THIS IS Why You CAN'T FALL IN LOVE Too Fast | Jay Shetty

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“Don’t fall for someone who wont be there to catch you.”-Unknown
“You can’t eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed” -Fabienne Fredrickson

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  • @atikaryp
    @atikaryp5 жыл бұрын

    "He took away my insecurities. But in one moment, he brought all them back."

  • @beeaanss

    @beeaanss

    5 жыл бұрын

    hit me the hardest

  • @cucumberleyopa7804

    @cucumberleyopa7804

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Another Day In Space hahahahah lol

  • @sandeepsingh-bz4jg

    @sandeepsingh-bz4jg

    5 жыл бұрын

    Atika Rahmawati I m insecure abt my self wot to do

  • @kezz_777

    @kezz_777

    5 жыл бұрын

    Atika Rahmawati why can I relate so much tho

  • @92alois

    @92alois

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha

  • @JustARandomAccountInnit
    @JustARandomAccountInnit5 жыл бұрын

    wait a minute.. Why did this come as a recommendation to me?😂

  • @selxschk7410

    @selxschk7410

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same question?😂 the funny thing is that i date a guy who i know just about 2 weeks 😂

  • @brissa1x467

    @brissa1x467

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m in that lovey buby stage and it’s only been a week 😂 Btw I’ve known this person for like years tho

  • @anniendhluli2790

    @anniendhluli2790

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same as me am so in love with this guy I met 6wks ago that we spend every free time I get with him am wondering if it's love or🤔

  • @anujtripathi1071

    @anujtripathi1071

    5 жыл бұрын

    God's plan 😂

  • @nikkielaine1043

    @nikkielaine1043

    5 жыл бұрын

    Saaaammmeeee

  • @vedikaamale1334
    @vedikaamale13344 жыл бұрын

    "Being in love isn't a mood, it's a commitment; even after your mood changes!" Wow!!!

  • @walkerpublications4418

    @walkerpublications4418

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love is a choice----a choice both parties must make---not one.

  • @princeskyes781

    @princeskyes781

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s the most truthful thing I’ve heard today

  • @garimamall1836

    @garimamall1836

    3 жыл бұрын

    Alright

  • @UserUser-in6ig

    @UserUser-in6ig

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love falling into love very quickly. It gives me the opportunity to get hot sex. And after that, I do not need to have moral obligations. Fast date, fast sex, rapid parting. No problem.

  • @ellensartworks

    @ellensartworks

    3 жыл бұрын

    I literally saw this comment in the exact same time as he said the words🤯

  • @spacelinx
    @spacelinx3 жыл бұрын

    Once I met this woman at a friend’s house. We really clicked that night on. We hung out every night up to two months then we went on an “official” date, and a month later we were talking marriage and got married about a year after we met. Some would say we fell in love too fast, and maybe we did. Somehow it all worked out and is still working out sixteen years of marriage later.

  • @____4895

    @____4895

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now that's real love

  • @Txig777

    @Txig777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Does she know that y'all are married?

  • @billclark5055

    @billclark5055

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've heard some stories like that. It just depends. But you have to judge people by their actions

  • @billclark5055

    @billclark5055

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Txig777 What kind of silly question is that?

  • @thobjablessing

    @thobjablessing

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@billclark5055 😂😂

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n5 жыл бұрын

    *Falling in love too fast is a sign of neediness and wanting to accept whatever comes your way. We should raise our standards instead, and become the amazing person, that we want to meet, before it happens. Improving your life overall, will attract the kind of person you are looking for. Love yourself first, the rest will come.*

  • @virginiamwihaki6065

    @virginiamwihaki6065

    5 жыл бұрын

    True dear

  • @anisaalija5744

    @anisaalija5744

    5 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely.

  • @sriyankapidaparthi3727

    @sriyankapidaparthi3727

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very well worded. 💙

  • @BrokenHeart-fm2sl

    @BrokenHeart-fm2sl

    5 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely true u r 💯 right ...

  • @qasimhameed3988

    @qasimhameed3988

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing

  • @cristinagonzales3924
    @cristinagonzales39244 жыл бұрын

    Fall in love when you're ready. not when you're lonely.

  • @zMoCS

    @zMoCS

    4 жыл бұрын

    but even if you are ready and not in relationship, you feel lonely.

  • @thespoookytales

    @thespoookytales

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your comment has changed my thoughts .it's 8th of feb 'Propose day' and I'm going to propose a girl today , whom I have met just 20 days ago . I think it's time to change the plan . I will not propose her now

  • @TASKFORCE-mc1lg

    @TASKFORCE-mc1lg

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@thespoookytales woaw. Hope you were just joking mate. Good luck to your unknown yet exciting future.

  • @thespoookytales

    @thespoookytales

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TASKFORCE-mc1lg Thanks for your kind words bro . By the way , I was not joking . May your life be filled with the happiness and joy .😊

  • @mskeeks

    @mskeeks

    4 жыл бұрын

    But what if you're ready and lonely

  • @2bromance
    @2bromance3 жыл бұрын

    I feel sorry for those who mistaken love with a crush...

  • @canigetsomeviews7959

    @canigetsomeviews7959

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @canigetsomeviews7959

    @canigetsomeviews7959

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @on-shileribo974

    @on-shileribo974

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is the difference? I actually do not know😢

  • @sanriosubs2382

    @sanriosubs2382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@on-shileribo974 The man explained it in the video your crush has to show you that they will be there to catch you when you fall. Love takes time because you need your crush to prove themselves to you instead of just falling in love right away without knowing much at all about them or how they'll treat you.

  • @on-shileribo974

    @on-shileribo974

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sanriosubs2382 I see. Thank you very much.

  • @adamdeveau6311
    @adamdeveau63113 жыл бұрын

    Fall in love with yourself. It’s the most important relationship you will ever be involved in and is mandatory, so make it a good one.

  • @Resnyca

    @Resnyca

    3 жыл бұрын

    Others just will be jealous, and fall in love with you👌🏻

  • @gaylenadel5728

    @gaylenadel5728

    3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent advice! You must love yourself first before you can love anyone else completely.

  • @kentpiano2600

    @kentpiano2600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it

  • @flooredjustfloored

    @flooredjustfloored

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! When you love and invest in yourself, you are more likely to guard and protect yourself- your best asset.

  • @whokitkat

    @whokitkat

    3 жыл бұрын

    that's the only love you can 100% trust

  • @ilo6279
    @ilo62795 жыл бұрын

    "Don't make someone fall in love with you, if you don't know how to love them."

  • @realtasteoflife8479

    @realtasteoflife8479

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi! #right

  • @madhurimabiswas5335

    @madhurimabiswas5335

    5 жыл бұрын

    ikr

  • @lillyjohn8662

    @lillyjohn8662

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are right

  • @shyannwencovers2847

    @shyannwencovers2847

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agree 💯

  • @darknight3613

    @darknight3613

    5 жыл бұрын

    I live by that phrase!

  • @stargirljaquie
    @stargirljaquie5 жыл бұрын

    Wait.... How does KZread know that I fall in love too fast???...

  • @kiaravdv1714

    @kiaravdv1714

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same..

  • @Ella-je7np

    @Ella-je7np

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @yakshitaasha8417

    @yakshitaasha8417

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @adamhowells6336

    @adamhowells6336

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @sheilarashya5812

    @sheilarashya5812

    5 жыл бұрын

    sameeee

  • @khinhtun4303
    @khinhtun43033 жыл бұрын

    “You think u know their past, but u just know parts” . Touched!😪

  • @kentpiano2600

    @kentpiano2600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Everyone has a past. So what? Be their future!

  • @williamsjames3002

    @williamsjames3002

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hmmm...yes that's True can we be friends?

  • @_aya_16

    @_aya_16

    2 жыл бұрын

    if you love him truelly then you don't have to care about his past!if u want to be happy in yr life then don't look at the past look at the future

  • @pinkxnatalie8121
    @pinkxnatalie81213 жыл бұрын

    You know, I used to love that one person. At that time and up until now, I can't define what is love. I did and gave him everything I could, and let him break me apart. As time passes, my wound is healed, but deep down in my heart, I know I could never love someone the way I used to love him, not anymore because he changed me. He was, and always will be a part of me, no matter what I want to call him, a mistake, or a memory. I did not hate him, nor deny him, in fact, I accepted him. The love is far gone, but the respect, the admiration, and the affection are still there. You know, to love someone doesn't mean you have to keep that person around, to me, to be able to let someone you love go is the truest love. One day I will be stronger, but my love, you will always be in the softest place of my heart. I wish you nothing but strength, luck, and happiness to go on in life.

  • @Apsa97

    @Apsa97

    3 жыл бұрын

    This brought tears to my eyes!

  • @madhumitasenthilkumar9432

    @madhumitasenthilkumar9432

    3 жыл бұрын

    Reading this beautiful story i can tell that you are already a strong and wonderful person!

  • @ataulkarim8809

    @ataulkarim8809

    3 жыл бұрын

    Woah! You are strong enough! I can relate halfway but not completely. Good Luck !

  • @hollyechea8061

    @hollyechea8061

    3 жыл бұрын

    So beautiful, I completely relate to this. We were eventually forced apart by life circumstances - too much forced distance + at different life stages / ages and needing to live in different places where we were each happy, but there was no deeper truer stronger love than what we once had. We still love each other the same but there is nothing left to say because there is no future and it doesn't change the facts now.

  • @raicadimao9169
    @raicadimao91695 жыл бұрын

    You should love, not fall in love, because everything that falls, breaks.

  • @janellegodette622

    @janellegodette622

    5 жыл бұрын

    Where has this quote been all my life girl ❤❤

  • @raicadimao9169

    @raicadimao9169

    5 жыл бұрын

    I read it on some book, It really make sense.

  • @donig3976

    @donig3976

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can think of many things that fall and don’t break.... just saying 😁

  • @xenasmith4522

    @xenasmith4522

    5 жыл бұрын

    Balls?

  • @watesparrow1638

    @watesparrow1638

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@donig3976 ahuhuhuhu

  • @alberteinstein6040
    @alberteinstein60405 жыл бұрын

    But what if I hate everyone too fast

  • @katushabesarah1483

    @katushabesarah1483

    5 жыл бұрын

    ALBERT EINSTEIN meet mi

  • @rojitadevi8353

    @rojitadevi8353

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are safe and good for you

  • @diyuxo

    @diyuxo

    5 жыл бұрын

    ALBERT EINSTEIN I don’t need friends, they dissapoint me

  • @kasturijha6969

    @kasturijha6969

    5 жыл бұрын

    It means you are damn experienced n grown up personality❤

  • @imthatgirl107

    @imthatgirl107

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maybe you judge too fast

  • @adamlax27
    @adamlax273 жыл бұрын

    “Nothing good in our lives ever comes from falling” Ermm.. falling asleep?

  • @Imabird4real

    @Imabird4real

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ah yes, sleeping my dude, not falling asleep.

  • @robertaramos7589

    @robertaramos7589

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Imabird4real its also falling asleep

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go to sleep...

  • @cristinsunshine1067

    @cristinsunshine1067

    3 жыл бұрын

    Falling means learning 😁

  • @abigailbencosme8192

    @abigailbencosme8192

    3 жыл бұрын

    You get nightmares.

  • @lexiedennis9991
    @lexiedennis99913 жыл бұрын

    A patient in hospital told me that he bumped into a girl when he went rollerskating, on leave from the navy. They talked all night after that and he walked her home afterwards. He said a 15 minute walk took 2 hours because they talked so much and that night, the same night they met, she suggested they should marry. He told me they got married within the year. He had just celebrated his 61st wedding anniversary with her. How crazy is that??!!! He told me he still loved her just as much and wouldn't be without her for the world ❤. This isn't the only story I have heard from patients like this. Sometimes you know straight away that you have stumbled on a good thing and you don't want to lose them. Sometimes you just need to go for it. Or perhaps older people didn't feel the need to try out countless people until they found the perfect one, perhaps they were just content with a nice person? Maybe there's a lesson in that...... Anyway, there in a nutshell is why dating is so hard. How can we possibly know what the right thing is to do? Still looking for answers here...

  • @lawshorizon

    @lawshorizon

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can't possibly know for sure what to do. There will always be some gambling involved (e.g. 50% divorce rate) -- get used to it. In any case, "love at first sight" is as good as any other relationship strategy. This is because, as I've mentioned, gambling is involved regardless of the conditions.

  • @army_kaypopper5658

    @army_kaypopper5658

    3 жыл бұрын

    But I'm a misfortune in this case

  • @sikisese1117
    @sikisese11175 жыл бұрын

    Them: don't fall in love too fast Me: ignores and gets heartbroken over and over again

  • @ariabianes1082

    @ariabianes1082

    5 жыл бұрын

    hay haahhaahahahahahahahahaahahah

  • @amnahaque5042

    @amnahaque5042

    5 жыл бұрын

    I thought i was the only one🤣

  • @shivampradhan6101

    @shivampradhan6101

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats great and brave

  • @-ashaylaaa7374

    @-ashaylaaa7374

    5 жыл бұрын

    LMFAOOO THATS MEEE

  • @fo1o945

    @fo1o945

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @itsaleigharey
    @itsaleigharey5 жыл бұрын

    “Being in love isn’t a mood, it’s a commitment even after your mood changes” BIG FACTS 🔥🔥🔥

  • @creemepufff

    @creemepufff

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aleigha Raelynn I read this comment right when he said that haha

  • @rachelngatia3753

    @rachelngatia3753

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @Lugna

    @Lugna

    5 жыл бұрын

    Being in love is a feeling, not a commitment - but a relationship is.

  • @elissao.6585
    @elissao.65853 жыл бұрын

    My dad always tells me to trust no one. This simple phrase has prevented me from getting into a lot of potentially painful relationships. It sounds harsh, but it is true.

  • @blumammu

    @blumammu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lucky for you that you listened to him :) I din't trust no-one especially my parents :D

  • @jannieschluter9670

    @jannieschluter9670

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your dad gave you bad advice.

  • @arglebargle3986

    @arglebargle3986

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're dad is right. Be wary and make them earn your trust, and even after, be strong and always trust yourself and your decisions more.

  • @nins7457

    @nins7457

    3 жыл бұрын

    There’s nothing wrong with getting advice from your parents. It shows how much they care about you. For me, My dad says trust but verify. It’s ok to trust others but make sure to think about the things they tell you and see if it all makes sense and is actually true. Honestly, I’m basically the same. I never had to go through relationship heartbreak because of my dads advice. But not gonna lie here. It sucks when you realize how long you been waiting for the right person to come along and you realize that a good chunk of people around you are really just liars. Anyway, I rather be alone than with bad company.

  • @sueweasley9695

    @sueweasley9695

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hmmm, and my mum says to me so. Now we're living in the world that we can't trust anyone. I think he's right, because, if u tell ur secrets, u'll just let someone break ur heart

  • @mynameisjeff9124
    @mynameisjeff91243 жыл бұрын

    He says "don’t fall in love too fast" like if it‘s a choice. As if I see someone and think to myself "let’s fall in love with this person"

  • @australienski6687

    @australienski6687

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's 100% not a choice. It's simply a chemical reaction in the brain when certain conditions are met, nothing more nothing less. Telling someone to not fall in love too quickly is like giving someone heroin and telling them to feel sober. When I start to catch feelings I run.

  • @Sarafara7

    @Sarafara7

    3 жыл бұрын

    I used to think that too, but there is a lot we do that is in fact intentional. Like daydreaming about a person when you could be doing your work, studies, etc. we actually have more control of that emotion than you think.

  • @sugarjones731

    @sugarjones731

    3 жыл бұрын

    Falling in love is a choice

  • @burvjuzizlis22

    @burvjuzizlis22

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Sarafara7 At last someone said that! And yes, you can control your emotions.

  • @radhavernice
    @radhavernice4 жыл бұрын

    *"let the right person show you that they're the right person"*

  • @tanioraaura1274

    @tanioraaura1274

    4 жыл бұрын

    59 years young man and 21 year old beautiful woman. They're the right preson ? My soul mates older its comfy.

  • @tanioraaura1274

    @tanioraaura1274

    4 жыл бұрын

    1. Without anyone watching you and while sitting where you are at your desk in front of your computer. Lift your right foot off the floor and make clockwise circles. 2. Now doing this draw the number "6" in the air with your right hand. Your foot will change direction. And theres nothing you can do about it.

  • @Moreso_fly

    @Moreso_fly

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know when the right person is gonna show up At my funeral

  • @MarcosJunior-ms4pq

    @MarcosJunior-ms4pq

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alami chen. Sofia 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tanioraaura1274

    @tanioraaura1274

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alamini chen sofia. 🥃 cheers

  • @HareKrishna-ff2kf
    @HareKrishna-ff2kf5 жыл бұрын

    When you feel you are falling in love too fast just understand, it's just the attraction.

  • @asyachinno3335

    @asyachinno3335

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me to and i literally forget about it in 2 days😂

  • @nishtha1315

    @nishtha1315

    5 жыл бұрын

    I believe exactly the same!!

  • @Sy-wn2rb

    @Sy-wn2rb

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow ICE CREAM I'm in love with

  • @yepok6520

    @yepok6520

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, but I'm highly attracted to donuts but I'm not in love with them. Just addicted. I'd rather marry a donut. Men can be so callous. I trust a donut more. They don't hide anything. They're not sly. They DEFINITELY don't cheat. They make me happy. And if I wanna divorce it I don't have to split my assets. *Happy days!*

  • @swethagovindharajan7221

    @swethagovindharajan7221

    5 жыл бұрын

    What is long time attraction

  • @joshthielbar1
    @joshthielbar13 жыл бұрын

    So... wife and I decided to get engaged and set a date after knowing each other for 72 hours and going on one date. 12 years and 5 kids later were still going strong.

  • @Metalpazallteway

    @Metalpazallteway

    3 жыл бұрын

    You must have landed on jackpot

  • @who346

    @who346

    3 жыл бұрын

    You sure kids yours?

  • @joshthielbar1

    @joshthielbar1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol. Yes they all look too much like me not to be. And although I landed the jackpot, we both went into it without an escape plan, so when something comes up, we try to deal with it understanding there’s no quitting.

  • @Metalpazallteway

    @Metalpazallteway

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joshthielbar1 The moment you find out there's an escape plan, is when you lose your jackpot of gold. You're living the dream, enjoy while you can

  • @JahannamHellfire

    @JahannamHellfire

    3 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately most people are cheating and lying nowadays!

  • @priyatoshchaurasia3009
    @priyatoshchaurasia30093 жыл бұрын

    "Don't just give away your trust let someone earn it"! 💯🔥

  • @howardstark5467

    @howardstark5467

    Жыл бұрын

    Ee chal be 2 plate Momo laga, gyaan mat pel

  • @lucias7167
    @lucias71675 жыл бұрын

    i "fall in love" with every cute boy i see that smiles at me. i'm pathetic.

  • @shortmvvideos

    @shortmvvideos

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel you. Once I was going inside in school and a boy held the door open for me and I " fell in love". Gosh how much I hate myself

  • @anaaa8484

    @anaaa8484

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lucia S I can say I've been there, when I was about 8-10... now, in my 20s I've learned a lot! it's a phase, especially if you're not used to boys doing nice stuff for you.. don't worry, friend!!:) experience will help tons:)

  • @lucias7167

    @lucias7167

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@shortmvvideos omg exactly

  • @lucias7167

    @lucias7167

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@anaaa8484 thanks. and yea i bet. like seriously it is a weird phase XD

  • @anaaa8484

    @anaaa8484

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lucia S you're not alone, at least..;) at some point I used to think that nobody would ever want to have sex with me or even kiss me.. which is honestly silly:P yup, just a weird phase, I guess. don't worry too much, everything'll find it's way finally!

  • @eligalvan8515
    @eligalvan85154 жыл бұрын

    Your not supposed to fall in love. Your supposed to stand in love. That's what my father always told me. He says it hurts when you fall.

  • @RoseMiah9191

    @RoseMiah9191

    4 жыл бұрын

    Eli Galvan what a wise man- thank you! Those are great words!

  • @irenejacklineexuper7129

    @irenejacklineexuper7129

    4 жыл бұрын

    for sure it hurts when we fall...wise words😄

  • @brendaakinlade6884

    @brendaakinlade6884

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol😁😂😂

  • @sagarshrestha2358

    @sagarshrestha2358

    4 жыл бұрын

    stand?

  • @lunallena2933

    @lunallena2933

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love this

  • @TPGGGG__
    @TPGGGG__3 жыл бұрын

    Man sometimes it feels like being single is the best option in this world, but believe me that when u see other couples having a fun life it hits hard; And we wish to be dating someone and then the whole cycle repeats 🤕. Being born as a human is more of a curse than than blessing in my opinion.

  • @RTRRT

    @RTRRT

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same.

  • @kaycard766

    @kaycard766

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Crying Ceshew Ah yes, that awful feeling, regret. Now that comment was wise.

  • @kentpiano2600

    @kentpiano2600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Live lone, live long ;)

  • @user-fm6wu3zr9o
    @user-fm6wu3zr9o3 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I met in our mid 20’s we were friends first, 5 years later we were roommates. Years down the road we were boyfriend and girlfriend. 12 years past in our mid 30’s we were engaged. We’re in our 40’s we’re husband and wife. We’ve shared and done everything together I can honestly say I can’t see my life without my husband he’s my everything.

  • @nousheens6702
    @nousheens67025 жыл бұрын

    *It sounds like a cliche but I also learnt that you're not going to fall for the right person until you really love yourself and feel good about how you are.* ---Emma Stone

  • @tatiananavarrete8518

    @tatiananavarrete8518

    5 жыл бұрын

    Emma Watson*

  • @nousheens6702

    @nousheens6702

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@tatiananavarrete8518 hehehehhe right... My bad 🤦‍♀

  • @enuwi_

    @enuwi_

    5 жыл бұрын

    Noushin Shaikh Because the right person will love the real you♥️

  • @threekidsandcounting9477

    @threekidsandcounting9477

    5 жыл бұрын

    Noushin Shaikh *learned

  • @kie_.6107

    @kie_.6107

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea btw its better to be narcissit then to fucken fall for fake people. Cuz its true that no one deserves someone so unique and special lile each one of us

  • @sandeshbelbase6662
    @sandeshbelbase66625 жыл бұрын

    You can't eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed👌

  • @nameless78888

    @nameless78888

    5 жыл бұрын

    patience and prudence...❤

  • @Iwish387

    @Iwish387

    5 жыл бұрын

    sandesh bro that’s deep

  • @sandeshbelbase6662

    @sandeshbelbase6662

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes😌

  • @disha4613

    @disha4613

    5 жыл бұрын

    💕true

  • @abby2857

    @abby2857

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow...Good one 😄

  • @thunderwolf2576
    @thunderwolf25763 жыл бұрын

    A message i remembered from experience is this, "You didn't fall in love with me. You fell in love with the moment."

  • @alitabercilla1602

    @alitabercilla1602

    3 жыл бұрын

    This applies on me....lol..that's why i regret having him in my life

  • @sylviadomerese352
    @sylviadomerese3523 жыл бұрын

    This is wrong. He led her on and she did nothing wrong. Don't tell me it isn't love. It's love. It is just unrequited. It doesn't take time. It takes authenticity. People are cruel.

  • @DanfiParker

    @DanfiParker

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is actually such an underrated comment! You get my like!

  • @_Cosmish

    @_Cosmish

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re absolutely right

  • @queencooljewel2433

    @queencooljewel2433

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can’t love someone in 5 weeks. Love doesn’t bud out of desperation and neediness from being single all the time. If you think that’s what love is, I feel sorry for you

  • @Sarafara7

    @Sarafara7

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, the problem is thinking if someone is “the one” when you literally just had a first date. When you put so much importance on a person being the one, you start to believe it and ignore any signs that he isn’t. You should go in wanting to learn about a person and how they are and if their morals and values align with yours. We don’t live in a romantic movie. That’s why divorce rates are so high.

  • @kentpiano2600

    @kentpiano2600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ppl are mugs

  • @addisonmaee
    @addisonmaee5 жыл бұрын

    Here we are at another episode of WhY wAs ThIs iN mY rEcOmEnDeD

  • @nnvu

    @nnvu

    5 жыл бұрын

    bEcAuSE obViOuSLy EVERYONE FaLLs tO FaSt

  • @alinmazumder3459

    @alinmazumder3459

    5 жыл бұрын

    It turned up in my recommendations too IDK why

  • @Kansloze

    @Kansloze

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ask yourself this: wHy n0T

  • @coollegend9517

    @coollegend9517

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sameee

  • @margaretogunkoya4639

    @margaretogunkoya4639

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr😂

  • @kealaniyamamoto7713
    @kealaniyamamoto77135 жыл бұрын

    there seriously should of been a different thumbnail though lol

  • @shreeyastache

    @shreeyastache

    5 жыл бұрын

    K boto the thumbnail is me when I hear my parents talk about me.

  • @maybee7497

    @maybee7497

    5 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree

  • @olivia-pbarbiana1850

    @olivia-pbarbiana1850

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ur a joke.😂😂😂

  • @theperson7938

    @theperson7938

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ahahaha I also thought it was a meme

  • @angelsantillan2nd940

    @angelsantillan2nd940

    5 жыл бұрын

    I thought it was a dude

  • @Pizzapastalover96
    @Pizzapastalover963 жыл бұрын

    I disagree with this. Everyone loves at different speeds, some are more open whilst others are more reserved. To each one of us, love represents something unique. With each person you meet, your love will be different. With each love comes lessons. Some loves last longer than others. But my main advice is be true to how you feel, stop controlling it. What you can control though, are the actions you take.

  • @stressfree9780

    @stressfree9780

    3 жыл бұрын

    You must be a very lonely person

  • @MegaStupid24

    @MegaStupid24

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@stressfree9780 you must be a negative person if that’s your reply to a comment that might be eye-opening for others

  • @stressfree9780

    @stressfree9780

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MegaStupid24 Its ok- as long as u work on your loneliness. If guys don't show interest in you - it sometimes takes time. Have you tried to be more feminine like 👍

  • @esmeedesi9027

    @esmeedesi9027

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are right!

  • @sungazerm4383

    @sungazerm4383

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that’s true but it’s more trust but then again trust = love they r synonymous of each other

  • @davesphilippinedaydream2656
    @davesphilippinedaydream26563 жыл бұрын

    That other woman was just his sister. She freaked out for nothing.

  • @42-velkan-rtx32

    @42-velkan-rtx32

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now that's the kind of optimism i want in my life XDD

  • @sanchitarts2240

    @sanchitarts2240

    3 жыл бұрын

    lmao

  • @mwatsonification

    @mwatsonification

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry, I love my brother, but he'd better not sit that close to me with his arms around me watching no damn TV!! That ish was funny though!!🤣

  • @abdulwali2821
    @abdulwali28215 жыл бұрын

    what is love baby dont hurt me...

  • @janabroflovski2572

    @janabroflovski2572

    5 жыл бұрын

    don't hurt me, no more

  • @kayus4clash801

    @kayus4clash801

    5 жыл бұрын

    no more...

  • @janabroflovski2572

    @janabroflovski2572

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kayus4clash801 I don't know why you're not fair

  • @apwete05

    @apwete05

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @op-vf6vb

    @op-vf6vb

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@janabroflovski2572 I give you my love, but you don't care

  • @reesieslvr95
    @reesieslvr954 жыл бұрын

    Don’t make someone fall in love with you if you don’t know how to love them. FACTS

  • @raakeshganesan7421

    @raakeshganesan7421

    4 жыл бұрын

    hahahahahahahahahahahahahaah hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂☹☹☹😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @andriapinto8655

    @andriapinto8655

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel attacked, my god.

  • @raakeshganesan7421

    @raakeshganesan7421

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@andriapinto8655 thats is life

  • @adlinnatasya754

    @adlinnatasya754

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @raakeshganesan7421

    @raakeshganesan7421

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nadezhdanedeva9953 depence

  • @TKBTKB1122
    @TKBTKB11223 жыл бұрын

    Falling in love is an act of surrendering oneself to another person.

  • @michellegamuchiraimakwavar8114
    @michellegamuchiraimakwavar81143 жыл бұрын

    The honest truth, falling in love doesnt have formula, we cant control our hearts and heartbreaks are inevitable...

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pace the amount of time around till proven worthy Date others until in commitment Keep your own full life always..... Love self Most often always Agree on relationship terms before sex!!!!!! Make sure worth bonding to. Until after They love you There is no reason to suffer over another.

  • @arya-hp6dj

    @arya-hp6dj

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ladyofspa damn, i hope i could jus copy paste this in my notes but for now I'll take an ss💯

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arya-hp6dj 💕💕💕

  • @darkeyeliner7460
    @darkeyeliner74605 жыл бұрын

    I think the right term for that is infatuation...you don't love him, you only love the IDEA of him.

  • @user-jf4xi4tv3q

    @user-jf4xi4tv3q

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's just as strong

  • @darkeyeliner7460

    @darkeyeliner7460

    5 жыл бұрын

    Paprika Namjin I'm sorry but its really not. Its completely different where you love someone despite knowing their good and bad sides. Loving someone who's been with you through thick and thin. Infatuation is only an illusion you created about this person but once he/she wasn't the one you hope them to be, you get disappointed.

  • @user-jf4xi4tv3q

    @user-jf4xi4tv3q

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@darkeyeliner7460 the feelings are just as powerful and strong, maybe not as deep and wont last as long, but as strong. The love u talking about gets calmer with time, yes you would maybe die for the person but you wont feel butterflies in your stomach bc of seeing them anymore. Just bc the feeling is temporary doesnt make it any less powerful while it's happening.

  • @givememoresuga3075

    @givememoresuga3075

    5 жыл бұрын

    I do only love the idea of him and I know that but it still hurts me to think he couldn't like me and I cant stop loving "him". I don't know what to do I just don't wanna feel this way.

  • @KimikoA24

    @KimikoA24

    5 жыл бұрын

    that’s real 😭❤️

  • @nigeldias924
    @nigeldias9245 жыл бұрын

    1:25 I dint realise she was a different girl

  • @Ella-nh6ou

    @Ella-nh6ou

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @stardustgamer8655

    @stardustgamer8655

    5 жыл бұрын

    me to

  • @happyface4711

    @happyface4711

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same lol 😂 i thought that was the girl house not the guy house.

  • @emelyolmedo5264

    @emelyolmedo5264

    5 жыл бұрын

    I thought she just put on makeup 😂

  • @user-cv1jb4bk3n

    @user-cv1jb4bk3n

    5 жыл бұрын

    Low key same tho

  • @myrtila
    @myrtila3 жыл бұрын

    I was like that but now I’ve changed. It’s really problematic to fall for every single guy who gives you some attention.

  • @ashishpraveendhas1100
    @ashishpraveendhas11004 жыл бұрын

    Relations are build on trust Trust come with patience Give more time to your relationship 6 months are like honeymoon period After that only you face originality Of your partner whether in Love or anger So don't share all your secrets Otherwise he/she will bring out your insecurity Take advantage of that

  • @AlexKashie
    @AlexKashie5 жыл бұрын

    "Being in Love isn’t a mood, it’s a commitment, even after your mood changes” ... Jay maybe you don’t realize enough how your wisdom can be inspiring, thanks a lot 🙏🏽. Be blessed!

  • @jazznyle3135

    @jazznyle3135

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alex Blériot ,agree and I like this line too. So inspiring message.

  • @onlyyou5195

    @onlyyou5195

    5 жыл бұрын

    WOW! I know that sentence is inspiring and beutiful!

  • @AlexKashie

    @AlexKashie

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you all for your likes

  • @shosh_world

    @shosh_world

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alex Blériot best caption

  • @new_7772

    @new_7772

    5 жыл бұрын

    And without ,, mood’’ does commitment make sense?? Lol

  • @alteringattitude7445
    @alteringattitude74455 жыл бұрын

    When you go in for a hug but he goes in for a handshake *Deep inhale* OOOO GURL

  • @alteringattitude7445

    @alteringattitude7445

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oof *pats back*

  • @rachelngatia3753

    @rachelngatia3753

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know right that should already tell you not to rush things

  • @irishcountrygirl78
    @irishcountrygirl783 жыл бұрын

    "that thought comes to mind, maybe he's the one." There's the mistake. It's never a thought, it's a feeling. An unmistakable feeling that both parties feel completely. I've been married 20 years and we met when we were both 16.

  • @walkerpublications4418
    @walkerpublications44183 жыл бұрын

    Love yourself enough to take your time-----no one "completes" you---you are a gift to a potential partner....man or woman....take your time---what is the rush?? Everyone has secrets.....and they take time to be revealed. Great video!!

  • @kristina-ob9cz
    @kristina-ob9cz5 жыл бұрын

    KZread teaches me everything about love 😂

  • @rh1660

    @rh1660

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha I get all my life lessons form KZread.

  • @Depresssedbitch

    @Depresssedbitch

    5 жыл бұрын

    This can only mean one thing. KZread is the only thing you need in life

  • @lizzethahumada1126

    @lizzethahumada1126

    4 жыл бұрын

    No it doesnt... It doesnt teach that love doesnt exist...

  • @topsecret9813

    @topsecret9813

    4 жыл бұрын

    There are soo many false things on youtube

  • @MayaForJesus

    @MayaForJesus

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 true af

  • @dragrace7395
    @dragrace73955 жыл бұрын

    How the hell does KZread know that I fall in love very fast?

  • @caesarschannel2328

    @caesarschannel2328

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually I'm having the same question

  • @dwake0326

    @dwake0326

    4 жыл бұрын

    J_lly WTF SAME

  • @aestthelicx4408

    @aestthelicx4408

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly KZread knows everything at this point

  • @asnawiafandi7366

    @asnawiafandi7366

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, what the hell

  • @batyok2611

    @batyok2611

    4 жыл бұрын

    Big brother is watching us

  • @Highpriestess1126
    @Highpriestess11263 жыл бұрын

    Whilst I appreciate the intention of this video, but am AMAZED at the generalisations and separation consciousness being shared so freely by someone people seemingly look to for guidance. We are nearing the end of 2020, higher spiritual pathways are opening gateways to deep healing and all this video can do is bash up the shadows? Maybe the dating culture of the West has created the need for such a message but I’m still appalled at the way this video is giving a leading statement, making people believe that somehow they right person’ won’t hurt them or make them feel insecure’. True relationships don’t just bring out the best but sometimes the worst fears of the people involved and that’s where lovers can find a safe space to heal themselves and grow together. I fell in love real quick, it’s as if we had known each other forever, we had a deep connection and chemistry and after many highs and lows, the love has only grown stronger in all of these seven years. Sometimes ‘good guys’ and ‘committed partners’ can flip after years together, leaving the other wondering what happened. I’m saying, you can never be too sure of a person and love is always a risk. Always. That said, it’s not only upto people to try and make the right choices but also build a robust relationship with their own selves that nothing and no one can threaten. That’s true commitment :)

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini24892 жыл бұрын

    Love which lifts up when we are in hard times comforting with pleasing words lifting us with true kindness is the most admirable love l fall for.

  • @tarannumtanweer9531
    @tarannumtanweer95315 жыл бұрын

    How'd KZread know that I really need this video now??🤔🤔

  • @jesselopez6488

    @jesselopez6488

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @suhailahmad2586

    @suhailahmad2586

    5 жыл бұрын

    Because they watch u...😂

  • @tarannumtanweer9531

    @tarannumtanweer9531

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@suhailahmad2586 may be😂😂

  • @fawazhassan6631

    @fawazhassan6631

    5 жыл бұрын

    exactly

  • @mzali07

    @mzali07

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hide ur front cams.. 😅

  • @aquartzy5418
    @aquartzy54185 жыл бұрын

    I don't fall in love too fast, I just get crushes easily and I hate it because I'm all uncomfortable around them ;_; I know it's not love. Love is something greater ❤️

  • @Veronica_revolver

    @Veronica_revolver

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aquartzy exactly me

  • @AY-yz3dp

    @AY-yz3dp

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @deliaandreeaplapsa8649

    @deliaandreeaplapsa8649

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me haha :')

  • @johnnyw29

    @johnnyw29

    5 жыл бұрын

    This could have been written by me. I feel attracted to someone and can’t let go even when I know I don’t have a chance at all.

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    What's the different between a crush and love? Sorry ;-;

  • @fatimaasim8145
    @fatimaasim81453 жыл бұрын

    I broke up with my love because I cought him cheating once and it's been 3 years and I still can't stop loving him. I wish I had forgiven him just that one time.

  • @nyahhbinghi

    @nyahhbinghi

    2 жыл бұрын

    whoops

  • @Priyanka.369
    @Priyanka.3693 жыл бұрын

    Thanku Jay for this beautiful message...❤️❤️❤️

  • @bryanna_renaee
    @bryanna_renaee5 жыл бұрын

    Jokes on you, I never even get to the mutual attraction stage, let alone love 😂😂😂

  • @rayssa_xox

    @rayssa_xox

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha same girl

  • @iregerttihshahshah6591

    @iregerttihshahshah6591

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same... people think I have "a crush" when I just find someone generally appealing to the eye, its rare but I don't take it as anything important. There's a difference between the feeling of "woah, you look good" vs. "Woah, I think I have a crush on you" which is weird...

  • @MennatullahSeleem

    @MennatullahSeleem

    5 жыл бұрын

    Girlllll same

  • @Annie-ol2sy

    @Annie-ol2sy

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@iregerttihshahshah6591 can you tell me if it is good to have a crush on someone or fall in love cause I think that I have never been in love with anyone but my crushes have made me feel headache and heart broken !!!

  • @iregerttihshahshah6591

    @iregerttihshahshah6591

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thị Thúy An Nguyễn Its okay to crush on people, attraction is usually inevitable once you feel it. As long as you don't let it take a negative toll on your life, or let yourself give ALL of you're trust and dedication to them (since you'll never know if they're gonna break your heart), its normal and healthy to have feelings for others. I usually lack attraction and rarely feel it (I'm definitely okay with that), so you're lucky to still have those feelings. 😀

  • @infoofganesh
    @infoofganesh5 жыл бұрын

    *Fall in love with yourself* *and you will see wonders happening*

  • @friedchicken1

    @friedchicken1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks.. now I have my cock stuck in my anus...

  • @shraddhadolia979

    @shraddhadolia979

    5 жыл бұрын

    *Don't fall in love any condition, raise in love.*

  • @Onyiiiii

    @Onyiiiii

    5 жыл бұрын

    How can I ????😭😭

  • @emmanuelnyatefe8987

    @emmanuelnyatefe8987

    5 жыл бұрын

    Myself gives me a headache

  • @fifa9752

    @fifa9752

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@friedchicken1 haha dafuq

  • @williamle3376
    @williamle33763 жыл бұрын

    "How you fall in love is not important bcuz your heart decides that"

  • @Mrn0
    @Mrn04 жыл бұрын

    This seems right in theory, but practically none can resist the eagerness to love and be loved so fast.

  • @voguevibes6914
    @voguevibes69145 жыл бұрын

    Basically don't rush your thoughts on thinking you know them. Let time show who they really are. You can't control who you fall for but take it slowly.

  • @fenienfiasmr9182
    @fenienfiasmr91825 жыл бұрын

    They fall in love fast... My phone fell in my face

  • @morisummer2411

    @morisummer2411

    5 жыл бұрын

    xd

  • @parandhamandarling3689

    @parandhamandarling3689

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @ashmille9395

    @ashmille9395

    4 жыл бұрын

    xd

  • @gamergaming1060

    @gamergaming1060

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @kinimitoriko6336

    @kinimitoriko6336

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my god is this a joke i literally had my phone fell before i read this comment

  • @john_lee_official
    @john_lee_official3 жыл бұрын

    love this message brother!

  • @layshen3141
    @layshen31414 жыл бұрын

    I feel afraid to fall in love . That why I always try my best to avoid love live. I feel it will give you pain only.

  • @sara-il4lf

    @sara-il4lf

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true. I have also same thought 😊😇

  • @dn6457
    @dn64575 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m so scared to fall in love cause I don’t wanna have my heart broken. 💔

  • @tifundinzeberi1379

    @tifundinzeberi1379

    5 жыл бұрын

    The same to me

  • @deeegnima2541

    @deeegnima2541

    5 жыл бұрын

    Heartbreak is the worst feeling ever. Trying to heal from a broken heart since last year.

  • @dn6457

    @dn6457

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dee egnima get well soon 🥺🧡! i can only try to help by recommending a song called “get well soon” by ariana grande, it’s such a healing song. give it a listen n i hope it helps at least in some way.

  • @clashofqueen93

    @clashofqueen93

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just got my heart broken a week ago. It's not fun...but listen to this video. Take your time, try bond with them as friends first, because relationships should be just that, friends that wants to grow together more intimately not just feeling love. With this girl, I legit fell in love on the second day and I thought I knew her...but thinking now, I only knew what she wanted not what she wanted with me. And never guard your feelings...let it out the moment you trust them.

  • @isaia782

    @isaia782

    5 жыл бұрын

    Heartbreaks are horrible it can really mess you up it has done it to me before a couple of months ago I was scared of ever letting another girl come in to my life what the man said in the video was pure true and that’s exactly what I did I fell in love to fast with her not knowing she wasn’t feeling the same

  • @marvelbunch9794
    @marvelbunch97944 жыл бұрын

    I never wanted to fall in love But then at some point he smiled And holy shit I blew it

  • @SweetSerenadeXyWem

    @SweetSerenadeXyWem

    4 жыл бұрын

    This sounds like a short poem and I love it.

  • @jocelinmillan5098

    @jocelinmillan5098

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂Same

  • @komilakobilova1780

    @komilakobilova1780

    4 жыл бұрын

    Like me😐

  • @vimenakhro3083

    @vimenakhro3083

    4 жыл бұрын

    We're on the same page

  • @nini-uc7oo

    @nini-uc7oo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Melanie Martinez fan huh?

  • @mokitakaushikdelhi3216
    @mokitakaushikdelhi32163 жыл бұрын

    Jay thanks brother I can not tell you how much I cry these days for him but after watching your videos I am feeling relax... thanks 💫

  • @iveta543
    @iveta5433 жыл бұрын

    When I watch that video just want to cry and cry....my heart is totally broke cuz I love someone who doesn’t love me back...

  • @allisonkimtae4728
    @allisonkimtae47285 жыл бұрын

    Don’t know how did i ended up here, but it was worth it “no tree gives a fruit and flowers overnight” 💜

  • @mi-y

    @mi-y

    5 жыл бұрын

    But............. I fell in love with 7 people at a time... I didn't regret it lol..

  • @sunidhitirkey7522

    @sunidhitirkey7522

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mi-y same here! I don't think I'm gonna regret in my whole life ^ω^

  • @ihatesnakeuu6253

    @ihatesnakeuu6253

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sree Konattu same

  • @hans8303

    @hans8303

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too idk how I reached here but it was worth

  • @katie6872

    @katie6872

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same, idk how I got here

  • @sweetsixteen8193
    @sweetsixteen81935 жыл бұрын

    Name a Scam: "He said he had never been this way with anyone else before" Yeah right! Typical Lines

  • @shubashikarki4736

    @shubashikarki4736

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true😊

  • @ΙΞΙ

    @ΙΞΙ

    4 жыл бұрын

    Xd

  • @abhinavjakhad7649

    @abhinavjakhad7649

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes its the truth the problem is too many assholes are saying these things for a long time so when someone says and they meant it people tend to take them as assholes

  • @l.lawliet2915

    @l.lawliet2915

    4 жыл бұрын

    Name a scam Mom: If you tell the truth, I won’t get mad at you

  • @hn6498

    @hn6498

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@l.lawliet2915 bwahahahahahahaha yeah

  • @erlsnts
    @erlsnts3 жыл бұрын

    I love all your videos, it talks about life, love, family...Thank youuuuu😍

  • @adrianjoshuava-al8486
    @adrianjoshuava-al84863 жыл бұрын

    Thanks to the recommendation, I received your beautiful message. Thank you for those words. You helped me open up my eyes to see better perspective. God Bless!

  • @mashiyattt5417
    @mashiyattt54174 жыл бұрын

    "They say love is blind because the only time we fall is when we're blindfolded"

  • @zerol3971

    @zerol3971

    4 жыл бұрын

    We fall "when we choose to". We can be blind if "we choose to".

  • @sevensaturn5442

    @sevensaturn5442

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@zerol3971 yup and that's when you get hurt. When you know it and still do it

  • @foksai1699

    @foksai1699

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nah that is hard to say you can fall love in every situation in every emotion. You can feel good/bad and you can fall in love. Love is chemistry, emotion base system in our machine body. Great feeling from our heart.

  • @Sami-wu1ng

    @Sami-wu1ng

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zerol3971 well said

  • @Aakash-fo9qf
    @Aakash-fo9qf4 жыл бұрын

    I fall in love every morning With myself when I look in mirror

  • @kpopfan5724

    @kpopfan5724

    4 жыл бұрын

    hahahahhahaha😂omg good,really good, i cat stop smilling 😂😂

  • @kpopfan5724

    @kpopfan5724

    4 жыл бұрын

    can't I a sorry

  • @ekhlasshivan4481

    @ekhlasshivan4481

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are right 🌹

  • @krishnareddy5909

    @krishnareddy5909

    4 жыл бұрын

    ☺️

  • @kinseix

    @kinseix

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad there’s no comment who’s like “Ugh! You’re so selfish!” Anyways, yass girl get that self love!

  • @pecture4263
    @pecture42633 жыл бұрын

    I went back to watching this video today. I tend to fall quickly. And this helped me a lot. I had someone I thought I knew and we were close. Ghost me out of nowhere even though we were just talking for hours together tonight. Im glad I still have this video

  • @belladonna1211
    @belladonna12113 жыл бұрын

    This video opened scars for me. Cut right to the quick. Every thing he says is so deeply true, and heart breaking.

  • @imthatgirl107
    @imthatgirl1075 жыл бұрын

    The talking guy has really beautiful eyes

  • @talullahgardiner3068

    @talullahgardiner3068

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ala Muslaeni I WAS JUST THINKING THAT

  • @soraya.krdine

    @soraya.krdine

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ala Muslaeni you fall in love too fast !

  • @lekemildred6259

    @lekemildred6259

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes he does honey... He's handsome.. Hope u haven't fallen in love already..

  • @simranmultani2398

    @simranmultani2398

    5 жыл бұрын

    Did you already fall in love?????😂

  • @makaylaclayton3017

    @makaylaclayton3017

    5 жыл бұрын

    I fell in love with him to fast, jkjk

  • @gregfrancisco3625
    @gregfrancisco36253 жыл бұрын

    Long years of relationship does not also guarantee forever because i think love comes regardless of time. And love can not just be compared to a fruit of a tree. But thank you for sharing, maybe sometimes its true but not absolute.

  • @kvsmo5854
    @kvsmo58543 жыл бұрын

    I think ur my top 3 fav ytbers u actually rlly nice and a good accent and rlly thoughtful

  • @drewbair3433
    @drewbair34335 жыл бұрын

    Funny how KZread recommended this to a dude who’s never had a girlfriend and is eating frozen waffles in his underwear at 3 am

  • @logansanders9307

    @logansanders9307

    4 жыл бұрын

    May I join? Please?

  • @saradeen3984

    @saradeen3984

    4 жыл бұрын

    You made me laugh so hard.😂

  • @tijanaranic8765

    @tijanaranic8765

    4 жыл бұрын

    SAMEEEE, BUT I'M A GIRL

  • @alicejay.6935

    @alicejay.6935

    4 жыл бұрын

    thats cute hahahahha

  • @nobodyyyyynoo2131

    @nobodyyyyynoo2131

    4 жыл бұрын

    Drew Bair dafuq

  • @twaxmchottie616
    @twaxmchottie6165 жыл бұрын

    It takes time😢💔...who else is still waiting for Mr Right

  • @mohorchowdhury763

    @mohorchowdhury763

    5 жыл бұрын

    It seems all the guys in this world are dating someone and I have no one for me.....

  • @clashofqueen93

    @clashofqueen93

    5 жыл бұрын

    Don't wait for mr.right because the right guy you have picture for yourself will be way different that the right guy that is for you and you won't see him because you are blinded by the one in your head.

  • @zoerose2540

    @zoerose2540

    5 жыл бұрын

    ✋🙋

  • @kristiannoel4866

    @kristiannoel4866

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mohorchowdhury763 not all of us guys are dating, some are still available, and waiting for a woman wanting to spend time with us.

  • @aishanichole7013

    @aishanichole7013

    5 жыл бұрын

    My crush rejected me

  • @clarapearl1
    @clarapearl14 жыл бұрын

    True . So true . That we ignore these things n then get hurt . It's tough but it can be implemented. Al d best to all of us . Thanks Jay 4 sharing such a video .stay blessed

  • @user-vu6di3lx5t
    @user-vu6di3lx5t3 жыл бұрын

    Gratitude, your wisdom and knowledge shall never run dry, insightful video

  • @tchaiiiii
    @tchaiiiii5 жыл бұрын

    "The way you feel about me, is the way I feel towards her" 💔 I learnt this message the hard way

  • @lordlenelaryea738

    @lordlenelaryea738

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @kaylaartful3991

    @kaylaartful3991

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don’t get it

  • @tchaiiiii

    @tchaiiiii

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kaylaartful3991 i fell inlove with someone and they broke me. & that was their reason 💔

  • @-despair-5219

    @-despair-5219

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kaylaartful3991 "You love me, but I love *her"*

  • @karenvanderbeck

    @karenvanderbeck

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh God. I felt that. So sorry you had to go through that.

  • @luvlihyunjin
    @luvlihyunjin5 жыл бұрын

    KZread always recommends videos that pertain to my life :")

  • @Iwish387

    @Iwish387

    5 жыл бұрын

    haliyah same

  • @swetito5776

    @swetito5776

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @taraaa8764

    @taraaa8764

    5 жыл бұрын

    haliyah cause of cookies :))

  • @heavenlylulu3

    @heavenlylulu3

    5 жыл бұрын

    Basically everyone. We're all imperfect human beings who commit mistakes.

  • @dra.aqureshi6528

    @dra.aqureshi6528

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg Same

  • @goar17
    @goar173 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jay! This video just made my years that I left behind in couple of relationships that didn't worked and fully had opened my eyes on thing, despite I always knew that everything that comes up slowly is about quality, I kept making same mistakes opening myself to my exes too fast and suffering after for every finish. Your words I see was lived. Thank You for that.

  • @peppermintdior
    @peppermintdior3 жыл бұрын

    This is the best video on youtube. Period.

  • @louiscipher2939
    @louiscipher29394 жыл бұрын

    Forget about "falling in love." Focus on yourself, your goals, your fitness your career, and your hobbies.

  • @loganayagis52

    @loganayagis52

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah🤙

  • @evdisley700

    @evdisley700

    4 жыл бұрын

    Loganayagi S i’ve tried but i want to so bad

  • @marcoscynthia990

    @marcoscynthia990

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @RoborticalYT

    @RoborticalYT

    4 жыл бұрын

    ty too

  • @sayanisamadder3108

    @sayanisamadder3108

    4 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you man😊

  • @MrPepper312
    @MrPepper3124 жыл бұрын

    Me and my wife started falling in love before we really knew each other. We were married just a couple of months after our first date. That was 26 years ago. Still married and still in love.

  • @akshatagb1968

    @akshatagb1968

    2 жыл бұрын

    He is talking about these days love..your generation love was different..today's early love, It's just an attraction.. N they leave

  • @madhurimabasak7168

    @madhurimabasak7168

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@akshatagb1968 you're right, love was simple in the previous generation. They didn't used go search for more ande more. They knew how to settle with one. In today's generation people keep getting wooed by new people

  • @jessiepalermo7234
    @jessiepalermo72344 жыл бұрын

    I didn't fall in love fast. I was with her 4 years and I was still cheated on. I had never loved anybody as much as I loved her and she betrayed me and blamed me for cheating on me. Its been 10 months and I still cry every day.

  • @jackhenry5262

    @jackhenry5262

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello I know someone who can help you bring back your lover and fixe your relationship issues

  • @jackhenry5262

    @jackhenry5262

    3 жыл бұрын

    Contact him on WhatsApp +2348075354290

  • @neydys1

    @neydys1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Owww I'm sorry

  • @JasmijnMoerman

    @JasmijnMoerman

    3 жыл бұрын

    Could be wrong, but she might have some narcisstic traits: youtube is your friend for info on that! Love yourself, only thing you have to do! Good luck

  • @giuliana5888

    @giuliana5888

    3 жыл бұрын

    Her bad behaviour is not your fault. I hope you find peace of mind. Much love

  • @Barnstormer1969
    @Barnstormer19693 жыл бұрын

    No truer words ever spoken. Jay Shetty is a genius. I wish someone gave me that advice decades ago.

  • @motivationalspeakers11
    @motivationalspeakers115 жыл бұрын

    Temporary pain ends but regret lasts forever!?

  • @GauravWahithecoolone

    @GauravWahithecoolone

    5 жыл бұрын

    i think you got it wrong, it's pain is temporary but suffering lasts forever

  • @arjuntt2604

    @arjuntt2604

    5 жыл бұрын

    OMG ,rebel.

  • @sharad7340

    @sharad7340

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's why we have to find strong remedy of it

  • @samdhakan2112

    @samdhakan2112

    5 жыл бұрын

    👍👍

  • @deepindersingh5911

    @deepindersingh5911

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well said. Regret lasts

  • @violetdaffodils3196
    @violetdaffodils31965 жыл бұрын

    Falling in love is easy but staying inlove for a long period of time is another story.. when you trully love someone cheating has no room at all.. 😊

  • @cocobna
    @cocobna3 жыл бұрын

    Perfect timing. I needed to be reminded of this!

  • @Cristhine_Castalie17
    @Cristhine_Castalie173 жыл бұрын

    You drop my tears. Thank you🙏

  • @Wavesfromthenorth
    @Wavesfromthenorth5 жыл бұрын

    This is a powerful message. Pretty much what king Solomon said in Proverbs 4:23 "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it"

  • @lightoftheworld8569

    @lightoftheworld8569

    5 жыл бұрын

    AMEN HALLELUJAH 😭

  • @zeydalynn8634

    @zeydalynn8634

    5 жыл бұрын

    even though i’m not a Christian i’ll admit that the Bible contains some very wise statements

  • @Esther-ie7fy

    @Esther-ie7fy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen❤️

  • @momoduismail2462
    @momoduismail24625 жыл бұрын

    Love is a beautiful thing💓. .but with the wrong person LOVE is a dangerous thing💔

  • @earldelacruz3727

    @earldelacruz3727

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's why we should love ourselves by having standards

  • @---zr3jq

    @---zr3jq

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true👌

  • @hurijael-karim5950

    @hurijael-karim5950

    5 жыл бұрын

    Definitely!

  • @gangabhavanis1411

    @gangabhavanis1411

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's true

  • @istarxasan2772

    @istarxasan2772

    5 жыл бұрын

    Definitely true 💯

  • @thisisme3238
    @thisisme32383 жыл бұрын

    Some of the best advice ever given...thanks for THE TRUTH. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Stew357
    @Stew3573 жыл бұрын

    You can't dodge the big lie, but "never give away your trust" is excellent advice; it must be earned.

  • @falguniprajapati3977
    @falguniprajapati39775 жыл бұрын

    But the actual thing is we can't prevent ourselves for falling in love 🤐

  • @meghachan8721

    @meghachan8721

    5 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @Adam-iv4wm

    @Adam-iv4wm

    5 жыл бұрын

    Falguni Prajapati but you can control who you get with

  • @KatyRidinger

    @KatyRidinger

    5 жыл бұрын

    No

  • @genzxc2711

    @genzxc2711

    5 жыл бұрын

    yes. but before you show it, before you get really into it, know the person.

  • @mayphoenix4725

    @mayphoenix4725

    5 жыл бұрын

    It would be nice if could prevent ourselves from being in love. It save us a lot of hurt. 😔