Poll: What is your pick for the saddest song of the 1970s?

@BillGraper

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a bit biased, because I've loved this song since my 6 year old ears first heard it. "I Go Crazy" by Paul Davis. I believe lyrics aren't the only thing that make a song sad. The music has to fit that mood as well. I think this is one of those songs. Also, the keyboard ditty after the chorus is one of the most memorable music sounds from my childhood.

@ReverendDr.Thomas

2 жыл бұрын

"Cat Size" by Suzi Quatro.

@chrispetrillo9042

2 жыл бұрын

All by Myself by Eric Carmen.

@TheWorldTeacher

2 жыл бұрын

"Bohemian Rhapsody"?

@daBEAGLE1017

2 жыл бұрын

Alone again...naturally.

My father was a workaholic, and this song devastated him. It’s one of the very few times I ever saw him tear up. It changed him. Thank you, Harry. ❤️

@Moriarty70

7 ай бұрын

I learned in my early teens that my dad was worried he was like this. He was a workaholic as well and I know I picked up some (a lot) of that habit. I never saw him as absent or failing as a dad, but I'm his son, how could I convince him he was a good dad? Over the years he came to understand even though up to his death he maintained I "grew up in spite of us".

The saddest song of the 70's for me had to be The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald, I grew up in Michigan and in the 70's the weather and the winter's gave one a profound respect for what nature could do to those who didn't respect its power. I was a youngster when the Fitzgerald went down but I remember it clearly and the huge impact it had on the people of the state, and like it said in the song The church bell chimed till it rang 29 times for each man on the Edmund Fitzgerald . If you ever experienced a storm that blew inland from across the Great Lakes and felt its power grip you or ever been out on the lakes in the rough it was harrowing but to put them both together it was never put into words better than what Gordon Lightfoot did. It Captured the essence of Fear and courage that it took to do such a job on the Great Lakes and the truth of the horror of Being in the Grip of a Hurricane coupled with a winter Ice storm. "Does anyone know where the love of God goes when the waves turn the minutes to hour's?.

@georgebarry8640

2 жыл бұрын

Gordon Lightfoot is a treasure to all who know SONG. It certainly is a sad song...but it is also truthful about ,as you say, the courage of the men...the risks they take. Gordon allowed Us to understand that better. Great songs can bring Us to places we never imagined.

@gregmiller7123

2 жыл бұрын

@@georgebarry8640 Sad though when Canada switched to the metric system and he had to change his name to Gordon Lightmeter! 🤪

@michaelgeisdorf6641

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I remember the snow and wind here in Northern Minnesota as the news broke in on Monday Night Football requesting the crews of the Coast Guard cutter in Duluth to report to the ship for an emergency deployment to the Fitzgeralds last know location to look for survivors. Haunting.

@patrickwayne3701

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaelgeisdorf6641 those poor guys were screwed like housecats. Same as the 1500 people in the Titanic. You ever need a reason to be thankful for your life, just walk out in an ice storm in your jammies. Then think about hugging a cold steel railing on a boat that just became a submarine in such a cold dark wet tomb. I read about one of those men on the Edmund Fitzgerald who locked his door on his Dodge Challenger in the parking lot near the dock where he boarded the ill-fated ship. An acquaintance of mine ended up buying that Challenger. It has always been a heavy reminder of how quickly things can change.

@Weshopwizard

2 жыл бұрын

You’ve obviously not paid serious attention to ABBA songs.

"Time in a Bottle" by Jim Croce tears me up, but, like "Cat's in the Cradle," it drives home how precious and fleeting the time is that we share with our loved ones. In a similar way "Everything I Own" by David Gates is another sad one about a father and son relationship.

@bigal3248

2 жыл бұрын

You could add Barry Manilow’s “Ships” to that list, Clarence Carter’s “Patches”, and the Winston’s “Color Him Father” too.

@origional_name_here1429

8 ай бұрын

I always have cats in the cradle and father and son as the ones that get me

I learned what NOT to do in this life from my father. He died at 44 years of age from a drug overdose, I was 24. I now am happily married with a fantastic 10 year old boy. No matter how tired I am after a hard day of Horseshoeing (I’m a professional Farrier) I ALWAYS have time for my wife and son… It feels good to break the cycle and Cats in the Cradle is always a great reminder to keep on keeping on 🙏

This song is the reason I grew up knowing my dad. He was a cardiologist very busy keeping a couple of thousand people alive, most of them veterans. He heard it on the radio, and it moved him to make time for us in his very long days. I always wanted to thank Chapin for it.

@LisaHouserman

2 жыл бұрын

What a wonderful story! Your dad sounds like one of the good guys!

@ghostintheshadowofthecity5702

2 жыл бұрын

@@LisaHouserman Actually, my parents were kinda superheros, both genius scientists who were senior advisors to the National Security Council. But yes, he was a very good guy, whom I miss very much despite my age..

@jamesbehrje4279

2 жыл бұрын

@@ghostintheshadowofthecity5702 you'll always miss your parents, even in your final days. I miss my dad. My dad was a good father even with all the adversity he went through as a single parent with a retard for a son.

@thomasblanchard6778

2 жыл бұрын

Your online handle sounds like the title of some beautiful, haunting (pun not intended) album!

@carolharris2357

2 жыл бұрын

That's great.

To this day, at 64 years old, I cannot hear this song without crying, including now. My father reminds me of the main character of the song so much. I wish that I had been able to put much more distance between his character and the way he raised me than I was able to. Sadly, my son is gone now, killed by a drunk driving illegal alien. I thank God Himself that the last words I ever spoke to my son, the morning he left for work were, "Son I'm so proud of you, I love you."

@novastariha8043

Жыл бұрын

“Bittersweet” your last sentence And my eyes water ….when words mean everything….

@gebswife

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your great and precious loss.

@mendyviola

Жыл бұрын

I get it. I lost my dad from dementia before we could fully reconcile.

@deborahhanna9126

Жыл бұрын

Profound condolences.

@jcmhanel1

11 ай бұрын

I could have wept for your father as you told his story. I completely understand growing up with an alcoholic father. I will say, my father never had us go out and do anything so awful. He never left us when we were sick. I would just love to be able to hug your six year old dad !

« Leader of the Band » by Dan Fogelberg is also a touching tribute to a father. In this case the dad was inspirational and encouraging. The song also acknowledges the passage of time and the importance of telling those closest to you that you love them.

@rjkubr

Жыл бұрын

The Living Years by Mike and the Mechanics is another great one about a father and son although it’s from the 80s.

@jasonvoorhees895

Жыл бұрын

Valotte by Julian Lennon is also another great father/son song

@mov1ngforward

Жыл бұрын

I listened to DF's greatest hits the other morning. What a poet he was and a beautiful heart and spirit. There seem to be messages in most of their words.

@rjkubr

Жыл бұрын

@@mov1ngforward Another great song showing a father's love for his son is “I Don’t Call Him Daddy” by Doug Supernaw. Great video!

@elleemzed2176

Жыл бұрын

Also: Landslide by Stevie Nicks in Fleetwood Mac.

"Little boy blue and the man in the moon..." I wonder if Chapin intended those two characters to refer to his son and him? The "little boy blue" is the sad little boy looking at his father, the bright but distant and cold father in the sky. Always such a tear jerker for me, and too close to home.

@markchisam6818

Жыл бұрын

So, when I was divorced with 2 children 8 and 10, I would hear the cats and the cradle song and feel horrible about not being with my son and step daughter as much . I started a tradition of every time I heard the song, I would immediately call my son and say to him , cats in the cradle is on, I love you son. My son would also do the same, and now as a 30 year old and very successful young man, we still do this to this day. My new wife who had arrived quickly into our lives and a woman who is instrumental in all of our success, was smitten with the idea, so she started to do the same check in anytime each of them hear Talks to Angels by the Black Crowes.. Love conquered all for us!

@appletree6898

Жыл бұрын

​@Mark Chisam Love this!!

Much respect to your dad. My dad was basically abandoned when his mother died along with 8 siblings. Like your dad, instead of mirroring the example he had seen, he became a kind, loving, and humble father. Here’s to our dads.

@austintrousdale2397

2 жыл бұрын

Cheers 🍻🙏✌️

@randytessman6750

2 жыл бұрын

Its amazing how many "good Dads" had bad ones. I know I try everyday to be the DAD my father was not.

@bobchambers1455

Жыл бұрын

So awesome to hear!

Ya know as a guy who lost his son in January and his father last month this song hits me on multiple levels. My son was 20 killed by a drunk driver and my dad was 78 so i had the opportunity to see them inter act with each other and yes I am just like my dad and my son was just like me. This song means the world to me in this stage of my life.

@carlacook5181

11 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your losses, especially your young son.

@elioraimmanuel

11 ай бұрын

So very sorry for you tragic losses. My heart breaks for you!

@medfordmystic1961

11 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. It takes great courage to go through such a thing. That's a tribute to you and your son. God bless you.

@mohdomar11

5 ай бұрын

God bless you dear

SAD TRUE STORY: My best friend from childhood. (I have to keep his name private as he is well known) He grew up wanting to be be a "G.I Joe guy", He went into the military and went right up the ranks. Now in his 50's he contacts me to tell me he is getting the highest honor in the military. I flew across country to be there . I recorded his acceptance speech. His speech was supposed to be upbeat and exciting. Instead he focused on the song Cats in the cradle. He mentioned every line in the song. Imagine leading tens of thousand of troops into hardcore battle for 2 decades. Imagine all the American body bags, that were under his command. Imagine all the men under his command that came home dismembered. Then one month later he took his own life from the guilt of not being with his family due to military life. He never drank or did any drugs, a perfect human. I am not sure if he committed suicide to be honest. Some people that high up and have massive control, "strange things happen to them" and the press sucks.

@ladonnaghareeb4609

2 жыл бұрын

So very sad.

@WilliamSilva-dq6zj

2 жыл бұрын

I bet every man that has every come to that realization that he's missed out on life spending time making a living has wanted to put a gun to his own head. I'm so sorry for you and the loss of what was a certified great man in your friend and for the loss to his family that would've been happy to have him in any capacity. I site this song as the thing that puts that extra energy and motivation in me that I thought was completely gone at the end of a long work week and I had to make the 2 hour trek to see my own son and daughter or give up on something I wanted to do, or live on noodles and coffee so I could make that child support payment. I'd walk an hour to get to work because I couldn't fix the old car that eventually got repo'ed. I'd sing me a line or two and I'd show up with a smile on my face. I made it to their graduations and made sure to do what I could to make a holiday or birthday as special as I could. The kids are in their 20s now and they will call almost every weekend to tell me how much the miss me and love me. It's the best I could do but I was damned to let my children say something like...Ya, I can relate to this song.

@WeaponsEducation

2 жыл бұрын

@@WilliamSilva-dq6zj I am going to add to my comment. Thank you for yours.

@Out_of_My_Head

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

@davidlane256

2 жыл бұрын

I think I met the guy you’re talking about. At least, I met someone who had the same end and was at the top of the chain. How many have there been?

"I'd trade all of my tomorrows for one single yesterday." Me and Bobby McGee hurts my heart each time I hear it, especially Janis Joplin's cover.

@charlie-obrien

Жыл бұрын

Kris Kristofferson wrote and sang a pretty great version himself, but Janis feels every heartache in the song that Kris penned. I have a girl in my past that I might make that "tomorrows for yesterday" trade for. If we are lucky, we all do.

@revsla

11 ай бұрын

When my husband passed away I learned what that line really meant. I would gladly trade the rest of my life to have just another ordinary day with the most wonderful man ever.

Cats in the cradle and the logical song have defined and shaped my life. This song helped me understand a father's sacrifices for his family. My father made little time for me and 50 years later I'm still trying to not have any resentment. Pop's is currently losing battling alzheimer's and dementia. I cry every day watching him deteriorate. I will be at his side till he passes. I'll always be there for you Pop's! I love you with all my heart!

@jstnxprsn

2 жыл бұрын

Nice comment. I understand. In fact I even wrote a blog piece about The Logical Song. Best of luck to your Dad.

@Weaseldog2001

2 жыл бұрын

I was with my father when he passed from Dementia. It was hard, but I have no regrets.

@rogerwhetstone3034

2 жыл бұрын

Well Dean, as a father myself, who probably made lots of mistakes, I would like to quote Paul Simon. I knew a father who had a son, He longed to tell him all the reasons for the things he done , Went a long way, Just to explain , Kissed his boy while he lay sleeping , Turned around and went back home again.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

My father is a very organized person. He works to help support our family while still making ample time to hang out with us at home. I’m very proud of him. Sending love and hugs to your pop.

@mjemigh3304

2 жыл бұрын

Uh-boy.....I really do understand what you're going through. I had to watch my mother slowly die from this evil disease. I'm sure that it's much harder on us, the children, than it is on your father and was on my mother. My heart goes out to you, Dean.

Harry changed for his family, but also his whole life in general. It's ironic he died on his way to a benefit concert. He performed many of them. He became a true humanitarian and an advocate his hunger project. His foundation is still in operation.

This song and my own childhood loneliness are the reasons why my kids and I have aways been so close. Their mom bailed when our youngest was almost 3 and, quite literally, this song's message was my foundation and my energy to help fill the void. They grew up into amazing people and not just because they're mine, but because this message rang constantly in me. Beyond powerful stuff.

To me one of the saddest songs is another Chapin song about loneliness called A Better Place to Be. It has a kind of happy ending but he so accurately portrays the crushing loneliness that comes to most people at times so accurately that you can feel it in your bones. Chapin was one of the greatest songwriters that we have ever had.

@stevesutherland4086

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree! Been a fan for nearly 50 years and have aĺl his work. Better Place his best.

@charlie-obrien

Жыл бұрын

If people really love "Taxi" and "Cats in the Cradle", they need to treat themselves to a listen of the whole catalog or one of his recorded concerts. He of course, had his somber and deep meaningful songs, but the overall effect of his music in whole is so joyous.

@lamarrodgers

Жыл бұрын

That was a very good song

My 3 boys were born in 89-95. This song was a key factor in being aware of my time spent with them and making sure this song message wasn’t my story. They all know the great songs of the 70’s. (American Pie was the family trip sing along in the car) Time is limited until they are on their own. You can’t get it back.

The influence your father has on you Adam is a gift to us all, and we can't thank you enough for sharing it.

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree! My mother was like this to me with Earth, Wind, and Fire. Love hearing Professor’s stories about his father!

@austintrousdale2397

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely #allthefeels 🙏✌️

@WilliamSilva-dq6zj

2 жыл бұрын

@@ProfessorofRock He speaks truth bro ;)

@garylefevers

2 жыл бұрын

Well said.

Harry Chapin Greatest Stories Live is the soundtrack to my childhood. His live performances, with his brothers and bandmates, is joyful, moving, emotional, and easy to sing along with. 30,000 Pounds Of Bananas, Mr Tanner, Dreams Go By, Cats In The Cradle, A Better Place To Be, Taxi, Circle, etc. Thanks Mom, your love for this man and his music lives on in me.

@charlie-obrien

Жыл бұрын

Notice in the Simpson's clip the Professor uses, that Homer pays a small homage to "30,000 Pounds of Bananas", along with "Cats in the Cradle".

Dang Adam, you really know how to bring tears to my eyes. I lost my dad at the end of 2019. It was a freak type of accident. Dad was healthy overall at 70 years old. He was one of my best friends. I miss him dearly. A lot of our bond revolved around a shared love of music, cars, electronics, computers, and movies. I am over 50. Yet, I really miss him still.

I served in the Navy (USS Truett) and we docked near New Orleans once in the early 90's. Of course we all missed our families, after all it WAS the Navy. One night on the town, one of my shipmates, at a Bourbon Street kareoke bar, bravely got on stage and belted out the most passionate version of Cats In The Cradle I've ever heard. Thank you Shane (can't remember his last name) I've never forgot about your performance that night.

I remember listening to this song on a "70's Gold" double album I bought back in the early 80's at age 10 (with the help from my parents. Mail orders only). One day when I was listening to it, my mom said, "There's one song that you'll never be able to relate to." Both of my parents were always there for me, helping with my homework, taking us to theme parks, playing baseball, chess, video games, whatever. They always had time for my sisters & me. The theme of this song is very sad, and I'm thankful I could never relate to it.

@mikemcgown6362

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like we had similar parents. I learned from my dad how to be a good dad. My son has told me how much he is grateful for my attention. He has his own son now and hopefully he will be a good dad, too.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t relate to it either. My parents have always been there for me every step of the way. They make sure I am loved, feel safe and comfortable through life.

@Teresa-ch3og

2 жыл бұрын

I was about 14 when this song was popular. My parents were not like the dad in the song either. But I still could relate to it based on things some of my friends and school mates were going through with parents going through divorces etc. I mentioned something about liking the song to my mom and she seemed to be a bit irritated with me. I think she thought I was relating to it on a personal level and couldn't understand why. It was more that I understood the message of the song and felt empathy for people who experienced similar issues.

@screwyootube1

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think you need to "relate" to it, to understand it, and sympathize with those who it unfortunately DO relate to it. It's a very sad song, set to great music. But it's a song that for many, it's all too real.

What a great episode! That story your Dad told you about his Dad choked me up. The way you weaved to story of the song and your Dad’s story about his Dad was masterful. Thanks again.

Damn, this is a real tear-jerker. I hope everyone watches to the end. My dad was an alcoholic too. He quit drinking after I left home and then he got religion. But he was still never able to open up to me and show any kind of vulnerability or intimacy. He was stoic. Private. Deeply avoidant. Never talked about anything important. Lots of talking about the weather. He is still alive and eventually stopped speaking to me altogether due to religious differences with me. I'm an atheist and he's a Jehovah's Witness. He's so feeble now he really could go any day. He turns 87 this year. Thanks for sharing with us Professor. Keep on rockin.

Heartbreaking song. I remember listening to this song when I was little and thanking god that I had my wonderful father. I love you and miss you, dad!

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing.

@jennyjenny4501

2 жыл бұрын

@@ProfessorofRock I’m sorry that you went through tough times with your dad. I’m glad you used it to make you strong. Much respect!

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

I have a wonderful father too and I thank God for it!

Every college in the United States in the 70s had at least a concert by Harry Chapin. Many of them were free if you bought food in cans for the homeless or some type of charitable thing. His father actually taught Peter Kriss of kiss how to play drums

@georgebarry8640

2 жыл бұрын

His father was a reknowned Drummer. He had a Video out in the 80s ..I saw it. I didnt think a human could play like that on the drums!!! Harrys entire family played music, and I was lucky enough to play a gig or two with one of them. Nice people.

@gregmiller7123

2 жыл бұрын

Agree!....I saw him at Baylor in 74 or 75.

@warnerchandler9826

2 жыл бұрын

I attended one of Harry Chapin's concerts while in college late '70s. Growing up, my dad was in the US Air Force and was in the Viet Nam theater for a year two different times. In spite of his own father's poor modeling, I fondly remember all the time my dad spent with me.

As a child of the 70's, I really appreciate the Professor covering this song. I've loved this channel for a while now, but this one in particular is absolutely spectacular, with back stories that were unknown to me.

I worked multiple jobs and or side jobs most of my life. Didn't have a whole lotta time to spend time with my ex wife and kids. I was able to go to my daughter's talent show at school. She sang this song and made me cry. I was heart broken.

Imagine writing a song that changes peoples lives! What a blessing. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

Influencing generations.

I'm very fortunate to have a father who used every opportunity to spend time with his family. Even so, this is definitely a tough listen because there are people who weren't so lucky. RIP Harry Chapin

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly... Thank you for sharing your experience of a great father.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! My father works very hard to support me and the rest of my family.

I loved Harry Chapin. Cats in the Cradle still makes me tear up. And I never tire of hearing Taxi

Harry has been #1 in my book forever, got all of his albums, seen his movie, the Cotton Patch Gospel musical (twice) he wrote the music for and never tire of his music. I am so glad his music is very personal for you in this episode, whereas other interviews I have watched is more of "your job." He has so many songs that elicit emotions - Sniper (If you're not shaken by this song, there is something wrong with you), Bummer, Corey's Coming, Flowers Are Red (the anthem we raised our children by), Tangled Up Puppet (The female version of Cat's In The Cradle), The Mayor of Candor Lied, Mr. Tanner (A Dry Cleaner from Ohio - the real story is crazy. Years after Harry passed, the real Dry Cleaner, Mr. Turbidy, started getting calls asking if he was Mr. Tanner? He hung up on these strange calls, then listened to the song one day for the first time. And recognized he is Mr. Tanner. He has sung the song on stage with Harry's brothers. Amazing.

@steveandtammyb

11 ай бұрын

Oh, yeah!! I love that song, too, and that story about the real “Mr. Tanner” ! Love it!

Some of us unfortunately grew up without any Dad in the house. I have had several friends who have Dad's, and I tell them just how lucky they are. I don't know wich is worse, not having a Dad, or having a absent or disfunctional Dad. I remember hearing this song being played on the radio back in the 80's. It's great to hear the powerful story behind the song. Thanks.

@Out_of_My_Head

2 жыл бұрын

How kids who grow up with abusive fathers?

@gregmiller7123

2 жыл бұрын

@@Out_of_My_Head No, how kids that grow up with abusive fathers can break the cycle like Adam's dad! Not everyone's story ends badly!

@8a41jt

2 жыл бұрын

That's true; if you have love, you have everything -- but not everyone knows that. I was raised by parents that shouldn't have had kids, and of course (he says ashamedly) I made many, but not all, of the same mistakes -- we all learn what we live. I am now the only survivor of my birth family, I outlived my parents and little brother. And I now have a family for whom I thank God daily, but they're all grown now and I made many of those mistakes when they were in their critical years. I think I've now atoned for all that awful behavior, but I wasn't physically or emotionally abusive ... that's all I can say in my own defense, and all I could give my wife & kids was my own sobriety a long time ago. My kids are all still alive, and THEY have kids who love their poppop; and as ironic as it sounds for me to say so, it's what life's all about. If you have love, you have everything. Don't have a lot of money any more, but that's not important. Love is. _Did I break the cycle?_ I'll never really know for certain, I'm still not perfect, but I sure as hell tried. That doubt sucks; but it could be _a lot_ worse. With all I just said, listen closely: *don't waste time. You'll never get it back.*

As one who suffers from depression, the father of 5 sons, finds it very difficult to talk about personal things, and to even get out of the house, this song haunts me. I was a single father raising my boys for many years and I tried to always do right by them. We did plenty of activities together and I told them I loved them all the time and they always said it back. The problem is once they left to be on their own, as they all have, I find it very difficult to talk with them. This video has me crying. I desperately miss them, three of them live on the other side of the world, and it's hard to make it out the front door, much less travel 14,000 miles to visit them, but for some weird reason, this song always gives me hope.

@theplanetruth

2 жыл бұрын

Much love to you, brother.

@patrickwayne3701

2 жыл бұрын

Urroner,,, technology is capable of being a great blessing. You should seek out help for your depression and you should try to find ways to communicate your love for your boys. I am the only child of my parents before my Mom walked out on my Dad for being on third shift trying to earn a living for his family and my Mom walked out because she wanted more. She took me with her and like to killed my Dad in doing so. I've been drug all over the world with her and a violent string of men she laid down with in subsequent years. I have scars and broken bones to show for all of it, but I came back home to be near to my Dad and extended family. Writing about all this has been sometimes tumultuous for me, but largely helps get it out on the page. Don't know if you have tried to write for your own sanity or to reach out to your boys, but it might help Sir. Godspeed in your travails.

@theplanetruth

2 жыл бұрын

@Needlesmith in GA What source do you use?

@bobbys4327

2 жыл бұрын

Get help! Talk to them! Life is very short, do not wait until you do not have the opportunity to talk with them. I am a veteran and am 73 years old. I came out of the military and did not know how messed up I was. Anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts ect. My life was sort of like Harry's but I was not a rock star. Like Harry though, I ignored my home life with my wife. Doing that, just like Harry, it almost cost me my marriage and would have ended not only my marriage, but also my life. Unbelievably she hung in somehow. I got help, and with her help, we are still together after 50 years and somehow I am still here. I am only here because of her help and outside help too. Just like Harry, I was able to hang on to what mattered most.

@Urroner

2 жыл бұрын

@@bobbys4327 My first wife left me. Little did we know we were both going through depression.. She's from Australia, so when she left, she took our three boys with her there. That made everything a lot worse. Coming home to an empty house really took a toll on me. I got the boys back a little over a year later. She couldn't deal with three active boys. Sadly, she never really did anything to help with her depression. I went to counseling very often starting in 1992 through the early 2000s. I got married again, but it was a bad decision. Gain 2 more boys and another ex. De nidec to wait u till I had my head on right before getting into any type of ro antic relationship. My boys realize it's not in it right now to call them, so they call me. Counseling, antidepressants, and having kids to raise saved me. I'm pushing 70 and life not too bad except for the stress. I'll retire when I turn 70. I love my job and the people I work with, so I'm in no rush. I'm happy you found a keepr. That's awesome and thanks for the concern.

I read to my son every night till we’ll after he could read for himself. Even so, there were years that I didn’t spend enough time with him. The time we did spend together was so worth it, because now he still spends time with me.

I was a senior in high school when this song came out and I always loved it. And then, when my son was 4 years old, and I was working full-time and would hear this song on my way to work on the “classic rock station”, it would make me tear up, because I would feel guilty, as a mom, that I couldn’t be home raising him. My husband and I both loved this song, and it would remind us that we could work hard to make sure we spent time with our kids. Now, we are retired and our kids are good about trying to come see us when they can. But, our son and his wife and kids live 11 hours (by car) away from us so there are times when it’s a reminder that their lives are kind of like ours at that age.

Songs like cats in the cradle or Jim Croche's time in a bottle will always be powerful, because you can't listen to them without having very personal pieces of youself pulled out and held before your own eyes... some songs just relate to life and time with it's relentless passing so strongly, that you can't let them go, but at the same time, helps to resolve them as "life"... another awesome video professor, thanks for all these wonderful videos, kinda like the Paul Harvey of rock and roll, and now we know the rest of the story!

@cathyferguson3337

2 жыл бұрын

Jim Croce for sure....

I met Harry Chapin after he did an impromptu performance in the hangar bay of the aircraft carrier I was on. We were on a Mediterranean cruise in 1978 and were anchored off the coast of Naples, Italy. Harry was on vacation at the time and his young son learned about our huge ship being docked off the coast. He wanted to see a big Navy ship. I'm not sure who contacted our captain, but he got word about Harry's son wanting to see our ship up close. Our captain suggested if Harry gave ship's crew a short concert, he'd personally give them a tour of our ship (the USS Forrestal). Harry agreed. He did the show, and afterwards he stuck around to chat with anyone who wanted to talk to him. He and I talked about 10 minutes--his music, his concern about world hunger, etc.--and then he autographed a piece of paper I had on me. I still have his autograph to this day. Harry Chapin struck me as one of the kindest, most thoughtful, and down to earth humans I had ever met up to that time in my life (age 21). Now I'm 65 and my impression of him still holds true to this day. May Harry rest in peace.

Taxi, Greyhound and Dogtown from Harry’s first album are absolute classics, as is the stunning “Flowers Are Red” from 1978. But the shining light for me has always been “She Is Always Seventeen”.

As a Harry Chapin fan, this song barely scratches this man’s remarkable talent. He’s got so many other tunes that evoke tears and magic.

I always loved Harry's music, I remember how sad I was when I heard he had passed away in a auto accident, it made "Cats in a cradle " even sadder for me to hear. My cousin quoted lyrics from it at my Uncles funeral, such a great and true song. I always liked "Taxi " also. I wish Harry could've been with us longer, I'm sure he would've given us alot more good music! Thanks for keeping the music alive Professor!

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

Same with me! I always got emotional hearing this song knowing he died in an accident.

@sigma80

2 жыл бұрын

I find the death of Jim Croce as much sadder. He was on the cusp of being a HUGE star and seemed to be a nice guy. Harry let the stardom goes to his head, and acted like an ass. Talent doesn't make you a good person. Jim was always a much more down to Earth guy. Probably not a perfect guy, but a nice talented guy. Maybe Jim would of gotten big headed too, but he didn't live.

"Someday Never Comes" by CCR is a beautiful, but lesser-known song that is thematically similar to the Cat's in the Cradle. It's great and worth hearing

@bethkahn8278

2 жыл бұрын

Great song!

When you ask if there has ever been a sadder ending to a song (I’ve cried many times hearing this) but there is one that I cry just as hard. Bobby Goldsboro- Honey. It’s so sad.

Harry Chapin’s spoke to me at a time I was struggling with depression, and my own family tearing itself apart. I actually saw him perform at a solo show in Kalamazoo, MI to benefit then congressman Howard Wolpe. He died on the Long Island expressway just three months later, just before he was to perform a full concert in Toledo, where I also had plans to see him. He spoke in Kalamazoo about working with rep. Wolpe for the organization World Hunger Year (WHY), which was founded at his urging. I have kept the autographed program from Kalamazoo all these years. The world was a little emptier without him. RIP Harry.

I always liked how the perspective of the song changed as it progressed. Highlighting how the son can become the father in more ways than the obvious. It's right up there with The Living Years for father/son songs. Tragic but beautiful.

This song is one of the reasons that I spent as much time as I could with my boys as they were growing up. Money is nice but temporary. Family brings love and purpose. Thank you, Harry, for sharing this with the world. Adam, thank you for your openness and sharing your passion which came from your dad. Bless you and your family.

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Thank you for sharing. I'm so happy to hear that you did that for our kids. It's PARAMOUNT>

@ApartmentKing66

2 жыл бұрын

Well, time is tops, yes, but money is underrated. Money, unlike time, allows one to do whatever he or she wants. Time is the more important of the two, but the two in tandem can give unparalleled life experiences.

@oldmanriver1955

2 жыл бұрын

I would have to agree. I was third of three boys and I spent little time with my dad. He was a WW2 vet and had issues. He died when I was 20. I made sure I would be there for my kids but still made some of the same errors pursuing a career in education with a heavy Saturday sport commitment. Gave up on the idea and ensured I spend a lot of their later teens being there for them. This song haunted me every time I heard it.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

This song hit really hard with me in 2019 when my father had to take multiple trips out of town to go all over the US for work purposes. I had to stay with my mother and little sister, and it was kind of hard for her to take care of us all by herself. Luckily, when my dad did come home he spent all the time in the world that he could with us and we learned to appreciate how hard he works to support us through life. He's awesome.

@austintrousdale2397

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 🙏 ✌️

Oh those sad songs. Can I add one: in 1982 I lost my father to Cancer, He was only 52 and the love of so many of our friends lives. Song that epitomized my father was as Dan Fogelberg said "the most important song I ever wrote was Leader of the Band". And to this day I cannot listen to it without crying. It was on the radio when I got the call from my Stepmom announcing his passing the night prior.

My husband was the father in the song, but he never got the meaning. My husband was home but not there emotionally. My oldest boy had a band called “Factory Damage.” My son wrote a song called “Mr. Selfish.” My husband still didn’t get it. My husband is 81 and doesn’t understand to this day why they don’t visit very long with him. Harry Chaplin was one of my favorites. “Taxi.” Had significance to me. My husband was a taxi cab driver and I met him in a taxi ride home from work in 1974. I missed seeing Harry in an Evansville concert. I remember when he died cried a lot those days following his death. Thank you for the memories. Norma Young Owensboro Ky.

This song was one of my dad's favorites and we lost him a couple years ago. It hits to close to home I will have to watch this later. Miss you everyday dad

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, rest in peace to your dad.

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. It never gets any easier, but the memories keep me going. Peace to you friend.

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@MyName-pl7zn

2 жыл бұрын

@@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 thank you so much

@MyName-pl7zn

2 жыл бұрын

@Anna Trail thank you

Harry Chapin was one of the most daring, funny and brutally honest singer songwriters of the 1970s from the brilliant but disturbing character study of sniper to the romantic and endearing I want to right a love song Harry left an amazing legacy of music that decades later is still so powerful

@georgebarry8640

2 жыл бұрын

I often think his catalog is often To powerful for this day and age. So many people "crushed" by emotions that they cant get to the end of a paragraph of lyrics..they MUST turn it off. It just reminds of being human, and THAT they want no part of, I guess.

@georgemathie8123

2 жыл бұрын

@@georgebarry8640 Harry's lyrics and music have a very strong and powerful impact and what set Harry apart was his choices of subject matter and his unflinching and unnerving delivery of his songs

Probably one of the most memorable concerts I ever attended was his concert at the Greek Theater in 1980, very entertaining, still have a couple of his albums. It was a shock to hear of his death a year later. His music still lives in me. As a former radio dj in the late 60s many an artist were known to me, but Harry was special.

My Dad didn’t have time for me when I was a kid. I was his caregiver his last few years. In one of his final days in hospice he apologized for not being more attentive. What could I say besides “It’s ok.” Life goes on.

Wow, this song has made me very emotional every time I hear it. I just think of the extremely tragic way he died in a traffic collision and how he could have lived longer to inspire more and more generations of people. This is just such a truly haunting song. Thanks Professor.

I saw Harry Chapin once in concert, and he was the first one to bring my attention to world hunger. My own father died when I was 11, and I can clearly picture the smile on his face when I played catch with him the year that he passed. "Cat's in the Cradle" is the one song that always brings a tear to my eye when I hear it. Watching this video brought a tear to my eye.

I saw Harry in concert twice, in 1976 and 1977. I sang with him and a group of people from the audience on the last 3 songs he sang in 1976 ( Taxi, Someone Keeps Calling My Name, and Circle) . He didn't have his band with him that year. To say it was unforgettable is an understatement. I still love his songs and wish more people today knew them.

I became an interstate truckie, just like my father, who hardly ever spent any time with me. But growing up with this song, I vowed I would NOT be just like him. I became a father at 42. Althoughstill an interstate truckie, I've never missed any of my kids births, birthdays, & when I do get home, my day off is devoted to them. & I video call them every night to let them know how much I love them & miss them. My job does not allow me to tuck them in every night. But because of this song, I make every opportunity to spend as much time as possible with them. It still brings me to tears every time I hear it

Adam, PoR, you always have the right segment to have me as one of your honorary producers! It's when the segment usually sounds like my life story or a story in my life. Your family story brought me to tears. My Dad was an alcoholic but he was there for us. My Mom left when I was 8 because of his drinking & lying to her. Funny thing, she left with his best friend. Talk about lies. My Dad didn't have a lot of time for us as he was a military man trying to work enough to support his 3 children (& drink too). But he was *ALWAYS* my hero! He quit drinking, cleaned himself up & was there for us as much as he could be.

This song has a lot of meaning for me. My dad loved me, but had serious alcohol and skirt chasing issues that split my family. It’s a shame we spent so little time together.

@debwestendorf2639

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like my Dad very self centered

I am a native Long Islander. So was Harry. He was ours. Our Homeboy who made good. Sure there was Billy Joel..but he hadnt yet gotten as far in 1972, 1973. But he was visible,too. Harry was personable. He had an openness to him...a charm...something so special. In my opinion, He wrote with a cutting clarity..as good as Hemingway. But he wasn't self destructive..as Hemingway, was. He had enormous positive energy. To this day his Food Bank donates food to the needy and has for years. It retains his, name, as well. Harry died in a car crash years ago....a few miles from where i was that day. It was like the death of JFK. If you were a Long Islander..you always remember where you were when you heard the news. Billy Joel went onto to be mega famous. Had many hits. Married a Model. Had some trouble with substances, and money. Harry was the guy many OUTSIDE of Long Island forgot. We still carry him, in our hearts. He was the side of Long island many don't know about. Such a talent. Missed, even to this day.

Harry was the greatest singer-song writer who ever lived. He was a great man, who tried to help everyone. His concerts were incredible. He and Big John Wallace teamed to make records that were never matched.

Thank you for the story behind this song. This is another song my grade school music teacher played on his guitar. I still have the lyrics memorized from this experience. Also, my favorite Beatle is...All of them!😊

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Ha ha. Thanks Catherine.

You just nailed it. The best authentic version of you. Reflecting within me, as a father, as a son, my eyes flowed tears from the truth known. Thank you Adam for being so genuine, and thanks to Harry and his wife for that song..!

Love this song! It had an impact on my dad’s life as a young dad with 3 kids working long hours too. I think I grew to like it so much, because of how much I heard him play it.

I saw Harry Chapin in concert 3 times in the 70's and I though really enjoyed his concerts and the way he performed very much, this song really hit home for me as my dad was the dad in the song...as a result of this as he retired and moved away I spent the last 20 years of his life reconnecting with him in way we didn't when I was young- I'm glad I did!

Always makes me tear up. Three chords, the truth, and a box of Kleenex. You really poured your heart into this one, Adam. I'm surprised you didn't break down, but that may have been left on the cutting room floor.

Like you, Adam, I was blessed with a father who loves me and my younger brother, and has always been involved in our lives. He's approaching 90 now, but he still lives the example I try to follow. But even with that, this song has always spoken to my heart. This song, along with my dad's example, are what guided me in my effort to be a loving and involved father for my two daughters. It's a deeply meaningful song and I can only imagine how many lives it has impacted and changed. This song is a priceless gift to us all.

My father had had a rough childhood of his own, and I know he struggled to be a great parent for us. And to this day I don’t understand why, but when I asked him to take me to a Harry Chapin concert in the mid-70’s, he said okay. I’ve never forgotten that. And to see him hold his first granddaughter…I miss him so much, and wish I could see him one more time and tell him, “I get it, Dad.” Because he was damn awesome, and I’ve tried very hard to live up to his example.

This song meant a lot to me.. my dad was always there until he wasn’t. And that was true until I was 11 my sister 9. He remarried and I lost him totally to my cruel demented step-mother. But I was already loved and cherished enough by him to carry on. l was solid, strong but gentle I knew myself in my own mind. In my marriage and in our little family I was totally accessible. They forever had me in all aspects of their lives until I wasn’t. (teenagers/young adults) They’re back now with a vengeance. And I love it. I’m blessed once again.

I just had my first son 7 months ago and named him Addam. It was a surprise pregnancy and I wasn't wanting a child, already being 46 years old, but I'm adapting and slowly growing into my new role. It's not without its struggles and I often find myself revisiting the past in my head but I hope I can be the type of father that yours was to you. Thanks for doing what you do and sharing your life with us.

@gregmiller7123

2 жыл бұрын

My only advice to you as a father and a grandfather, don't fake affection...just relax and let it flow naturally. If you just enjoy the moments with them without putting expectations on the moment you will be rewarded a thousand times over. I passed on jobs and promotions that could have tripled my income but now at 64, the time spent with my kids can't be measured monetarily!

As a 65 year old father whose 31 year old son who still lives with us, this song always reminds me I didn’t do everything right but it reminds me I can do better and I do.

@mov1ngforward

Жыл бұрын

There's a reason for it, look at the state of the world, not a time to go into the new frontier. Don't apologize and don't explain how your life looks...it's not anyone's business. Get right with God and you will be guided in the right direction. Find a bible story or myth/legend for big picture... I hope that makes sense. Go forward with no regrets and enjoy each day.

My Mom's biggest celebrity crush was Harry Chapin. Her favorite story was going to his concert 7/8 months pregnant with me. Harry stopped and laid his hands on her belly and congratulated my parents. She said he was the only songwriter that truly understood a "big girl's" struggle with "A Better Place to Be." I grew up listening to his songs, learning to love him too. I will never forget when I was 9 and my Dad broke the news to Mom that Harry had been killed in a car accident. She burst into tears and we didn't see her for the rest of the night. My father traveled for a living but never missed a game, concert, play, talent show, choir performance, etc. I like to think "Cat's in the Cradle" influenced these commitments to our family.

When I was in my grade school and early HS years, I thought my dad was an absentee as well. My dad wasn't home often...he was a professional firefighter. On his off days, he would work carpentry (had his own crew and built some rock solid houses) and would leave the fire station and go directly to the job site. Up and gone before we woke up, and came home after we ate and were ready for bed. Then I read "Death of a Salesman" and this song came to mind...and it clicked. He was old school...lived through the depression...had an abusive father...was a WW II vet (landed in Okinawa, and NEVER talked about it, which means he saw more than any human should have seen)...was supporting us five kids and our mom...never complained, just worked hard through all of it. He sheltered us from the harder times in life...and would make jokes even in times of disaster (tornados, car accidents, etc.). After graduating college and shortly after my mom passed, we did get close...just wished it hadn't taken so long. But he remained a bit distant, as that was how he was raised. Proud of who he was and grateful for his sacrifices. But I am different than him...spend as much time with my two daughters...cherish so many good memories with them. All because of what he provided me...cannot forget where you come from...but that doesn't define what you have to be.

As a kid growing up i remember the song the cats and the cradle but really didnt realize until later in life what the song really meant !

That song is so deep, so melancholy, I never listen to it much on purpose. The redeemed Mr Chapin got 8 years with his family. Too bad it wasn’t a longer lifetime. I was still thinking of this video after I watched it yesterday because what a shock that he died so young after all. Imagine how razor closely he almost missed the chance to redeem himself. What a bitter and sweet story. Very haunting.

I was a young 18yr old in college eating lunch and Harry walks in(FARMINGDALE COLLEGE) And he starts befrending people.He walked over to me and said hello.He was offering T shirts for his Charity begins at home.I purchased 1 for $5!!! And Harry signed it. He was a superstar but Seemed like just another guy.That was 1978. God Bless Harry.I played his albums for my kids growing up.A lot of Happy moments I made sure to spend w MY kids when I could.Unfortunately my wife divorced me when kids were young and I never DID get to spend enough time with them."CATS" Makes me Happy and Sad whenever I hear it.Miss you Harry.😪

I remember the night my father died. I got the phone call from the hospital and I was 3 hours away. I was speeding down the interstate at 11:30 p.m. trying to get to the hospital to say goodbye to him. I remember I was two and a half hours away. Then suddenly I felt this pain in my heart. I knew at that moment that he had passed and I didn't make it. I looked at my watch and check the time. I slowed down. When I got to the hospital. The nurses told me that he was already on his way to the mortuary. I asked her what time did he pass. It was the exact time that I noted on my watch. When a son loses his father it's like suddenly being lost in the wilderness.

There's a lifetime of parenting experience in a song... beautiful.

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

It's really quite amazing.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

Such poetry.

You couldn’t dislike this amazing song even if it wasn’t your jam, you got the message. How fortunate you had a good father. Great story, great video.

I was very close to my dad growing up. Even though I was a girl, he'd take me to the junk yard to look for car parts, have me help him with his woodworking projects, take me fishing and hunting, and take me on motorcycle rides, until I was old enough to ride on my own. And my dad and I shared music. In the early 70s the economy was tanking, and we had to move several times. By late 1973, my dad started a job that would required him to be on the road for weeks at a time, especially during the summer months when my little brother and I would be out of school. Cats in the Cradle came out; I loved it. I loved the music and the story...I liked the twist at the end. I gave my dad the 45 for Christmas. He later came to me, and asked if that was how I felt. The look in his eyes... It was like the wind had been knocked out of me. I hadn't thought about it applying to us. I understood why he had to be on the road, and I knew that he would time his trips so he could be home at least every other weekend so he could spend it with my brother and me. Years later, my mom told me how guilty my father felt having to be away from home those years. I always felt guilty for giving him that song.

Adam thank you so much for this story. It has been an awakening for my memory. I to grew up without a father and only saw him at his funeral at age twelve only because I was forced to go to it. I to have a daughter from whom I have had an on/off relationship. She is in her forties and I only woke up to my neglect late last year when she asked me to be at her wedding to give her away. She was so adamant that she bought me a plane ticket and went out of her way to make me comfortable in her home. This story has made me realise that the lost times will never be regained but only the now and the future can create the relationship that should have been.

I heard this song growing up and related it to some of my friends and their dads. I was lucky enough to have a good dad that made me and my sister number one priorities. He was the only dad that would go on father/son camping trips when I was in Boy Scouts and he helped with my sister's softball practice. I'm glad I had him for my dad! I tried to follow his teaching with my son. I think I did a good job because he has told me how grateful he is for the things I did for him and with him. He has his own son now and I think he will do as I did with him. It's all a matter of time and attention devoted to the young people. I gave him the first 18 years of his life but then I moved away and he was on his own. He grew cold towards me for years. 12 years after my leaving he reached out to me with an apology. I told him I was the one that should be sorry. That's when he told me how grateful for what I did for him. I knew then I did the right things for him. We are now more than 1000 miles apart. Breaks my heart.

When Cats was a number one song, I was too young to understand. It was just another (great) song getting a lot of airplay on KHJ. But the Harry Chapin tune that hit me was W*O*L*D. And it still does today. I’ve been in radio since I was 15 years old. It’s all I’ve ever done in the past 40+ years. To stay fresh and relevant, young and hip today is still the same as it was for me in 1980. Although radio never kept me away from my family, I was always extremely stressed. Always fearing I was going to get fired. So I worked my…butt off. In 1994, my wife and my daughter and I were staying at the Disneyland Hotel when the big Earthquake hit. Growing up in LA most of my life, Earthquakes didn’t always rattled me. This one did. The thought of death came to mind. And of course with that image embedded in my head, I needed to spend less time stressing. And if that meant getting out of radio…than so be it. I needed to be there for my new family. When we returned to Sacramento, where we lived at the time, I quit one of my four radio gigs, came home, told my wife I wanted to seek a “real” job to spend more time be a great husband and father. Sadly…my wife decided that she didn’t want me around, and left. So I continued with radio. And have been extremely successful. But at a cost. My relationship with my daughter is absolutely fantastic. She is the love of my life, and hang out often…and spend a lot time at our “second home”, Disneyland. We are Disneyland freaks. lol. But I’ve been pretty much single, with no relationships since 2005...the last time I even had a girlfriend. Today, I’m still deeply imbedded in the trenches of broadcasting. It’s all I do. Well, I still make time to hang with my daughter at Disneyland. 😄

Long, long time, sung by Linda Ronstadt! As a broken hearted teen I’d played this song endlessly, on my record player, and cried, sang alone, and cried more!!!

@user-rz8bu6vl8x

2 ай бұрын

Same here, I always cry when I hear this song 😭

I was lucky enough to call Ron Palmer (Harry’s first lead guitarist 71-74) my friend. I could listen to his stories for hours. RIP Ron.

I saw Harry Chapin in concert at Hoch Auditorium in Lawrence, Kansas a year or so before his death. Such a powerful voice. To hear "Taxi" live was an unforgettable experience.

Oh Adam, hearing the experiences of your father and of you - so heart wrenching.....it is a great song, even though often mistaken as Cat Stephens.

@ProfessorofRock

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. It was a tough one to get through.

@xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980

2 жыл бұрын

So emotional.

I met Harry Chapin at an outdoor concert he did near Albany, NY. He went into the crowd during intermission and he came up to several people to say hello. When he got to me, my sister, and my mom, he sat down on our blanket and said hello. I was a music major at college and loved his music. I asked him about inspiration and he told me that if I looked at each of his songs, I would find the word "dream" or the concept of a dream embedded in the lyrics. It's true. He was a master. I still love listening to his music.

I love how they used it in The Middle, one of the most clever series on television.

Being aware of Johnny Cash's troubled relationship with his children, his cover of "Cats in the Cradle" just tears me up yet I love it.

@austintrousdale2397

2 жыл бұрын

Cash didn’t just sing rock n’ roll; he lived it.

@wesleybarton3871

2 жыл бұрын

John, as Kris K. respectfully called him, did a good job on Sunday Morning Comin´ Down. I spent Thanksgiving eve 1974 in a motel drunk. It was not Sunday but the realization that childhood and family were over for me. "Like the disappearing dreams of yesterday."

Adam you are my absolute number one music industry interviewer and journalist BECAUSE of your father and the relationship you had and still have!

When I was a freshman in college on Long Island, Harry Chapin did a benefit concert on my campus. When he sang "Cat's in the Cradle," for the first chorus he had the entire audience sing along. For the second and third choruses, he had the guys only and then the gals only When he got to the all-female chorus, something clicked in my voice and it was blasting perfectly. After that song, Harry asked for volunteers to help him sing a couple of songs. I rose my hand, along with several of my friends. He looked at me and said, "You, with the good voice, come on up!" Nobody had EVER told me I had a good voice until he did. For that, I always hold a special place in my heart for him. A few years later, I was at a different school in New York City. This time he was doing a benefit with his brother, Tom. I (of course) went, taking along a friend who was always going out of his way to make sure the crowd in which we hung (Computer Science majors) didn't "grow up to be nerds." We both had a good time. Two months later, Harry was gone. I remember hearing that they couldn't tell whether he'd run off the road because he had a heart attack (supposedly he'd been into cocaine) or had a heart attack because the trucker ran him off the road. Either way, he was still dead. I rarely cry for an entertainer, but in this case I was choking back tears because my at-the-time husband didn't understand the emotional connection I had with Chapin.

I had the privilege of meeting him after one of his concerts and I had been to many of his concerts, he was a beautiful man. In fact I had tickets to see him in a concert the night right after he died. It just broke my heart to know he passed. That was back in the early 80’s.

This song has always meant so much to me because of my own relationship with my father. Thank you for opening up about your father struggles and how he changed his family tree. I have 3 teenage boys and work every day to be the best father to them. Once again your channel is so inspiring. Thank you.

I love this song . It is very sad and personal. Many of us that grew up in the 70's can relate to this experience, even if though our version may differ. That is not to say that our fathers never loved us, they just had a hard time expressing it. My own father was driven to be a successful salesman and spent a lot of time away from home on business trips. Even when home he liked to go the bar at night and drink with friends. He was a good man though and never abandoned his family. I regret not getting to know him better before he passed away.

I bought one of the last tickets to the 1st ever sold out show Harry played--Center section, Row X, Seat 818--Sunday 11/11/79 in B'ham Al. We left Church, went to the show, and it was like a church of its own, with Harry preaching. An amazing, riveting performance. Great band and sound. He closed with "Taxi" and left the stage, then found out the show had sold out. He returned, thanked the audience by playing "Sequel" (first time publicly), and sat on the edge of the stage, signing tickets for all. Harry knew "It is more Blessed to give than to receive"

I am crying like a baby, not because I missed out being with my son , but because he now is grown and on his own, I have fantastic memories!!!!!

Thank you for being so real. 🌹🌹🌹I was in high school, college, and then having babies at the time Harry Chapin was doing his music and for sure his work changed my life. My personal favorite was "Flowers Are Red" -- which totally influenced how I saw my kids and valued them for their differences. Heʻs such a phenomenal storyteller; I admire him for his stories. And thank you for yours. 🌹🌹🌹

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FUN FACT!! If you watch Jerry Seinfeld Comedians in Cars Gettting Coffee, a famous actress (I forget which one) told a story about being a kid at the right place, right time, landing the singing part of the children's chorus on that song!

I was in high school when this came out. I loved it. I was fortunate to have a Dad that was always *present *, not just physically but emotionally. The song always got me though. Still does. Tears are falling for your poor Dad . It must have been so sad for him. He obviously took notice of Harry's words though and was not like his Dad. Love your show. Love music. ❤🇭🇲

My dad was born to a single mom in 1932. He got passed around by family members while she went husband hunting. The man she married would not adopt him. He never really had a dad, so he was not a great dad. In my late thirties, I tried to reconnect with him. I wrote, called, and visited, but he was still messed up by my mother leaving him when I was a teenager. So I kind of lost him to his own trauma. He never got over it. Today, my son and I live in different states, but we talk for about an hour during a weekly phone date. I wish I'd had this with my own father. I'm grateful that do have thus with my own son. And, yes, Cat's in the Cradle has informed my parenting. Thanks for reminding us all about this, Adam.