

2 жыл бұрын

Parent Log: Year 4: I fear they are driving me insane...but I dont mind Joke from a mother of 3 girls under 5 years old XD

@prescott1960

2 жыл бұрын

Lololol.... my kids did not come with instructions. I never hit or spanked my son's. I took the time to talk to them. Conversation goes a long way parents!

“Kids deserve parents parents don’t deserve kids”

This poor baby, my heart is breaking watching this, my 4 year old is autistic and the thought of ANYONE treating him that way boils my blood. Vile people, they are not parents.

@gavenmcdougall881

Жыл бұрын

just dont be talking if u dont know the full story

@shutterbug_713

Жыл бұрын

Yah, poor kid with special needs!

@dominiquepilon5910

2 ай бұрын

@@gavenmcdougall881yes exactly

Pretty satisfying to watch dr phil make both of these people feel like horrible people.

@calebmcallister83

2 жыл бұрын

My mother and father split at a young age. My mom moved another man In, still with em till today never once did I feel threatened by him. I feel sorry for the little guy to feel like he’s gotta compete with a grown man for his own mothers love.

When he said he hated himself was such a clear indicator of the emotional abuse he is dealing with from his parents. That's 100% a learned thought process bc his family probably doesnt show him how to love himself because they cant even show him love and compassion. Poor kid

@kj-pn8ll

2 жыл бұрын

He hates himself because he feels like his parents hate him, and that it must have been something he did to *make* them hate him, like he's done it to himself, and now he blames himself for the way his parents are 🥺😭 some people should not be allowed to have children 😭

@elwampo135

2 жыл бұрын

Four words: DEMONIC POSESSION!!!111

@purpleranger5987

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think his parents are all bad he’s obviously doing some HORRIBLE things too especially towards his brother. Sometimes it’s both of them this kid has issues like he hasn’t been disciplined till this age. I had HORRIBLE parents but I wasn’t a huge annoying brat like this kid.

@omega.7534

Жыл бұрын

People always make up nonsense. If it was the parents well how comes the other children are fine. Goes to show how little people understand things an are quick to point the finger.

@kaylesmurphy1626

Жыл бұрын

@@omega.7534 exactly 💯b

This makes me so angry. No wonder the child has so many issues if he's being called r*****ed and taunted. This just makes me so mad. Asking "who's the adult" and bullying her own child!

@arirose5887

3 жыл бұрын

@Owen Edwards I'm sorry you've had to deal with that. Being autistic is nothing to be ashamed of and people who treat it as otherwise are just ignorant

@Michelle-db8iz

3 жыл бұрын

@Owen Edwards I'm so sorry Owen, I have a brother with down syndrome & I hate that word too 💝

@sudq69

3 жыл бұрын

@Owen Edwards dam bro it'll be ok

@honkidd

2 жыл бұрын

Oh man I heard the r name too and it made me sick!

@10101funday

2 жыл бұрын

@Owen Edwards me to

They are both antagonizing him! That ought to be considered abuse!

mom: mad that he is hurting himself mom: proceeds to hit, and smack him

As soon as she said "Retarded." I was like, "Ah. I see what the issue may actually be."

@Monicablackbelt24

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.. she’s a horrific mother! No love or compassion.. it’s heartbreaking!

@crystaly.santiagocora

Жыл бұрын

*cough cough verbal abuse cough cough* Not to mention that she pops off at him all the time and has no patience or empathy. It makes me so pissed off and frustrated to notice that people are still acting the way she did.

@HalifaxHercules

Жыл бұрын

Faren should he been charged for a hate crime as the "R" word is considered hateful towards persons with developmental disabilities, including Michael. She would have been charged and ridiculed for sure in Canada where the "R" word is considered a hate crime.

@shutterbug_713

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't believe me ears when she said it! I hate that woman!

Actually feel bad for the kid, they hit him a lot from what I’ve seen.

@solar.eclipse420

3 жыл бұрын

The dude is abusi**

@VKrulikoski

3 жыл бұрын

When he said he hates himself....and she hates him, I cried. How can anybody hear their child say that and keep yelling?

@ohmanyourecool1

3 жыл бұрын

@Snake Tell us

@jazzminefarolxx

3 жыл бұрын

right???? and this is only what she CHOSE to show us. imagine what happens behind closed doors

@jayhom6090

3 жыл бұрын

@@ohmanyourecool1 they clearly dont feel comfortable saying who and it was obvious that they dont want to say who so why even comment for them to tell you (I say you because you're the only one who wants to know) Even if they told you, what would it do for you besides trigger them and bring on a flood of painful and sad emotions. That was rude of you nosy Nancy.

I can't handle parents like this! Instead of dealing with it by talking or caring, they use aggression and it angers me like crazy!!

@floridflowers777

Жыл бұрын

Same here

If parents can't control their emotions, how do they expect a child to? As far as the boyfriend goes, he needs to be charged!

Something is very wrong how did this go untreated.. she literally called him r*tarded

@kadenwild558

3 жыл бұрын

If she said something like the situation being retarded, that wouldn’t be bad, but the way she meant “retarded” is bad.

@rachaeldawn4843

3 жыл бұрын

@@kadenwild558 um no im pretty sure that using a slur towards your child & their behaviour is bad regardless.

@loveycat5474

3 жыл бұрын

It is called intellectually disabled in the D S M V. The termed retardation was change because it has come to mean stupid and people have fought to have it changed. So his mother is calling him stupid. She is being a bully and not a parent.

@shadyrecordsmusic

3 жыл бұрын

She said he acting didn't say he was but still very wrong

Poor lad. Getting smacked and screamed at and sworn at. Terrible "mother" and the boyfriend 🤬

@matt3128

3 жыл бұрын

we should gain trust from our kids in order to follow us plus discipline should not always be physical abuse

@cherrydarling1329

3 жыл бұрын

Discipline should *never* be physical. Ever.

@martingardner9124

3 жыл бұрын

@@cherrydarling1329 seriously. She’s lucky she didn’t go to Steve Wilkos. If she went there she’d be in BIG trouble for what she’s been doing.

My little cousin was just like this. He has cystic fibrosis too. He was incredibly violent and his parents did not enforce anything discipline with him. It came to a head when he bit my sister super hard and made her bleed. That's when he started seeing a therapist regularly and they finally started time out. He is now the sweetest kid I know. It's amazing what talking to someone and getting effective discipline does for a child. This child can make a turn around if his parents actually change what they are doing. This is a child who is suffering and hurting.

This brought back memories of my childhood that I must’ve repressed and I’m just now realizing how similar my upbringing actually was.

I have an autistic 6-year-old boy with some similar behavior, and I'm hugging him while watching this..this is so heartbreaking.. 😢😢😢😢

@Blurberry231

2 жыл бұрын

@@GuilhermeSilva-lt6rw yes, autistic kids need early intervention. I hope this boy gets the helps he needs 😔

@qistinanadhila5608

2 жыл бұрын

Yes.. i have 2 autism brother beside me right now.. and i feel so sad 😥 they bite me and scratch me alot.. and hugging them usually makes it alot better.. being angry just make things worst

@kimberlyamontney4729

2 жыл бұрын

Autism spectrum disorder or something else that can be diagnosed and treated.

@sweetpeach6203

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you and your son are doing well Hidayah. I have a daughter with autism as well. Bless you ❣️

@155chipmunkz

2 жыл бұрын

I’m autistic myself.

I'm a foster parent...I've seen and heard it all....and this, this is just heartbreaking. This boy's inner child and self-worth is undoubtedly so low.

@raedonn

3 жыл бұрын

and the mass murder video games arent helping! hey i have an idea play a board game with your child do some craft projects go for a bike ride or a walk anything loving to show him you do actually care about him. they are literally treating him like they hate him. i thought those mass murder video games are for adults only, 7 year old children should not be allowed use of those vile games. i played pong and packman. these parents worried about their own selfish desires!

@vkrgfan

3 жыл бұрын

@@raedonn Exactly, the boy probably has autism, and keeping them in front of the screen playing violent video games and not paying attention to him is heartbreaking. The father seems to do a better job with him, you can't ask much from autistic children they develop at a different pace and you need a lot of patience with them, the mom makes things worse she doesn't understand anything about Autism and doesn't bother to do her research. The mother seems aweful.

@aliciat2216

3 жыл бұрын

I think the parents need parenting classes because whatever their doing clearly isn’t working. The poor child could be autistic and not able to express his feeling.

@vkrgfan

3 жыл бұрын

@@aliciat2216 Not everyone meant to be a parent, not everyone is naturally equipped with the level of empathy and intelligence to raise a child due to their own mental issues.

@erickavaughn247

3 жыл бұрын

I’m scared for the kid. He most likely feels like he can’t do anything right. With personal experience feeling like that- Just.. so many things could develop in the child mentally

As a single father of a 9 year old this is painful to watch! If this is what they put out to the public imagine what goes on behind closed doors, my heart goes out to this kid.

You can hear in his voice he’s scared, devastated, and outraged at how he is living it’s breaking my heart. And I wanted to jump through my phone and remove the mom!!!

I hate myself! How can a mother listen to that and not realise she is doing something wrong.

@wandarobinson326

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly Sally Miller...

@katehack1677

3 жыл бұрын

I heard that 😢 how can a mother hear that and not immediately stop what she's doing and show compassion?

@mydogsioux

3 жыл бұрын

@@katehack1677 why doesn't she give the father custody?

@anilcharl4017

3 жыл бұрын

Mom’s brain is not even a day mature than child’s. That is the problem here. I am glad at least they came for some help.

@dianakenealy8573

3 жыл бұрын

@@mydogsioux I'd beat the b.f. for even thinking it's ok to touch my boy. I'd be getting that son out of the hands of two undeserving of any child home asap if I were his father. I'm not but wish I was for a bit just so I could get this boy far away from the sickos..

Granma says she's afraid by the time he reaches puberty? Yeah is he doesn't kill himself by then. It just floored me when Michael expressed that he hated himself. He's saying that at the age of 7. That poor kid. God knows what the parents do to him when the camera is off

@papyrussbiggestfan

3 жыл бұрын

hasnt even hit double digits and is already self harming :(

@mindrolling24

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly cystic fibrosis sufferers do not live long lives without transplants. And they’re making this boys life utterly miserable. It’s abuse.

@martingardner9124

3 жыл бұрын

Or some MAJOR change at 13.

It’s disgusting when parents frame themselves as victims of their “wild” child. cps should get involved

how much yall wanna bet she went home and just yelled at him now cause dr phil said the boyfriend had to move out? She gives off ZERO maternal vibes I don't trust her to do the right thing for a second!