Things to Know BEFORE You Marry Someone! Dating Advice for Singles & Those Dating

Kaleb and Jeanine talk ALL things about relationships!
✨ Should you get married or break up?
✨ What to look for in a person
✨ Red flags & what to avoid
✨ Advice for Singles
✨ Does Attraction matter?
✨ Getting married at a later age
✨ Believers dating non-believers
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  • @mikgonzales
    @mikgonzales8 ай бұрын

    You guys are on fire together!! I love this so much! As a married 25 year old of 4.5 years, I can definitely testify to all of this! I was with a non believer before my now husband and I realized it would never work cause he didn’t believe the same things as me, didn’t want to raise our kids in the faith and I am SOOO glad I didn’t marry him and didn’t settle for less than what the Lord planned for me. Ladies seeing this, I promise you that the Lord has a plan for you and will see that even if it takes time. God will honor you for waiting too and bless your future marriage. My husband serves the Lord, he takes care of me and our two boys, he is a hard worker, a true man of God and we have the same morals and values and so much more than is a green flag but most importantly he loves the Lord with all his heart mind and soul and it shows completely. He leads our family so well and encourages me to be a better follower of Jesus and fervently walking with Him every day. He’s made me a better person since I met him and that’s what you want in a husband. Someone who Is going to lead you closer to Christ, not further away!

  • @Brightdays55563

    @Brightdays55563

    8 ай бұрын

    What is on fire in the Bible? No no

  • @mikgonzales

    @mikgonzales

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Brightdays55563 ?

  • @KintaDienguele

    @KintaDienguele

    Ай бұрын

    Amen! 🙏 thank you for sharing . May God continue to bless you, your marriage, and your family- in Jesus’ name ❤️

  • @savannah.powerss
    @savannah.powerss8 ай бұрын

    I have dated a non-believer... It does NOT end well.

  • @rociocartes
    @rociocartes7 ай бұрын

    For me, I started dating my partner 3 years ago (he’s an unbeliever) and only this year did I read the “unequally yoked” verses, and it’s been hard because I don’t know what to do. I have prayed and I feel God wants me to stay, to bring my partner to Christ. I know there’s also verses about leading your husbands and wives to Christ if they are unbelievers. My partner is agnostic, but very supportive of me and my Christianity. He has no issues with me spending as much time with the Lord. He sometimes asks me questions, but then shuts off. He is a wonderful partner, but I understand why God wants us with Christians. Because it is SO MUCH MORE difficult being unequally yoked. Please pray for me and my partner. I have been praying so much for him to be open to Christ. ❤ thank you.

  • @SarahAnnJohnson
    @SarahAnnJohnson8 ай бұрын

    This has to be one of my favorite episodes! As a single Pringle I enjoyed all of it and learning more.

  • @hdez930

    @hdez930

    8 ай бұрын

    Single Pringle 😂 . . . Me too girl🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @SarahAnnJohnson

    @SarahAnnJohnson

    8 ай бұрын

    @@hdez930 we love the single pringles!

  • @whois_arielle

    @whois_arielle

    8 ай бұрын

    Same here! 19 (turning 20 in June) but waiting on the Lord! His ways are better!

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon15158 ай бұрын

    You both are meant to be podcasters! Especially Kaleb, he definitely comes very naturally. You guys make a great team 💗🥰

  • @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being apart of the fam 🫶

  • @madiimo15
    @madiimo157 ай бұрын

    Something I am taking from this relationship and implementing in mine. Jeanie acknowledges and affirms Kaleb after every point he makes and I can see how encouraging you guys are to each other. Beautiful.

  • @kristenjordan_
    @kristenjordan_8 ай бұрын

    Oooof man I needed this episode. Currently a single mom in a new relationship we’ve talked about extremely hard things. We keep God first and continue to have open communication. I’ve been praying for confirmation.

  • @SeekTruthWithAshley

    @SeekTruthWithAshley

    8 ай бұрын

    Literally me

  • @KJ-yy9ob
    @KJ-yy9ob8 ай бұрын

    HOLY OR HORNY!!! words to live by 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @AmishaChhabraMusic
    @AmishaChhabraMusic8 ай бұрын

    one of ur best episodes yet queen!!!!❤❤ God is working thru yall mightily!

  • @austinmalayil
    @austinmalayil8 ай бұрын

    One of my favorite episodes way to go Jeanine and Kaleb

  • @Uhohk8
    @Uhohk82 ай бұрын

    I found you last week and i swear i have listened to every episode already

  • @markietaylor3411
    @markietaylor34118 ай бұрын

    I love this sooo much!! Seriously. I love how you both talk about dating and the lord, its so important! Thank you!

  • @toneenvision
    @toneenvision8 ай бұрын

    Great Happy & Healthy Podcast episode!! Loving this dynamic duo!!

  • @danyam1217
    @danyam12178 ай бұрын

    Looooved this podcast!! 🤍

  • @isysszabala
    @isysszabala8 ай бұрын

    AHH I've been watching your podcast lately and gas been such a blessing because it helps me to meditate on the Lord. Thank you for your obedience to the Lord Jeanine, because of your yes, I have been able to learn about things thar I haven't experienced!

  • @eminenceautumn
    @eminenceautumn8 ай бұрын

    Amazing episode! ♥️ Thank you both for your words of wisdom ✨. This podcast has been a blessing to my life.

  • @KennedyKelly633
    @KennedyKelly6338 ай бұрын

    Kaleb is hilarious 😂😂😂 Yalls relationship gives me so much hope!! Loved this 🤍

  • @Cr8if1
    @Cr8if18 ай бұрын

    51:12 I do this with my boyfriend all the time. I ask the small questions and the big questions because I want to know everything. I want to know what I’m getting into and what we both want out of marriage and our lives. This just reassured me that I am doing the right thing by asking the big questions.

  • @Jeannettedelacruz11
    @Jeannettedelacruz118 ай бұрын

    Wow guys, this episode has been a blessing for my life ❣️🙏 Thank you guys ❤🙌

  • @ameliamorton1686
    @ameliamorton16867 ай бұрын

    May God bless y’all!

  • @savannah.powerss
    @savannah.powerss8 ай бұрын

    But thank you guys for this podcast!! I learned so much.

  • @DahliaTuong
    @DahliaTuong8 ай бұрын

    I love this podcast episode so much❤

  • @brittanyeorr
    @brittanyeorr8 ай бұрын

    I love this kind of video!

  • @amberbrown1197
    @amberbrown11978 ай бұрын

    This was a great episode, and the bars Kaleb was dropping in the middle around taking the process Serious of settling down with a man serious because of how men’s tendencies can be hurtful and that’s something to remember … like WOW I never thought of that perspective! Bless your soon to be marriage ❤✝️

  • @Ashleacollins-eg7ru
    @Ashleacollins-eg7ruАй бұрын

    That was so inspirational

  • @kayleighlight8662
    @kayleighlight86628 ай бұрын

    I look forward to your podcast every week! Never miss an episode! When I go on a road trip/ travel it’s the first thing I put on. So much good advice, thank you so much❤

  • @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    8 ай бұрын

    We love that so much!!

  • @saraihernandez3194
    @saraihernandez31948 ай бұрын

    Loved it all!!! Your advice was a blessing and encouraging!!! God bless you both on this amazing journey! Requesting prayers for God to reveal my future spouse to me soon!!! ❤

  • @cristina-loves
    @cristina-loves8 ай бұрын

    Amazing podcast! Love how unfiltered your conversations are. 😍

  • @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    8 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @ElizabeteDe
    @ElizabeteDe8 ай бұрын

    All day I was waiting for your new episode, like every tuesday 😁 now I need to go to sleep already so I will listen this in my morning walk 😭🙌

  • @producTIMity
    @producTIMity5 ай бұрын

    Congrats on a HAPPY marriage great couple

  • @nz7780
    @nz7780Ай бұрын

    Ooo two of the questions back to back spoke directly into my soul lol was not expecting for the two questions/things on my mind to get addressed! So thank you. Also thank you for helping me confirm that I am in fact, dodging quite a bullet with whom I was considering dating. 🔥💪🏽🙏

  • @ochoasamantha
    @ochoasamantha8 ай бұрын

    I was absolutely hollering when Kaleb summoned his inner preacher voice.. i died.

  • @PrincessSharifa434
    @PrincessSharifa4348 ай бұрын

    The moment I realized that Jeanine has a REALLY wise husband: @00:40:44 and @00:43:40 marks 🙌

  • @timinri1989
    @timinri19893 ай бұрын

    15:45 I go out every weekend but I drink Lemonade

  • @xjoemallardx
    @xjoemallardx2 ай бұрын

    Some of this advice definitely goes both ways.

  • @missbimbeaux

    @missbimbeaux

    2 ай бұрын

    i think that was implied

  • @Jarred.Vaughn_C21
    @Jarred.Vaughn_C218 ай бұрын

    I've always wondered why the bible states "do not look for a wife" I feel like God has to bring that person across your path.

  • @xjoemallardx

    @xjoemallardx

    2 ай бұрын

    We'll be waiting forever, they're not just going to fall in our lap.

  • @Lizzzy0225
    @Lizzzy02258 ай бұрын

    omg thank you so much for having Kaleb on here!! I loved it!!

  • @Stephcurry-3030
    @Stephcurry-30308 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @roberthurt2199
    @roberthurt21996 күн бұрын

    Can we see the full wedding video with yaw saying your vows love what yaw do?

  • @overcomeevilwithgood
    @overcomeevilwithgood8 ай бұрын

    stay close to God

  • @SeekTruthWithAshley
    @SeekTruthWithAshley8 ай бұрын

    OK, that transition to his pastoral literally took me out

  • @hayaashraf3404
    @hayaashraf340416 сағат бұрын

    After the third date let him pursued let him text you Don't force yourself

  • @PrettyInGrace
    @PrettyInGrace8 ай бұрын

    wow, @ 40:34🔥 I can’t stress this ENOUGH what kaleb said About Men… is real. You’d be surprised how much A man- (Both young and old) can be hiding in His HEART: “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” Jeremiah 17:9 as the bible says “it is desperately wicked.” SO, JUST AS MUCH AS U may want to be In a relationship and/or be married, LADIES please make SURE that ur extremely watchful and prayerful which in essence is being VERY DILIGENT: Seek the Lord, acknowledge HIM in ALL Your Ways. And Cling to HIM. “… when ANYTHING IS EXPOSED BY THE LIGHT it becomes VISIBLE.” Ephesians 5:13. PRAY for the LORD’S light TO be, and to shine IN & throughout UR LIFE “The One who calls you is faithful, and He will do it.” 1 Thessalonians 5:24. GREAT JOB👍🏻🙏🏻JEANINE! LUV U❤️‍🔥two ✨

  • @valeryyie
    @valeryyie4 ай бұрын

    Holy or horny...so true and I love the honesty!! Both of your guys faces after Jeanine said it 😂 you guys are great

  • @med2success
    @med2success3 ай бұрын

    Okay but where are your guy fit's from?? SOO cute, I want to get that jacket for my boyfriend !!

  • @yessybby29
    @yessybby298 ай бұрын

    thoguhts on a man in his 30s who was "not ready financialy" to get married to u after 6 year relationship.

  • @beautyandbrainz

    @beautyandbrainz

    26 күн бұрын

    That’s a big no. 🚩He should know by the 2nd year whether or not he wants to marry. The financial issue is an excuse because people will still get married despite financial struggles. You just can’t expect an extravagant wedding or ring.

  • @sici780
    @sici7808 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @markstreff3215
    @markstreff32158 ай бұрын

    there's a natural progression to a new relationship....1.5 years is pleanty and MAX, to know, either keep going or time to stop. seems like this is a pattern. BUT most keep going after 1.5 years with no comittment, no ring, NO DATE. Kepp up the good work. consider a King James Bible too......

  • @good1125
    @good11252 ай бұрын

    Love your podcasts! 😍. I am not Christian and don’t think you need necessarily to be a Jesus follower to embrace purity. Purity is in the soul and God can be found for those who seek. :)

  • @timinri1989
    @timinri19893 ай бұрын

    Every time I go after the chase...🚨🚨🚨👮‍♂

  • @techh8837
    @techh88378 ай бұрын

    I’m torn! Because the guy i am talking to is AMAZING. But he’s 5”6!!!! 😭😭😭😭

  • @justinporrett6057

    @justinporrett6057

    8 ай бұрын

    Will it matter how tall he is when you are two weeks without sleep because of a crying new born baby and he has a servants heart and tells you to go back bed?

  • @techh8837

    @techh8837

    8 ай бұрын

    @@justinporrett6057 You are right. Thank you.

  • @lettis3486
    @lettis34868 ай бұрын

    I’m sorry but can you better explain why having him go to do Gods work is bad ? Like your example going to missions work?

  • @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    @HappyandHealthyPodcast

    8 ай бұрын

    I don’t think we said it was bad! believe we were saying some people have different callings. If you feel called to do missions abroad and your significant other feels called to be a nurse in America, that may complicate things. Hope that answers your question. 🤍

  • @lettis3486

    @lettis3486

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes this clarifies! Thank you. 😊

  • @brittanyeorr

    @brittanyeorr

    8 ай бұрын

    They mean if two people are going in different directions in life, i.e. he wants to do missions and you want to stay home.

  • @benjaminmuldoon9299
    @benjaminmuldoon92997 ай бұрын

    She looks like Lena the plug

  • @AZ-mr5ys
    @AZ-mr5ys3 ай бұрын

    Israel? Unsubscribing… 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople6668 ай бұрын

    Friendship then adultery then marriage is that correct,

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople6668 ай бұрын

    America is full of lust, and this adds up,starts with relationship having a bf or gf,

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople6668 ай бұрын

    Just give it time people they will be divorce in no time,

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople6668 ай бұрын

    These are Christian weak sauce, giving bad advice to single female,

  • @TheSwordandPearl
    @TheSwordandPearl8 ай бұрын

    You're a lovely couple, big respect for acknowledging Israel 🤍💐💓 God bless you

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