THIS JUNK ROOM IS OUT OF CONTROL! Decluttering my sister's hoarder junk room! (Ep. 5)

Тәжірибелік нұсқаулар және стиль

I ❤️ Good Chop! Use code CARLA120 to get $120 off across your first 4 boxes of Good Chop at bit.ly/40l9sRz!
ITEMS USED IN VIDEO: www.amazon.com/shop/thecarlap...
JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: www.thecarlaproject.com/clutte...
FOLLOW ME ON INSTA: / thecarlaprojectla
* Some links are affiliate and are at no extra cost to you, it's just one way to support me and my channel!
Love you guys thanks so much for watching!!
Carla xx
____________________________________________
for brand inquiries: contact@tablerockmanagement.com
personal and business email: hello@thecarlaproject.com
Style, Minimalism, Apartment Decor, Decluttering, Simple Living, Productivity, Organization, Clean Home, Wellness, Recovery, Capsule Wardrobe

Пікірлер: 1 200

  • @TheCarlaProject
    @TheCarlaProject6 ай бұрын

    Use code CARLA120 to get $120 off across your first 4 boxes of Good Chop at bit.ly/40l9sRz!

  • @MonaLisa-el9wi
    @MonaLisa-el9wi6 ай бұрын

    Carla, your sister is such a sweet and kindhearted woman. This happens to most people on some type of level. You are such a blessing for helping.

  • @lesliestanleyangles

    @lesliestanleyangles

    6 ай бұрын

    I agree ❤

  • @FeistyShlomit

    @FeistyShlomit

    6 ай бұрын

    So true.

  • @hippodinoreserve6090

    @hippodinoreserve6090

    6 ай бұрын

    Carla, your sister is definitely not the only one. Allowing us in her space is for the benefit of us all. Thank you so much.

  • @louiseisobel

    @louiseisobel

    6 ай бұрын

    Big agree 😊❤

  • @CraftsBayou

    @CraftsBayou

    6 ай бұрын

    💖✨🙌🏾✨💖

  • @cheryllewis-scott8741
    @cheryllewis-scott87416 ай бұрын

    Every time your sister said ‘what a shame’, when she realized the amount of expired and wasted food, I believe was a moment closer to her resolving to not let this happen again.

  • @smz5302

    @smz5302

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes, I think feeling the pain helps us change.

  • @joycecook8876

    @joycecook8876

    6 ай бұрын

    She is such a sweet and caring soul. She’s fun too! I love how y’all laughed so much as you worked. ❤

  • @christinevalentine3373

    @christinevalentine3373

    6 ай бұрын

    Dear friend, it’s certainly not a “shame”. There is no shame in being overwhelmed. Think about the trauma that led to this really difficult time. She is so very vulnerable and strong. Good work guys in having the strength to look at the situation. You are both amazing!

  • @Xiroi87

    @Xiroi87

    6 ай бұрын

    @christinevalentine3373 the expression "such a shame" does NOT mean literally feeling shame, it's more like such a waste.

  • @kathleenkaleookalanismith8724

    @kathleenkaleookalanismith8724

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes, it definitely felt like a shift in her mindset for sure. 🫶🏽

  • @Raxx777
    @Raxx7776 ай бұрын

    COVID was a huge trauma to most people. Her need to buy and hoard food was shared by many, most not having the courage to show it in this way. Her urge was prompted by a desire to keep her family safe and fed. To save money, by getting things on sale for a future date, it just got out of control. I'm happy that she's taking steps to get her house and life back under control so she can enjoy herself and her home. Kudos for Carla for helping in this way !!! Best wishes

  • @nellautumngirl

    @nellautumngirl

    5 ай бұрын

    I remember my sweet aunt making masks for the whole family, way more than needed. She's a good person and wanted to keep us all safe and herself occupied.

  • @marysiegel7974

    @marysiegel7974

    5 ай бұрын

    You are spot on!

  • @LaurenOliviArt

    @LaurenOliviArt

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes ❤

  • @tamarap387
    @tamarap3876 ай бұрын

    Someone in our area was doing an EXTREME "No Buy" year and she was open to taking slightly outdated foods. SO many people offered their newly decluttered food items and she posted ALL the meals she created with those foods. It made everyone feel great to 'give' to her and she had a much easier Extreme no buy year!

  • @timekabolden5309

    @timekabolden5309

    6 ай бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @molee8863

    @molee8863

    5 ай бұрын

    What a lovely idea. I'm happy that someone was willing to take it instead of it going to the landfill. This especially since not all expired food is actually bad. Some are simply best by dates. I watch so many decluttering videos & to see how much food is thrown out is saddening due to people over buying.

  • @LindaQueLeenda
    @LindaQueLeenda6 ай бұрын

    Your sister is so very brave for sharing this with us. It’s encouraging in so many ways!

  • @TheCarlaProject

    @TheCarlaProject

    6 ай бұрын

    She is! Thank you❤

  • @katrinahooks7193

    @katrinahooks7193

    6 ай бұрын

    She is very BRAVE!! This speaks volumes to wanting HELP!!!

  • @fabienneroure9995

    @fabienneroure9995

    6 ай бұрын

    Totally amazing!❤😘👍

  • @pb847

    @pb847

    6 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed watching sisters working

  • @francinehogsett3065

    @francinehogsett3065

    6 ай бұрын

    Such beautiful women…..great job ladies 😊❤️

  • @upcyclingme3797
    @upcyclingme37976 ай бұрын

    Your sister’s willingness to be vulnerable is exceedingly brave and is no doubt helping so many. Samson definitely gets kudos for his part in this video even thought he ate mystery bits.

  • @TheCarlaProject

    @TheCarlaProject

    6 ай бұрын

    Lol 😂 he still gets major credit you’re right!

  • @secretninja247

    @secretninja247

    3 ай бұрын

    Ate “mystery bits” 😂

  • @crystalkissoon4514
    @crystalkissoon45146 ай бұрын

    It's so nice when all the people who live in the house participate, instead of just one person slogging through everything. Also, love how realistic this is: sitting down and taking a three-hour break, getting frustrated with each other, getting overwhelmed, being tired at the end, all the emotions that comes up from seeing your stuff and all the plans that never were. I'm looking forward to the day your sister is free from all of this.

  • @ds7675

    @ds7675

    6 ай бұрын

    That was the perfect comment for how one or many feel when doing such a overwhelming declutter. Spot on! ETA: especially “all the plans that never were.”

  • @crystalkissoon4514

    @crystalkissoon4514

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks! Yeah, you're not just letting go of stuff, you're letting go of ideas of who you thought you were, and embracing who you really are. Decluttering really forces you to be honest with yourself.@@ds7675

  • @samantharowley125
    @samantharowley1256 ай бұрын

    I love how your sister is determined to declutter. She may tire out at times, but she keeps at it.

  • @RebeccaShepherd
    @RebeccaShepherd6 ай бұрын

    Your sister is truly amazing and has come a very long way. She should be so darn proud of herself. She is an example for all of us to do better with our stuff amd spending decisions going into inflation.

  • @susannovak8263

    @susannovak8263

    6 ай бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @Liluscchic88
    @Liluscchic886 ай бұрын

    I hope your sister understands just how much she has helped those of us in her same circumstance. We appreciate her vulnerability and courage to show her home.

  • @janefreda7034
    @janefreda70346 ай бұрын

    Your sister has such a good attitude despite how difficult the task is and you're AMAZING at decluttering.

  • @rachaelacuna77
    @rachaelacuna776 ай бұрын

    I was raised by hoarders to be a hoarder. I've been on my own 5 year declutter journey so I completely understand the overwhelm. Your sister is doing a great job! It's a big step for her to allow you to declutter without her there! Great job! Remind her to be kind to herself through this process. It took years to get to this place so it'll definitely take some time to work through the stuff.

  • @librarynan4610
    @librarynan46106 ай бұрын

    I can tell the letting go of items is getting easier for Sister. She is a rockstar! Carla, you did great redirecting Sister when she started getting overwhelmed. You are a rockstar too!

  • @jen....
    @jen....6 ай бұрын

    I'm glad you showed everyone getting a bit tired and frustrated - I'm sure a lot of people can relate. Amazing that you reclaimed a whole (good sized) room.

  • @carolefoldPacNW

    @carolefoldPacNW

    6 ай бұрын

    I love your comment. I was surprised by how spacious the room is. It’s as if they had an extra (large) bedroom built on, and it cost nothing but time and energy.

  • @clairejones811
    @clairejones8116 ай бұрын

    Your sister is so brave to admit she needed help and allow it to be filmed. She will inspire others who have a similar situation. You are so inspiring and a lovely sister to help xx

  • @ashleyvelasco919
    @ashleyvelasco9196 ай бұрын

    I'm impressed and inspired by your level of calmness throughout this video. Personally, I get very triggered by huge levels of clutter within my own family. So thank you for being a reminder that it can be done!

  • @TheCarlaProject

    @TheCarlaProject

    6 ай бұрын

    oh yes i get triggered too!!😅 but yes yes it can still be done!

  • @nora-.-g
    @nora-.-g6 ай бұрын

    So impressive all the work you all are putting in! These videos really show the psychological impacts that the pandemic had on so many people - I hope your sister knows she’s not the only one who found themselves gathering and gathering and gathering food and other things in order to feel secure in insecure times.

  • @WellEditedCo

    @WellEditedCo

    6 ай бұрын

    This is my thought exactly! The pandemic was traumatic for most of us, and we all dealt with it in different ways. Buying a lot of food isn’t even close to the worst ways! ❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @glendaw5221
    @glendaw52216 ай бұрын

    Your sister is so good about admitting something needs to go. For her to have compulsively bought all those things and now wanting to be minimalistic-ish is amazing. You all are so patient and kind to each other even when you are hot and tired. Good family!!

  • @scofah

    @scofah

    6 ай бұрын

    ❤😊well said! Totally agree.

  • @samwatts3378
    @samwatts33786 ай бұрын

    Your sister is incredibly brave for sharing this . To open yourself up to the internet takes courage. I love how committed she is to this process. As a minimalist I am watching and cheering her on …she can do this ❤❤❤

  • @melanienewberry2805
    @melanienewberry28056 ай бұрын

    I laughed so hard about the eye drops! “I’ll use some right now….oh never mind. It’s brown” Carla: “oh it’s not supposed to be brown?” You two are cute.

  • @sophrito
    @sophrito6 ай бұрын

    I was jonesing for another sister declutter video, and here it is!!! Yay

  • @AngusHenry09

    @AngusHenry09

    6 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @kristinestocker
    @kristinestocker6 ай бұрын

    The time leading up to Christmas and Thanksgiving is perfect for food donation. Lots of food pantries are collecting.

  • @noovernightguests

    @noovernightguests

    6 ай бұрын

    Great point!

  • @akw6078
    @akw60786 ай бұрын

    Dear Carla, it's so great your sister lets us be part of her journey💜. My husband and I also got caught up in the hoarding frenzy for a while. We are from Germany and during the pandemic was the first time since the war that some things were actually not available. Sure our grandparents told us about the shortages they faced but to see empty shelves in the supermarket with your own eyes... I think that caused a lot of fear in a lot of people. I'm glad my husband and I realised what was happening to us, we agreed on some rules and now we're down to a normal level of stuff again. But it also gave me some insight into how my grandparents and parents feel (mostly subconsciously I think) and why it's so hard to get them to throw stuff away. If the world around you feels so unsure, you just want to hang onto things to make you feel safe and prepared. Well, we are really looking forward to another video of you and your lovely Family. And especially Samson of course🐾💜

  • @janohare916

    @janohare916

    6 ай бұрын

    So true! I am understanding my depression-era grandparents better now.

  • @sarahplummer2828
    @sarahplummer28286 ай бұрын

    Growing up poor and needing to leverage money when you have it absolutely made me buy on sale and stock up on items, and even feel the need to buy things on sale even if they aren't my favorite or preferred. I'm still struggling to combat that impulse but it takes time and it's hard. So proud of your sister for tackling this massive decluttering!

  • @francine6485
    @francine64856 ай бұрын

    I was cleaning my closet rearranging and updating when you popped into my head I thought oh a video today. It's so weird it's like we're complete strangers but I feel like when your video posts I got a call from a friend. A testament to how effective your videos are.

  • @SuzWhat
    @SuzWhat6 ай бұрын

    Your sister is my hero for doing this and you are her hero doing it with her. Thanks for sharing! Peace and love..Suz What ☮️💛

  • @FeistyShlomit

    @FeistyShlomit

    6 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @galeocean4182
    @galeocean41826 ай бұрын

    I love hoe you resist “ preaching “ to your sister about the overbuying. You just let her come to her own conclusion on what got her into this mess. 😊 Big hugs to Sampson! 💕💕

  • @Blubes23
    @Blubes23Ай бұрын

    This series shoud be a tv programme. Your sister is a truly inspiring human, and i hope more ppl struggling see this. She’s taking full accountability and now faces the action from the concequenses head on like a freakin queen.

  • @brighteyes88
    @brighteyes886 ай бұрын

    I’m enjoying the declutter series with your sister; she’s as lovely as you are too 😊

  • @deannaw9657
    @deannaw96576 ай бұрын

    Your sister is a BOSS, and you are a MASTER declutterer!! I have loved this series. It's so satisfying to see what you all have accomplished. Rock on, girl! ❤

  • @habeebideemashayish2750

    @habeebideemashayish2750

    6 ай бұрын

    Do you remember when Carla was struggle bussing the most basic decluttering decisions in her house? Now she's a decluttering baddie, and able to help others, too!

  • @celestedavis-dill3784
    @celestedavis-dill37846 ай бұрын

    Your sister is a rock star! She’s brave for letting all of us inside her home, and for making the hard decisions. Most of us either have our own junk rooms (or storage building) or know and love someone that does, and it’s so easy to get to the point that your sister was at. Thank you both for sharing this experience. I’ve enjoyed all of the videos of you two working together and love seeing the progress. Please give Samson a big smooch from this dog lover.

  • @gailthakur122
    @gailthakur1226 ай бұрын

    Your sister is doing amazing. I can't wait for her to have the peaceful house she deserves. You guys are doing an awesome job.

  • @susanxa8158
    @susanxa81586 ай бұрын

    I have fallen down the same rabbit hole as your sister with the prepping. Thank you so much for sharing the journey. It's very motivating.

  • @lynettebaumgartner6201
    @lynettebaumgartner62016 ай бұрын

    What helped me stop buying so much, was to stop going to the stores. I make a list and only shop for what is on the list. I shop every two weeks at the grocery store. It has really helped with the budget and gathering unnecessary items. These have been very helpful and awesome videos. So real and true to what houses really look like in the real world. Great job.

  • @NeboAllen
    @NeboAllen6 ай бұрын

    I love this series. I could be in your sisters friend/co-worker group because I identify with her thought process with the food prepper stuff listening to KZread 😄 and even the projects that never followed thru. It's not just your sister, but the whole household needs to stay on board to keep every item in their "homes" so you know where everything goes to find them later. Much respect to your sister for allowing us to watch the process, very inspiring!

  • @jenwynn19
    @jenwynn196 ай бұрын

    I’m always amazed at how fast you are able to go through a room. My room has a lot in it but not this much, and I am always overwhelmed at just the thought of dealing with it.

  • @adalcour
    @adalcour6 ай бұрын

    I look forward to these videos. Your sister has such a good attitude about getting rid of things and you are so patient and loving towards her.

  • @claudiaw9246
    @claudiaw92466 ай бұрын

    Like your sister, I started hoarding food and other supplies during the last few years, and I'm now having to go through it all. And, like your sister, a lot of stuff has expired. It hurts to think about the waste, but hopefully I will learn from this experience. It's brave of her to share and loving of you to help her deal with the clutter! Big hugs to both of you! ETA: The expiration date is usually just a guideline and most foods are still perfectly fine even long after. I gave the food bank that wasn't expired (food banks will not accept anything expired), and gave away the rest to friends, family, and neighbours. If I had had anything left at the point, I would've posted on Facebook Marketplace to see if anyone was interested.

  • @pinschrunner

    @pinschrunner

    6 ай бұрын

    Most food is not expired. Those are best by dates. Please give it to someone instead of throwing it away. People are going hungry all over our country.

  • @claudiaw9246

    @claudiaw9246

    6 ай бұрын

    @@pinschrunner Good point! I will update my comment as to how I got rid of the food. I donated the food that wasn't technically expired (food banks will not accept anything expired), and gave away the rest to friends, family, and neighbours. If I had had anything left at the point, I would've posted on Facebook Marketplace to see if anyone was interested.

  • @middlelle
    @middlelle6 ай бұрын

    Your sister is to be commended. Not only did she ask for help, she was aware of what needed to be changed and was happy to make the changes needed.

  • @marysiegel7974
    @marysiegel79745 ай бұрын

    Seeing the empty store shelves during Covid had profound traumatic effects on so many people. I do not know anyone untouched by this. How beautiful that Carla is supporting her sister through this. Lots of us wish for a Carla in our lives 🥹

  • @kdimmick
    @kdimmick6 ай бұрын

    Sista has a lot of projects after decluttering. 😂 It's never-ending. We can do it!!

  • @cynthiahudson5228
    @cynthiahudson52286 ай бұрын

    You are so patient and kind! I love how you stay on task.

  • @sanneorskov
    @sanneorskov6 ай бұрын

    Your sister found her WHY and her future home wish. That is the mindset shift, that changes habits. She is brave to open her house and I think she/you will inspire others.

  • @JustOnePageAway
    @JustOnePageAwayАй бұрын

    Carla I do not have a hoarding issue in my home yet I still benefited from this series of videos. So thankful to your sister for her willingness to document her journey. I’m so proud of her and much props to your efforts helping her.

  • @lostlavinia3238
    @lostlavinia32386 ай бұрын

    So much respect for the two of you. My father is a hoarder, he hoards appliances, dvd players and frozen food. Broken furniture is kept to be repared, but he never does it. Me and my siblings want to help, but we have no idea where to start. He sees value in everything...

  • @monicacreates

    @monicacreates

    6 ай бұрын

    ave you watched A hoarder´s heart? I have learned so much about attachment to things from watching her videos.

  • @tlc0816
    @tlc08166 ай бұрын

    Your sister has such a sweet demeanor. She and I have the same goal. I want to be a minimalist too, and that’s how I found your channel in the first place. My goal is a no buy year for 2024. Your channel inspires a lot of people to live a more minimal lifestyle. I love that it’s realistic and not picture perfect. It makes it very relatable for the rest of us.

  • @serialsample
    @serialsample6 ай бұрын

    Carla: *whistles* Someone: oh she's here! 😂😂😂 I just died from laughter 😂😂😂 Thanks to you and your sis for being so real. Decluttering is indeed a JOURNEY and I admire bravery of your sis cause it def takes GUTS to show your vulnerability. Take care you wonderful ladies and good luck on your journey, lots of love ❤❤❤

  • @Stefunny82
    @Stefunny826 ай бұрын

    I can’t wait to see their space serving them better as a family. Your sister is so sweet. ❤

  • @laurac56
    @laurac566 ай бұрын

    If you want to keep a large amount of shelf stable food, it needs to be extremely organized, dated to notice, and the oldest pulled forward. Needless to say, you must consistently pull from it to actually use. It is a part time job managing it. Date the items as you bring them into the house and put them away correctly immediately. Otherwise, don’t prep as much.

  • @masielmacias
    @masielmacias6 ай бұрын

    These are my favorite videos! The family love outshines any frustrations, squabbles, disagreements, tiredness. This is exactly how my brother and I are when our mom gives us a task to complete together. Putting up, and then taking down, the Christmas decorations is a prime example. I hope to see more of this wonderful sibling dynamic.

  • @earthysoulgirl
    @earthysoulgirl6 ай бұрын

    The hardest part is getting started! Your sister is doing a great job and keeping an open mind and able to admit where she went wrong, which not a lot of people are able to do. She is doing a great job, especially considering how vulnerable it is letting the world into your home. You got this girl!! Rootin’ for you both, keep going ❤❤❤❤

  • @sharonspencer6486
    @sharonspencer64866 ай бұрын

    No one should be judging your sister. We all have to much of something. I love seeing you and your sister working together. I hope your sister doesn’t get discouraged. I know she is trying her best not only for herself but her family.😊❤

  • @ninnie9702
    @ninnie97026 ай бұрын

    Samson is a great supervisor. When he first came into the room, he might of thinking been thinking here we go again! Amazing results.

  • @enchilada55
    @enchilada556 ай бұрын

    Carla, it is so inspiring to watch you jump straight into someones clutter without judging them. You are an amazing person! Your friends and family are blessed to have you in their lives!

  • @lofi7259
    @lofi72596 ай бұрын

    I think you can tell a lot about the anxieties and wants a person is dealing with from their hoard...so much of what your sister has revolves around the themes of wellness and survival, of not wanting to waste anything, and she also seems to have a lot of curiosity new things. Obviously hoarding is a maladaptive way to deal with those impulses, but those are all good impulses. I hope that as she lets go of all the junk, it gives her space to focus on those things in healthier ways.

  • @LynsAlteredArts

    @LynsAlteredArts

    6 ай бұрын

    Very insightful. I never thought about it that way, but yes, all the things she saves are wellness items, food, supplements, exercise equipment and gadgets that will be magic. I have a relative who is a hoarder but what she saves is sentimental items, or things she perceives is sentimental when a lot of other people wouldn’t. If her friend from elementary school 60 years ago scribbled a little picture for her, she saves it.

  • @paulakelley4845
    @paulakelley48456 ай бұрын

    These videos are so real life. It is great that your Sister acknowledges she has a problem with throwing out food, yet is able to pass along the decision making to you so that you two can continue with the de-cluttering. It is also nice to see the next generation getting involved in the process. I think, though, Samson was ready to go home after the break ….

  • @leslierivera8702
    @leslierivera87026 ай бұрын

    Your sister is the sweetest person and very brave for sharing her home and the condition of it on KZread for everyone to see. She is doing amazing on her journey to change her habits and make her house a comfortable inviting home. She is truly blessed to have you for a sister!! ❤❤

  • @susanelliott4728
    @susanelliott47286 ай бұрын

    You are so sweet to help your sister. I can see how badly she wants to do this. The two of you are doing a great job.

  • @arleenem9828
    @arleenem98286 ай бұрын

    You both did an awesome job! I love how you allow your sister to make her own decisions…she seems even more empowered with every video ❤

  • @MerryEileen
    @MerryEileen6 ай бұрын

    This video is about sisters and family members who have a great, exemplary relationship. The decluttering is also very is well done, kudos!

  • @alexalc
    @alexalc6 ай бұрын

    For the food surplus, your sister should keep a section of all things expiring in the next year or 6 months and challenge herself to use for meal planning 2024! Awesome work!!

  • @jtraupman7560
    @jtraupman75606 ай бұрын

    I am so proud of your sister. You can see how overwhelming this is for her. Keep it up, you got this! ❤

  • @pamelawantsmusic
    @pamelawantsmusic6 ай бұрын

    Your sister is a darling, I can’t wait for her to live in her peaceful space

  • @carliem9494
    @carliem94946 ай бұрын

    Your sister is getting there, she’ll do it. She’s a lot further forward than most hoarders as she’s identified why she’s been hoarding and what happens when you store too much ..... and, importantly, has asked for help to remove most of it Well done all of you

  • @amybarthel479
    @amybarthel4796 ай бұрын

    You are both facing this with grace and humor. One project at a time. So much work but I see the progress as do others.

  • @MyssKymm.
    @MyssKymm.6 ай бұрын

    🧡🩶🤍🫶🏽Carla, You are an absolute blessing! Both you and your Sis work SO WELL together. I enjoy the sound of your combined laughter in between the overwhelming moments. I’ll say this again… It helps tremendously that your sister is in a good space for “letting go”. I admire you both. God bless, and Happy Thanksgiving to you, your family and all of your subscribers. 🧡🩶🤍🫶🏽

  • @maryloubahr4744
    @maryloubahr47446 ай бұрын

    It brings tears to my eyes seeing how much you love your sister, so much so by putting in hours, days to help her clear out / organize every single item in every single room, nook and cranny. ❤

  • @FeistyShlomit
    @FeistyShlomit6 ай бұрын

    One thing I’ve found help impulse or over buying is to decrease my exposure to ads. For example, I no longer use social media and I unsubscribe from ANYTHING. Even brands I like. If I need something I can just go online and find it. I deleted all buying related apps from my phone. I pre order groceries for pick up or delivery to reduce impuse buys. Whatever I know is my weakness, I try to reduce my exposure to that. Not 100% fool proof but it does help!

  • @uptownflavor
    @uptownflavor6 ай бұрын

    I wasn’t expecting another pantry overstock room. 😮 That was very overwhelming.

  • @falasteen2723
    @falasteen27236 ай бұрын

    Im so proud of your sister! She is working so hard to get her house back! ❤

  • @breezyvibe
    @breezyvibe5 ай бұрын

    We've all seen those videos where people get treated badly by family members as they are getting rid of things. This is a much better idea . . two sisters looking at one item at a time and deciding where it goes. There IS no other way. Great channel!!!

  • @carolyneverett762
    @carolyneverett7626 ай бұрын

    A friend in need is a friend indeed.

  • @angelaortiz3406
    @angelaortiz34066 ай бұрын

    It’s so good that she’s willing to do it. That’s the good part some people don’t wanna get rid of nothing.❤

  • @RescueJunkie815
    @RescueJunkie8156 ай бұрын

    I hope your sister has a big house because I love watching the two of you together and I don’t want it to end! You both are a lot of fun! Tell your niece to roll up her sleeves and join in on the fun. One day these will be cherished memories for her spending time with her grandma and auntie laughing and enjoying each others company ❤

  • @goldfishsnake
    @goldfishsnake6 ай бұрын

    It's hard and I think yall are doing great, but the tough love here is, food goes in in the kitchen. The kitchen is the boundary/container, to keep you from buying more than can fit. Office/pantry encourages breaking that boundary. Given the amount that was thrown out and never eaten in this video, there's no need to go beyond the boundary of the kitchen.

  • @susannovak8263

    @susannovak8263

    6 ай бұрын

    They are doing a fantastic job! And that’s probably a very good idea. Or maybe expand the food boundary into a nearby closet as well. But putting food with other things into a completely separate room just means that the food will not get used.

  • @elise12345
    @elise123456 ай бұрын

    I was 35 weeks pregnant when the covid lockdown started in the US and having a very well-stocked pantry was the only thing that helped my anxiety. I bought a giant thing of coconut oil for my skin and I finally threw it out this past summer. I'd only used like 1/3 of it, but it must've gone bad and it was causing my skin to get a bacterial infection. I'm a natural minimalist, but the way that coconut oil had become a symbol of Being Prepared for me was still tough to break. Your sister is brave and strong and she is building even more resiliency as she works to simplify her space. Kudos to her!

  • @debbwebb1279
    @debbwebb12796 ай бұрын

    You're a blessing to your sister. She will feel so much lighter, less stress.

  • @hazelm.9434
    @hazelm.94346 ай бұрын

    Your sister is a gem. Bless her for opening her doors to have you help her and expose her vulnerable. We all have a room or rooms where we hoard, and it's to see that we're not alone😊.

  • @gingermonette7455
    @gingermonette74556 ай бұрын

    "...have to make a decision about every item..." Such a reminder that since it is much work to declutter, it's best to REALLY think hard before bringing an item into the house. I'm just starting to do that--it's like a weak muscle that needs to be strengthened.

  • @mareen7321
    @mareen73216 ай бұрын

    I love the declutter series on your sister's house. And I can't wait for the next episode. When it finally ends, I know I will be really sad and rewatch it all again.😂🥰

  • @alysonnewbury4378
    @alysonnewbury43786 ай бұрын

    I am so impressed by the progress you guys are making!! How exciting for her to have her home back!

  • @FeistyShlomit
    @FeistyShlomit6 ай бұрын

    This is a massive undertaking and I’m guessing your sister is one of many people who, especially since COVID, find themselves in this situation. I’m so glad you are working together on this - it’s a tonne of work and must feel impossible to contemplate! Kudos to all of you. I actually LOVE helping people with this type of thing. I wonder if your sister has a plan for how to maintain because we all know how hard it is to change our habits! Sending love and a standing ovation!

  • @kathleen9929
    @kathleen99296 ай бұрын

    I think we all buy extra thinking we will use it at some point. When it comes to food expiration date, "best by" doesn't mean you have to immediately throw it out. Like soup, it won't kill you if it is several years old. The quality is less. "Use by" you should dispose. I've bought expensive candy/snack bags at Costco only to find I didn't like how it tasted. Stared at it a long time before I could throw it out! I am embarrassed to say that I found baking soda from 1994 and canned unsweetened milk from 2013 in my pantry. Totally understand sis's frustration with going through the food.

  • @albertabyers7157
    @albertabyers71576 ай бұрын

    Expired foods isn't always bad. It's mostly a suggested use by date. Those sauces were perfectly fine to use.

  • @c.parker8439
    @c.parker84396 ай бұрын

    I love how your sister is so focused 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lawyerlady95
    @lawyerlady956 ай бұрын

    Thank you to your beautiful sister and you for inviting us into her home and letting us share this journey with you. You’re both an inspiration! Bless you both 🙏🏽❤️

  • @missylearned9821
    @missylearned98216 ай бұрын

    California may not allow it, but most canned goods (not tomato based) even if expired, will be accepted by food banks. Most canned goods last years beyond their expiration date. We were moving and donated 90% of our food pantry and our local food bank was very happy to accept our food which included some cans that were expired. I had the 8, 10, 12-packs of canned veggies and since some were expired, I opened some of them to see if they were good before I asked if I could donate them and, of course, they were fine. I asked them, and they said “no worries and thank you. We’re more than happy to take them because we know they’re fine and there’s such a need for donations.” Just thought I’d share that for others that might want to donate food for whatever reason. Good job, Carla’s Sister! It takes courage to see a need to change something in your life and have the courage to execute that change! And what a blessing to have a sister there to help!

  • @janee9533
    @janee95336 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately she has a shopping problem. I hope this is a wake up call and wasteful. Carla is so calm during this and nonjudging. Her sister is blessed to have help like this.

  • @karenc1733
    @karenc17336 ай бұрын

    Your sister is an absolute star, allowing us into these rooms. I have nothing but applause for her, that she is tackling this head on with your help and guidance.

  • @lauralei6963
    @lauralei69636 ай бұрын

    It’s so much easier to watch you guys work than do my own😩🤗🤩

  • @ljm792

    @ljm792

    6 ай бұрын

    You can do it!!! 😆

  • @lauralei6963

    @lauralei6963

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ljm792💝

  • @chapman1569
    @chapman15696 ай бұрын

    Kudos to your sister for addressing her hoarding. You can do this. I love to see two sisters working together.You obviously get along well and love each other.

  • @TheFractalStorySpinner
    @TheFractalStorySpinner6 ай бұрын

    This is such an interesting series. Your sister is a champ for allowing the cameras into her home so we can watch the process. Part of me wonders about the result if it all just went into the trash. No hate over donating, people. I understand that, but sometimes...peace of mind and a faster result, y'know? Also maybe less regret over the money spent and never used. I have this theory that if I don't even know what's in something, I probably don't want it. Then there's the fear of accidentally tossing the family silver...

  • @treeintheroad
    @treeintheroad6 ай бұрын

    Way to go!! So much better and so much work. You are amazing and I love your sister too. She’s come so far!🎉

  • @nancyevans1278
    @nancyevans12786 ай бұрын

    You and your sister are so patient and kind, in spite of the challenge of culling through so many rooms filled to the brim. Congratulations to both of you for accomplishing so much!

  • @contempl8ive
    @contempl8iveАй бұрын

    I am truly appreciative of these declutterring videos with your sister. She’s lovely 🥰. I think any person willing to share there most personal struggles like this are so incredibly courageous. Lots of love to you two💖💖

  • @stylemethrift997
    @stylemethrift9974 ай бұрын

    Rooms without purpose are the worst for becoming catch all storage rooms. The plan to switch rooms sounds really practical

  • @michellep4346
    @michellep43466 ай бұрын

    I love how you chunk it down into achievable steps. We all have too much stuff! Your sisters hoard is relatable!!!

  • @kimberlyrichter9504
    @kimberlyrichter95046 ай бұрын

    Great video. I love the cluttering with your sister series. So nice of you to help her out.

  • @candylove1234
    @candylove12346 ай бұрын

    I really think those prepper people online have a lot to answer for. They make so much money from stirring up panic in people, it's not right :( you guys are doing a fantastic job with the house, its so impressive!

Келесі